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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

In today’s day n age shouldn’t we all take a little bit of care and pride of our pubes? Personally seeing pubes au naturale is horrid!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Don't worry...I won't shove them in your face

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Don't worry...I won't shove them in your face "

From what I see you’re trim n tidy

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Think it's personal choice tbh ...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Don't worry...I won't shove them in your face

From what I see you’re trim n tidy"

You're not looking closely enough

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It depends on the person.

On a woman it turns my stomach and I'm always clean shaven, but love a really hairy guy.

F.

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By *.nottsbloke..Man  over a year ago

the vale

I love a full bush

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"It depends on the person.

On a woman it turns my stomach and I'm always clean shaven, but love a really hairy guy.

F."

Your man looks neat n trimmed

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I love a full bush"

You look neat and trimmed

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By *urvyandCurious999Woman  over a year ago

Hiding from twats


"In today’s day n age shouldn’t we all take a little bit of care and pride of our pubes? Personally seeing pubes au naturale is horrid!"

What's horrid about the natural human form? Nobody would think twice about pubes if it wasn't for porn creating these social expectations

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By *a LunaWoman  over a year ago

South Wales

I take care and pride in my full on hairy natural bush.

I love it

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By *reya73Woman  over a year ago

Whitley Bay


"In today’s day n age shouldn’t we all take a little bit of care and pride of our pubes? Personally seeing pubes au naturale is horrid!"

Being down on our natural state is tiring in this day and age. People should do what they please with their body without fear of judgement x

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By *moothdickMan  over a year ago

stoke


"In today’s day n age shouldn’t we all take a little bit of care and pride of our pubes? Personally seeing pubes au naturale is horrid!

Being down on our natural state is tiring in this day and age. People should do what they please with their body without fear of judgement x "

I look after mine like a royal gardener

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan  over a year ago

Northampton

Saw an old pic of mine with pubes, I much prefer without

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By *uck-RogersMan  over a year ago

Tarka trail

I can't say that the hairy muff fashion is going to put me out of business. As I shave them for free.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

In the same way we all take pride in our appearance (each of us with our own style and preference), I would think this should stretch to our pubes when these are being offered and on display.

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By *.nottsbloke..Man  over a year ago

the vale


"I take care and pride in my full on hairy natural bush.

I love it "

Me to

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By *mcouple2Couple  over a year ago

Warrington

Eeeww. Dont like pubes especially face pubes.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS  over a year ago

Central

I like them and often dislike men who are fully shaved, it doesn't appeal.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Eeeww. Dont like pubes especially face pubes. "

Or pubes all over your face ha ha

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By *a LunaWoman  over a year ago

South Wales

These threads always make great filters. The way some childishly react to body hair, which is a natural phenomenon, always surprises me.

Thank fuck those that message me are a bit more worldly.

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By *reya73Woman  over a year ago

Whitley Bay


"These threads always make great filters. The way some childishly react to body hair, which is a natural phenomenon, always surprises me.

Thank fuck those that message me are a bit more worldly.

"

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By *obbychickWoman  over a year ago

Essex


"In today’s day n age shouldn’t we all take a little bit of care and pride of our pubes? Personally seeing pubes au naturale is horrid!"

OMG I totally agree. It’s so off putting for me anyways

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Definitely a mixed bag of opinions. Which makes us all the unique individuals we are

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By *dam1971Man  over a year ago

Bedford


"In today’s day n age shouldn’t we all take a little bit of care and pride of our pubes? Personally seeing pubes au naturale is horrid!

Being down on our natural state is tiring in this day and age. People should do what they please with their body without fear of judgement x "

I was going to write something but this says it better. Can we pretend I wrote it? Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"In today’s day n age shouldn’t we all take a little bit of care and pride of our pubes? Personally seeing pubes au naturale is horrid!

