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Do men like sexually aggressive women?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't like anyone aggressive, unless it's in self defence.
I like women who are forward and know what they want.
Not sure I want kidney punches whilst she bends me over the sofa though  |
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"I don't like anyone aggressive, unless it's in self defence.
I like women who are forward and know what they want.
Not sure I want kidney punches whilst she bends me over the sofa though "
yes not that aggressive  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't like anyone aggressive, unless it's in self defence.
I like women who are forward and know what they want.
Not sure I want kidney punches whilst she bends me over the sofa though yes not that aggressive "
Are you being defensive if its self defence and not aggressive |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't like anyone aggressive, unless it's in self defence.
I like women who are forward and know what they want.
Not sure I want kidney punches whilst she bends me over the sofa though yes not that aggressive
Are you being defensive if its self defence and not aggressive "
A pre-emptive strike can be dealt in self defence. I'd say that's pretty aggressive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im quite a fan of them as long as they are not to overly aggressive.
Depends how you define sexually aggressive? "
Grab your balls and twist them until you promise them at least 2 and a half orgasms. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im quite a fan of them as long as they are not to overly aggressive.
Depends how you define sexually aggressive?
Grab your balls and twist them until you promise them at least 2 and a half orgasms."
Under the pinky swear. |
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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago
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"I prefer the term, assertive.
Although touch my feet, and you'll discover a whole new level of aggression 
I literally came here to say sexually assertive over sexually aggressive."
Assertive, passionate, animalistic, raw, forward, urgent..
Aggression is from the wrong end of the emotional spectrum.
It's the opposite emotion of cheesy garlic bread.. |
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"I prefer the term, assertive.
Although touch my feet, and you'll discover a whole new level of aggression
I literally came here to say sexually assertive over sexually aggressive.
Assertive, passionate, animalistic, raw, forward, urgent..
Aggression is from the wrong end of the emotional spectrum.
It's the opposite emotion of cheesy garlic bread.."
I'd get animalistic for some cheesy garlic bread. |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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"I prefer the term, assertive.
Although touch my feet, and you'll discover a whole new level of aggression
I literally came here to say sexually assertive over sexually aggressive.
Assertive, passionate, animalistic, raw, forward, urgent..
Aggression is from the wrong end of the emotional spectrum.
It's the opposite emotion of cheesy garlic bread..
I'd get animalistic for some cheesy garlic bread."
I'll fight you if it's over the folded garlic bread from my local take away. |
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"I prefer the term, assertive.
Although touch my feet, and you'll discover a whole new level of aggression
I literally came here to say sexually assertive over sexually aggressive.
Assertive, passionate, animalistic, raw, forward, urgent..
Aggression is from the wrong end of the emotional spectrum.
It's the opposite emotion of cheesy garlic bread..
I'd get animalistic for some cheesy garlic bread.
I'll fight you if it's over the folded garlic bread from my local take away. "
... you may have to PM me about this takeaway  |
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I've found that quite a few men don't like sexually confident and assertive women - i've been told on numerous occasions that i'm too forward 
It's fun when I find a man that does like it and responds to it though, things can get very animalistic  |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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"I've found that quite a few men don't like sexually confident and assertive women - i've been told on numerous occasions that i'm too forward
It's fun when I find a man that does like it and responds to it though, things can get very animalistic "
Filters at work right there
I guess some guys just feel threatened by it somehow - for me equality where control flows back and forth or even assertion on the part of the lady can lead to great times |
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"I've found that quite a few men don't like sexually confident and assertive women - i've been told on numerous occasions that i'm too forward
It's fun when I find a man that does like it and responds to it though, things can get very animalistic
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Do some blokes possibly think it threatens their masculinity?
Probably the same ones that won't do their fair share of the housework either.
Personally, someone coming up to me in a pub, and telling me they are taking me back to theirs so they can fuck me. Then making me clean the bathroom is perfect!
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"Im quite a fan of them as long as they are not to overly aggressive."
Overly aggressive people bore me make or female but have to admit I have a particular dislike to overly aggressive,loud, rude women who seem to think that it's perfectly fine to talk to everyone like a piece of shit and say whatever they want regardless of the consequences.
Not for me thanks.
Much prefer polite people with manners and restraint. |
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I going to guess based on the many complaints on here from men that they have to do all the chasing, send all the messages, make the first move etc, that lots of men would love there to be lots more sexually aggressive women out there. |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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How can someone be too sexually aggressive?
