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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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'Not looking for single guys'..
99% of the time will be posted on a couples profile, as opposed to a single female's profile.
My belief is simply this.. The guy in the couples profile will insist on this because he is frightened/scared/jealous that another guy will give his partner something that he cannot!
Convince me otherwise..! |
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"'Not looking for single guys'..
99% of the time will be posted on a couples profile, as opposed to a single female's profile.
My belief is simply this.. The guy in the couples profile will insist on this because he is frightened/scared/jealous that another guy will give his partner something that he cannot!
Convince me otherwise..! "
Maybe to stop the ten kajillion messages and friend requests couples get? |
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"'Not looking for single guys'..
99% of the time will be posted on a couples profile, as opposed to a single female's profile.
My belief is simply this.. The guy in the couples profile will insist on this because he is frightened/scared/jealous that another guy will give his partner something that he cannot!
Convince me otherwise..! "
Or just because if they're looking for a single guy then they will message them rather than be inundated.
We're "not looking for single guys" but our first meet as a couple was with another guy. |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"Swinging is what you make it. If a couple decide to swing to meet women and couples (which is common), they're not going to be looking for single guys. "
If they ever want a guy - they can easily pick one and contact him. |
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"Swinging is what you make it. If a couple decide to swing to meet women and couples (which is common), they're not going to be looking for single guys.
If they ever want a guy - they can easily pick one and contact him. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Utter bullshit, it's our choice. I can give my Mrs everything she needs thanks, it's a joint decision if we invite a guy in to our sex life, and not because I may think she'd run off with a random shag  |
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Thats daft talk OP. I (Mrs) am bi so prefer meeting couples where the ladies can play together. I get tge best of both worlds then.
Single guys can't contribute boobs and a fanny to the meet. It's that simple. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Erm no. We’re not looking for single guys because neither of us want to. We would like to occasionally meet just women. That may change in the future but at the moment I doubt it. Hope that convinces you |
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago
West Wales |
"'Not looking for single guys'..
99% of the time will be posted on a couples profile, as opposed to a single female's profile.
My belief is simply this.. The guy in the couples profile will insist on this because he is frightened/scared/jealous that another guy will give his partner something that he cannot!
Convince me otherwise..! "
Your right! I can’t give H what she wants 
But our girlfriend can!! 
H has always said if I ever leave or die there’s more chance she’ll end up with another female & just get the occasional cock when required from sites such as this.
Oh, so that means your wrong after all...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's funny how often "other people do stuff that doesn't suit me" gets twisted into "therefore there's something wrong with them". It's not a good look. "
All the time! |
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"The female of the couple doesn't want anything to do with another dick maybe?"
For me, it's because I'm more interested in females than guys xx my guy is completely comfortable with me being with other guys so this is my choice x |
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"The female of the couple doesn't want anything to do with another dick maybe?
For me, it's because I'm more interested in females than guys xx my guy is completely comfortable with me being with other guys so this is my choice x"
It wasn't meant as a complete generalisation for everyone ... there are all sorts of dynamics
I was offering one possibility |
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"The female of the couple doesn't want anything to do with another dick maybe?"
This is our situation.
The Mrs just isn’t interested in bringing a single guy in to our bed (unless it’s Jason Momoa). She’d play with the guy half of a couple, but the dynamic of two guys and one her just doesn’t appeal to her. We’ve played with a girl before in a FFM - but the Mrs just genuinely doesn’t want to do a MFM.
There’s certainly no pressure from my end for her to turn it down - we’re open and upfront about everything and I always tell her we could do anything she wants to do.
I also don’t think I’d be that bothered if a single guy came along and could hit spots that I couldn’t, after all - isn’t that kinda the point of this? If he could only do exactly the same things as I can do....there wouldn’t be any appeal in playing with others! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope its simple really i dont share whats mine be it women be it food cars money or awt also the fact i find other peoples cocks a total turn off i also have a jism phobia so seeing a guy shoot his load grosses me out as for the other thing why would i worry im a better fuck than you and every other man on this planet  |
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I seem to remember the exact same post some months ago.
However...
I suspect that many couples are the same as our profile and are looking to meet couples. This is a swinging site after all.
As a couple we do meet single men, but choose to do do at a club. Many couples may also search for themselves, rather than have loads of terrible messages... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"'Not looking for single guys'..
99% of the time will be posted on a couples profile, as opposed to a single female's profile.
My belief is simply this.. The guy in the couples profile will insist on this because he is frightened/scared/jealous that another guy will give his partner something that he cannot!
Convince me otherwise..! "
Nope.
I imagine it's mostly because whilst some couples genuinely aren't looking for single guys, a lot of the couples that are prefer to look for them themselves?
As if they don't put this then the 20-50 daily messages from single guys may become a ton a day avalanche that fucks their mailboxes up so they can't communicate easily with those they are meeting.
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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago
Plymouth |
We will occasionally meet men... they're still blocked!! We will find them!
