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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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This question occcured to me after seeing the endless arguments in the politics bit of the forum.
Would any of you avoid fucking somebody if you disagreed with their political views?
Or would the lure of cock or pussy overcome that barrier?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This question occcured to me after seeing the endless arguments in the politics bit of the forum.
Would any of you avoid fucking somebody if you disagreed with their political views?
Or would the lure of cock or pussy overcome that barrier?
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Depends on their views and how extreme they are. The answer is probably not likely that I would. |
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If they were really right wing it would turn me off, not going to lie. It depends what the political views are though however. Financial is debatable but if someone had vastly different views to me when it came to things like LGBT+ rights, immigrants/refugees,race issues, human rights (and who is deserving of them), etc then I would struggle to be friends with them, nevermind sleep with them. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"This question occcured to me after seeing the endless arguments in the politics bit of the forum.
Would any of you avoid fucking somebody if you disagreed with their political views?
Or would the lure of cock or pussy overcome that barrier?
Depends on their views and how extreme they are. The answer is probably not likely that I would. "
(I recognise that cleavage and the sexy secretary look. Good to see you again  .) |
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By *-sas-sinWoman
over a year ago
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So I try not too get too engrossed in politics when I'm chatting, but if I felt someone was hugely out of sync with my way of thinking...not politics per se...I wouldn't arrange anything as I prefer to meet like minded people,
so if I thought it was an argument waiting to happen I would probably avoid.
I want a spark not a molotov cocktail
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If they were really right wing it would turn me off, not going to lie. It depends what the political views are though however. Financial is debatable but if someone had vastly different views to me when it came to things like LGBT+ rights, immigrants/refugees,race issues, human rights (and who is deserving of them), etc then I would struggle to be friends with them, nevermind sleep with them. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If they were really right wing it would turn me off, not going to lie. It depends what the political views are though however. Financial is debatable but if someone had vastly different views to me when it came to things like LGBT+ rights, immigrants/refugees,race issues, human rights (and who is deserving of them), etc then I would struggle to be friends with them, nevermind sleep with them. "
You could peg them instead. That'd teach 'em. |
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"If they were really right wing it would turn me off, not going to lie. It depends what the political views are though however. Financial is debatable but if someone had vastly different views to me when it came to things like LGBT+ rights, immigrants/refugees,race issues, human rights (and who is deserving of them), etc then I would struggle to be friends with them, nevermind sleep with them.
You could peg them instead. That'd teach 'em. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This question occcured to me after seeing the endless arguments in the politics bit of the forum.
Would any of you avoid fucking somebody if you disagreed with their political views?
Or would the lure of cock or pussy overcome that barrier?
Depends on their views and how extreme they are. The answer is probably not likely that I would.
(I recognise that cleavage and the sexy secretary look. Good to see you again .)"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s possible. I tend to click with people who have similar views and opinions to me. It just happens I suppose. Would I ask someone who they vote for when I met them? No I wouldn’t, it would be irrelevant to me. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"This question occcured to me after seeing the endless arguments in the politics bit of the forum.
Would any of you avoid fucking somebody if you disagreed with their political views?
Or would the lure of cock or pussy overcome that barrier?
Depends on their views and how extreme they are. The answer is probably not likely that I would.
(I recognise that cleavage and the sexy secretary look. Good to see you again .)
Haha evening "
I'd get no bloody work done if you were my secretary. Or my boss!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It’s possible. I tend to click with people who have similar views and opinions to me. It just happens I suppose. Would I ask someone who they vote for when I met them? No I wouldn’t, it would be irrelevant to me. "
I did wonder how this would even come up. I wouldn’t ask either. I really wouldn’t care. I don’t really understand politics enough to care tbh. Is that bad?  |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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"If they were really right wing it would turn me off, not going to lie. It depends what the political views are though however. Financial is debatable but if someone had vastly different views to me when it came to things like LGBT+ rights, immigrants/refugees,race issues, human rights (and who is deserving of them), etc then I would struggle to be friends with them, nevermind sleep with them. "
Same. It would all depend on how extreme their views are.
Itd not something I'd instantly ask somebody, but at the same time I'm one of those thst are not looking for random and need a connection and have a friend vibe with who I sleep with, so it would change things when it would eventually come up. |
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"It’s possible. I tend to click with people who have similar views and opinions to me. It just happens I suppose. Would I ask someone who they vote for when I met them? No I wouldn’t, it would be irrelevant to me.
I did wonder how this would even come up. I wouldn’t ask either. I really wouldn’t care. I don’t really understand politics enough to care tbh. Is that bad? "
Sometimes bigots reveal themselves pretty quickly. I've had people make negative comments about Romanians, people on benefits or gay people, etc over a drink. It put me off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It’s possible. I tend to click with people who have similar views and opinions to me. It just happens I suppose. Would I ask someone who they vote for when I met them? No I wouldn’t, it would be irrelevant to me.
I did wonder how this would even come up. I wouldn’t ask either. I really wouldn’t care. I don’t really understand politics enough to care tbh. Is that bad? "
I’ve been seeing N&H since June and I have no idea of his political views. I could probably guess but it’s never come up. Better things to talk about! I think we discussed Brexit once so I know which way he went with that but that’s all! |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Financial is debatable but if someone had vastly different views to me when it came to things like LGBT+ rights, immigrants/refugees,race issues, human rights (and who is deserving of them), etc then I would struggle to be friends with them, nevermind sleep with them. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It’s possible. I tend to click with people who have similar views and opinions to me. It just happens I suppose. Would I ask someone who they vote for when I met them? No I wouldn’t, it would be irrelevant to me.
I did wonder how this would even come up. I wouldn’t ask either. I really wouldn’t care. I don’t really understand politics enough to care tbh. Is that bad?
Sometimes bigots reveal themselves pretty quickly. I've had people make negative comments about Romanians, people on benefits or gay people, etc over a drink. It put me off."
Oh god yeah, that type of attitude would instantly put me off, but I wouldn’t necessarily connect that with any political stance - they’d just be in the category of “bit of a knob”. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It’s possible. I tend to click with people who have similar views and opinions to me. It just happens I suppose. Would I ask someone who they vote for when I met them? No I wouldn’t, it would be irrelevant to me.
I did wonder how this would even come up. I wouldn’t ask either. I really wouldn’t care. I don’t really understand politics enough to care tbh. Is that bad?
Sometimes bigots reveal themselves pretty quickly. I've had people make negative comments about Romanians, people on benefits or gay people, etc over a drink. It put me off."
That’s not a political thing though. Some people are just idiots. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It’s possible. I tend to click with people who have similar views and opinions to me. It just happens I suppose. Would I ask someone who they vote for when I met them? No I wouldn’t, it would be irrelevant to me.
I did wonder how this would even come up. I wouldn’t ask either. I really wouldn’t care. I don’t really understand politics enough to care tbh. Is that bad?
