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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes we know they are but too many at what is supposed to be a couples club may spoil it.....not all of us ladies are bi or bi curious....just our thoughts on the subject.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Aside from me taking over it, my work in promotion has led to more single women expressing strong interest in coming along to our party on the 7th."
This is the first time we've ever posted on the forum, but your constant talking/promotion of the club is putting us off going! Are you sure the single woman you seem so desperate to attract to the club arnt for your own agenda?
Couples are the key to success for every club, and with roughly half the woman in the swinging lifestyle being Bi, I'm sure ther'll be ample opportunity for any woman as part of a couple to indulge in that side of things.
Only last month you were bemoaning the fact that single guys couldn't get in, now you seem quite smug with the fact that as youve 'takin over it' that you will probably be the only single guy in the club?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Aside from me taking over it, my work in promotion has led to more single women expressing strong interest in coming along to our party on the 7th.
This is the first time we've ever posted on the forum, but your constant talking/promotion of the club is putting us off going! Are you sure the single woman you seem so desperate to attract to the club arnt for your own agenda?
Couples are the key to success for every club, and with roughly half the woman in the swinging lifestyle being Bi, I'm sure ther'll be ample opportunity for any woman as part of a couple to indulge in that side of things.
Only last month you were bemoaning the fact that single guys couldn't get in, now you seem quite smug with the fact that as youve 'takin over it' that you will probably be the only single guy in the club??"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Aside from me taking over it, my work in promotion has led to more single women expressing strong interest in coming along to our party on the 7th.
This is the first time we've ever posted on the forum, but your constant talking/promotion of the club is putting us off going! Are you sure the single woman you seem so desperate to attract to the club arnt for your own agenda?
Couples are the key to success for every club, and with roughly half the woman in the swinging lifestyle being Bi, I'm sure ther'll be ample opportunity for any woman as part of a couple to indulge in that side of things.
Only last month you were bemoaning the fact that single guys couldn't get in, now you seem quite smug with the fact that as youve 'takin over it' that you will probably be the only single guy in the club??"
Here, here, well said.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We won't be at the club this month as we have something else on,
However why does it always have to be single females, its only fair that a few single men get in,
Why should the men always get a variety but not us straight women,
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By *__KMan
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
I would love to make it so that it is fair for everyone. However, I cannot think of a fair way to let in a limited number of single men.
I can't jack the price up for them, which despite deterring the more creepy ones, is generally unfair and legally sketchy (we could get done for prostitution). Personally inviting a select number of guys wouldn't work as, who would do the selecting and no guarantee that they'll be to anyone else's taste but the person who did the selecting. One thing I have in mind is that a couple can bring along a single guy, but I have no idea how popular that would be. And Before you bite my head off saying blah blah we want couples only blah blah, yes, I know there are some regulars who believe that the club should be strictly couples only, but there are other members and they have a voice too.
But seriously, if someone has a way to make entry fair to everyone, please, be my guest. Suggestions more than welcome. |
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LOL this club must be the most discriminatory club going, been to so many clubs esp down south and abroad.
Was in chat with the so called take over person and all the time he ranted on about the club being so good but in the next breath said it needed doing up so many things needing replaced and the owners would not do it up to a decent standard for swingers and then said he would put a bucket at the front door for the regulars to chip in and pay for the upgrade.
How can you call this a swinging club when it only opens once a month and don't allow single males in all other clubs ive been in allow a certain amount of single males ie esp the other two clubs in scotland open much more than this club
and to quote this (is generally unfair and legally sketchy (we could get done for prostitution). Jesus the other clubs have been letting in all kinds of gender for years whats so special about the aberdeen club.
Seems to be that the regulars want it all, their way or no way. The club likely doesn't make a profit, they run at a loss and anyway of trying to increase profitablity is an instant no no. Suggesting more nights and more cost when 1 night probably doesnt cost in is foolish
Just find the place cliquey and they seem to make the rules up as they go along. MMMMMMMM head ponders lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree it should be open more than once a month and let in single guys,
They could be charged £30 to get in if needs be,
Also why should the regulars pitch it, what would we get in return
We have been at another club that is u get stamped so many time ur nxt time is free, think we maybe going there a lot more often
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lol.. Prostitution?????? where is this kindergarten guff coming from? How on earth can you get done for prostitution... are all the ladies getting a share of the single mens entrance fee. lol
Time to get real and start looking towards what the members and supporters are looking for and not ones own private agenda.
