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By *iger4u OP Woman
over a year ago
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So after a succesful meet If im accomodating I put the kettle on.
My assumption is they drink up and leave.
How do you all get rid of people who are lingering...
How long is too long?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So after a succesful meet If im accomodating I put the kettle on.
My assumption is they drink up and leave.
How do you all get rid of people who are lingering...
How long is too long?
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I could usually go a few more rounds after the cuppa tbf. |
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"Like Malcolm Tucker I just roll over and say “Fuckety-bye”."
Just out of interest, any other Tucker-isms you throw in to your carnal sessions? For example, have you had recourse to “fucking omnishambles”?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just turn the conversation to them leaving. Thank you for a lovely evening, do you mind if we say goodnight now, as I have to be up early tomorrow for........ |
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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago
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"Like Malcolm Tucker I just roll over and say “Fuckety-bye”.
Just out of interest, any other Tucker-isms you throw in to your carnal sessions? For example, have you had recourse to “fucking omnishambles”?
Mr. "
“You're like that coffee machine, you know: from bean to cup, you fuck up." |
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"Like Malcolm Tucker I just roll over and say “Fuckety-bye”.
Just out of interest, any other Tucker-isms you throw in to your carnal sessions? For example, have you had recourse to “fucking omnishambles”?
Mr.
“You're like that coffee machine, you know: from bean to cup, you fuck up.""
I now want to see Malcolm Tucker narrating somebody’s Fab meet. That’d be splendid. |
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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago
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"Like Malcolm Tucker I just roll over and say “Fuckety-bye”.
Just out of interest, any other Tucker-isms you throw in to your carnal sessions? For example, have you had recourse to “fucking omnishambles”?
Mr.
“You're like that coffee machine, you know: from bean to cup, you fuck up."
I now want to see Malcolm Tucker narrating somebody’s Fab meet. That’d be splendid. "
"He's useless. He's absolutely useless. He's as useless as a marzipan dildo." |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But I brought bacon and eggs for breakfast. Pffft "
Well if you’re making a fry up in the morning then you can stay! Just don’t steal the duvet or snore! I’m tired  |
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"So after a succesful meet If im accomodating I put the kettle on.
My assumption is they drink up and leave.
How do you all get rid of people who are lingering...
How long is too long?
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Next time don't make tea for starters hun... Just be confident and say thank you for a great time. See you soon hopefully goodbye. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So after a succesful meet If im accomodating I put the kettle on.
My assumption is they drink up and leave.
How do you all get rid of people who are lingering...
How long is too long?
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3.5 hours  |
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Bizarrely we’ve never been asked to leave when we’ve had meets at couples houses lol. We’ve always stayed over at their place and if we’ve had people to ours they’re always welcome to stop over and have breakfast in the morning. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If my meet stayed overnight, it's a success. In the morning I usually go to work and he goes home 
But there was this one time where my worst meet ever (virgin, I didn't know beforehand) wouldn't leave.. he just sat there like a twat. He wasn't getting my hints so I said "I need to kick you out now" and eventually he got up and fucked off. |
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"So after a succesful meet If im accomodating I put the kettle on.
My assumption is they drink up and leave.
How do you all get rid of people who are lingering...
How long is too long?
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Make up someone is coming over. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So after a succesful meet If im accomodating I put the kettle on.
My assumption is they drink up and leave.
How do you all get rid of people who are lingering...
How long is too long?
I could usually go a few more rounds after the cuppa tbf."
 i dont treat sex a a wham bam thats your lot see ya, last time for me we spent the night together... it didnt stop at once. In afew weeks were having a whole weekend together fri until sun poss mon... i doubt we'll leave the hotel  |
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"If my meet stayed overnight, it's a success. In the morning I usually go to work and he goes home
But there was this one time where my worst meet ever (virgin, I didn't know beforehand) wouldn't leave.. he just sat there like a twat. He wasn't getting my hints so I said "I need to kick you out now" and eventually he got up and fucked off."
Christ that sounds excruciating  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If my meet stayed overnight, it's a success. In the morning I usually go to work and he goes home
But there was this one time where my worst meet ever (virgin, I didn't know beforehand) wouldn't leave.. he just sat there like a twat. He wasn't getting my hints so I said "I need to kick you out now" and eventually he got up and fucked off.
Christ that sounds excruciating "
I still have nightmares, let me tell you..
The best thing was he asked for a veri a few days later as he didn't have a green tick yet |
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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago
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A lot depends on the snacks available. Cake will always make me stay at least a day or two I’d I’m meeting a tall dominant woman with perfectly formed breasts and extra long legs then it will depend on how long it takes be to untie myself. But If hubbie decides to come home early I’ll quickly wipe my cock on his pillow and I’m outa there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"None visit my home so I don’t have that problem....."
