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over a year ago
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"Currently, it's the number of guys who share around pics of unsuspecting women and the thirsty ones that take them up on it"
Agree! A local single male profile regularly adds pictures of his partner with her face front and centre. I report them every time but he's still here uploading them
On Fab at the moment my biggest pet peeve is men who suddenly have a female up for threesome when I say I only meet couples and women. Unsurprisingly these women never have their own profiles on Fab |
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over a year ago
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"Guys sending friend invites when you've never chatted to them x"
Or the ones who message to tell you how beautiful you are when you have one headless public photie!
Aye, very good Uri Geller.
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over a year ago
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Mines atm is men who live 2/3/400 miles away looking for meets. I'll not travel more than 30 mins for a meet but 4+ hour drives isn't an issue for them. Bit weird to me. |
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"Guys sending friend invites when you've never chatted to them x
Or the ones who message to tell you how beautiful you are when you have one headless public photie!
Aye, very good Uri Geller.
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You mean they don’t think I’m gorgeous  |
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"Currently, it's the number of guys who share around pics of unsuspecting women and the thirsty ones that take them up on it
Agree! A local single male profile regularly adds pictures of his partner with her face front and centre. I report them every time but he's still here uploading them
On Fab at the moment my biggest pet peeve is men who suddenly have a female up for threesome when I say I only meet couples and women. Unsurprisingly these women never have their own profiles on Fab "
Mine is when chatting to a guy for a bit then all of a sudden he mentions a fwb then all the chat is around threesomes when that wasn’t what I was looking for. I end the chat then a short time later they are back to being a single guy looking for a meet.  |
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"Guys sending friend invites when you've never chatted to them x
Or the ones who message to tell you how beautiful you are when you have one headless public photie!
Aye, very good Uri Geller.
You mean they don’t think I’m gorgeous "
Aye, obviously you're the exception |
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"Guys sending friend invites when you've never chatted to them x
Or the ones who message to tell you how beautiful you are when you have one headless public photie!
Aye, very good Uri Geller.
You mean they don’t think I’m gorgeous
Aye, obviously you're the exception "
That’s alright then  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Guys sending friend invites when you've never chatted to them x
Or the ones who message to tell you how beautiful you are when you have one headless public photie!
Aye, very good Uri Geller.
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So I'm not beautiful then? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Guys sending friend invites when you've never chatted to them x
Or the ones who message to tell you how beautiful you are when you have one headless public photie!
Aye, very good Uri Geller.
So I'm not beautiful then? "
You're the other exception!
(The headless photie comment was referring to me btw not you)  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Guys sending friend invites when you've never chatted to them x
Or the ones who message to tell you how beautiful you are when you have one headless public photie!
Aye, very good Uri Geller.
So I'm not beautiful then?
You're the other exception!
(The headless photie comment was referring to me btw not you) "
Lol. I'd say not, your profile pic is great, I love that dress x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Afternoon All,
Met up with some fellow FABBERS yesterday for a drink & discussion turned on to Pet Peeves about the site.
Anyone care to share what yours are? "
The constant guy Bashing that some women love to do, and especially the guys that do it too, somehow thinking it will make them more attractive to women since their the exception to " those " types of guys. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The ‘send a dick pic’ message that oddly comes from those who have a “no dick pics” in their profile.
My other is a very new one, pushy husbands. Does my tits in, it might be a swinging site but guys, respect your other halves for gods sake |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Afternoon All,
Met up with some fellow FABBERS yesterday for a drink & discussion turned on to Pet Peeves about the site.
Anyone care to share what yours are?
The constant guy Bashing that some women love to do, and especially the guys that do it too, somehow thinking it will make them more attractive to women since their the exception to " those " types of guys. "
Got to love a bit of white knighting lol |
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"Afternoon All,
Met up with some fellow FABBERS yesterday for a drink & discussion turned on to Pet Peeves about the site.
Anyone care to share what yours are?
The constant guy Bashing that some women love to do, and especially the guys that do it too, somehow thinking it will make them more attractive to women since their the exception to " those " types of guys.
Got to love a bit of white knighting lol"
Aye - those white knights are cringe-worthy! Let me know if you need any of them bashed! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Afternoon All,
Met up with some fellow FABBERS yesterday for a drink & discussion turned on to Pet Peeves about the site.
Anyone care to share what yours are?
The constant guy Bashing that some women love to do, and especially the guys that do it too, somehow thinking it will make them more attractive to women since their the exception to " those " types of guys.
Got to love a bit of white knighting lol
Aye - those white knights are cringe-worthy! Let me know if you need any of them bashed! "
Thanks Lancelot |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think many "man bash" but there is a higher proportion of men to women and it's the male nature to be "pushy" and by god SOME not all ARE... if women complain about it then ffs... could it be that men AS A RULE just ARE!! Something that underlines this thought is that couples, TV's, TS's and SINGLE men say so... if you read the forums at all you see that.
