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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Having a tough time.
It's not for us to decide what makes a tough time for another person. It's how it makes them feel regardless of the cause.
Remember:
You've probably already been through things that would crush another person and you've made it through.
You're loved by more people than you realise.
People look up to you.
You made it this far right? You can make it further.
Whatever it is, it's temporary. Parts of it may be final, but the feelings won't last forever.
It's another opportunity to learn and grow.
Much love.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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yeah i fancied a late night cake last night but missed the local tesco expess by a min or two and they shut = no cake so down last night never slept a wink ill make sure on the way home ill buy double amounts of cake not going thru that again.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Having a tough time.
It's not for us to decide what makes a tough time for another person. It's how it makes them feel regardless of the cause.
Remember:
You've probably already been through things that would crush another person and you've made it through.
You're loved by more people than you realise.
People look up to you.
You made it this far right? You can make it further.
Whatever it is, it's temporary. Parts of it may be final, but the feelings won't last forever.
It's another opportunity to learn and grow.
Much love.
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Exellently put, ive been through the worst thing a parent can go through and it didnt permanantly break me, damaged me for life but not broken me, currently go through something far less thats come close to finishing me off, yet this simple selfless post has just helped me put things into perspective a little, for that i thank you from the bottom of my soul. Now im off to a dark room so sob uncontrolably. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Does this post also come with free hugs?
Its amazing what a hug can do for somebody. No words needed just a hug. "
Absolutely.
I'm the hug monster. You can feel the care and love that come through mine. B gives a good un too.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Having a tough time.
It's not for us to decide what makes a tough time for another person. It's how it makes them feel regardless of the cause.
Remember:
You've probably already been through things that would crush another person and you've made it through.
You're loved by more people than you realise.
People look up to you.
You made it this far right? You can make it further.
Whatever it is, it's temporary. Parts of it may be final, but the feelings won't last forever.
It's another opportunity to learn and grow.
Much love.
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I dont know which one or both of you that just sent me that pm but thank you so much, you are good people, the world needs more of you xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Awww ya big old softy
Needs to be more of you around my friend and more threads like this "
Big softy yes, but I'll still dropkick a mofo for being a cunt 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Awww ya big old softy
Needs to be more of you around my friend and more threads like this
Big softy yes, but I'll still dropkick a mofo for being a cunt
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Hahahaha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Awww ya big old softy
Needs to be more of you around my friend and more threads like this
Big softy yes, but I'll still dropkick a mofo for being a cunt
P"
And this is exactly why I like you so much  |
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My TeenyTiny PeachyPrincess
You have been the glue that has held me together on more than one occasion
Right now, everything feels final, I know it's not, but I'm questioning the point of life, how I'm going to carry on.
I needed your dainty size 3s to give me a good butt kick x
Thank you, for being you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My TeenyTiny PeachyPrincess
You have been the glue that has held me together on more than one occasion
Right now, everything feels final, I know it's not, but I'm questioning the point of life, how I'm going to carry on.
I needed your dainty size 3s to give me a good butt kick x
Thank you, for being you "
Stay strong and remember tomorrows a new day, you never know whats round the corner. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"My TeenyTiny PeachyPrincess
You have been the glue that has held me together on more than one occasion
Right now, everything feels final, I know it's not, but I'm questioning the point of life, how I'm going to carry on.
I needed your dainty size 3s to give me a good butt kick x
Thank you, for being you "
I don't need thanks ya daft twat 
Yes, parts are final, but not all. You're questioning because you're trying to make sense of something. We all do that. We all need to make sense of things, especially when there's seemingly no logic behind it. It's perfectly normal and natural.
I'll tell ya how you're gonna carry on.
Through teary eyes to begin with, but with sheer grit and determination because lady, you're a fucker for making the rest of us look like we're only putting in a half arsed effort.
We all crack, we all crumble a little (sometimes a lot) but you know as well as I do you have the glue inside you to fix the cracks, the glue just needs warming up is all.
Now bend over, I've just put my winklepickers on.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yeah nice post. Been through some shit times here. Won’t bother long through it all but it was pretty shit. The only thing that kept me motivated was my girls. Other wise I would definitely been a goner now.
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"My TeenyTiny PeachyPrincess
You have been the glue that has held me together on more than one occasion
Right now, everything feels final, I know it's not, but I'm questioning the point of life, how I'm going to carry on.
I needed your dainty size 3s to give me a good butt kick x
Thank you, for being you
I don't need thanks ya daft twat
Yes, parts are final, but not all. You're questioning because you're trying to make sense of something. We all do that. We all need to make sense of things, especially when there's seemingly no logic behind it. It's perfectly normal and natural.
I'll tell ya how you're gonna carry on.
Through teary eyes to begin with, but with sheer grit and determination because lady, you're a fucker for making the rest of us look like we're only putting in a half arsed effort.
We all crack, we all crumble a little (sometimes a lot) but you know as well as I do you have the glue inside you to fix the cracks, the glue just needs warming up is all.
Now bend over, I've just put my winklepickers on.
P"
I fucking love you xxx |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Sometimes a reminder that you're not alone and you have people that will be there for you is all that's needed to put the beginnings of a smile on your face. Thanks for being you OP and doing this lovely thread x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thank you op.
I’ve been through more shit most people can barely even think of but I’m still here surviving.
