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Another thread mentioned how us ladies dont meet each other or maybe dont have friends within the fab network. Putting out some feelers for how many people might want a female only social. Not necessarily for sex but just to be ladies that lunch and if it leads to dessert then fab and if not we'll all be an amazing bunch of women putting the world to rights |
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By *mmixtapeCouple
over a year ago
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Id be up for it if it was lgbtqia+ women who were actively looking to engage with other women. I wouldn't be interested unless everyone was on the same page, it's hard enough being a queer woman trying to navigate meeting other women who arent just looking for friends.
So it's a yes, depending on if the vibe is right. Is it just purely a social for any women on fab (straight women looking for friends included)? is it specifically just for queer women? are trans and non-binary women going to be accepted into part of the group? |
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over a year ago
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If I went to a ladies only social event I'd be expecting to spend the evening with ladies.
Their sexuality, political persuasion or football team of choice shouldn't really come into it. |
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"If I went to a ladies only social event I'd be expecting to spend the evening with ladies.
Their sexuality, political persuasion or football team of choice shouldn't really come into it."
It's in the Louden Tavern on Saturday night. Have fun! |
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"If I went to a ladies only social event I'd be expecting to spend the evening with ladies.
Their sexuality, political persuasion or football team of choice shouldn't really come into it.
It's in the Louden Tavern on Saturday night. Have fun! "
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"Id be up for it if it was lgbtqia+ women who were actively looking to engage with other women. I wouldn't be interested unless everyone was on the same page, it's hard enough being a queer woman trying to navigate meeting other women who arent just looking for friends.
So it's a yes, depending on if the vibe is right. Is it just purely a social for any women on fab (straight women looking for friends included)? is it specifically just for queer women? are trans and non-binary women going to be accepted into part of the group? "
I imagine it would be difficult to organize an event where everyone is on the same page as we all look for different things even if we have the same sexuality label.
The lunch would be good to meet people and may provide opportunities to take things further at a later date  |
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"Id be up for it if it was lgbtqia+ women who were actively looking to engage with other women. I wouldn't be interested unless everyone was on the same page, it's hard enough being a queer woman trying to navigate meeting other women who arent just looking for friends.
So it's a yes, depending on if the vibe is right. Is it just purely a social for any women on fab (straight women looking for friends included)? is it specifically just for queer women? are trans and non-binary women going to be accepted into part of the group? "
seriously how can a woman's only social become a only if everyone is on the same page question?
How can all woman ever be on the same page?
You either wanna attend to meet other women for a lunch or you don't.are you saying if other women ain't bi and looking to meet other chick's your not interested?the whole point of a social is just to interact with other fab member be that straight gay or whatever surely.
Why complicate things?
It's a social lunch.  |
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"Id be up for it if it was lgbtqia+ women who were actively looking to engage with other women. I wouldn't be interested unless everyone was on the same page, it's hard enough being a queer woman trying to navigate meeting other women who arent just looking for friends.
So it's a yes, depending on if the vibe is right. Is it just purely a social for any women on fab (straight women looking for friends included)? is it specifically just for queer women? are trans and non-binary women going to be accepted into part of the group? "
Correct me if I'm wrong, not sure if I'm reading this right. You don't want to come along if straight women are coming but want to make sure trans and non binary are included?
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By *4Fun11Woman
over a year ago
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"If I went to a ladies only social event I'd be expecting to spend the evening with ladies.
Their sexuality, political persuasion or football team of choice shouldn't really come into it."
^^^^ this ^^^^  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’d be up for it if it was a social purely. Not looking for a play opportunity!
This makes me sad
You’ll always be the only girl I’ve tampered with  "
You make the poor lassie sound like a dodgy lock on a garage door |
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"I’d be up for it if it was a social purely. Not looking for a play opportunity!
This makes me sad
You’ll always be the only girl I’ve tampered with "
What a way to out a girl |
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over a year ago
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"I’d be up for it if it was a social purely. Not looking for a play opportunity!
This makes me sad
You’ll always be the only girl I’ve tampered with
You make the poor lassie sound like a dodgy lock on a garage door "
Pretty much sums that night up… we’re you there too? |
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"I’d be up for it if it was a social purely. Not looking for a play opportunity!
