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Not the size but how you use it.
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By *sianManc OP Man
over a year ago
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For the ladies this one.
You always hear women sometimes say it's not the size that matters but how the guy uses his cock.
Of cos there are size queens here for whom size matters and this isn't for them.
I simply want to know how are the ways you enjoy it when you refer to "it's how the guy uses the cock that matters"
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over a year ago
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"It's defo not size that matters. Most girls I've been with say mine hurts so it can be very awkward. Would prefer a smaller one "
Cause that's a bloody weapon!  |
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over a year ago
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"It's defo not size that matters. Most girls I've been with say mine hurts so it can be very awkward. Would prefer a smaller one
Cause that's a bloody weapon! "
Its not a bragging thing believe me. Its caused more problems than positives |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I use my french stick to lure lady into butt fucking behind Lidl.
Gosh that is some stick you have,it looks tasty mind. Let me have a nibble."
It does look like some nice bread.
I’d imagine it’s delicious with some apricot jam |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I use my french stick to lure lady into butt fucking behind Lidl.
Gosh that is some stick you have,it looks tasty mind. Let me have a nibble."
Do you want me to spread Nutella on it first ? Or you prefer it raw? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I use my french stick to lure lady into butt fucking behind Lidl.
Gosh that is some stick you have,it looks tasty mind. Let me have a nibble.
It does look like some nice bread.
I’d imagine it’s delicious with some apricot jam "
Making the jam as we speak ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I use my french stick to lure lady into butt fucking behind Lidl.
Gosh that is some stick you have,it looks tasty mind. Let me have a nibble.
It does look like some nice bread.
I’d imagine it’s delicious with some apricot jam
Making the jam as we speak ! "
T-shirt not ironed. #Disappointed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I use my french stick to lure lady into butt fucking behind Lidl.
Gosh that is some stick you have,it looks tasty mind. Let me have a nibble.
It does look like some nice bread.
I’d imagine it’s delicious with some apricot jam
Making the jam as we speak !
T-shirt not ironed. #Disappointed"
Haha I knew that someone would spot that on !! Well I had a long day yesterday ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I use my french stick to lure lady into butt fucking behind Lidl.
Gosh that is some stick you have,it looks tasty mind. Let me have a nibble.
It does look like some nice bread.
I’d imagine it’s delicious with some apricot jam
Making the jam as we speak !
T-shirt not ironed. #Disappointed
Haha I knew that someone would spot that on !! Well I had a long day yesterday ! "
Not as long as that baguette! Badum tss... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I use my french stick to lure lady into butt fucking behind Lidl.
Gosh that is some stick you have,it looks tasty mind. Let me have a nibble.
It does look like some nice bread.
I’d imagine it’s delicious with some apricot jam
Making the jam as we speak !
T-shirt not ironed. #Disappointed
Haha I knew that someone would spot that on !! Well I had a long day yesterday !
Not as long as that baguette! Badum tss..."
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"I use my french stick to lure lady into butt fucking behind Lidl.
Gosh that is some stick you have,it looks tasty mind. Let me have a nibble.
Do you want me to spread Nutella on it first ? Or you prefer it raw? "
Just a bit of butter would be great. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For the ladies this one.
You always hear women sometimes say it's not the size that matters but how the guy uses his cock.
Of cos there are size queens here for whom size matters and this isn't for them.
I simply want to know how are the ways you enjoy it when you refer to "it's how the guy uses the cock that matters"
Thanks"
Respect. Spark. Can't describe it. 
Size matters to some people. Some prefer not big. |
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"I use my french stick to lure lady into butt fucking behind Lidl.
Gosh that is some stick you have,it looks tasty mind. Let me have a nibble.
Do you want me to spread Nutella on it first ? Or you prefer it raw? "
It looks a bit crusty too me  |
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"I use my french stick to lure lady into butt fucking behind Lidl.
Gosh that is some stick you have,it looks tasty mind. Let me have a nibble.
Do you want me to spread Nutella on it first ? Or you prefer it raw?
Just a bit of butter would be great."
Last tango? |
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Size and technique matter.
