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is it just us or are the borders region of scotland absolutely dead as a scene? seems most people are either cheats or dont meet because they are scared you know them or will say something , we werent aware that talking about what you do in the bedroom in your spare time with others is a good conversation point. vulgar messages and demanding messages are taking their toll too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Keep your pecker up.
The Borders is a total wasteland scene wise.
I’ve been on and off FAB for over ten years as a single and couples . SB has pretty much always been dire. No one ever seems to meet, very very few even reply. Maybe its the “aye been” mentality?! 
Every time I’ve come back it seems to be the same old tired profiles that last had a meet when unleaded was 89p a litre |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We could do with a good party in a private venue, or even a organised group social in a pub/hotel. We was looking at hiring somewhere but it's a financial gamble if people dont show any interest |
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Unfortunately the Borders party scene that was developing was curtailed by idiotic behaviour and the police being involved.
If anyone does organise something big, they really do need to be careful about who's invited! |
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By *arpdiemCouple
over a year ago
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We're a little confused by this thread lol, we thought the borders would be the best of both worlds, Scottish cities one side English ones the other all within a little traveling, hour or so (we'd travel that far for a friendly couple and definitely for the elusive unicorn, guys possibly not there's an abundance of you in our doorstep sorry haha) we have been known to just out on a drive, so surely there's other people willing to drive to meet fellow swingers in the borders?? |
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"We're a little confused by this thread lol, we thought the borders would be the best of both worlds, Scottish cities one side English ones the other all within a little traveling, hour or so (we'd travel that far for a friendly couple and definitely for the elusive unicorn, guys possibly not there's an abundance of you in our doorstep sorry haha) we have been known to just out on a drive, so surely there's other people willing to drive to meet fellow swingers in the borders?? "
We live right on the border, so often travel to Newcastle, lots of fun to be had there. We also have the added bonus of having a holiday cottage in Dunbar so often travel into Edinburgh. You get out what you put in  |
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It is a rural area so obviously there's not going to be as much going on as in the urban areas. Having said that, we've met plenty of very nice fabbers from both sides of the border, yet not too far away.
Maybe the suggestion of a gathering somewhere is the best one to get things moving again. |
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"It is a rural area so obviously there's not going to be as much going on as in the urban areas. Having said that, we've met plenty of very nice fabbers from both sides of the border, yet not too far away.
Maybe the suggestion of a gathering somewhere is the best one to get things moving again. "
I agree, it doesn't have to be a big ordeal, I'm sure we can all behave well enough to have a social in a pub or hotel bar. It's no different to a group of friends meeting for a drink & natter. I'm in
Claire |
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"It is a rural area so obviously there's not going to be as much going on as in the urban areas. Having said that, we've met plenty of very nice fabbers from both sides of the border, yet not too far away.
Maybe the suggestion of a gathering somewhere is the best one to get things moving again.
I agree, it doesn't have to be a big ordeal, I'm sure we can all behave well enough to have a social in a pub or hotel bar. It's no different to a group of friends meeting for a drink & natter. I'm in
Claire "
What they said.. a drink might be a nice escape for a night |
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over a year ago
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"Definitely not just you. I stopped trying to find someone local and save my fab related fun for socials and clubs. Great excuse for a weekend away x"
We met at party back in November 2018….it’s just a pain having to drive so far to Glasgow IMO
And we have animals so a weekend away always has logistics to consider |
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Some good ideas being put together on here it seems , sadly the party scene was ruined by one particular c@“t as we think that would have been a big part of a decent scene here for sure . We don’t mind travelling but when your getting a lot of no shows or ghosting after days of talking and planning it gets tiresome . Thankfully we haven’t lost a lot of money by booking hotels ect . Good to know that a lot on this thread enjoy the social side just as much as the fun tho as we feel that’s a big part and adds to the whole thing |
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"Some good ideas being put together on here it seems , sadly the party scene was ruined by one particular c@“t as we think that would have been a big part of a decent scene here for sure . We don’t mind travelling but when your getting a lot of no shows or ghosting after days of talking and planning it gets tiresome . Thankfully we haven’t lost a lot of money by booking hotels ect . Good to know that a lot on this thread enjoy the social side just as much as the fun tho as we feel that’s a big part and adds to the whole thing "
I’d be happy meeting up - just for a social. I’m the Peebles end of the Borders. |
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I live south of Edinburgh, and getting there is quicker than getting to most places in Edinburgh.