This makes me sad
You’ll always be the only girl I’ve tampered with
You make the poor lassie sound like a dodgy lock on a garage door
Pretty much sums that night up… we’re you there too? "
See the auld guy in the raincoat who you thought was whisking an omelette....?
Well, that was me. Except I wasn't whisking an omelette  |
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"I’d be up for it if it was a social purely. Not looking for a play opportunity!
This makes me sad
You’ll always be the only girl I’ve tampered with
You make the poor lassie sound like a dodgy lock on a garage door
Pretty much sums that night up… we’re you there too?
See the auld guy in the raincoat who you thought was whisking an omelette....?
Well, that was me. Except I wasn't whisking an omelette "
I thought that was John  
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"I’d be up for it if it was a social purely. Not looking for a play opportunity!
This makes me sad
You’ll always be the only girl I’ve tampered with
You make the poor lassie sound like a dodgy lock on a garage door "
I think that was how I handled her |
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"I’d be up for it if it was a social purely. Not looking for a play opportunity!
This makes me sad
You’ll always be the only girl I’ve tampered with
You make the poor lassie sound like a dodgy lock on a garage door
Pretty much sums that night up… we’re you there too?
See the auld guy in the raincoat who you thought was whisking an omelette....?
Well, that was me. Except I wasn't whisking an omelette
I thought that was John
K"
That was one of the best/funniest nights ever. |
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By *mmixtapeCouple
over a year ago
middle earth |
"Id be up for it if it was lgbtqia+ women who were actively looking to engage with other women. I wouldn't be interested unless everyone was on the same page, it's hard enough being a queer woman trying to navigate meeting other women who arent just looking for friends.
So it's a yes, depending on if the vibe is right. Is it just purely a social for any women on fab (straight women looking for friends included)? is it specifically just for queer women? are trans and non-binary women going to be accepted into part of the group?
Correct me if I'm wrong, not sure if I'm reading this right. You don't want to come along if straight women are coming but want to make sure trans and non binary are included?
K"
Yup, it's more about the intention of the event, if it for making friends or for meeting women who are looking to meet other women for sex. It sounds bad but I don't really use fab to make friends.. as it's arranged with people on here it seems like a very valid question |
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"Id be up for it if it was lgbtqia+ women who were actively looking to engage with other women. I wouldn't be interested unless everyone was on the same page, it's hard enough being a queer woman trying to navigate meeting other women who arent just looking for friends.
So it's a yes, depending on if the vibe is right. Is it just purely a social for any women on fab (straight women looking for friends included)? is it specifically just for queer women? are trans and non-binary women going to be accepted into part of the group?
Correct me if I'm wrong, not sure if I'm reading this right. You don't want to come along if straight women are coming but want to make sure trans and non binary are included?
K
Yup, it's more about the intention of the event, if it for making friends or for meeting women who are looking to meet other women for sex. It sounds bad but I don't really use fab to make friends.. as it's arranged with people on here it seems like a very valid question "
I think the original post was quite clear it was to make friends and if anything further happened for the ladies that would be a wee bonus
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"Id be up for it if it was lgbtqia+ women who were actively looking to engage with other women. I wouldn't be interested unless everyone was on the same page, it's hard enough being a queer woman trying to navigate meeting other women who arent just looking for friends.
So it's a yes, depending on if the vibe is right. Is it just purely a social for any women on fab (straight women looking for friends included)? is it specifically just for queer women? are trans and non-binary women going to be accepted into part of the group?
Correct me if I'm wrong, not sure if I'm reading this right. You don't want to come along if straight women are coming but want to make sure trans and non binary are included?
K
Yup, it's more about the intention of the event, if it for making friends or for meeting women who are looking to meet other women for sex. It sounds bad but I don't really use fab to make friends.. as it's arranged with people on here it seems like a very valid question "
why not set up your own if that's what floats your boat?
