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over a year ago
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and many here will find that a ridiculous concept, why do you think they come here, why don't they achieve success or do they? I can think of several who never achieve it and i think the reason is communication, they communicate with many so can't achieve the one, oh and is this internet domain as good a place as any to find a partner?    |
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"Nothing is impossible down to timing I suppose lol"
it is, life is like a bowl of cherries you put 33 in but only one tastes sweet but then a month later 35 and they all taste just right  |
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"and many here will find that a ridiculous concept, why do you think they come here, why don't they achieve success or do they? I can think of several who never achieve it and i think the reason is communication, they communicate with many so can't achieve the one, oh and is this internet domain as good a place as any to find a partner? "
I'm seeking the one on here.
I joined here 6 years ago with that hope.
I wouldn't say it's just females seeking the one or a relationship on here.
Am I optimistic and believe I can sure why not I'm more a glass half full kinda guy anyway and I'm always expectant of being lucky.
You may say 6 years is a long time but it's a pinch considering I wont just shag date or even kiss just anything with a heartbeat. Lol
So I believe this site is as good a place as any to find her well yes why not but it does depend on what you seek and why you seek them.
You could argue that you could find them on any other site or no site at a but what holds a relationship together us a mutual understanding of morality and values and goals and desires both sexual and practical.
If you feel you can find that alignment here with someone then here is good as is elsewhere.
There are however many females here that come here for sex but then are on other dating sites solely to meet a guy for a relationship and they wont ever date a man from here they say.
So every female every male and every fluid gender will I presume have their own take and their own self imposed limitations filters and rules as to why they can or cannot date on here.
My reasons for being here is not one for the forum as I choose to only share that with any female that gets to the point of fulfilling the basic requirements I seek.
Did that help at all mate? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"and many here will find that a ridiculous concept, why do you think they come here, why don't they achieve success or do they? I can think of several who never achieve it and i think the reason is communication, they communicate with many so can't achieve the one, oh and is this internet domain as good a place as any to find a partner?
I'm seeking the one on here.
I joined here 6 years ago with that hope.
I wouldn't say it's just females seeking the one or a relationship on here.
Am I optimistic and believe I can sure why not I'm more a glass half full kinda guy anyway and I'm always expectant of being lucky.
You may say 6 years is a long time but it's a pinch considering I wont just shag date or even kiss just anything with a heartbeat. Lol
So I believe this site is as good a place as any to find her well yes why not but it does depend on what you seek and why you seek them.
You could argue that you could find them on any other site or no site at a but what holds a relationship together us a mutual understanding of morality and values and goals and desires both sexual and practical.
If you feel you can find that alignment here with someone then here is good as is elsewhere.
There are however many females here that come here for sex but then are on other dating sites solely to meet a guy for a relationship and they wont ever date a man from here they say.
So every female every male and every fluid gender will I presume have their own take and their own self imposed limitations filters and rules as to why they can or cannot date on here.
My reasons for being here is not one for the forum as I choose to only share that with any female that gets to the point of fulfilling the basic requirements I seek.
Did that help at all mate?"
i understand your take on it and i agree keep your reasons to yourself, in fact keep most things you do here to yourself |
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"Theres so many ranges of dating on here from just nsa dating one or a few, all the way up to love and the 'ONE' who turns into a real life couple and even marriage...
omg you'll scare him  "
Not me  cheeky x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"and many here will find that a ridiculous concept, why do you think they come here, why don't they achieve success or do they? I can think of several who never achieve it and i think the reason is communication, they communicate with many so can't achieve the one, oh and is this internet domain as good a place as any to find a partner? "
Lots do but most just get taken advantage of by someone they wouldn’t usually meet. Your reasoning makes sense, overwhelm themselves to an extent...difficult to generalise when everyone is so individual in their needs.
I wouldn’t say Fab is a good place to find a partner, too many sluts here |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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I’m not here for a relationship. Not now. Too many people here have their fingers in too many pies. I don’t want a man whi’s chatting to me and 25 (or more!) other women. Hedging his bets as to which one will a) have him b) is sexually right for him and c) is the most attractive.
I like to feel special from the get go, that they think i’m the gal for them and no other woman will do. You don’t get that on here (and i get the reasons why).
I’m not competing with other women for a guy who is led by his dick and not his heart. I have trust issues as is.
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"I’m not here for a relationship. Not now. Too many people here have their fingers in too many pies. I don’t want a man whi’s chatting to me and 25 (or more!) other women. Hedging his bets as to which one will a) have him b) is sexually right for him and c) is the most attractive.
I like to feel special from the get go, that they think i’m the gal for them and no other woman will do. You don’t get that on here (and i get the reasons why).
I’m not competing with other women for a guy who is led by his dick and not his heart. I have trust issues as is.
