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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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... just read this in a 26-yr old bisexual man's profile. That's why he prefers bareback.
Is that possible?
They never hurt me but I'm not the one wearing them. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've heard a lot about people not liking them - uncomfortable, allergic etc. But to actually feel the pain when using them?
I learn a new thing on fab every day  |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
The wrong size can hurt.
If you're well endowed some can feel tight to the extent that it's painful, cause loss of an erection and are more likely to split.
The old 'but you can stretch them over your head' argument forgets there's no bone in your knob, unlike the skull.
But as it's easy to buy larger condoms the excuse that they 'hurt' is not one that's valid as a reason to not use them.
I'd be surprised if anyone fell for it.
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
I honestly can't see how it would hurt under normal circumstances. It might be a bit tight or uncomfortable if the man is girthy and uses normal sized condoms. Happens to me  |
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Sounds odd to me...If they're too small get larger ones, but not too large as they can slip off.
If someone has a latex allergy there a latex free condoms available .
Loads of different makes now so trial and error til find ones you like.
Or pretend they hurt you and risk something much more painful instead.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well he seems to be enjoying this site as verified by 20 meets with men. Would be interesting to see if they believe his reasons for not using condoms. |
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By *rx1Couple
over a year ago
North of Okehampton, South of Bideford |
"... just read this in a 26-yr old bisexual man's profile. That's why he prefers bareback.
Is that possible?
They never hurt me but I'm not the one wearing them."
Perhaps it pinged him in the eye when he took it off |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Well he seems to be enjoying this site as verified by 20 meets with men. Would be interesting to see if they believe his reasons for not using condoms."
Maybe they just gave him a rubber glove tug.
That would be safe.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We're all different. They've never hurt me.
Yes latex allergies are common. All he has to do is buy Skyn brand in boots, right next to the Durex ones.
It's not a size thing. Any larger gentleman will admit you can get most condoms on relatively easily.. whatever the size.
Fab really isn't the best place for someone who won't wear a condom, whatever the reason. |
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I took part in a condo research study. Usually the problem is wrong size . Checkout Lucky Block .com , tons of selection you don’t see in local stores. They advise putting a couple of drops of lube in the condom , before putting it on . Guys say makes a tremendous difference. Might be a latex allergy, or if not circumcised, they had condoms cut for that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be honest I think it’s just his excuse, I used to find that normal off the shelf durex hurt me a little as they were to tight but after trying several different brands and sizes I have found a few that I’m happy with , don’t get me wrong we all prefer bare back but would I help as like risk my health,
It’s just a load of excuses in my opinion.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"... just read this in a 26-yr old bisexual man's profile. That's why he prefers bareback.
Is that possible?
They never hurt me but I'm not the one wearing them.
Perhaps it pinged him in the eye when he took it off "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I did see a health warning about using Russian made condoms.
Not to use them as cher noble fall out.
Thank you im here all week, dont forget to but your meat raffle tickets an the bar |
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"I did see a health warning about using Russian made condoms.
Not to use them as cher noble fall out.
Thank you im here all week, dont forget to but your meat raffle tickets an the bar "
Ha ha ha good humour |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Only issue i find is that by the time i get to needing one my hands are too slick and slippy to open the fuckers"
 always give it to the lady to deal with |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Only issue i find is that by the time i get to needing one my hands are too slick and slippy to open the fuckers
always give it to the lady to deal with "
her hands are slimy too  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm surprised he is so active on this site as his profile is very negative (don't do this, don't contact me if, I only do this, don't message me if you don't attach cock picture, etc). So if all the guys he meets are happy with his bareback option then I worry about this planet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"if hes 26 and and hasnt tried different condoms to find one that suits him it shows lack of maturity and inexperience. Hes a 26 year old man not a teenage boy"
26yr old aren't men  Still boys |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm similar. I have as serious reaction to them same with lube. Regardless of make or latex or non latex. All give me a reaction that lasts for around one to two weeks. "
So what do you do, soldier on or just not use them? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"He displays veris from men aged 22-54 and only half of them ticked safe sex option in their profile.