There's no good flopping out a marrow if you keep poking it in someone's belly button.
You can be great at technique but with a tiddler you aren't going to have much effect and lots of finger n tongue will have to go into the mix. |
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over a year ago
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I’m not sure what makes a guy better than next man but I do know the best sex and by best I mean most skilful pleasure giver was a guy who had a 6 inch penis.
I remember him dragging me by my legs down towards the foot of the bed where he was standing, he literally just held my legs open to enter me, started pumping without any special technique I can describe and I just cum everywhere, like when he pulled his dick out this gush came out of me. Never done it before (this was 2014) never done it since. This wasn’t like an ‘is it piss is it squirt’ g spot stimulation, this was just pure orgasm liquid was different but yeah he was a fucking mazing rub. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What makes one guy's cock better than the others isn't the size of it. Its the fact that he doesn't think its the only weapon in his armoury. "
My love ‘torpedo’ is more like USA threatening Russia with Nukes. Once I fire it, it’s over for both of us.  |
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"I use my french stick to lure lady into butt fucking behind Lidl.
Gosh that is some stick you have,it looks tasty mind. Let me have a nibble.
Do you want me to spread Nutella on it first ? Or you prefer it raw?
It looks a bit crusty too me "
Nawt wrong with a crusty knob Frisky.
Once again word's I've never said before. |
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Ideally, for research purposes of course, one would need a line up of varying cock sizes to try out in different positions before answering this question.....
Peach x |
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"I’m not sure what makes a guy better than next man but I do know the best sex and by best I mean most skilful pleasure giver was a guy who had a 6 inch penis.
I remember him dragging me by my legs down towards the foot of the bed where he was standing, he literally just held my legs open to enter me, started pumping without any special technique I can describe and I just cum everywhere, like when he pulled his dick out this gush came out of me. Never done it before (this was 2014) never done it since. This wasn’t like an ‘is it piss is it squirt’ g spot stimulation, this was just pure orgasm liquid was different but yeah he was a fucking mazing rub. "
So...that beggers the question why until recently have you been so obsessed with size. Sounds hot though,I love some big guy (tall not winky size) pulling me by my legs to the edge of the bed. |
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Size does matter, but it doesn't mean it has to be huge, as Goldilocks would say not "too big" not "too small" but "just right" and what's 'just right' will vary for each woman!
It's also about technique but again good sex/technique is so individual. It's about reading the signs and adjusting your technique for what's working with that person (hence why sex gets better over time the more you do it with the same person imo)
Plus as _icecouple561 have said it's not just about the cock. It's about pleasuring a woman in a multiple of ways! |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"Size does matter, but it doesn't mean it has to be huge, as Goldilocks would say not "too big" not "too small" but "just right" and what's 'just right' will vary for each woman!
It's also about technique but again good sex/technique is so individual. It's about reading the signs and adjusting your technique for what's working with that person (hence why sex gets better over time the more you do it with the same person imo)
Plus as _icecouple561 have said it's not just about the cock. It's about pleasuring a woman in a multiple of ways!"
You must of met the same woman who said I had a goldilocks cock. |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"What makes one guy's cock better than the others isn't the size of it. Its the fact that he doesn't think its the only weapon in his armoury. "
Fingers & Tongue too but no bag of tools. Don't need them.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Doesn't matter you use it if it's not big.
I'm not going to break rocks with a little hammer.
You want a job doing right, you need the right man and his tools |
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"What makes one guy's cock better than the others isn't the size of it. Its the fact that he doesn't think its the only weapon in his armoury. "
THIS....above all else....
That said,
Yes, a longer cock can reach better, but if all he can do is reach, you're better off with a toy you can control...reach isn't gonna matter if he can't hit the right spots. As someone else mentioned, a shorter guy that has good rhythm(here's to any drummers out there) and can thrust well is going to be better than a longer guy that doesn't.
There's a reason that the phrase
"It's not the size of the ship, its the motion in the ocean" exists... and it has NOTHING to do with marine vessels... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m not sure what makes a guy better than next man but I do know the best sex and by best I mean most skilful pleasure giver was a guy who had a 6 inch penis.