I’ve been seeing N&H since June and I have no idea of his political views. I could probably guess but it’s never come up. Better things to talk about! I think we discussed Brexit once so I know which way he went with that but that’s all! "
Exactly the same with me and my OH and we’ve been together over 4 years 
I know his Brexit stance but not much else because politics just isn’t something we discuss (I think I’m deliberately ignorant to it all tbh...)  |
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"Don't really discuss politics with people I meet but one guy that contacted me told me one of his hobbies was shooting, he shoots live birds. Put me right off and I refused to meet "
Yeah, killing things or hating on a group of people is a “no” IMO. |
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"It’s possible. I tend to click with people who have similar views and opinions to me. It just happens I suppose. Would I ask someone who they vote for when I met them? No I wouldn’t, it would be irrelevant to me.
I did wonder how this would even come up. I wouldn’t ask either. I really wouldn’t care. I don’t really understand politics enough to care tbh. Is that bad?
Sometimes bigots reveal themselves pretty quickly. I've had people make negative comments about Romanians, people on benefits or gay people, etc over a drink. It put me off.
That’s not a political thing though. Some people are just idiots. "
Those things are political views. |
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"This question occcured to me after seeing the endless arguments in the politics bit of the forum.
Would any of you avoid fucking somebody if you disagreed with their political views?
Or would the lure of cock or pussy overcome that barrier?
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You have to get on with people to enjoy them in all ways don't you ? It's not just physical at the end of the day .
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It’s possible. I tend to click with people who have similar views and opinions to me. It just happens I suppose. Would I ask someone who they vote for when I met them? No I wouldn’t, it would be irrelevant to me.
I did wonder how this would even come up. I wouldn’t ask either. I really wouldn’t care. I don’t really understand politics enough to care tbh. Is that bad?
Sometimes bigots reveal themselves pretty quickly. I've had people make negative comments about Romanians, people on benefits or gay people, etc over a drink. It put me off."
Also some things don’t make people bigots! I have a few strong opinions on the benefit system that some would construe as negative. That doesn’t make someone a bigot. I agree on the other 2 points though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It’s possible. I tend to click with people who have similar views and opinions to me. It just happens I suppose. Would I ask someone who they vote for when I met them? No I wouldn’t, it would be irrelevant to me.
I did wonder how this would even come up. I wouldn’t ask either. I really wouldn’t care. I don’t really understand politics enough to care tbh. Is that bad?
Sometimes bigots reveal themselves pretty quickly. I've had people make negative comments about Romanians, people on benefits or gay people, etc over a drink. It put me off.
That’s not a political thing though. Some people are just idiots.
Those things are political views."
How? |
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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago
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I was with my wife for almost 30 years and neither of us knew how the other voted, as we never discussed it. I've never discussed this with my subsequent GFs, either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I had an ex on here (not that ex, another ex)(can't believe I just said that  ) who used to drive me nuts in a bad way, not because her views were different, but more because she was so committed to anything anyone ever said on that side of the spectrum, yet anything from the other side was just made up lies, fake news and spin.... she was so angry all the time at the perceived lack of justice for what she saw as 'her lot'. I was somewhere in the middle at the time but I just couldn't listen to her talking shite, it wasn't sexy at all.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I had an ex on here (not that ex, another ex)(can't believe I just said that ) who used to drive me nuts in a bad way, not because her views were different, but more because she was so committed to anything anyone ever said on that side of the spectrum, yet anything from the other side was just made up lies, fake news and spin.... she was so angry all the time at the perceived lack of justice for what she saw as 'her lot'. I was somewhere in the middle at the time but I just couldn't listen to her talking shite, it wasn't sexy at all...."
Politics is definitely not sexy! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It’s possible. I tend to click with people who have similar views and opinions to me. It just happens I suppose. Would I ask someone who they vote for when I met them? No I wouldn’t, it would be irrelevant to me.
I did wonder how this would even come up. I wouldn’t ask either. I really wouldn’t care. I don’t really understand politics enough to care tbh. Is that bad?
Sometimes bigots reveal themselves pretty quickly. I've had people make negative comments about Romanians, people on benefits or gay people, etc over a drink. It put me off.
That’s not a political thing though. Some people are just idiots.
Those things are political views.
How?"
Tbh I did wonder the same.... ? |
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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago
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"This question occcured to me after seeing the endless arguments in the politics bit of the forum.
Would any of you avoid fucking somebody if you disagreed with their political views?
Or would the lure of cock or pussy overcome that barrier?
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It did with John major and Edwina curry, not to mention John prescot and his sordid shenanigans in his office.
It wouldn't bother me, it just gives you something to talk about while she riding my cock. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Politics is definitely not sexy! "
I practically jumped someone from here just because I was so turned on by his passion when he started talking politics over a drink !
To answer the OP I wouldn't judge on party politics (ok, I would...I'd never knowingly fuck a Tory) but I agree with Lacey, it's obvious fairly quickly if you're on completely different wavelengths and it'd be a turn off.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I had an ex on here (not that ex, another ex)(can't believe I just said that ) who used to drive me nuts in a bad way, not because her views were different, but more because she was so committed to anything anyone ever said on that side of the spectrum, yet anything from the other side was just made up lies, fake news and spin.... she was so angry all the time at the perceived lack of justice for what she saw as 'her lot'. I was somewhere in the middle at the time but I just couldn't listen to her talking shite, it wasn't sexy at all....
Politics is definitely not sexy! "
Agreed, it's like ppl who tell you how much they earn or how big their mortgage is on a first date..... |
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"I had an ex on here (not that ex, another ex)(can't believe I just said that ) who used to drive me nuts in a bad way, not because her views were different, but more because she was so committed to anything anyone ever said on that side of the spectrum, yet anything from the other side was just made up lies, fake news and spin.... she was so angry all the time at the perceived lack of justice for what she saw as 'her lot'. I was somewhere in the middle at the time but I just couldn't listen to her talking shite, it wasn't sexy at all....
Politics is definitely not sexy!
Agreed, it's like ppl who tell you how much they earn or how big their mortgage is on a first date..... "
Or what car they drive in a message. Instant delete! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Politics is definitely not sexy!
I practically jumped someone from here just because I was so turned on by his passion when he started talking politics over a drink !
To answer the OP I wouldn't judge on party politics (ok, I would...I'd never knowingly fuck a Tory) but I agree with Lacey, it's obvious fairly quickly if you're on completely different wavelengths and it'd be a turn off.
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Haha well each to their own - I find conversations about correct spelling and grammar sexy. (Joke... well, maybe I do a bit).
I think for me it’s pure lack of knowledge/ interest. I wouldn’t necessarily be able to distinguish a Tory from a supporter of any other political party just from a general discussion (unless they explicitly said so). I’d obviously pick up straight away if we weren’t on the same wavelength or if they had bigoted attitudes etc, but I wouldn’t necessarily align that with any political position or think about it in that way, if that makes any sense... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I had an ex on here (not that ex, another ex)(can't believe I just said that ) who used to drive me nuts in a bad way, not because her views were different, but more because she was so committed to anything anyone ever said on that side of the spectrum, yet anything from the other side was just made up lies, fake news and spin.... she was so angry all the time at the perceived lack of justice for what she saw as 'her lot'. I was somewhere in the middle at the time but I just couldn't listen to her talking shite, it wasn't sexy at all....
Politics is definitely not sexy!
Agreed, it's like ppl who tell you how much they earn or how big their mortgage is on a first date.....