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exactly so many lead dicks |
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"I’m not here for a relationship. Not now. Too many people here have their fingers in too many pies. I don’t want a man whi’s chatting to me and 25 (or more!) other women. Hedging his bets as to which one will a) have him b) is sexually right for him and c) is the most attractive.
I like to feel special from the get go, that they think i’m the gal for them and no other woman will do. You don’t get that on here (and i get the reasons why).
I’m not competing with other women for a guy who is led by his dick and not his heart. I have trust issues as is.
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You clearly have issues but appreciate your candid response and being able to share it with us all.
Rest assured no man here will seek you for a relationship so it's all good 
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Your question isn't too open op. If people find someone who shares important aspects of their interests, it removes any potential awkwardness if meeting elsewhere. Having a lot of choice doesn't mean it's fast either. |
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"and many here will find that a ridiculous concept, why do you think they come here, why don't they achieve success or do they? I can think of several who never achieve it and i think the reason is communication, they communicate with many so can't achieve the one, oh and is this internet domain as good a place as any to find a partner?
Lots do but most just get taken advantage of by someone they wouldn’t usually meet. Your reasoning makes sense, overwhelm themselves to an extent...difficult to generalise when everyone is so individual in their needs.
I wouldn’t say Fab is a good place to find a partner, too many sluts here controversial
Someone will be along shortly no doubt to defend the sluts  "
Yes a slut haha |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
South Wales |
"I’m not here for a relationship. Not now. Too many people here have their fingers in too many pies. I don’t want a man whi’s chatting to me and 25 (or more!) other women. Hedging his bets as to which one will a) have him b) is sexually right for him and c) is the most attractive.
I like to feel special from the get go, that they think i’m the gal for them and no other woman will do. You don’t get that on here (and i get the reasons why).
I’m not competing with other women for a guy who is led by his dick and not his heart. I have trust issues as is.
You clearly have issues but appreciate your candid response and being able to share it with us all.
Rest assured no man here will seek you for a relationship so it's all good
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Well after that response i don’t think many women will seek you out for a relationship either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Theres so many ranges of dating on here from just nsa dating one or a few, all the way up to love and the 'ONE' who turns into a real life couple and even marriage...
omg you'll scare him
Not me cheeky x"
I’m not scarey |
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"I’m not here for a relationship. Not now. Too many people here have their fingers in too many pies. I don’t want a man whi’s chatting to me and 25 (or more!) other women. Hedging his bets as to which one will a) have him b) is sexually right for him and c) is the most attractive.
I like to feel special from the get go, that they think i’m the gal for them and no other woman will do. You don’t get that on here (and i get the reasons why).
I’m not competing with other women for a guy who is led by his dick and not his heart. I have trust issues as is.
You clearly have issues but appreciate your candid response and being able to share it with us all.
Rest assured no man here will seek you for a relationship so it's all good
Well after that response i don’t think many women will seek you out for a relationship either. "
That response exhibited confidence and candid response to your response. I'm sure women here that have a mind of their own and dont follow a herd mentality will.
I was simply being observant and yes now I believe you do have issues with men indeed. That's based on your own honesty nothing else. I do wish you well though. |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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"I’m not here for a relationship. Not now. Too many people here have their fingers in too many pies. I don’t want a man whi’s chatting to me and 25 (or more!) other women. Hedging his bets as to which one will a) have him b) is sexually right for him and c) is the most attractive.
I like to feel special from the get go, that they think i’m the gal for them and no other woman will do. You don’t get that on here (and i get the reasons why).
I’m not competing with other women for a guy who is led by his dick and not his heart. I have trust issues as is.
You clearly have issues but appreciate your candid response and being able to share it with us all.
Rest assured no man here will seek you for a relationship so it's all good
Well after that response i don’t think many women will seek you out for a relationship either.
That response exhibited confidence and candid response to your response. I'm sure women here that have a mind of their own and dont follow a herd mentality will.
I was simply being observant and yes now I believe you do have issues with men indeed. That's based on your own honesty nothing else. I do wish you well though. "
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Since I joined I have seen many friends meet, start a relationship, get engaged and even marry people they have met on here, pretty sure that wasn't their intentions when they joined though. Why shouldn't fab find you a soul mate, it's often full of like minded people so it's as good as any other. |
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"I’m not here for a relationship. Not now. Too many people here have their fingers in too many pies. I don’t want a man whi’s chatting to me and 25 (or more!) other women. Hedging his bets as to which one will a) have him b) is sexually right for him and c) is the most attractive.
I like to feel special from the get go, that they think i’m the gal for them and no other woman will do. You don’t get that on here (and i get the reasons why).
I’m not competing with other women for a guy who is led by his dick and not his heart. I have trust issues as is.
You clearly have issues but appreciate your candid response and being able to share it with us all.