Being down on our natural state is tiring in this day and age. People should do what they please with their body without fear of judgement x

I was going to write something but this says it better. Can we pretend I wrote it? Thanks "

Unfortunately our appearance is always a subject of judgement!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I love to dive head first in a wet hairy vagina. Love the feeling.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"These threads always make great filters. The way some childishly react to body hair, which is a natural phenomenon, always surprises me.

Thank fuck those that message me are a bit more worldly.

"

In a way I agree, each to their own and I'm actually a fan of individuality and non conformity, but doesn't the filter stance make you the same as them in that you're judging ppl for judging you, purely based on WHAT THEY THINK OF PUBES rather than what they think of you as a person or what their more important views in life are....?

Not having a go I promise, just trying to stem the usual them and us argument and allow ppl to think, pause, ignore or reply to a simple thread innit, but who am I....?

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By *mcouple2Couple  over a year ago

Warrington


"These threads always make great filters. The way some childishly react to body hair, which is a natural phenomenon, always surprises me.

Thank fuck those that message me are a bit more worldly.

"

Why is it childish ?

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By *sm265Woman  over a year ago

Shangri-la


"In today’s day n age shouldn’t we all take a little bit of care and pride of our pubes? Personally seeing pubes au naturale is horrid!

Being down on our natural state is tiring in this day and age. People should do what they please with their body without fear of judgement x

I was going to write something but this says it better. Can we pretend I wrote it? Thanks

Unfortunately our appearance is always a subject of judgement!"

So therefore you feel justified in perpetuating the problem?

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By *sm265Woman  over a year ago

Shangri-la

I once met a guy who tried to dictate how I should have my public hair. I pointed out that it was none of his business what I choose to do with my body. I didn't meet him again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"In today’s day n age shouldn’t we all take a little bit of care and pride of our pubes? Personally seeing pubes au naturale is horrid!

Being down on our natural state is tiring in this day and age. People should do what they please with their body without fear of judgement x

I was going to write something but this says it better. Can we pretend I wrote it? Thanks

Unfortunately our appearance is always a subject of judgement!

So therefore you feel justified in perpetuating the problem? "

Yes i do! I defy anyone who does not judge (good or bad btw) on others appearance! Bear in mind compliments are a form of judgement too!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I once met a guy who tried to dictate how I should have my public hair. I pointed out that it was none of his business what I choose to do with my body. I didn't meet him again.

"

Quite right he’s out of order. By all means have a preference, but that’s where it stops!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I once met a guy who tried to dictate how I should have my public hair. I pointed out that it was none of his business what I choose to do with my body. I didn't meet him again.

"

i went into the bush once god i was in there for days

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By *uriousscouserWoman  over a year ago

Wirral

Sometimes I'm bald as a billiard ball, sometimes trimmed, sometimes bristly, sometimes full-on 1970s massive bush with more hair in my knickers than on my head.

Depends on my mood, but it's ultimately my choice, and in exactly the same way I wouldn't dictate to a man what he ought to do with his pubes, I wouldn't let him dictate to me either.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Sometimes I'm bald as a billiard ball, sometimes trimmed, sometimes bristly, sometimes full-on 1970s massive bush with more hair in my knickers than on my head.

Depends on my mood, but it's ultimately my choice, and in exactly the same way I wouldn't dictate to a man what he ought to do with his pubes, I wouldn't let him dictate to me either."

youre a grower then

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By *a LunaWoman  over a year ago

South Wales


"These threads always make great filters. The way some childishly react to body hair, which is a natural phenomenon, always surprises me.

Thank fuck those that message me are a bit more worldly.

Why is it childish ? "

Because a reply of “ewwwwww” on a thread about something we all have (although some get rid of) is, in my opinion, childish.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"These threads always make great filters. The way some childishly react to body hair, which is a natural phenomenon, always surprises me.

Thank fuck those that message me are a bit more worldly.

Why is it childish ?

Because a reply of “ewwwwww” on a thread about something we all have (although some get rid of) is, in my opinion, childish.