Not the nice ones and thank god they do exist. I've even met one or two lol.
However I've also had quite a few messages from men who think they ARE one of the nice guys and who don't realise they actually are pretty offensive, pushy and lack discretion.
Lastly on a serious note... that "pushy" attitude is very much in the news just now in regard to how many women have been attacked recently... that is an issue of how society allows men to think of and treat women in general.
I'm not anti men incidentally, far from it. I have two sons and like to think I brought them up to respect everyone regardless of sex, colour, creed or anything else.
Oh ... Pet peeve... intolerance in general but here... same as Jo lol
Disclaimer: Well aware single women, couples etc etc etc have their faults |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't think many "man bash" but there is a higher proportion of men to women and it's the male nature to be "pushy" and by god SOME not all ARE... if women complain about it then ffs... could it be that men AS A RULE just ARE!! Something that underlines this thought is that couples, TV's, TS's and SINGLE men say so... if you read the forums at all you see that.
Not the nice ones and thank god they do exist. I've even met one or two lol.
However I've also had quite a few messages from men who think they ARE one of the nice guys and who don't realise they actually are pretty offensive, pushy and lack discretion.
Lastly on a serious note... that "pushy" attitude is very much in the news just now in regard to how many women have been attacked recently... that is an issue of how society allows men to think of and treat women in general.
I'm not anti men incidentally, far from it. I have two sons and like to think I brought them up to respect everyone regardless of sex, colour, creed or anything else.
Oh ... Pet peeve... intolerance in general but here... same as Jo lol
Disclaimer: Well aware single women, couples etc etc etc have their faults "
I actually don't mind the media guy Bashing just now , there just sticking with the flavour of the month. Blm is out the spotlight now and guys are in , next month it will be royalty or politicians again being bashed .
I disagree with you though flirt , I don't think levels of attacks on women have got worse recently, there's just a couple more special circumstances with the high profile ones just now.
Anyway don't want to hijack the thread with my pet peeve . Sry OP.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't think many "man bash" but there is a higher proportion of men to women and it's the male nature to be "pushy" and by god SOME not all ARE... if women complain about it then ffs... could it be that men AS A RULE just ARE!! Something that underlines this thought is that couples, TV's, TS's and SINGLE men say so... if you read the forums at all you see that.
Not the nice ones and thank god they do exist. I've even met one or two lol.
However I've also had quite a few messages from men who think they ARE one of the nice guys and who don't realise they actually are pretty offensive, pushy and lack discretion.
Lastly on a serious note... that "pushy" attitude is very much in the news just now in regard to how many women have been attacked recently... that is an issue of how society allows men to think of and treat women in general.
I'm not anti men incidentally, far from it. I have two sons and like to think I brought them up to respect everyone regardless of sex, colour, creed or anything else.
Oh ... Pet peeve... intolerance in general but here... same as Jo lol
Disclaimer: Well aware single women, couples etc etc etc have their faults
I actually don't mind the media guy Bashing just now , there just sticking with the flavour of the month. Blm is out the spotlight now and guys are in , next month it will be royalty or politicians again being bashed .
I disagree with you though flirt , I don't think levels of attacks on women have got worse recently, there's just a couple more special circumstances with the high profile ones just now.
Anyway don't want to hijack the thread with my pet peeve . Sry OP.
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You're entitled to your opinion Zest - as my mother said "wouldn't do if we were all the same" |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't think many "man bash" but there is a higher proportion of men to women and it's the male nature to be "pushy" and by god SOME not all ARE... if women complain about it then ffs... could it be that men AS A RULE just ARE!! Something that underlines this thought is that couples, TV's, TS's and SINGLE men say so... if you read the forums at all you see that.
Not the nice ones and thank god they do exist. I've even met one or two lol.
However I've also had quite a few messages from men who think they ARE one of the nice guys and who don't realise they actually are pretty offensive, pushy and lack discretion.
Lastly on a serious note... that "pushy" attitude is very much in the news just now in regard to how many women have been attacked recently... that is an issue of how society allows men to think of and treat women in general.
I'm not anti men incidentally, far from it. I have two sons and like to think I brought them up to respect everyone regardless of sex, colour, creed or anything else.
Oh ... Pet peeve... intolerance in general but here... same as Jo lol
Disclaimer: Well aware single women, couples etc etc etc have their faults
I actually don't mind the media guy Bashing just now , there just sticking with the flavour of the month. Blm is out the spotlight now and guys are in , next month it will be royalty or politicians again being bashed .
I disagree with you though flirt , I don't think levels of attacks on women have got worse recently, there's just a couple more special circumstances with the high profile ones just now.
Anyway don't want to hijack the thread with my pet peeve . Sry OP.
You're entitled to your opinion Zest - as my mother said "wouldn't do if we were all the same" "
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By (user no longer on site)
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I was about to say it would do us all good to have the shoe on the other foot and experience Fab as the other sex for 24hrs.