Or what car they drive in a message. Instant delete!"
Who does these things? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Politics is definitely not sexy!
I practically jumped someone from here just because I was so turned on by his passion when he started talking politics over a drink !
To answer the OP I wouldn't judge on party politics (ok, I would...I'd never knowingly fuck a Tory) but I agree with Lacey, it's obvious fairly quickly if you're on completely different wavelengths and it'd be a turn off.
Haha well each to their own - I find conversations about correct spelling and grammar sexy. (Joke... well, maybe I do a bit).
I think for me it’s pure lack of knowledge/ interest. I wouldn’t necessarily be able to distinguish a Tory from a supporter of any other political party just from a general discussion (unless they explicitly said so). I’d obviously pick up straight away if we weren’t on the same wavelength or if they had bigoted attitudes etc, but I wouldn’t necessarily align that with any political position or think about it in that way, if that makes any sense... "
I think that totally makes sense. It just depends how passionate you are about it probably. I mean if was a vet and someone brought up how much they hate animals I'm sure it would have the same effect. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Politics is definitely not sexy!
I practically jumped someone from here just because I was so turned on by his passion when he started talking politics over a drink !
To answer the OP I wouldn't judge on party politics (ok, I would...I'd never knowingly fuck a Tory) but I agree with Lacey, it's obvious fairly quickly if you're on completely different wavelengths and it'd be a turn off.
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"Politics is definitely not sexy!
I practically jumped someone from here just because I was so turned on by his passion when he started talking politics over a drink !
To answer the OP I wouldn't judge on party politics (ok, I would...I'd never knowingly fuck a Tory) but I agree with Lacey, it's obvious fairly quickly if you're on completely different wavelengths and it'd be a turn off.
Haha well each to their own - I find conversations about correct spelling and grammar sexy. (Joke... well, maybe I do a bit).
I think for me it’s pure lack of knowledge/ interest. I wouldn’t necessarily be able to distinguish a Tory from a supporter of any other political party just from a general discussion (unless they explicitly said so). I’d obviously pick up straight away if we weren’t on the same wavelength or if they had bigoted attitudes etc, but I wouldn’t necessarily align that with any political position or think about it in that way, if that makes any sense...
I think that totally makes sense. It just depends how passionate you are about it probably. I mean if was a vet and someone brought up how much they hate animals I'm sure it would have the same effect. "
Animal hater = instant delete and block |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I had an ex on here (not that ex, another ex)(can't believe I just said that ) who used to drive me nuts in a bad way, not because her views were different, but more because she was so committed to anything anyone ever said on that side of the spectrum, yet anything from the other side was just made up lies, fake news and spin.... she was so angry all the time at the perceived lack of justice for what she saw as 'her lot'. I was somewhere in the middle at the time but I just couldn't listen to her talking shite, it wasn't sexy at all....
Politics is definitely not sexy!
Agreed, it's like ppl who tell you how much they earn or how big their mortgage is on a first date.....
Or what car they drive in a message. Instant delete!
Who does these things? "
Oh yes definitely. More on another site I was on tbf but have had it here too. Any mention of earnings, flash cars, posh hotels and I’m out. |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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"Politics is definitely not sexy!
I practically jumped someone from here just because I was so turned on by his passion when he started talking politics over a drink !
To answer the OP I wouldn't judge on party politics (ok, I would...I'd never knowingly fuck a Tory) but I agree with Lacey, it's obvious fairly quickly if you're on completely different wavelengths and it'd be a turn off.
Haha well each to their own - I find conversations about correct spelling and grammar sexy. (Joke... well, maybe I do a bit).
I think for me it’s pure lack of knowledge/ interest. I wouldn’t necessarily be able to distinguish a Tory from a supporter of any other political party just from a general discussion (unless they explicitly said so). I’d obviously pick up straight away if we weren’t on the same wavelength or if they had bigoted attitudes etc, but I wouldn’t necessarily align that with any political position or think about it in that way, if that makes any sense...
I think that totally makes sense. It just depends how passionate you are about it probably. I mean if was a vet and someone brought up how much they hate animals I'm sure it would have the same effect.
Animal hater = instant delete and block "
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"Politics is definitely not sexy!
I practically jumped someone from here just because I was so turned on by his passion when he started talking politics over a drink !
To answer the OP I wouldn't judge on party politics (ok, I would...I'd never knowingly fuck a Tory) but I agree with Lacey, it's obvious fairly quickly if you're on completely different wavelengths and it'd be a turn off.
Haha well each to their own - I find conversations about correct spelling and grammar sexy. (Joke... well, maybe I do a bit).
I think for me it’s pure lack of knowledge/ interest. I wouldn’t necessarily be able to distinguish a Tory from a supporter of any other political party just from a general discussion (unless they explicitly said so). I’d obviously pick up straight away if we weren’t on the same wavelength or if they had bigoted attitudes etc, but I wouldn’t necessarily align that with any political position or think about it in that way, if that makes any sense...
I think that totally makes sense. It just depends how passionate you are about it probably. I mean if was a vet and someone brought up how much they hate animals I'm sure it would have the same effect.
Animal hater = instant delete and block "
I’m so happy I’ve never met an animal hater |
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By (user no longer on site)
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There are hard limits. Racists, homophobes and the like can fuck right off. I don't want to be around people like that.
Other views a lot would come down to how they express them rather than the point itself. |
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"I had an ex on here (not that ex, another ex)(can't believe I just said that ) who used to drive me nuts in a bad way, not because her views were different, but more because she was so committed to anything anyone ever said on that side of the spectrum, yet anything from the other side was just made up lies, fake news and spin.... she was so angry all the time at the perceived lack of justice for what she saw as 'her lot'. I was somewhere in the middle at the time but I just couldn't listen to her talking shite, it wasn't sexy at all....
Politics is definitely not sexy!
Agreed, it's like ppl who tell you how much they earn or how big their mortgage is on a first date.....
Or what car they drive in a message. Instant delete!
Who does these things?
Oh yes definitely. More on another site I was on tbf but have had it here too. Any mention of earnings, flash cars, posh hotels and I’m out. "
Yuk. What a turn off. I couldn’t care less about another person’s earnings.  |
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"I had an ex on here (not that ex, another ex)(can't believe I just said that ) who used to drive me nuts in a bad way, not because her views were different, but more because she was so committed to anything anyone ever said on that side of the spectrum, yet anything from the other side was just made up lies, fake news and spin.... she was so angry all the time at the perceived lack of justice for what she saw as 'her lot'. I was somewhere in the middle at the time but I just couldn't listen to her talking shite, it wasn't sexy at all....
Politics is definitely not sexy!
Agreed, it's like ppl who tell you how much they earn or how big their mortgage is on a first date.....
Or what car they drive in a message. Instant delete!"
My girl chose mine, it's a total twatmobile and nothing to brag about but I kinda like it for that very reason..... I love it when they have the what car do you drive threads in here an ppl get creative...
My comment from earlier still stands - pretentious folk will never tell you they're pretentious, but they'll tell you all manner of other boring virtue promoting nonsense about "their" politics.... |
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"There are hard limits. Racists, homophobes and the like can fuck right off. I don't want to be around people like that.