Why? Because last time we the filters down we had around 75 messages and how many were worth pursuing? 3!! Which became 2 when we found out one was married which is clear no thanks on our profile!!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"'Not looking for single guys'..
99% of the time will be posted on a couples profile, as opposed to a single female's profile.
My belief is simply this.. The guy in the couples profile will insist on this because he is frightened/scared/jealous that another guy will give his partner something that he cannot!
Convince me otherwise..! "
It might just be to avoid messages from people who really have no understanding of why couples swing |
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
Shrewsbury |
We are not looking for single me because I red like to have sex with women.
Secondly with a pervious partner we met a single man who didn't take no for an answer and my husband at the time let him do it with my consent!
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"'Not looking for single guys'..
99% of the time will be posted on a couples profile, as opposed to a single female's profile.
My belief is simply this.. The guy in the couples profile will insist on this because he is frightened/scared/jealous that another guy will give his partner something that he cannot!
Convince me otherwise..! "
60+ messages in first few hours. I have no other half, insecure, 'hiding' from single men.
The site automatically puts that on when the message filters are activated.
I think you and I have very different ideas of what swinging is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a couple that do meet single guys,I can fully understand why many couples state no single guys on their profile.
The amount of moronic self entitled useless messages we get is unbelievable.
Fortunately I have no qualms about blocking and deleting |
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By *aneyyMan
over a year ago
london |
"'Not looking for single guys'..
99% of the time will be posted on a couples profile, as opposed to a single female's profile.
My belief is simply this.. The guy in the couples profile will insist on this because he is frightened/scared/jealous that another guy will give his partner something that he cannot!
Convince me otherwise..! "
Hmmm I think you will be hard pushed to be better in bed than a bf or partner that knows her body, likes kinks and dislikes in bed. The best sex I’ve had is always with someone I have know and been with a while. And I would assume that goes for most people so I think it’s just a preference.
I have found many couples interested in single guys, they just have a type usual as again, most do |
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"The female of the couple doesn't want anything to do with another dick maybe?
For me, it's because I'm more interested in females than guys xx my guy is completely comfortable with me being with other guys so this is my choice x
It wasn't meant as a complete generalisation for everyone ... there are all sorts of dynamics
I was offering one possibility"
Your reply was my reason, that's why I wanted to quote it, I'm not really that much interested in dick haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Or they don't want to be bombarded with crap messages from neanderthals. "
Mainly addressed to the woman and ignoring the guy. Blocking single men improves many peoples experience of fab and they can go looking for guys they fancy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This makes me completely roll my eyes. We are not meeting anyone for sex. But anything we do is decided together. I'm a soft player when I do play generally so if we decide to meet others it's more than likely I won't want to meet single guys as it wouldn't work as most want more than soft play and Beast is straight so it's pointless us meeting men
Besides woman are prettier
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That's kinda the worst attitude and one I'm certain would put me off from ever inviting someone like OP to join us.
You're not there to compete or give something more, you're there to amplify and enjoy two people letting you into their sex life temporarily.
You sound like an absolute catch
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"'Not looking for single guys'..
99% of the time will be posted on a couples profile, as opposed to a single female's profile.
My belief is simply this.. The guy in the couples profile will insist on this because he is frightened/scared/jealous that another guy will give his partner something that he cannot!
Convince me otherwise..! "
Maybe he would rathe just be naked with 2 females. What man wouldn't |
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We're principally looking for couples. Women are less likely to contact us with crass messages so we don't feel the need to deter them.
The caliber of men who have contacted us has largely been very low (and I'm not saying ALL Fab men are) so we don't need them to contact us.
I (Luke) am perfectly happy (even excited) by the prospect of a man joining us on occasion, but it has to be the RIGHT man. So far the men who have contacted us have been far from right, so we'll do the searching thank you very much. So you can forget the idea of it being some kind of insecurity. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's kinda the worst attitude and one I'm certain would put me off from ever inviting someone like OP to join us.
You're not there to compete or give something more, you're there to amplify and enjoy two people letting you into their sex life temporarily.
You sound like an absolute catch
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"'Not looking for single guys'..
99% of the time will be posted on a couples profile, as opposed to a single female's profile.
My belief is simply this.. The guy in the couples profile will insist on this because he is frightened/scared/jealous that another guy will give his partner something that he cannot!
Convince me otherwise..! "
This shows you’re lack of knowledge of what swinging is for some people. What you are showing us is a lack of respect for both members of the couple and thinking more of yourself than what you are really worth. Either is enough to exclude you from any fun with us. |
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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago
The Land that time forgot (Norfolk) |
It's just a numbers game, my penis satisfies her as much as any penis will but it will only ever be one penis.
She wants more than one penis at a time so for that we need a second man (or more) to join us. |
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
Edmonton |
"'Not looking for single guys'..
99% of the time will be posted on a couples profile, as opposed to a single female's profile.
My belief is simply this.. The guy in the couples profile will insist on this because he is frightened/scared/jealous that another guy will give his partner something that he cannot!