Seems like "spread the love" is the theme! "
I dont know about "spread the love", spread something else more likely  |
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"I'm similar. I have as serious reaction to them same with lube. Regardless of make or latex or non latex. All give me a reaction that lasts for around one to two weeks. "
Have you tried the Skyn brand poly isoprene ones ? I can’t use Durex non latex , as they still contain some latex properties & I’ll react |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Only issue i find is that by the time i get to needing one my hands are too slick and slippy to open the fuckers
always give it to the lady to deal with her hands are slimy too "
Whatever are you both getting up to |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Only issue i find is that by the time i get to needing one my hands are too slick and slippy to open the fuckers
always give it to the lady to deal with her hands are slimy too
Whatever are you both getting up to "
cant tell u only can show |
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"... just read this in a 26-yr old bisexual man's profile. That's why he prefers bareback.
Is that possible?
They never hurt me but I'm not the one wearing them."
Not possible.
Got to be BS unless it's a latex thing. Then he just needs latex free condoms |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"He displays veris from men aged 22-54 and only half of them ticked safe sex option in their profile.
Seems like "spread the love" is the theme!
I dont know about "spread the love", spread something else more likely "
That was me being sarcastic.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I did see a health warning about using Russian made condoms.
Not to use them as cher noble fall out.
Thank you im here all week, dont forget to but your meat raffle tickets an the bar
Ha ha ha good humour "
H&S its e everyone responsibility
Definitely wear a hard hat too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"... just read this in a 26-yr old bisexual man's profile. That's why he prefers bareback.
Is that possible?
They never hurt me but I'm not the one wearing them."
Depends what he means maybe hes allergic or maybe hes very girthy and buying small condoms.
He might need some lube inside etc |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"... just read this in a 26-yr old bisexual man's profile. That's why he prefers bareback.
Is that possible?
They never hurt me but I'm not the one wearing them.
Depends what he means maybe hes allergic or maybe hes very girthy and buying small condoms.
He might need some lube inside etc"
With being on fab for a few years and meetings so many guys one would have thought he'd sorted the problem out by now.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"... just read this in a 26-yr old bisexual man's profile. That's why he prefers bareback.
Is that possible?
They never hurt me but I'm not the one wearing them.
Depends what he means maybe hes allergic or maybe hes very girthy and buying small condoms.
He might need some lube inside etc"
But he's not the one wearing it, hes taking it from behind and the other guys condom hurts him, im guessing the guy has a monsters cock and hes blaming the condom |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Must be the week for it - there was someone the other day claimed he couldn't use them because he was circumcised!!  "
Perhaps I'll get them both to meet and discuss their experiences |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Must be the week for it - there was someone the other day claimed he couldn't use them because he was circumcised!!
Perhaps I'll get them both to meet and discuss their experiences "
Get the ones with no tips
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"... just read this in a 26-yr old bisexual man's profile. That's why he prefers bareback.
Is that possible?
They never hurt me but I'm not the one wearing them.
Depends what he means maybe hes allergic or maybe hes very girthy and buying small condoms.
He might need some lube inside etc
But he's not the one wearing it, hes taking it from behind and the other guys condom hurts him, im guessing the guy has a monsters cock and hes blaming the condom "
What makes you think hes not the one wearing them?
The op doesnt say if hes talking about it hurting his ass or his cock ir if hes top or bottom?
If hes bottom maybe somone used ribbed and dotted ones that i can imagine would be unpleasent in the ass |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm similar. I have as serious reaction to them same with lube. Regardless of make or latex or non latex. All give me a reaction that lasts for around one to two weeks.
So what do you do, soldier on or just not use them? "
I’ll give you 3 guesses to the answer and the first 2 don’t count.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The wrong size can hurt.
If you're well endowed some can feel tight to the extent that it's painful, cause loss of an erection and are more likely to split.
The old 'but you can stretch them over your head' argument forgets there's no bone in your knob, unlike the skull.
But as it's easy to buy larger condoms the excuse that they 'hurt' is not one that's valid as a reason to not use them.
I'd be surprised if anyone fell for it.
A"
I think you will find there is a bone in your knob otherwise why else would you get a “boner” |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The very first time I used a condom I tore my banjo string when I got ‘vigorous’. Probably didn’t put it on right. It made me phobic of them. Took a lot of practice to overcome the fear. They still can have a psychological effect on me when I’m very nervous/over excited. |
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