I could quite easily see myself becoming a part of the Borders scene if it developed. (The T Vally stretch anyway)
I find myself searching the North East (of England) because even Berwick and north Northumberland are accessible for me.
This thread demonstrates that there is definite interest. If police is an issue, arrange an event during COP26 as there wont be a copper about for miles! Good luck...and hope things work out soon. |
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over a year ago
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The borders have some nice people who do meet but because of the low numbers total discretion and the need for a good sense of direction,due to sat Nov not always working it's a low meet area but some nice people |
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We’re looking at setting up a kik group chat if anyone would be interested and looking at maybe getting a social organised for people who would be interested... drop us a message if that’s something that would interest you 
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"Some good ideas being put together on here it seems , sadly the party scene was ruined by one particular c@“t as we think that would have been a big part of a decent scene here for sure . We don’t mind travelling but when your getting a lot of no shows or ghosting after days of talking and planning it gets tiresome . Thankfully we haven’t lost a lot of money by booking hotels ect . Good to know that a lot on this thread enjoy the social side just as much as the fun tho as we feel that’s a big part and adds to the whole thing "
There were actually a few cunts that ruined it |
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"Some good ideas being put together on here it seems , sadly the party scene was ruined by one particular c@“t as we think that would have been a big part of a decent scene here for sure . We don’t mind travelling but when your getting a lot of no shows or ghosting after days of talking and planning it gets tiresome . Thankfully we haven’t lost a lot of money by booking hotels ect . Good to know that a lot on this thread enjoy the social side just as much as the fun tho as we feel that’s a big part and adds to the whole thing
There were actually a few cunts that ruined it "
We did enjoy the trip down to the Borders party as we made new friends and liked going to different areas in the fab scene (before some idiot ppl ruined it) and would make the trip again if trusted people were running it-and if we’re allowed back (being the other side of Glasgow and not from Borders-shire) 
Millie (and Ian) |
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"We’re looking at setting up a kik group chat if anyone would be interested and looking at maybe getting a social organised for people who would be interested... drop us a message if that’s something that would interest you
BORDERS ONLY "
I can't msg you because Im outside your age range! Age descrimination!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im Moffat
Free day times during school.hours
Or every second Friday sat night
Single parent
But borders area all.accessible if you need a real filthy o.g.
And id be happy to help in group kik or try organise events which aren't easy in rural areas cos everyones a nosey gossiping c???
Pm me if you want a creative artist helping with this.............or if you just need to cum xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"is it just us or are the borders region of scotland absolutely dead as a scene? seems most people are either cheats or dont meet because they are scared you know them or will say something , we werent aware that talking about what you do in the bedroom in your spare time with others is a good conversation point. vulgar messages and demanding messages are taking their toll too "
I took the time to read your profile then I sent you a polite message including a face pic. No reply. Not even one explaining why it was a no.
Be part of the solution, not the problem. |
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By *attMonroMan
over a year ago
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It's a fair subject to raise... I was thinking of harvesting the tumble and start a basket weaving business. I'm bang on the border so sometimes change profile location to suit.
Would like to reestablish myself on here after closing down my old account (mounting goat when I was in Central Belt). Happy to chat/meet/social. |
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probably because your profile has no photos and little to no information and your post on here shows exactly what we are on about , we understand that was a polite message however then coming on here to have a moan seems a bit counter productive doesnt it ? |
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"probably because your profile has no photos and little to no information and your post on here shows exactly what we are on about , we understand that was a polite message however then coming on here to have a moan seems a bit counter productive doesnt it ?"