Convince me otherwise..! "
. With a lot of couples it’s a case of they don’t want to be inundated with messages from single guys.They can do a search and message any guy that’s interests them if they want to change their mind or they can just go to club and find a guy that interests them.Also a lot of couples may just want to swing with other couples or ladies |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We do not had single men on our profile. The wife does not fancy two men at the same time. We prefer couples so everyone has fun. The only time my wife squirts is with me. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you to everyone who posted
From what females have said; It comes down to the sheer amount of messages etc (I get that)
From what the guys have said; The female only wants them and no other male (Ooookaaaaaay  ) |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"'Not looking for single guys'..
99% of the time will be posted on a couples profile, as opposed to a single female's profile.
My belief is simply this.. The guy in the couples profile will insist on this because he is frightened/scared/jealous that another guy will give his partner something that he cannot!
Convince me otherwise..! "
It doesn't matter what you believe, it's none of your business. Nobody needs to try to convince you of anything because, again, it's none of your business. |
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By *hav02Man
over a year ago
Glasgow/London |
I've seen that alot, but yet they have multiple veris by single guys...
Perhaps another means to avoid an inbox spammed with dick pics.
Or it's just a single guy chancing it with a fake profile..
Nonetheless, up to them who they want to choose to meet with.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thank you to everyone who posted
From what females have said; It comes down to the sheer amount of messages etc (I get that)
From what the guys have said; The female only wants them and no other male (Ooookaaaaaay ) "
like i said im not a sharer and frankly theres nobody could stack up not even close  |
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"'Not looking for single guys'..
99% of the time will be posted on a couples profile, as opposed to a single female's profile.
My belief is simply this.. The guy in the couples profile will insist on this because he is frightened/scared/jealous that another guy will give his partner something that he cannot!
Convince me otherwise..! "
Sounds accurate. Loads of couples on here to fulfill the husbands mff fantasy. |
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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago
Hull |
I've met up with Couples who actually put on their Profile, they weren't seeking Single Males.
They did so for the reason they'd not be besieged with messages from single guys. The Couples also blocked said guys from making contact.
However, these Couples were able to respectively look around and choose likely Male options.
It worked for them as it did for me when approached.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've met up with Couples who actually put on their Profile, they weren't seeking Single Males.
They did so for the reason they'd not be besieged with messages from single guys. The Couples also blocked said guys from making contact.
However, these Couples were able to respectively look around and choose likely Male options.
It worked for them as it did for me when approached.
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We're a "reverse" cuckold couple. I like to see my man with other women. My man gives me all i'll ever need so i have no desire for another man. And because i play with other women its only fair he can play with other women too. |
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"Nope its simple really i dont share whats mine be it women be it food cars money or awt also the fact i find other peoples cocks a total turn off i also have a jism phobia so seeing a guy shoot his load grosses me out as for the other thing why would i worry im a better fuck than you and every other man on this planet "
Not your thing is fine. An irrational fear (presumably of other people's) cum - OK. You don't share - why are you here? Your partner is your property - no, he or she is not. Thanks for your many amusing and interesting contributions butvthis time I think you are wrong. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nope its simple really i dont share whats mine be it women be it food cars money or awt also the fact i find other peoples cocks a total turn off i also have a jism phobia so seeing a guy shoot his load grosses me out as for the other thing why would i worry im a better fuck than you and every other man on this planet
Not your thing is fine. An irrational fear (presumably of other people's) cum - OK. You don't share - why are you here? Your partner is your property - no, he or she is not. Thanks for your many amusing and interesting contributions butvthis time I think you are wrong."
wrong my property is what i say it is jizz is gross i came here for a laugh then fucked everyone i wanted to and more until i didnt want that anymore tried sharing twice and couldnt relax or enjoy it there my orgasms to give MINE!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We find there’s a reason why a lot of the guys are single. We just don’t like them. They offer no fun to our play. The play with other couples is more sensuous and enjoyable. Couples are selfish on the whole. And too date we’ve only found two guys we would happily play with and that’s only because they are from swinging couples and understand how to treat couples accordingly. |
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By *aekaeWoman
over a year ago
Between a cock and a soft place |
"Thank you to everyone who posted
From what females have said; It comes down to the sheer amount of messages etc (I get that)
From what the guys have said; The female only wants them and no other male
(Ooookaaaaaay ) "
Not believing the answers doesn't make them untrue.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t know about that... I tend to just remember that every profile is individual, and if it says “not looking for single guys” then I leave it well alone. |
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"Hmm, one man is in a couple and another is single.
Pretty obvious which one is better at sex  "
Not obvious at all. My ability to give sexual satisfaction to a woman has been at a similar level (I hope high!) when I have been in a long term relationship, a short term relationship or single. The type of sex may vary, the amount may vary. But not the levels of satisfaction. |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
Hillside desolate |
"Hmm, one man is in a couple and another is single.
