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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We all have one.
You know, the one that thinks everything is about them.
Don't speak for ages then they spill their guts but don't ask about you.
Think everything that's posted on faceache is about them 
Pops from one to the other bitching.
Mines my older sister and we call her "me-me" because it's all about me!
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" I'm sat scrutinising all my previous texts and posts to ensure I'm not that person!!  "
I scrutinised all of my texts and posts and everyone elses because no one can say that I am the type of person that think the world revolves around them. I'm always checking things for others. I was so worried about it ! You think you can worry. My God you should see me worry . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Everyone I know. I call them You-You....
I do know the type you mean but I have to be Frank, I don't go where I'm not happy. Not twice anyhow. "
If she wasn't my sister I wouldn't!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We all have one.
You know, the one that thinks everything is about them.
Don't speak for ages then they spill their guts but don't ask about you.
Think everything that's posted on faceache is about them
Pops from one to the other bitching.
Mines my older sister and we call her "me-me" because it's all about me!
Do you have one too? "
I have an older sister like that too. There are perfume adverts that have more depth and substance and less attention seeking than her .
On the upside, I now realise having grown up with a dramatic self-centered person in the family has saved me the drama of having 'Me,Myself and I' friends  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We all have one.
You know, the one that thinks everything is about them.
Don't speak for ages then they spill their guts but don't ask about you.
Think everything that's posted on faceache is about them
Pops from one to the other bitching.
Mines my older sister and we call her "me-me" because it's all about me!
Do you have one too?
I have an older sister like that too. There are perfume adverts that have more depth and substance and less attention seeking than her .
On the upside, I now realise having grown up with a dramatic self-centered person in the family has saved me the drama of having 'Me,Myself and I' friends "
I'm the same now. One whiff of that and I'm off |
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"We all have one.
You know, the one that thinks everything is about them.
Don't speak for ages then they spill their guts but don't ask about you.
Think everything that's posted on faceache is about them
Pops from one to the other bitching.
Mines my older sister and we call her "me-me" because it's all about me!
Do you have one too? "
Yes, I have one of these - so much so, they named her twice
She's called Me-Me-Me-Me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I knew it couldn't just be me!!
She's bleating about our cousin booking a holiday and putting it on faceache just to get at her!"
What is she saying?
This is why I love Facebook. Drama.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My sister is exactly the same!
I have to screen my calls when she phones, as I am not always in the mood to speak to her  "
I think mines a paranoid control freak. I think she's borderline narcissist |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" I'm sat scrutinising all my previous texts and posts to ensure I'm not that person!!
I scrutinised all of my texts and posts and everyone elses because no one can say that I am the type of person that think the world revolves around them. I'm always checking things for others. I was so worried about it ! You think you can worry. My God you should see me worry . "
I would ask how you are,but we haven't spoken for 5 years...I dont like to interrupt you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive known a few. No time for drama so I stay well away. Life's difficult enough without others trying to make things constantly about them. Got my own life to live. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I knew one person like it. She suffers with extreme anxiety which causes it, her focus is on her concerns at all times, she can't help it.
She cut herself off from most of her friends."
That's very sad. I have fallen out with her about it on several occasions. It looks like it's heading that way again  |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"My sister is exactly the same!
I have to screen my calls when she phones, as I am not always in the mood to speak to her
I think mines a paranoid control freak. I think she's borderline narcissist "
Mine also suffers from total false childhood memory, in fact she believes she remembers when she was born
If I challenge what she is saying and telling her that it didn't happen, my god it's like total melt down and I just have to hang up on her  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My sister is exactly the same!
I have to screen my calls when she phones, as I am not always in the mood to speak to her
I think mines a paranoid control freak. I think she's borderline narcissist "
Either we have the same older sister or there's a character pattern emerging here.
Mine has so many traits of Borderline Personality Disorder, you would never leave her alone in a kitchen with a pet rabbit  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My sister is exactly the same!
I have to screen my calls when she phones, as I am not always in the mood to speak to her
I think mines a paranoid control freak. I think she's borderline narcissist
Either we have the same older sister or there's a character pattern emerging here.
Mine has so many traits of Borderline Personality Disorder, you would never leave her alone in a kitchen with a pet rabbit "
You're more than welcome to mine?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes! And for a while I thought it was just amusing but I had a time when I needed a friend and even after asking for support I got none.
I used to listen to them and their drama but I realised a while back that every story has 2 sides and after witnessing first hand how they react after jumping to conclusions I can see now that the drama was of their own making.
Self centered and narcissistic are not nice traits and thankfully they're not related and I can cut them off, I feel sorry for you people stuck with yours. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ive known a few. No time for drama so I stay well away. Life's difficult enough without others trying to make things constantly about them. Got my own life to live. "
Best way love  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's just a shame they don't see the damage they can do, or do they? I sometimes think they enjoy it and get a buzz from it."
Your sister is damaging you...? |
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By *am4CamWoman
over a year ago
Fairy Land |
"We all have one.
You know, the one that thinks everything is about them.
Don't speak for ages then they spill their guts but don't ask about you.
Think everything that's posted on faceache is about them
Pops from one to the other bitching.
Mines my older sister and we call her "me-me" because it's all about me!
Do you have one too? "
Had one as a good friend. Called her on it and several other things. Turns out feedback wasn’t her comfort zone. I no longer have a me-me in my life.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to have a few until I realised how they were affecting my moods and slowly stepped away from their drama, they still talk to me occasionally but I've no idea if it's all still about them because as soon as they open their mouth I switch off and start planning what I'm having for tea instead |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's just a shame they don't see the damage they can do, or do they? I sometimes think they enjoy it and get a buzz from it."
I think the unstable ones definitely cause drama and stress deliberately. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We all have one.
You know, the one that thinks everything is about them.
Don't speak for ages then they spill their guts but don't ask about you.
Think everything that's posted on faceache is about them
Pops from one to the other bitching.
Mines my older sister and we call her "me-me" because it's all about me!
Do you have one too?
Had one as a good friend. Called her on it and several other things. Turns out feedback wasn’t her comfort zone. I no longer have a me-me in my life. "
That's another thing, they're always the victim. So hard done by. Very manipulative.
They're behaviour damages relationships and the people around them. |
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By *lexa999Woman
over a year ago
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How canny, my older sister is the person our immediate family used to refer to as me-me. She did work away during the week and only home at the weekends. She would rarely ask anything about what's been happening with the rest of us.
Things have changed over the years however she can be very self absorbed at times.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes! And for a while I thought it was just amusing but I had a time when I needed a friend and even after asking for support I got none.
I used to listen to them and their drama but I realised a while back that every story has 2 sides and after witnessing first hand how they react after jumping to conclusions I can see now that the drama was of their own making.
Self centered and narcissistic are not nice traits and thankfully they're not related and I can cut them off, I feel sorry for you people stuck with yours. "
I’ve got a friend who actually does have a friend like that Rubi ...it’s not attractive behaviour at all..x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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That's another thing, they're always the victim. So hard done by. Very manipulative.
They're behaviour damages relationships and the people around them.
Soooo, you've met my ex wife then? "
You were married to my sister? She kept that quiet |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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That's another thing, they're always the victim. So hard done by. Very manipulative.
They're behaviour damages relationships and the people around them.
Soooo, you've met my ex wife then?
You were married to my sister? She kept that quiet "
Keeping things quiet? No, it can't be her then. |
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