Same. No way I'd even tell anyone the county I live in.
They know my rules and timeline before the meet. I leave as discussed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So after a succesful meet If im accomodating I put the kettle on.
My assumption is they drink up and leave.
How do you all get rid of people who are lingering...
How long is too long?
I could usually go a few more rounds after the cuppa tbf."
What do you have in your tea? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why would anyone let a stranger into their home? I might start a new thread.
OP hasn't said. Could be somebody she knows, met before.... "
I was wondering this. Do people feel more comfortable accommodating if they’re in a couple just in case something goes wrong? 
Or is it only people already known to you that you’d let into your home? I personally don’t accommodate (except for friends obviously); so I’m genuinely curious as to how people make the judgement about who is safe and not? |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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I don’t accommodate so i’m usually the one leaving. I like to leave by middnight otherwise my Hyundai turns into a Pumpkin. I don’t like too late an evening.
Some men are happy to chat and cuddle. Some men like you to sod off after they’ve had their third orgasm.
Swings and roundabouts. |
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"Why would anyone let a stranger into their home? I might start a new thread.
OP hasn't said. Could be somebody she knows, met before....
I was wondering this. Do people feel more comfortable accommodating if they’re in a couple just in case something goes wrong?
Or is it only people already known to you that you’d let into your home? I personally don’t accommodate (except for friends obviously); so I’m genuinely curious as to how people make the judgement about who is safe and not? "
what
We used to accommodate, we don't now. It's a decision you have to make based on your own judgement and but instinct. It's always a risk. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why would anyone let a stranger into their home? I might start a new thread.
OP hasn't said. Could be somebody she knows, met before....
I was wondering this. Do people feel more comfortable accommodating if they’re in a couple just in case something goes wrong?
Or is it only people already known to you that you’d let into your home? I personally don’t accommodate (except for friends obviously); so I’m genuinely curious as to how people make the judgement about who is safe and not? "
OK erm... We are a cpl NOT living together. Its my home (fem) where we play. I'm committed to introducing a third to the dimension but obviously if my FB is in my home too. Me, as a single fem, wouldn't have a guy in my house, on my own - unless I've met many times before elsewhere.
Hope that makes sense x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why would anyone let a stranger into their home? I might start a new thread.
OP hasn't said. Could be somebody she knows, met before....
I was wondering this. Do people feel more comfortable accommodating if they’re in a couple just in case something goes wrong?
Or is it only people already known to you that you’d let into your home? I personally don’t accommodate (except for friends obviously); so I’m genuinely curious as to how people make the judgement about who is safe and not?
OK erm... We are a cpl NOT living together. Its my home (fem) where we play. I'm committed to introducing a third to the dimension but obviously if my FB is in my home too. Me, as a single fem, wouldn't have a guy in my house, on my own - unless I've met many times before elsewhere.
Hope that makes sense x"
What will you do if the new bloke turns up at some random time wanting another shag? He will have your address from being there with your fb. |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"I've never, ever made anyone a cuppa after a meet.
Even the thought has given me the heebie jeebies!
I generally just boot them out the door with a toe up their arse "
They might enjoy that  |
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"So after a succesful meet If im accomodating I put the kettle on.
My assumption is they drink up and leave.
How do you all get rid of people who are lingering...
How long is too long?
I could usually go a few more rounds after the cuppa tbf."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't accommodate but there has only been one awkward meet where I've booted a guy out. This was recently and he assumed that because I'm kinky I would love him chewing my nipples and lip so hard they bled, and using his hand to stimulate me so hard it left me bruised! We planned on staying the night together but I told him to get lost after he ignored my plees for him to stop hurting me. He then claimed I had multiple personality disorder!
I normally meet in hotel rooms and I always book a disabled room. This is mostly for safety with the pull cord alarms if they won't leave. Normally though we arrange time scales before we meet so it's not awkward |
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By *hechapMan
over a year ago
Derry |
Just look at your phone and say something along the lines thats the sexual health clinic texting and they want you back in asap.
Say you cant understand why they want you back because they say all tests are 100% positive.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why would anyone let a stranger into their home? I might start a new thread.
OP hasn't said. Could be somebody she knows, met before....
I was wondering this. Do people feel more comfortable accommodating if they’re in a couple just in case something goes wrong?
Or is it only people already known to you that you’d let into your home? I personally don’t accommodate (except for friends obviously); so I’m genuinely curious as to how people make the judgement about who is safe and not?
