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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If he hadnt told me first, and it had been done 'behind my back' Id take it as cheating! Plain and simple.
Dont know how strongly id react until faced with it. Id like to think id kick him into touch?? |
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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago
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"and was chatting to them and docking their cam when you were not home but caught them in the act...what would you do how would you feel..."
Kick him in the balls ..............
Seriously, that kind of betrayal would make me look at what he's not getting at home that makes him 'dock' her cam.
I'd also stop the swinging and work on the relationship. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"and was chatting to them and docking their cam when you were not home but caught them in the act...what would you do how would you feel..."
Caught them in the act of chatting? in a cam room ?
I would say they are still friendly after splitting up and as long as it was just chatting whats the harm. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"and was chatting to them and docking their cam when you were not home but caught them in the act...what would you do how would you feel..."
the fact its a ex dont seem to make any differnce to me
putting a cam on and finding you partner fucking another person is that same ex or first time meet
the trusts gone there for the relationships gone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Id ask why he feels the need to only do.this when your not at.home........is he just chatting??
? If he is just chatting why hide it....if the trust isnt there then.to.me theres no relationship ..... |
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I don't see why it should be seen as betrayal. I am friendly with guys I have had relationships with in the past but it doesn't mean that I want to restart anything with them. To me it sounds like the female has some insecurities which need to be addressed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"and was chatting to them and docking their cam when you were not home but caught them in the act...what would you do how would you feel..."
hang on i think i read this wrong first time round
i read it as you cought them on cam together, as in you viewing them on the same cam but reading it again you mean you cought him just viewing his ex on her cam while he was at home?
in which case it wouldnt bother me at all, its a swingers site people will view cams, is it the fact thats its an ex that bothers you or do you just not like him looking at women on cam full stop? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"and was chatting to them and docking their cam when you were not home but caught them in the act...what would you do how would you feel...
hang on i think i read this wrong first time round
i read it as you cought them on cam together, as in you viewing them on the same cam but reading it again you mean you cought him just viewing his ex on her cam while he was at home?
in which case it wouldnt bother me at all, its a swingers site people will view cams, is it the fact thats its an ex that bothers you or do you just not like him looking at women on cam full stop?"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If he hadnt told me first, and it had been done 'behind my back' Id take it as cheating! Plain and simple.
Dont know how strongly id react until faced with it. Id like to think id kick him into touch??"
i'm quite sure the air would turn blue with the range of insults you's know . . . . . |
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