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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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Personally I think it's both vile and puerile but that is my opinion and no slur intended - if you honestly think it's going to help you here then crack on, but don't (again my opinion) be surprised if it has the opposite effect |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
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No. That's really not a good approach in my opinion.
Obviously it's your profile so if you think that conveys what you're about, is a good reflection of you and will attract the people that you want to meet, then crack on! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I don't think many read it. I used to have a code word and nobody ever used it when we chatted. Some of them were women who asked for a word in their subject box "to know you have read my profile" they never read mine though 
So I don't think it makes much of a difference, what I write in my profile. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
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I don't think many read it. I used to have a code word and nobody ever used it when we chatted. Some of them were women who asked for a word in their subject box "to know you have read my profile" they never read mine though
So I don't think it makes much of a difference, what I write in my profile. "
The thing is, for *most* women it may not make much of a difference what they have - but for *most* men it can make a lot of difference - if you portray yourself in a bad way it can totally ruin any chance of interest and the reason people didn't use your key word? Because they didn't have to!! You'd not stop chatting to them if they hadn't or delete their messages unread if they didn't include it - so they didn't bother |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think many read it. I used to have a code word and nobody ever used it when we chatted. Some of them were women who asked for a word in their subject box "to know you have read my profile" they never read mine though
So I don't think it makes much of a difference, what I write in my profile. "
I always used to read them. I think most women do. The code word thing annoys me though. I probably wouldn’t bother if someone had that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Irony huh!
I think your a nice guy, and i see what you're trying to do, I'm a proper swinger (like really proper  )
I read every profile i chat to, so i suppose it depends on whom you're looking to attract
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I don't think many read it. I used to have a code word and nobody ever used it when we chatted. Some of them were women who asked for a word in their subject box "to know you have read my profile" they never read mine though
So I don't think it makes much of a difference, what I write in my profile. "
That er poem/rhyme is really crass. I don't think it conveys what you are about or looking for.
Women do read profiles, it's not the be all and end all but personally I would immediately think you were a wanker not worth bothering with from that.
Do yourself a favour and scrap it and write something you believe in, what you are looking for and what you can offer.
And don't bother with the code word thingy no.
Good luck OP
Just think you are better than that
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
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The ' poem ' is something I would of expect from my gcse boys all hormones and brains. Not on an adult swingers profile but hey if you think that will get what you want you go for it. It's your profile after all and you do what works for you!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well its different I guess. But its crude, its puerile, its certainly not funny and it's not overly pleasant. I suspect it's not even original.
But going on other threads of yours I guess it does exactly what you want it too |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Profile header- always works. Tell them they can't have it and they want it more.
Poem- will attract women who love Shakespeare.
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Hmm i wasn't thinking in that way when I wrote it. I suppose I could put a dick pic up and be like..
Na na na na you will never get this |
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Seriously?? What kind of person are you trying to attract!?! Good luck OP 
