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Sexting....I’m either not very good or it’s just not for me.
I think certain chats can get the juices flowing but I’m not one to actually get off from it.
Is it something men enjoy more than women?? |
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"Sexting....I’m either not very good or it’s just not for me.
I think certain chats can get the juices flowing but I’m not one to actually get off from it.
Is it something men enjoy more than women?? "
I'm with you, it doesn't do anything for me at all. |
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"Sexting....I’m either not very good or it’s just not for me.
I think certain chats can get the juices flowing but I’m not one to actually get off from it.
Is it something men enjoy more than women?? "
Hmmm. Used to think the same but I really do believe it depends on the person you’re chatting with. |
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"Sexting....I’m either not very good or it’s just not for me.
I think certain chats can get the juices flowing but I’m not one to actually get off from it.
Is it something men enjoy more than women??
Hmmm. Used to think the same but I really do believe it depends on the person you’re chatting with."
Nice to know that you’ve had good experiences of it |
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"Sexting....I’m either not very good or it’s just not for me.
I think certain chats can get the juices flowing but I’m not one to actually get off from it.
Is it something men enjoy more than women?? "
i don’t enjoy it personally I've been asked to do it in the past and that person enjoyed how i talked to her but i got very little out of it    |
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I like a good flirty chat as much as anyone but sexting doesn’t do much for me. Just gets me going to the point I’ll waste my load in my hand and not be interested in chatting anymore. The dirty talks better in person Where words can manifest into physical fun |
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"Sexting....I’m either not very good or it’s just not for me.
I think certain chats can get the juices flowing but I’m not one to actually get off from it.
Is it something men enjoy more than women?? i don’t enjoy it personally I've been asked to do it in the past and that person enjoyed how i talked to her but i got very little out of it "
So it was more for her pleasure  you must be good with your words |
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"I like a good flirty chat as much as anyone but sexting doesn’t do much for me. Just gets me going to the point I’ll waste my load in my hand and not be interested in chatting anymore. The dirty talks better in person Where words can manifest into physical fun "
No definitely this is someone who could be a potential meet but lots going on in both of our life’s to put it into real play |
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"Sexting....I’m either not very good or it’s just not for me.
I think certain chats can get the juices flowing but I’m not one to actually get off from it.
Is it something men enjoy more than women??
Hmmm. Used to think the same but I really do believe it depends on the person you’re chatting with.
Nice to know that you’ve had good experiences of it "
Honestly? I don’t know if it’s good. I’m usually more of a meet and lust after person. |
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"I enjoy it with someone I already have a connection with. I think it all depends on the person too. Some chats are naturally flirty and sexy, other times it feels forced x"
I think flirty chats are different from sexting.
Flirty chats can be fun and it’s a build up to meeting but I don’t actually get off from it.
My wand needs no words to help me get off. Lol |
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"Sexting....I’m either not very good or it’s just not for me.
I think certain chats can get the juices flowing but I’m not one to actually get off from it.
Is it something men enjoy more than women?? "
With the right person it's great, and be a good build up to your next meet. |
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"I get stupidly shy face to face..I can be really filthy in messages though!! "
I’m very similar, been told I have quite a slick tongue, then when I meet them I go all shy and they think I’m not the same person I was chatting with  |
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"Sexting....I’m either not very good or it’s just not for me.
I think certain chats can get the juices flowing but I’m not one to actually get off from it.
Is it something men enjoy more than women??
Hmmm. Used to think the same but I really do believe it depends on the person you’re chatting with.
Nice to know that you’ve had good experiences of it
Honestly? I don’t know if it’s good. I’m usually more of a meet and lust after person. "
Yep my kind of person. |
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I've got involved in sexting before. It's more of a giggle than anything else but I've had girls tell me their wet from reading it. They're maybe pulling my leg? Also been told I could write erotic novels too?! |
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"I get stupidly shy face to face..I can be really filthy in messages though!!
