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Would you date someone you met on here?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Or are we just good for shagging?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Like everything it’s all relative on the person. No intention to do so, but what happens happens.

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By *arlo82Couple over a year ago

the gym and random places

I have in the past and would again

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would

I’ve tried. He lied

I’ll no doubt see what happens again, sometime

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe. I'm not looking to dare but if I clicked with someone I wouldn't say no.

I don't understand the stigma against it, people are people no matter where you meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I would

I’ve tried. He lied

I’ll no doubt see what happens again, sometime"

You should shit in his shoes

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Maybe. I'm not looking to dare but if I clicked with someone I wouldn't say no.

I don't understand the stigma against it, people are people no matter where you meet. "

Prison?

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By *iberty RedWoman over a year ago

Cheltenham

I have twice, both ended for different reasons but won't rule it out in the future.

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By *acey_RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

I would in the right circumstances. I'd have less issue explaining my lifestyle at least and hopefully they'd be less hung up on monogamy than the general population.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I would

I’ve tried. He lied

I’ll no doubt see what happens again, sometime

You should shit in his shoes"

Yesterday’s news

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yeah I would be open to it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wouldn’t rule it out x

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman over a year ago

On a mooch

Not looking for it, but if it naturally happened why wouldn’t you

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I would

I’ve tried. He lied

I’ll no doubt see what happens again, sometime

You should shit in his shoes

Yesterday’s news

Yay I’m proud of you gal

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There might be some who need carbon dating but like I wouldn't have a problem introducing any of you to me mammy if that's what you mean. I don't date anymore though, it's not for me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Maybe. I'm not looking to dare but if I clicked with someone I wouldn't say no.

I don't understand the stigma against it, people are people no matter where you meet.

Prison?"

I’ve seen some gorgeous guys in work. So tempting to say hit me up when you get out then

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"There might be some who need carbon dating but like I wouldn't have a problem introducing any of you to me mammy if that's what you mean. I don't date anymore though, it's not for me

Mums love me

Well most of them

My mother in law doesn’t love me

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By *hilloutMan over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Not actively seeking it, but wouldn't rule out the possibility. Life has taught me to never say never and that things often occur when you least expect them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There might be some who need carbon dating but like I wouldn't have a problem introducing any of you to me mammy if that's what you mean. I don't date anymore though, it's not for me

Mums love me

Well most of them

My mother in law doesn’t love me

My mum hasn't met a girlfriend in like 10 years, you could be like Grotbags and she'd still like you cause she'd be happy her only child was getting some lol we would be doing it, right?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Being happily married to a woman I met on a staircase, I am obviously not looking to date, but here is as good a place to meet as anywhere.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"There might be some who need carbon dating but like I wouldn't have a problem introducing any of you to me mammy if that's what you mean. I don't date anymore though, it's not for me

Mums love me

Well most of them

My mother in law doesn’t love me

My mum hasn't met a girlfriend in like 10 years, you could be like Grotbags and she'd still like you cause she'd be happy her only child was getting some lol we would be doing it, right?"

Are you implying I’m a grotbag but I’ll do?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I someone on Fab was foolish enough to date me, I'd give it a go.

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By *bi HaiveMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Cheeseville, Somerset

No.

Never.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There might be some who need carbon dating but like I wouldn't have a problem introducing any of you to me mammy if that's what you mean. I don't date anymore though, it's not for me

Mums love me

Well most of them

My mother in law doesn’t love me

My mum hasn't met a girlfriend in like 10 years, you could be like Grotbags and she'd still like you cause she'd be happy her only child was getting some lol we would be doing it, right?

Are you implying I’m a grotbag but I’ll do?"

Are you twisting my words to avoid saying we're doing it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"No.

Never.

To the shagging part or dating part?

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By *atalie..Woman over a year ago

Bolton

I did for ten year's.

He felt the need to cheat,even though we were swinger's

Go figure

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"There might be some who need carbon dating but like I wouldn't have a problem introducing any of you to me mammy if that's what you mean. I don't date anymore though, it's not for me

Mums love me

Well most of them

My mother in law doesn’t love me

My mum hasn't met a girlfriend in like 10 years, you could be like Grotbags and she'd still like you cause she'd be happy her only child was getting some lol we would be doing it, right?

Are you implying I’m a grotbag but I’ll do?