Other views a lot would come down to how they express them rather than the point itself. "
But surely racism and homophobia aren’t exclusively political issues? If someone was racist and homophobic on a date, my first thought would be what an awful personality they have; not that their political views are questionable. But as others have said that’s probably because I have little interest in politics compared to others. |
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"I had an ex on here (not that ex, another ex)(can't believe I just said that ) who used to drive me nuts in a bad way, not because her views were different, but more because she was so committed to anything anyone ever said on that side of the spectrum, yet anything from the other side was just made up lies, fake news and spin.... she was so angry all the time at the perceived lack of justice for what she saw as 'her lot'. I was somewhere in the middle at the time but I just couldn't listen to her talking shite, it wasn't sexy at all....
Politics is definitely not sexy!
Agreed, it's like ppl who tell you how much they earn or how big their mortgage is on a first date.....
Or what car they drive in a message. Instant delete!
My girl chose mine, it's a total twatmobile and nothing to brag about but I kinda like it for that very reason..... I love it when they have the what car do you drive threads in here an ppl get creative...
My comment from earlier still stands - pretentious folk will never tell you they're pretentious, but they'll tell you all manner of other boring virtue promoting nonsense about "their" politics...."
Yeah the what car do you drive threads.  |
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"I had an ex on here (not that ex, another ex)(can't believe I just said that ) who used to drive me nuts in a bad way, not because her views were different, but more because she was so committed to anything anyone ever said on that side of the spectrum, yet anything from the other side was just made up lies, fake news and spin.... she was so angry all the time at the perceived lack of justice for what she saw as 'her lot'. I was somewhere in the middle at the time but I just couldn't listen to her talking shite, it wasn't sexy at all....
Politics is definitely not sexy!
Agreed, it's like ppl who tell you how much they earn or how big their mortgage is on a first date.....
Or what car they drive in a message. Instant delete!
My girl chose mine, it's a total twatmobile and nothing to brag about but I kinda like it for that very reason..... I love it when they have the what car do you drive threads in here an ppl get creative...
My comment from earlier still stands - pretentious folk will never tell you they're pretentious, but they'll tell you all manner of other boring virtue promoting nonsense about "their" politics....
Yeah the what car do you drive threads. "
Shall I start a what car do you drive thread? They seem popular |
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"Politics is definitely not sexy!
I practically jumped someone from here just because I was so turned on by his passion when he started talking politics over a drink !
To answer the OP I wouldn't judge on party politics (ok, I would...I'd never knowingly fuck a Tory) but I agree with Lacey, it's obvious fairly quickly if you're on completely different wavelengths and it'd be a turn off.
Haha well each to their own - I find conversations about correct spelling and grammar sexy. (Joke... well, maybe I do a bit).
I think for me it’s pure lack of knowledge/ interest. I wouldn’t necessarily be able to distinguish a Tory from a supporter of any other political party just from a general discussion (unless they explicitly said so). I’d obviously pick up straight away if we weren’t on the same wavelength or if they had bigoted attitudes etc, but I wouldn’t necessarily align that with any political position or think about it in that way, if that makes any sense... "
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"It’s possible. I tend to click with people who have similar views and opinions to me. It just happens I suppose. Would I ask someone who they vote for when I met them? No I wouldn’t, it would be irrelevant to me.
I did wonder how this would even come up. I wouldn’t ask either. I really wouldn’t care. I don’t really understand politics enough to care tbh. Is that bad?
Sometimes bigots reveal themselves pretty quickly. I've had people make negative comments about Romanians, people on benefits or gay people, etc over a drink. It put me off.
That’s not a political thing though. Some people are just idiots.
Those things are political views.
How?"
Views about the rights of people on benefits and immigrants are political views. A person who opposes gay people would oppose political issues such as same sex marriage and whether gay people couples had the same rights as heterosexual couples as well. |
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"There are hard limits. Racists, homophobes and the like can fuck right off. I don't want to be around people like that.
Other views a lot would come down to how they express them rather than the point itself.
But surely racism and homophobia aren’t exclusively political issues? If someone was racist and homophobic on a date, my first thought would be what an awful personality they have; not that their political views are questionable. But as others have said that’s probably because I have little interest in politics compared to others. "
Of course they are political issues. They might not be a party political issue and they may cross in to social issues but they are definitely political |
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"There are hard limits. Racists, homophobes and the like can fuck right off. I don't want to be around people like that.
Other views a lot would come down to how they express them rather than the point itself.
But surely racism and homophobia aren’t exclusively political issues? If someone was racist and homophobic on a date, my first thought would be what an awful personality they have; not that their political views are questionable. But as others have said that’s probably because I have little interest in politics compared to others. "
Education isn't exclusively a political issue but it's still a political issue. |
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"There are hard limits. Racists, homophobes and the like can fuck right off. I don't want to be around people like that.
Other views a lot would come down to how they express them rather than the point itself.
But surely racism and homophobia aren’t exclusively political issues? If someone was racist and homophobic on a date, my first thought would be what an awful personality they have; not that their political views are questionable. But as others have said that’s probably because I have little interest in politics compared to others.
Of course they are political issues. They might not be a party political issue and they may cross in to social issues but they are definitely political "
I said not *exclusively* political. In other words, I don’t personally associate them with politics. I associate them with a person’s personality. |
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"It’s possible. I tend to click with people who have similar views and opinions to me. It just happens I suppose. Would I ask someone who they vote for when I met them? No I wouldn’t, it would be irrelevant to me.
I did wonder how this would even come up. I wouldn’t ask either. I really wouldn’t care. I don’t really understand politics enough to care tbh. Is that bad?
Sometimes bigots reveal themselves pretty quickly. I've had people make negative comments about Romanians, people on benefits or gay people, etc over a drink. It put me off.
That’s not a political thing though. Some people are just idiots.
Those things are political views.
How?
Views about the rights of people on benefits and immigrants are political views. A person who opposes gay people would oppose political issues such as same sex marriage and whether gay people couples had the same rights as heterosexual couples as well. "
No they’re not. I disagree. |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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"It’s possible. I tend to click with people who have similar views and opinions to me. It just happens I suppose. Would I ask someone who they vote for when I met them? No I wouldn’t, it would be irrelevant to me.
I did wonder how this would even come up. I wouldn’t ask either. I really wouldn’t care. I don’t really understand politics enough to care tbh. Is that bad?
Sometimes bigots reveal themselves pretty quickly. I've had people make negative comments about Romanians, people on benefits or gay people, etc over a drink. It put me off.
That’s not a political thing though. Some people are just idiots.
Those things are political views.
How?
Views about the rights of people on benefits and immigrants are political views. A person who opposes gay people would oppose political issues such as same sex marriage and whether gay people couples had the same rights as heterosexual couples as well.
No they’re not. I disagree. "
How are they not? |
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over a year ago
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"If they were really right wing it would turn me off, not going to lie. It depends what the political views are though however. Financial is debatable but if someone had vastly different views to me when it came to things like LGBT+ rights, immigrants/refugees,race issues, human rights (and who is deserving of them), etc then I would struggle to be friends with them, nevermind sleep with them. "
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"It’s possible. I tend to click with people who have similar views and opinions to me. It just happens I suppose. Would I ask someone who they vote for when I met them? No I wouldn’t, it would be irrelevant to me.