There will probably be interest in it it's unfair to hijack another night to try to get what you want catered to
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
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A social get together just for women sounds like it could be a good laugh, but, from reading some of these replies, it already sounds like some people have quite different expectations as to what a 'social' means. |
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over a year ago
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"A social get together just for women sounds like it could be a good laugh, but, from reading some of these replies, it already sounds like some people have quite different expectations as to what a 'social' means. "
This |
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By *mmixtapeCouple
over a year ago
middle earth |
"Id be up for it if it was lgbtqia+ women who were actively looking to engage with other women. I wouldn't be interested unless everyone was on the same page, it's hard enough being a queer woman trying to navigate meeting other women who arent just looking for friends.
So it's a yes, depending on if the vibe is right. Is it just purely a social for any women on fab (straight women looking for friends included)? is it specifically just for queer women? are trans and non-binary women going to be accepted into part of the group?
Correct me if I'm wrong, not sure if I'm reading this right. You don't want to come along if straight women are coming but want to make sure trans and non binary are included?
K
Yup, it's more about the intention of the event, if it for making friends or for meeting women who are looking to meet other women for sex. It sounds bad but I don't really use fab to make friends.. as it's arranged with people on here it seems like a very valid question why not set up your own if that's what floats your boat?
There will probably be interest in it it's unfair to hijack another night to try to get what you want catered to
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I wasn't trying to hijack another night, I was asking questions to see if the event was something I would be interested in. I don't get why you're hijacking the thread |
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By *mmixtapeCouple
over a year ago
middle earth |
"A social get together just for women sounds like it could be a good laugh, but, from reading some of these replies, it already sounds like some people have quite different expectations as to what a 'social' means.
This "
Nope, was just asking the vibe. I feel like there's a pretty big difference between a general social and one where people are actively interested in each other. |
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"A social get together just for women sounds like it could be a good laugh, but, from reading some of these replies, it already sounds like some people have quite different expectations as to what a 'social' means.
This
Nope, was just asking the vibe. I feel like there's a pretty big difference between a general social and one where people are actively interested in each other."
With respect though, any social is organised as exactly that. There is always the possibility some will hit it off and play AFTER the social but the social itself is merely a get to know you situation. It’s much the same at parties etc too. However understand you seeking clarification if that concerns you in any way so that you know all that suits you |
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"A social get together just for women sounds like it could be a good laugh, but, from reading some of these replies, it already sounds like some people have quite different expectations as to what a 'social' means.
This
Nope, was just asking the vibe. I feel like there's a pretty big difference between a general social and one where people are actively interested in each other."
The op posted about a woman’s social after another fabber inquired about establishing some female friendships. I believed that meant it was inclusive for all women to attend with a view to meeting other fab ladies on a social basis. |
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By *4Fun11Woman
over a year ago
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"Nope, was just asking the vibe. I feel like there's a pretty big difference between a general social and one where people are actively interested in each other."
Heck I’m actively interested in half the ppl that go to socials (any social) doesn’t mean I’m only there for a shag!
I’m there to socially meet new ppl and if a shag comes from that later then great. |
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"Nope, was just asking the vibe. I feel like there's a pretty big difference between a general social and one where people are actively interested in each other.
Heck I’m actively interested in half the ppl that go to socials (any social) doesn’t mean I’m only there for a shag!
I’m there to socially meet new ppl and if a shag comes from that later then great. "
Met people I thought I'd fancy in person (after chatting virtually) and there was zero attraction.
Met people in person, who I assumed would not be my type, and found them attractive.
I'm far from a hardened swinger or Fabber for that matter. But I think any social event is best when there are no expectations. |
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By *andsCouple
over a year ago
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"Id be up for it if it was lgbtqia+ women who were actively looking to engage with other women. I wouldn't be interested unless everyone was on the same page, it's hard enough being a queer woman trying to navigate meeting other women who arent just looking for friends.
So it's a yes, depending on if the vibe is right. Is it just purely a social for any women on fab (straight women looking for friends included)? is it specifically just for queer women? are trans and non-binary women going to be accepted into part of the group? "
I think the OP was clear! Social and if anything happens afterwards (like every other social event I’ve attended over the years) that’s between you and them. |
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By *mmixtapeCouple
over a year ago
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"A social get together just for women sounds like it could be a good laugh, but, from reading some of these replies, it already sounds like some people have quite different expectations as to what a 'social' means.
This
Nope, was just asking the vibe. I feel like there's a pretty big difference between a general social and one where people are actively interested in each other.