Are you twisting my words to avoid saying we're doing it?"

Fine I’ll fuck you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If the connection was there then why not?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I did for ten year's.

He felt the need to cheat,even though we were swinger's

Go figure

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By *he Mac LassWoman over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I'll never say never.

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By *bi HaiveMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Cheeseville, Somerset

"No.

Never.

To the shagging part or dating part?"

Dating.

I skipped that bit and just married her.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'll never say never."

You need to come on the forums more often young lady

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There might be some who need carbon dating but like I wouldn't have a problem introducing any of you to me mammy if that's what you mean. I don't date anymore though, it's not for me

Mums love me

Well most of them

My mother in law doesn’t love me

My mum hasn't met a girlfriend in like 10 years, you could be like Grotbags and she'd still like you cause she'd be happy her only child was getting some lol we would be doing it, right?

Are you implying I’m a grotbag but I’ll do?

Are you twisting my words to avoid saying we're doing it?

Fine I’ll fuck you"

I'll go tell me mum

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"No.

Never.

To the shagging part or dating part?

Dating.

I skipped that bit and just married her.

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman over a year ago

kinky land

Yes

We're still people

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would, if it’s the right person

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"There might be some who need carbon dating but like I wouldn't have a problem introducing any of you to me mammy if that's what you mean. I don't date anymore though, it's not for me

Mums love me

Well most of them

My mother in law doesn’t love me

My mum hasn't met a girlfriend in like 10 years, you could be like Grotbags and she'd still like you cause she'd be happy her only child was getting some lol we would be doing it, right?

Are you implying I’m a grotbag but I’ll do?

Are you twisting my words to avoid saying we're doing it?

Fine I’ll fuck you

I'll go tell me mum

Can’t wait to meet her

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By *innie The MinxWoman over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Previously no, but who knows what 2020 might bring...

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By *he Mac LassWoman over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

"I'll never say never.

You need to come on the forums more often young lady "

Is that to convince me of the never?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'll never say never.

You need to come on the forums more often young lady

Is that to convince me of the never?"

No I just like you is all

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It’s happened before, I’d be open to it happening again. Just without the pregnancy, can’t be doing that bit again

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By *ndefiniteSparkMan over a year ago

ignites minds to unite ...

Yes, with a view to start swinging together.

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By *he Mac LassWoman over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

"I'll never say never.

You need to come on the forums more often young lady

Is that to convince me of the never?

No I just like you is all"

Oh you. Have a MacSquishyBoobHug x

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By *ixenwhispererMan over a year ago

St Peter Port

If the girl was compatible and liked MMF threesomes then why not? There's more chance of finding somebody sexually in tune with yourself on here than in a bar.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'll never say never.

You need to come on the forums more often young lady

Is that to convince me of the never?

No I just like you is all

Oh you. Have a MacSquishyBoobHug x"

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"If the girl was compatible and liked MMF threesomes then why not? There's more chance of finding somebody sexually in tune with yourself on here than in a bar.

Exactly!!

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By *he Mac LassWoman over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

"It’s happened before, I’d be open to it happening again. Just without the pregnancy, can’t be doing that bit again"

Completely off topic but you look nice

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yeah totally

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By *nabelle21Woman over a year ago

B38

"I did for ten year's.

He felt the need to cheat,even though we were swinger's

Go figure

that's rough x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Met my husband on here and we still swing

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By *ister KinkyMan over a year ago

Sussex

Absolutely, much easier to have an understanding of each other’s wants, needs and desires. If the mental connection is there as well, then definitely.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Or are we just good for shagging?"

Is a regular fwb dating or shagging?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

In the past i would say no but now yes definitely

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Or are we just good for shagging?

Is a regular fwb dating or shagging?"

Shagging

They’d be your girlfriend/boyfriend if you were dating, I think

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By *ig1gaz1Man over a year ago

bradford

I would, makes no difference if its this site or any other.

At least with here you have an idea what theyve done.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A connection is a connection, could happen at tesco fish counter, could happen on fab, the great thing with swinging is people have a very honest and open approach to life.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It’s happened before, I’d be open to it happening again. Just without the pregnancy, can’t be doing that bit again

Completely off topic but you look nice

Thanks Jim

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Be a bit difficult to get that far.