Then I remembered about the guys who pretend to be single women to try and spark up conversations or get pics. Oops, silly me...man bashing again...whit am ah like!? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was about to say it would do us all good to have the shoe on the other foot and experience Fab as the other sex for 24hrs.
Then I remembered about the guys who pretend to be single women to try and spark up conversations or get pics. Oops, silly me...man bashing again...whit am ah like!? "
Fucking fabulous that's whit yer like lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was about to say it would do us all good to have the shoe on the other foot and experience Fab as the other sex for 24hrs.
Then I remembered about the guys who pretend to be single women to try and spark up conversations or get pics. Oops, silly me...man bashing again...whit am ah like!?
Fucking fabulous that's whit yer like lol "
fabulous.. darleen.. |
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"I was about to say it would do us all good to have the shoe on the other foot and experience Fab as the other sex for 24hrs.
Then I remembered about the guys who pretend to be single women to try and spark up conversations or get pics. Oops, silly me...man bashing again...whit am ah like!?
Fucking fabulous that's whit yer like lol fabulous.. darleen.. "
If the shoe is going on the other foot, I'll happily hae a bash at either of you three. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was about to say it would do us all good to have the shoe on the other foot and experience Fab as the other sex for 24hrs.
Then I remembered about the guys who pretend to be single women to try and spark up conversations or get pics. Oops, silly me...man bashing again...whit am ah like!?
Fucking fabulous that's whit yer like lol fabulous.. darleen..
If the shoe is going on the other foot, I'll happily hae a bash at either of you three. "
Make it boots and a pirate outfit a la Capn Jack Sparrow and am in |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was about to say it would do us all good to have the shoe on the other foot and experience Fab as the other sex for 24hrs.
Then I remembered about the guys who pretend to be single women to try and spark up conversations or get pics. Oops, silly me...man bashing again...whit am ah like!?
Fucking fabulous that's whit yer like lol fabulous.. darleen..
If the shoe is going on the other foot, I'll happily hae a bash at either of you three.
Make it boots and a pirate outfit a la Capn Jack Sparrow and am in "
*startin the van* |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was about to say it would do us all good to have the shoe on the other foot and experience Fab as the other sex for 24hrs.
Then I remembered about the guys who pretend to be single women to try and spark up conversations or get pics. Oops, silly me...man bashing again...whit am ah like!?
Fucking fabulous that's whit yer like lol fabulous.. darleen..
If the shoe is going on the other foot, I'll happily hae a bash at either of you three.
Make it boots and a pirate outfit a la Capn Jack Sparrow and am in *startin the van* "
*making a pie* lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was about to say it would do us all good to have the shoe on the other foot and experience Fab as the other sex for 24hrs.
Then I remembered about the guys who pretend to be single women to try and spark up conversations or get pics. Oops, silly me...man bashing again...whit am ah like!?
Fucking fabulous that's whit yer like lol fabulous.. darleen..
If the shoe is going on the other foot, I'll happily hae a bash at either of you three.
Make it boots and a pirate outfit a la Capn Jack Sparrow and am in *startin the van*
*making a pie* lol "
ah can smell it fae here... sakes.. thats disgusting... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was about to say it would do us all good to have the shoe on the other foot and experience Fab as the other sex for 24hrs.
Then I remembered about the guys who pretend to be single women to try and spark up conversations or get pics. Oops, silly me...man bashing again...whit am ah like!?
Fucking fabulous that's whit yer like lol fabulous.. darleen..
If the shoe is going on the other foot, I'll happily hae a bash at either of you three.
Make it boots and a pirate outfit a la Capn Jack Sparrow and am in *startin the van*
*making a pie* lol ah can smell it fae here... sakes.. thats disgusting... "
maybe I should make it cute lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Women replying not my type but have loads of verifications & pics of guys all shapes & sizes..lol"
Maybe they're talking about your approach/attitude rather than physical attributes? Could it be that something within that is not their "type" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Allegedly couples profiles with no photos, but just the guy available to suck my cock.
Thanks but no thanks ! "
I wonder if they're the same kind profiles looking for ffm where the mrs is never available to verify |
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Pestering.
Onviously not reading or choosing to ignore your profile before messaging.
Unsolicited friend requests.
winking and messaging from a blank or hidden profile, what the fuck am i meant to do with that?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Pestering.
Onviously not reading or choosing to ignore your profile before messaging.
Unsolicited friend requests.
winking and messaging from a blank or hidden profile, what the fuck am i meant to do with that?
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By *on5185Man
over a year ago
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Hmm well,
Asking for pics but none in return
Constant new sprouted profile that die and wither by the next morning.
Once a rapport has been made, the flat earth appears and they fall off 
There’s more but that will do for first time on the forums |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The fab guru's .. the ones that believe they're the font of all knowledge .. usually by putting others down .. its like a sport on here
Folk who complain about moaning by moaning themselves .