"

hey lovely you are a bush lover are you not fancy coming on safari with me

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By * and R cple4Couple  over a year ago

swansea


"These threads always make great filters. The way some childishly react to body hair, which is a natural phenomenon, always surprises me.

Thank fuck those that message me are a bit more worldly.

Why is it childish ?

Because a reply of “ewwwwww” on a thread about something we all have (although some get rid of) is, in my opinion, childish.

"

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By *a Fee VerteWoman  over a year ago

Limbo

Why oh why do so many *still* assume if someone chooses to retain their pubes in a manner they don't find appealing (which is fine) that by default the person(s) concerned can't possibly be taking care of, or pride in, their appearance?

I'm 'natural' almost always because my skin's very sensitive and the alternative is, for me, a time consuming chore I can't usually be arsed with that usually ends in an unattractive and/or painful skin rash, nasty ingrown hairs or cuts. Now *that's* 'horrid' and it wreaks havoc on my self esteem!

People style/alter myriad aspects of their appearance in all sorts of different ways - from the hair on their head, to tattoos and piercings, to bodybuilding, cosmetic surgery or even their clothing and makeup choices. Obviously we all have personal preferences and may be turned off by some of them. Doesn't mean they're not taking care of themselves though. To start this thread off by saying 'in this day and age...' isn't simply an observation about different pube preferences but an implied criticism towards people (and it's women who get most stick about it usually) who have the temerity to keep a full on bush, as if there's 'no excuse' to do so and they're somehow being lazy or letting the side down!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I wont suck cock if unruly pubes, if to many pubes I will simply not suck

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By *nlyIfItsWorthItMan  over a year ago

Newcastle

Natural and proud.

No shame here and I don't get complaints either.

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By *nlyIfItsWorthItMan  over a year ago

Newcastle

Body shaming anyone has no place in an open and respectful society.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm sorry i don't believe anyone who says they wouldn't get intimate with someone they fancy and have got to know because when they got intimate they discovered hair its the same premise as the size of a mans cock its about the person first and the other things fall into place

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Its up to the individual, no one should dictate which is acceptable or not.

Personally, i really dont mind either way. Respect what the other person feels comfortable in i say

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

This thread is an eye opener

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By *ugby 123Couple  over a year ago
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It is funny how this forum changes on a daily basis....one day it is a preference the next it is body shaming. Does this mean people who meets others don't check any of their appearance when going on a meet and just turn up and say "don't body shame me and fuck me anyway even if something is turning you off "

To the OP, I like a man hairy but tidy pubes, I like to have tidy pubes too...just like I like my nails done

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By *mcouple2Couple  over a year ago

Warrington


"These threads always make great filters. The way some childishly react to body hair, which is a natural phenomenon, always surprises me.

Thank fuck those that message me are a bit more worldly.

Why is it childish ?

Because a reply of “ewwwwww” on a thread about something we all have (although some get rid of) is, in my opinion, childish.

"

if the subject matter was something else would you still class the eeewww as childish ?

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By *nlyIfItsWorthItMan  over a year ago

Newcastle

Personal preference is obviously expressed in a different way to body shaming. It's all in the way that it's done.

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By *ugby 123Couple  over a year ago
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"Personal preference is obviously expressed in a different way to body shaming. It's all in the way that it's done.

"

We can't decide how people speak the same way as we can't decide whether they have a full bush or not

I am beginning to think that the world is going to be a fluffy wuffy place with no real substance if people keep getting shot down for having a view

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By *lanemikeMan  over a year ago

Bolton


"In today’s day n age shouldn’t we all take a little bit of care and pride of our pubes? Personally seeing pubes au naturale is horrid!

