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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago
Camberley occasionally doncaster |
I always gove them a standard security questionnaire.
Have you ever been a terrorist or been involved with terrorism? [Yes/no]
Have you ever tried to overthrow the government? [Yes/no]
Do you murder kittens in your spare time [Yes/no] |
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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago
Manchester |
"Ask them if they have stalking/murdering experience.
I somehow doubt they will tell the truth if they do 
Are you saying that people...lie...on here?!  "
Errrrrrrrr noooooooooooo ok yes! Well it is porky pie central in here at times. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What are the top things you should always do before meeting someone for the first time? Or should we just go for it and forget caution?"
Check verifications and make sure they’re not fake and talk on the phone.
If it’s too good to be true it usually is on fab.
always have a social meet first! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A Smegma check.....One doesn’t want any unpleasant surprises...."
One of my favourite words, smegma, kind of rolls off the tongue.
I have a bath and then a lower body shower half hour before their eta or I’m due to leave. Just to get rid of piss remnants and poo particles. |
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"A Smegma check.....One doesn’t want any unpleasant surprises....
One of my favourite words, smegma, kind of rolls off the tongue.
I have a bath and then a lower body shower half hour before their eta or I’m due to leave. Just to get rid of piss remnants and poo particles. "
Smegma - yep, ‘tis most definitely better to roll it off the tongue than to swallow it down the throat say I  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Meet up for a social first. If things look promising and safe then take it from there.
Don’t forget to have some Rubbers handy just in case things advance. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A Smegma check.....One doesn’t want any unpleasant surprises....
One of my favourite words, smegma, kind of rolls off the tongue.
I have a bath and then a lower body shower half hour before their eta or I’m due to leave. Just to get rid of piss remnants and poo particles. "
I have a Smeg fridge and this always makes me laugh! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Send a safe text to a trusted friend of address your going to and text when back at home safe n smiling."
So given how were told it makes women vunerable if they meet in thier own homes and they shouldnt do it.
Just to be clear you're saying the guy should violate her trust and text her address to a completley stranger without her knowledge? |
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"Send a safe text to a trusted friend of address your going to and text when back at home safe n smiling.
So given how were told it makes women vunerable if they meet in thier own homes and they shouldnt do it.
Just to be clear you're saying the guy should violate her trust and text her address to a completley stranger without her knowledge?"
No. I'm saying it from the ladies safety if she's meeting a guy at his home. |
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By *ngelina4uWoman
over a year ago
Camberley/Middleton |
"What are the top things you should always do before meeting someone for the first time? Or should we just go for it and forget caution?"
If you are looknig to meet a woman it might be worth checking its one without extras. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Send a safe text to a trusted friend of address your going to and text when back at home safe n smiling.
So given how were told it makes women vunerable if they meet in thier own homes and they shouldnt do it.
Just to be clear you're saying the guy should violate her trust and text her address to a completley stranger without her knowledge?
No. I'm saying it from the ladies safety if she's meeting a guy at his home. "
So a guy should be happy with his address being shared to a complete stranger?
Possibly some friend zoned stalker type?
Again I'm amazed by the utter disrespect for safety and privacy of your meets
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"What are the top things you should always do before meeting someone for the first time? Or should we just go for it and forget caution?
If you are looknig to meet a woman it might be worth checking its one without extras. "
Those little extras are not the sort of thnig you can miss seeing! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What are the top things you should always do before meeting someone for the first time? Or should we just go for it and forget caution?"
Make sure you have rubbers! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What are the top things you should always do before meeting someone for the first time? Or should we just go for it and forget caution?"
I speak on the phone, only meet in a public place first time out, and I have a safe buddy on the end of a phone if I need to bail or hail at any point. |
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Just go meet them. As long as you can defend yourself it's unlikely someone is going to capture you. I personally don't require anything other than a phone number (I don't use kik) genuine people normally give out their number.. Then don't meet someone for the first time down a dark alley. But then again I do that too so I'm not really the right person to ask... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What are the top things you should always do before meeting someone for the first time? Or should we just go for it and forget caution?
I speak on the phone, only meet in a public place first time out, and I have a safe buddy on the end of a phone if I need to bail or hail at any point."
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Very good idea there hun xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t meet on a whim, I get to know people first & always trust my gut instinct ~ it’s a tried & tested method that works for me.
Alongside that I will always meet in a public place to start with, make myself known to bar / hotel staff prior to going / leaving with the person. |
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