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do you have limits to how many times you meet someone?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Just having a social meet last night and we were yapping about how many times we would meet people. i came up with 3 times as i _iew it as a sexual experience and adventure.

Are you after a regular partner? New experiences or to enchance what you already have with your partner?

Of course non of these are set in concrete and someone could tick all my boxes and bring more to the table than initially i wanted, but i joined to learn

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If "it" is still good for both of us... Why put a limit on the fun...?

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

as long as it stays NSA, no limit.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We don't have any limits provided everybody is content and nobody gets clingy or oversteps the mark

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't have a set limit as such, but the nature of our swinging means that we aren't able to meet regularly with a person. We go to clubs rather than private meets.

But we do have some people that we really get on well with, have met a few times, but these meets are many months apart so we don't set limits as we aren't meeting the same person enough times to get samey.

But I wouldn't ever want the same regulars as its about new experiences for me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We were talking about a similar thing on Saturday night, we like to , mix it up so to speak.

We have regular couples that we see, well regularly, and find that can get better and better!

But would not be without the meeting of new people as that is always very exciting!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nope.

The majority for those I have met on a 1-1 basis had turned out to be one-offs, which suited me fine.

There are a number of usual suspects that I play with when I am at Chams.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

No we don't have a limit on how many times we will meet people.

If we like them and get on well, enjoy their company (clothed & naked) seems silly (to us) to put a limit on it.

However sometimes once has been more than enough.

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By *empnbunkCouple over a year ago

south coast

No limits here the more we get to know people the more fun it can be but can understand why some people would have set limits

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If "it" is still good for both of us... Why put a limit on the fun...?

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By *appy101Woman over a year ago

Telford

if its fun then why limit meets..

although i do tend to get bored after couple of meets,lol.

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By *etillanteWoman over a year ago

I think it's not more the number of times, but the time between meets.

Funily enough this topic came up this week and we agreed that to meet too often would take the fun out of a meet. Perosnally I like the build up between them.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"I think it's not more the number of times, but the time between meets.

Funily enough this topic came up this week and we agreed that to meet too often would take the fun out of a meet. Perosnally I like the build up between them."

Completely agree

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple over a year ago

hexham

"as long as it stays NSA, no limit."

This^^^^^ with a caveat...due to previous experiences we find most single men we only meet once.However ones who are friends too, that we know better,no limit.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As long as an attraction remains and the meets remain 'no strings' then no.

As soon as I feel someone is getting a bit too comfy with me or too reliant on my company, I generally pull away.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have a few guys I see regularly, one in particular and can't see me getting fed up of being in bed with him as we just click, in the best sex ever way.

Just so long as its NSA for both it's perfect, sex, chat and company.

Although I do love the build up and excitement of a new meet it also scares the living crap out of me.

See no reason to impose limits on my self or partners as long as we r all happy. For me it gets better when u know what they like

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have a small group of regular single guys (been seeing 4 of them for over a year)and as long as they honour the NSA I am happy to continue seeing them. I still do the odd one off meet for a bit of variety but enjoy exploring my sexuality with my regulars

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As long as it continues to be fun, why should there be a limit?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We don't but we are a couple and its somewhat different. I do get why some singles avoid meeting too often though.

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By *ellhatterMan over a year ago

slough

no , depends on boredom threshold and if things wane .

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By *ovedupstillCouple over a year ago

mullinwire

think Em would get the hump if i set limits, as she has certainly used all hers up, and likewise so have i.

meeting others, however, we would actually like to find someone we could meet a few times, but havent found anyone we 'click' with yet.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think it's not more the number of times, but the time between meets.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It depends on how much i like them, usualy if i see the same person too many times, they start to annoy me.

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By *adchickCouple over a year ago

Cyprus

Once

We don't do any repeats after a very bad experience.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i mainly do one offs, to be honest theres not that many people i have met on here that ive wanted to meet again, plus i prefer first time sex as i find guys start getting lazy in bed if you make it regular

Saying that if i meet someone and they do realy float my boat i will do re meets and i will meet them till i feel its time to move on

I have a guy i meet on here whos fully bi and he meets other bi guys with me, i keep him very close as theres not that many fully bi guys on here that will meet other guys with you lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If "it" is still good for both of us... Why put a limit on the fun...?

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By *emmefataleWoman over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We wouldnt put a limit on how many times we would meet someone, so long as everyone involved was still enjoying it and no complications. Putting a limit on makes it seem a bit mechanical and takes away the fun and excitment (to me).

Its whatever works for you that matters

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By *emmefataleWoman over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Yes always had limits as a single and we have the same as a couple

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

nope, just go with the flow. Besides it can sometimes be quite a long time between meets.

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By *ath-N-DelCouple over a year ago

Glasgow area

Yeah....

Once

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

1 shag and am anybodies...forever

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So long as its still NSA then there should not really be a limit.

That said however it can at times become a tad of a bore after 3rd meet or so. 3 is a good number and base to make a descision as to weather or not one would like to make it a regular FB thing or not

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We wouldnt put a limit on how many times we would meet someone, so long as everyone involved was still enjoying it and no complications. Putting a limit on makes it seem a bit mechanical and takes away the fun and excitment (to me).

Its whatever works for you that matters

Never had any compaints from me hun lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No limits if all is good

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