I’m very similar, been told I have quite a slick tongue, then when I meet them I go all shy and they think I’m not the same person I was chatting with "
I think in person you should let the body do the talking |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The text should really only serve to stimulate the other person's imagination. If you WANT to imagine what you're going to do with each other when you're together then they can be a good prompt and can be very erotic. Although that said, I've got a mind like a sewer anyway and it doesn't take much! |
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With someone on my page, really switched on, who actively listens and responds, it can be an incredible tool for anticipating real life sex. But it’s quite rare to find that, otherwise it’s just constant nagging for photos at inopportune times ::awkward:: |
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"My conversations may on occasion take a flirtatious route with sexual undertone or innuendo but rarely explicit sex talk.
I like it like that. "
It’s natural for me. Just as likely to happen in face to face conversation as in text. I can’t do forced dirty talk. Sometimes it slips out involuntarily though  |
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"I get stupidly shy face to face..I can be really filthy in messages though!! "
Same here. I love sexting. My experience is that it’s mostly men that want to do it with me. Come to think of it, it’s mostly men that want sex with me too. |
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"I've got involved in sexting before. It's more of a giggle than anything else but I've had girls tell me their wet from reading it. They're maybe pulling my leg? Also been told I could write erotic novels too?!"
I might need to hear from you Mr Bants.
It can get you’re juices flowing but that’s about it |
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"I've got involved in sexting before. It's more of a giggle than anything else but I've had girls tell me their wet from reading it. They're maybe pulling my leg? Also been told I could write erotic novels too?!
I might need to hear from you Mr Bants.
It can get you’re juices flowing but that’s about it "
Go team Bants! |
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"With someone on my page, really switched on, who actively listens and responds, it can be an incredible tool for anticipating real life sex. But it’s quite rare to find that, otherwise it’s just constant nagging for photos at inopportune times ::awkward::"
I totally agree, when that connection is there It does mentally stimulate you to what’s coming for you lol
But to actually want to do it just to get off doesn’t do it |
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"I fucking love it!"
I can be so good at it. But only if I am the one to initiate! Nothing worse than being asked or told to talk dirty or "send pics". I'm the kind that will lift up my skirt in the toilet and send u a sneaky pussy shot when you're at work...but if I'm asked to send it pissed me off!
I know, women eh??  |
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Both my past fwb were into it before we actually met. Possibly it gave an insight into compatibility? I had never done it before then. They used to get very worked up and much of our chats got acted out when we met.. |
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I think it depends on the situation. If it's something that happens naturally in the flow of the conversation it can be a bit of a turn on but it's not something I would set out to do with someone I don't have a connection with. |
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"I fucking love it!
I can be so good at it. But only if I am the one to initiate! Nothing worse than being asked or told to talk dirty or "send pics". I'm the kind that will lift up my skirt in the toilet and send u a sneaky pussy shot when you're at work...but if I'm asked to send it pissed me off!
I know, women eh?? "
Hahahha this is so me, I hate being asked to do something. Surely it means more without having to ask |
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If it’s done right then it can be really stimulating, I’ve been told that I’ve had a Couple of ladies wet and even given one an orgasm through reading it, maybe she was pulling my leg but I like to do it with the right person |
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"If it’s done right then it can be really stimulating, I’ve been told that I’ve had a Couple of ladies wet and even given one an orgasm through reading it, maybe she was pulling my leg but I like to do it with the right person "
I think if the woman is ok and wanting it, it’s all good |
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"If it’s done right then it can be really stimulating, I’ve been told that I’ve had a Couple of ladies wet and even given one an orgasm through reading it, maybe she was pulling my leg but I like to do it with the right person
I think if the woman is ok and wanting it, it’s all good "
Absolutely, it has to be welcomed and to achieve the mental stimulation |
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"Seems more normal in younger fabbers
Like yourself??
I don’t know whether to class myself as young or old now lol"
Yes, I suppose like myself. Go with however you feel. But younger fabbers might be more inclined. for example snapchat etc etc |
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"Seems more normal in younger fabbers
Like yourself??
