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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Compatibility, Morningstar communication. Mutual pleasure at a pace and of a style that works for all involved.
Can't really say it any better myself!"
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By *Vine OP Man
over a year ago
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"Passion for each other. Whether it’s sensual passion or animalistic passion. That need and hunger for the other is the driving force.
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Yes, this for me too. It’s not really anything to do with positions or techniques. It’s about being with someone that I desire and that I know desires me passionately too.
It’s all about who the sex is with and the connection. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Compatibility, communication. Mutual pleasure at a pace and of a style that works for all involved.
This  "
Another vote for this, and also chemistry and a build up of teasing / sexual tension beforehand  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Compatibility, Morningstar communication. Mutual pleasure at a pace and of a style that works for all involved.
Can't really say it any better myself!
Awww shucks, thanks
You're such a twat  "
I'll take it as a compliment  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Ok being serious now. For me the more times you see someone the better it gets each time. The I want you as much as you want me feeling. The Grrrrrrrrrr, gotta have the grrrrrrrr. Trust, definitely and being able to feel totally relaxed in their company. If you are self conscious or nervous it’s not going to be good. Being able to tell each other what you like and don’t like. |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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"Passion for each other. Whether it’s sensual passion or animalistic passion. That need and hunger for the other is the driving force.
Yes, this for me too. It’s not really anything to do with positions or techniques. It’s about being with someone that I desire and that I know desires me passionately too.
It’s all about who the sex is with and the connection. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wanting someone, as much as they want you
For me that’s the main thing. "
This is probably a bit corny but I don’t really care... Being in love with someone has always made sex better for me. It means I’m pretty much always having to settle for “less than amazing” during a casual encounter, but so be it. It doesn’t make the causal ones any less hot or fun, it’s just a whole different level to with my partner who I feel deeply for. Not sure if that makes any sense but that’s definitely how it works for me... |
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"Compatibility, Morningstar communication. Mutual pleasure at a pace and of a style that works for all involved.
Can't really say it any better myself!
Awww shucks, thanks
You're such a twat
I'll take it as a compliment "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wanting someone, as much as they want you
For me that’s the main thing.
This is probably a bit corny but I don’t really care... Being in love with someone has always made sex better for me. It means I’m pretty much always having to settle for “less than amazing” during a casual encounter, but so be it. It doesn’t make the causal ones any less hot or fun, it’s just a whole different level to with my partner who I feel deeply for. Not sure if that makes any sense but that’s definitely how it works for me... "
Guess that’s the difference between making love and having sex perhaps |
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"Compatibility, communication. Mutual pleasure at a pace and of a style that works for all involved.
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Another vote for this, and also chemistry and a build up of teasing / sexual tension beforehand "
Oh yes! When by the time you finally get your hands on each other you're worked up like crazy! |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Wanting someone, as much as they want you "
So much yes to this. It's the main thing for me; there's nothing hotter than reciprocated desire and seeing your lust for someone mirrored in their eyes and how their body responds almost instantly to you. Mutual desire is hot. As is openness and the ability to just go with things. And enjoy it! Sex is fun, I like people who can enjoy it for how fun it is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wanting someone, as much as they want you
For me that’s the main thing.
This is probably a bit corny but I don’t really care... Being in love with someone has always made sex better for me. It means I’m pretty much always having to settle for “less than amazing” during a casual encounter, but so be it. It doesn’t make the causal ones any less hot or fun, it’s just a whole different level to with my partner who I feel deeply for. Not sure if that makes any sense but that’s definitely how it works for me...
Guess that’s the difference between making love and having sex perhaps "
Partly yes. Although there are times when me and my OH fuck like animals rather than your typical tender ‘love making’ - and it’s still hands down the best sex. But that’s probably about familiarly, trust and respect etc too...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think it’s all down to chemistry and the slow build up, making your partner want to rip your clothes off through teasing over time, not just a wan bam x |
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"Wanting someone, as much as they want you
So much yes to this. It's the main thing for me; there's nothing hotter than reciprocated desire and seeing your lust for someone mirrored in their eyes and how their body responds almost instantly to you. Mutual desire is hot. As is openness and the ability to just go with things. And enjoy it! Sex is fun, I like people who can enjoy it for how fun it is. "
Absolutely this! That mutual passion and want is amazing |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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Attraction, Passion and chemistry from the first kiss onwards. The more you get to know each other the better you get to know what turns each other on. The teasing and anticipation of knowing what is about to happen when you do meet each other and click. Usually I find of the first kiss works then the sex is good. If the first kiss makes you get those butterflies then the sex is amazing. |
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