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Well as a newbie I was only able to access the forums yesterday and I must admit it’s my favourite part of fab by far, it seems to be where the more genuine people are and I’m enjoying the serious threads and the banter  I’m looking forward to the day when I’m not a newbie though  |
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"Well as a newbie I was only able to access the forums yesterday and I must admit it’s my favourite part of fab by far, it seems to be where the more genuine people are and I’m enjoying the serious threads and the banter I’m looking forward to the day when I’m not a newbie though "
I agree the forum makes this site a whole lot more fun |
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"Well as a newbie I was only able to access the forums yesterday and I must admit it’s my favourite part of fab by far, it seems to be where the more genuine people are and I’m enjoying the serious threads and the banter I’m looking forward to the day when I’m not a newbie though "
For the forum, just keep contributing and you'll get there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hey! I'm a pirate called Matey. I'm from the Dark Waters. I like booty and treasure maps and I love me some tuna. I'm really dedicated to my job as a pirate. My ship is huge and all the mermaids throw themselves at me when I sail on the sea. It isn't as easy as people think!! I miss my family back on land so bad!! |
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Multi-spectral vision, trans lesbian, over developed sense of empathy (such that i too much look for the best in people beyond where it's good for myself). Bookworm, comics nerd, computer geek. Very eclectic taste in music - basically love everything where i can go "wow, these people have talent and love to use it" - utterly uninterested when it's talentless and just a money making exercise. Hoarder of stuff. Probably on the wrong site for what i really want... |
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over a year ago
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Meet me for a drink and I'll tell you some things about me, not everything though , as we wont have much to talk about when we meet again, if we get time to talk that is. |
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We're Hannah and Luke. We recently moved in together. Luke is English and Hannah is American. We're both avid musicians and live classical music.
Luke has been on this scene for a few years. Hannah is pretty new. We are taking things slowly. We have a few fantasies we would like to fulfil.
Luke is very slightly bi and Hannah is pretty close to just saying she is bi. Our arrangement is we can meet same-sex people separately (Luke with men and Hannah with women) but when a mix of the sexes is involved we only meet together.
We are totally, horribly, sickeningly in love. |
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"Hey! I'm a pirate called Matey. I'm from the Dark Waters. I like booty and treasure maps and I love me some tuna. I'm really dedicated to my job as a pirate. My ship is huge and all the mermaids throw themselves at me when I sail on the sea. It isn't as easy as people think!! I miss my family back on land so bad!! "
Ahoy there!
We're also very keen on booty. Would you guide our canoe into your port? |
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By *xhib12Man
over a year ago
Blyth |
Hello you lot, I'm Kev, been on Fab for a few years. Far too sarcastic for my own good. Too lazy to do much to get a meet. Like to get on cam when I can, which isn't as often as I like as I'm far busier than I want to be because I can't say no when people need helping out. |
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Afternoon. Nice to meet you all.I probably fall into the returner category. Been here almost 3 years. First 2 profiles were verified and just back a few months now with this one.
A lover of the great outdoors. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You missed serial returners
Yeah but old timers kind of covers some of us  "
I'm NVC and have been a member on and off for errrrmmmm dunno but it cannot be far from double figures.
My forum input and membership very much depends on what's going on in my life - like with everyone I'm sure.
Oh I can be a sarky mare but unintentionally offensive.
Welcome newbies. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I'm Meli, I've been here for quite a few years now. I'm a curious so and so, sometimes I adopt the facade of intelligence and I oft *waffle on about any and everything when a few words would suffice. I like voices and socks and halloumi and books and kindness. I'm quite a retiring sort really.
*see above. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi, I'm Max
I have had a period of flitting between here and dogging.co.uk but I'm not sure why I stayed there so long last time. Very quiet and there seems to be an awful lot going on here.
So, glad to be back as a returner and occasional lurker! |
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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago
local, but not too local |
I’m a newbie (although I had an old defunct account). I wandered in here because my naughty Twitter is getting a bit stale and one of my followers suggested it.
I’m quite enjoying the forums. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
I'm Bo I've been on fab for a about 6 months now it's my first time on a site like this It's been interesting and fun for the most part.The forums are good fun and great to interact with people and see others views in things sometimes it is a real eye opener.
I like my dogs and horse and love being out with them when I'm off work. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I take little seriously, work too hard and thought I knew about everything until 3 years ago when I discovered being single, the Internet and the fact I knew nothing. |
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I’m Saff  been around on and off over the last 6 years.. sometimes ponder on the forums, sometimes just loiter in the shadows. Love a good chat and have met the loveliest people over the years here.