What's horrid about the natural human form? Nobody would think twice about pubes if it wasn't for porn creating these social expectations "

100% agree !! "Industrial" porn, as opposed to amateur porn, has a lot to answer for. Amateur portrays real people. Brings to mind the old New of the World masthead "All human life is here" or words to that effect..!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Don't worry...I won't shove them in your face "

Spoilsport

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By *lanemikeMan  over a year ago

Bolton


"I'm sorry i don't believe anyone who says they wouldn't get intimate with someone they fancy and have got to know because when they got intimate they discovered hair its the same premise as the size of a mans cock its about the person first and the other things fall into place "

Agree !! If you fancy each other, matters progress naturally !! For me personality and sex appeal every time !!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Pubes of any sort arent really attractive to look at IMO

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"In today’s day n age shouldn’t we all take a little bit of care and pride of our pubes? Personally seeing pubes au naturale is horrid!"

It's all down to personal choice, OP and a full on bush/smooth or groomed area does NOT define a person.

My preference is, nether regions groomed or shaved. However, if I really fancied the bloke and there was a connection, a full bush wouldn't put me off him . Incidentally mines changes on whether I have time/can be bothered or on mood.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Each to their own,personally I prefer shaved A

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Each to their own,personally I prefer shaved A"

I personally shaved, it feels nicer on the tongue

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm sorry i don't believe anyone who says they wouldn't get intimate with someone they fancy and have got to know because when they got intimate they discovered hair its the same premise as the size of a mans cock its about the person first and the other things fall into place

Agree !! If you fancy each other, matters progress naturally !! For me personality and sex appeal every time !!"

yes this

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By *mcouple2Couple  over a year ago

Warrington


"Personal preference is obviously expressed in a different way to body shaming. It's all in the way that it's done.

We can't decide how people speak the same way as we can't decide whether they have a full bush or not

I am beginning to think that the world is going to be a fluffy wuffy place with no real substance if people keep getting shot down for having a view"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Nicely trimmed just how I like them

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By *a Fee VerteWoman  over a year ago

Limbo


"Personal preference is obviously expressed in a different way to body shaming. It's all in the way that it's done.

We can't decide how people speak the same way as we can't decide whether they have a full bush or not

I am beginning to think that the world is going to be a fluffy wuffy place with no real substance if people keep getting shot down for having a view"

Really?

So expressing a preference by putting down those who don't match that preference with unnecessarily negative terms such as 'vile', 'yuck', 'revolting', 'disgusting', 'ewwww', or 'foul' - all of which I've regularly seen on threads about pubic hair is okay because it prevents the world becoming a 'fluffy wuffy place'?

By all means have a preference but surely you can own it in a positive way without resorting to childish or body shaming remarks?

There are many who only find slimmer people attractive for example. Would it therefore be acceptable for them to express that preference in the forums by referring to larger people as 'vile'? After all we can't decide how people speak

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 06/03/20 09:32:43]

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Nicely trimmed just how I like them"
sunny in torquay

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Personal preference is obviously expressed in a different way to body shaming. It's all in the way that it's done.

We can't decide how people speak the same way as we can't decide whether they have a full bush or not

I am beginning to think that the world is going to be a fluffy wuffy place with no real substance if people keep getting shot down for having a view "

Agree A

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By *lanemikeMan  over a year ago

Bolton


"Really?

So expressing a preference by putting down those who don't match that preference with unnecessarily negative terms such as 'vile', 'yuck', 'revolting', 'disgusting', 'ewwww', or 'foul' - all of which I've regularly seen on threads about pubic hair is okay because it prevents the world becoming a 'fluffy wuffy place'?

By all means have a preference but surely you can own it in a positive way without resorting to childish or body shaming remarks?

There are many who only find slimmer people attractive for example. Would it therefore be acceptable for them to express that preference in the forums by referring to larger people as 'vile'? After all we can't decide how people speak "

Tolerance and a "live and let live" attitude seems to be in an ever growing short supply.

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By *mcouple2Couple  over a year ago

Warrington


"Personal preference is obviously expressed in a different way to body shaming. It's all in the way that it's done.

We can't decide how people speak the same way as we can't decide whether they have a full bush or not

I am beginning to think that the world is going to be a fluffy wuffy place with no real substance if people keep getting shot down for having a view

Really?

