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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So I personally feel kissing is intimate and not a fan of kissing when meeting on here as it’s just meaningless sex on here, do you guys like to kiss on your meets or not? How important is kissing on a meet? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m unsure how I feel...I haven’t met in over a year. One man I slept with for a year and we never kissed. Another I met with a handful of times, and we kissed. But I always got the giggles.
I agree - it is very intimate.
But I don’t have ‘meaningless’ sex on here.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m unsure how I feel...I haven’t met in over a year. One man I slept with for a year and we never kissed. Another I met with a handful of times, and we kissed. But I always got the giggles.
I agree - it is very intimate.
But I don’t have ‘meaningless’ sex on here. "
That being said, someone sent me a message last night describing a kiss, and I want it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In my opinion, kissing is ignition to start the engine, don't get me wrong sex is not machine neither I am mechanic, just an example to simplify the kissing subject |
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We like kissing, weather its slow and passionate on hard and rough. For many people on here it's a lifestyle, about making new friendships to some people that's just on here for a quick fuck kissing may not be your thing but other people's want different sexual experiences not just a fuck and chuck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So I personally feel kissing is intimate and not a fan of kissing when meeting on here as it’s just meaningless sex on here, do you guys like to kiss on your meets or not? How important is kissing on a meet?"
For me sexy isn’t meaningless. I’m enjoying the person I’m with at that moment and want it to be amazing for both of us. Kissing definitely is part of that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Kissing is wonderful. Why not do it?"
Because it’s really intimate and some people don’t feel comfortable doing it with anyone other than their partner/someone they love |
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We enjoyed well over a thousand meets on here over the years. Everything from dogging, clubs, one to one, home meets, pubs, hotels, parties, last minute, you name it we did it!
But if someone said they preferred not to kiss we wouldn’t meet them.
We may have had loads of meets, and we probably epitomise nsa sex, but if there’s no kissing it’s a cold and totally meaningless experience for us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Kissing is wonderful. Why not do it?
Because it’s really intimate and some people don’t feel comfortable doing it with anyone other than their partner/someone they love"
Fair enough. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I personally feel kissing is intimate and not a fan of kissing when meeting on here as it’s just meaningless sex on here, do you guys like to kiss on your meets or not? How important is kissing on a meet?"
no kiss no excalibur  |
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"So I personally feel kissing is intimate and not a fan of kissing when meeting on here as it’s just meaningless sex on here, do you guys like to kiss on your meets or not? How important is kissing on a meet?no kiss no excalibur "
haha .. Excalibur  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Meaningless sex !!!! Not for us we do need a connection and isn't sex itself the ultimate intimate act ? Kissing is all part of the build up and adds to the erotism of the moment for us.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So I personally feel kissing is intimate and not a fan of kissing when meeting on here as it’s just meaningless sex on here, do you guys like to kiss on your meets or not? How important is kissing on a meet?
For me sexy isn’t meaningless. I’m enjoying the person I’m with at that moment and want it to be amazing for both of us. Kissing definitely is part of that. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I bloody love kissing. If I do meet I want lots of kissing action.
I don't think it's anymore intimate than sex but I can understand why some people like to keep it between the couple only. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Don’t get me wrong I like to kiss but prefer to kiss someone who it means something with , and when I say meaningless sex I mean not with someone I love , and I’m certainly not going make love on here lol x it’s just sex lol thanks for everyone’s feedback I find it interesting x |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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Like so many on here I wouldn't have sex with someone without kissing first. It's the kiss that lets us know if we have chemistry a slow sensual kiss that deepens into a deep passionate kiss is such a turn on. I can't imagine having sex and no kissing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I didn't feel I could kiss the other person then I couldn't have sex with them either. Kissing can be as good as sex and is absultely essential on a meet. You can tell so much from a kiss and it's the only way to start a "meet", imo |
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Kissing can send a beat through my solar plexus , ping my nipples and sloosh my moosh .....
If it doesn't then there's no fucking.
Kissing isn't kids play..... it's tells you a lot about someone and your compatability.
It is your passion. It's your sex signature. |
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We don't kiss our casual sex partners. We respect them and our encounters aren't meaningless we just don't want to kiss them. We obviously don't invest kissing with the same importance other people do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Kissing can send a beat through my solar plexus , ping my nipples and sloosh my moosh .....