The fact that if you have a difference In opinion it's usually seen as an attack
The morality brigade .. live and let live if it doesn't affect you it's none of your business
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The morality brigade .. live and let live if it doesn't affect you it's none of your business
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This ^ far too many poking their noses in where they aint wanted and those who just can't let go and will do anything to try and destroy a person's reputation on here by spreading visious lies about people.
Seen it so many times !
Some horrible people about  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The morality brigade .. live and let live if it doesn't affect you it's none of your business
This ^ far too many poking their noses in where they aint wanted and those who just can't let go and will do anything to try and destroy a person's reputation on here by spreading visious lies about people.
Seen it so many times !
Some horrible people about "
Far too many folk about that's out to destroy someone .. far too much time on their hands x |
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The morality brigade .. live and let live if it doesn't affect you it's none of your business
This ^ far too many poking their noses in where they aint wanted and those who just can't let go and will do anything to try and destroy a person's reputation on here by spreading visious lies about people.
Seen it so many times !
Some horrible people about
Far too many folk about that's out to destroy someone .. far too much time on their hands x"
Totally agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Pet peeve is women who demand face pics from the get go despite having a completely empty profile and yet you have lots of pictures and a decent description etc, yet they think it's wholly inappropriate for you to require a bit of chat before identities are thrown about.. when you politely explain the completely reasonable reasons they dismiss then as you must be a cheating husband !!! Blinkered narrow minds ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree with a good chunk of what’s already been said.
I’d like to add in the status updates looking for workmen/trades people or the vague/fishing look at me comments, this isn’t Facebook. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tell you what kind of gives me the pip. When a member gets a life forum ban for disrupting the forum and appears in another guise to do exactly the same thing. Some are sussed and hounded off the site others are sussed and nothing happens.
Maybe I'm not understanding the premise of course. Whether the ban is for the life of the individual or the life of that profile. Some expert will no doubt put me right.
Ties in with my other pet peeve of people who throw a  into the forum and sit back smiling watching the result.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Tell you what kind of gives me the pip. When a member gets a life forum ban for disrupting the forum and appears in another guise to do exactly the same thing. Some are sussed and hounded off the site others are sussed and nothing happens.
Maybe I'm not understanding the premise of course. Whether the ban is for the life of the individual or the life of that profile. Some expert will no doubt put me right.
Ties in with my other pet peeve of people who throw a into the forum and sit back smiling watching the result. "
100% with you on this!!! but those types end up being the tit they are and will get another ban |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Tell you what kind of gives me the pip. When a member gets a life forum ban for disrupting the forum and appears in another guise to do exactly the same thing. Some are sussed and hounded off the site others are sussed and nothing happens.
Maybe I'm not understanding the premise of course. Whether the ban is for the life of the individual or the life of that profile. Some expert will no doubt put me right.
Ties in with my other pet peeve of people who throw a into the forum and sit back smiling watching the result. "
these men..sorry erm or girls lol usually cannot help themselves slipping back into their old ways so usually get caught out with their childish or egotistical behaviour. |
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"Pet peeve is women who demand face pics from the get go despite having a completely empty profile and yet you have lots of pictures and a decent description etc, yet they think it's wholly inappropriate for you to require a bit of chat before identities are thrown about.. when you politely explain the completely reasonable reasons they dismiss then as you must be a cheating husband !!! Blinkered narrow minds ... "
Women dont demand them they ask for them wether you send is entirely up to you, my pet peeve is guys who have nothing at all on their profiles no pics etc asking to meet, how the hell do i know i want to meet them if i cant see what they look like |
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"Tell you what kind of gives me the pip. When a member gets a life forum ban for disrupting the forum and appears in another guise to do exactly the same thing. Some are sussed and hounded off the site others are sussed and nothing happens.
Maybe I'm not understanding the premise of course. Whether the ban is for the life of the individual or the life of that profile. Some expert will no doubt put me right.
Ties in with my other pet peeve of people who throw a into the forum and sit back smiling watching the result. "
Yeah baby yeah (Austen Powers voice ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just dont say its a cream pie.
Some blank profiled fuckwad will message demanding to 'breed' you...
Plain or pan
Either, but it'll be crusty  "
As long as it’s not seeded |
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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago
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"Current peeve is guys automatically thinking your gonna meet after 1 message absolutely this "
Oh. I though this place was like a Macdonalds drive thru. Drive up. Say hi. Have a wee flirt at the next window. Then pick up the goodies at the last one. |
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"Just dont say its a cream pie.
Some blank profiled fuckwad will message demanding to 'breed' you...
Plain or pan
Either, but it'll be crusty
As long as it’s not seeded "
"Just dont say its a cream pie.
Some blank profiled fuckwad will message demanding to 'breed' you...