So expressing a preference by putting down those who don't match that preference with unnecessarily negative terms such as 'vile', 'yuck', 'revolting', 'disgusting', 'ewwww', or 'foul' - all of which I've regularly seen on threads about pubic hair is okay because it prevents the world becoming a 'fluffy wuffy place'?

By all means have a preference but surely you can own it in a positive way without resorting to childish or body shaming remarks?

There are many who only find slimmer people attractive for example. Would it therefore be acceptable for them to express that preference in the forums by referring to larger people as 'vile'? After all we can't decide how people speak "

Googling Woke and PC courses available near me. Bye x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Personal preference is obviously expressed in a different way to body shaming. It's all in the way that it's done.

We can't decide how people speak the same way as we can't decide whether they have a full bush or not

I am beginning to think that the world is going to be a fluffy wuffy place with no real substance if people keep getting shot down for having a view

Really?

So expressing a preference by putting down those who don't match that preference with unnecessarily negative terms such as 'vile', 'yuck', 'revolting', 'disgusting', 'ewwww', or 'foul' - all of which I've regularly seen on threads about pubic hair is okay because it prevents the world becoming a 'fluffy wuffy place'?

By all means have a preference but surely you can own it in a positive way without resorting to childish or body shaming remarks?

There are many who only find slimmer people attractive for example. Would it therefore be acceptable for them to express that preference in the forums by referring to larger people as 'vile'? After all we can't decide how people speak "

try reading ewwwww but with a positive jokey bias its sounds different dont you think?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

So expressing a preference by putting down those who don't match that preference with unnecessarily negative terms such as 'vile', 'yuck', 'revolting', 'disgusting', 'ewwww', or 'foul' - all of which I've regularly seen on threads about pubic hair is okay because it prevents the world becoming a 'fluffy wuffy place'?

By all means have a preference but surely you can own it in a positive way without resorting to childish or body shaming remarks?

There are many who only find slimmer people attractive for example. Would it therefore be acceptable for them to express that preference in the forums by referring to larger people as 'vile'? After all we can't decide how people speak "

This is very well put.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I like all kinds of topiary. How a person likes to present themselves pubicly Is part of the delight of meeting different people

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By *emini ManMan  over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Having a preference is one thing, and perfectly natural and fine - expressing that preference in negative or derogatory terms (as is often the case on threads like this) is not and I think that's the problem that many seem unable to contain themselves over when expressing preferences on here, regardless of the preference.

Saying you prefer smooth is absolutely fine, saying you prefer smooth because you find hairy vile, repulsive or even eeewwww puts a totally different spin on that preference and it's no wonder people react to it.

If people just accepted we are all different and like different things, without feeling the need to be derogatory, it would be a much happier place

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By *AYENCouple  over a year ago

Lincolnshire

How people choose to deal (or not deal) with their pubes is totally up to them. If it's that important to you OP, it's quite easy to avoid those that you think are "horrid".

We think that cock avatars are " horrid" but accept that that's absolutely their right to do if they choose - we won't start a thread with the intention of trying to shame or change them, we simply avoid them.

Nothing wrong with judging what's right or wrong for you, but don't judge what's right or wrong for others.

K

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By *tticusukMan  over a year ago

Formby

Pubes are designed to protect you from bacteria and other pathogens. It’s actually healthier to have them than not.

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By *as4121Man  over a year ago

dartford

[Removed by poster at 06/03/20 10:22:44]

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By *as4121Man  over a year ago

dartford


"Why oh why do so many *still* assume if someone chooses to retain their pubes in a manner they don't find appealing (which is fine) that by default the person(s) concerned can't possibly be taking care of, or pride in, their appearance?

I'm 'natural' almost always because my skin's very sensitive and the alternative is, for me, a time consuming chore I can't usually be arsed with that usually ends in an unattractive and/or painful skin rash, nasty ingrown hairs or cuts. Now *that's* 'horrid' and it wreaks havoc on my self esteem!