Pretty obvious which one is better at sex
Not obvious at all. My ability to give sexual satisfaction to a woman has been at a similar level (I hope high!) when I have been in a long term relationship, a short term relationship or single. The type of sex may vary, the amount may vary. But not the levels of satisfaction. "
I believe 'twas a joke |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thank you to everyone who posted
From what females have said; It comes down to the sheer amount of messages etc (I get that)
From what the guys have said; The female only wants them and no other male (Ooookaaaaaay ) "
Erm...Nope again. That's the conclusion you've drawn perhaps, but I don't know where you get your research from. I,B, am the bloke in our couple. I for one said that couples who do look for single males don't want the avalanche of shit.
There's also plenty of women that have said they only want their partner male wise, as well as some that go with what you've said. Both reasons may even apply.
I can understand that you dearly dearly want what you're selling to be the case, for it at least gives you a purpose. But don't invent feedback, that's just silly.
Plus your chucking this hastily drawn conclusion at a lot of couples makes it a bit too personal, don't you think? But we can also look at it this way if you really want to break it down; You appear to be in decent physical shape for your age. So am I. You appear to be imaginative given this hogwash you've came up with as a conclusion and stuck to. But given our relative single guy profiles not as imaginative as I am. You don't appear to listen to what people actually want, given this thread and others just for starters. (Unless of course it's your express intention to put yourself on dozens of block lists, in which case fair play, goal achieved.) I do. So I win.
A conclusion also born out by the fact that before I met the lovely P and "Fab settled down" just over a year ago, I seemed to get many more satisfactory meets over the same time frame on my singles profile than you currently do.
See, anyone can do this, can't they?
Therefore why would I be particularly bothered about being "outbloked" or "outlovered" somehow by you? I'm not. And neither are plenty of other chaps in couples either. There will be a few no doubt, but chances are their relationships had problems anyway, rather than the root cause being your mere "presence"....
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Well said Bliss!
Well, for us, single men was never a thought. We came to satisfy Jo’s curiosity and my teenage fantasy of an ffm  and as someone has already said, I was more fearful of what a woman could do as oppose to a man.
Jo now fantasises about two cocks, she would like an mmf, if I was fearful that I would be outperformed (I like to hope they would try  ) then surely I would be picky in who got that opportunity? I would try to find someone who had less appeal than me?
Nope! I want the guy that makes her weak at the knees! The guy she can’t stop thinking about! She doesn’t need sexual satisfaction from a male, I’m more than capable (as hard as it is as she is insatiable) to give her all she requires from that. But for her current fantasy we would need another Male and it’s my opinion that my wife deserves the best so of course we will try and find exactly that
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well said Bliss!
Well, for us, single men was never a thought. We came to satisfy Jo’s curiosity and my teenage fantasy of an ffm and as someone has already said, I was more fearful of what a woman could do as oppose to a man.
Jo now fantasises about two cocks, she would like an mmf, if I was fearful that I would be outperformed (I like to hope they would try ) then surely I would be picky in who got that opportunity? I would try to find someone who had less appeal than me?
Nope! I want the guy that makes her weak at the knees! The guy she can’t stop thinking about! She doesn’t need sexual satisfaction from a male, I’m more than capable (as hard as it is as she is insatiable) to give her all she requires from that. But for her current fantasy we would need another Male and it’s my opinion that my wife deserves the best so of course we will try and find exactly that
D."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We're a "reverse" cuckold couple. I like to see my man with other women. My man gives me all i'll ever need so i have no desire for another man. And because i play with other women its only fair he can play with other women too. "
Ditto although it sometimes takes a while for others to understand why I get off seeing my OT with another woman. He is hot, he looks hot whilst fucking and I love to see the pleasure he is giving another woman. If I get to join in to, then even better
There are those that think I must only be doing it to keep him happy but that speaks more of their insecurities than mine. It takes a couple really secure in themselves and each other to be able to freely allow each other the pleasures of others.
It does nothing for my other half to see me with another guy so we don't introduce one as it isn't a mutual desire. I can go play on my own and he likes to hear about it but tbh I get everything I need male wise from my OT, it's the pleasure of women that my OT can't give.
It just so happens that the love of women is something we both share so we do, either solo as a voyeur or together - win win all round.
The arrogance of the single guys that do contact us who believe that wafting a big dick in our faces will suddenly make me run after them screaming 'oh god, where have you been all my life. Please come and service me now with your big dick' shows a complete lack of understanding about what being a couple and good sex is all about and defo makes me appreciate my OT even more |
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"Well said Bliss!
Well, for us, single men was never a thought. We came to satisfy Jo’s curiosity and my teenage fantasy of an ffm and as someone has already said, I was more fearful of what a woman could do as oppose to a man.
Jo now fantasises about two cocks, she would like an mmf, if I was fearful that I would be outperformed (I like to hope they would try ) then surely I would be picky in who got that opportunity? I would try to find someone who had less appeal than me?
Nope! I want the guy that makes her weak at the knees! The guy she can’t stop thinking about! She doesn’t need sexual satisfaction from a male, I’m more than capable (as hard as it is as she is insatiable) to give her all she requires from that. But for her current fantasy we would need another Male and it’s my opinion that my wife deserves the best so of course we will try and find exactly that
D.sorry dude "
well I took the hint some of the best are so fricken stubborn!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"'Not looking for single guys'..