Plain or pan
Either, but it'll be crusty
As long as it’s not seeded "
No but if they're a big shooter...
It'll be a wholemeal |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Current peeve is guys automatically thinking your gonna meet after 1 message absolutely this
Oh. I though this place was like a Macdonalds drive thru. Drive up. Say hi. Have a wee flirt at the next window. Then pick up the goodies at the last one. "
some bypass the next window tho |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pet peeve is women who demand face pics from the get go despite having a completely empty profile and yet you have lots of pictures and a decent description etc, yet they think it's wholly inappropriate for you to require a bit of chat before identities are thrown about.. when you politely explain the completely reasonable reasons they dismiss then as you must be a cheating husband !!! Blinkered narrow minds ...
Women dont demand them they ask for them wether you send is entirely up to you, my pet peeve is guys who have nothing at all on their profiles no pics etc asking to meet, how the hell do i know i want to meet them if i cant see what they look like"
They very often do demand face pictures on the first message or its block / delete .. and they can afford to be so abrupt and unreasonable as there is just so many guys that there will be plenty who don't really care and she'll get her guy. It's standards, part of a bit of respect for myself I guess. |
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"Pet peeve is women who demand face pics from the get go despite having a completely empty profile and yet you have lots of pictures and a decent description etc, yet they think it's wholly inappropriate for you to require a bit of chat before identities are thrown about.. when you politely explain the completely reasonable reasons they dismiss then as you must be a cheating husband !!! Blinkered narrow minds ...
Women dont demand them they ask for them wether you send is entirely up to you, my pet peeve is guys who have nothing at all on their profiles no pics etc asking to meet, how the hell do i know i want to meet them if i cant see what they look like
They very often do demand face pictures on the first message or its block / delete .. and they can afford to be so abrupt and unreasonable as there is just so many guys that there will be plenty who don't really care and she'll get her guy. It's standards, part of a bit of respect for myself I guess. "
Well if they "demand" then its all about standards for them, they dont want to meet with someone they arent atrracted to and vice versa. I ask for a facepic from the get off as i dont see any point coversing and wasting my time with a guy to send me a facepic and theres zero attraction but that's just me many will meet without seeing pics though |
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"Afternoon All,
Met up with some fellow FABBERS yesterday for a drink & discussion turned on to Pet Peeves about the site.
Anyone care to share what yours are? "
When a couples updates are constantly "who wants to meet male half today as he's all alone and lonely or male half can play while female is not there, yeah right, who you kidding? lol
Another pet peeve is male's pretending to be females then sending a friend invite hoping we will accept it so the 'female' can see our face pics lol this makes us giggle |
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Transphobia.
Homophobia.
Arseholes who think their 'elite' and only their opinion matters, forums full of them...
Greedy bastards looking for lifts to places - get a bus, taxi or dont fucking go ya using melts.
Statuses begging for someone to send them a supporter pass.... fuck right off, you utter wankspanners...  |
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Attention seeking "had enough, shit on here... im gonna leave"..
Are ye, Aye?...
What ya waiting for?... fuck off.
New profile, "been here before, know how it works".....
Really?, why ya still got no pics, no profy bio and not met anyone in 10 months then?... GTF |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
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"Women replying not my type but have loads of verifications & pics of guys all shapes & sizes..lol"
I have verifications from a variety of people as I do a pub quiz social weekly and meet many socially only. Some may have verifications from a social event or going to a club. It doesn’t mean they were attracted to them. Not all verifications are from meets where they played. It’s also about chemistry not just body shape or size. Don’t assume anything from verifications. |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
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Pet peeves. Many have already been mentioned above
Guys who think females are on here just to please them. This is not Instashag
Single male profiles with more pics of women than anything else
Receiving numerous messages because I haven’t responded within their expected time scale.
People who don’t read profiles
Profiles with nothing in them.
Messages that give details of what a guy wants to do to me in graphic detail.
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"People trying to dictate who people can speak to, be friends with or even meet."
This has actually ripped my knitting on more than one occasion.
I won't be dictated to in any other area of my life, so your disappointment in my choice of Fab friends features low on my list of "Fucks To Give" List. |
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"People trying to dictate who people can speak to, be friends with or even meet.
This has actually ripped my knitting on more than one occasion.
I won't be dictated to in any other area of my life, so your disappointment in my choice of Fab friends features low on my list of "Fucks To Give" List."
Exactly ! |
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"People trying to dictate who people can speak to, be friends with or even meet.
This has actually ripped my knitting on more than one occasion.
I won't be dictated to in any other area of my life, so your disappointment in my choice of Fab friends features low on my list of "Fucks To Give" List."
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"People trying to dictate who people can speak to, be friends with or even meet.
This has actually ripped my knitting on more than one occasion.
I won't be dictated to in any other area of my life, so your disappointment in my choice of Fab friends features low on my list of "Fucks To Give" List."