Rest assured no man here will seek you for a relationship so it's all good
Well after that response i don’t think many women will seek you out for a relationship either. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Since I joined I have seen many friends meet, start a relationship, get engaged and even marry people they have met on here, pretty sure that wasn't their intentions when they joined though. Why shouldn't fab find you a soul mate, it's often full of like minded people so it's as good as any other."
but surely to say we are all like minded people is to say all people are like minded |
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"Since I joined I have seen many friends meet, start a relationship, get engaged and even marry people they have met on here, pretty sure that wasn't their intentions when they joined though. Why shouldn't fab find you a soul mate, it's often full of like minded people so it's as good as any other.but surely to say we are all like minded people is to say all people are like minded "
I never said all |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Since I joined I have seen many friends meet, start a relationship, get engaged and even marry people they have met on here, pretty sure that wasn't their intentions when they joined though. Why shouldn't fab find you a soul mate, it's often full of like minded people so it's as good as any other.but surely to say we are all like minded people is to say all people are like minded
I never said all"
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By *osie xWoman
over a year ago
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I’m after a fwb which, on the spectrum, is closer to a relationship than one offs I guess. I’m also never gonna say never to a relationship if one formed.
At least here if one did develop I don’t have to have the ‘we need a quick chat about the possibility of swinging’ talk.
I think even with a partner this is part of my life now. |
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"and many here will find that a ridiculous concept, why do you think they come here, why don't they achieve success or do they? I can think of several who never achieve it and i think the reason is communication, they communicate with many so can't achieve the one, oh and is this internet domain as good a place as any to find a partner?
Lots do but most just get taken advantage of by someone they wouldn’t usually meet. Your reasoning makes sense, overwhelm themselves to an extent...difficult to generalise when everyone is so individual in their needs.
I wouldn’t say Fab is a good place to find a partner, too many sluts here "
Go on, I'll bite. What do you define as a slut? And why would that mean "a slut" can't be a partner?
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"and many here will find that a ridiculous concept, why do you think they come here, why don't they achieve success or do they? I can think of several who never achieve it and i think the reason is communication, they communicate with many so can't achieve the one, oh and is this internet domain as good a place as any to find a partner?
Lots do but most just get taken advantage of by someone they wouldn’t usually meet. Your reasoning makes sense, overwhelm themselves to an extent...difficult to generalise when everyone is so individual in their needs.
I wouldn’t say Fab is a good place to find a partner, too many sluts here
Go on, I'll bite. What do you define as a slut? And why would that mean "a slut" can't be a partner?
Mrs TMN "
Amazing profile pic!
Please continue with the discussion dont mind me lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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There are a few men that manipulate that too ... just pointing it out.
Does it matter what women are looking for?
Fuck knows why I’m still on here after so long, but I am.
I never thought I’d ever want a relationship again, but recently my mindset has changed and I’m not totally against it now.
Love and let live |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"There are a few men that manipulate that too ... just pointing it out.
Does it matter what women are looking for?
Fuck knows why I’m still on here after so long, but I am.
I never thought I’d ever want a relationship again, but recently my mindset has changed and I’m not totally against it now.
Love and let live "
can i manipulate you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Some people naturally think the grass is always greener... Some people are happy with their patch.. Some people like to returf.. Some people like to reseed + nurture |
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"Some people naturally think the grass is always greener... Some people are happy with their patch.. Some people like to returf.. Some people like to reseed + nurture"
and you like to come out at night |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There are a few men that manipulate that too ... just pointing it out.
Does it matter what women are looking for?
Fuck knows why I’m still on here after so long, but I am.
I never thought I’d ever want a relationship again, but recently my mindset has changed and I’m not totally against it now.
Love and let live can i manipulate you "
No
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"There are a few men that manipulate that too ... just pointing it out.
Does it matter what women are looking for?
Fuck knows why I’m still on here after so long, but I am.
I never thought I’d ever want a relationship again, but recently my mindset has changed and I’m not totally against it now.
Love and let live can i manipulate you
No
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By (user no longer on site)
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When people have done what they came here to do, many realise they would rather just have one person to share with. I don't find that an odd or unfeasible concept. You have to make sure the journey here is fully over though and you have reached maximum jadedness with the whole thrill of the new or you will keep being pulled back, and then you need to find that other that is in the same place as you and you can meet and sparks can fly and you can live the dream, whatever that dream is for you
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"Some people naturally think the grass is always greener... Some people are happy with their patch.. Some people like to returf.. Some people like to reseed + nurtureand you like to come out at night "
My grass is fake  |
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"Some people naturally think the grass is always greener... Some people are happy with their patch.. Some people like to returf.. Some people like to reseed + nurtureand you like to come out at night
My grass is fake "
I want to see now |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Theres so many ranges of dating on here from just nsa dating one or a few, all the way up to love and the 'ONE' who turns into a real life couple and even marriage...
omg you'll scare him
Not me cheeky x
I’m not scarey "
She reaally isn't. Slightly crazy in a most endearing way, but not scary.. |
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"I’m after a fwb which, on the spectrum, is closer to a relationship than one offs I guess. I’m also never gonna say never to a relationship if one formed.
