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Tipsy and merry is fine and dandy, but flat out, passing out pissed is a no from me.
I like my partner to be Compos mentis and enjoying the activity (hell, even better if they put in a bit of effort to  ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The problem for guys being really d*unk is what is known as brewers'droop. Not good for them or their partners. Henry"
I get that too tbh. I find it really hard to cum if I've had even a few drinks so it's in my own interests to just not bother. |
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over a year ago
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Is it someone I've just met? No that's a bit r*pey.
Are we lovers and we both went out and got trollied and came home and fell into bed? Yep. But I'll make a point of doing the job properly in the morning cause d*unk sex rarely amounts to much...
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it someone I've just met? No that's a bit r*pey.
Are we lovers and we both went out and got trollied and came home and fell into bed? Yep. But I'll make a point of doing the job properly in the morning cause d*unk sex rarely amounts to much...
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"The problem for guys being really d*unk is what is known as brewers'droop. Not good for them or their partners. Henry
I get that too tbh. I find it really hard to cum if I've had even a few drinks so it's in my own interests to just not bother. "
Me too...thought i was a strange one. But i still enjoy the fun in trying  |
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I had the experience years ago on a skiing holiday in Norway where I joined fellow hotel visitors in the jacuzzi nude. At some point, an English guy decided to splash out with champagne for all of us. We all got progressively tipsier and hotter whereupon a beautiful blonde d*unk Norwegian lady cooking next to me uttered these words ' I can see your cock'. Stunned at these words, I thought 'Oh' and got out because my body at that moment was physically too hot and the chlorine stinging my eyes. Looking back, it was missed opportunity for me to exchange room numbers and have some fun later when we were both more sober and our bodies cooler. By the way, being too hot also makes stiffies harder. Is that the case for others? H |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Oddly, I find myself judged for being "no fun" because I don't drink when I swing. Or very brave.
I don't get it. I don't need drink to be fun. "
I can't see how its not fun. Its down to personal preference  |
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"Oddly, I find myself judged for being "no fun" because I don't drink when I swing. Or very brave.
I don't get it. I don't need drink to be fun.
I can't see how its not fun. Its down to personal preference "
Very much. I don't judge others drinking, unless I have to calculate if they still know what they're doing. |
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"Oddly, I find myself judged for being "no fun" because I don't drink when I swing. Or very brave.
I don't get it. I don't need drink to be fun. "
I don’t drink at all so I know where you’re coming from.
A slightly tiddly partner is fine but anything beyond that and I don’t even stay in that persons company, I find the d*unk to be obnoxious and frightening, swinging or not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oddly, I find myself judged for being "no fun" because I don't drink when I swing. Or very brave.
I don't get it. I don't need drink to be fun. "
we are the same, though no one has ever said that to us. |
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No, and this is one of the main reasons that I don't frequent clubs, as every time I do there seems to be an awful lot of d*unk people.
If i'm with someone I know then being a bit tipsy is fine if we've been out for a drink before playtime, but a first meet then one drink maximum. |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
You really have to be careful.
I was out with some friends and saw a very d*unk lady being guided into a car by 3 young lads.
It didn't look right - so I asked if she was sure she wanted to get in the car with them.
The 3 lads left her and drove off quite quickly.
I dread to think what would've happened to her.
Please be careful when drinking too much. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Oddly, I find myself judged for being "no fun" because I don't drink when I swing. Or very brave.
I don't get it. I don't need drink to be fun.
I can't see how its not fun. Its down to personal preference
Very much. I don't judge others drinking, unless I have to calculate if they still know what they're doing. "
A lot of the time they don't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oddly, I find myself judged for being "no fun" because I don't drink when I swing. Or very brave.
I don't get it. I don't need drink to be fun. "
They are just projecting their guilt into you. It's crazy the amount of people who 'need a drink' to be able to swing.
Especially women.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cohld you have sex with someone if they really d*unk ?
Wouldn't that be like r##e or sexual assault in the person was so d*unk as not able to give CONSENT."
This. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Cohld you have sex with someone if they really d*unk ?
Wouldn't that be like r##e or sexual assault in the person was so d*unk as not able to give CONSENT.
This."
This is a very good point. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on how well I know them. Some people, like my good self can handle our liquor. If I met my female counterpart, then yes, I would, provided she were giving off the same signs. Signs I can read from the time I've known her. It's a more inhibition-less and can be quite animalistic.
If I dont know her all that well.. HELL NO! |
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By *D40Couple
over a year ago
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"Oddly, I find myself judged for being "no fun" because I don't drink when I swing. Or very brave.
I don't get it. I don't need drink to be fun.
They are just projecting their guilt into you. It's crazy the amount of people who 'need a drink' to be able to swing.
Especially women. "
I (Mrs) always drink if we travel to parties/socials. I don't drink to excess, maybe 2 glasses of wine if I'm in New territory with people I've not met before. Maybe another glass or two if with friends. At no point do I not know what I am doing, what anyone around me is doing and I am more than capable of saying no because if I don't do it sober then I don't do it squiffy. I have a drink because it relaxes me...