99% of the time will be posted on a couples profile, as opposed to a single female's profile.
My belief is simply this.. The guy in the couples profile will insist on this because he is frightened/scared/jealous that another guy will give his partner something that he cannot!
Convince me otherwise..! "
Rubbish. When i was on here as a couple she was bi, never had eyes or wanted another guy just women. Nothing to do with jealousy she just loved inviting a woman into our relationship. |
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By *aekaeWoman
over a year ago
Between a cock and a soft place |
"Thank you to everyone who posted
From what females have said; It comes down to the sheer amount of messages etc (I get that)
From what the guys have said; The female only wants them and no other male
(Ooookaaaaaay ) "
I think it's funny that your opening post said "convince me otherwise" but when presented with the evidence, you choose to pooh pooh it.
Inbox not as full as you'd hoped by any chance?
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"Thank you to everyone who posted
From what females have said; It comes down to the sheer amount of messages etc (I get that)
From what the guys have said; The female only wants them and no other male
(Ooookaaaaaay )
I think it's funny that your opening post said "convince me otherwise" but when presented with the evidence, you choose to pooh pooh it.
Inbox not as full as you'd hoped by any chance?
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I suppose,if you can't get attention in your in box,say something contraversal in the forums |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thank you to everyone who posted
From what females have said; It comes down to the sheer amount of messages etc (I get that)
From what the guys have said; The female only wants them and no other male
(Ooookaaaaaay )
I think it's funny that your opening post said "convince me otherwise" but when presented with the evidence, you choose to pooh pooh it.
Inbox not as full as you'd hoped by any chance?
I suppose,if you can't get attention in your in box,say something contraversal in the forums "
I’m always so paranoid I’m going to say something controversial in the forums, haha. Things can be taken out of context when you’re just writing them out in a forum and I don’t want to be upsetting anyone. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I opened up this conversation to hopefully be convinced otherwise but..
Oh dear! I think I've hit a nerve with some people on here. Guys, please try not to be butt-hurt, it's okay to be a closet cuckold.
Well instead of alternatively convincing me otherwise, you've reaffirmed my initial belief
Cheers everyone |
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"I opened up this conversation to hopefully be convinced otherwise but..
Oh dear! I think I've hit a nerve with some people on here. Guys, please try not to be butt-hurt, it's okay to be a closet cuckold.
Well instead of alternatively convincing me otherwise, you've reaffirmed my initial belief
Cheers everyone "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I opened up this conversation to hopefully be convinced otherwise but..
Oh dear! I think I've hit a nerve with some people on here. Guys, please try not to be butt-hurt, it's okay to be a closet cuckold.
Well instead of alternatively convincing me otherwise, you've reaffirmed my initial belief
Cheers everyone "
I think someone is leg pulling.
I'm not looking for single guys, I have my guy.
If I did want another fella I'd look myself.... I'm more than capable of that believe it or not. I'm happy with the sex I'm having ta, I'm too fucking tired from working all the bastard time to fit any more in!
I do have holiday booked for us to meet and party with others, but as a couple meeting other couples. Will I indulge in another man wang then? Very probably. Will B be insecure about it? I really fucking doubt it, he never has before.
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A lot of couples’ not looking for single guys’ do full swap with other couples so the wife’s still has sex with other men so nothing to do with worrying how staggeringly awesome you think you might be as a single lol |
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"'Not looking for single guys'..
99% of the time will be posted on a couples profile, as opposed to a single female's profile.
My belief is simply this.. The guy in the couples profile will insist on this because he is frightened/scared/jealous that another guy will give his partner something that he cannot!
Convince me otherwise..! "
In our experience it's the influx of ridiculous messages. Abusive messages when turned down. It's not that wont meet single guys, it's more that want specifics and the woman to man ratio on here is mental.
In fact my man is more than happy for me to meet single guys.
It's myself that gets fed up at times and edit messaging settings |
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I can see why they do this, as some couples get bombarded with a lot of messages, also a a man in a couple set up set to me once, what are you bringing to the table, meaning if I rock up, shag his misses, who does he get to play with, although I have played with many couples that are happy doing that, some single guys have to respect that couples have a choice . All I will say, I find it funny sometimes when I see the who’s looked at me hit, to come across a load of couples with the no single guys, but then they are just looking, one day they might just message you for a chat |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"I opened up this conversation to hopefully be convinced otherwise but..
Oh dear! I think I've hit a nerve with some people on here. Guys, please try not to be butt-hurt, it's okay to be a closet cuckold.
Well instead of alternatively convincing me otherwise, you've reaffirmed my initial belief
Cheers everyone "
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over a year ago
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"Or maybe the majority of the couples are actual swingers and it's about the swapping for them? "
This, we have separate profiles if we fancy separate play. |
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It’s their choice to what they want and who they want to meet. They didn’t come on this site with your permission now did they?