You always did have a way with words. I think we may be sisters |
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"People trying to dictate who people can speak to, be friends with or even meet.
This has actually ripped my knitting on more than one occasion.
I won't be dictated to in any other area of my life, so your disappointment in my choice of Fab friends features low on my list of "Fucks To Give" List."
Quite right. Sound like something Mrs D would say  |
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"People trying to dictate who people can speak to, be friends with or even meet.
This has actually ripped my knitting on more than one occasion.
I won't be dictated to in any other area of my life, so your disappointment in my choice of Fab friends features low on my list of "Fucks To Give" List.
Quite right. Sound like something Mrs D would say "
Never heard of her.
Sounds like a fuckin legend though |
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"People trying to dictate who people can speak to, be friends with or even meet.
This has actually ripped my knitting on more than one occasion.
I won't be dictated to in any other area of my life, so your disappointment in my choice of Fab friends features low on my list of "Fucks To Give" List.
Quite right. Sound like something Mrs D would say
Never heard of her.
Sounds like a fuckin legend though "
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Dick pics and Spread vaginas and anus pics.
When single guys message us and talk like their messaging a single female.
People from 100's of miles away wanting to meet.
Friends requests from people we've never spoken to (obviously pic hunters)
Short messages like, wanna fuck?
Finally, people who moan and complain.
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"Quoting song lyrics as a status update  It’s maybe acceptable from a teenager but surely you can do better than “ Zip-a-dee-doo-dah, zip-a-dee-ay”"
Funny that, mines is grown men with juvenile smutty names |
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"Dick pics and Spread vaginas and anus pics.
When single guys message us and talk like their messaging a single female.
People from 100's of miles away wanting to meet.
Friends requests from people we've never spoken to (obviously pic hunters)
Short messages like, wanna fuck?
Finally, people who moan and complain.
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Just thought of something else, men pretending to be women. |
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"Status updates between two members where you can clearly see they hate each other .. why ! Just block move on and enjoy the rest of the site.
Life too shirt for that nonsense."
I think for some folk any attention, even negative, is better than none at all.
Far more satisfying just to dinghy anyone I don't like. |
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"Status updates between two members where you can clearly see they hate each other .. why ! Just block move on and enjoy the rest of the site.
Life too shirt for that nonsense.
I think for some folk any attention, even negative, is better than none at all.
Far more satisfying just to dinghy anyone I don't like."
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"Quoting song lyrics as a status update It’s maybe acceptable from a teenager but surely you can do better than “ Zip-a-dee-doo-dah, zip-a-dee-ay”
Funny that, mines is grown men with juvenile smutty names "
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The oral wizards (yeah I know, I'll never cum so hard from anyone else's oral skills - I'll still pass though).
The ones who feel the need to slag of your veris, because they believe they're better looking and better in the sack than them after getting a polite no thanks.
First messages with explicit details of what we'd get up to if we were to ever meet.
The fantasists who pretend they're on here to meet people, but they're really not and just totally wasting your time.
Indiscretion (eg. k i k chat groups going into detail of what they've been up to and with who after which the person discussed will get bombarded with messages from these losers, or outing them to friends and family when they're in a huff). |
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Folk trying to convince you that the're what you're looking for when you have already clearly stated they're not.
If I need a car, I want a car. Not a fucking moped.
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Just thought of something else, men pretending to be women. "
Can always spot them a mile off. New single fem account, not photo verified & immediately meet verified by a male = fake.
My rule of thumb is if the fem or couple have been on more than 3 months, aren’t photo verified or don’t have a couple of veris from genuine people then I put it down as a guy. Maybe a bit judgey of me but hey, I live life on the fast lane ha |
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Sheep who copy and paste Sydney University (or worse, Facebook) copyright warnings.
People who say "your loss" after being rejected....proving that it's really not! |
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"I don't think many "man bash" but there is a higher proportion of men to women and it's the male nature to be "pushy" and by god SOME not all ARE... if women complain about it then ffs... could it be that men AS A RULE just ARE!! Something that underlines this thought is that couples, TV's, TS's and SINGLE men say so... if you read the forums at all you see that.
Not the nice ones and thank god they do exist. I've even met one or two lol.
However I've also had quite a few messages from men who think they ARE one of the nice guys and who don't realise they actually are pretty offensive, pushy and lack discretion.
Lastly on a serious note... that "pushy" attitude is very much in the news just now in regard to how many women have been attacked recently... that is an issue of how society allows men to think of and treat women in general.
I'm not anti men incidentally, far from it. I have two sons and like to think I brought them up to respect everyone regardless of sex, colour, creed or anything else.
Oh ... Pet peeve... intolerance in general but here... same as Jo lol
Disclaimer: Well aware single women, couples etc etc etc have their faults "
I'm confused in one sentence you say some and the you say as a rule men just are.