People style/alter myriad aspects of their appearance in all sorts of different ways - from the hair on their head, to tattoos and piercings, to bodybuilding, cosmetic surgery or even their clothing and makeup choices. Obviously we all have personal preferences and may be turned off by some of them. Doesn't mean they're not taking care of themselves though. To start this thread off by saying 'in this day and age...' isn't simply an observation about different pube preferences but an implied criticism towards people (and it's women who get most stick about it usually) who have the temerity to keep a full on bush, as if there's 'no excuse' to do so and they're somehow being lazy or letting the side down! "

Very well said

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By *ugby 123Couple  over a year ago
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"Personal preference is obviously expressed in a different way to body shaming. It's all in the way that it's done.

We can't decide how people speak the same way as we can't decide whether they have a full bush or not

I am beginning to think that the world is going to be a fluffy wuffy place with no real substance if people keep getting shot down for having a view

Really?

So expressing a preference by putting down those who don't match that preference with unnecessarily negative terms such as 'vile', 'yuck', 'revolting', 'disgusting', 'ewwww', or 'foul' - all of which I've regularly seen on threads about pubic hair is okay because it prevents the world becoming a 'fluffy wuffy place'?

By all means have a preference but surely you can own it in a positive way without resorting to childish or body shaming remarks?

There are many who only find slimmer people attractive for example. Would it therefore be acceptable for them to express that preference in the forums by referring to larger people as 'vile'? After all we can't decide how people speak "

If that's what they think I am not going to argue with them about it and no it wouldn't bother me but then I am a hard bitch

They are not being personal to you or me by saying this

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By *MARUBIXCUBEWoman  over a year ago

Glasgow

I find a fully shaved vagina quite pubescent a little Brazilian is the way to go go.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"In the same way we all take pride in our appearance (each of us with our own style and preference), I would think this should stretch to our pubes when these are being offered and on display."

I take pride in my appearance but I chose not to shave or wax my pubes.

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By *ugby 123Couple  over a year ago
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Saying you prefer smooth is absolutely fine, saying you prefer smooth because you find hairy vile, repulsive or even eeewwww puts a totally different spin on that preference and it's no wonder people react to it.

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I mean I wouldn't and never have said a bush is vile....but why can't someone say that they think a bush is vile for THEM ? They are not picking any one person out or being personal to anyone at all

It might not suit how you speak but why do they have to conform to how you think they should speak?

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By *nlyIfItsWorthItMan  over a year ago

Newcastle

This same theory should start being applied to the hair on our heads - mine is shaved no.2 all over...

Men & women who don't shave all their head hair off - please let me know how vile or ewwww you are feeling. Thanks in advance x

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By *uke OzadeMan  over a year ago

Ho Chi Minge City

I find they’re most appealing when trimmed into the shape of a flamingo, but that’s not to say I don’t respect or accept people for who they are and their personal choices. If you don’t like some OP, just focus on the ones you do like.

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By *urvyandCurious999Woman  over a year ago

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"I find a fully shaved vagina quite pubescent a little Brazilian is the way to go go."

I really hope you don't actually mean vagina

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By *MARUBIXCUBEWoman  over a year ago

Glasgow


"I find a fully shaved vagina quite pubescent a little Brazilian is the way to go go.

I really hope you don't actually mean vagina "

Pussy,cunt,minge ..you know what i mean .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I honestly couldn't give a shit. The only down sides to loads of pubes is I have to keep stopping if they get In my mouth.

Personally I'm shaved but that's because I want to be shaved

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I prefer some trimmed pubes as to none at all both on myself and on a lady.

Not a deal breaker though

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I favour The Australian for myself and closely trimmed for men with smooth back wheels and bumhole!

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By *wsw1londonMan  over a year ago

London

Hi all

I just adore a natural hairy bush! Just so hot! There are some magnificent pictures on this thread. Thank you all so much!