Thank you for explaining that. Can I maybe suggest that in future you consider replying to someone who messages you with such an explanation? What you’ve highlighted is perfectly correct and fair things to point out, but unless you tell someone that then how can they be expected to do things differently?
My post isn’t intended to be a moan. I was just surprised to read your post when you perpetuate the things you then criticise in others.
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over a year ago
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"we are not alone on here for not replying to everyone that mails us , plenty of couples and singles do the same we experince it when messaging others also . its part of it i guess "
It’s part of the problem. Good communication is essential in swinging. If we can’t do so when the other person isn’t even with us then what hope is there when they are?
Not a moan or a dig. Not getting at you. Just my humble opinion.
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However, Fab states that no reply is a no thanks. Imagine couples getting dozens of messages and having to say no thanks.
And then receiving a dozen but why not messages in return. Thus the abusive messages begin.
And if you think the Borders is bad, try living in the Highlands |
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"However, Fab states that no reply is a no thanks. Imagine couples getting dozens of messages and having to say no thanks.
And then receiving a dozen but why not messages in return. Thus the abusive messages begin.
And if you think the Borders is bad, try living in the Highlands "
thankyou for getting where we are coming from , can only imagine the scene is very far and few between up there |
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"However, Fab states that no reply is a no thanks. Imagine couples getting dozens of messages and having to say no thanks.
And then receiving a dozen but why not messages in return. Thus the abusive messages begin.
And if you think the Borders is bad, try living in the Highlands
thankyou for getting where we are coming from , can only imagine the scene is very far and few between up there "
That's where I get my console from. Even though it's awfully quiet here in the Borders when it comes to fab, it can always be worse - I could have ended up in the Highlands
And just because OP is venting their frustration, it doesn't mean they'll hook up with everyone who gets in touch. Honestly, a no reply means a "no thanks" as mentioned above x |
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By *eefdoddusCouple
over a year ago
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"Not sure I’ve heard of people ruining it for others or getting the police involved either
I’m in the borders "
We were there. It was such a shame. Long story and history now. The kik group's a good idea as is a possible social.
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By *reen31Man
over a year ago
Hawick |
"We’re looking at setting up a kik group chat if anyone would be interested and looking at maybe getting a social organised for people who would be interested... drop us a message if that’s something that would interest you
I would be interested in kik group
BORDERS ONLY "
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"we are not alone on here for not replying to everyone that mails us , plenty of couples and singles do the same we experince it when messaging others also . its part of it i guess
It’s part of the problem. Good communication is essential in swinging. If we can’t do so when the other person isn’t even with us then what hope is there when they are?
Not a moan or a dig. Not getting at you. Just my humble opinion.
All the best "
Perhaps if you made your profile more o refractive it would avoid such disappointment  |
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"We’re looking at setting up a kik group chat if anyone would be interested and looking at maybe getting a social organised for people who would be interested... drop us a message if that’s something that would interest you
I would be interested in kik group
BORDERS ONLY "
Does working and staying over in the borders grant me temporary membership?? |
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problem with borders is too many time wasters not enough gen people that actually want to play pic collectors etc i just use this to see whats happening in swinging clubs blackpool gran canaria meets few and far between on here |
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over a year ago
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"Not sure I’ve heard of people ruining it for others or getting the police involved either
I’m in the borders
Yeah, usually if you weren't there, you wouldn't know the details x"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sounds like the Borders and the Highlands are in a similar boat. Perhaps we can come up with a North and South social idea and take turn about hosting a party for everyone lol |
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"We would be interested in a social at some point but we don't do all that Kik stuff.
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Hi guys.
Thank you for the link to this thread. We started a similar thread for the Northumberland area. Seems logical to bring these two together. Hopefully reignite this thread and have a look and post on ours to see who is about.