If it doesn't then there's no fucking.
Kissing isn't kids play..... it's tells you a lot about someone and your compatability.
It is your passion. It's your sex signature. "
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By *lex D.Man
over a year ago
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"So I personally feel kissing is intimate and not a fan of kissing when meeting on here as it’s just meaningless sex on here, do you guys like to kiss on your meets or not? How important is kissing on a meet?"
For me, kissing is indeed sensual and without doubt the catalyst to explore more. Can also further heighten the sexual tension at other moments. I wouldn't kiss anyone early on unless there is a hint of tension. xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We enjoyed well over a thousand meets on here over the years. Everything from dogging, clubs, one to one, home meets, pubs, hotels, parties, last minute, you name it we did it!
But if someone said they preferred not to kiss we wouldn’t meet them.
We may have had loads of meets, and we probably epitomise nsa sex, but if there’s no kissing it’s a cold and totally meaningless experience for us."
Agree 100% without kissing we’d not be in to it and we’d be concerned about what hang ups these people have  |
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"We enjoyed well over a thousand meets on here over the years. Everything from dogging, clubs, one to one, home meets, pubs, hotels, parties, last minute, you name it we did it!
But if someone said they preferred not to kiss we wouldn’t meet them.
We may have had loads of meets, and we probably epitomise nsa sex, but if there’s no kissing it’s a cold and totally meaningless experience for us.
Agree 100% without kissing we’d not be in to it and we’d be concerned about what hang ups these people have "
Absolutely none. Well none in connection with kissing. What hang ups do you think not wanting to kiss might be a symptom of? |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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Totally respect the preference of those that don't kiss the same as I would any other preference or boundary they may have.
However, would find it very difficult to meet anyone that didn't kiss as personally I adore kissing, it's the perfect starter, main course accompaniment and dessert to any sexual meal - from those initial soft and tender brushes of the lips that grow in intensity as lips part and tongues search, through to full on mouths wide passionate snogs that you just lose yourself in and the world around you blurs into insignificance.
And that's before I even start on soft and wet kisses that trail a path over the skin in search of other delights |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"Why does kissing make casual sex more meaningful than not kissing? "
I don't think it does or has to - just for me personally it's a part of the whole experience and is a major aphrodisiac but I totally appreciate and respect that may not be the case for others |
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"Why does kissing make casual sex more meaningful than not kissing?
I don't think it does or has to - just for me personally it's a part of the whole experience and is a major aphrodisiac but I totally appreciate and respect that may not be the case for others"
Yes, I know you don't think that way but many others do. |
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"Kissing is very important, no kissing no meet "
My rule as well, I wouldn't be able to get really turned on and enjoy the meet without that intimacy. It would be like giving oral sex by just putting it in my mouth  |
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"So I personally feel kissing is intimate and not a fan of kissing when meeting on here as it’s just meaningless sex on here, do you guys like to kiss on your meets or not? How important is kissing on a meet?"
I never have ‘meaningless sex’! I won’t drop my knickers unless I’m pretty sure the sex is going to be fucking awesome!
Kissing is a vital ‘litmus test’! If the kissing is great - then equally great sex will usually follow! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Kissing is essential for me. That’s what arouses me.
Also, I really wouldn’t call it meaningless sex on here. Not for me anyway.
You develop friendships and it’s just a bonus that you’re both sexual and like each other.
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Kissing is very important to me. I love kissing. To me kissing is a great part of foreplay. Kissing is very erotic. Sometimes I could just kiss and do nothing else for a long while. Kissing and cuddling is great fun. Especially on a cold winter night in front of the fire. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So I personally feel kissing is intimate and not a fan of kissing when meeting on here as it’s just meaningless sex on here, do you guys like to kiss on your meets or not? How important is kissing on a meet?
I never have ‘meaningless sex’! I won’t drop my knickers unless I’m pretty sure the sex is going to be fucking awesome!
