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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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My neighbour who backs onto my house regularly get dressed and undressed in her bedroom as my bedroom is on line with her I get to see everything she is around 23 and as I know off lives alone I'm unsure if she knows I can see her or just teasing do I mention it to her or just carry on looking?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it is highly unlikely she wants you watching her.
Do not say anything and maybe next time divert your eyes.
In all likelihood this lady - if she exists - is just getting changed in her home and not thinking about people perving on her. |
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She isn't getting dressed and undressed in her bedroom "because" it's in line with yours. She's getting dressed and undressed in her bedroom because it's her bedroom.
Close your curtains or stop looking. If she wants you to look she'll start dressing and undressing in her kitchen. |
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I remember many moons ago when I was a kid my mum used to sunbathe in the back yard of our house, until she found out next doors creepy teenage son was watching her. My dad went round and threatened to knock his head off lol |
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"Does everybody wander about naked in front of their windows? Am I the only one that shuts the curtains when I'm getting changed?  "
Nope, I shut my curtains. I would expect though to be able to change in my own house without worrying that someone thought I was teasing them. |
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As I was driving away from home this morning I noticed that when the sun shines into our kitchen which is at the back of the house you can see right in to it from the path at the front of the house. I often walk about semi dressed thinking I couldn't be seen as I was at the back and well away from the road. Would a passing person who looked in think I was doing it deliberately!? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Strange some of the comments people put on here sure your all saints I'm not being creepy as some say I was asking should I mention it to her or as some say sit in darkness with my curtains closed |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It amazes me that someone would see a woman getting undressed in her own home as an invitation. Life isn't a porn movie. This post just sounds predatory"
noone mentioned an invitation I was asking as she may not be aware and not too cause any problems for her or me
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"Strange some of the comments people put on here sure your all saints I'm not being creepy as some say I was asking should I mention it to her or as some say sit in darkness with my curtains closed "
OK.
Next time you see her mention that you're concerned that you can see into her house when she's undressing and you're not sure if she knew. |
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"It amazes me that someone would see a woman getting undressed in her own home as an invitation. Life isn't a porn movie. This post just sounds predatorynoone mentioned an invitation I was asking as she may not be aware and not too cause any problems for her or me"
To be fair you did ask if she could be teasing or if you should carry on looking |
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By (user no longer on site)
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No. Don't mention it to her. Try and think for a minute, put your penis down. And ask yourself WHY a girl of that age would be teasing a man who's more than old enough to be her father? Why on earth are you even talking about this? I can understand you having a look, we're only human. But if it was me I'd want to make damn sure no one knew I was doing it  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It amazes me that someone would see a woman getting undressed in her own home as an invitation. Life isn't a porn movie. This post just sounds predatorynoone mentioned an invitation I was asking as she may not be aware and not too cause any problems for her or me
To be fair you did ask if she could be teasing or if you should carry on looking "
true but if she is unaware she can be seen I should mention it to her I'm sure if a male was getting naked facing you you would look? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Strange some of the comments people put on here sure your all saints I'm not being creepy as some say I was asking should I mention it to her or as some say sit in darkness with my curtains closed
OK.
Next time you see her mention that you're concerned that you can see into her house when she's undressing and you're not sure if she knew. "
probably best answer back yet |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It amazes me that someone would see a woman getting undressed in her own home as an invitation. Life isn't a porn movie. This post just sounds predatorynoone mentioned an invitation I was asking as she may not be aware and not too cause any problems for her or me
To be fair you did ask if she could be teasing or if you should carry on looking true but if she is unaware she can be seen I should mention it to her I'm sure if a male was getting naked facing you you would look? "
No? Why would I? And if she's unaware why don't you just stop watching her and let her live her life in peace? If you had a daughter that age would you want some bloke who's thirty years older going round to her house and telling her he's been watching her naked? You think she's going to want to hear that? |
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"My neighbour who backs onto my house regularly get dressed and undressed in her bedroom as my bedroom is on line with her I get to see everything she is around 23 and as I know off lives alone I'm unsure if she knows I can see her or just teasing do I mention it to her or just carry on looking?? "
You do nothing. If you happen to look you happen to look. It's her responsibility to close her curtains if she wants privacy not for you to assume she does.
If you get to see her you get to see her if you don't you don't it's upto her.
If however you are peeking through a keyhole then you're being sad desperate and creepy but if you're in your room and she's on full display then stand up and give her a round of applause lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My neighbour who backs onto my house regularly get dressed and undressed in her bedroom as my bedroom is on line with her I get to see everything she is around 23 and as I know off lives alone I'm unsure if she knows I can see her or just teasing do I mention it to her or just carry on looking??
You do nothing. If you happen to look you happen to look. It's her responsibility to close her curtains if she wants privacy not for you to assume she does.