Mr May have a Carling (liquid viagra too him lol) but that's it for him
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
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"Depends on how well I know them. Some people, like my good self can handle our liquor. If I met my female counterpart, then yes, I would, provided she were giving off the same signs. Signs I can read from the time I've known her. It's a more inhibition-less and can be quite animalistic.
If I dont know her all that well.. HELL NO!"
Agreed, I wouldn't fuck someone who was hammered but I like going out and having a drink, I don't get falling over d*unk though.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nope...if they have no self control over their own bodies then they probably lack the faculties to take care of mine during sex."
Have to agree with this |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Cohld you have sex with someone if they really d*unk ?"
I couldn't have sex with a person who was really d*unk. I take consent very seriously.
I don't do d*unken meets either. If I wanted a d*unken fumble I'd head to the nearest nightclub. |
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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago
Near Wells |
I went out with a lady who was an alcoholic, I didn't realise it before we had met.
To begin with it was great because I could do whatever I like. But it didn't take long when all she could do was just lie there with no reactions. I assume it was similar to having sex with a blow up doll.
I can't even mention the stories of what happened and the difficult situations we ended up in. It just became tiresome.
It was a shame because she was a nice lady with a problem that had taken over her life. She did go to a clinic but didn't stay sober for long after. I still wonder how she is even after about 10 years. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Could - Yes, Would - No,
Turned down more than one lady in clubs before now.
Out of respect for them & ourselves...
S&H"
Wish everyone was like this. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Cohld you have sex with someone if they really d*unk ?
No I would never do that."
Good to know. Theres so many that would without even a second thought. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Once had sex with an ex girlfriend who was very d*unk, think it was 3 or 4 minutes before I even realised she had fallen asleep!
What did you do?
I stopped "
Some wouldn't stop. |
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"Once had sex with an ex girlfriend who was very d*unk, think it was 3 or 4 minutes before I even realised she had fallen asleep!
What did you do?
I stopped
Some wouldn't stop."
Maybe but wasn't a lot of fun with her just laid there motionless! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Once had sex with an ex girlfriend who was very d*unk, think it was 3 or 4 minutes before I even realised she had fallen asleep!
What did you do?
I stopped
Some wouldn't stop.
Maybe but wasn't a lot of fun with her just laid there motionless! "
Sounds like my home life  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Once had sex with an ex girlfriend who was very d*unk, think it was 3 or 4 minutes before I even realised she had fallen asleep!
What did you do?
I stopped
Some wouldn't stop.
Maybe but wasn't a lot of fun with her just laid there motionless!
Sounds like my home life "
I shouldn't laugh but |
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By *0FrankMan
over a year ago
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When i was in my late teens and still living at home I went on a date and she got a little d*unk... She told me she was s virgin and wanted to lose it with me... At first it was good... But then she started getting 'too d*unk' so I tried to make up am excuse and said my parents would be waiting up for me... She went to go get another drink and came back to tell me she had called my parents and told them i wouldn't be home. She then threw up and I spent the night with her making sure she didn't ch*ke on her own vomit. I was shattered when I got home... Worst of all... She was shitty with me because I didn't fuck her and I never saw her again. |
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By *ndrew CareyMan
over a year ago
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"Cohld you have sex with someone if they really d*unk ?
No I would never do that.
Good to know. Theres so many that would without even a second thought."
It is quite sad to see. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm sure no one would admit it anyway."
admit what? that they like d*unk sex lol for many men it would be pointless anyway brewers droop and for those that could get it up they'd smell like a brewery hardly condusive to up close and personal is it?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Tipsy and merry is fine and dandy, but flat out, passing out pissed is a no from me.
I like my partner to be Compos mentis and enjoying the activity (hell, even better if they put in a bit of effort to )"
Could not have said it better so I'll piggyback your reply. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"When i was in my late teens and still living at home I went on a date and she got a little d*unk... She told me she was s virgin and wanted to lose it with me... At first it was good... But then she started getting 'too d*unk' so I tried to make up am excuse and said my parents would be waiting up for me... She went to go get another drink and came back to tell me she had called my parents and told them i wouldn't be home. She then threw up and I spent the night with her making sure she didn't ch*ke on her own vomit. I was shattered when I got home... Worst of all... She was shitty with me because I didn't fuck her and I never saw her again. "
Sounds like she was lucky it was you as I imagine some would have taken advantage. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it someone I've just met? No that's a bit r*pey.
Are we lovers and we both went out and got trollied and came home and fell into bed? Yep. But I'll make a point of doing the job properly in the morning cause d*unk sex rarely amounts to much...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends what you mean by d*unk. I don’t think I’ve ever been totally d*unk. I like a few drinks though. If it’s someone you meet regularly then I don’t see why not. I’ve never met random people for sex but if I did I definitely wouldn’t drink and wouldn’t meet anyone who had been drinking. |
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