I'd also say the demonisation of men by the media is driven by bias from the platform and not an indication of sociatal norms.
Most men have been brought up as you describe bringing up your sons and maybe you could ask them if they feel media platforms demonise men I'd be surprised if they say no.
My biggest pet peeve is over inflated egos
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"The guys that message and say "ask me anything" away ye go ya balloon.. you messaged me.. "
I don’t like that. I feel like I ought have have a list of standard interview questions for the ‘ask me anything’ request. |
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"I don't think many "man bash" but there is a higher proportion of men to women and it's the male nature to be "pushy" and by god SOME not all ARE... if women complain about it then ffs... could it be that men AS A RULE just ARE!! Something that underlines this thought is that couples, TV's, TS's and SINGLE men say so... if you read the forums at all you see that.
Not the nice ones and thank god they do exist. I've even met one or two lol.
However I've also had quite a few messages from men who think they ARE one of the nice guys and who don't realise they actually are pretty offensive, pushy and lack discretion.
Lastly on a serious note... that "pushy" attitude is very much in the news just now in regard to how many women have been attacked recently... that is an issue of how society allows men to think of and treat women in general.
I'm not anti men incidentally, far from it. I have two sons and like to think I brought them up to respect everyone regardless of sex, colour, creed or anything else.
Oh ... Pet peeve... intolerance in general but here... same as Jo lol
Disclaimer: Well aware single women, couples etc etc etc have their faults I'm confused in one sentence you say some and the you say as a rule men just are.
I'd also say the demonisation of men by the media is driven by bias from the platform and not an indication of sociatal norms.
Most men have been brought up as you describe bringing up your sons and maybe you could ask them if they feel media platforms demonise men I'd be surprised if they say no.
My biggest pet peeve is over inflated egos
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"I don't think many "man bash" but there is a higher proportion of men to women and it's the male nature to be "pushy" and by god SOME not all ARE... if women complain about it then ffs... could it be that men AS A RULE just ARE!! Something that underlines this thought is that couples, TV's, TS's and SINGLE men say so... if you read the forums at all you see that.
Not the nice ones and thank god they do exist. I've even met one or two lol.
However I've also had quite a few messages from men who think they ARE one of the nice guys and who don't realise they actually are pretty offensive, pushy and lack discretion.
Lastly on a serious note... that "pushy" attitude is very much in the news just now in regard to how many women have been attacked recently... that is an issue of how society allows men to think of and treat women in general.
I'm not anti men incidentally, far from it. I have two sons and like to think I brought them up to respect everyone regardless of sex, colour, creed or anything else.
Oh ... Pet peeve... intolerance in general but here... same as Jo lol
Disclaimer: Well aware single women, couples etc etc etc have their faults I'm confused in one sentence you say some and the you say as a rule men just are.
I'd also say the demonisation of men by the media is driven by bias from the platform and not an indication of sociatal norms.
Most men have been brought up as you describe bringing up your sons and maybe you could ask them if they feel media platforms demonise men I'd be surprised if they say no.
My biggest pet peeve is over inflated egos
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Kola, we’ve discussed this before so I’ll simply say;
1. You’re entitled to your opinion (you’re never going to change it and that’s fine).
2. To clarify, just for you
Single men make up the majority of people on the site and if you’re a regular forum user or even just read the replies to this thread you can deduce that by far and away the biggest offenders in general ARE single males but of course NOT the only ones. Almost EVERY section of the fab community do complain of it though. Even single men complain about single men messaging them for example. I am in NO way saying this is all men. I disagree with the bias comment. Men get judged by their actions here or anywhere else. That’s my opinion only but MY entitlement. That’s as much explaining as I’m prepared to do AGAIN. If you can’t understand that then … I wish you well, I won’t comment further but I’m sure you will. .
Lastly, as I also said, there are very many lovely guys here. I don’t judge the few by the many and believe that those gentlemen rarely have any “problems” here or anywhere else as a rule
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"Awwwww gawd... aye "the warning"
Ive seen it on a fair few profiles that are blank all i can think is "steal what ya melt?" "
They're blank cause the pics have been stolen ... |
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Kola, we’ve discussed this before so I’ll simply say;
1. You’re entitled to your opinion (you’re never going to change it and that’s fine).
2. To clarify, just for you
Single men make up the majority of people on the site and if you’re a regular forum user or even just read the replies to this thread you can deduce that by far and away the biggest offenders in general ARE single males
I'd disagree Id say the ones most likely to complain are females as they Seem to get the most irritated not to mention the vast majority are not single males but attached males on an individual profile. There are also reasons men won't complain that I ain't going to go into
but of course NOT the only ones. Almost EVERY section of the fab community do complain of it though. Even single men complain about single men messaging them for example. I am in NO way saying this is all men. I disagree with the bias comment. Men get judged by their actions here or anywhere else.