At least here if one did develop I don’t have to have the ‘we need a quick chat about the possibility of swinging’ talk.
I think even with a partner this is part of my life now. "
The swinging talk chat is interesting. I know a couple that met on here that have never had that chat. There’s a bit of an awkward silence about their Fab past and possible Fab future. |
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"When people have done what they came here to do, many realise they would rather just have one person to share with. I don't find that an odd or unfeasible concept. You have to make sure the journey here is fully over though and you have reached maximum jadedness with the whole thrill of the new or you will keep being pulled back, and then you need to find that other that is in the same place as you and you can meet and sparks can fly and you can live the dream, whatever that dream is for you
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I like this. All about timing. |
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I was absolutely adamant I was not going to meet anyone and develop a relationship on here, I joined purely for nsa sex. Then I met Inked and everything changed. I fell for him and haven’t looked back. That was over two years ago! Some will want a relationship and be successful, some won’t, and then if they’re like me, they’ll unexpectedly fall in love. It’s as unpredictable as getting a meet, haha x
Viv xx |
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"I was absolutely adamant I was not going to meet anyone and develop a relationship on here, I joined purely for nsa sex. Then I met Inked and everything changed. I fell for him and haven’t looked back. That was over two years ago! Some will want a relationship and be successful, some won’t, and then if they’re like me, they’ll unexpectedly fall in love. It’s as unpredictable as getting a meet, haha x
Viv xx
Absolutely brilliant piece ... now THATS what l'm talking about "
Thank you, and luckily we’re both into women so it’s a fab relationship, haha
Viv xx |
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"I was absolutely adamant I was not going to meet anyone and develop a relationship on here, I joined purely for nsa sex. Then I met Inked and everything changed. I fell for him and haven’t looked back. That was over two years ago! Some will want a relationship and be successful, some won’t, and then if they’re like me, they’ll unexpectedly fall in love. It’s as unpredictable as getting a meet, haha x
Viv xx
Absolutely brilliant piece ... now THATS what l'm talking about
Thank you, and luckily we’re both into women so it’s a fab relationship, haha
Viv xx"
No Seriously, everything you said is absolutely spot on...it's breathtakingly Brilliant |
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"I was absolutely adamant I was not going to meet anyone and develop a relationship on here, I joined purely for nsa sex. Then I met Inked and everything changed. I fell for him and haven’t looked back. That was over two years ago! Some will want a relationship and be successful, some won’t, and then if they’re like me, they’ll unexpectedly fall in love. It’s as unpredictable as getting a meet, haha x
Viv xx
Absolutely brilliant piece ... now THATS what l'm talking about
Thank you, and luckily we’re both into women so it’s a fab relationship, haha
Viv xx
No Seriously, everything you said is absolutely spot on...it's breathtakingly Brilliant "
Thank you x Viv x |
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"I was absolutely adamant I was not going to meet anyone and develop a relationship on here, I joined purely for nsa sex. Then I met Inked and everything changed. I fell for him and haven’t looked back. That was over two years ago! Some will want a relationship and be successful, some won’t, and then if they’re like me, they’ll unexpectedly fall in love. It’s as unpredictable as getting a meet, haha x
Viv xx
Absolutely brilliant piece ... now THATS what l'm talking about
Thank you, and luckily we’re both into women so it’s a fab relationship, haha
Viv xx
No Seriously, everything you said is absolutely spot on...it's breathtakingly Brilliant
Thank you x Viv x"
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"I’m not here for a relationship. Not now. Too many people here have their fingers in too many pies. I don’t want a man whi’s chatting to me and 25 (or more!) other women. Hedging his bets as to which one will a) have him b) is sexually right for him and c) is the most attractive.
I like to feel special from the get go, that they think i’m the gal for them and no other woman will do. You don’t get that on here (and i get the reasons why).
I’m not competing with other women for a guy who is led by his dick and not his heart. I have trust issues as is.
You clearly have issues but appreciate your candid response and being able to share it with us all.
Rest assured no man here will seek you for a relationship so it's all good
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Wtf, why such a nasty response? |
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By *osie xWoman
over a year ago
wolverhampton |
"I’m after a fwb which, on the spectrum, is closer to a relationship than one offs I guess. I’m also never gonna say never to a relationship if one formed.
At least here if one did develop I don’t have to have the ‘we need a quick chat about the possibility of swinging’ talk.
I think even with a partner this is part of my life now.
The swinging talk chat is interesting. I know a couple that met on here that have never had that chat. There’s a bit of an awkward silence about their Fab past and possible Fab future. "
But at least they know there is a past. Half the hurdle is done |
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