The op posted about a woman’s social after another fabber inquired about establishing some female friendships. I believed that meant it was inclusive for all women to attend with a view to meeting other fab ladies on a social basis."
I didn't see the other post and havent attended a social before. Doesn't seem like I will be anytime soon since this is the reception to me asking basic questions. |
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"A social get together just for women sounds like it could be a good laugh, but, from reading some of these replies, it already sounds like some people have quite different expectations as to what a 'social' means.
This
Nope, was just asking the vibe. I feel like there's a pretty big difference between a general social and one where people are actively interested in each other.
The op posted about a woman’s social after another fabber inquired about establishing some female friendships. I believed that meant it was inclusive for all women to attend with a view to meeting other fab ladies on a social basis.
I didn't see the other post and havent attended a social before. Doesn't seem like I will be anytime soon since this is the reception to me asking basic questions. "
people are only pointing out what a social is to you .
As you've said uve never attended one.
I'm sure the host & everyone attending would make you feel more than welcome  |
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"A social get together just for women sounds like it could be a good laugh, but, from reading some of these replies, it already sounds like some people have quite different expectations as to what a 'social' means.
This
Nope, was just asking the vibe. I feel like there's a pretty big difference between a general social and one where people are actively interested in each other.
The op posted about a woman’s social after another fabber inquired about establishing some female friendships. I believed that meant it was inclusive for all women to attend with a view to meeting other fab ladies on a social basis.
I didn't see the other post and havent attended a social before. Doesn't seem like I will be anytime soon since this is the reception to me asking basic questions. "
The way I read your comments, your basic questions hinted at excluding straight women from a ladies social event. |
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"Spare a thought for us guys . Left out in the cold . Boo
You’re watching the weans so Mrs j can come! "
I expect good rates then . Time and a half past 11 pm |
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"Spare a thought for us guys . Left out in the cold . Boo
You’re watching the weans so Mrs j can come! I expect good rates then . Time and a half past 11 pm
You the father or the babysitter?"
I am the father but I’m missing out . I want paid lol |
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"Spare a thought for us guys . Left out in the cold . Boo
You’re watching the weans so Mrs j can come! I expect good rates then . Time and a half past 11 pm
You the father or the babysitter?"
I get quoted this same nonesense, bud. Just dip the weans piggy bank. |
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By *andsCouple
over a year ago
Edin |
"Spare a thought for us guys . Left out in the cold . Boo
You’re watching the weans so Mrs j can come! I expect good rates then . Time and a half past 11 pm
You the father or the babysitter? I am the father but I’m missing out . I want paid lol "
A can of vimto and a sherbet fountain is what I would pay  |
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"Spare a thought for us guys . Left out in the cold . Boo
You’re watching the weans so Mrs j can come! I expect good rates then . Time and a half past 11 pm
You the father or the babysitter? I am the father but I’m missing out . I want paid lol
A can of vimto and a sherbet fountain is what I would pay "
is that on me and ur social ? I’ll get mrs j to give me a tenner going out the door lol |
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"Spare a thought for us guys . Left out in the cold . Boo
You’re watching the weans so Mrs j can come! I expect good rates then . Time and a half past 11 pm
You the father or the babysitter? Already raided lol
I get quoted this same nonesense, bud. Just dip the weans piggy bank. "
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By *andsCouple
over a year ago
Edin |
"Spare a thought for us guys . Left out in the cold . Boo
You’re watching the weans so Mrs j can come! I expect good rates then . Time and a half past 11 pm
You the father or the babysitter? I am the father but I’m missing out . I want paid lol
A can of vimto and a sherbet fountain is what I would pay is that on me and ur social ? I’ll get mrs j to give me a tenner going out the door lol "
What can I say I’m a cheap date |
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"Spare a thought for us guys . Left out in the cold . Boo
You’re watching the weans so Mrs j can come! I expect good rates then . Time and a half past 11 pm
You the father or the babysitter? I am the father but I’m missing out . I want paid lol
A can of vimto and a sherbet fountain is what I would pay is that on me and ur social ? I’ll get mrs j to give me a tenner going out the door lol
What can I say I’m a cheap date "
haha ready when you are mrs t |
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"Spare a thought for us guys . Left out in the cold . Boo
It’s ok. Queen Nicola says we can self identify as what ever we like
AE we can all go
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Ooh...controversial |
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"Id be up for it if it was lgbtqia+ women who were actively looking to engage with other women. I wouldn't be interested unless everyone was on the same page, it's hard enough being a queer woman trying to navigate meeting other women who arent just looking for friends.