Kissing is a vital ‘litmus test’! If the kissing is great - then equally great sex will usually follow! "
ditto for this!! Just gotta kiss!! |
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"So I personally feel kissing is intimate and not a fan of kissing when meeting on here as it’s just meaningless sex on here, do you guys like to kiss on your meets or not? How important is kissing on a meet?
I never have ‘meaningless sex’! I won’t drop my knickers unless I’m pretty sure the sex is going to be fucking awesome!
Kissing is a vital ‘litmus test’! If the kissing is great - then equally great sex will usually follow! ditto for this!! Just gotta kiss!!"
We never have meaningless sex (whatever that is). Kissing doesn't make sex more meaningful. Respect for each others feelings and boundaries does that. |
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"Kissing can send a beat through my solar plexus , ping my nipples and sloosh my moosh .....
If it doesn't then there's no fucking.
Kissing isn't kids play..... it's tells you a lot about someone and your compatability.
It is your passion. It's your sex signature. "
I agree
You can tall a lot about somebody by how they kiss. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Kissing can send a beat through my solar plexus , ping my nipples and sloosh my moosh .....
If it doesn't then there's no fucking.
Kissing isn't kids play..... it's tells you a lot about someone and your compatability.
It is your passion. It's your sex signature.
I agree
You can tall a lot about somebody by how they kiss. "
Well I’m a shite kisser but a 10/10 with blowjobs |
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By *manaWoman
over a year ago
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"It's all part and parcel isnt it? Yes its intimate but so is fucking other people 
Ha ha exactly! "
I get we are all different but it totally boggles my mind that some people say it's too intimate yet are happy taking a cock they dont know |
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Kissing is very important to us. The fact that it's very personal is exactly why we would want it included in a meet. It's not sharing if we don't kiss.
Besides, we don't do meaningless sex. We want to do this with people we really get on with and it's and extension of a friendship. How many of us don't have friends that we find attractive? Kissing and more is a way of letting that out and enjoying it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We don’t kiss others either. We understand this limits the amount of people we meet on here.
That said, we’re surprised at how many single guys here say they won’t meet if no kissing. Yet 2 of you have messaged us previously wanting a meet and stating it’s not an issue.
Amazing what people will do when desperate lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So I personally feel kissing is intimate and not a fan of kissing when meeting on here as it’s just meaningless sex on here, do you guys like to kiss on your meets or not? How important is kissing on a meet?"
kissing very important to me, also meeting regularly, I'd get a rubber female otherwise  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Depends on the person but usually its far more fun if kissing is involved for me. I do get why couples don't with other people though each to their own I guess. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Depends on the person but usually its far more fun if kissing is involved for me. I do get why couples don't with other people though each to their own I guess."
surely sticking your penis in a woman is more intimate than kissing......... Sex is the most intimate two people can be otherwise how could you do it, if you felt guilty about your partner how would you get turned on, I've never had sex without kissing and I'm pretty sure I'd not maintain an election without it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Depends on the person but usually its far more fun if kissing is involved for me. I do get why couples don't with other people though each to their own I guess.surely sticking your penis in a woman is more intimate than kissing......... Sex is the most intimate two people can be otherwise how could you do it, if you felt guilty about your partner how would you get turned on, I've never had sex without kissing and I'm pretty sure I'd not maintain an election without it "
ffs erection is a word how does spell check override it. |
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"Depends on the person but usually its far more fun if kissing is involved for me. I do get why couples don't with other people though each to their own I guess.surely sticking your penis in a woman is more intimate than kissing......... Sex is the most intimate two people can be otherwise how could you do it, if you felt guilty about your partner how would you get turned on, I've never had sex without kissing and I'm pretty sure I'd not maintain an election without it "
I think it's down to the individual to decide what they find intimate and what they don't. For instance I find hand holding very intimate and could never hold another man's hand. |
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"Depends on the person but usually its far more fun if kissing is involved for me. I do get why couples don't with other people though each to their own I guess.surely sticking your penis in a woman is more intimate than kissing......... Sex is the most intimate two people can be otherwise how could you do it, if you felt guilty about your partner how would you get turned on, I've never had sex without kissing and I'm pretty sure I'd not maintain an election without it
I think it's down to the individual to decide what they find intimate and what they don't. For instance I find hand holding very intimate and could never hold another man's hand. "
