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How did you end up in this crazy place?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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How did you find yourself here?
I googled bi- curious a couple of years ago and this site came up. I joined and set my filters to women only. A couple of months later I changed them and thought I’d have a little peek at the men. Never intended meeting any men originally.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had lost a regular partner and a man who I spoke to online told me about it.
I was apprehensive as I'm not a swinger, but he assured me I will find what I'm looking for here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I found out through someone on another site.
I've tried to leave a few times but always get drawn back in  "
I can't find the fecking exit either and not for the want of trying  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I migrated from another site. I started swinging at the tender age of 21 with a much older Fwb as he was a kinky fucker and I told him about the place down the road (liberty elites) so we joined the forum they had at that time and joined the club. Lots of libs members were on another swinger's site at the time and then eventually migrated here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a random WhatsApp message from someone who claimed he'd met me in the pub the night before (he hadn't) and then he listed a load if other places he may have got my number from, including 'Fabs', which I then googled.
My partner and I were already at the stage where I was 'allowed' to have play dates, so this sparked an interest in exploring further. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was wandering the land, searching for my brother, solving problems, with no gun. But I had something no one else has ever seen...
I got lost in a blizzard and stumbled upon the place.
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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A friend told me she had started swinging, and I joined a different site she was on.
I went on a meet from there and he directed me to here.
I pretty much left the other site immediately as this one is so much better, I have never looked back and I have no idea if the other site is even still going |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Can't remember but I got Chlamydia for my troubles
Yeah sorry about that 
It was the bareback anal that did it"
Yeah probably. During that 30 man gangbang. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Probably through either a yahoo or msn chat room way back. Remember them?"
I used aol chat rooms back in 2002 and met a few guys from there. Fab wasn’t around then. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kind of one thing led to another. I started getting interested in the swinging scene back in the late 90s when Altavista has chatrooms. That evolved into using IRC and ICQ and then onto Yahoo and MSN chatrooms. Then I used a couple of other sites for a while and when there was a big exodus from them I discovered this site back in 2010. In the early years I mainly used the chatrooms and met a few people via them, the discovered the forum at the end of 2013 and by the beginning of 2014 stopped meeting |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The usual tale of crazy ex, hospital stay, feeling stir crazy, reaching out to connect with people bish bosh boom here I am. Add an few occasionally deviations away from the place and a lot of alcohol and I'm still here!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Kind of one thing led to another. I started getting interested in the swinging scene back in the late 90s when Altavista has chatrooms. That evolved into using IRC and ICQ and then onto Yahoo and MSN chatrooms. Then I used a couple of other sites for a while and when there was a big exodus from them I discovered this site back in 2010. In the early years I mainly used the chatrooms and met a few people via them, the discovered the forum at the end of 2013 and by the beginning of 2014 stopped meeting "
Why don’t you meet anymore? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was here years ago when I was married to my first husband, we only joined for the webcams really, then when I split with him my sex drive went through the roof and rejoined, been here practically ever since!
Danish x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Kind of one thing led to another. I started getting interested in the swinging scene back in the late 90s when Altavista has chatrooms. That evolved into using IRC and ICQ and then onto Yahoo and MSN chatrooms. Then I used a couple of other sites for a while and when there was a big exodus from them I discovered this site back in 2010. In the early years I mainly used the chatrooms and met a few people via them, the discovered the forum at the end of 2013 and by the beginning of 2014 stopped meeting
Why don’t you meet anymore?"
A long story best left untold |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Kind of one thing led to another. I started getting interested in the swinging scene back in the late 90s when Altavista has chatrooms. That evolved into using IRC and ICQ and then onto Yahoo and MSN chatrooms. Then I used a couple of other sites for a while and when there was a big exodus from them I discovered this site back in 2010. In the early years I mainly used the chatrooms and met a few people via them, the discovered the forum at the end of 2013 and by the beginning of 2014 stopped meeting
Why don’t you meet anymore?
A long story best left untold"
Sorry lovely . I did think that was a bit nosy once I’d typed it. You know what I’m like. Brain doesn’t engage with mouth/ fingers in time  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Kind of one thing led to another. I started getting interested in the swinging scene back in the late 90s when Altavista has chatrooms. That evolved into using IRC and ICQ and then onto Yahoo and MSN chatrooms. Then I used a couple of other sites for a while and when there was a big exodus from them I discovered this site back in 2010. In the early years I mainly used the chatrooms and met a few people via them, the discovered the forum at the end of 2013 and by the beginning of 2014 stopped meeting
Why don’t you meet anymore?
A long story best left untold
Sorry lovely . I did think that was a bit nosy once I’d typed it. You know what I’m like. Brain doesn’t engage with mouth/ fingers in time "
No worries it’s just not for forum consumption  |
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By *inn2000Woman
over a year ago
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A friend recommended the site. I joined under a different profile which was far too provocative for me and the hundreds of messages scared the bejesus out of me so I left and reinvented myself. Also discovered message filters which helped lol. Having much more fun this time and not so scary but still has its moments! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was chatting to someone on pof. He explained that he had more pics on another site and if I wanted, i could join up and have a peek... so i did. And I've been on and off here ever since |
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By *ty31Man
over a year ago
NW London |
Single, not wanting a relationship (at that point in time) but looking for a fwb or nsa. Felt it a more honest way to go about it than using a mainstream site like pof. Also liked that I could be anonymous as I'm quite private about my sex life.
Three and a half years later I'm still stuck here! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Used to use a chat app where a couple profile I came across listed fab swingers as a site they used. One curious search later and I’ve been here ever since |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro |
I didn't open the account it was done for me. At the time I'd been seeing someone for a few mths that I met on match. We were in the pub one evening and started talking about fantasies at which point I mentioned mmf. I told him about a conversation I'd had with someone I went out for a drink with from pof who was a swinger and mentioned fab.
The next day he opened a couples account and it was all down hill from there on.
Made me realise that the thought of something can be very different than the reality (on his part). I didn't know him that well and all his insecurities came out. He ended up totally losing the plot and finished the relationship.
I lost something that could have been good...so if you're reading this Spencer..I'm sorry!!
At that point I should have walked away from here but I didn't in a way I also regret that for many reasons.
In my delusion I thought finding an exclusive guy to travel this journey with would be easy. However to date I've not found one who ticks my boxes let alone two.
I've learnt that you really cannot trust what people tell you. Which is a real shame as I've changed though being on here not for the best either.
Xx
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I was out on a night out and complained to a good friend I'd not had sex for ages and didnt want a 'boyfriend'. She showed me fab. A month later she'd persuaded me to go to a club and then I joined fab on the way home x |
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Pillow talk with an ex. We wanted to try clubs so did a bit of googling and ended up here.
Used to frequent the old MSN groups chat rooms as a single but never met anyone as was too busy chasing girls in the real world. Then life suddenly gets busy. |
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"During an ongoing mission of studying you earthlings, my craft crash landed here during a particularly violent thunderstorm and I have been stranded here ever since 
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And how very us ladies are that you did |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A guy I’d met from another site sent me a link to his profile on here. Once I’d gotten over the OMG what kind of site is this, what’s he doing on here - my curiosity got the better of me - I stayed he departed... |
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Someone I got chatting with from another site said this was the place for me. As I’m not a swinger I thought he might be wrong. It appears I was wrong as I wasn’t the only person that isn’t a swinger. I suppose I have him to thank for meeting Swing, our paths would never have crossed without Fab  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Same here, bisexual and looking for like minds, not just sexually but in how they think... Some great people on here, beats all other social media as we can be ourselves totally  |
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Been on and off here for years now great way to meet people and so addictive 
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