Too many options to date

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By *nabelle21Woman over a year ago

B38

"There might be some who need carbon dating but like I wouldn't have a problem introducing any of you to me mammy if that's what you mean. I don't date anymore though, it's not for me

Mums love me

Well most of them

My mother in law doesn’t love me

My mum hasn't met a girlfriend in like 10 years, you could be like Grotbags and she'd still like you cause she'd be happy her only child was getting some lol we would be doing it, right?

Are you implying I’m a grotbag but I’ll do?

Are you twisting my words to avoid saying we're doing it?

Fine I’ll fuck you

I'll go tell me mum

Can’t wait to meet her"

*I am chuckling

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've been trying to get a ring on _oodnitegirl for years now.

Please come to me my love

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By *wisted999Man over a year ago

North Bucks

Yes they would hopefully be on my wavelength.

I like them promiscuous.

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By *oiluvfunMan over a year ago

Penrith

"Like everything it’s all relative on the person. No intention to do so, but what happens happens. "

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've been trying to get a ring on _oodnitegirl for years now.

Please come to me my love

"
im starting to think u have a dwarf fetish first peach years ago now GG

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By *ily WhiteWoman over a year ago

I'd never rule it out completely, you never know who you're going to meet on here

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By *ost SockMan over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

Definitely - Fabbers are often (but not always!) a bit more relaxed, open-minded and honest.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Definitely - Fabbers are often (but not always!) a bit more relaxed, open-minded and honest.

I hope someone finds you

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By *omesticflightMan over a year ago

Burton-on-Trent

Sure. Every relationship , or dalliance I've had, was either directly meeting thru dating sites like OkC, or it kept the momentum going. Why not here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’d date a guy from here if he was to delete his account and swear allegiance to me. But, I don’t think many guys would date a woman from here. They don’t normally like to see a woman that’s potential gf material on a sex site with naked pictures of themselves. It’s double standards but it’s true to how a lot of guys think.

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By *manaWoman over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Absolutely, much easier to have an understanding of each other’s wants, needs and desires. If the mental connection is there as well, then definitely. "

I would, I could, I will, I am

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By *he Mac LassWoman over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

"It’s happened before, I’d be open to it happening again. Just without the pregnancy, can’t be doing that bit again

Completely off topic but you look nice

Thanks Jim

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why not? I would.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've been trying to get a ring on _oodnitegirl for years now.

Please come to me my love

im starting to think u have a dwarf fetish first peach years ago now GG

I like to rest my arm on their head

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’d date a guy from here if he was to delete his account and swear allegiance to me. But, I don’t think many guys would date a woman from here. They don’t normally like to see a woman that’s potential gf material on a sex site with naked pictures of themselves. It’s double standards but it’s true to how a lot of guys think. "
100% this

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Absolutely, much easier to have an understanding of each other’s wants, needs and desires. If the mental connection is there as well, then definitely.

I would, I could, I will, I am

I know, I only just found out! I’m so oblivious to everything

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By *nabelle21Woman over a year ago

B38

Then I wouldn't be the girl for them

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By *ixenwhispererMan over a year ago

St Peter Port

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've been trying to get a ring on _oodnitegirl for years now.

Please come to me my love

im starting to think u have a dwarf fetish first peach years ago now GG

I like to rest my arm on their head"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would. Ultimately I’d like an open relationship, where better to start!

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By *ixenwhispererMan over a year ago

St Peter Port

Not this guy! I think of the woman in my life like a beautiful painting, it would be a shame for just one man to enjoy her!

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By *nabelle21Woman over a year ago

B38

I'm pretty much in the never say never corner.

That goes for any relationship.

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By *affron40Woman over a year ago

manchester

Have done and will again.. it’s as good a place as any.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We met each other on here, started dating and now share a home and our lives with each other.

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By *nabelle21Woman over a year ago

B38

"I've been trying to get a ring on _oodnitegirl for years now.

Please come to me my love

im starting to think u have a dwarf fetish first peach years ago now GG

I like to rest my arm on their head"

Arm as in arm?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would, this is the perfect place to find someone into the same lifestyle. Easier to explain here than on tinder

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If there was an attraction more than just sex ,yes

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By *oodnitegirlWoman over a year ago

Yorkshire

"I've been trying to get a ring on _oodnitegirl for years now.

Please come to me my love

im starting to think u have a dwarf fetish first peach years ago now GG

I like to rest my arm on their head"

I wish this was a joke

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I've been trying to get a ring on _oodnitegirl for years now.