omg I love to walk naked hand in hand on nudist beach waters edge |
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"Depends on the person but usually its far more fun if kissing is involved for me. I do get why couples don't with other people though each to their own I guess.surely sticking your penis in a woman is more intimate than kissing......... Sex is the most intimate two people can be otherwise how could you do it, if you felt guilty about your partner how would you get turned on, I've never had sex without kissing and I'm pretty sure I'd not maintain an election without it
I think it's down to the individual to decide what they find intimate and what they don't. For instance I find hand holding very intimate and could never hold another man's hand. omg I love to walk naked hand in hand on nudist beach waters edge "
Yes it's a lovely thing to do but for me something I only want to do with someone I have strong feelings for, not a casual partner. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Depends on the person but usually its far more fun if kissing is involved for me. I do get why couples don't with other people though each to their own I guess.surely sticking your penis in a woman is more intimate than kissing......... Sex is the most intimate two people can be otherwise how could you do it, if you felt guilty about your partner how would you get turned on, I've never had sex without kissing and I'm pretty sure I'd not maintain an election without it
I think it's down to the individual to decide what they find intimate and what they don't. For instance I find hand holding very intimate and could never hold another man's hand. omg I love to walk naked hand in hand on nudist beach waters edge
Yes it's a lovely thing to do but for me something I only want to do with someone I have strong feelings for, not a casual partner. "
walk naked? |
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"Depends on the person but usually its far more fun if kissing is involved for me. I do get why couples don't with other people though each to their own I guess.surely sticking your penis in a woman is more intimate than kissing......... Sex is the most intimate two people can be otherwise how could you do it, if you felt guilty about your partner how would you get turned on, I've never had sex without kissing and I'm pretty sure I'd not maintain an election without it
I think it's down to the individual to decide what they find intimate and what they don't. For instance I find hand holding very intimate and could never hold another man's hand. omg I love to walk naked hand in hand on nudist beach waters edge
Yes it's a lovely thing to do but for me something I only want to do with someone I have strong feelings for, not a casual partner. walk naked? "
Naked hand in hand. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Depends on the person but usually its far more fun if kissing is involved for me. I do get why couples don't with other people though each to their own I guess.surely sticking your penis in a woman is more intimate than kissing......... Sex is the most intimate two people can be otherwise how could you do it, if you felt guilty about your partner how would you get turned on, I've never had sex without kissing and I'm pretty sure I'd not maintain an election without it
I think it's down to the individual to decide what they find intimate and what they don't. For instance I find hand holding very intimate and could never hold another man's hand. omg I love to walk naked hand in hand on nudist beach waters edge
Yes it's a lovely thing to do but for me something I only want to do with someone I have strong feelings for, not a casual partner. walk naked?
Naked hand in hand. "
kissing? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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When I first started meeting James one of the many rules his gf set was no kissing....Im allowed to now but it was impossible not to try and kiss during sex....It's part of sex in my head so I would have to try and stop myself doing as a natural reaction during sex....It's like toast without butter or cornflakes without milk or eating a pot noodle without water lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I never had meaningless sex on here. To me, kissing is the most enjoyable but i wouldnt class it as overly intimate in comparison to oral and penetration. I had no problem kissing someone on a first meet, if we fancied each other, but sex was for another time as i found that far more more intimate than a sneaky snog
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's all part and parcel isnt it? Yes its intimate but so is fucking other people
Totally agree and well oral is way more intimate than kissing "
talking you mean yes I agree |
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"Depends on the person but usually its far more fun if kissing is involved for me. I do get why couples don't with other people though each to their own I guess.surely sticking your penis in a woman is more intimate than kissing......... Sex is the most intimate two people can be otherwise how could you do it, if you felt guilty about your partner how would you get turned on, I've never had sex without kissing and I'm pretty sure I'd not maintain an election without it
I think it's down to the individual to decide what they find intimate and what they don't. For instance I find hand holding very intimate and could never hold another man's hand. omg I love to walk naked hand in hand on nudist beach waters edge
Yes it's a lovely thing to do but for me something I only want to do with someone I have strong feelings for, not a casual partner. walk naked?
Naked hand in hand. kissing? "
If it was Mr N yes |
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