To be honest I don’t blame couples not wanting to meet single guys. There are so many stupid single guys on this site that even though I am a straight guy as stated on my profile and I still get dick pics and desperately trashy messages. It’s either to annoy and torment me or they are plain stupid.
Dude give people a break. I don’t think anyone needs to justify their behaviour, desires or taste. It’s their choice. |
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By *aekaeWoman
over a year ago
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"I opened up this conversation to hopefully be convinced otherwise but..
Oh dear! I think I've hit a nerve with some people on here. Guys, please try not to be butt-hurt, it's okay to be a closet cuckold.
Well instead of alternatively convincing me otherwise, you've reaffirmed my initial belief
Cheers everyone "
It's days like today Fab really needs a "banging your head against the wall" emoji.
You've insulted the very people you're trying to meet.
Well played.
*slow hand claps.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I opened up this conversation to hopefully be convinced otherwise but..
Oh dear! I think I've hit a nerve with some people on here. Guys, please try not to be butt-hurt, it's okay to be a closet cuckold.
Well instead of alternatively convincing me otherwise, you've reaffirmed my initial belief
Cheers everyone
It's days like today Fab really needs a "banging your head against the wall" emoji.
You've insulted the very people you're trying to meet.
Well played.
*slow hand claps.... "
And a laughing emoji. Been saying this for years, haha |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"I opened up this conversation to hopefully be convinced otherwise but..
Oh dear! I think I've hit a nerve with some people on here. Guys, please try not to be butt-hurt, it's okay to be a closet cuckold.
Well instead of alternatively convincing me otherwise, you've reaffirmed my initial belief
Cheers everyone
It's days like today Fab really needs a "banging your head against the wall" emoji.
You've insulted the very people you're trying to meet.
Well played.
*slow hand claps....
And a laughing emoji. Been saying this for years, haha"
There is a laughing emoji |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would say that as us Single me are as in plentiful supply it simply allows them to approach us rather then be inundated. Think of us single men as junk mail but every so often they may see one they want to click on. |
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"'Not looking for single guys'..
99% of the time will be posted on a couples profile, as opposed to a single female's profile.
My belief is simply this.. The guy in the couples profile will insist on this because he is frightened/scared/jealous that another guy will give his partner something that he cannot!
Convince me otherwise..! "
Why should we? |
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By *aekaeWoman
over a year ago
Between a cock and a soft place |
"I opened up this conversation to hopefully be convinced otherwise but..
Oh dear! I think I've hit a nerve with some people on here. Guys, please try not to be butt-hurt, it's okay to be a closet cuckold.
Well instead of alternatively convincing me otherwise, you've reaffirmed my initial belief
Cheers everyone
It's days like today Fab really needs a "banging your head against the wall" emoji.
You've insulted the very people you're trying to meet.
Well played.
*slow hand claps....
And a laughing emoji. Been saying this for years, haha"
You're welcome. |
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By *icearmsMan
over a year ago
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"'Not looking for single guys'..
99% of the time will be posted on a couples profile, as opposed to a single female's profile.
My belief is simply this.. The guy in the couples profile will insist on this because he is frightened/scared/jealous that another guy will give his partner something that he cannot!
Convince me otherwise..!
Why should we?"
Because he told you to.. |
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"'Not looking for single guys'..
99% of the time will be posted on a couples profile, as opposed to a single female's profile.
My belief is simply this.. The guy in the couples profile will insist on this because he is frightened/scared/jealous that another guy will give his partner something that he cannot!
Convince me otherwise..!
Why should we?
Because he told you to.. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My belief is simply this.. The guy in the couples profile will insist on this because he is frightened/scared/jealous that another guy will give his partner something that he cannot!
Convince me otherwise..! "
Nah. Actually the site just writes that if you check the box 'block emails from men' on your profile.
Many people probably do block emails from men simply because it cuts down on the spam from fucktards.
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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My belief is simply this.. The guy in the couples profile will insist on this because he is frightened/scared/jealous that another guy will give his partner something that he cannot!
Convince me otherwise..!
Nah. Actually the site just writes that if you check the box 'block emails from men' on your profile.
Many people probably do block emails from men simply because it cuts down on the spam from fucktards.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"'Not looking for single guys'..
99% of the time will be posted on a couples profile, as opposed to a single female's profile.
My belief is simply this.. The guy in the couples profile will insist on this because he is frightened/scared/jealous that another guy will give his partner something that he cannot!
Convince me otherwise..! "
Some women genuinely only want to meet other women or couples. It's almost like they're their own person with their own preferences... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As a couple that do meet single guys,I can fully understand why many couples state no single guys on their profile.
The amount of moronic self entitled useless messages we get is unbelievable.
Fortunately I have no qualms about blocking and deleting"
exactly this |
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Absolut bollocks! Both my fella and myself love sharing me. No jelusey or fear by him about what another man can give / do for me. Having 2 men at once, you can do things you can't do in a pair. Spit roast for example. Impossible on his own, dp, and stag and vixen play. Having another man in the bedroom enhances and adds to our play. Just pure lust and animalinstink.