Ax

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By *emini ManMan  over a year ago

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Saying you prefer smooth is absolutely fine, saying you prefer smooth because you find hairy vile, repulsive or even eeewwww puts a totally different spin on that preference and it's no wonder people react to it.

I mean I wouldn't and never have said a bush is vile....but why can't someone say that they think a bush is vile for THEM ? They are not picking any one person out or being personal to anyone at all

It might not suit how you speak but why do they have to conform to how you think they should speak?"

Because they don't say a bush is vile "for THEM" (and even that without some balance as to why *could* be seen as derogatory) the tendency is to say it's vile full stop - which is both derogatory and actually picking on anyone that does have a bush.

I'm not saying anyone should conform to anything either, other than common decency and respect - and using derogatory terms to express a preference, I think we would both agree, is neither of those things.

I'm all for freedom of speech and defend anyones right to hold whatever preference they want, but personally think that describing something as "vile" "disgusting" or worse goes beyond expressing a simple preference.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"In today’s day n age shouldn’t we all take a little bit of care and pride of our pubes? Personally seeing pubes au naturale is horrid!"

I take pride in my Afro pubes

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By *urvyandCurious999Woman  over a year ago

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"

Saying you prefer smooth is absolutely fine, saying you prefer smooth because you find hairy vile, repulsive or even eeewwww puts a totally different spin on that preference and it's no wonder people react to it.

I mean I wouldn't and never have said a bush is vile....but why can't someone say that they think a bush is vile for THEM ? They are not picking any one person out or being personal to anyone at all

It might not suit how you speak but why do they have to conform to how you think they should speak?

Because they don't say a bush is vile "for THEM" (and even that without some balance as to why *could* be seen as derogatory) the tendency is to say it's vile full stop - which is both derogatory and actually picking on anyone that does have a bush.

I'm not saying anyone should conform to anything either, other than common decency and respect - and using derogatory terms to express a preference, I think we would both agree, is neither of those things.

I'm all for freedom of speech and defend anyones right to hold whatever preference they want, but personally think that describing something as "vile" "disgusting" or worse goes beyond expressing a simple preference. "

All of this

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"These threads always make great filters. The way some childishly react to body hair, which is a natural phenomenon, always surprises me.

Thank fuck those that message me are a bit more worldly.

In a way I agree, each to their own and I'm actually a fan of individuality and non conformity, but doesn't the filter stance make you the same as them in that you're judging ppl for judging you, purely based on WHAT THEY THINK OF PUBES rather than what they think of you as a person or what their more important views in life are....?

Not having a go I promise, just trying to stem the usual them and us argument and allow ppl to think, pause, ignore or reply to a simple thread innit, but who am I....? "

You’re nippy

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By *uenevereWoman  over a year ago

Scunthorpe

When we started swinging I was surprised that pubes or lack of, was such a divisive subject and that so many remove them entirely.

I am attracted to individuals, how they style their body hair is irrelevant to me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

i have tried pubeless but a man certainly this one just doesn't look right without them

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By *ugby 123Couple  over a year ago
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"

I'm all for freedom of speech and defend anyones right to hold whatever preference they want, but personally think that describing something as "vile" "disgusting" or worse goes beyond expressing a simple preference. "

I think feet are vile, I don't touch anyone else's and if anyone came near mine they would be told to sod off. I defend my right to say that no matter who agrees with it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

I'm all for freedom of speech and defend anyones right to hold whatever preference they want, but personally think that describing something as "vile" "disgusting" or worse goes beyond expressing a simple preference.

I think feet are vile, I don't touch anyone else's and if anyone came near mine they would be told to sod off. I defend my right to say that no matter who agrees with it

"

I don't like feet either, to the point where I physically gag if someone touches mine but people have feet so am much as I don't like mine or other people's they are there and if I want to have sex, I have to put up with feet being around me. It should be the same for body hair surely? Everyone's personal preference and not dictated by what other people like or don't like?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"These threads always make great filters. The way some childishly react to body hair, which is a natural phenomenon, always surprises me.