Again I'd ask you to ask your sons about this it may surprise you to hear it from them rather than a random on fab. As another user stated media bias right now is on demonising men. Men right now are judged by outlier mens character not by their own merits.
That’s my opinion only but MY entitlement. That’s as much explaining as I’m prepared to do AGAIN. If you can’t understand that then … I wish you well, I won’t comment further but I’m sure you will. .
Lastly, as I also said, there are very many lovely guys here. I don’t judge the few by the many and believe that those gentlemen rarely have any “problems” here or anywhere else as a rule
Of course I'd comment as we obviously have a difference of opinion your entitled to your opinion but it's good to check in on your knowledge of a subject at times or you or I are in danger of misinformation.
Your remarks I took as the wider world and not fab alone which is why I wrote media sources.
Like everything there is good bad and intolerable on every side of the gogoplex coin.
I just found the not all men followed by as a rule all men a bit weird ah could share my happy pills if ya need some.... (smarties) |
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"Kola, we’ve discussed this before so I’ll simply say;
1. You’re entitled to your opinion (you’re never going to change it and that’s fine).
2. To clarify, just for you
Single men make up the majority of people on the site and if you’re a regular forum user or even just read the replies to this thread you can deduce that by far and away the biggest offenders in general ARE single males
I'd disagree Id say the ones most likely to complain are females as they Seem to get the most irritated not to mention the vast majority are not single males but attached males on an individual profile. There are also reasons men won't complain that I ain't going to go into
but of course NOT the only ones. Almost EVERY section of the fab community do complain of it though. Even single men complain about single men messaging them for example. I am in NO way saying this is all men. I disagree with the bias comment. Men get judged by their actions here or anywhere else.
Again I'd ask you to ask your sons about this it may surprise you to hear it from them rather than a random on fab. As another user stated media bias right now is on demonising men. Men right now are judged by outlier mens character not by their own merits.
That’s my opinion only but MY entitlement. That’s as much explaining as I’m prepared to do AGAIN. If you can’t understand that then … I wish you well, I won’t comment further but I’m sure you will. .
Lastly, as I also said, there are very many lovely guys here. I don’t judge the few by the many and believe that those gentlemen rarely have any “problems” here or anywhere else as a rule
Of course I'd comment as we obviously have a difference of opinion your entitled to your opinion but it's good to check in on your knowledge of a subject at times or you or I are in danger of misinformation.
Your remarks I took as the wider world and not fab alone which is why I wrote media sources.
Like everything there is good bad and intolerable on every side of the gogoplex coin.
I just found the not all men followed by as a rule all men a bit weird ah could share my happy pills if ya need some.... (smarties) "
I’ll relent on what I said about relying only cos yer offering to share yer smarties but I’d prefer a meringue. In regard to the part you found contradictory…Sometimes the written word here doesn't always relate quite the way you mean it. |
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""Professional"
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Absolutely, I try to be “ professional “ in everything I do and indeed my job is technical/ qualified but I don’t bang on about it.
I’ve met Royalty through my work but I’ve also had to do shifts on the bins between jobs.
It’s not what you do it’s who you are and how you treat others that counts |
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""Professional"
Absolutely, I try to be “ professional “ in everything I do and indeed my job is technical/ qualified but I don’t bang on about it.
I’ve met Royalty through my work but I’ve also had to do shifts on the bins between jobs.
It’s not what you do it’s who you are and how you treat others that counts "
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"Facebook like statuses nite sweet dreams x morning x day in the garden x etc etc it’s a sex site "
Though often silly, I think they break up the monotony of the "balls needing drained now" type updates.
The public spats are a bit silly though. They'd be better just organising a square go in their local Asda car park than boring the rest of us to fuck. |
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"Facebook like statuses nite sweet dreams x morning x day in the garden x etc etc it’s a sex site "
I would say it’s a social platform, therefore anything goes. And although it’s a sex site it was set up for the swinging community to utilise and swingers are a very sociable lot. |
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"Facebook like statuses nite sweet dreams x morning x day in the garden x etc etc it’s a sex site
Though often silly, I think they break up the monotony of the "balls needing drained now" type updates.
The public spats are a bit silly though. They'd be better just organising a square go in their local Asda car park than boring the rest of us to fuck."
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The public spats are a bit silly though. They'd be better just organising a square go in their local Asda car park than boring the rest of us to fuck."
Keyboard gangsters, most of them wouldnt say boo face to face |
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The public spats are a bit silly though. They'd be better just organising a square go in their local Asda car park than boring the rest of us to fuck.
Keyboard gangsters, most of them wouldnt say boo face to face "
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Completely disagree there are enough social platforms out there to let people know that your cutting your grass washing your hair or pissed off that it’s monday morning again ! |
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Messaged with no punctuation - why?
Negative and pointless status - this sites shite (you don’t need to use it)
But other then that, it’s not really worth the time to get annoyed with what I see on fab lol
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