Not to be confused when we are just a pair and making love to each other.
Saying that, it has to be the right guy. We do get daily messages, typical ones visiting or passing through our area with offers to play. We have lives and can't play at the drop of a hat, or free every evening. So we do block on occasion, just to stop massages. |
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"'Not looking for single guys'..
99% of the time will be posted on a couples profile, as opposed to a single female's profile.
My belief is simply this.. The guy in the couples profile will insist on this because he is frightened/scared/jealous that another guy will give his partner something that he cannot!
Convince me otherwise..! "
Total crap! I simply prefer women! The page is predominantly ran by me. Mr is definitely not scared etc, as a couples meet would mean another guy with me anyway. It’s just that I don’t want to have to plough through the rubbish that a lot of single men send in a message, to get to what I want- a profile with a woman on it! I want another woman in my bed. Hence single men are blocked. When I want to meet we remove the filters or message directly, it’s that simple.
It’s my belief that 96% (plucked the number from the air) of couples reading this will have the female of the couple laughing, that a single man thinks that their partner isn’t able to satisfy her as well as another man, so knowing this, denies her the chance to find out...
Viv xx
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"'Not looking for single guys'..
99% of the time will be posted on a couples profile, as opposed to a single female's profile.
My belief is simply this.. The guy in the couples profile will insist on this because he is frightened/scared/jealous that another guy will give his partner something that he cannot!
Convince me otherwise..! "
Because they want to be true swingers in the sense that they are looking for only couples to play with.
Why do they have to want single males as a couple,
You convince the forum otherwise. |
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By *icearmsMan
over a year ago
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"'Not looking for single guys'..
99% of the time will be posted on a couples profile, as opposed to a single female's profile.
My belief is simply this.. The guy in the couples profile will insist on this because he is frightened/scared/jealous that another guy will give his partner something that he cannot!
Convince me otherwise..!
Why should we?
Because he told you to..
He's not the boss of me "
That's very true... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Probably the case with a few but not all, isn’t it just preference?
We do meet single guys but I have an inbox bursting with some seriously bizarre messages and if I sold my panties to as many guys as asked I’d be rich. I can get why couples can’t be bothered with it. |
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By *coptoCouple
over a year ago
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“frightened/scared/jealous that another guy will give his partner something that he cannot!”
But does “another guy” want my mortgage, debts, care of my kids, wife’s VERY expensive tastes (more shoes than Imelda Marcos)? He just wants to fuck her and, as far as I’m concerned, when she’s got an itch, I encourage her to scratch it.
And so what if one night she’s a bit tipsy and fancies something or someone different? Back to the same old, same old in the morning... |
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"'Not looking for single guys'..
99% of the time will be posted on a couples profile, as opposed to a single female's profile.
My belief is simply this.. The guy in the couples profile will insist on this because he is frightened/scared/jealous that another guy will give his partner something that he cannot!
Convince me otherwise..! "
Complete rubbish but if it makes you feel better then believe what you want to believe. |
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Good points made OP and you are correct in many if these . My theory is there are a lot of pretend couples on Fab too. Either that or the wife hadn't a clue what hubby is up to with his posted in 2014 picture collection/ nothing since then etc so obv straight guys don't want to get messaged by other straight guys in this situation .
Of course genuine cples exist who don't want straight guys or any guys messaging as well .you just have to work out who is real and who not ,just like always .. but then none of them want to talk to a guy anyway so believe you me they are not worth bothering with either. It is best to save your time for something better .
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"'Not looking for single guys'..
99% of the time will be posted on a couples profile, as opposed to a single female's profile.
My belief is simply this.. The guy in the couples profile will insist on this because he is frightened/scared/jealous that another guy will give his partner something that he cannot!
Convince me otherwise..! "
Ever wish u hadn't asked?? |
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over a year ago
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"'Not looking for single guys'..
99% of the time will be posted on a couples profile, as opposed to a single female's profile.
My belief is simply this.. The guy in the couples profile will insist on this because he is frightened/scared/jealous that another guy will give his partner something that he cannot!
Convince me otherwise..!
Ever wish u hadn't asked?? "
I think this attitude feeds into the whole problems on fab. |
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"'Not looking for single guys'..
99% of the time will be posted on a couples profile, as opposed to a single female's profile.
My belief is simply this.. The guy in the couples profile will insist on this because he is frightened/scared/jealous that another guy will give his partner something that he cannot!
Convince me otherwise..!
It doesn't matter what you believe, it's none of your business. Nobody needs to try to convince you of anything because, again, it's none of your business."
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"'Not looking for single guys'..
99% of the time will be posted on a couples profile, as opposed to a single female's profile.
My belief is simply this.. The guy in the couples profile will insist on this because he is frightened/scared/jealous that another guy will give his partner something that he cannot!