So it's a yes, depending on if the vibe is right. Is it just purely a social for any women on fab (straight women looking for friends included)? is it specifically just for queer women? are trans and non-binary women going to be accepted into part of the group?
Correct me if I'm wrong, not sure if I'm reading this right. You don't want to come along if straight women are coming but want to make sure trans and non binary are included?
K
Yup, it's more about the intention of the event, if it for making friends or for meeting women who are looking to meet other women for sex. It sounds bad but I don't really use fab to make friends.. as it's arranged with people on here it seems like a very valid question why not set up your own if that's what floats your boat?
There will probably be interest in it it's unfair to hijack another night to try to get what you want catered to
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My tuppence worth. The non-binary lgbtqi -whatever-bores want to hijack everything. |
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"Id be up for it if it was lgbtqia+ women who were actively looking to engage with other women. I wouldn't be interested unless everyone was on the same page, it's hard enough being a queer woman trying to navigate meeting other women who arent just looking for friends.
So it's a yes, depending on if the vibe is right. Is it just purely a social for any women on fab (straight women looking for friends included)? is it specifically just for queer women? are trans and non-binary women going to be accepted into part of the group?
Correct me if I'm wrong, not sure if I'm reading this right. You don't want to come along if straight women are coming but want to make sure trans and non binary are included?
K
Yup, it's more about the intention of the event, if it for making friends or for meeting women who are looking to meet other women for sex. It sounds bad but I don't really use fab to make friends.. as it's arranged with people on here it seems like a very valid question why not set up your own if that's what floats your boat?
There will probably be interest in it it's unfair to hijack another night to try to get what you want catered to
My tuppence worth. The non-binary lgbtqi -whatever-bores want to hijack everything. "
But would they hijack a bi-plane. |
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Certainly some as a couple we would be interested in (drink lunch socials , just posted about it)
But when Mrs is up , I shall certainly show her this thread x |
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"Another thread mentioned how us ladies dont meet each other or maybe dont have friends within the fab network. Putting out some feelers for how many people might want a female only social. Not necessarily for sex but just to be ladies that lunch and if it leads to dessert then fab and if not we'll all be an amazing bunch of women putting the world to rights"
You ladies should do it! I have a fab ladies social group and WhatsApp chat and it’s amazing!! It’s over 20 women. We have the best conversations and we throw our own parties (pick all the male attendees collectively) and also have regular vanilla social get togethers. It’s also a good space to find other ladies to go to events and parties with— so activity partners.
Women need to band together more here and support/ look out for eachother. The best thing about the group is exchanging notes and experiences about the men on here— giving eachother warnings about who is a predator or whatnot— especially since you can’t depend on fab moderators to hardly do anything.
Honestly the first step is as easy as staring a WhatsApp chat group— then go from there! My ladies and I are in the process of planning our Halloween party now. |
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By *4Fun11Woman
over a year ago
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"Is this happening?!
OP hasn’t commented on any of the posts.
Ok let’s take charge. We have a wee band of women friends already, we could expand it.
You pair taking this on?
K
Looks like it "
Gina’s on the case    |
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"Is this happening?!
OP hasn’t commented on any of the posts.
Ok let’s take charge. We have a wee band of women friends already, we could expand it.
You pair taking this on?
K
Looks like it
Gina’s on the case "
Awesome! |
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"Is this happening?!
OP hasn’t commented on any of the posts.
Ok let’s take charge. We have a wee band of women friends already, we could expand it.
You pair taking this on?
K
Looks like it
Gina’s on the case "
Hit me up for any help if you need it xx |
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"Is this happening?!
OP hasn’t commented on any of the posts.
Ok let’s take charge. We have a wee band of women friends already, we could expand it.
You pair taking this on?
K
Looks like it
Gina’s on the case
Hit me up for any help if you need it xx"
Drop us a line if you need a venue to host from folks, can also arrange female only staff if required. |
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