If its going to be as popular as it was before then it has to cater for all and provide a warm and welcoming reception not (and i quote) a _iewing at a cattle mart.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It was suggested in the forum a couple of months ago that the club have different nights to cater for all......i.e. once a month couples only, every 2 or 3 months open to all -couples, singles (of either gender)and maybe even a fetish night every so often. Surely it can't be that hard to organise something along those lines. Speaking as the female of this couple I know I don't want to go to a club that has a few couples and a lot of single fems nor do I want it a few couples and lots of single guys.
It does say on the clubs website that it is a couples club....if it's not then time to update it..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know I know .... Let's all just be aggressive towards the person organising the club night and let them know they are rubbish ....
That'll fix things .....
And let's all organise our own party in Aberdeen and not attend the club because that'll get all the couples there and make it the night we all want ....
Personally I would like lots of well hung buffed single men who like T-girls and can go all night and the price for tgirl and female couples to be free ..... Make it happen tk or I will stomp my feet and tell you how you are a bad evil man with only your own selfish interest at heart !!!!!!
Kirsty
Of K&A
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There are at least some suggestions to consider amongst the bitterness above .... And from what I read suggestions are welcomed to make it a better place .... Help the young lad no need to scold him ..... Can't people be friendly .... Sigh!!!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We're not being aggressive nor horrible to T_K we are just giving our opinion for what its worth.
As for organising a party on a club night....it happens to be a birthday party not a "lets have our own party to see how many folk we can get away from the club" nor is it the birthday girls fault that her birthday is the same day as the club is on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can't jack the price up for them, which despite deterring the more creepy ones,
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Am sure even the 'creepy ones' have money too. Been creepy isnt just a poor mans thing.
"is generally unfair and legally sketchy (we could get done for prostitution). "
How exactly? Fems and males would be paying an admission fee to the club, not direct to the fems purses. Clubs all over the UK do this and arnt raided for prostitution.
Our limited experience of clubs would indicate that not that many guys or fems go anyway, it is mainly couples. Its a fair sized club, cant see any reason why it couldn't be open to all.
There have been threads on the other forums about pricing for males to clubs been unfair (often double, or more of couples fee's). I see it as supply and demand. Guys generally have a higher sex drive and are willing to pay more in admission fees to get into the club. A higher price limits those that can afford to come. Imagine charging a fiver entry, the whole of Aberdeen would be in there.
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By *__KMan
over a year ago
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I can't jack the price up for them, which despite deterring the more creepy ones,
Am sure even the 'creepy ones' have money too. Been creepy isnt just a poor mans thing.
is generally unfair and legally sketchy (we could get done for prostitution).
How exactly? Fems and males would be paying an admission fee to the club, not direct to the fems purses. Clubs all over the UK do this and arnt raided for prostitution.
Our limited experience of clubs would indicate that not that many guys or fems go anyway, it is mainly couples. Its a fair sized club, cant see any reason why it couldn't be open to all.
There have been threads on the other forums about pricing for males to clubs been unfair (often double, or more of couples fee's). I see it as supply and demand. Guys generally have a higher sex drive and are willing to pay more in admission fees to get into the club. A higher price limits those that can afford to come. Imagine charging a fiver entry, the whole of Aberdeen would be in there.
Steve"
Just going by what I been told by Rod. |
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By *rcplCouple
over a year ago
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well we were meant to be going to the club on saturday night but are now wondering if its going to a war zone as thats not going to be fun and not the reason we were going ... we believe in MAKE LOVE NOT WAR |
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By *__KMan
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"well we were meant to be going to the club on saturday night but are now wondering if its going to a war zone as thats not going to be fun and not the reason we were going ... we believe in MAKE LOVE NOT WAR "
Don't let this thread put you off, please. The club will always have a very warm and welcoming atmosphere for those who come along. Still looks like its going to be a good night, with plenty of fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always thought the idea of a club was to organise meets with your friends and swinging buddies...We must all remember the simple word...NO..if a single female or male tried to join in then just say no... |
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By *__KMan
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"I always thought the idea of a club was to organise meets with your friends and swinging buddies...We must all remember the simple word...NO..if a single female or male tried to join in then just say no..."