Regards
S&S x |
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"is it just us or are the borders region of scotland absolutely dead as a scene? seems most people are either cheats or dont meet because they are scared you know them or will say something , we werent aware that talking about what you do in the bedroom in your spare time with others is a good conversation point. vulgar messages and demanding messages are taking their toll too "
There is no much in Edinburgh too. Also you are limiting the age to contact you… |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Totally agree with you. Northumberland and what is now called the Scottish Borders is historically and culturally linked anyway xx"
And so they shall be linked on a saucy basis as well
Greater Pervshire 
S&S x |
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By *innMan
over a year ago
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"We would be interested in a social at some point but we don't do all that Kik stuff.
Hi guys.
Thank you for the link to this thread. We started a similar thread for the Northumberland area. Seems logical to bring these two together. Hopefully reignite this thread and have a look and post on ours to see who is about.
Regards
S&S x"
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I'm at the bottom of the narrow butt-cleft of South Lanarkshire, dangling precariously between the empty arse-cheeks of Scottish Borders on one side and Dumfries & Galloway on the other.
It's a wilderness out there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Plenty of sheep down there..."
Did you know the English invented the first condom from a sheep's bladder..
10 years later the Scottish showed them how to take it out of the sheep first! |
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By *aseMan
over a year ago
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"Plenty of sheep down there...
Did you know the English invented the first condom from a sheep's bladder..
10 years later the Scottish showed them how to take it out of the sheep first!"
Learn something new every day on here.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Plenty of sheep down there...
Did you know the English invented the first condom from a sheep's bladder..
10 years later the Scottish showed them how to take it out of the sheep first!"
Boom tish !
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"Plenty of sheep down there...
Did you know the English invented the first condom from a sheep's bladder..
10 years later the Scottish showed them how to take it out of the sheep first!"
good one !
I live in rural Ayrshire and while I haven't met anybody on this current profile is not for the want of trying. Ayrshire anywhere isn't far too travel to from so it's not that. I prefer a bit of distance tbh but lots don't and would rather have you next door. And tbh if my time in the young farmers going to dances over that way in years past is anything to go by there was plenty nonsense going on in the borders !!! |
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over a year ago
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"Heyy everyone, we’re going to be looking at getting a social planned in the new year if people would like to come then drop us a message on here "
We would certainly be very interested. |
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"Heyy everyone, we’re going to be looking at getting a social planned in the new year if people would like to come then drop us a message on here
We would certainly be very interested. "
Us too !
S&S x |
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over a year ago
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"Christmas party night tomorrow in a well known hotel in Kelso. Bit of a Dj/disco... great atmosphere to meet others that might be there wink wink all "
How was it ?
Did you manage to coax any elusive saucy folks out ?
S&S x |
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"Christmas party night tomorrow in a well known hotel in Kelso. Bit of a Dj/disco... great atmosphere to meet others that might be there wink wink all
How was it ?
Did you manage to coax any elusive saucy folks out ?
S&S x"
Didn't end up going. That place of employment called hubby and informed him he needed to be in work at 6am Saturday morning.... A SATURDAY- Bloody criminal if you ask me urghhhh. Still sulking
So I think I'll get d*unk today & start an argument with said place of employment xx |
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"Heyy everyone, we’re going to be looking at getting a social planned in the new year if people would like to come then drop us a message on here "
Let me know when you have a date and (roughly) where? Hopefully I can join you. Would be great to see you again x |
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"Christmas party night tomorrow in a well known hotel in Kelso. Bit of a Dj/disco... great atmosphere to meet others that might be there wink wink all
How was it ?
Did you manage to coax any elusive saucy folks out ?
S&S x
Didn't end up going. That place of employment called hubby and informed him he needed to be in work at 6am Saturday morning.... A SATURDAY- Bloody criminal if you ask me urghhhh. Still sulking
So I think I'll get d*unk today & start an argument with said place of employment xx"
That’s terrible ! 
