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What have you learned since joining fab
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Got to say before i joined i was very very naive
I thought bisexual was just a porn thing and not a real life thing
Never heard of a cock ring still have no clue what the point is
Bdsm was a scary looking world or bad juju
Shitting on peoples chest is actually a thing 
But also more personal stuff about myself mainly positive
Like im more lovable that i thought and am one hell of an awesome fuck
And many many more
So what stuff you learned or were you always a pervy sexpert
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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago
sheffield |
I’ve learnt that woman actually like sex and that you can send random cock photos and won’t get a slap
That straight attached guys like to talk about sucking others guys cocks
And that not everyone is as weird as me |
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Self acceptance
Some people really are that rude, disrespectful, diabolical, etc.
The depths of human stupidity and laziness
More about my worth as a person
Friends outside my usual comfort zones and circles
Lots of stuff I wish I hadn't googled
Being tough and defensive rather than nice, and owning it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've learned that I'm way more kinky then I ever thought that I was,and to be bluntly honesty I didn't know what half of sexual stuff like cuckold meant
I also learned that I'm still not into bed hoping that connection has to be there |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"People like to shove veg up their foof.
Everything can be used as a measuring device!  "
foof i never heard of that pre fab one of the 10 funniest ever words  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ive learnt that even if the word straight was in 19ft high letters across my profile...the messages from gay guys still keep coming "
Just accept their offers and you'll keep coming |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thank you fabbers for making me feel normal
Not all female members want sex every minute of their living day,
joke I never really thought that before I joined  .
I am no better than anyone else, just as nobody else is better than me as a person
It's really hard to to start a conversation with the people you really like, people ignore you if they choose. The block button is there for a reason.
Fab remains an enigma(can't let go) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Seems That im very attractive to guys  ..... or maybe that most guys will attempt go with anyone to get their end away!!
Also that im very picky and do actually have a type... who'd have thought it!
Cheers fab! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That there definitely *isn't* someone for everyone. "
Someone's Monday didn't start so well ...
Lots of people give out virtual hugs.
Would you like one? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That some people love to try and waste your time ..
That most single guys don’t read profiles .
That a lot of people have massively high opinions of themselves . |
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"Ive learnt that even if the word straight was in 19ft high letters across my profile...the messages from gay guys still keep coming
Just accept their offers and you'll keep coming"
I have no issues with that anyway..so think i will pass on them for now  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That people who type ‘yous’ massively irritates me, guys asking to chat on kik are a total waste of time.
On a positive that so many people see that D is as gorgeous and sexy as I do |
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I'm much fussier than i was in my 20s as I'm dubious of 99.5% of men who message me. Can't seem to get rid of that feeling of mistrust.maybe finding fwb or nsa on fab isn't right place? But i seem to be ok meeting guys on usual dating apps. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People like to shove veg up their foof.
Everything can be used as a measuring device! foof i never heard of that pre fab one of the 10 funniest ever words "
It’s a great word!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That some people are just cunts and need to be blocked.
That I'm not as unlikeable as I thought "
Oh! And anything can be a sex toy if you're brave (or weird) enough! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That while there are some blokes that will say anything just to try to get their dick wet theres also lots of lovely blokes who really do want and desire a woman like me.
Also although im vanilla im not as vanilla as i was before joining..
And getting less vanilla as time goes by. |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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That people like to be heard ... some people like to be heard a lot
You can’t trust everyone, no matter how friendly they may appear.
That some people would trample you to death to get to yet another meaningless shag.
I’m braver than I thought.
Wiser than I realised.
That no matter what others say and do or how they choose to do things, I am true to myself and how I want to interact on here.
I enjoy socials.
I have become cynical ... boo to that.
That people think absolutely nothing of being nasty to others which I feel is such a shame and a waste of time
Fab has shown me that some people believe there is something wrong being a nice person- I feel they are wrong.
Mostly though that I am overwhelmingly happy and comfortable being me and I don’t have to explain myself to others |
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"That people like to be heard ... some people like to be heard a lot
You can’t trust everyone, no matter how friendly they may appear.
That some people would trample you to death to get to yet another meaningless shag.
I’m braver than I thought.
Wiser than I realised.
That no matter what others say and do or how they choose to do things, I am true to myself and how I want to interact on here.
I enjoy socials.
I have become cynical ... boo to that.
That people think absolutely nothing of being nasty to others which I feel is such a shame and a waste of time
Fab has shown me that some people believe there is something wrong being a nice person- I feel they are wrong.
Mostly though that I am overwhelmingly happy and comfortable being me and I don’t have to explain myself to others "
Oh this entirely!!! |
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I don’t think I have learnt anything that I didn’t know already, I have always enjoyed lots of sex and being on swing sites allowed me to peruse some of the less vanilla traits I had lurking in me for years  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I've learned that sexuality can present itself in a myriad of ways, as diverse as the people who use the site.
That each person has something sexy about them to someone, it's just about finding someone on your wavelength.
That I can forgive easily and move on - people make mistakes but that's life.
Even someone like me can find love.
That who I am is more than good enough and I should embrace me for me. Confidence is sexy. Putting myself down is silly and daft. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Still not very at communicating with the opposite sex
There alot of negativity on here and alot of shallow people but also alot of great people too
That I'm more open minded than I thought |
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Ives learned straight doesnt always mean straight ,that there ARE some decent genuine people on here if you have the patience to wait for them ,we are all just normal people with an interesting other life or hobby ,and im so much more open minded than i ever used to be ,and what could have destroyed us as a couple has actually enriched our lives and hope it continues ... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Some people are funny, some people are sexy, some people are crazy, the best kind are a combination of the three
Are you describing me "
Ya know i think she is dude |
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This site is nothing like my dating sites ..
Even tho lots of the women love sex they still have their standards
I'm not as popular as I am away from the site
I have more patience than I thought ha ha |
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By *latinumkittenWoman
over a year ago
from Home Counties to Middle Earth |
I've learned many kinks I never even knew were a thing
I'm more adventurous than I thought
Fab isn't all about swinging
Clubs aren't quite as scary as I imagined
The Forums are a good source of information, shite and giggles |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I now know what an arse looks like, and that people love spreading their arse cheeks to take a picture..
Oh and the camera does lie, the correct angle can lose 5 stones or add 5 inches dependant on gender |
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"I learnt that I had become bisexual. I’d had an accidental bi sex session with a couple and joined fab to see if it was a one off. "
Its made me think i probably might like a threesome with a man and woman. So bi curious |
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