I did wonder how this would even come up. I wouldn’t ask either. I really wouldn’t care. I don’t really understand politics enough to care tbh. Is that bad?
Sometimes bigots reveal themselves pretty quickly. I've had people make negative comments about Romanians, people on benefits or gay people, etc over a drink. It put me off.
That’s not a political thing though. Some people are just idiots.
Those things are political views.
How?
Views about the rights of people on benefits and immigrants are political views. A person who opposes gay people would oppose political issues such as same sex marriage and whether gay people couples had the same rights as heterosexual couples as well.
No they’re not. I disagree.
How are they not?"
So someone makes a negative comment about gay people over a drink. That’s a political issue?? That’s a personal issue. Nothing to do
With politics. |
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"It’s possible. I tend to click with people who have similar views and opinions to me. It just happens I suppose. Would I ask someone who they vote for when I met them? No I wouldn’t, it would be irrelevant to me.
I did wonder how this would even come up. I wouldn’t ask either. I really wouldn’t care. I don’t really understand politics enough to care tbh. Is that bad?
Sometimes bigots reveal themselves pretty quickly. I've had people make negative comments about Romanians, people on benefits or gay people, etc over a drink. It put me off.
That’s not a political thing though. Some people are just idiots.
Those things are political views.
How?
Views about the rights of people on benefits and immigrants are political views. A person who opposes gay people would oppose political issues such as same sex marriage and whether gay people couples had the same rights as heterosexual couples as well.
No they’re not. I disagree.
How are they not?
So someone makes a negative comment about gay people over a drink. That’s a political issue?? That’s a personal issue. Nothing to do
With politics. "
This is exactly what I was saying |
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"It’s possible. I tend to click with people who have similar views and opinions to me. It just happens I suppose. Would I ask someone who they vote for when I met them? No I wouldn’t, it would be irrelevant to me.
I did wonder how this would even come up. I wouldn’t ask either. I really wouldn’t care. I don’t really understand politics enough to care tbh. Is that bad?
Sometimes bigots reveal themselves pretty quickly. I've had people make negative comments about Romanians, people on benefits or gay people, etc over a drink. It put me off.
That’s not a political thing though. Some people are just idiots.
Those things are political views.
How?
Views about the rights of people on benefits and immigrants are political views. A person who opposes gay people would oppose political issues such as same sex marriage and whether gay people couples had the same rights as heterosexual couples as well.
No they’re not. I disagree.
How are they not?
So someone makes a negative comment about gay people over a drink. That’s a political issue?? That’s a personal issue. Nothing to do
With politics. "
Laws effecting LGBT+ people are still constantly changing. Are laws not political? |
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I saw a ladies profile who said "I will not meet anyone who is right wing"
Or was it left wing, I'm not sure. Anyway it wouldn't bother me. It's not like we talk about brexit when we are having sex.
Or do we? |
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"This question occcured to me after seeing the endless arguments in the politics bit of the forum.
Would any of you avoid fucking somebody if you disagreed with their political views?
Or would the lure of cock or pussy overcome that barrier?
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Just heading out for my CLP meeting ..if any ladies dont find that a problem hit me up later |
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"It’s possible. I tend to click with people who have similar views and opinions to me. It just happens I suppose. Would I ask someone who they vote for when I met them? No I wouldn’t, it would be irrelevant to me.
I did wonder how this would even come up. I wouldn’t ask either. I really wouldn’t care. I don’t really understand politics enough to care tbh. Is that bad?
Sometimes bigots reveal themselves pretty quickly. I've had people make negative comments about Romanians, people on benefits or gay people, etc over a drink. It put me off.
That’s not a political thing though. Some people are just idiots.
Those things are political views.
How?
Views about the rights of people on benefits and immigrants are political views. A person who opposes gay people would oppose political issues such as same sex marriage and whether gay people couples had the same rights as heterosexual couples as well.
No they’re not. I disagree.
How are they not?
So someone makes a negative comment about gay people over a drink. That’s a political issue?? That’s a personal issue. Nothing to do
With politics.
This is exactly what I was saying "
Maybe it’s me! If I was out for a drink and someone made a negative comment about gay people. Nothing would make me think oh I don’t like your political views! I’d think I don’t like your attitude and your views and I think you’re a bit of a twat maybe but politics wouldn’t cross my mind! |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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"It’s possible. I tend to click with people who have similar views and opinions to me. It just happens I suppose. Would I ask someone who they vote for when I met them? No I wouldn’t, it would be irrelevant to me.
I did wonder how this would even come up. I wouldn’t ask either. I really wouldn’t care. I don’t really understand politics enough to care tbh. Is that bad?
Sometimes bigots reveal themselves pretty quickly. I've had people make negative comments about Romanians, people on benefits or gay people, etc over a drink. It put me off.
That’s not a political thing though. Some people are just idiots.
Those things are political views.
How?
Views about the rights of people on benefits and immigrants are political views. A person who opposes gay people would oppose political issues such as same sex marriage and whether gay people couples had the same rights as heterosexual couples as well.
No they’re not. I disagree.
How are they not?
So someone makes a negative comment about gay people over a drink. That’s a political issue?? That’s a personal issue. Nothing to do
With politics.
This is exactly what I was saying "
Would depend exactly what they said, to that point I agree, A slight homophobic comment.
However, it's rare such comments are not aligned with their views that overlap with human rights of those they make such negative comments about. Human rights are most definitely political. |
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"It’s possible. I tend to click with people who have similar views and opinions to me. It just happens I suppose. Would I ask someone who they vote for when I met them? No I wouldn’t, it would be irrelevant to me.
I did wonder how this would even come up. I wouldn’t ask either. I really wouldn’t care. I don’t really understand politics enough to care tbh. Is that bad?
Sometimes bigots reveal themselves pretty quickly. I've had people make negative comments about Romanians, people on benefits or gay people, etc over a drink. It put me off.
That’s not a political thing though. Some people are just idiots.
Those things are political views.
How?
Views about the rights of people on benefits and immigrants are political views. A person who opposes gay people would oppose political issues such as same sex marriage and whether gay people couples had the same rights as heterosexual couples as well.
No they’re not. I disagree.
How are they not?
So someone makes a negative comment about gay people over a drink. That’s a political issue?? That’s a personal issue. Nothing to do
With politics.
This is exactly what I was saying
Maybe it’s me! If I was out for a drink and someone made a negative comment about gay people. Nothing would make me think oh I don’t like your political views! I’d think I don’t like your attitude and your views and I think you’re a bit of a twat maybe but politics wouldn’t cross my mind!"
It’s not you. This is the exact point I was trying to make. I’d think “you’re not a nice person and I won’t be seeing you again”. Politics wouldn’t feature in my thought process at all. But maybe it’s just because it’s not on my radar in my life in general because I don’t pay much attention to politics... |
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"It’s possible. I tend to click with people who have similar views and opinions to me. It just happens I suppose. Would I ask someone who they vote for when I met them? No I wouldn’t, it would be irrelevant to me.
I did wonder how this would even come up. I wouldn’t ask either. I really wouldn’t care. I don’t really understand politics enough to care tbh. Is that bad?
