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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yesterday that dude who gave me his number blocked me on WhatsApp, the soldier I met last year who connected me again last month deleted his profile on here. A guy that I’ve met twice and supposed to be meeting again literally feels like he has zero interest in me, but although I felt a bit bummed yesterday, it actually doesn’t matter. I’ve put it all to bed. Now there’s no one on the cards, I’ve removed my finger from some pies and it just feels calmer.
Does anyone else prefer it if they’re just not speaking to anyone, like no one can let you down then and everything is just chilled? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yesterday that dude who gave me his number blocked me on WhatsApp, the soldier I met last year who connected me again last month deleted his profile on here. A guy that I’ve met twice and supposed to be meeting again literally feels like he has zero interest in me, but although I felt a bit bummed yesterday, it actually doesn’t matter. I’ve put it all to bed. Now there’s no one on the cards, I’ve removed my finger from some pies and it just feels calmer.
Does anyone else prefer it if they’re just not speaking to anyone, like no one can let you down then and everything is just chilled?"
I sure do
Maybe that's the way those guys feel too |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yesterday that dude who gave me his number blocked me on WhatsApp, the soldier I met last year who connected me again last month deleted his profile on here. A guy that I’ve met twice and supposed to be meeting again literally feels like he has zero interest in me, but although I felt a bit bummed yesterday, it actually doesn’t matter. I’ve put it all to bed. Now there’s no one on the cards, I’ve removed my finger from some pies and it just feels calmer.
Does anyone else prefer it if they’re just not speaking to anyone, like no one can let you down then and everything is just chilled?"
Those guys need their heads examining! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yesterday that dude who gave me his number blocked me on WhatsApp, the soldier I met last year who connected me again last month deleted his profile on here. A guy that I’ve met twice and supposed to be meeting again literally feels like he has zero interest in me, but although I felt a bit bummed yesterday, it actually doesn’t matter. I’ve put it all to bed. Now there’s no one on the cards, I’ve removed my finger from some pies and it just feels calmer.
Does anyone else prefer it if they’re just not speaking to anyone, like no one can let you down then and everything is just chilled?"
question. please dont take this the wrong way.
why does this happen to you. i mean guys seeming like they not interested?
just a question, nothing meant by it just trying to figure it out |
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"Yesterday that dude who gave me his number blocked me on WhatsApp, the soldier I met last year who connected me again last month deleted his profile on here. A guy that I’ve met twice and supposed to be meeting again literally feels like he has zero interest in me, but although I felt a bit bummed yesterday, it actually doesn’t matter. I’ve put it all to bed. Now there’s no one on the cards, I’ve removed my finger from some pies and it just feels calmer.
Does anyone else prefer it if they’re just not speaking to anyone, like no one can let you down then and everything is just chilled?
question. please dont take this the wrong way.
why does this happen to you. i mean guys seeming like they not interested?
just a question, nothing meant by it just trying to figure it out"
It happens to loads of people the op just openly talks about it, gets it of her chest more then others |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Yesterday that dude who gave me his number blocked me on WhatsApp, the soldier I met last year who connected me again last month deleted his profile on here. A guy that I’ve met twice and supposed to be meeting again literally feels like he has zero interest in me, but although I felt a bit bummed yesterday, it actually doesn’t matter. I’ve put it all to bed. Now there’s no one on the cards, I’ve removed my finger from some pies and it just feels calmer.
Does anyone else prefer it if they’re just not speaking to anyone, like no one can let you down then and everything is just chilled?
question. please dont take this the wrong way.
why does this happen to you. i mean guys seeming like they not interested?
just a question, nothing meant by it just trying to figure it out"
You’re asking me to give you answers that I don’t know. Only the guys involved would know their reasons for not being interested. C’mon you see me asking these questions and get given 100’s of possible answers but we’ll never know exactly what each persons reason is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yesterday that dude who gave me his number blocked me on WhatsApp, the soldier I met last year who connected me again last month deleted his profile on here. A guy that I’ve met twice and supposed to be meeting again literally feels like he has zero interest in me, but although I felt a bit bummed yesterday, it actually doesn’t matter. I’ve put it all to bed. Now there’s no one on the cards, I’ve removed my finger from some pies and it just feels calmer.
Does anyone else prefer it if they’re just not speaking to anyone, like no one can let you down then and everything is just chilled?
question. please dont take this the wrong way.
why does this happen to you. i mean guys seeming like they not interested?
just a question, nothing meant by it just trying to figure it out
You’re asking me to give you answers that I don’t know. Only the guys involved would know their reasons for not being interested. C’mon you see me asking these questions and get given 100’s of possible answers but we’ll never know exactly what each persons reason is. "
what kind of pie? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Yesterday that dude who gave me his number blocked me on WhatsApp, the soldier I met last year who connected me again last month deleted his profile on here. A guy that I’ve met twice and supposed to be meeting again literally feels like he has zero interest in me, but although I felt a bit bummed yesterday, it actually doesn’t matter. I’ve put it all to bed. Now there’s no one on the cards, I’ve removed my finger from some pies and it just feels calmer.