I remember him dragging me by my legs down towards the foot of the bed where he was standing, he literally just held my legs open to enter me, started pumping without any special technique I can describe and I just cum everywhere, like when he pulled his dick out this gush came out of me. Never done it before (this was 2014) never done it since. This wasn’t like an ‘is it piss is it squirt’ g spot stimulation, this was just pure orgasm liquid was different but yeah he was a fucking mazing rub.
So...that beggers the question why until recently have you been so obsessed with size. Sounds hot though,I love some big guy (tall not winky size) pulling me by my legs to the edge of the bed."
Aesthetics, on here without any prior interaction things had to be perfect from the start to even want the urge to meet a person.
That guy was off my old fitness forum, had flirted for about 18 months before I even met him. I already wanted to fuck him before any fucking even occurred.
I do like a big willy but ultimately if I like the person already then it doesn’t matter. |
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"I never know someone's size I wouldn't have a clue,do you woman measure them or something?"
Good question.... neither do I, except using a specific someone as a point of reference(ie: bigger than, smaller than, snit the same as...)
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I never know someone's size I wouldn't have a clue,do you woman measure them or something?"
I can tell the length and circumference of a penis from a picture. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I never know someone's size I wouldn't have a clue,do you woman measure them or something?
I can tell the length and circumference of a penis from a picture.
It's a gift that."
I’m also good at wallpapering, like I can look at a wall and know exactly how many drops to a roll I’d need even with a complicated pattern. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I never know someone's size I wouldn't have a clue,do you woman measure them or something?
I can tell the length and circumference of a penis from a picture.
It's a gift that.
I’m also good at wallpapering, like I can look at a wall and know exactly how many drops to a roll I’d need even with a complicated pattern. "
Random skills/ gifts. That would be a good thread. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am only 6,5 but can still get girls to cum. Size matters only with certain positions. Some positions reduce the depth I can go, so having a longer one would help. I think girth is where it’s at |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hubby is average ..never had a complaint and he can fill me up to the point of hurting. Had a huge guy once and he didn’t have a clue. I’ve always found girth more important than length and hubby covers that base ..just my observations .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For the ladies this one.
You always hear women sometimes say it's not the size that matters but how the guy uses his cock.
Of cos there are size queens here for whom size matters and this isn't for them.
I simply want to know how are the ways you enjoy it when you refer to "it's how the guy uses the cock that matters"
Thanks"
Properly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Initially it's perception, a larger penis is well... larger, so it naturally gives the impression it is going to have more effect regardless of technique. Which it probably will assuming equal technique used when comparing to a smaller penis.
Technique and just knowing a woman's (or man's) body is going to make up for a lot more when it really counts though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Always hear women"  It's mostly guys making posts about dick sizes
There's nothing you can do about what you were given so just work with what you've got
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am only 6,5 but can still get girls to cum. Size matters only with certain positions. Some positions reduce the depth I can go, so having a longer one would help. I think girth is where it’s at"
Why 'only' 6.5? That's above average.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ideally, for research purposes of course, one would need a line up of varying cock sizes to try out in different positions before answering this question.....
Peach x"
I'll volunteer |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ideally, for research purposes of course, one would need a line up of varying cock sizes to try out in different positions before answering this question.....
Peach x
I'll volunteer "
You're already in my line up 
Peach x |
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"Ideally, for research purposes of course, one would need a line up of varying cock sizes to try out in different positions before answering this question.....
Peach x
I'll volunteer
You're already in my line up
Peach x"
Be gentle with him Peach, I need him back in one piece |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"I am only 6,5 but can still get girls to cum. Size matters only with certain positions. Some positions reduce the depth I can go, so having a longer one would help. I think girth is where it’s at
Why 'only' 6.5? That's above average. "
This site will do that to a man. |
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I've had a big cock, attached to a man who was basically 'there it is; i don't have to do anything else but lie back...'
and a small cock who went overboard with overenthusiastic use of a vibrator to make up for his size (he made me bleed...)