Please come to me my love

im starting to think u have a dwarf fetish first peach years ago now GG

I like to rest my arm on their head

I wish this was a joke "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've been trying to get a ring on _oodnitegirl for years now.

Please come to me my love

im starting to think u have a dwarf fetish first peach years ago now GG

I like to rest my arm on their head

I wish this was a joke "

Stand still please love

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've been trying to get a ring on _oodnitegirl for years now.

Please come to me my love

im starting to think u have a dwarf fetish first peach years ago now GG

I like to rest my arm on their head

I wish this was a joke "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes if it felt right.

Obviously we both met on here and started dating

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

yeah for sure if the chemistry is there why not

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By *ister KinkyMan over a year ago

Sussex

I’d be more than happy with this, throw in chastity and some cuckolding to the relationship and it would be perfect.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would if someone actually treated me right and thought i was worth dating. Personally I think there are a lot of phoney people on fab so I would prefer to use a dating site, but There are phoney prople everywhere.

I think I'm one of those only good enough for a quick fuck.

I say this based on experience and the lack of effort people make on here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Depends on the fella, some of us prefer mmf, we all have our different kicks

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By *ea monkeyMan over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Have done and will again.. it’s as good a place as any. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would if the chemistry was there and it felt right, but don’t get much luck on here

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By *ea monkeyMan over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Absolutely, much easier to have an understanding of each other’s wants, needs and desires. If the mental connection is there as well, then definitely.

I would, I could, I will, I am

Funnily enough I feel the same!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There are some nice women in here, so I wouldn't say no.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Double standards? How many women on here would choose a man who admits to shagging his way through fab?

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By *ertzMan over a year ago

Sunderland

"I did for ten year's.

He felt the need to cheat,even though we were swinger's

Go figure

Wow

Personally I wouldn't say no straight away, infact it might even be better as it exposes a side that might otherwise be more awkward to discuss through more conventional dating methods?

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By *ixenwhispererMan over a year ago

St Peter Port

"I would if someone actually treated me right and thought i was worth dating. Personally I think there are a lot of phoney people on fab so I would prefer to use a dating site, but There are phoney prople everywhere.

I think I'm one of those only good enough for a quick fuck.

I say this based on experience and the lack of effort people make on here.

You're definitely worth more than that! You're absolutely stunning and your bio is brilliant!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Absolutely, much easier to have an understanding of each other’s wants, needs and desires. If the mental connection is there as well, then definitely.

I would, I could, I will, I am

Funnily enough I feel the same!

whaaaaaaaat no way

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By *orthern StarsCouple over a year ago

Durham

"I did for ten year's.

He felt the need to cheat,even though we were swinger's

Go figure

Swinging doesn't stop cheating though. In some cases, sadly, it can actually open up more opportunities to cheat. I once net a couple and the guy wanted to meet me without his wife. I rapidly cut all contact with him.

Mrs

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By *nabelle21Woman over a year ago

B38

"I did for ten year's.

He felt the need to cheat,even though we were swinger's

Go figure

Mrs"

I think that's just awful of him or anyone who does that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Obviously I’m describing a monogamous relationship not a swinging relationship. Here would be the perfect place to find someone who wants a swinging lifestyle.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Or are we just good for shagging?

Is a regular fwb dating or shagging?

Shagging

They’d be your girlfriend/boyfriend if you were dating, I think "

So fwbs can't have respect and consideration for each other without having to pick out curtains?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Would love to but not many genuine people on here ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am dating someone I met on here and he's much much better than any other guy from my past.

I'm also hoping I will have a fab girlfriend by the end of this year

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Would love to but not many genuine people on here ?"

90% of us are genuine

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Or are we just good for shagging?

Is a regular fwb dating or shagging?

Shagging

They’d be your girlfriend/boyfriend if you were dating, I think

So fwbs can't have respect and consideration for each other without having to pick out curtains?"

At what point did I say that?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Or are we just good for shagging?

Is a regular fwb dating or shagging?

Shagging

They’d be your girlfriend/boyfriend if you were dating, I think

So fwbs can't have respect and consideration for each other without having to pick out curtains?

At what point did I say that?"

Seems like you’re saying you don’t respect those you shag

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If his sex drive was as high as mine then potentially yes.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hopefully

I will see what happens just looking to meet new people x

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By *exysurferMan over a year ago

Bromley

I would. No reason not too.