I love what you wrote and really needed to hear it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thank you op.
I’ve been through more shit most people can barely even think of but I’m still here surviving.
I love what you wrote and really needed to hear it "
We are all here for you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yeah nice post. Been through some shit times here. Won’t bother long through it all but it was pretty shit. The only thing that kept me motivated was my girls. Other wise I would definitely been a goner now.
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I bet they appreciate you very much. X |
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Thanks Op, it's actually nice to read something positive, funnily enough the words do have meaning for me currently.
Generally find certain song lyrics help me get through some bad times recently as well  |
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"Having a tough time.
It's not for us to decide what makes a tough time for another person. It's how it makes them feel regardless of the cause.
Remember:
You've probably already been through things that would crush another person and you've made it through.
You're loved by more people than you realise.
People look up to you.
You made it this far right? You can make it further.
Whatever it is, it's temporary. Parts of it may be final, but the feelings won't last forever.
It's another opportunity to learn and grow.
Much love.
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love a post like this
much love back |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" Thanks Op, it's actually nice to read something positive, funnily enough the words do have meaning for me currently.
Generally find certain song lyrics help me get through some bad times recently as well "
I wouldnt be here if it wasnt for music, music is my therapy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thank you pp, just what I needed today. I’m sat here crying but know that tomorrow is a new day and I’ll survive that as well.,
It’s hard holding everyone else together when you’re falling apart yourself. But I’m a stubborn old woman and I won’t let it beat me x |
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"Thank you pp, just what I needed today. I’m sat here crying but know that tomorrow is a new day and I’ll survive that as well.,
It’s hard holding everyone else together when you’re falling apart yourself. But I’m a stubborn old woman and I won’t let it beat me x "
self love is the only way to go x put yourself back together slowly piece by piece xxx thankfully we have the choice whether to restart the machine every day and write a new script xxx |
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"Having a tough time.
It's not for us to decide what makes a tough time for another person. It's how it makes them feel regardless of the cause.
Remember:
You've probably already been through things that would crush another person and you've made it through.
You're loved by more people than you realise.
People look up to you.
You made it this far right? You can make it further.
Whatever it is, it's temporary. Parts of it may be final, but the feelings won't last forever.
It's another opportunity to learn and grow.
Much love.
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Needed that. Ta. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does this post also come with free hugs?
Its amazing what a hug can do for somebody. No words needed just a hug.
Yes please, I need a cuddle 
Why didn't you say so! Come here you "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Today is a new day. It may be tougher than yesterday, it may be a little less blue than yesterday.
I'm setting you a challenge.
If you had a friend coming to visit who wasn't feeling down, or maybe just wasn't looking after themselves as best as they could you'd look after them wouldn't you in your own way. Maybe you'd sort them something to eat that showed them you care? Something with nutrients and a touch of the feel good factor.
Guess what? You're not just a friend to others, you're also your own friend. Make that food for YOU. Show yourself you are worthy of some care.... because you are.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Having a tough time.
It's not for us to decide what makes a tough time for another person. It's how it makes them feel regardless of the cause.
Remember:
You've probably already been through things that would crush another person and you've made it through.
You're loved by more people than you realise.
People look up to you.
You made it this far right? You can make it further.
Whatever it is, it's temporary. Parts of it may be final, but the feelings won't last forever.
It's another opportunity to learn and grow.
Much love.
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Sooooo bootiful  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Today is a new day. It may be tougher than yesterday, it may be a little less blue than yesterday.
I'm setting you a challenge.
If you had a friend coming to visit who wasn't feeling down, or maybe just wasn't looking after themselves as best as they could you'd look after them wouldn't you in your own way. Maybe you'd sort them something to eat that showed them you care? Something with nutrients and a touch of the feel good factor.
Guess what? You're not just a friend to others, you're also your own friend. Make that food for YOU. Show yourself you are worthy of some care.... because you are.
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So very true...happy with who you are...happy to pamper oneself as well as others is a happy soul..it's a soul at peace or at least that moment in time ..it may see you thru to an end it may see you thru for but a few moments..the fact is your heart bore a smile..the greatest of all medicines |
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"Today is a new day. It may be tougher than yesterday, it may be a little less blue than yesterday.
I'm setting you a challenge.
If you had a friend coming to visit who wasn't feeling down, or maybe just wasn't looking after themselves as best as they could you'd look after them wouldn't you in your own way. Maybe you'd sort them something to eat that showed them you care? Something with nutrients and a touch of the feel good factor.
Guess what? You're not just a friend to others, you're also your own friend. Make that food for YOU. Show yourself you are worthy of some care.... because you are.
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I'm trying xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Having a tough time.
It's not for us to decide what makes a tough time for another person. It's how it makes them feel regardless of the cause.
Remember:
You've probably already been through things that would crush another person and you've made it through.
You're loved by more people than you realise.
People look up to you.
You made it this far right? You can make it further.
Whatever it is, it's temporary. Parts of it may be final, but the feelings won't last forever.
It's another opportunity to learn and grow.
Much love.
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What a lovely post,and very poignant to me personally, so thankyou.x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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P has been through some dark times in her own life, so as well as being a comfort knows exactly where a lot of those needing comfort are coming from?
She's been bloody great to me, and I like to think I can brighten her own moods sometimes (usually by surprises which I tend to be decent at! )
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