I concur, but I have been told that in the past, we did have an issue with single guys chasing and harassing anything with a fanny, which is why single guys got excluded in the first place, unless accompanied by a woman.
But I think we have gone WILDLY off topic here. The original posting was, Who is coming to the club this Saturday? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never bothered reading posts on the Aberdeen club due to knowing it was only couples,single females (with or with out partners) but i didnt know some wanted men on their own in as well .....i'd still get knocked back  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have a night only for single men ..... Let them get nekkid and run at each other penis in hand in a jousting battle .... The top ten get to come to the main club nights ....
K&A
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But only if they like tgirls ..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I always thought the idea of a club was to organise meets with your friends and swinging buddies...We must all remember the simple word...NO..if a single female or male tried to join in then just say no...
I concur, but I have been told that in the past, we did have an issue with single guys chasing and harassing anything with a fanny, which is why single guys got excluded in the first place, unless accompanied by a woman.
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I can't ever remember single guys harassing and chasing women at the Abz club?
Only time I was harassed was from a married guy who's wife preferred to get pissed at the bar or from a couple of married women who were so aggressively bi that they pushed their fannies into my face at the coffee table or would grab and poke at me without any by your leave.
The club used to have a great mix of couples, fems, lesbian couples and guys, it worked, we all got along all played or not but it wasn't exclusive to any one group which is what I think it's turning into. |
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By *__KMan
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"I can't ever remember single guys harassing and chasing women at the Abz club?
Only time I was harassed was from a married guy who's wife preferred to get pissed at the bar or from a couple of married women who were so aggressively bi that they pushed their fannies into my face at the coffee table or would grab and poke at me without any by your leave.
The club used to have a great mix of couples, fems, lesbian couples and guys, it worked, we all got along all played or not but it wasn't exclusive to any one group which is what I think it's turning into. "
It won't. I'm bringing in changes gradually to get it back to the popularity it was. I'm just getting slated for wanting to make changes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can't ever remember single guys harassing and chasing women at the Abz club?
Only time I was harassed was from a married guy who's wife preferred to get pissed at the bar or from a couple of married women who were so aggressively bi that they pushed their fannies into my face at the coffee table or would grab and poke at me without any by your leave.
The club used to have a great mix of couples, fems, lesbian couples and guys, it worked, we all got along all played or not but it wasn't exclusive to any one group which is what I think it's turning into.
It won't. I'm bringing in changes gradually to get it back to the popularity it was. I'm just getting slated for wanting to make changes."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are thinking about going but have a few moral questions we seek answers to first ...
Firstly are MM couples allowed in? ...
If not, why not? even if they shag on the doorstep and prove they are a couple?
Do lesbian couples get charged £25 or £20 as with two single females?
If they are charged £25 I think you are sending out the wrong single to society that it is better not to be in a committed relationship and play around rather than be in a committed relationship and play around ... perhaps Mr Cameron has a point ...
If they are charged £20 ... then do Annie and I qualify as a lesbian couple?
If not ... why not?
Is it cause Annie's balls are too big?
If not, is it cause Kirsty's tits are too small?
Kirsty is weighing up the difference between saving a fiver on admittance fee over the next twenty years against the price of implants so feedback would be appreciated.
If neither is it always about the penis?
If so does that mean the smaller the penis the cheaper the admittance fee?
Can we expect an influx of small penis men and women in the future .... ?
Can we wear flipflops this time ....
We felt we had been to the beach ... not because we got sand in our cracks, but due to the crabs we found in our knickers when we got home.
K@A
xxx xxx
btw is the full body cavity search a requirement on each vist or just the first?
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By *__KMan
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"We are thinking about going but have a few moral questions we seek answers to first ..."
Ok, fire away.
"Firstly are MM couples allowed in? ...
If not, why not? even if they shag on the doorstep and prove they are a couple?"