Sometimes bigots reveal themselves pretty quickly. I've had people make negative comments about Romanians, people on benefits or gay people, etc over a drink. It put me off.
That’s not a political thing though. Some people are just idiots.
Those things are political views.
How?
Views about the rights of people on benefits and immigrants are political views. A person who opposes gay people would oppose political issues such as same sex marriage and whether gay people couples had the same rights as heterosexual couples as well.
No they’re not. I disagree.
How are they not?
So someone makes a negative comment about gay people over a drink. That’s a political issue?? That’s a personal issue. Nothing to do
With politics.
This is exactly what I was saying
Would depend exactly what they said, to that point I agree, A slight homophobic comment.
However, it's rare such comments are not aligned with their views that overlap with human rights of those they make such negative comments about. Human rights are most definitely political. "
So which particular way would that person vote then who would be likely to say that? Because i think that’s what we’re really getting at here don’t you? |
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"It’s possible. I tend to click with people who have similar views and opinions to me. It just happens I suppose. Would I ask someone who they vote for when I met them? No I wouldn’t, it would be irrelevant to me.
I did wonder how this would even come up. I wouldn’t ask either. I really wouldn’t care. I don’t really understand politics enough to care tbh. Is that bad?
Sometimes bigots reveal themselves pretty quickly. I've had people make negative comments about Romanians, people on benefits or gay people, etc over a drink. It put me off.
That’s not a political thing though. Some people are just idiots.
Those things are political views.
How?
Views about the rights of people on benefits and immigrants are political views. A person who opposes gay people would oppose political issues such as same sex marriage and whether gay people couples had the same rights as heterosexual couples as well.
No they’re not. I disagree.
How are they not?
So someone makes a negative comment about gay people over a drink. That’s a political issue?? That’s a personal issue. Nothing to do
With politics.
This is exactly what I was saying
Would depend exactly what they said, to that point I agree, A slight homophobic comment.
However, it's rare such comments are not aligned with their views that overlap with human rights of those they make such negative comments about. Human rights are most definitely political.
So which particular way would that person vote then who would be likely to say that? Because i think that’s what we’re really getting at here don’t you? "
I wouldn’t be able to work that out from their comments... |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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"It’s possible. I tend to click with people who have similar views and opinions to me. It just happens I suppose. Would I ask someone who they vote for when I met them? No I wouldn’t, it would be irrelevant to me.
I did wonder how this would even come up. I wouldn’t ask either. I really wouldn’t care. I don’t really understand politics enough to care tbh. Is that bad?
Sometimes bigots reveal themselves pretty quickly. I've had people make negative comments about Romanians, people on benefits or gay people, etc over a drink. It put me off.
That’s not a political thing though. Some people are just idiots.
Those things are political views.
How?
Views about the rights of people on benefits and immigrants are political views. A person who opposes gay people would oppose political issues such as same sex marriage and whether gay people couples had the same rights as heterosexual couples as well.
No they’re not. I disagree.
How are they not?
So someone makes a negative comment about gay people over a drink. That’s a political issue?? That’s a personal issue. Nothing to do
With politics.
This is exactly what I was saying
Would depend exactly what they said, to that point I agree, A slight homophobic comment.
However, it's rare such comments are not aligned with their views that overlap with human rights of those they make such negative comments about. Human rights are most definitely political.
So which particular way would that person vote then who would be likely to say that? Because i think that’s what we’re really getting at here don’t you? "
Was the question "would you be turned of by a Conservative or labour supporter?"? Because politics are so much more about than just 2 parties that are just as fucked up as each other.
Which party is not hebissue, it is where you stand on each individual specific of politics. |
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"It’s possible. I tend to click with people who have similar views and opinions to me. It just happens I suppose. Would I ask someone who they vote for when I met them? No I wouldn’t, it would be irrelevant to me.
I did wonder how this would even come up. I wouldn’t ask either. I really wouldn’t care. I don’t really understand politics enough to care tbh. Is that bad?
Sometimes bigots reveal themselves pretty quickly. I've had people make negative comments about Romanians, people on benefits or gay people, etc over a drink. It put me off.
That’s not a political thing though. Some people are just idiots.
Those things are political views.
How?
Views about the rights of people on benefits and immigrants are political views. A person who opposes gay people would oppose political issues such as same sex marriage and whether gay people couples had the same rights as heterosexual couples as well.
No they’re not. I disagree.
How are they not?
So someone makes a negative comment about gay people over a drink. That’s a political issue?? That’s a personal issue. Nothing to do
With politics.
This is exactly what I was saying
Would depend exactly what they said, to that point I agree, A slight homophobic comment.
However, it's rare such comments are not aligned with their views that overlap with human rights of those they make such negative comments about. Human rights are most definitely political.
So which particular way would that person vote then who would be likely to say that? Because i think that’s what we’re really getting at here don’t you?
I wouldn’t be able to work that out from their comments... "
That’s my point. We wouldn’t be able to. No.
I think I’ll say goodnight and leave this. Lucifer is calling on tv |
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"It’s possible. I tend to click with people who have similar views and opinions to me. It just happens I suppose. Would I ask someone who they vote for when I met them? No I wouldn’t, it would be irrelevant to me.
I did wonder how this would even come up. I wouldn’t ask either. I really wouldn’t care. I don’t really understand politics enough to care tbh. Is that bad?
Sometimes bigots reveal themselves pretty quickly. I've had people make negative comments about Romanians, people on benefits or gay people, etc over a drink. It put me off.
That’s not a political thing though. Some people are just idiots.
Those things are political views.
How?
Views about the rights of people on benefits and immigrants are political views. A person who opposes gay people would oppose political issues such as same sex marriage and whether gay people couples had the same rights as heterosexual couples as well.
No they’re not. I disagree.
How are they not?
So someone makes a negative comment about gay people over a drink. That’s a political issue?? That’s a personal issue. Nothing to do
With politics.
This is exactly what I was saying
Would depend exactly what they said, to that point I agree, A slight homophobic comment.
However, it's rare such comments are not aligned with their views that overlap with human rights of those they make such negative comments about. Human rights are most definitely political.
So which particular way would that person vote then who would be likely to say that? Because i think that’s what we’re really getting at here don’t you? "
If a party proposed making same sex marriage illegal again or even homosexuality. They may vote for them and that is worrying. Fortunately same sex marriage has been legalised but some parties had vastly more MPs who opposed it than others and policies are always open to change over time. Political views aren't necessarily about aligning with a particular political party though. |
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"It’s possible. I tend to click with people who have similar views and opinions to me. It just happens I suppose. Would I ask someone who they vote for when I met them? No I wouldn’t, it would be irrelevant to me.
I did wonder how this would even come up. I wouldn’t ask either. I really wouldn’t care. I don’t really understand politics enough to care tbh. Is that bad?
Sometimes bigots reveal themselves pretty quickly. I've had people make negative comments about Romanians, people on benefits or gay people, etc over a drink. It put me off.
That’s not a political thing though. Some people are just idiots.
Those things are political views.
How?