Convince me otherwise..! "
Better to read this on a profile in here so you don’t waste any time messaging them, than to continually hear it when you approach couples in a club |
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"My belief is simply this.. The guy in the couples profile will insist on this because he is frightened/scared/jealous that another guy will give his partner something that he cannot! "
On the couples profile I'm on we regularly flick the "No Single Guys" and message filters because the messages start flooding in as soon as either of us logs in. 99% of the message are carbon copies of what the guy's already sent multiple times already. The flood slowly tail off as we move down the "see who's near" list.
BTW... I'm posting from my single profile to prevent the unavoidable flood whenever we post from the couples profile on the forums  |
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over a year ago
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"'Not looking for single guys'..
99% of the time will be posted on a couples profile, as opposed to a single female's profile.
My belief is simply this.. The guy in the couples profile will insist on this because he is frightened/scared/jealous that another guy will give his partner something that he cannot!
Convince me otherwise..!
Ever wish u hadn't asked?? "
Quite the opposite, other than the wardrobe cucks that are unable to hold a conversation. I've had some great PM discussions with respectable individuals that are open to points of view that differ to their own. |
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"95% of men here are the drivelling shits "
Actually it's a massive amount less than that. But that lower proportion of those drivelling shits are probably responsible for close to 95% of the messages couples and ladies receive as they send out far more than the other guys.
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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago
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"'Not looking for single guys'..
99% of the time will be posted on a couples profile, as opposed to a single female's profile.
My belief is simply this.. The guy in the couples profile will insist on this because he is frightened/scared/jealous that another guy will give his partner something that he cannot!
Convince me otherwise..!
Ever wish u hadn't asked??
Quite the opposite, other than the wardrobe cucks that are unable to hold a conversation. I've had some great PM discussions with respectable individuals that are open to points of view that differ to their own. "
Not everything on our profile page is gospel for our meets , We all see hear and have a right to change our minds and the messages to , I have had two a month sometimes lol happy new year fabulous ladies |
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By *aekaeWoman
over a year ago
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"'Not looking for single guys'..
99% of the time will be posted on a couples profile, as opposed to a single female's profile.
My belief is simply this.. The guy in the couples profile will insist on this because he is frightened/scared/jealous that another guy will give his partner something that he cannot!
Convince me otherwise..!
Ever wish u hadn't asked??
Quite the opposite, other than the wardrobe cucks that are unable to hold a conversation. I've had some great PM discussions with respectable individuals that are open to points of view that differ to their own. "
Ooooooooook. |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"'Not looking for single guys'..
99% of the time will be posted on a couples profile, as opposed to a single female's profile.
My belief is simply this.. The guy in the couples profile will insist on this because he is frightened/scared/jealous that another guy will give his partner something that he cannot!
Convince me otherwise..!
Ever wish u hadn't asked??
Quite the opposite, other than the wardrobe cucks that are unable to hold a conversation. I've had some great PM discussions with respectable individuals that are open to points of view that differ to their own. "
You should try doing that too |
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"'Not looking for single guys'..
99% of the time will be posted on a couples profile, as opposed to a single female's profile.
My belief is simply this.. The guy in the couples profile will insist on this because he is frightened/scared/jealous that another guy will give his partner something that he cannot!
Convince me otherwise..! "
It not often I am I complete agreement with someone on here but your 100% right lots of ugly bastards on here with a good looking woman.
Last thing they want is for them to go with a handsome real man like me
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By *aekaeWoman
over a year ago
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"'Not looking for single guys'..
99% of the time will be posted on a couples profile, as opposed to a single female's profile.
My belief is simply this.. The guy in the couples profile will insist on this because he is frightened/scared/jealous that another guy will give his partner something that he cannot!
Convince me otherwise..!
It not often I am I complete agreement with someone on here but your 100% right lots of ugly bastards on here with a good looking woman.
Last thing they want is for them to go with a handsome real man like me
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You're looking to meet couples aren't you.......
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"'Not looking for single guys'..
99% of the time will be posted on a couples profile, as opposed to a single female's profile.
My belief is simply this.. The guy in the couples profile will insist on this because he is frightened/scared/jealous that another guy will give his partner something that he cannot!
Convince me otherwise..! "
Female of couple speaking here. Sorry, but I'm the one that wanted to come on here to explore my bi side and have FFMs. I'm not interested in another guy.
If I were, T would have no issue with it - just like I have no issue with him fucking, kissing and touching other women. It's sex.
xxN
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"'Not looking for single guys'..
99% of the time will be posted on a couples profile, as opposed to a single female's profile.
My belief is simply this.. The guy in the couples profile will insist on this because he is frightened/scared/jealous that another guy will give his partner something that he cannot!
Convince me otherwise..!
It not often I am I complete agreement with someone on here but your 100% right lots of ugly bastards on here with a good looking woman.
Last thing they want is for them to go with a handsome real man like me
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Well, your right shoulder looks acceptable I suppose.
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As a couple we are looking for couples. I am bi curious so would love to explore this more and hubby happy to watch or play. He also loves to c me with other men when it comes to that we open up our messages we were totally in undated so within a few hours we had to close it back down. So nope hubby not worried about other men. He loves seeing me pleasured but sometimes it's too much stress xx |
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