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It’s opened the door to hidden kinks I never even knew I had -
having the conversations before a meet to explore boundaries and limits is truly liberating, being asked to learn new skills and then putting them to use is simply enthralling. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"Given me the confidence in not just my body, but in the WHO I am.
I have made friends who like me for me, not for my snatch.
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Pretty much this - well apart from the snatch bit obviously  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I still have very little confidence but in certain situations its helped a lot sorry bit hard to explain what i mean really"
and ive also made some awesome friends even if there's some i will never get to meet .
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Given me the confidence in not just my body, but in the WHO I am.
I have made friends who like me for me, not for my snatch.
P"
 So much yes to this. And it's changed my life in that I now have a partner and stuff. Didn't think that would ever happen. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It allowed me to get back to living after a very dark time, which evolved into amazing friendships and a renewed sense of self. Then stumbled across Steve who I’d never have met in my normal life.. so yes.. it’s been pretty epic 
Saff |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Good to see Its looking all positive... i didnt really know what to expect, im not a swinger as such & dont sleep about with multiple partners (not that theres anything wrong with this before i get a backlash) but have found what im after here and have found a great welcoming community. |
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By *ty31Man
over a year ago
NW London |
I think I'm still pretty much the same person, I've just become a bit more understanding and open minded regarding people's preferences and kinks.
Plus I've.met some lovely people and good friends. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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At first it made me worse because it was so hard to meet someone, I seemed to not be anyones type but as time went on I got speaking to a few people and I began to easy into it abit so my confidence is growing a little,
I ain't been in for long but I've spoke to lots of lovely people, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Given me the confidence in not just my body, but in the WHO I am.
I have made friends who like me for me, not for my snatch.
P
Pretty much this - well apart from the snatch bit obviously "
You could always tuck it like Buffalo Bill |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Given me the confidence in not just my body, but in the WHO I am.
I have made friends who like me for me, not for my snatch.
P
So much yes to this. And it's changed my life in that I now have a partner and stuff. Didn't think that would ever happen."
Same here.
I was just a small town girl, living in a lonely world, I caught the midnight train and met my city boy.
Moral of this .... don't stop believing
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Given me the confidence in not just my body, but in the WHO I am.
I have made friends who like me for me, not for my snatch.
P
So much yes to this. And it's changed my life in that I now have a partner and stuff. Didn't think that would ever happen.
Same here.
I was just a small town girl, living in a lonely world, I caught the midnight train and met my city boy.
Moral of this .... don't stop believing
P"
I like what you did there, class song |
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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago
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It’s been a crazy few months.
I’ve definitely grown in confidence and self appreciation.
I know what I want and am having great fun on the way to hopefully finding it.
I’ve toughened up and don’t take any crap. Ive learnt to always say how I feel even in awkward situations.
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"Given me the confidence in not just my body, but in the WHO I am.
I have made friends who like me for me, not for my snatch.
P
So much yes to this. And it's changed my life in that I now have a partner and stuff. Didn't think that would ever happen.
Same here.
I was just a small town girl, living in a lonely world, I caught the midnight train and met my city boy.
Moral of this .... don't stop believing
P"
So relate to that song  |
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By *educedWoman
over a year ago
Birmingham |
I was never single until aged 38. I didn't join Fab until I was 43 (although I'd been on other sites) but it was Fab where I realised pretty quickly, that I'd spent a long time trying to be what people wanted me to be or expected me to be, rather than just being me.
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Massively. It has not only helped me embrace my body and sexuality, it has really help me to love myself. It has improved my confidence and social skills massively (very helpful for someone socially anxious, who probably is a bit on the spectrum). It has introduced me to new freinds, adventures and experiences. I really have learnt with the help of fab to really have nothing to be hung up about anymore and to give less fucks about what other people think. It has given my mental freedom from some of chains that restricted me in the past. But what FAB has really done to change my life is to introduce me to My Girl, for that I will always be greatful. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have alot more confidence. Body and generally, I am who I am and I do things for me, no one else. It might be down to fab, it might just be a coincidence. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I really like this site, is my favourite now. It has put me in contact with fit bisexual lads I would not find anywhere else. It also has opened up possibility of exploring my bicuriosity with women via MMF which is one reason I actually joined, taking that at my own pace. |
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Sounds like my experience is like many others. It’s helped with my body confidence, with my sexual confidence and let me know that it’s ok to like sex. It’s not dirty, or naughty, or wrong.
It’s also helped me to make some friends, even though some are only online.
Finally, my mental wank bank has increased massively |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Apart from the sexy shenanigans and erotic adventures I've found some wonderful friends on here, which I never would have forseen when I first joined. One person in particular is now so dear to me that I couldn't contemplate a day without making contact and talking rubbish with them. I can't imagine life without them now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Same here to all of the above. The confidence it has given me is astronomical. I'm having a wonderful time and the people I meet are amazing. I've made friends,lovers and at last I'm not on my own in thinking am I the only nymphomaniac in the world. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s been a crazy few months.
I’ve definitely grown in confidence and self appreciation.
I know what I want and am having great fun on the way to hopefully finding it.
I’ve toughened up and don’t take any crap. Ive learnt to always say how I feel even in awkward situations.
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Booooooooooom !!
Ah that's nice. The transition. Fab can have that powerful effect. Enjoyed the updates and reading that post. The days of being new on the scene are long gone ha ha 
Newbie's/lurkers:
Lexi is a prime example on how not only to survive, but thrive on here. She is tough, but fair. The real deal. Nothing fake here. It's been amazing to see a fellow Fabber with a good heart having a fabulous journey.
Proud to vouch for her and looking forward to seeing more future happiness coming her way.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hows fab changed you as a person & whats the biggest personal change?
For me its given me a boost in body confidence i never had before joining. "
It hasn't changed my life at all, and I personally would be concerned if it had |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hows fab changed you as a person & whats the biggest personal change?
For me its given me a boost in body confidence i never had before joining.
It hasn't changed my life at all, and I personally would be concerned if it had"
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