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Newbie help

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Being the newbie that i am to this site, what help/tips could people offer to get out there and venture into the unknown so to speak. Im also quite shy and may not send 1st message at times.

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By *nferno sausageMan over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

My advice would be to send the first message and grow your skin thick.

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By *undayTarkaMan over a year ago

North Devon, Manchester

Get to a club get a load of veris and start there, failing that take a hit for your 1st veri, like I did on my old profile was worth it in the end

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *andsCouple over a year ago

Edin

If you are too shy to even send a message I’m not sure how this is going to work out for you. I imagine you would then be too shy to attend a club or social event so it’s kinda stalemate. You need to take a leap of faith somewhere! Good Luck.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just be nice and friendly. Don't jump in with do you fancy a stag lol. We meet a guy now but it took a long time to get to that point

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Shag not stag lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Get gabbing on here, make some friends, get yourself along to the next social, get a verification from that to show the ladies or laddies you're not a complete nutter and Bob's your uncle ......you'll be back here in 6 months asking the same thing!

Only kidding. Everything apart from the last line would be my advice. And send a message ffs. You won't be everyone's cup of tea but why would you want to be?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just be yourself.. don't expect to be lying horizontal anytime soon with anyone.. and grow a pair and send a message.. who knows it could be your lucky night..

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Just be yourself.. don't expect to be lying horizontal anytime soon with anyone.. and grow a pair and send a message.. who knows it could be your lucky night..

Thanks, i need to get a geip so to speak lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thanks everyone, i very much want to explore this more and try opening up sexually and meet new people, not exactly hung so kinda off putting when all i see is people looking for hung guys lol. But like you all said grow a pair and get thicker skin.

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By *4Fun11Woman over a year ago

Glasgow

Defo get yourself along to a social. Some of the hosts are great and will introduce you to other member and from there you can start chatting.

Good luck

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Thanks everyone, i very much want to explore this more and try opening up sexually and meet new people, not exactly hung so kinda off putting when all i see is people looking for hung guys lol. But like you all said grow a pair and get thicker skin. "
Not everyone is looking for hung guys !

Just be yourself and as some have said try getting along to a social and get yourself known that way .

Good luck!

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