Views about the rights of people on benefits and immigrants are political views. A person who opposes gay people would oppose political issues such as same sex marriage and whether gay people couples had the same rights as heterosexual couples as well.
No they’re not. I disagree.
How are they not?
So someone makes a negative comment about gay people over a drink. That’s a political issue?? That’s a personal issue. Nothing to do
With politics.
This is exactly what I was saying
Would depend exactly what they said, to that point I agree, A slight homophobic comment.
However, it's rare such comments are not aligned with their views that overlap with human rights of those they make such negative comments about. Human rights are most definitely political.
So which particular way would that person vote then who would be likely to say that? Because i think that’s what we’re really getting at here don’t you?
Was the question "would you be turned of by a Conservative or labour supporter?"? Because politics are so much more about than just 2 parties that are just as fucked up as each other.
Which party is not hebissue, it is where you stand on each individual specific of politics. "
Exaclty. Someone could align with most of my political views and vote for the same party as me but if we differed on a political issue that was very, very important to me morally then it would likely be an issue for me. |
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"It’s possible. I tend to click with people who have similar views and opinions to me. It just happens I suppose. Would I ask someone who they vote for when I met them? No I wouldn’t, it would be irrelevant to me.
I did wonder how this would even come up. I wouldn’t ask either. I really wouldn’t care. I don’t really understand politics enough to care tbh. Is that bad?
Sometimes bigots reveal themselves pretty quickly. I've had people make negative comments about Romanians, people on benefits or gay people, etc over a drink. It put me off.
That’s not a political thing though. Some people are just idiots.
Those things are political views.
How?
Views about the rights of people on benefits and immigrants are political views. A person who opposes gay people would oppose political issues such as same sex marriage and whether gay people couples had the same rights as heterosexual couples as well.
No they’re not. I disagree.
How are they not?
So someone makes a negative comment about gay people over a drink. That’s a political issue?? That’s a personal issue. Nothing to do
With politics.
This is exactly what I was saying
Would depend exactly what they said, to that point I agree, A slight homophobic comment.
However, it's rare such comments are not aligned with their views that overlap with human rights of those they make such negative comments about. Human rights are most definitely political.
So which particular way would that person vote then who would be likely to say that? Because i think that’s what we’re really getting at here don’t you?
Was the question "would you be turned of by a Conservative or labour supporter?"? Because politics are so much more about than just 2 parties that are just as fucked up as each other.
Which party is not hebissue, it is where you stand on each individual specific of politics.
Exaclty. Someone could align with most of my political views and vote for the same party as me but if we differed on a political issue that was very, very important to me morally then it would likely be an issue for me."
So really, the question could just have easily have been - “would you avoid sleeping with someone who has different moral values to you?”. They are one and the same, essentially, as a person’s political views... if I’m understanding the point. |
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"It’s possible. I tend to click with people who have similar views and opinions to me. It just happens I suppose. Would I ask someone who they vote for when I met them? No I wouldn’t, it would be irrelevant to me.
I did wonder how this would even come up. I wouldn’t ask either. I really wouldn’t care. I don’t really understand politics enough to care tbh. Is that bad?
Sometimes bigots reveal themselves pretty quickly. I've had people make negative comments about Romanians, people on benefits or gay people, etc over a drink. It put me off.
That’s not a political thing though. Some people are just idiots.
Those things are political views.
How?
Views about the rights of people on benefits and immigrants are political views. A person who opposes gay people would oppose political issues such as same sex marriage and whether gay people couples had the same rights as heterosexual couples as well.
No they’re not. I disagree.
How are they not?
So someone makes a negative comment about gay people over a drink. That’s a political issue?? That’s a personal issue. Nothing to do
With politics.
This is exactly what I was saying
Would depend exactly what they said, to that point I agree, A slight homophobic comment.
However, it's rare such comments are not aligned with their views that overlap with human rights of those they make such negative comments about. Human rights are most definitely political.
So which particular way would that person vote then who would be likely to say that? Because i think that’s what we’re really getting at here don’t you?
Was the question "would you be turned of by a Conservative or labour supporter?"? Because politics are so much more about than just 2 parties that are just as fucked up as each other.
Which party is not hebissue, it is where you stand on each individual specific of politics.
Exaclty. Someone could align with most of my political views and vote for the same party as me but if we differed on a political issue that was very, very important to me morally then it would likely be an issue for me.
So really, the question could just have easily have been - “would you avoid sleeping with someone who has different moral values to you?”. They are one and the same, essentially, as a person’s political views... if I’m understanding the point. "
For me, yes. Though moral values more often than not do align with political values. Different people will have varied values for different parts of human rights, they may be homophobic values but pro immigration. If that makes sense. |
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"It’s possible. I tend to click with people who have similar views and opinions to me. It just happens I suppose. Would I ask someone who they vote for when I met them? No I wouldn’t, it would be irrelevant to me.
I did wonder how this would even come up. I wouldn’t ask either. I really wouldn’t care. I don’t really understand politics enough to care tbh. Is that bad?
Sometimes bigots reveal themselves pretty quickly. I've had people make negative comments about Romanians, people on benefits or gay people, etc over a drink. It put me off.
That’s not a political thing though. Some people are just idiots.
Those things are political views.
How?
Views about the rights of people on benefits and immigrants are political views. A person who opposes gay people would oppose political issues such as same sex marriage and whether gay people couples had the same rights as heterosexual couples as well.
No they’re not. I disagree.
How are they not?
So someone makes a negative comment about gay people over a drink. That’s a political issue?? That’s a personal issue. Nothing to do
With politics.
This is exactly what I was saying
Would depend exactly what they said, to that point I agree, A slight homophobic comment.
However, it's rare such comments are not aligned with their views that overlap with human rights of those they make such negative comments about. Human rights are most definitely political.
So which particular way would that person vote then who would be likely to say that? Because i think that’s what we’re really getting at here don’t you?
Was the question "would you be turned of by a Conservative or labour supporter?"? Because politics are so much more about than just 2 parties that are just as fucked up as each other.
Which party is not hebissue, it is where you stand on each individual specific of politics.
Exaclty. Someone could align with most of my political views and vote for the same party as me but if we differed on a political issue that was very, very important to me morally then it would likely be an issue for me.
So really, the question could just have easily have been - “would you avoid sleeping with someone who has different moral values to you?”. They are one and the same, essentially, as a person’s political views... if I’m understanding the point. "
Some political views are more moral issues than others. The ones that are moral issues is the distinction I and a few others have made as go whether it would affect if we slept with someone or not . |
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"It’s possible. I tend to click with people who have similar views and opinions to me. It just happens I suppose. Would I ask someone who they vote for when I met them? No I wouldn’t, it would be irrelevant to me.
I did wonder how this would even come up. I wouldn’t ask either. I really wouldn’t care. I don’t really understand politics enough to care tbh. Is that bad?
Sometimes bigots reveal themselves pretty quickly. I've had people make negative comments about Romanians, people on benefits or gay people, etc over a drink. It put me off.
That’s not a political thing though. Some people are just idiots.
Those things are political views.
How?
Views about the rights of people on benefits and immigrants are political views. A person who opposes gay people would oppose political issues such as same sex marriage and whether gay people couples had the same rights as heterosexual couples as well.