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By *manaWoman over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Absolutely, much easier to have an understanding of each other’s wants, needs and desires. If the mental connection is there as well, then definitely.

I would, I could, I will, I am

Funnily enough I feel the same!

whaaaaaaaat no way"

Way!

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By *ndefiniteSparkMan over a year ago

ignites minds to unite ...

"I am dating someone I met on here and he's much much better than any other guy from my past.

I'm also hoping I will have a fab girlfriend by the end of this year

Well done

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By *orthern StarsCouple over a year ago

Durham

"I did for ten year's.

He felt the need to cheat,even though we were swinger's

Go figure

Mrs

I think that's just awful of him or anyone who does that "

It is, and I told him what I thought too.

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By *ndefiniteSparkMan over a year ago

ignites minds to unite ...

"Would love to but not many genuine people on here ?"

Don't know where you have been looking , but here on forums besides a few keyboard gangsters I have met mostly genuine people .

Shame most are in UK

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Or are we just good for shagging?

Is a regular fwb dating or shagging?

Shagging

They’d be your girlfriend/boyfriend if you were dating, I think

So fwbs can't have respect and consideration for each other without having to pick out curtains?"

Does everything have to have a label? Boyf/girlf (I'm too old for those terms personally) partner/fb/fwb

Can't people just enjoy life and have fun how they want without the labels?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well the chances of meeting someone on here is around 0.1% so the chances of then dating that person are sooooo small.

You're more likely to win the euro lottery or Norwich to win the Premiership!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Or are we just good for shagging?

Is a regular fwb dating or shagging?

Shagging

They’d be your girlfriend/boyfriend if you were dating, I think

So fwbs can't have respect and consideration for each other without having to pick out curtains?"

Thank you for saying this. It makes me so sad that even here, of all places, having sex outside a committed relationship is seen as a negative thing that makes a woman not worthy of having a relationship with. I guess my boyfriend must be a very exceptional man if this is how most guys think. I'm just glad I don't have to settle for anyone so backward thinking

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By *zCaTzZWoman over a year ago

The Poke District

I have dated 2 guys from here

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Or are we just good for shagging?

Is a regular fwb dating or shagging?

Shagging

They’d be your girlfriend/boyfriend if you were dating, I think

So fwbs can't have respect and consideration for each other without having to pick out curtains?

I must be missing something as I didn’t even nearly imply this or mean this

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Or are we just good for shagging?

Is a regular fwb dating or shagging?

Shagging

They’d be your girlfriend/boyfriend if you were dating, I think

So fwbs can't have respect and consideration for each other without having to pick out curtains?

I must be missing something as I didn’t even nearly imply this or mean this

I didn't mean you, it was just a general comment on the whole issue. It wasn't anything to do with your comment, I was more picking up on the guys comment about fwbs. Sorry if you thought it was x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Or are we just good for shagging?

Is a regular fwb dating or shagging?

Shagging

They’d be your girlfriend/boyfriend if you were dating, I think

So fwbs can't have respect and consideration for each other without having to pick out curtains?

I must be missing something as I didn’t even nearly imply this or mean this

I didn't mean you, it was just a general comment on the whole issue. It wasn't anything to do with your comment, I was more picking up on the guys comment about fwbs. Sorry if you thought it was x"

Ahh okay! I was so confused

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan over a year ago

Northampton

I would do this with no problems

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes I would

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By *ndefiniteSparkMan over a year ago

ignites minds to unite ...

"Or are we just good for shagging?

Is a regular fwb dating or shagging?

Shagging

They’d be your girlfriend/boyfriend if you were dating, I think

So fwbs can't have respect and consideration for each other without having to pick out curtains?

Does everything have to have a label? Boyf/girlf (I'm too old for those terms personally) partner/fb/fwb

Can't people just enjoy life and have fun how they want without the labels?

Amen to that , unlabeled is free, free to express yourself with your own words .

Be guilty of copying those thoughts ,translate them and paste into a message to someone.

And stop making false assumptions based on lack, or incomplete information and inability to ask for clarification .