Does anyone else prefer it if they’re just not speaking to anyone, like no one can let you down then and everything is just chilled?
question. please dont take this the wrong way.
why does this happen to you. i mean guys seeming like they not interested?
just a question, nothing meant by it just trying to figure it out
You’re asking me to give you answers that I don’t know. Only the guys involved would know their reasons for not being interested. C’mon you see me asking these questions and get given 100’s of possible answers but we’ll never know exactly what each persons reason is.
what kind of pie?"
It’s an idiom, an idiom is a phrase or an expression that has a figurative, or sometimes literal meaning. To have my finger in pies is to have an interest in or be involved in everything, in my case I’m referring to men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yesterday that dude who gave me his number blocked me on WhatsApp, the soldier I met last year who connected me again last month deleted his profile on here. A guy that I’ve met twice and supposed to be meeting again literally feels like he has zero interest in me, but although I felt a bit bummed yesterday, it actually doesn’t matter. I’ve put it all to bed. Now there’s no one on the cards, I’ve removed my finger from some pies and it just feels calmer.
Does anyone else prefer it if they’re just not speaking to anyone, like no one can let you down then and everything is just chilled?
question. please dont take this the wrong way.
why does this happen to you. i mean guys seeming like they not interested?
just a question, nothing meant by it just trying to figure it out
You’re asking me to give you answers that I don’t know. Only the guys involved would know their reasons for not being interested. C’mon you see me asking these questions and get given 100’s of possible answers but we’ll never know exactly what each persons reason is. "
i hear you. just keep on a positive step you'll be fine  |
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
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"Yesterday that dude who gave me his number blocked me on WhatsApp, the soldier I met last year who connected me again last month deleted his profile on here. A guy that I’ve met twice and supposed to be meeting again literally feels like he has zero interest in me, but although I felt a bit bummed yesterday, it actually doesn’t matter. I’ve put it all to bed. Now there’s no one on the cards, I’ve removed my finger from some pies and it just feels calmer.
Does anyone else prefer it if they’re just not speaking to anyone, like no one can let you down then and everything is just chilled?"
Sometimes it is nice to be just browsing fab with no ulterior motive other than to read the forums. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yesterday that dude who gave me his number blocked me on WhatsApp, the soldier I met last year who connected me again last month deleted his profile on here. A guy that I’ve met twice and supposed to be meeting again literally feels like he has zero interest in me, but although I felt a bit bummed yesterday, it actually doesn’t matter. I’ve put it all to bed. Now there’s no one on the cards, I’ve removed my finger from some pies and it just feels calmer.
Does anyone else prefer it if they’re just not speaking to anyone, like no one can let you down then and everything is just chilled?
question. please dont take this the wrong way.
why does this happen to you. i mean guys seeming like they not interested?
just a question, nothing meant by it just trying to figure it out
You’re asking me to give you answers that I don’t know. Only the guys involved would know their reasons for not being interested. C’mon you see me asking these questions and get given 100’s of possible answers but we’ll never know exactly what each persons reason is.
what kind of pie?
It’s an idiom, an idiom is a phrase or an expression that has a figurative, or sometimes literal meaning. To have my finger in pies is to have an interest in or be involved in everything, in my case I’m referring to men. "
oh,,so why mention pies  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some people like to play games, I don't know the lead-up to your meets, but perhaps they were fantasists or lacked confidence. What every their reason shouldn't dictate how you feel. Yes, it's good the recharge and not speak to people. I traveled around alone a few times. But do it on your terms. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yesterday that dude who gave me his number blocked me on WhatsApp, the soldier I met last year who connected me again last month deleted his profile on here. A guy that I’ve met twice and supposed to be meeting again literally feels like he has zero interest in me, but although I felt a bit bummed yesterday, it actually doesn’t matter. I’ve put it all to bed. Now there’s no one on the cards, I’ve removed my finger from some pies and it just feels calmer.
Does anyone else prefer it if they’re just not speaking to anyone, like no one can let you down then and everything is just chilled?
Sometimes it is nice to be just browsing fab with no ulterior motive other than to read the forums. "
Read yes, but if you start participating shit may hit the fans. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Some people like to play games, I don't know the lead-up to your meets, but perhaps they were fantasists or lacked confidence. What every their reason shouldn't dictate how you feel. Yes, it's good the recharge and not speak to people. I traveled around alone a few times. But do it on your terms."
