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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why don't folk turn up as they say they will. Sin x"
You need to pick the right guys - If I had a meet arranged, it would need something really important to stop me turning up. Especially as getting meet is so darned difficult |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why don't folk turn up as they say they will. Sin x
You need to pick the right guys - If I had a meet arranged, it would need something really important to stop me turning up. Especially as getting meet is so darned difficult"
Problem is we don't know who the right people are until they've turned up (or not)! Only way to try and avoid it is to only meet well verified profiles, but that doesn't help genuine newbies! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why don't folk turn up as they say they will. Sin x
You need to pick the right guys - If I had a meet arranged, it would need something really important to stop me turning up. Especially as getting meet is so darned difficult
Problem is we don't know who the right people are until they've turned up (or not)! Only way to try and avoid it is to only meet well verified profiles, but that doesn't help genuine newbies! "
I agree. Its difficult to know - but I guess thats the same in all walks of life, you only know when you know.
Anyway. Im a genuine newbie  Im even happy to meet up at Costa or Starbucks for a coffee and chat. On me if you promise to give a glowing verification  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If i have a meet arranged and for some reason i can make it, i always let the person know and try to rearrange.
Saves everyones time. "
Agreed! I've had to cancel once or twice, I've had poorly kids, dying dog, kept late at work, babysitter cancel etc, life can get in the way over the years. But I always message, explain and apologise,and I'd fully understand if they chose not to reschedule.
But I've never stood someone up, ghosted at the last minute etc, there's no good excuse for that (as opposed to cancelling before hand) xx |
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By *4Fun11Woman
over a year ago
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"I think the ladies should inform each other of the no show guys, also the crazy ones...  "
I usually let my girlies know if I’ve had a timewaster or if someone’s been rude or obnoxious. 
I don’t think guys on here realise it’s a small world and girls talk to each other  |
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"I think the ladies should inform each other of the no show guys, also the crazy ones...
I usually let my girlies know if I’ve had a timewaster or if someone’s been rude or obnoxious.
I don’t think guys on here realise it’s a small world and girls talk to each other "
Yep. Word spreads.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've just had to deal with a time waster already this morning. He changed his mind simply because I'm going to a group social. From what he said, he's feeling a wee bit put out! Lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think the ladies should inform each other of the no show guys, also the crazy ones...
I usually let my girlies know if I’ve had a timewaster or if someone’s been rude or obnoxious.
I don’t think guys on here realise it’s a small world and girls talk to each other "
Well said. I think a lot of men assume we're all in competition, we're all bitchy jealous hags who'd throw the next woman under a bus. When in fact there's a fantastic support network between women, and we look after our own! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think the ladies should inform each other of the no show guys, also the crazy ones...
I usually let my girlies know if I’ve had a timewaster or if someone’s been rude or obnoxious.
I don’t think guys on here realise it’s a small world and girls talk to each other "
feel free to let me know |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've just had to deal with a time waster already this morning. He changed his mind simply because I'm going to a group social. From what he said, he's feeling a wee bit put out! Lol x"
fgs lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Jeezo I don't know why people fo this seem madness I had a girl cancel on me twice even though we had a good social the week before "
at least she cancelled though lol its the ones that ghost or no show |
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"I've just had to deal with a time waster already this morning. He changed his mind simply because I'm going to a group social. From what he said, he's feeling a wee bit put out! Lol x fgs lol "
That's what I thought too lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've just had to deal with a time waster already this morning. He changed his mind simply because I'm going to a group social. From what he said, he's feeling a wee bit put out! Lol x fgs lol
That's what I thought too lol x"
Tut tut didn't you know he staked his claim when you agreed to meet, now you have no need, nor should you have any desire to meet anyone else, for any reason  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have been ghosted a couple of times ,it's annoying if you have travelled for meet but admin do nothing and thats more frustrating"
what could they actually do though?
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By *hoswhoCouple
over a year ago
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"Have been ghosted a couple of times ,it's annoying if you have travelled for meet but admin do nothing and thats more frustrating"
Yep us too! Very frustrating, especially when having taken yhe time to get ready for meeting |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've just had to deal with a time waster already this morning. He changed his mind simply because I'm going to a group social. From what he said, he's feeling a wee bit put out! Lol x fgs lol
That's what I thought too lol x
Tut tut didn't you know he staked his claim when you agreed to meet, now you have no need, nor should you have any desire to meet anyone else, for any reason "
I never agreed to meet him though. Men shouldn't assume, even if they do, that just because I'm chatting to him, that I'm going to meet him. We never had that conversation, the question of meeting never came up |
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"I've just had to deal with a time waster already this morning. He changed his mind simply because I'm going to a group social. From what he said, he's feeling a wee bit put out! Lol x fgs lol
That's what I thought too lol x
Tut tut didn't you know he staked his claim when you agreed to meet, now you have no need, nor should you have any desire to meet anyone else, for any reason
I never agreed to meet him though. Men shouldn't assume, even if they do, that just because I'm chatting to him, that I'm going to meet him. We never had that conversation, the question of meeting never came up "
Bloody hell that makes it all the worse  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've just had to deal with a time waster already this morning. He changed his mind simply because I'm going to a group social. From what he said, he's feeling a wee bit put out! Lol x fgs lol
That's what I thought too lol x
Tut tut didn't you know he staked his claim when you agreed to meet, now you have no need, nor should you have any desire to meet anyone else, for any reason
I never agreed to meet him though. Men shouldn't assume, even if they do, that just because I'm chatting to him, that I'm going to meet him. We never had that conversation, the question of meeting never came up
Bloody hell that makes it all the worse "
Lol I know x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Would never intentionally not turn up.
It’s extremely hard for single guys to
A) get a reply
B) earn the trust to get as far as a meet.
C) it’s bloody rude not too
I’ve been stood up/ghosted and lied to about meeting up. Is what it is. |
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"I think the ladies should inform each other of the no show guys, also the crazy ones... "
The ones i know do. So do the trans community, sometimes the Cis girls and the Tgirls share too
Theres no escape for the serial fakes and timewasters  |
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Ive had fingers burnt before.
Lessons learnt, if people dont pass certain criteria or convince me they're genuine i dont agree a meet.
Sadly newbies have ZERO chance no matter how good their pics and chat are, not verified by meeting or from a social?... its a big fat no. And cam veris mean fuck all, in fact if a profile has numerous cam veris but no meet veris, its an even bigger red flag that someone will be a noshow  |
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