Currently off radar enjoying life, but like watching what everyone’s up to x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am a newbie, definitely a lurker and people watcher and an old timer too. I am shy, quiet and reserved, but get beyond that and watch out, pandora's box. A real enigma. Can't see what others see in me to be honest, half my trouble of no success on here, oh and did I mention a low self esteem!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hello and good evening all
I am MissaP, been around for a few years under various guises.
I enjoy porn, photography and books on guns!
I also like bacon.
I spend most of my time confused and although I have a gym subscription I choose not to go.
I do like bacon |
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By *hine100Man
over a year ago
Milton Keynes |
I've been here for a while but mostly fairly quiet. Just started to follow the forums and having a laugh, widely entertaining. I'm also starting to improve with my confidence in contacting others so hoping that will allow me to unlock my inner wild one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hey I'm Zipper. Been here around a year though nowhere to be seen for that last month or 2. I think I'm funny, charming and empathic but you might just think I'm annoying. I would have posted a lot to the forums but since reappearing a few days ago I've been trying more to pick my moments rather than be a thread pest. That being said, post as much or as little as you like newbies, I would just say keep it friendly and respectful and you will have a ball. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Names tom
I think of myself as easy to.get on with, always up for a laugh.
I try keep fit as I play footy every week,
Here to make friends as well as have fun |
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I'm guilty of loitering a lot, mainly because I can't keep up with the fast moving threads 
I do stick my oar in occasionally though. I like to perv at pictures, and am quite generous in my use of the Fab button. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have been on and off here for several years, occasional forum poster and general nice chap.
I am happily entering my grumpy old man phase; which means early mornings, turning the thermostat down and the volume up in the TV, t jackets, Horlicks and early nights.
Other than that I am a barrel of laughs. |
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I’m DC! Champagne connoisseur! Usually a regular forum poster but more of a lurker recently. I’ve been a fab user for almost 3 years, selective in who I will meet but have, until recently collided with some great people here - socially and 1:1
I enjoy the forum interaction, but I don’t suffer fools or take prisoners! Ive established some great virtual friendships here and met many at social events.
It is for the main, a great place to meet people lovely buggers they are too |
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We're a bit weird - into medieval reenactment & steampunk, been married since 1992, like posing for photos, both work Mon-Fri so try to make the most of our weekends.
Very social animals, very approachable & relaxed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been here about a year met a few lovely people in that time, would like to meet more. I have found recently using the forums has generated more conversations and more views but ive had no meets for a while now and I'd like to think I've never been too rude! |
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I'm GMF - my profile pretty much says it all about me.
If you're a sexy and slim lurker, aged 21 to 45, and bearing the slightest facial resemblance to Jodie Comer or Salma Hayek, come 'hit me up'...
A very recent lookalikey thread suggested I have the visual attributes and appeal of Tom Hardy, Ryan Giggs, Robbie Williams, and Jonny Lee Miller ...just saying!
Oh, and I really am a champagne connoisseur...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are paul and Jess.
Probably lurkers in the forums but been on fab for a while now
Mainly me (Jess) in the forums maybe i should start commenting/joining in more haha x |
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Been here on and off I think around 3 or so years . Usual story . I was 'made' single by someone who's boots I am not fit to etc .. my fault entirely I accept that . Everyone's moved on apart from me .
However ,working out who you are again some 20 years later is proving a huge challenge on every level .
I spent time in the ' small ads' bit AKA profile trawling and perving. Really don't want this to come out the wrong way but I struggle with some of the 'intelligencia' that seems to lurk there especially . I'm no rocket scientist! but seriously some folk are ..let's say emotionally ,educationally and in lots of cases personality 'challenged ! I can't get on with someone I don't at least have some respect for when I meet them . Just the way it is !
Result is I have stopped looking to meet anyone per se .
I just look at the nice pictures and do some fabbing tbh .
The 'bait' such as it is ? still in the water . However my ' wiggling' to attract anyone's attention on here or anywhere else for that matter are truly done .
Finding a far more easier,less stressful even like minded people/ time of things reading the forums and making the odd contribution here and there .
That will do until I see my float sink.. if it does . |
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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm GMF - my profile pretty much says it all about me.
If you're a sexy and slim lurker, aged 21 to 45, and bearing the slightest facial resemblance to Jodie Comer or Salma Hayek, come 'hit me up'...
A very recent lookalikey thread suggested I have the visual attributes and appeal of Tom Hardy, Ryan Giggs, Robbie Williams, and Jonny Lee Miller ...just saying!
Oh, and I really am a champagne connoisseur... "
You forgot judge Rinder?? x |
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"I'm GMF - my profile pretty much says it all about me.
If you're a sexy and slim lurker, aged 21 to 45, and bearing the slightest facial resemblance to Jodie Comer or Salma Hayek, come 'hit me up'...