No they’re not. I disagree.
How are they not?
So someone makes a negative comment about gay people over a drink. That’s a political issue?? That’s a personal issue. Nothing to do
With politics.
This is exactly what I was saying
Would depend exactly what they said, to that point I agree, A slight homophobic comment.
However, it's rare such comments are not aligned with their views that overlap with human rights of those they make such negative comments about. Human rights are most definitely political.
So which particular way would that person vote then who would be likely to say that? Because i think that’s what we’re really getting at here don’t you?
Was the question "would you be turned of by a Conservative or labour supporter?"? Because politics are so much more about than just 2 parties that are just as fucked up as each other.
Which party is not hebissue, it is where you stand on each individual specific of politics.
Exaclty. Someone could align with most of my political views and vote for the same party as me but if we differed on a political issue that was very, very important to me morally then it would likely be an issue for me.
So really, the question could just have easily have been - “would you avoid sleeping with someone who has different moral values to you?”. They are one and the same, essentially, as a person’s political views... if I’m understanding the point.
For me, yes. Though moral values more often than not do align with political values. Different people will have varied values for different parts of human rights, they may be homophobic values but pro immigration. If that makes sense. "
I guess it makes sense, yeah. My point was simply that, when politics isn’t something that’s on your radar in life in general, you don’t conceptualise those types of attitudes as ‘political” when they come up in general conversation. For me, the issues that have been mentioned are essentially moral value issues. And they of course would 100% determine whether I wanted to spend my time with someone. It’s probably a matter of semantics really... |
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"It’s possible. I tend to click with people who have similar views and opinions to me. It just happens I suppose. Would I ask someone who they vote for when I met them? No I wouldn’t, it would be irrelevant to me.
I did wonder how this would even come up. I wouldn’t ask either. I really wouldn’t care. I don’t really understand politics enough to care tbh. Is that bad?
Sometimes bigots reveal themselves pretty quickly. I've had people make negative comments about Romanians, people on benefits or gay people, etc over a drink. It put me off.
That’s not a political thing though. Some people are just idiots.
Those things are political views.
How?
Views about the rights of people on benefits and immigrants are political views. A person who opposes gay people would oppose political issues such as same sex marriage and whether gay people couples had the same rights as heterosexual couples as well.
No they’re not. I disagree.
How are they not?
So someone makes a negative comment about gay people over a drink. That’s a political issue?? That’s a personal issue. Nothing to do
With politics.
This is exactly what I was saying
Would depend exactly what they said, to that point I agree, A slight homophobic comment.
However, it's rare such comments are not aligned with their views that overlap with human rights of those they make such negative comments about. Human rights are most definitely political.
So which particular way would that person vote then who would be likely to say that? Because i think that’s what we’re really getting at here don’t you?
Was the question "would you be turned of by a Conservative or labour supporter?"? Because politics are so much more about than just 2 parties that are just as fucked up as each other.
Which party is not hebissue, it is where you stand on each individual specific of politics.
Exaclty. Someone could align with most of my political views and vote for the same party as me but if we differed on a political issue that was very, very important to me morally then it would likely be an issue for me.
So really, the question could just have easily have been - “would you avoid sleeping with someone who has different moral values to you?”. They are one and the same, essentially, as a person’s political views... if I’m understanding the point.
For me, yes. Though moral values more often than not do align with political values. Different people will have varied values for different parts of human rights, they may be homophobic values but pro immigration. If that makes sense.
I guess it makes sense, yeah. My point was simply that, when politics isn’t something that’s on your radar in life in general, you don’t conceptualise those types of attitudes as ‘political” when they come up in general conversation. For me, the issues that have been mentioned are essentially moral value issues. And they of course would 100% determine whether I wanted to spend my time with someone. It’s probably a matter of semantics really... "
That makes sense. Such as your comment about not knowing your partners political views. You likely know where he stands on a lot of issues but just don't associate any of it with politics which is fair enough. Everyone has political views but it is a choice whether you are actively political or not . |
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"It’s possible. I tend to click with people who have similar views and opinions to me. It just happens I suppose. Would I ask someone who they vote for when I met them? No I wouldn’t, it would be irrelevant to me.
I did wonder how this would even come up. I wouldn’t ask either. I really wouldn’t care. I don’t really understand politics enough to care tbh. Is that bad?
Sometimes bigots reveal themselves pretty quickly. I've had people make negative comments about Romanians, people on benefits or gay people, etc over a drink. It put me off.
That’s not a political thing though. Some people are just idiots.
Those things are political views.
How?
Views about the rights of people on benefits and immigrants are political views. A person who opposes gay people would oppose political issues such as same sex marriage and whether gay people couples had the same rights as heterosexual couples as well.
No they’re not. I disagree.
How are they not?
So someone makes a negative comment about gay people over a drink. That’s a political issue?? That’s a personal issue. Nothing to do
With politics.
This is exactly what I was saying
Would depend exactly what they said, to that point I agree, A slight homophobic comment.
However, it's rare such comments are not aligned with their views that overlap with human rights of those they make such negative comments about. Human rights are most definitely political.
So which particular way would that person vote then who would be likely to say that? Because i think that’s what we’re really getting at here don’t you?
Was the question "would you be turned of by a Conservative or labour supporter?"? Because politics are so much more about than just 2 parties that are just as fucked up as each other.
Which party is not hebissue, it is where you stand on each individual specific of politics.
Exaclty. Someone could align with most of my political views and vote for the same party as me but if we differed on a political issue that was very, very important to me morally then it would likely be an issue for me.
So really, the question could just have easily have been - “would you avoid sleeping with someone who has different moral values to you?”. They are one and the same, essentially, as a person’s political views... if I’m understanding the point.
For me, yes. Though moral values more often than not do align with political values. Different people will have varied values for different parts of human rights, they may be homophobic values but pro immigration. If that makes sense.
I guess it makes sense, yeah. My point was simply that, when politics isn’t something that’s on your radar in life in general, you don’t conceptualise those types of attitudes as ‘political” when they come up in general conversation. For me, the issues that have been mentioned are essentially moral value issues. And they of course would 100% determine whether I wanted to spend my time with someone. It’s probably a matter of semantics really...
That makes sense. Such as your comment about not knowing your partners political views. You likely know where he stands on a lot of issues but just don't associate any of it with politics which is fair enough. Everyone has political views but it is a choice whether you are actively political or not ."
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"Finding decent, compatible people to have sex with is hard enough already. Dom't make it even harder by dragging politics into the mix. Masochists!  "
I live in Liverpool so it's rarely caused me issues |
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"Finding decent, compatible people to have sex with is hard enough already. Dom't make it even harder by dragging politics into the mix. Masochists!
I live in Liverpool so it's rarely caused me issues "
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"Finding decent, compatible people to have sex with is hard enough already. Dom't make it even harder by dragging politics into the mix. Masochists! "
It's why I have an agree to disagree threshold. |
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Wow this thread got busy. The gist of it seems to be that most people would fuck another regardless of political view. As long as they're not extreme or bigoted. And the majority wouldn't talk or think politics at all when it comes to a play partner.
But what if they had an intimate tattoo of Johnson or Corbyn? How would you avoid talking about it then? |
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