We have a daytime club for MM couples. We've not yet gotten round to sorting out details concerning bi MM couples who want to play with MF couples, FF couples or single women. We're working on it.
"Do lesbian couples get charged £25 or £20 as with two single females?"
We had a lesbian couple come a few months back, not sure how they were charged, I'll find out.
"If they are charged £20 ... then do Annie and I qualify as a lesbian couple?"
Sadly not
"If not ... why not?"
You class as a TV/F couple
"Is it cause Annie's balls are too big?"
Could have something to do with it.
"If not, is it cause Kirsty's tits are too small?"
Nothing wrong with smaller boobs. Easier to play with than watermellon sized ones.
"Kirsty is weighing up the difference between saving a fiver on admittance fee over the next twenty years against the price of implants so feedback would be appreciated."
Always nice to see a shrewd customer.
"If neither is it always about the penis?"
Could have something to do with it.
"If so does that mean the smaller the penis the cheaper the admittance fee?"
Its not the size of the penis, its how you use it.
"Can we expect an influx of small penis men and women in the future .... ?"
I think some of the other customers would agree in saying "god I hope not".
"Can we wear flipflops this time ...."
Sure, why not
"We felt we had been to the beach ... not because we got sand in our cracks, but due to the crabs we found in our knickers when we got home."
I'd advise you not to play with seafood in that manner.
"btw is the full body cavity search a requirement on each vist or just the first? "
More something I like to do to certain people who I know like having fingers in every orifice. Usually they're the ones who come with a bag of whips.
Hope this answers some of your questions.
TK xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just to make a couple of points clear.
1: we are not getting at any individual or the club as we have had many a good fun night there over the past 5 years.
2: As said previously in this thread the party is a birthday party for a dear friend and NONE of the people coming to the party were even thinking of going to the club this weekend.
Besides that, its everyones god given right to do what they want, when and where in the fun side of life.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I HAVE ALWAYS BEEN INTRIGUED BUT FOR SOME REASON ALWAYS HAD A FEELING IT WAS SOMETHING HOLDING ME BACK..... THINK MY CAUTION APPEARS TO BE WELL FOUNDED ... CERTAINLY READING SOME OF THE COMMENTS WOULD BE OFF PUTTING ..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We are thinking about going but have a few moral questions we seek answers to first ...
Ok, fire away.
Firstly are MM couples allowed in? ...
If not, why not? even if they shag on the doorstep and prove they are a couple?
We have a daytime club for MM couples. We've not yet gotten round to sorting out details concerning bi MM couples who want to play with MF couples, FF couples or single women. We're working on it.
Do lesbian couples get charged £25 or £20 as with two single females?
We had a lesbian couple come a few months back, not sure how they were charged, I'll find out.
If they are charged £20 ... then do Annie and I qualify as a lesbian couple?
Sadly not
If not ... why not?
You class as a TV/F couple
Is it cause Annie's balls are too big?
Could have something to do with it.
If not, is it cause Kirsty's tits are too small?
Nothing wrong with smaller boobs. Easier to play with than watermellon sized
ones.
So women with smaller boobs are better?think back a couple of months plz tk,mr dlt
Kirsty is weighing up the difference between saving a fiver on admittance fee over the next twenty years against the price of implants so feedback would be appreciated.
Always nice to see a shrewd customer.
If neither is it always about the penis?
Could have something to do with it.
If so does that mean the smaller the penis the cheaper the admittance fee?
Its not the size of the penis, its how you use it.
Can we expect an influx of small penis men and women in the future .... ?
I think some of the other customers would agree in saying "god I hope not".
Can we wear flipflops this time ....
Sure, why not
We felt we had been to the beach ... not because we got sand in our cracks, but due to the crabs we found in our knickers when we got home.
I'd advise you not to play with seafood in that manner.
btw is the full body cavity search a requirement on each vist or just the first?
More something I like to do to certain people who I know like having fingers in every orifice. Usually they're the ones who come with a bag of whips.
Hope this answers some of your questions.
TK xx"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its all a bit like the church....