I don’t know whether to class myself as young or old now lol
Yes, I suppose like myself. Go with however you feel. But younger fabbers might be more inclined. for example snapchat etc etc "
As long as you’re both into it. |
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"Seems more normal in younger fabbers
Like yourself??
I don’t know whether to class myself as young or old now lol
Yes, I suppose like myself. Go with however you feel. But younger fabbers might be more inclined. for example snapchat etc etc
As long as you’re both into it. "
Well that’s how it works. |
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"Sexting....I’m either not very good or it’s just not for me.
I think certain chats can get the juices flowing but I’m not one to actually get off from it.
Is it something men enjoy more than women?? "
Fun in a new relationship . But if I’m honest I soon run out of things to say. |
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I enjoy it! Me and the mr sext often it’s just the very first forplay. We get these scenarios in our head and build each other up then by the time we get home we’re aching for each other. Sexting here, not so much. It usually is enough for them and then they don’t meet you so your left frustrated or the other way they get obsessed with you and try to cross boundaries. I don’t sext mr’s I’ve met either as I think it’s be disrespectful. Sexting a couple you met can be fun but it’s never anything more than pre forplay and gets you into a plan of what you want to do to them. Don’t think I fall into the younger category but I enjoy it |
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By *urvy10Woman
over a year ago
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"Sexting....I’m either not very good or it’s just not for me.
I think certain chats can get the juices flowing but I’m not one to actually get off from it.
Is it something men enjoy more than women?? "
I love sexting, it really gets me going and I love being teased during work ready for some fun later on! |
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Not into sexting at all ..it does absolutely nothing for me !!! especially when a guy I’ve not met asks to send a video or pic of me doing something naughty ..instant put off and I end the convo ..on the other hand if it’s a guy I have met then he will get spur of the moment sex txts ,videos and pics without asking all the time  |
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"I've got involved in sexting before. It's more of a giggle than anything else but I've had girls tell me their wet from reading it. They're maybe pulling my leg? Also been told I could write erotic novels too?!
I might need to hear from you Mr Bants.
It can get you’re juices flowing but that’s about it "
Anytime gorgeous!  |
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It's not something I indulge in with everyone but when it works, it works and when the other person gets into your mind it can be amazing foreplay or more and can even be the precursor to meeting. |
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I've done it in the past with some very horny results but it has to be with someone who is happy to do it. I've tried it with some that have been very unresponsive and that's a complete waste of time. When it does well and both parties get really horny then is great. |
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"It's not something I indulge in with everyone but when it works, it works and when the other person gets into your mind it can be amazing foreplay or more and can even be the precursor to meeting. "
This.... it builds up the anticipation and passion for a future meet |
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"I find it really boring...Reality over sexting for me....Nothing will come close to touch and feel "
Any chance of a nice chat about galvanised zinc aluminium window frames. How does that float your boat. |
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"I find it really boring...Reality over sexting for me....Nothing will come close to touch and feel
Any chance of a nice chat about galvanised zinc aluminium window frames. How does that float your boat. "
Lol now I'm going to sleep  x |
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"If its with the right person at the right time it can be great and I really enjoy it.
I've had some conversations that just make me cringe though!
Lol enlighten us "
I find really good descriptions sexy. I like being told what they want to do to me, and I like telling them what I'll do to them.
'I want to pound you until I cum' is one example of what not to write |
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"Sexting....I’m either not very good or it’s just not for me.
I think certain chats can get the juices flowing but I’m not one to actually get off from it.
Is it something men enjoy more than women?? "
You don't need to sext lady ..a picture paints a 1000 words ...yours ?....10000 !!! |
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"I've got involved in sexting before. It's more of a giggle than anything else but I've had girls tell me their wet from reading it. They're maybe pulling my leg? Also been told I could write erotic novels too?!
I might need to hear from you Mr Bants.
It can get you’re juices flowing but that’s about it
Go team Bants!"
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By *eliWoman
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I really like it. Throw in a few audios and the odd video for good measure, I'd quite happily do anything they asked. I think it's because I love erotica and the powerful evocation that arousing wordplay can inspire - sexting when done skilfully and I'm in the right mood is a personalised, live, responsive piece of erotica.