'normal' size works perfect for me; and it helps if i like the bloke i can forgive almost anything then... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am only 6,5 but can still get girls to cum. Size matters only with certain positions. Some positions reduce the depth I can go, so having a longer one would help. I think girth is where it’s at
Why 'only' 6.5? That's above average. This site will do that to a man. "
Thank you for that comment and yes, this site with the size greedy ladies out there sure make it hard to be confident in the average size lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am only 6,5 but can still get girls to cum. Size matters only with certain positions. Some positions reduce the depth I can go, so having a longer one would help. I think girth is where it’s at
Why 'only' 6.5? That's above average. This site will do that to a man.
Thank you for that comment and yes, this site with the size greedy ladies out there sure make it hard to be confident in the average size lol"
Know the feeling, I think the vast majority definitely have a much broader preference on size. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Size matters. FACT.end of.
But what size. I need to know  "
I think this is actually the more universal question. At what size does the person you are with consider enough.
Because from the responses and experiences the answer is not always bigger is better. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I use my french stick to lure lady into butt fucking behind Lidl.
Let me play with your french stick and make you crumb. "
Careful, some French sticks are know to crumb quickly and often. |
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"Size matters. FACT.end of.
But what size. I need to know
I think this is actually the more universal question. At what size does the person you are with consider enough.
Because from the responses and experiences the answer is not always bigger is better. "
I was talking about shoes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Size matters. FACT.end of.
But what size. I need to know
I think this is actually the more universal question. At what size does the person you are with consider enough.
Because from the responses and experiences the answer is not always bigger is better.
I was talking about shoes. "
Haha but that then relates to size of feet and we all know what they say about the size of a man's feet... They need big shoes. Eventually making its way back to penis size. Is that not what the world revolves around? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I use my french stick to lure lady into butt fucking behind Lidl.
Let me play with your french stick and make you crumb.
Careful, some French sticks are know to crumb quickly and often. "
Or go stale..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am only 6,5 but can still get girls to cum. Size matters only with certain positions. Some positions reduce the depth I can go, so having a longer one would help. I think girth is where it’s at"
bit young for fab aint ya |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Size matters. FACT.end of. "
No, it doesn’t . The guy with the 9” cock that couldn’t last a minute before cumming didn’t satisfy my needs ..hubby is smaller than that does it every time ...using your logic, I should have been fainting at the sight of the bigger member. Technique and the ability to control oneself are a “bigger” factor...
The size of the engine doesn’t always make a quicker car. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mines around 6inches and really thick when hard.
Women like it, it’s how you use it and size I guess.
Some ladies can take it deep, some can’t and will get damaged internally with a big penis.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Size matters. FACT.end of.
But what size. I need to know
I think this is actually the more universal question. At what size does the person you are with consider enough.
Because from the responses and experiences the answer is not always bigger is better. "
It definitely isn't. I don't like big dicks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Size matters. FACT.end of.
But what size. I need to know
I think this is actually the more universal question. At what size does the person you are with consider enough.
Because from the responses and experiences the answer is not always bigger is better.
It definitely isn't. I don't like big dicks. "
Loving it, thank you. Us average cock size guys appreciate it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Size matters. FACT.end of.
But what size. I need to know
I think this is actually the more universal question. At what size does the person you are with consider enough.
Because from the responses and experiences the answer is not always bigger is better.
It definitely isn't. I don't like big dicks.
Loving it, thank you. Us average cock size guys appreciate it"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Size matters. FACT.end of.
But what size. I need to know
I think this is actually the more universal question. At what size does the person you are with consider enough.
Because from the responses and experiences the answer is not always bigger is better.
It definitely isn't. I don't like big dicks.
Loving it, thank you. Us average cock size guys appreciate it"
I second that thank you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would think quite a few ladies could have a go at describing their perfect cock ... and men have a good go at describing the perfect pussy to themselves. Thing is they would all be different. There is no one size fits all.
Viva la difference ! |
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By *sianManc OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester |
"Is that a contradiction
“You always hear women sometimes say”
I would say size matters but also how you use it and by that I mean lots of deep thrusts, different positions and lots of energy  "
No not at all.