A very recent lookalikey thread suggested I have the visual attributes and appeal of Tom Hardy, Ryan Giggs, Robbie Williams, and Jonny Lee Miller ...just saying!
Oh, and I really am a champagne connoisseur...
You forgot judge Rinder?? x"
Jodie Comer or Salma Hayek, NOT Judge Rinder
He's really not my type... |
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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago
stockport |
Hi I’m Lexi,
Been on here 8 months and what a journey it’s been.
From a shy non swinging girlie girl to a full on party host and greedy girl.
What you see is really what you get. I’m a great friend and shit enemy.
I’ve made some amazing friends on here.
I’ve even managed to find love on here so anything’s possible.
Happy swinging!!!  |
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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago
stockport |
"I'm GMF - my profile pretty much says it all about me.
If you're a sexy and slim lurker, aged 21 to 45, and bearing the slightest facial resemblance to Jodie Comer or Salma Hayek, come 'hit me up'...
A very recent lookalikey thread suggested I have the visual attributes and appeal of Tom Hardy, Ryan Giggs, Robbie Williams, and Jonny Lee Miller ...just saying!
Oh, and I really am a champagne connoisseur...
You forgot judge Rinder?? x
Jodie Comer or Salma Hayek, NOT Judge Rinder
He's really not my type..."
Sorry judge x |
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"Hi I’m Lexi,
Been on here 8 months and what a journey it’s been.
From a shy non swinging girlie girl to a full on party host and greedy girl.
What you see is really what you get. I’m a great friend and shit enemy.
I’ve made some amazing friends on here.
I’ve even managed to find love on here so anything’s possible.
Happy swinging!!! "
And I'm really delighted to say that I've been part of this journey
So pleased that you've found proper happiness x |
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"Hi I’m Lexi,
Been on here 8 months and what a journey it’s been.
From a shy non swinging girlie girl to a full on party host and greedy girl.
What you see is really what you get. I’m a great friend and shit enemy.
I’ve made some amazing friends on here.
I’ve even managed to find love on here so anything’s possible.
Happy swinging!!! "
I didn't know you'd found love..that's really great.
As for being upfront, I have much more respect for what you see is what you get in a person. |
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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago
stockport |
"Hi I’m Lexi,
Been on here 8 months and what a journey it’s been.
From a shy non swinging girlie girl to a full on party host and greedy girl.
What you see is really what you get. I’m a great friend and shit enemy.
I’ve made some amazing friends on here.
I’ve even managed to find love on here so anything’s possible.
Happy swinging!!!
And I'm really delighted to say that I've been part of this journey
So pleased that you've found proper happiness x"
Thanks girth......
You are definitely one of my beautiful friends. Its been a roll a coaster with you. But I’m proud to say I’m the only one that REALLY knows you x |
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"Hi I’m Lexi,
Been on here 8 months and what a journey it’s been.
From a shy non swinging girlie girl to a full on party host and greedy girl.
What you see is really what you get. I’m a great friend and shit enemy.
I’ve made some amazing friends on here.
I’ve even managed to find love on here so anything’s possible.
Happy swinging!!!
And I'm really delighted to say that I've been part of this journey
So pleased that you've found proper happiness x
Thanks girth......
You are definitely one of my beautiful friends. Its been a roll a coaster with you. But I’m proud to say I’m the only one that REALLY knows you x "
True that xxXxx |
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over a year ago
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I'm Lornajo or as some like to call me socks.
I'm funny and friendly, sensitive and kind but I have opinions and I'm not afraid to voice them. I call out bad behaviour when I see it. I have no filter and wear my heart on my sleeve.
Iv also met the love of my life right here in these forums. |
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"I'm Lornajo or as some like to call me socks.
I'm funny and friendly, sensitive and kind but I have opinions and I'm not afraid to voice them. I call out bad behaviour when I see it. I have no filter and wear my heart on my sleeve.
Iv also met the love of my life right here in these forums. "
Rather partial to a 'last Rolo' too!! |
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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago
Sandwich |
I am Mer
I have been using fab on and off for about 10 years. I have really only discovered the forums in the last year. I lurked for a while, but I do comment quite a bit these days.
I do say it how it is, according to me obviously. I can be a bitch, but you say that like it’s a bad thing 
Love most things sci fi, kinky, expensive and kind.... not necessarily in that order |
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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago
stockport |
"Hi I’m Lexi,
Been on here 8 months and what a journey it’s been.
From a shy non swinging girlie girl to a full on party host and greedy girl.
What you see is really what you get. I’m a great friend and shit enemy.
I’ve made some amazing friends on here.
I’ve even managed to find love on here so anything’s possible.
Happy swinging!!!
