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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Does anyone check their winks or just goes straight to messages just wondering is it better to message someone or wink them x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Does anyone check their winks or just goes straight to messages just wondering is it better to message someone or wink them x"
I don't mind winks but don't always see them straight away a message is better

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Being a single guy, winks do get noticed by me.

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Occasionally I check them but not often. Only if I've sent one and seeing if they've sent one back usually

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By *VineMan over a year ago

The right place

I had a wink from someone this morning that has lead to a conversation starting.

It’s a good start to a Sunday morning.

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By *inkysexpotMan over a year ago

leeds

Don't mind receiving a wink, I treat it as an invite to message them.

Don't send them as most don't check them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Winks are good. Many conversations leading to meets have been had from a simple wink x

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By *lik and PaulCouple over a year ago

cahoots

We always bulk delete winks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't use them. The only time I notice is if I'm having a perve and can see they have winked

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I look but rarely do anything with them.

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By *tudmcmuffinMan over a year ago

Swindon

Well since I only get a couple every decade or so, when I get one I get verrry excited

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By *oiluvfunMan over a year ago

Penrith

"Winks are good. Many conversations leading to meets have been had from a simple wink x"

I often reply; “Something in your eye?”

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don’t check mine. Ever.

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By *impleSailorMan over a year ago

the moon

I check mine along with messages, i generally try to reply to both

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Rarely check mine...mostly bulk delete

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By *irl1234xxxWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

I have never checked mine

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By *eallyTDHMan over a year ago

London

"Does anyone check their winks or just goes straight to messages just wondering is it better to message someone or wink them x"

I would suggest you should do both unless the person your messaging states they don't like/look at winks in their profile

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We like winks...and if we wink back it’s exiting waiting for the message (although doesn’t always happen).

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m polite enough to check and respond even if it’s a “sorry not for me” but I can appreciate that some females will receive an absurd amount

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don't get many but it's nice to get one now and then but hay it's a wink lol

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By *manaWoman over a year ago

Basingstoke

Love getting winks xx

And messages to be fair lol xx

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By *ddit...Man over a year ago

Land of the giants... ;-)

I rarely get a wink... so it's like Christmas Morning when I do...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I will never understand why people get so precious over winks.

I see them as an ice breaker. You send one, if the person likes the look of your profile they wink back, you follow with a message. Easy!

It’s not being lazy and for some who send endless messages without getting a reply, it’s the less painful option.

If someone specifies they ignore winks then respect that. If not, wink away. It’s a bit of fun!

V x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Love getting winks xx

And messages to be fair lol xx"

Your profile says winks will be deleted

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'm not precious about winks. But realistically, I get more messages than I can handle, and they get higher priority than a click of a button.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love winks, actually prefer them to messages and say this on my profile. If they're geographically feasible and what I like then I'll check out their profile and send a wink back if I'd like to chat! So much quicker and easier than unsolicited messaging

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By *osmicRobMan over a year ago

Chorlton cum Hardy

I like winks! It mean that someone has taken the time top open my profile.

I did get a wink by an unverified couple the other day which I'm not sure how to interpret.

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By *lik and PaulCouple over a year ago

cahoots

"I like winks! It mean that someone has taken the time top open my profile.

I did get a wink by an unverified couple the other day which I'm not sure how to interpret."

...whereas if we receive a wink we know they definitely haven't read our profile.

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By *osmicRobMan over a year ago

Chorlton cum Hardy

...whereas if we receive a wink we know they definitely haven't read our profile."

...in which case winks are quite useful

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We like to wink. But will also send a message a while after too. Lexi

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By *tag and HellcatCouple over a year ago

Notts/Derby

"I love winks, actually prefer them to messages and say this on my profile. If they're geographically feasible and what I like then I'll check out their profile and send a wink back if I'd like to chat! So much quicker and easier than unsolicited messaging "

Us too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like winks, have often led to meets x

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By *ereforthafunMan over a year ago

Liverpool

I like getting winks, even better if they lead to a meet. Would always prefer a message but a wink is a quick way of someone letting me know they are interested which is good.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan over a year ago

Okehampton

If I get a wink it's an indicator that someone would like me to message them so I do. Saves me writing lots of messages to people that don't want them. So if I don't get winked (or messaged) I never know, I don't respond the same to fabs. Because fabs are just fabs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Winks are for lazy people that put no effort in so I blank them x

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple over a year ago

Stockport

I love a wink, I check their profiles out. If I like them I wink back if I don’t I just delete. If i see someone I like on the forums I will sometime send a wink, 9 times out of 10 it gets ignored or leads no where. Mr J calls me a serial winker! But then again other times I totally forget to check the winks!