Thank you for the answer it's helpful let's see what the women said now. |
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By *sianManc OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester |
"Size does matter, but it doesn't mean it has to be huge, as Goldilocks would say not "too big" not "too small" but "just right" and what's 'just right' will vary for each woman!
It's also about technique but again good sex/technique is so individual. It's about reading the signs and adjusting your technique for what's working with that person (hence why sex gets better over time the more you do it with the same person imo)
Plus as _icecouple561 have said it's not just about the cock. It's about pleasuring a woman in a multiple of ways!"
Thank you for the answer. |
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By *sianManc OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester |
"What makes one guy's cock better than the others isn't the size of it. Its the fact that he doesn't think its the only weapon in his armoury.
THIS....above all else....
That said,
Yes, a longer cock can reach better, but if all he can do is reach, you're better off with a toy you can control...reach isn't gonna matter if he can't hit the right spots. As someone else mentioned, a shorter guy that has good rhythm(here's to any drummers out there) and can thrust well is going to be better than a longer guy that doesn't.
There's a reason that the phrase
"It's not the size of the ship, its the motion in the ocean" exists... and it has NOTHING to do with marine vessels..."
Thank you for the answer.
First woman to actually explain in some detail so I appreciate that.
So its rhythm that works for the female being screwed and it's the thrusting it rather someone that can thrust well.
So what is thrusting well anybody? |
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By *sianManc OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester |
""Always hear women" It's mostly guys making posts about dick sizes
There's nothing you can do about what you were given so just work with what you've got
C"
I think you're quoting me..for me to address it I would need confirmation so next time please use quote with reply. Thank you |
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By *sianManc OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester |
"Size matters. FACT.end of.
No, it doesn’t . The guy with the 9” cock that couldn’t last a minute before cumming didn’t satisfy my needs ..hubby is smaller than that does it every time ...using your logic, I should have been fainting at the sight of the bigger member. Technique and the ability to control oneself are a “bigger” factor...
The size of the engine doesn’t always make a quicker car. "
Thank you so here we have technique and the ability to control oneself. |
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By *sianManc OP Man
over a year ago
Manchester |
So as you can see above I tried to focus only on those females that actually answers my question.
Unfortunately none of the answers were specific but it is what I expected but hoped not to get.
Men have always wondered what is the technique that works.
Women I have met both on this site and away from this site have always said it's technique but never ever have they been able to clearly explain or define that said technique that works for them.
From this I can only conclude women themselves don't know but are simply aware once someone does something that works or doesn't.
Women are a complex species where from the many replies above it's clear it's not only about the sex but about their moods and their desires at that time as well as how they perceive sex will go at that time.
In conclusion all I can surmise is that there is no answer that a woman can give to this question and for men to simply learn to get into a rhythm that female wants and to only last as long as she requires you to.
Technique well unless you ask the female and she's knows which so far no woman ever has then it's best not to worry about it.
If any female can answer the post in clarity you will be the first and I perhaps all would appreciate it.
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over a year ago
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"So as you can see above I tried to focus only on those females that actually answers my question.
Unfortunately none of the answers were specific but it is what I expected but hoped not to get.
Men have always wondered what is the technique that works.
Women I have met both on this site and away from this site have always said it's technique but never ever have they been able to clearly explain or define that said technique that works for them.
From this I can only conclude women themselves don't know but are simply aware once someone does something that works or doesn't.
Women are a complex species where from the many replies above it's clear it's not only about the sex but about their moods and their desires at that time as well as how they perceive sex will go at that time.
In conclusion all I can surmise is that there is no answer that a woman can give to this question and for men to simply learn to get into a rhythm that female wants and to only last as long as she requires you to.
Technique well unless you ask the female and she's knows which so far no woman ever has then it's best not to worry about it.
If any female can answer the post in clarity you will be the first and I perhaps all would appreciate it.
