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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So if you been having sex a few hours or days when you part after are you the type of person to keep messaging to check there ok
Or chat because your buzzed up still
Or do you just not care as you got what u wanted
Just curious im a messager as im buzzed up still and prob still want more too as i tend to be in buzzed up mode when i leave for days after |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have encountered both types of people on here. I appreciate a message after but then I usually aim for regulars. My worse was a 2nights with someone who went cold with me on the last day and then didn't even contact me at all after |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have encountered both types of people on here. I appreciate a message after but then I usually aim for regulars. My worse was a 2nights with someone who went cold with me on the last day and then didn't even contact me at all after "
now thats rough poor lass
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have encountered both types of people on here. I appreciate a message after but then I usually aim for regulars. My worse was a 2nights with someone who went cold with me on the last day and then didn't even contact me at all after now thats rough poor lass"
Luckily he has been the only one to treat me that way |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have encountered both types of people on here. I appreciate a message after but then I usually aim for regulars. My worse was a 2nights with someone who went cold with me on the last day and then didn't even contact me at all after now thats rough poor lass
Luckily he has been the only one to treat me that way"
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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago
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"So if you been having sex a few hours or days when you part after are you the type of person to keep messaging to check there ok
Or chat because your buzzed up still
Or do you just not care as you got what u wanted
Just curious im a messager as im buzzed up still and prob still want more too as i tend to be in buzzed up mode when i leave for days after"
Depends on the person I had sex with.
If we connected and had fun might text the next day or the day after even.
If if was just sex and nothing more maybe a text on the day and then nothing more till the next time.
In terms of Fab, I usually like to meet socially first so find that I will keep in contact with that person regularly if we got on socially and sexually.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just one will do me, something along the lines of 'great to see you again, see you soon'. Otherwise I'd feel like they were pestering me."
Crikey Id have to tie my hands behind my back to stop me typing  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m usually buzzing after so can get a bit of verbal diarrhoea
I’m Always buzzin’. It’s a Manchester thing.
Me, I just bumble along"
 
Op. I don’t have a thing for one night stands. So I can’t understand why people would go cold, or don’t need contact or to talk. It’s not in my nature. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So if you been having sex a few hours or days when you part after are you the type of person to keep messaging to check there ok
Or chat because your buzzed up still
Or do you just not care as you got what u wanted
Just curious im a messager as im buzzed up still and prob still want more too as i tend to be in buzzed up mode when i leave for days after
Depends on the person I had sex with.
If we connected and had fun might text the next day or the day after even.
If if was just sex and nothing more maybe a text on the day and then nothing more till the next time.
In terms of Fab, I usually like to meet socially first so find that I will keep in contact with that person regularly if we got on socially and sexually.
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I’m a social fucker. I would not fuck anyone I didn’t like socialising with. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’m usually buzzing after so can get a bit of verbal diarrhoea
I’m Always buzzin’. It’s a Manchester thing.
Me, I just bumble along
Op. I don’t have a thing for one night stands. So I can’t understand why people would go cold, or don’t need contact or to talk. It’s not in my nature. "
me either but others do was just trying to think of a grown up question that didnt hurt my head too much fof once |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m usually buzzing after so can get a bit of verbal diarrhoea
I’m Always buzzin’. It’s a Manchester thing.
Me, I just bumble along
Op. I don’t have a thing for one night stands. So I can’t understand why people would go cold, or don’t need contact or to talk. It’s not in my nature. me either but others do was just trying to think of a grown up question that didnt hurt my head too much fof once"
It’s an interesting question PMF |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends. If it's been a good meet and we've got on then I like to stay in touch regularly.
If not so good and just a shag, a message after to say it was nice to meet them is about all I can muster up!
I get post coital drop if it's been really good with someone regular so I need after care but I do warn them first just in case. |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
"Just one will do me, something along the lines of 'great to see you again, see you soon'. Otherwise I'd feel like they were pestering me.
Crikey Id have to tie my hands behind my back to stop me typing "
I'm aware that makes me sounds really cold but I'm really not  |
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"So if you been having sex a few hours or days when you part after are you the type of person to keep messaging to check there ok
Or chat because your buzzed up still
Or do you just not care as you got what u wanted
Just curious im a messager as im buzzed up still and prob still want more too as i tend to be in buzzed up mode when i leave for days after
Depends on the person I had sex with.
If we connected and had fun might text the next day or the day after even.
If if was just sex and nothing more maybe a text on the day and then nothing more till the next time.
In terms of Fab, I usually like to meet socially first so find that I will keep in contact with that person regularly if we got on socially and sexually.
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Nothing says "I've been thinking about you" like
"Hi, we've not spoken for a while but faf?" |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just one will do me, something along the lines of 'great to see you again, see you soon'. Otherwise I'd feel like they were pestering me.
Crikey Id have to tie my hands behind my back to stop me typing
I'm aware that makes me sounds really cold but I'm really not "
it dont at all we all have different needs u dont need a pest is all  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’m usually buzzing after so can get a bit of verbal diarrhoea
I’m Always buzzin’. It’s a Manchester thing.
Me, I just bumble along
Op. I don’t have a thing for one night stands. So I can’t understand why people would go cold, or don’t need contact or to talk. It’s not in my nature. me either but others do was just trying to think of a grown up question that didnt hurt my head too much fof once
It’s an interesting question PMF "
what an odd feeling normal service will resume shortly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just one will do me, something along the lines of 'great to see you again, see you soon'. Otherwise I'd feel like they were pestering me.
Crikey Id have to tie my hands behind my back to stop me typing
I'm aware that makes me sounds really cold but I'm really not "
Nah it doesn’t. I worry after I’ve blurted out my diatribe that I’ve bored them to death and been too open. It’s good to have people who provide me with balance |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m usually buzzing after so can get a bit of verbal diarrhoea
I’m Always buzzin’. It’s a Manchester thing.
Me, I just bumble along
Op. I don’t have a thing for one night stands. So I can’t understand why people would go cold, or don’t need contact or to talk. It’s not in my nature. me either but others do was just trying to think of a grown up question that didnt hurt my head too much fof once
It’s an interesting question PMF what an odd feeling normal service will resume shortly"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I’m usually buzzing after so can get a bit of verbal diarrhoea
I’m Always buzzin’. It’s a Manchester thing.
Me, I just bumble along
Op. I don’t have a thing for one night stands. So I can’t understand why people would go cold, or don’t need contact or to talk. It’s not in my nature. me either but others do was just trying to think of a grown up question that didnt hurt my head too much fof once
It’s an interesting question PMF what an odd feeling normal service will resume shortly "
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Depends on the depth of the connection.
There are people I keep in touch with, there are people I want to see again.I'm conscious that this is Fab tho, not Plenty of Kippers.
On a shag and go I'm not going to be writing sonnets afterwards... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I tend to take time to build friendships with those I skeet so I'd expect us to be just as chatty after as we were before. "
Skeet - that’s a new one on me |
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I generally prefer sex in the context I'd some kind if ongoing affection / rapport so I'd like that to continue naturally. Even if it's been a casual encounters I'd always message with thanks and good wishes.
In BDSM encounters after care can be very important, and lovely. |
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"I generally prefer sex in the context I'd some kind if ongoing affection / rapport so I'd like that to continue naturally. Even if it's been a casual encounters I'd always message with thanks and good wishes.
In BDSM encounters after care can be very important, and lovely. "
"I enjoyed your vagina,many thanks and good wishes"
Maybe something like that?
With a thumbs up sign at the end if they were particularly good?
I like your style.
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