No no. These were a personal from the real world who gave his number but then blocked me. A guy I was meeting last year many times who contacted me again a month ago to meet but has since deleted his profile and someone I’ve alrwady met twice and was going to meet again but he doesn’t seem interested. All these are real people and completely separate to the fantasists and fakes, I can sniff them out straight away. |
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Everyone tends to be happier when I’m not speaking 
Hooves, you’re a beautiful complex creature and I adore you. I gotta tell you though. Stop looking for him, it’s gonna drive you batshit. He’ll find you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I became less stressed when I gave up on trying to meet someone.
I'm OK with my own company but bored of living like a sexless nun and also bored of NSA
There seems to be no happy medium  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No no. These were a personal from the real world who gave his number but then blocked me. A guy I was meeting last year many times who contacted me again a month ago to meet but has since deleted his profile and someone I’ve alrwady met twice and was going to meet again but he doesn’t seem interested. All these are real people and completely separate to the fantasists and fakes, I can sniff them out straight away. "
Well what ever problems they had are theirs. It can be hard sometimes and we are all human but we are only ever in control of ourselves, try not to let others effect you. We never know what is going on with other people. Sorry, hopeless at trying to cheer people up. but yes it is nice to have some me time and two fingers up o the world. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Although I chat occasionally to some very lovely ladies on here that, through our mutual circumstances/preferences, I will never meet I have come to the conclusion that the chances of meeting anyone at all from here is so unlikely as to be not worth pursuing. So I just chat and take the piss in the forums, which is far less taxing.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Did the swimming pool guy reply to you???
I answered that in the very first sentence of this thread. "
Sorry. I didn’t realise he gave you his number too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sometimes I just don't feel like answering everyone and just go quiet for a few days....  "
I'm like that on here sometimes. If I have a brain fog few days I can't string a sentence together
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"Yesterday that dude who gave me his number blocked me on WhatsApp, the soldier I met last year who connected me again last month deleted his profile on here. A guy that I’ve met twice and supposed to be meeting again literally feels like he has zero interest in me, but although I felt a bit bummed yesterday, it actually doesn’t matter. I’ve put it all to bed. Now there’s no one on the cards, I’ve removed my finger from some pies and it just feels calmer.
Does anyone else prefer it if they’re just not speaking to anyone, like no one can let you down then and everything is just chilled?"
You need an abundant mindset. |
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
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"Sometimes I just don't feel like answering everyone and just go quiet for a few days....
I'm like that on here sometimes. If I have a brain fog few days I can't string a sentence together
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Sorry-got brain fog, going offline for a few days. Sounds like a great status update. |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"Yesterday that dude who gave me his number blocked me on WhatsApp, the soldier I met last year who connected me again last month deleted his profile on here. A guy that I’ve met twice and supposed to be meeting again literally feels like he has zero interest in me, but although I felt a bit bummed yesterday, it actually doesn’t matter. I’ve put it all to bed. Now there’s no one on the cards, I’ve removed my finger from some pies and it just feels calmer.
Does anyone else prefer it if they’re just not speaking to anyone, like no one can let you down then and everything is just chilled?"
Nahh..i'm chilled pretty much most of the time |
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"Sometimes I just don't feel like answering everyone and just go quiet for a few days....
I'm like that on here sometimes. If I have a brain fog few days I can't string a sentence together
Sorry-got brain fog, going offline for a few days. Sounds like a great status update. "
I usually apologise for getting behind on mail, but sometimes I read the forums without chatting, it just gets overwhelming. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sometimes I just don't feel like answering everyone and just go quiet for a few days....
I'm like that on here sometimes. If I have a brain fog few days I can't string a sentence together
Sorry-got brain fog, going offline for a few days. Sounds like a great status update. "
People would message me to ask what brain fog is or to tell me they have a "special" cure for it.
I hide my profile and sit under a rock. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yesterday that dude who gave me his number blocked me on WhatsApp, the soldier I met last year who connected me again last month deleted his profile on here. A guy that I’ve met twice and supposed to be meeting again literally feels like he has zero interest in me, but although I felt a bit bummed yesterday, it actually doesn’t matter. I’ve put it all to bed. Now there’s no one on the cards, I’ve removed my finger from some pies and it just feels calmer.
Does anyone else prefer it if they’re just not speaking to anyone, like no one can let you down then and everything is just chilled?"
Yes I like that, think that's when someone comes along, when you least expect it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't say I was happier when not speaking to someone, but I go through phases sometimes I speak to a lot of people with a view to meeting up and then I go through times when I'm quite happy not to.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I talk to myself. Constantly, I wish I could ghost myself.
There was a time when my family stopped speaking. My life became a lot more easier then too, so yes I could agree, some people out of your lives can be a blessing. |
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