OK erm... We are a cpl NOT living together. Its my home (fem) where we play. I'm committed to introducing a third to the dimension but obviously if my FB is in my home too. Me, as a single fem, wouldn't have a guy in my house, on my own - unless I've met many times before elsewhere.
Hope that makes sense x"
Yes perfect sense - I’m the same, would never let anyone in if I was on my own x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So after a succesful meet If im accomodating I put the kettle on.
My assumption is they drink up and leave.
How do you all get rid of people who are lingering...
How long is too long?
I could usually go a few more rounds after the cuppa tbf."
exactly! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bizarrely we’ve never been asked to leave when we’ve had meets at couples houses lol. We’ve always stayed over at their place and if we’ve had people to ours they’re always welcome to stop over and have breakfast in the morning. "
this means Civilization |
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By *iger4u OP Woman
over a year ago
In my happy place |
"Why would anyone let a stranger into their home? I might start a new thread.
OP hasn't said. Could be somebody she knows, met before.... "
This... I only invite ppl ive met and they have accomodated or hotel.. No randoms. Jeez. Thats one up from the vanlady. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t accommodate so i’m usually the one leaving. I like to leave by middnight otherwise my Hyundai turns into a Pumpkin. I don’t like too late an evening.
Some men are happy to chat and cuddle. Some men like you to sod off after they’ve had their third orgasm.
Swings and roundabouts."
yeah hyundais do that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im a gentleman. If you can last 3 plus hours of almost non stop fucking its time to go anyway. I can understand when time is up, you got to be a total jerk not to know |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Never experienced that. Whenever I’ve met anyone. Neither of us have wanted to leave. "
That's why our time together was agreed in a civilised way beforehand. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So after a succesful meet If im accomodating I put the kettle on.
My assumption is they drink up and leave.
How do you all get rid of people who are lingering...
How long is too long?
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It's easy meet on hotel and then say who's going to pay the bill . Never see anyone leave roo so fast |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why would anyone let a stranger into their home? I might start a new thread.
OP hasn't said. Could be somebody she knows, met before....
I was wondering this. Do people feel more comfortable accommodating if they’re in a couple just in case something goes wrong?
Or is it only people already known to you that you’d let into your home? I personally don’t accommodate (except for friends obviously); so I’m genuinely curious as to how people make the judgement about who is safe and not?
OK erm... We are a cpl NOT living together. Its my home (fem) where we play. I'm committed to introducing a third to the dimension but obviously if my FB is in my home too. Me, as a single fem, wouldn't have a guy in my house, on my own - unless I've met many times before elsewhere.
Hope that makes sense x
What will you do if the new bloke turns up at some random time wanting another shag? He will have your address from being there with your fb. "
It'll be an interesting chat Mavis!... Cos I've already thought of that, I'd meet them elsewhere and take them to my address.... Failing that, I'd choose a guy I've already met before who I know for sure wouldn't disrespect me in that way....
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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago
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"So after a succesful meet If im accomodating I put the kettle on.
My assumption is they drink up and leave.
How do you all get rid of people who are lingering...
How long is too long?
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Refuse to go for breakfast and walk out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why would anyone let a stranger into their home? I might start a new thread.
OP hasn't said. Could be somebody she knows, met before....
I was wondering this. Do people feel more comfortable accommodating if they’re in a couple just in case something goes wrong?
Or is it only people already known to you that you’d let into your home? I personally don’t accommodate (except for friends obviously); so I’m genuinely curious as to how people make the judgement about who is safe and not?
OK erm... We are a cpl NOT living together. Its my home (fem) where we play. I'm committed to introducing a third to the dimension but obviously if my FB is in my home too. Me, as a single fem, wouldn't have a guy in my house, on my own - unless I've met many times before elsewhere.
Hope that makes sense x
What will you do if the new bloke turns up at some random time wanting another shag? He will have your address from being there with your fb.
It'll be an interesting chat Mavis!... Cos I've already thought of that, I'd meet them elsewhere and take them to my address.... Failing that, I'd choose a guy I've already met before who I know for sure wouldn't disrespect me in that way....
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just turn the conversation to them leaving. Thank you for a lovely evening, do you mind if we say goodnight now, as I have to be up early tomorrow for........"
This has always worked for me!! |
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By *wingfellowMan
over a year ago
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"Until you develop asthma you never knew you had... until then you’re just warming up
I usually find being honest works. "
Ditto. Although it does depend on wether it’s going to be one round or more, enough of a chat beforehand should set the tone. |
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Hmmm. Anything more than half an hour imo 