You should sue for stress, involuntary alcoholism and bringing on a pervous breakdown.
First against the wall come the revolution !
S&S x |
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By *4Fun11Woman
over a year ago
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"Heyy everyone, we’re going to be looking at getting a social planned in the new year if people would like to come then drop us a message on here
Let me know when you have a date and (roughly) where? Hopefully I can join you. Would be great to see you again x"
If I’m down that way I’ll tag along if that’s ok |
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over a year ago
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"Heyy everyone, we’re going to be looking at getting a social planned in the new year if people would like to come then drop us a message on here "
When you get an idea of date and venue I'll try my best to get along to it be great to meet people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"looks like there is the possibility of a social but I heard Sturgeon heard about it and may try and stop it because she cannot come."
No volunteers around willing to try and make little Jimmy Krankie come
Although do believe they were rampant swingers back in the day
S&S x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By the time anything social is arranged it will probably be summer.
If that is the case we would love to have a social in a hot tub if anyone else is interested.
Actually any time in a hot tub.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We’d be thinking about hosting a social at a pub in hawick if that’s any good to you guys? "
I'd be up for that. Just be a case of knowing when it is to see if I can attend and sort accommodation etc. |
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"We’d be thinking about hosting a social at a pub in hawick if that’s any good to you guys? "
Works for me!
You have a date in mind, or holding off for a bit to see what's happening with restrictions? x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"can people drop their kik adds in here and we will start up a kik chat "
I will do once I've got it sorted. By the way i think this is a great idea and thank you for going to the trouble of arranging a social. Finger crossed I can make it |
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"Keep your pecker up.
The Borders is a total wasteland scene wise.
I’ve been on and off FAB for over ten years as a single and couples . SB has pretty much always been dire. No one ever seems to meet, very very few even reply. Maybe its the “aye been” mentality?!
Every time I’ve come back it seems to be the same old tired profiles that last had a meet when unleaded was 89p a litre"
Or people just not turning up and giving ridiculous excuses |
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Hey guys! Hope everyone is well! Could all interested parties please send us kik over as putting a shortlist together now and looking to start a group
Chat by the end of the week (if you’ve already sent yours over Ignore this) |
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Would love to join a social ,new to the scene ,and keen to make new friends and have some fun ! Single male so probably really over subscribed, but if a space is available ,I would love to meet some of you face to face x |
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"Hey guys! Hope everyone is well! Could all interested parties please send us kik over as putting a shortlist together now and looking to start a group
Chat by the end of the week (if you’ve already sent yours over Ignore this) "
How do we find you on kik ( sorry beginner haha |
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over a year ago
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"Hey guys! Hope everyone is well! Could all interested parties please send us kik over as putting a shortlist together now and looking to start a group
Chat by the end of the week (if you’ve already sent yours over Ignore this)
How do we find you on kik ( sorry beginner haha "
Don’t you just love a vulnerable, needy single male.
No.
Us neither |
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"Hey guys! Hope everyone is well! Could all interested parties please send us kik over as putting a shortlist together now and looking to start a group
Chat by the end of the week (if you’ve already sent yours over Ignore this)
How do we find you on kik ( sorry beginner haha
Don’t you just love a vulnerable, needy single male.
No.
Us neither "
Oh. harsh! |
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"Hey guys! Hope everyone is well! Could all interested parties please send us kik over as putting a shortlist together now and looking to start a group
Chat by the end of the week (if you’ve already sent yours over Ignore this)
How do we find you on kik ( sorry beginner haha "
I'll pass on your message but I'm pretty sure it's fully subscribed for single men now. |
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over a year ago
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"Hey guys! Hope everyone is well! Could all interested parties please send us kik over as putting a shortlist together now and looking to start a group
Chat by the end of the week (if you’ve already sent yours over Ignore this)
How do we find you on kik ( sorry beginner haha
Don’t you just love a vulnerable, needy single male.
No.
