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Are you good at seeing the signs if someone likes you?
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
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"Nope, I don't have great self esteem so if someone is flirting I feel like there are ulterior motives.
I usually think I'm misreading the signals. "
Yep, this too, it's tricky. I'm not one to beat around the bush, I make it very clear if I'm interested, usually going so far as to just come out and say it so I find it difficult reading people who aren't like a sledgehammer with their feelings lol. |
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"Yes buying signals are obvious"
Did a sales course on "eye movement" signals decades ago which was interesting.
Passed it on to my team and went out with each of them to mentor and one lad actually stared at the customers eyes really intently trying to pick up on it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No. I think people should change colour or something if they fancy you. It would make things so much easier.
 I'm rubbish"
Relief to know even the hot women cant make out how much others are interested in them! |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
I get confused easily when it comes to signals unless they're blunt about it - and have sometimes perceived interest when none is there, and vice versa - so yep I need to be hit over the head with a club labelled "interest" and even then I don't always see it  |
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"Nope, I don't have great self esteem so if someone is flirting I feel like there are ulterior motives."
I think I’m like that (I’m the man part of the couple), if you don’t expect someone to be attracted to you then you probably miss all but the most blatant signals (and probably those too) |
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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago
local, but not too local |
"I just assume they want to fuck me, if anyone has other feelings they need to tell me because I'm crap at reading people.  "
I can see how this would work for you the rest of us may get into trouble. |
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No, (jk male half here) always being appallingly bad at it, as I've never wanted to over step the 'boundaries' and upset them or make them feel uncomfortable as even though I'm a bit of a deviant, I'm also a gentleman. |
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It’s one of the things we need to figure out in clubs... our first visit was really great, we didn’t play with anyone else, and we couldn’t figure out the correct etiquette.
Obviously it’s just common sense not to do anything without permission, but asking to join in seemed like a really big step. Is it because we are new? Are there signals... or is it different? |
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I (Luke) am certainly better than I used to be. I missed out on a few opportunities in my 20s,and also put my foot in it with others.
What I'm also better at is putting out signals that I'm interested that aren't intimidating and allow somebody to show me more openly they are receptive. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I'm really good at seeing if other people fancy someone but when it comes to me it can be clouded with self doubt. Sometimes it's really obvious and I can tell but mainly I just think they are being friendly.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope!
Adhd...
Truthsayer.. Lying is a mysterious art to me.
Fantastic lover and sexual adventurer, but flirting and false honesties are completely lost on me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not really. I've had numerous people try to kill me over the years. Wasnt until one tried several times, that I realised they really had a thing about me personally! |
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I (Mrs) can read signals pretty well, but as for Mr, a girl would have to straddle him naked before he would get the hint.
So ladies, if you like my man, please be forthcoming and just tell him in direct basic language......ie I really want to f*ck you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I (Mrs) can read signals pretty well, but as for Mr, a girl would have to straddle him naked before he would get the hint.
So ladies, if you like my man, please be forthcoming and just tell him in direct basic language......ie I really want to f*ck you "
Better yet, do that for everyone. Playing coy just invites misunderstandings - either people see what isn't there, or they err on the side of caution and keep their distance. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I definitely have seen the signs a few times, mainly after a few social drinks. There was a particularly fantastic woman I met from here, that I definitely showed signs, after our first social, she was interested. But they seem to be few and far between lately haha. Maybe I’m not as perceptive as I think |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
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Hmmmm I must say I don’t do the running so people sometimes think I am not interested and just chatting whilst actually I want to bend them rover and fuck the hell of them
Actually there is someone at moment who I want to give a wank show to but I am a bit shy to ask lol |
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In my younger days, I'd be out in a pub or club, generally oblivious if a woman was subtly interested.
The number of times the realisation came the following day is embarrassing.
It's simpler now that no one is interested, at least when I'm in the real world. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm hopeless. I wouldn't think anyone liked me unless they told me as much or accepted my invite to share my company. I'm not afraid to ask someone out but I have never once expected to hear yes in reply. |
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