We all know what fwb stands for , but what it means for each , can be a 100 things

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By *orthern StarsCouple over a year ago

Durham

If I was single, then yes, I wouldn't think twice about dating someone.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sweet Jesus

All you men saying you would ... here I am, desperate and almost thinking of joining a fucking nunnery

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’d be very happy to date someone from Fab

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Sweet Jesus

All you men saying you would ... here I am, desperate and almost thinking of joining a fucking nunnery

You won’t get dick in a nunnery

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's working well for me.

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By *ndefiniteSparkMan over a year ago

ignites minds to unite ...

"Sweet Jesus

All you men saying you would ... here I am, desperate and almost thinking of joining a fucking nunnery

Is your fantasy to fuck a nun?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Or are we just good for shagging?

Is a regular fwb dating or shagging?

Shagging

They’d be your girlfriend/boyfriend if you were dating, I think

So fwbs can't have respect and consideration for each other without having to pick out curtains?

Does everything have to have a label? Boyf/girlf (I'm too old for those terms personally) partner/fb/fwb

Can't people just enjoy life and have fun how they want without the labels?

Amen to that , unlabeled is free, free to express yourself with your own words .

Be guilty of copying those thoughts ,translate them and paste into a message to someone.

And stop making false assumptions based on lack, or incomplete information and inability to ask for clarification .

We all know what fwb stands for , but what it means for each , can be a 100 things"

Exactly this!!

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By *hilleddevilMan over a year ago

north Manchester

I think I'm one of those only good enough for a quick fuck.

I say this based on experience and the lack of effort people make on here.

Wow. I've just spent the last 10 mins reading your profile, which is great and giving all your pics a good "fingering". I'd make an effort if you're intetested

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By *ndefiniteSparkMan over a year ago

ignites minds to unite ...

"Sweet Jesus

All you men saying you would ... here I am, desperate and almost thinking of joining a fucking nunnery

You won’t get dick in a nunnery"

Yeah no dicks.

Collection of toys probably would outshine Lovehoney stockroom though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sweet Jesus

All you men saying you would ... here I am, desperate and almost thinking of joining a fucking nunnery

You won’t get dick in a nunnery"

I will if I take it in

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Or are we just good for shagging?

Is a regular fwb dating or shagging?

Shagging

They’d be your girlfriend/boyfriend if you were dating, I think

So fwbs can't have respect and consideration for each other without having to pick out curtains?

At what point did I say that?

Seems like you’re saying you don’t respect those you shag

Quite the opposite. I need that connection. She is not just a shag to me. Doesn't mean we have to spend the rest of our lives together or 'date' as boyfriend/girlfriend.

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By *urvyandCurious999Woman over a year ago

Hiding from twats

I'd quite happily date someone from here if I met the right person. It's just finding that someone that's difficult.

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By *ost SockMan over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

"Definitely - Fabbers are often (but not always!) a bit more relaxed, open-minded and honest.

I hope someone finds you "

That’s very kind.

I don’t overthink it - what’ll be will be (other cliches are available)

I just think that the best Fabbers have a good outlook on life

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By *acey_RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

"Or are we just good for shagging?

Is a regular fwb dating or shagging?

Shagging

They’d be your girlfriend/boyfriend if you were dating, I think

So fwbs can't have respect and consideration for each other without having to pick out curtains?

At what point did I say that?

Seems like you’re saying you don’t respect those you shag

Quite the opposite. I need that connection. She is not just a shag to me. Doesn't mean we have to spend the rest of our lives together or 'date' as boyfriend/girlfriend."

Who said you did?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Totally

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I 100% would if I clicked with the person but seems most guys on here are only after 1 offs, not a regular arrangement which is the main reason I havent met anyone new for a long time

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Or are we just good for shagging?

Is a regular fwb dating or shagging?

Shagging

They’d be your girlfriend/boyfriend if you were dating, I think

So fwbs can't have respect and consideration for each other without having to pick out curtains?

At what point did I say that?

Seems like you’re saying you don’t respect those you shag

Quite the opposite. I need that connection. She is not just a shag to me. Doesn't mean we have to spend the rest of our lives together or 'date' as boyfriend/girlfriend.

Who said you did?"

HMQL, otherwise you're just a shag?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I didn't just date. I forced him down the aisle!

Danish xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

These types are the best relationships in my opinion. Total honesty & openness is mind blowing, that's what it should be in a none vanilla relationship. All vanilla relationships" I've had have been dishonest ( based on my experience) hence why I turned to fab.