I love reading that the other person is aroused, thinking about me (because who doesn't love a good ego stroke) and wanting to talk to me about it. I don't think I'm particularly adept at it but I'm not dire at it. Sometimes I struggle to keep a momentum going because one handed typing is not my forte but I have fun with it and that's why I love it. |
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I don’t really tend to do much sexual chat before I’ve met the person because you might not even be speaking to the person in the pictures.
If you 100% know who you’re speaking to cos you’ve video chatted or seen many videos of them and pictures and you have no doubt then a bit of sexy chat can take place.
It’s after you’ve had sex that sexting is better cos you know what they feel like and taste like and everything else. |
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It's so hit or miss. With some people I absolutely love it and it just flows but with others it can totally awkward. It's not even to do with how much I fancy them, just sometimes clicks for sexting and sometimes not. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
When it happens naturally and just flows with someone that's on the same wavelength and you almost anticipate what they are going to say, and build a mutual picture in your head, it can be quite heady and intense, and definitely stimulating.
When it feels forced, or is one sided, it's quite the opposite |
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As a first message absolutely not. Can’t stand guys that write that they’re going to do this and that with me and make me scream.
Once I’ve met someone and we know what we shag like then sexting is better.
I love feedback so if a guy wants to tell me how nice I feel and that he can’t wait to put his umbrella back in my stand, I’m all over that. Also when I know what the guys bum hole tastes like it makes it so much easier to talk about later in texts. |
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"When it happens naturally and just flows with someone that's on the same wavelength and you almost anticipate what they are going to say, and build a mutual picture in your head, it can be quite heady and intense, and definitely stimulating.
When it feels forced, or is one sided, it's quite the opposite"
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"I fucking love it!
I can be so good at it. But only if I am the one to initiate! Nothing worse than being asked or told to talk dirty or "send pics". I'm the kind that will lift up my skirt in the toilet and send u a sneaky pussy shot when you're at work...but if I'm asked to send it pissed me off!
I know, women eh?? "
Totally!! |
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"I fucking love it!
I can be so good at it. But only if I am the one to initiate! Nothing worse than being asked or told to talk dirty or "send pics". I'm the kind that will lift up my skirt in the toilet and send u a sneaky pussy shot when you're at work...but if I'm asked to send it pissed me off!
I know, women eh??
Hahahha this is so me, I hate being asked to do something. Surely it means more without having to ask"
It does mean more.
I quite enjoy sexting with the right person. But it’s as much if not more about the mental connection and being on the same page in how the story evolves, than the physical description. |
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It's interesting really. People can be aroused by pictures, but not by actual communication. I think making the connection is the important thing, and the rest just flows naturally in my experience. Of course it helps having a creative mind, and I never actually texted, but conversed in real time through a messaging board on a forum. You can learn a lot about a person and their fantasies and desires. It wasn't until I came on here that I became wary because it might actually be another bloke! |
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"Sexting....I’m either not very good or it’s just not for me.
I think certain chats can get the juices flowing but I’m not one to actually get off from it.
Is it something men enjoy more than women?? "
It’s a fine art of not crossing the vulgar/crude line... not many men are capable of sexting without it being either |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"Well what can I say, with some people it's like trying to dance the Tango with one built up shoe, while some people ( you know who you are...) have the skills "
The perfect analogy
It's when you get a response and think "hang on a sec that's not physically possible" based on what went before - never fails to crack me up |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"Sexting....I’m either not very good or it’s just not for me.
I think certain chats can get the juices flowing but I’m not one to actually get off from it.
Is it something men enjoy more than women??
It’s a fine art of not crossing the vulgar/crude line... not many men are capable of sexting without it being either"
Agree DC it's a dance and an artform, sensuality with words, creating a visual image that teases and tantalises rather than "Insert Fig A into Fig B" |
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It depends on who is sexting. My fwb and I have it down to a fine and very sexy art, but I think it helps that we know how to push each other's buttons in real life, as well as virtually. It's not so easy with someone met from here unless you know them a bit. |
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