Us neither
Oh. harsh!"
Apologies.
Too much alcohol…..again…..hic ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Very welcoming ! Cheers "
I have apologised for a half arsed comment I made whilst a bit tipsy. I realise in the cold light of day it’s come across as twattish.
Again apologies. |
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By *4Fun11Woman
over a year ago
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"Hey guys! Hope everyone is well! Could all interested parties please send us kik over as putting a shortlist together now and looking to start a group
Chat by the end of the week (if you’ve already sent yours over Ignore this) "
Can’t message you due to filters.  |
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"Apology accepted !
Don't confuse keen to meet people ( it is a social isn't it ?) With needy !
Sorry we’re at full capacity for single men at the minute "
No problem ,if a space becomes available ,would love to meet some of you |
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"I tried to msg the OP regarding this weekend's Border social only to get blocked because I dont fit into their age bands! Not very sociable! How do I get details of the meet?
PM'd you x"
Gets an invite and doesn't reply. Wish people would stop pretending they're hard done by |
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"Very welcoming ! Cheers
I have apologised for a half arsed comment I made whilst a bit tipsy. I realise in the cold light of day it’s come across as twattish.
Again apologies. "
Half arsed apology for a full on dickhead remark. You weren't missed tonight x |
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I'd definitely be interested in a borders social although it's a bit far away .. but I've always been drawn to that part of the country. Nice folks. I'll keep my eye on the forum. |
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So sad - about 15 years ago I went to a private party just outside Melrose that was quite frankly dynamite. Apparently there were similar parties in the area every few weeks - there was a big sit down meal (nothing special, but just good grub - I think it was a game lasagne) with some nice wine followed by dancing and then everything that you'd imagine. Lots of tartan too LOL! It's amazing how such an exciting scene can deteriorate so quickly!  |
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"is it just us or are the borders region of scotland absolutely dead as a scene? seems most people are either cheats or dont meet because they are scared you know them or will say something , we werent aware that talking about what you do in the bedroom in your spare time with others is a good conversation point. vulgar messages and demanding messages are taking their toll too "
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"is it just us or are the borders region of scotland absolutely dead as a scene? seems most people are either cheats or dont meet because they are scared you know them or will say something , we werent aware that talking about what you do in the bedroom in your spare time with others is a good conversation point. vulgar messages and demanding messages are taking their toll too
Any updates on this?"
You're a bit late Billy. It all happened months ago! You got your camping event coming up soon? x |
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"is it just us or are the borders region of scotland absolutely dead as a scene? seems most people are either cheats or dont meet because they are scared you know them or will say something , we werent aware that talking about what you do in the bedroom in your spare time with others is a good conversation point. vulgar messages and demanding messages are taking their toll too
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You're a bit late Billy. It all happened months ago! You got your camping event coming up soon? x"
Yes next week hopefully but usal fab let downs so could be at loose end  |
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"is it just us or are the borders region of scotland absolutely dead as a scene? seems most people are either cheats or dont meet because they are scared you know them or will say something , we werent aware that talking about what you do in the bedroom in your spare time with others is a good conversation point. vulgar messages and demanding messages are taking their toll too
Any updates on this?
You're a bit late Billy. It all happened months ago! You got your camping event coming up soon? x
Yes next week hopefully but usal fab let downs so could be at loose end "
Only need a few people to make it a brilliant weekend. Hope it works out and you'll have a great time x |
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"is it just us or are the borders region of scotland absolutely dead as a scene? seems most people are either cheats or dont meet because they are scared you know them or will say something , we werent aware that talking about what you do in the bedroom in your spare time with others is a good conversation point. vulgar messages and demanding messages are taking their toll too
Any updates on this?
You're a bit late Billy. It all happened months ago! You got your camping event coming up soon? x
Yes next week hopefully but usal fab let downs so could be at loose end
Only need a few people to make it a brilliant weekend. Hope it works out and you'll have a great time x"
Yes definitely true |
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