Thanks "
Ps: excuse any and all typos. My phone has a tendency to try and make me both illegible and incomprehensible haha I believe it's a paroxysm of rage it manifests from jealousy lol |
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Size does matter to a certain extent. If someone is very small, that can be an issue. The same with VWE. Average or well endowed do tend to come down to techinique though... and positions. I do like it rather rough, so someone who is sensual and gentle during sex, doesn't turn me on. Someone who has a great solid thrust technique and is able to keep the momentum going, does it for me. In complete honesty, my best sex was with a man who was 6". His technique was out of this world and still think about it 2 years later. I tell him he was in the top 3.... dont want to give him a big head
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Hear it for me (unless they’ve all been lying to me).
....I don’t know what they’d class my size. But, it’s always done the job.
NB: I have small hands and feet.
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"So as you can see above I tried to focus only on those females that actually answers my question.
Unfortunately none of the answers were specific but it is what I expected but hoped not to get.
Men have always wondered what is the technique that works.
Women I have met both on this site and away from this site have always said it's technique but never ever have they been able to clearly explain or define that said technique that works for them.
From this I can only conclude women themselves don't know but are simply aware once someone does something that works or doesn't.
Women are a complex species where from the many replies above it's clear it's not only about the sex but about their moods and their desires at that time as well as how they perceive sex will go at that time.
In conclusion all I can surmise is that there is no answer that a woman can give to this question and for men to simply learn to get into a rhythm that female wants and to only last as long as she requires you to.
Technique well unless you ask the female and she's knows which so far no woman ever has then it's best not to worry about it.
If any female can answer the post in clarity you will be the first and I perhaps all would appreciate it.
Thanks "
All women are different. There is no single answer that will fit everyone. Some like hard thrusting and some hate it. Some like oral and some don't.
etc
Ask her what she likes.
Always remember though that some women expect the man to be psychic and know exactly what she wants. In messaging, sex, life, everything. You'll never win with those types! |
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Trying to define a 'technique' for sex is a bit mechanical though is it not. Its not like fixing a car or a boiler when everything has to be done the same way in the same order or it won't work.
Sex is more organic (and orgasmic) you listen and feel to how the other responds, and heaven forbid talk and see if they like it. Its never going to be 10 pumps hard, then a little stroke of my bum before 12.5 thrusts deep, hang on one to less there, go again.
It shouldnt need analysing |
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Every size has it's advantages and disadvantages, and yes, IMO some will be too small and some will be too large for any one particular woman.
But women want and need different techniques anyway, even the same woman wants and needs different things at different times.....so whilst I would say being roughly the right size matters, the most important thing is always to have the right feel, to be able to sense the mood and interpret the physical responses, to read her body and adapt accordingly. |
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"What makes one guy's cock better than the others isn't the size of it. Its the fact that he doesn't think its the only weapon in his armoury.
THIS....above all else....
That said,
Yes, a longer cock can reach better, but if all he can do is reach, you're better off with a toy you can control...reach isn't gonna matter if he can't hit the right spots. As someone else mentioned, a shorter guy that has good rhythm(here's to any drummers out there) and can thrust well is going to be better than a longer guy that doesn't.
There's a reason that the phrase
"It's not the size of the ship, its the motion in the ocean" exists... and it has NOTHING to do with marine vessels...
Thank you for the answer.
First woman to actually explain in some detail so I appreciate that.
So its rhythm that works for the female being screwed and it's the thrusting it rather someone that can thrust well.
So what is thrusting well anybody?"
Glad I could help some...
A big part of thrusting well has to do with him able to read my responses, physical & verbal. I consider myself extremely communicative during sex. If he hits the right spot, I'll tell him to stay there, if he's good, he's going to continue to hit that exact spot...same goes for if I tell him to change places or I wince/get tense & he keeps going back there, he's not great at thrusting.
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"Trying to define a 'technique' for sex is a bit mechanical though is it not. Its not like fixing a car or a boiler when everything has to be done the same way in the same order or it won't work.
Sex is more organic (and orgasmic) you listen and feel to how the other responds, and heaven forbid talk and see if they like it. Its never going to be 10 pumps hard, then a little stroke of my bum before 12.5 thrusts deep, hang on one to less there, go again.
It shouldnt need analysing "
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