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what is it with these social networks and relationships
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all
Getting silly now, another vanilla friends marraige hits the rocks via social networking sites.......
Out if the 5 couples that this has happened too, only 1 of them is happy and other 4 wish they could turn back the clock and say the cyber part was great but reality was nothing how they imagined it would be, doooh don't say.
Ow the plebs
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"how has social network sites affected their relatonship?"
A lot of people have contacted past loves and thought it would be a good idea to try again...often when they're both already married/with partners x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Grass always seems greener on the other side because it's always seen from a distance.
I always thought cos it was where all the shit was"
it's very yellow on our side at the moment with all the feckin rain  
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"how has social network sites affected their relatonship?
A lot of people have contacted past loves and thought it would be a good idea to try again...often when they're both already married/with partners x"
oh i see
i did meet up with my first ever bf when we started chatting on fb, but neither of us were attached at the time  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"how has social network sites affected their relatonship?
A lot of people have contacted past loves and thought it would be a good idea to try again...often when they're both already married/with partners x
oh i see
i did meet up with my first ever bf when we started chatting on fb, but neither of us were attached at the time "
Fuck me, I feel old now!
The entire internet hadn't been invented when I had my first g/f!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"how has social network sites affected their relatonship?
A lot of people have contacted past loves and thought it would be a good idea to try again...often when they're both already married/with partners x
oh i see
i did meet up with my first ever bf when we started chatting on fb, but neither of us were attached at the time "
Lol...that friends reunited thingy started a lot of it off when people got speaking to their 'high school sweetheart', and fb just helped it along. I'm sure it must work out for some, but in most cases I guess the original reason a couple broke up would rear it's ugly head again x |
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"how has social network sites affected their relatonship?
A lot of people have contacted past loves and thought it would be a good idea to try again...often when they're both already married/with partners x
oh i see
i did meet up with my first ever bf when we started chatting on fb, but neither of us were attached at the time
Fuck me, I feel old now!
The entire internet hadn't been invented when I had my first g/f! "
haha you ARE old wishy!!!
but i think i wrote it wrong, he was my first bf at primary school, we hooked up again after finding each other on fb |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If people are looking to cheat they dont need facebook."
No they don't need it, but it doesn't exactly hinder them either...think a lot of people have reconnected with people from their past that they may not have done if social networking sites weren't around. Then after viewing those past relationships with rose tinted glasses as they remember the good times from their youth they've tried to rekindle something that perhaps should have been left alone x |
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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago
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"If people are looking to cheat they dont need facebook.
No they don't need it, but it doesn't exactly hinder them either...think a lot of people have reconnected with people from their past that they may not have done if social networking sites weren't around. Then after viewing those past relationships with rose tinted glasses as they remember the good times from their youth they've tried to rekindle something that perhaps should have been left alone x"
If people are prepared to cheat, there's something wrong with the marriage anyway.
It's easy to blame facebook for their inability to keep their cock/fanny in their pants! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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lol....one of couples i knew the lady half decide to announce she was leaving for her first bf and going to start new...
Travelled from coast to stoke and found the lovely house was a rented flat, his high flying travelling career was actually sales rep on the road selling fastenings, the pics were a tad complimentry and the months of chatting had been full of bull shxxe
And wonders why hubby won't take her back and no one wants to hear.
So sad
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hate when you go from single to in a relationship.. you get the congrats comments but then a couple months later it changes to single again.. then you get the oh I am sorry messages. "
Don't use it spend enough time when I am supposed to be working on here!
But if I did I would change my status daily to see how many I could catch out with the wrong message |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If people are looking to cheat they dont need facebook.
No they don't need it, but it doesn't exactly hinder them either...think a lot of people have reconnected with people from their past that they may not have done if social networking sites weren't around. Then after viewing those past relationships with rose tinted glasses as they remember the good times from their youth they've tried to rekindle something that perhaps should have been left alone x
If people are prepared to cheat, there's something wrong with the marriage anyway.
It's easy to blame facebook for their inability to keep their cock/fanny in their pants!"
Wasn't intending to blame facebook for cheats!! If someone wants to cheat then of course they'll find a way. Was just pointing out that social networking sites have made it so easy to connect with people from the past and people have rekindled old relationships x |
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"Relationships have always "hit the rocks", even prior to the tinternet or brick (mobile telephone). "
Yeah they have, but surely internet and mobiles have made it far easier to cheat... and to do this, so it's got its upside too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Relationships have always "hit the rocks", even prior to the tinternet or brick (mobile telephone).
Yeah they have, but surely internet and mobiles have made it far easier to cheat... and to do this, so it's got its upside too "
you think its a good thing to cheat? or is it early and i read that wrong  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My Ex cheated on me after 12 years together, that was through a 'fan site' for a band he was into... so he found he had lots in common with this chick.
He would go gigs he knew she would be at.
They've been together 5 years now.
She still hasn't looked for a job and smokes 60 a day and he's now in loads of dept. |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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If people are prepared to cheat, there's something wrong with the marriage anyway.
It's easy to blame facebook for their inability to keep their cock/fanny in their pants!"
I would agree - the availability of facebook is not the cause but may be a trigger at best; the thought precipitates the action of meeting outside a relationship. Not judging here as there are many reasons why this happens but dont think we can "blame" facebook.
Next thing we would be blaming "twitter" for extramarital quickies... |
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By *umourCouple
over a year ago
Rushden |
"facebook sucks
You haven't tried Angry Birds then? "
Angry Birds is soo good on my Android stuff and free... Never play any games on Facebook, they want and distribute your info!
As for the comment by the previous poster. "Facebook sucks".. So not true! I asked it and it said no...   |
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"Relationships have always "hit the rocks", even prior to the tinternet or brick (mobile telephone).
Yeah they have, but surely internet and mobiles have made it far easier to cheat... and to do this, so it's got its upside too
you think its a good thing to cheat? or is it early and i read that wrong "
Gosh no...just that the internet and mobiles have also made swinging a lot easier than it must have been before! |
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