I'm totally me knowing this is true freedom to be open.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes. If I could them to agree

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By *ndefiniteSparkMan over a year ago

ignites minds to unite ...

"Sweet Jesus

All you men saying you would ... here I am, desperate and almost thinking of joining a fucking nunnery

You won’t get dick in a nunnery

I will if I take it in

Off topic here but really enjoyed the story on your bio.

Wish there was more like that to read.

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By *acey_RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

"Or are we just good for shagging?

Is a regular fwb dating or shagging?

Shagging

They’d be your girlfriend/boyfriend if you were dating, I think

So fwbs can't have respect and consideration for each other without having to pick out curtains?

At what point did I say that?

Seems like you’re saying you don’t respect those you shag

Quite the opposite. I need that connection. She is not just a shag to me. Doesn't mean we have to spend the rest of our lives together or 'date' as boyfriend/girlfriend.

Who said you did?

HMQL, otherwise you're just a shag?"

You did only give her two options and you say yourself you're not dating

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By *os19Man over a year ago

Edmonton

If the chemistry is there and there is a spark then yes I would date a lady from Fabs.

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By *antsguy007Man over a year ago

Whiteley

Well, I am a single gent who does seek something more regular than random one offs from fab.

If I was to meet a single lady who enjoyed my company and I hers and we both felt something more than just guid sex was there, then definetly!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes.

One day she might change her mind about me....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Or are we just good for shagging?"

Yer I would

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

An open relationship, never say never.

An exclusive relationship... no chance

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

God no, men on here aren’t good enough to have a relationship with.

I have standards.

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By *onkeyandBonesCouple over a year ago

Staffordshire

I met G through swinging, that was 6 years ago and now married with a family and still enjoying the lifestyle, when we can.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh hell no, those smelly boys have had their winkies in places only the haunted could envision

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh hell no, those smelly boys have had their winkies in places only the haunted could envision

Haven't we just

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By *cplsMan over a year ago

Nr Waltham

I met a lady on here 6 years ago, we went out almost every week for a meal or shopping.

We dont see each other as much now but we will forever remain good friends.

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By *exybum_30Woman over a year ago

I would if I found the right connection with someone

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Id love to date someone from this world. Can't imagine now meeting someone and having to give up the wonderful friends and lifestyle. Not interested particularly in swinging but love going to clubs and dressing up and the social side of things. Ive just made too many good friends. However, I do appreciate it is a needle in a haystack and don't hold my breath

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By *ucky88oMan over a year ago

london

I would.

We would have to both be looking for the same type of relationship

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By *L RogueMan over a year ago

London

Some people find love here. As long as it's what both parties want then fine. If one does and the other doesn't, be honest and call it a day.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We met On here , with alittle help from friends

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Totally agree, would have to be on the same page.

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By *urvySub87Woman over a year ago

Near Wellingborough

If it is meant to be then why does it matter where you meet. I perhaps wouldn't advertise it to the family though lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Or are we just good for shagging?"

If it happens, it happens...

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By *partharmonyCouple over a year ago

Ruislip

I'm not single, but I can certainly conceive of dating women on here. There are some lovely people around.

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

As long as he's hot and a good shag

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You can never tell what is going to happen, it could naturally develop into dating and then become more. But I would yes

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS over a year ago

Stockport

If there was a mutual spark, why would it matter where or how the initial contact happened? And tbh I'm probably more likely to run into women that could fancy a trans-lesbian through this site than through playing bingo at the church hall...

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By *adylydfordWoman over a year ago

altinkum

I would date someone on here if anybody wanted me lol!

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By *sianMancMan over a year ago

Manchester

"Or are we just good for shagging?"

I will reveal something here as I know not all of fab will read it thus it won't be an issue for when I do find who I seek...

I joined here 6 years ago.

I joined besides the sex to find the ONE. I haven't found her as yet and no I haven't given up on that endeavour either but I'm also not pushing I'm merely going with the flow until she walks into my life either from here or IRL.

You may ask why would I be seeking the ONE here but that's for another day.

So yes I would date and go further with someone from here if she and I completely gel but I so far haven't met anyone for that...most seem to be coupled up or wanting casual so the fun continues of course until then lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would have you anytime

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would date someone i met on here. But I know what you mean by saying that the majority of guys would just want to shag them. But there's a few guys like myself who don't just treat this like a cattle market x

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