If you get to see her you get to see her if you don't you don't it's upto her.
If however you are peeking through a keyhole then you're being sad desperate and creepy but if you're in your room and she's on full display then stand up and give her a round of applause lol "
But still leave her alone. Watch if you truly have to, jerk off... Whatever. Just keep it to yourself. |
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"It amazes me that someone would see a woman getting undressed in her own home as an invitation. Life isn't a porn movie. This post just sounds predatorynoone mentioned an invitation I was asking as she may not be aware and not too cause any problems for her or me
To be fair you did ask if she could be teasing or if you should carry on looking true but if she is unaware she can be seen I should mention it to her I'm sure if a male was getting naked facing you you would look? "
I'd probably glance but I wouldn't stare and I wouldn't look again deliberately.
I wouldn't mention it to him either. |
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By *ng1983Couple
over a year ago
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"It amazes me that someone would see a woman getting undressed in her own home as an invitation. Life isn't a porn movie. This post just sounds predatorynoone mentioned an invitation I was asking as she may not be aware and not too cause any problems for her or me
To be fair you did ask if she could be teasing or if you should carry on looking "
This is why I thought it sounded predatory. If they said should I mention it as she may not be aware, and left it at that, then I may not have misunderstood the post
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I’m sorry but do some of these men commenting have no decency?
If someone is undressing in my line of vision, I do not stare at them. It’s just polite.
I have seen a female neighbour topless through her window before. You know what I did? Got on with whatever I was doing before I noticed. I didn’t stare and I certainly didn’t go and make her feel uncomfortable by telling her I had seen her.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m sorry but do some of these men commenting have no decency?
If someone is undressing in my line of vision, I do not stare at them. It’s just polite.
I have seen a female neighbour topless through her window before. You know what I did? Got on with whatever I was doing before I noticed. I didn’t stare and I certainly didn’t go and make her feel uncomfortable by telling her I had seen her.
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I don't think it's decency as such, just confusion and too much porn. It's like something that happens in a porn film, young girl teases much older guy etc. Reality is she's probably thinking about some ripped guy her own age and just hasn't thought to close the curtains. |
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It’s up to HER to close HER curtains if she wants privacy. If you want to watch that’s your business. Anyone who leaves their curtains open in a lit room then gets undressed either doesn’t care who sees or is doing it deliberately.
If the boot was on the other foot, he would probably be accused of being a sex pest.
If you want privacy then draw your curtains......take some responsibility for your own actions! |
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Simple solution.
Ignore all the holier than thou people.
Every time you see her doing it.
Do the same turn lights on and get dressed or undressed in front of your window lights on,if it's ok for her to do it why can't you.
Fight fire with fire.
If she comes knocking bingo
If she closes her curtains then she was oblivious
If the old bill knock your door down and cart you off then maybe it's time to move. |
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We both dress and undress in our bedroom without closing the curtains.
Usually its just a case of not having the time nor energy to do anything about it, but occasionally it can be fun, both in fantasy, or in reality.
...like when the builders were building another house at the foot of our garden ...  |
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"My neighbour who backs onto my house regularly get dressed and undressed in her bedroom as my bedroom is on line with her I get to see everything she is around 23 and as I know off lives alone I'm unsure if she knows I can see her or just teasing do I mention it to her or just carry on looking?? "
She,s getting dressed an undressed in her own bedroom not yours so stop gawping.....next knock on the door might be the coppers love....so think on eh... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My neighbour who backs onto my house regularly get dressed and undressed in her bedroom as my bedroom is on line with her I get to see everything she is around 23 and as I know off lives alone I'm unsure if she knows I can see her or just teasing do I mention it to her or just carry on looking??
She,s getting dressed an undressed in her own bedroom not yours so stop gawping.....next knock on the door might be the coppers love....so think on eh..."
This attitude is apparently 'holier than thou'. Suddenly the horrendously high rates of stalking and harassment of women make sense when you realise people think its puritanical to object to it. |
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"My neighbour who backs onto my house regularly get dressed and undressed in her bedroom as my bedroom is on line with her I get to see everything she is around 23 and as I know off lives alone I'm unsure if she knows I can see her or just teasing do I mention it to her or just carry on looking?? "
If she’s fit keep looking. If she’s pig ugly mention something  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My neighbour who backs onto my house regularly get dressed and undressed in her bedroom as my bedroom is on line with her I get to see everything she is around 23 and as I know off lives alone I'm unsure if she knows I can see her or just teasing do I mention it to her or just carry on looking??
If she’s fit keep looking. If she’s pig ugly mention something "
Oh and this as well as the puritanical accusations. |
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I always get undressed in front of my window. Thankfully my window overlooks my garden and no one can see in.
