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Fab or a dating site?
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over a year ago
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"Yup
Me
With lips like that how are you single
I’m fuck ugly "
Yeah right if your ugly I'm good looking lol if you want ugly just look at me but not for to long I wil give you nightmares best thing about me is my eyes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yup
Me
With lips like that how are you single
I’m fuck ugly "
Well I was going to reply privately but my age is messed up and I can't change it ( I'm actually 38) |
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Personally I think a lot depends on the importance of staying in the lifestyle once in a relationship for you. Most people are not swingers or want to be. So anyone you meet on a dating may very well not want swinging as part of a serious relationship. So if to remain swinging (especially swinging with a partner) is a deal breaker for you normal dating site you struggle on. But FAB is a site for the lifestyle as a whole (IMO) so thus includes relationships and should be a place for swingers to seek relationships with swingers. So yes if you want a relationship as a swinger with a swinger it follows FAB is probably the right place. I met my partner on here, cupid very much has his aim on FAB too. |
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I've just hidden my dating site profile, but I have always contended that if it's NSA you are looking for, it is far easier to find on a dating site than on Fab. The most commonly referenced two are the ones I've been on over the years.
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"Are there people here who are on both? I keep thinking of joining a dating site but I'm not sure I could put up with the hassle lol.  "
Frankly I get more chat, meets and sex on conventional dating sites than on this pile of wank |
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"Are there people here who are on both? I keep thinking of joining a dating site but I'm not sure I could put up with the hassle lol.
Frankly I get more chat, meets and sex on conventional dating sites than on this pile of wank"
For NSA sex I also found normal dating sites a lot more successful. Great if you want NSA sex. But you can't assume that women on normal sites want to swing or have group sex. The chances are they are not swingers just after a little one on one company and causal sex. But if your intrested in participating in the activities of the scene and/or looking to date someone who likewise is then this is far more the place than a dating website.
Or simply great site for swinging, not so good for conventional NSA sex. |
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I would feel a bit of a hypocrite to seek someone to date on Fab. Mainly because I don't want a swinging relationship. Infact should anyone be silly enough to want me for more than NSA I don't want to bring anyone else into it in anyway shape or form.
That said over the years, I constantly see that the men on fab are generally more interesting, articulate, intelligent and attractive to me than the ones who approach me on dating sites.
They also seem more grounded and accepting. For example men on here don't tend to state what you should weigh or how you should look on their profiles in the way some do on dating sites.
I can absolutely see why this could well be the place to find a partner though, sex is an important part of a relationship so at least some of that is out in the open from the start.
The downside to fab for dating is that many people are actually already attached (even if they don't admit it from the start) no judgement, it just makes anything more than NSA far too complicated and messy.
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"I would feel a bit of a hypocrite to seek someone to date on Fab. Mainly because I don't want a swinging relationship. Infact should anyone be silly enough to want me for more than NSA I don't want to bring anyone else into it in anyway shape or form.
That said over the years, I constantly see that the men on fab are generally more interesting, articulate, intelligent and attractive to me than the ones who approach me on dating sites.
They also seem more grounded and accepting. For example men on here don't tend to state what you should weigh or how you should look on their profiles in the way some do on dating sites.
I can absolutely see why this could well be the place to find a partner though, sex is an important part of a relationship so at least some of that is out in the open from the start.
The downside to fab for dating is that many people are actually already attached (even if they don't admit it from the start) no judgement, it just makes anything more than NSA far too complicated and messy.
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That's an intresting angle. At the end of the day we all use the site as we see fit, nothing wrong in that as long as we are honest and ethical with each other. It's fine to be flexible what we want as a single isn't always what we want in a relationship.
I've always thought the idea of sex on internet dating is always a chicken and egg scenario, especially if you want something maybe a bit kinky or non monogomus. On one hand you want to get to know someone on all the other levels before sex becomes a things. On the other hand you don't want to jump through all the hoops and fall for someone who may not be sexually compatible. At least on here the sex elephant in the room is kind of out and open from the start and you both can then continue to tick off the other boxes. |
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"Personally I think a lot depends on the importance of staying in the lifestyle once in a relationship for you. Most people are not swingers or want to be. So anyone you meet on a dating may very well not want swinging as part of a serious relationship. So if to remain swinging (especially swinging with a partner) is a deal breaker for you normal dating site you struggle on. But FAB is a site for the lifestyle as a whole (IMO) so thus includes relationships and should be a place for swingers to seek relationships with swingers. So yes if you want a relationship as a swinger with a swinger it follows FAB is probably the right place. I met my partner on here, cupid very much has his aim on FAB too."
I’ve met loads of people on Fab who on reflection aren’t Swingers. (Nothing wrong with that). |
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"Dating website are no good it’s just full of bots alway trying to get you sing up to other w
Websites "
I’ve not had that encounter. My last 2 dates have been from dating sites and I just joined a new one yesterday and will sort a date this week or next. |
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"I’ve spotted quite a few. Interesting how the profile text on the “vanilla” site is a mile away from anything on here. "
I want a proper swinging relationship but I don’t disclose that on my dating site profiles. I do however chat about that quite early on. Tbh, the guys I’ve had more adventurous encounters with have been from dating sites and not fab. The guys I’ve met on here and got close to are not interested in swinging. |
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"Are there people here who are on both? I keep thinking of joining a dating site but I'm not sure I could put up with the hassle lol. "
Been here since 2014 and only here seeking the one. I won't find that person on a dating site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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As a single person, you're better off on dating sites. Wider variety means more options and more arrows in your quiver. Less hassle, hilariously much easier to get laid. There really aren't any downsides.
The only downside doesn't apply to you - It's not suitable for couples. |
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