I didn't know you'd found love..that's really great.
As for being upfront, I have much more respect for what you see is what you get in a person."
Thank you.
I definitely only have one face x |
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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago
stockport |
"Hi I’m Lexi,
Been on here 8 months and what a journey it’s been.
From a shy non swinging girlie girl to a full on party host and greedy girl.
What you see is really what you get. I’m a great friend and shit enemy.
I’ve made some amazing friends on here.
I’ve even managed to find love on here so anything’s possible.
Happy swinging!!!
And I'm really delighted to say that I've been part of this journey
So pleased that you've found proper happiness x
Thanks girth......
You are definitely one of my beautiful friends. Its been a roll a coaster with you. But I’m proud to say I’m the only one that REALLY knows you x
True that xxXxx"
x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi, I'm L
I'v been here a while though not had a meet due to several people dropping out on me
I'm very easy to get on with and would rather have long passionate sex over a quickie. I hope I catch sombodys eye!
Ps, i've a soft spot for older women/cougars |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi im subastion and im an alcoholi....
Oops sorry wrong meeting
I was once described as and i quote "quirky".
I have very imbalanced mind and soul and struggle to concentrate for more than.... what i saying again?
I try to be nice but some people make it very difficult, whereas others make it the most natural thing in the world. I also have low self esteem apparently so im told.
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I'm Mac, I suspect I'm a lifer here. I have met some wonderful people on these forums and hope it continues to be so.
I like cake and crying into my gym mat due to said cake. I enjoy adventures with my naughty Patterdale. I love Fab for the clubs and social shenanigans. I am prone to a calamity. You'll hear me before you see me! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bigpaul78
Optimistic, funny and laid back fella. Wearing well but I miss my hair.
Been on and off swinging since I was 20 and I adore playing with couples or small groups of friends.
Based in Sutton but happy to travel. |
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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago
Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe |
I am The Invisible Man. Been on here 4 months, generally get ignored and have yet to meet anyone, even for a social.
Am very laid back and easy to get on with. I get paid to travel the length and breadth of the country and talk, and I also talk for a hobby.
I have been known to write poetry and have written a couple of songs, too.
I live in a mansion when not in a hotel somewhere for work.
Do pop in and say Hi |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am The Invisible Man. Been on here 4 months, generally get ignored and have yet to meet anyone, even for a social.
Am very laid back and easy to get on with. I get paid to travel the length and breadth of the country and talk, and I also talk for a hobby.
I have been known to write poetry and have written a couple of songs, too.
I live in a mansion when not in a hotel somewhere for work.
Do pop in and say Hi "
Who said that |
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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago
Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe |
"I am The Invisible Man. Been on here 4 months, generally get ignored and have yet to meet anyone, even for a social.
Am very laid back and easy to get on with. I get paid to travel the length and breadth of the country and talk, and I also talk for a hobby.
I have been known to write poetry and have written a couple of songs, too.
I live in a mansion when not in a hotel somewhere for work.
Do pop in and say Hi
Who said that "
Dunno. Some bloke |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh hello!
I'm Niki of Himandherhim or whatever! I couldn't think of a better username when I nervously set up a post coital account 16 months ago. I've yet to come up with a more unique username that we both agree to.
In an ironic twist of fate, I'm a published writer (I write under a pen name, with more security than the MI5), and a beauty blogger as well as having a full time job. I'm pretty busy and I love it.
Our profile shows we've been around for a while, but we have only actively dipped our toes in the last 3 or 4 months or so.... With a months break in that too! Fab can be hard work!
When I originally set up our account, I had a super bad experience in the first week or so, and didn't come back to it for a good year!
My OH, Tom, doesn't venture much in the forums, if anything he may be a little bit of a lurker. A sexy one at that.
On the other hand, I love the forums, love the interaction and have made some great friends (that I need to get in touch with again) to get together when time permits.
Tom is in business development. It suits his charming personality and dark and sexy demeanour! Haha.
We are both into fitness and being healthy - though I prefer running outside in the fresh air, and Tom loves the gym. Somehow he has persuaded me to have a go, and I have fallen in love with kettlebells and strength training. Any ladies that can swing a kettlebell the right way, give me a shout!
And yes, we are both social smokers..... and enjoy a little alcohol. We work hard and play hard. Oh and we are both extremely filthy! Ooops! Shoot us now!
Too long? Sorry! Maybe there's an editor around?
xx Niki
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am Would you ever, i have been on the site for about 5 years in 2 different guises. Only recently started using the forums. Not a newby, neither an old timer.
I am a lover of coffee, swing music, rock n roll ans soppy love song.
I am a workaholic, very rarely take time off, but will do if i meet the right lady
Always up for a chat, usually about naff all lol |
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