Thank fuck those that message me are a bit more worldly.

Why is it childish ? "

Because the way the preference has been expressed doesn't indicate a very grownup attitude towards sex

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"In today’s day n age shouldn’t we all take a little bit of care and pride of our pubes? Personally seeing pubes au naturale is horrid!"

You are perfectly entitled to your preference, but you are not entitled to tell others what they should do.

Each to their own.

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By *lanemikeMan  over a year ago

Bolton


"I think feet are vile, I don't touch anyone else's and if anyone came near mine they would be told to sod off. I defend my right to say that no matter who agrees with it "

You may consider them "vile": difficult to stand up without them, unless you have prosthetic limbs...!!

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By *ugby 123Couple  over a year ago
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By *ugby 123Couple  over a year ago
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"I think feet are vile, I don't touch anyone else's and if anyone came near mine they would be told to sod off. I defend my right to say that no matter who agrees with it

You may consider them "vile": difficult to stand up without them, unless you have prosthetic limbs...!!"

PS, no offence to anybodies feet

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'll update my profile pic just for you op and for the ones who don't like pubes

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By *ugby 123Couple  over a year ago
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I'm all for freedom of speech and defend anyones right to hold whatever preference they want, but personally think that describing something as "vile" "disgusting" or worse goes beyond expressing a simple preference.

I think feet are vile, I don't touch anyone else's and if anyone came near mine they would be told to sod off. I defend my right to say that no matter who agrees with it

I don't like feet either, to the point where I physically gag if someone touches mine but people have feet so am much as I don't like mine or other people's they are there and if I want to have sex, I have to put up with feet being around me. It should be the same for body hair surely? Everyone's personal preference and not dictated by what other people like or don't like? "

I think you have missed the point of my post. None of my posts say that people should or shouldn't have body hair

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"In today’s day n age shouldn’t we all take a little bit of care and pride of our pubes? Personally seeing pubes au naturale is horrid!"

OMG I hate to see shaved balls

I love hairy men, chest, arms, back and especially when it’s surrounding a decent sized cock. The more hair and the wilder it is the better. Massive turn on for me

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By *yx_InannaWoman  over a year ago

Burslem


"Personal preference is obviously expressed in a different way to body shaming. It's all in the way that it's done.

We can't decide how people speak the same way as we can't decide whether they have a full bush or not

I am beginning to think that the world is going to be a fluffy wuffy place with no real substance if people keep getting shot down for having a view"

There's a difference entirely from saying someone prefers shaven or trimmed but to say someone's unclean or disgusting, untidy, not self respecting for having a bush is not acceptable form of stating a preference.

If you don't like the bush fine but can't shame a person for having one.

Someone said on the forum about the bush being unnatural and disgusting... if it was unnatural it wouldn't be there in the first place. The disposable razor and marketing to increase purchases started all the shaming of body hair.

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By *mcouple2Couple  over a year ago

Warrington


"

I'm all for freedom of speech and defend anyones right to hold whatever preference they want, but personally think that describing something as "vile" "disgusting" or worse goes beyond expressing a simple preference.

I think feet are vile, I don't touch anyone else's and if anyone came near mine they would be told to sod off. I defend my right to say that no matter who agrees with it

"

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By *mcouple2Couple  over a year ago

Warrington


"

I'm all for freedom of speech and defend anyones right to hold whatever preference they want, but personally think that describing something as "vile" "disgusting" or worse goes beyond expressing a simple preference.

I think feet are vile, I don't touch anyone else's and if anyone came near mine they would be told to sod off. I defend my right to say that no matter who agrees with it

I don't like feet either, to the point where I physically gag if someone touches mine but people have feet so am much as I don't like mine or other people's they are there and if I want to have sex, I have to put up with feet being around me. It should be the same for body hair surely? Everyone's personal preference and not dictated by what other people like or don't like?

I think you have missed the point of my post. None of my posts say that people should or shouldn't have body hair

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