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So is it time for yet another goodbye
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Seen these along with many many other repetitive forum posts.
I've had fun but the repeated posts just don't do it for me, no longer interested and whilst I could open the floodgates and get tons of messages I'm also tired of couples and singles guys asking for yet another meet. Want to see my face yet again.
I now only really come here out of habbit, I'm not planning to close my profile though as I do still enjoy the club's but unlikely to want anything else from this experience.
It's taken me a couple of months of fab forums to get to this point.
Enjoy life, enjoy the fun while it still is fun but if something is no longer enjoyable it's time to move on isn't it !?
I've been on the scene 7 years, made amazing friends. Had crazy unforgettable experiences, lost count on how many times I've played with various people.
Time for this lady to hang her boots up and find another hobby.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seen these along with many many other repetitive forum posts.
I've had fun but the repeated posts just don't do it for me, no longer interested and whilst I could open the floodgates and get tons of messages I'm also tired of couples and singles guys asking for yet another meet. Want to see my face yet again.
I now only really come here out of habbit, I'm not planning to close my profile though as I do still enjoy the club's but unlikely to want anything else from this experience.
It's taken me a couple of months of fab forums to get to this point.
Enjoy life, enjoy the fun while it still is fun but if something is no longer enjoyable it's time to move on isn't it !?
I've been on the scene 7 years, made amazing friends. Had crazy unforgettable experiences, lost count on how many times I've played with various people.
Time for this lady to hang her boots up and find another hobby.
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Good luck OP, apparently you'll be back (so people say) and if you do .. good on you girl   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"so you ask is it time to go, then you state that it is time to go, then you're still here....... 
I ask myself the same question -but still no answer."
Are you hanging around hoping to get an answer? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"so you ask is it time to go, then you state that it is time to go, then you're still here.......
I ask myself the same question -but still no answer.
Are you hanging around hoping to get an answer?"
so much for - end of. |
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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago
the right frame of mind -London |
"so you ask is it time to go, then you state that it is time to go, then you're still here.......
I ask myself the same question -but still no answer.
Are you hanging around hoping to get an answer?
so much for - end of."
No -the forum comments amuse me -it's my main source of entertainment these days -feck celebrity love island |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can you really claim its goodbye if you are only going to hide the profile?
Bit of a kop out if you ask me
Or a plea for attention?"
Maybe it is? Maybe tgeyre frustrated?Maybe they felt flat? Maybe there's a simple case of everything feeling a bit too much with no real avenues of offloading so they wrote that?
Never understood the mocking of such posts, maybe just don't comment? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Can you really claim its goodbye if you are only going to hide the profile?
Bit of a kop out if you ask me
Or a plea for attention?"
Profile hidden as I still use the website to find events and clubs.
Not a plea for any attention, if I wanted that I would have just put up some pictures and opened up my profile to single guys. I actually wrote what I felt and still feel. I asked myself the question but as I wrote it I answered my own question whilst writing.
I've come back to this thread out of curiosity (bf wanted to log on to see what events where on this weekend as we intend to go out) and since there where unanswered questions and I have a natural instructive nature to always answer unanswered questions I have responded.
Not that it makes any difference. Those that responded won't read this thread and those that think I'm an attention seeking whore will carry on thinking so as they don't actually know me.
I'm the quiet soul in a room, the one that lets everyone else grab the stage, I feel uncomfortable with attention. More of the listing type than the speaking one.
I may return back to the forums I don't know but for me it's definitely a time for a break from them to concentrate on other aspects of my life.
Just thought I'd say that, dint have to and I know it didn't matter if I did or didn't respond.
Eski |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can you really claim its goodbye if you are only going to hide the profile?
Bit of a kop out if you ask me"
It certainly isn’t! The OP can use her account as she sees fit and delete when she wants. If you’ve made lots of friends on here over the years, then you want to exchange emails etc. The lovely OP been here years so lots of goodbyes. |
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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago
Beyond the shadows. |
"Can you really claim its goodbye if you are only going to hide the profile?
Bit of a kop out if you ask me
Or a plea for attention?
Profile hidden as I still use the website to find events and clubs.
Not a plea for any attention, if I wanted that I would have just put up some pictures and opened up my profile to single guys. I actually wrote what I felt and still feel. I asked myself the question but as I wrote it I answered my own question whilst writing.
I've come back to this thread out of curiosity (bf wanted to log on to see what events where on this weekend as we intend to go out) and since there where unanswered questions and I have a natural instructive nature to always answer unanswered questions I have responded.
Not that it makes any difference. Those that responded won't read this thread and those that think I'm an attention seeking whore will carry on thinking so as they don't actually know me.
I'm the quiet soul in a room, the one that lets everyone else grab the stage, I feel uncomfortable with attention. More of the listing type than the speaking one.
I may return back to the forums I don't know but for me it's definitely a time for a break from them to concentrate on other aspects of my life.
Just thought I'd say that, dint have to and I know it didn't matter if I did or didn't respond.
Eski"
Enjoy your time off, see you around the club seen possibly.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seen these along with many many other repetitive forum posts.
I've had fun but the repeated posts just don't do it for me, no longer interested and whilst I could open the floodgates and get tons of messages I'm also tired of couples and singles guys asking for yet another meet. Want to see my face yet again.
I now only really come here out of habbit, I'm not planning to close my profile though as I do still enjoy the club's but unlikely to want anything else from this experience.
It's taken me a couple of months of fab forums to get to this point.
Enjoy life, enjoy the fun while it still is fun but if something is no longer enjoyable it's time to move on isn't it !?
I've been on the scene 7 years, made amazing friends. Had crazy unforgettable experiences, lost count on how many times I've played with various people.
Time for this lady to hang her boots up and find another hobby.
"
Aww..  Not had the chance to get to know you yet. I hope it brings you what you want. If not, come back |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have a break OP - if not then I hope you have a nice life
I'm not sure who you are or if we've interacted on the forums - but everything gets repetitive after a while.
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"Can you really claim its goodbye if you are only going to hide the profile?
Bit of a kop out if you ask me
Or a plea for attention?
Profile hidden as I still use the website to find events and clubs.
Not a plea for any attention, if I wanted that I would have just put up some pictures and opened up my profile to single guys. I actually wrote what I felt and still feel. I asked myself the question but as I wrote it I answered my own question whilst writing.
I've come back to this thread out of curiosity (bf wanted to log on to see what events where on this weekend as we intend to go out) and since there where unanswered questions and I have a natural instructive nature to always answer unanswered questions I have responded.
Not that it makes any difference. Those that responded won't read this thread and those that think I'm an attention seeking whore will carry on thinking so as they don't actually know me.
I'm the quiet soul in a room, the one that lets everyone else grab the stage, I feel uncomfortable with attention. More of the listing type than the speaking one.
I may return back to the forums I don't know but for me it's definitely a time for a break from them to concentrate on other aspects of my life.
Just thought I'd say that, dint have to and I know it didn't matter if I did or didn't respond.
Eski"
Well, you have helped me with advice and knowledge via PM so I thank you for that, and I wish you all the best for whatever you decide! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do some people come on these threads just to make such twatty comments?
Good luck in your endeavours OP "
Who are these ‘some people’? Sound like a testy comment to me   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do some people come on these threads just to make such twatty comments?
Good luck in your endeavours OP "
I think the answer is in your question sweetie 
Good luck OP
I know what you mean
At times I feel a similar way but feelings are fickle they pass and I am still for now anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can you really claim its goodbye if you are only going to hide the profile?
Bit of a kop out if you ask me"
Can you at least try to be pleasant for once, try it see how you go ? |
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