Personally I like people who know what they want and I don't get intimidated by people who are sexual or liberated enough to ask or state what they want.
Much as I hate to play the gender card, I've never seen this topic raised about men, but then they're 'expected' to be the aggressors in sex.
I think I'd much rather be with someone who is forward, than someone expecting me to make all the advances. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How can someone be too sexually aggressive?
Personally I like people who know what they want and I don't get intimidated by people who are sexual or liberated enough to ask or state what they want.
Much as I hate to play the gender card, I've never seen this topic raised about men, but then they're 'expected' to be the aggressors in sex.
I think I'd much rather be with someone who is forward, than someone expecting me to make all the advances. "
I agree.
Watch it though the people who like to rumble about toxic masculinity and the metoo movement will be here any second. I got your back though, the people who bitch about this also complain about chivalry being dead. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im quite a fan of them as long as they are not to overly aggressive.
Depends how you define sexually aggressive?
Grab your balls and twist them until you promise them at least 2 and a half orgasms.
Under the pinky swear."
In that case ... I’m more assertive than aggressive |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Aggressiveness is an overdone strength in my eyes. I do however like sexually assertive women. I like women who are confident asking for what they want and need. |
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Assertive, passionate, animalistic, raw, forward, urgent..
Aggression is from the wrong end of the emotional spectrum.
It's the opposite emotion of cheesy garlic bread.."
Did someone say they had cheesy garlic bread?  |
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I like women who are sexually confident - a woman who knows what she wants and will go out and get it, one who feels no shame about enjoying sex, one who doesn't put up with sub-standard sex.
That doesn't have to be aggressive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you think telling someone I haven't met yet that I'm going to come and suck him off on my lunch break today is sexually aggressive?
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Errr no! Just wondering why that never happens for me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Best sex ever had with a fwb was after a very physical match of strength shall we say! Hahahahahahahaha play fight or what! "
I'm rather fond of sexual wrestling too |
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"I like women who are sexually confident - a woman who knows what she wants and will go out and get it, one who feels no shame about enjoying sex, one who doesn't put up with sub-standard sex.
That doesn't have to be aggressive. "
Love this! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you think telling someone I haven't met yet that I'm going to come and suck him off on my lunch break today is sexually aggressive?
Errr no! Just wondering why that never happens for me "
You never know - never say never
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Best sex ever had with a fwb was after a very physical match of strength shall we say! Hahahahahahahaha play fight or what!
I'm rather fond of sexual wrestling too "
Well it started off as that ... then went into full on naked strength wrestling followed by instantaneously awesome fucking |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Best sex ever had with a fwb was after a very physical match of strength shall we say! Hahahahahahahaha play fight or what!
I'm rather fond of sexual wrestling too
Well it started off as that ... then went into full on naked strength wrestling followed by instantaneously awesome fucking "
Errr! Yep that's what I meant |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you think telling someone I haven't met yet that I'm going to come and suck him off on my lunch break today is sexually aggressive?
Errr no! Just wondering why that never happens for me
You never know - never say never
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I live in hope then |
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"I like women who are sexually confident - a woman who knows what she wants and will go out and get it, one who feels no shame about enjoying sex, one who doesn't put up with sub-standard sex.
That doesn't have to be aggressive. "
This, all day long! It's me
Mrs TMN x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sexual assertiveness is confidence in ones self, which is the cornerstone to any great sexual relationship. Many people out there don’t know what they want and are too afraid to be themselves because they don’t “fit the fold”, which is sexual debilitating. I love confident, assertive women who go out there and get what they want. Literally can’t believe men don’t like that - how could you not?!?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know what i like and what i want...not always confident enough to make the first approach to someone though..
However once in the zone i can be assertive... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes to a degree I like the power struggle haha …but aggression up to a point
I don’t want them to pull out a flick knife , arms splaying and start shouting “cam on then ya cunt…cam on then!!” |
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By *aiseiMan
over a year ago
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I like when a woman just says what she wants or just makes a move to get it. Almost exclusively, the best sex I’ve had has been with partner who were like that.
I’m not averse to a bit of chasing initially, but endless games are off-putting. I also over-analyse and second-guess too much, so having that circumvented by someone is a big plus. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like it when they know what they wantand then do as there told
. This is why we’ve only ever been besties hahaha"
you like the rest would have folded like a pack of cards Your body would crumble as your mind collapsed into madness |
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