The regulars dont like change....dont like moving forward...like it to stay the way it is because they feel it works....same seats....etc etc.....
sometimes change is for the good....a progression....trial and error to get the right recipe.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its all a bit like the church....
The regulars dont like change....dont like moving forward...like it to stay the way it is because they feel it works....same seats....etc etc.....
sometimes change is for the good....a progression....trial and error to get the right recipe...."
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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speaking in general terms and not specific to any club.
I agree with Jo but I also think these types of threads don't help any club. People see that only a few answer and assume that the club/event may be quiet and use that as a basis for a decision not to go.
When people post, their profiles are looked at and if others find that they may like to play with them, contact may be made and drink arrangements formalised. Some will try and lead them to their home with an intent to play there. In itself nothing wrong with that but that will cost the club a potential customer.
The same happens in chat on the day, people will sit asking if anyone is going to such and such with the intent of getting them to their home and saving entrance. ( not all do, but some )
With clubs, it is staggering how many people call on the night and ask 'is it busy'.... you pay your money, you take your chances......
I appreciate it could work in the establishment's favour when it is busy.... but in these tough times, most clubs are struggling getting their numbers in.
and people above have mentioned they may not go as a result of this thread.
There will also be very few true regulars, most dip and dip out over the years.
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By *__KMan
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
It was actually not too bad a night. I know back in March someone organised a party which resulted in a very poor turn out, but even with 2 organised parties this month, still had a decent turnout. |
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"o gosh.....wonder what sort of night it was.....i know mine was very wet....now now, dirty minds, i was waiting for a bus in torrential rain at 3 am on my way to sunny barcelona"
You had my mind thinking all sorts H! Most jealous, love Barcelona! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just back from Barcelona- definitely one of the best cities in the world! Good food, good drink, loads of culture, sunshine and beautiful people! Amazing! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It was actually not too bad a night. I know back in March someone organised a party which resulted in a very poor turn out, but even with 2 organised parties this month, still had a decent turnout."
Thats great to hear. As we have all said all the way along this thread, each to ones own and the 21 people at the party had no intentions of going to the club on that evening anyhow.
So there is room in the fab world for both parties and club nights.
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Just thought I would throw my tuppence worth in for all it's worth! T_K, with all due respect, given the fact you have been attending the swingers club only for a short time in comparison to the years a lot of us including myself have been going, you have wiggled your way into apparently taking over the club which is not true at all. Suss the lay of the land first, see how next couple of months go, have a suggestions box in club instead of having threads that put bad light on club and put people off club and ends up a volatile thread.
Like I said only my tuppence worth! Xx |
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Why not do the following:
- Greedy Girls Night : Those ladies who want alot of guys at the same time get to have their pick of the single guys (keeps greedy girls happy, single men may get their fill depending on the female in question).
-TV Admirers Night : Invite TV girls/guys along and the girls/guys who love them
-Ladies Night and Cuckold Special : Ladies play only, men are allowed to watch (satisfies any ladies craving for a bit of bi-fun, plus their lucky cuck hubbies get a great _iew)
Plus your regular nights.
This would mean that everybody who wants something different gets a chance. People who don't want to be surrounded by guys, don't go on gangbang night. People who don't want to play with other women, don't go on ladies night.
Variety will give you the best results, and keep everybody happy! |
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over a year ago
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"Great idea !!! Greasy girl nights in Glasgow are a big hit and the ladies love them !!"
Is that where they all roll around in chip fat together ?
Kirsty
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Well we have been a couple of times now and the first time we were asked to pay for a membership, which we did but still as yet not recieved this, so unsure as to wether we are actually members or not!
All this carry on about single guys, simples, like other clubs, have noghts where they are allowed and nights when not! |
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"Well we have been a couple of times now and the first time we were asked to pay for a membership, which we did but still as yet not recieved this, so unsure as to wether we are actually members or not!
All this carry on about single guys, simples, like other clubs, have noghts where they are allowed and nights when not!"
you will get your membership card next time you are there |
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"I hate to be a party pooper, but speak to Rod and hazel about this."
Just seen you replied. I only said what i did as i saw this on the club section.
'Great news I will be back at the Club running things!
Let's get the Club going again!' |
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I need my bed i think! 