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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Absolutely not! That's a level of intimacy reserved for relationships"
That's what I thought... But I've found 2 friends (both women) who find a hand hold a massive turn on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would say hand holding is only for your partner or husband if you have one. However touching hands when getting "intimate" with a fellow fabber is very arousing x |
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"I would say hand holding is only for your partner or husband if you have one. However touching hands when getting "intimate" with a fellow fabber is very arousing x"
Aw yeah, like grabbing their hand as you cum... totally!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Does “hand holding” have any urban weird meaning… just checking, seen some damn odd things on here  "
hmmmm good question... If it does... That's not what was meant here lol |
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Personally I wouldn't worry to much. But again, it depends on how well you know this person and the circumstances. Walking around while hand holding would feel very strange. Sitting in a bar couch chatting and holding hands, I think less so, especially at at social with a couple. But again, location location location.
What I find totally normal and a bit a turn on is when a lady pulls you by the hand, like when there is her favourite song on and she pulls you out to dance |
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Actually, now that I think about it… I met someone for the first time quite recently who I felt I had got to know very well through internet chat alone.
When we eventually met face to face, we held hands while walking to our destination. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Actually, now that I think about it… I met someone for the first time quite recently who I felt I had got to know very well through internet chat alone.
When we eventually met face to face, we held hands while walking to our destination."
So cute |
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"Actually, now that I think about it… I met someone for the first time quite recently who I felt I had got to know very well through internet chat alone.
When we eventually met face to face, we held hands while walking to our destination.
So cute"
Isn’t it!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Actually, now that I think about it… I met someone for the first time quite recently who I felt I had got to know very well through internet chat alone.
When we eventually met face to face, we held hands while walking to our destination.
So cute
Isn’t it! "
Very much so  |
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Hand holding has zero to do with relationship status and everything to do with social conditioning.
Will never forget walking in India and seeing guys holding hands not because they were lovers or partners but because that's what friends in India do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hand holding has zero to do with relationship status and everything to do with social conditioning.
Will never forget walking in India and seeing guys holding hands not because they were lovers or partners but because that's what friends in India do. "
You don't half talk some guff lol.
Social conditioning lol
That's like saying neck kissing or French kissing is down to social conditioning. Total guff
Oh and in case you hadn't noticed, we ain't in India so your hand holding Indians have zero relativity to the OPS topic.
Op in my opinion hand holding is strictly for the meets your not emembarrassed to be seen with outside.
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"Hand holding has zero to do with relationship status and everything to do with social conditioning.
Will never forget walking in India and seeing guys holding hands not because they were lovers or partners but because that's what friends in India do.
You don't half talk some guff lol.
Social conditioning lol
That's like saying neck kissing or French kissing is down to social conditioning. Total guff
Oh and in case you hadn't noticed, we ain't in India so your hand holding Indians have zero relativity to the OPS topic.
Op in my opinion hand holding is strictly for the meets your not emembarrassed to be seen with outside.
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you really do show a lack of basic knowledge otherwise you would realise exactly what tripe you have just written.
Won't even bother trying to explain it to you would be akin to telling a slug how to fly a fighter plane
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I'm with Kola on the social conditioning aspect.
Looking at it objectively, i find it rather amusing that many see hand-holding as a level of intimacy reserved for their partner, but yeah, go on, put your tongue and penis in my mouth, lick my vulva - I'm all good with that. It's way less intimate than holding my hand. |
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"I'm with Kola on the social conditioning aspect.
Looking at it objectively, i find it rather amusing that many see hand-holding as a level of intimacy reserved for their partner, but yeah, go on, put your tongue and penis in my mouth, lick my vulva - I'm all good with that. It's way less intimate than holding my hand. "
Spot on  
It's the same with people who don't allow kissing but that's totally upto each individual as no one should do anything that makes them feel uncomfortable
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm with Kola on the social conditioning aspect.
Looking at it objectively, i find it rather amusing that many see hand-holding as a level of intimacy reserved for their partner, but yeah, go on, put your tongue and penis in my mouth, lick my vulva - I'm all good with that. It's way less intimate than holding my hand. Spot on
It's the same with people who don't allow kissing but that's totally upto each individual as no one should do anything that makes them feel uncomfortable
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For me personally, sex is animalistic, it doesn't have to hold any special meaning or emotional intimacy to it. I like to have particular things reserved for those I have an emotional connection with. It's being able to differentiate sex and love, much like sex workers do.
Sex is pleasure, affection such as hand holding is emotional.
That may be social conditioning but as an active swinger I prefer to keep boundaries between my sex life and my love life. |
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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago
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"I'm with Kola on the social conditioning aspect.
Looking at it objectively, i find it rather amusing that many see hand-holding as a level of intimacy reserved for their partner, but yeah, go on, put your tongue and penis in my mouth, lick my vulva - I'm all good with that. It's way less intimate than holding my hand. "
Lol, agree with this. On a first social meet it could mean that she feels really comfortable with you, going for a walk together and....... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Why over think it, we all have different views, hand holding is something I do with my kids, my late hubby, I don't hold hands with those I am swinging with, would seem odd me holding hands with a couple. However, I wouldn't knock someone else for doing it. Comparing to another culture is irrelevant, as all cultures have different views and no matter what one culture is doing, it dosent mean all cultures view in the same way. |
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