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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So, a quite a lot of females I've (f) spoken to say they don't like giving them or blatantly refuse. I don't really understand this at all, am I the only one?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My ex never used to i had about 20 until this year

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By *harpDressed ManMan over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My ex never used to i had about 20 until this year"
last year even grrrr4

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By *harpDressed ManMan over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"So, a quite a lot of females I've (f) spoken to say they don't like giving them or blatantly refuse. I don't really understand this at all, am I the only one?

You're not the only one.

Men don't understand this at all...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What is it exactly you don't under stand? ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not everyone likes putting their mouths on genitals.

So many men think it's a given and expect it but don't reciprocate.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"So, a quite a lot of females I've (f) spoken to say they don't like giving them or blatantly refuse. I don't really understand this at all, am I the only one?

You're not the only one.

Men don't understand this at all..."

I don't understand what a so terrible about it, just made me a tad curious of other people's opinions.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some men don't like giving oral do you understand that?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love giving bjs, couldn’t do without it if I’m honest

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So, a quite a lot of females I've (f) spoken to say they don't like giving them or blatantly refuse. I don't really understand this at all, am I the only one?

You're not the only one.

Men don't understand this at all...

I don't understand what a so terrible about it, just made me a tad curious of other people's onions."
keep off the onions but eat my sausage

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"What is it exactly you don't under stand? ?"

Why people think it's so terrible, they couldn't give reasoning why, but found it was more common than expected

I get everyone has their own preferences just didn't expect how common it was

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS over a year ago

west here ford shire

Both my wives didn’t like doing it, I love doing it as part of a threesome or tvs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What is it exactly you don't under stand? ?

Why people think it's so terrible, they couldn't give reasoning why, but found it was more common than expected

I get everyone has their own preferences just didn't expect how common it was "

Some people dont like cheese i guess

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"So, a quite a lot of females I've (f) spoken to say they don't like giving them or blatantly refuse. I don't really understand this at all, am I the only one?

You're not the only one.

Men don't understand this at all...

I don't understand what a so terrible about it, just made me a tad curious of other people's onions.keep off the onions but eat my sausage

Haha bloody predictive text... I hate onions too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So, a quite a lot of females I've (f) spoken to say they don't like giving them or blatantly refuse. I don't really understand this at all, am I the only one?

You're not the only one.

Men don't understand this at all...

I don't understand what a so terrible about it, just made me a tad curious of other people's onions.keep off the onions but eat my sausage

Haha bloody predictive text... I hate onions too

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its ok but il still let ya im nice like that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Noooo I love giving a sloppy BJ

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I love giving bjs, couldn’t do without it if I’m honest "

This is my thought exactly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm yet to meet a lady that doesn't enjoy giving head...always return the favour of course!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I love giving bjs, couldn’t do without it if I’m honest

This is my thought exactly

There are still a few of us out there

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bit like me saying I don't understand you hAve no meets or veris

I guess we are all different

If I were a woman I would want a bi curious man's willy in my mouth or pussy

I'd be constantly thinking omg this has been in a man's bum

Spose it's like food sone like some things that others detest

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By *teveanddebsCouple over a year ago

Norwich

You only need to look at some of the cock pics on here to understand why some women won't suck them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

People may lack confidence in their own abilities, or they may have had unpleasant experiences in the past, possibly nonconsensual or with cocks that stank because of the owner's bad diet or poor hygiene.

There are men who don't like giving oral too.

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By *aveyIOM1970Man over a year ago

douglas

"Some men don't like giving oral do you understand that?"

Shocked that men don’t return the compliment.

69 is the best

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Bit like me saying I don't understand you hAve no meets or veris

I guess we are all different

If I were a woman I would want a bi curious man's willy in my mouth or pussy

I'd be constantly thinking omg this has been in a man's bum

Spose it's like food sone like some things that others detest

We've only met one person from fab and he deleted his profile before we met, so just kept in touch via kik. But that has nothing to do with the subject. I said I understand people's preferences ECT I didn't know it was a common thing, only one person from a group of 10 women said they enjoyed it.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

Love giving a good blow job.....and I give a fucking good one!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some men don't like giving oral do you understand that?

Shocked that men don’t return the compliment.

69 is the best

Personally I hate 69! So uncomfortable and would rather concentrate on enjoying either giving or receiving

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By *ocketman20Man over a year ago

Douglas

"You only need to look at some of the cock pics on here to understand why some women won't suck them."

This is a very good reason. I enjoy sucking a cock that looks, feels and most importantly smells good to me, even if I don’t find the bloke facially attractive.

Equally if a lady doesn’t want to perform oral then that’s cool with me. Yes I really enjoy it, but I also enjoy a lot of things that don’t happen usually when I have sex.

However OP, I know what you mean if you’ve been in a relationship where it’s scarce and now getting a lot of oral then you’re probably wondering why not!

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Bad past experiences, demanding and selfish lovers, or that they just don't want to.

I love giving oral, but thought I didn't because of the first two. I remain perturbed when the favour isn't returned, though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You only need to look at some of the cock pics on here to understand why some women won't suck them."

True dat, and the same is probably true of men and some of the pussy shots.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So, a quite a lot of females I've (f) spoken to say they don't like giving them or blatantly refuse. I don't really understand this at all, am I the only one?

I love to give and receive and so far all my meets have had verrry big ticks for this

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By *ade and VanessaCouple over a year ago

Central Scotland

People like and don't like all kinds of different things. If you're planning to meet with someone then you either need to accept it or move on.

For me, I hated it until this year

and that's been a slow process. Still no chance I'm going to try to deep throat anyone and the sloppy bj thing is still a hard no. Bad experiences last a long time.

V x

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Oh, and anyone who thinks blowjobs involve deep throat, particularly without the consent of the person giving. Blow job yes, struggling to breathe and vomiting no.

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By *aveyIOM1970Man over a year ago

douglas

"Some men don't like giving oral do you understand that?

Shocked that men don’t return the compliment.

69 is the best

Personally I hate 69! So uncomfortable and would rather concentrate on enjoying either giving or receiving "

Fair enough, each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh, and anyone who thinks blowjobs involve deep throat, particularly without the consent of the person giving. Blow job yes, struggling to breathe and vomiting no. "

Unfortunately a lot of people's "experience" seems to have come from porn

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Bad past experiences, demanding and selfish lovers, or that they just don't want to.

I love giving oral, but thought I didn't because of the first two. I remain perturbed when the favour isn't returned, though. "

Hmm I see why women would be put off, my friend has never done it and just says she never would. Each to their own I guess

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There was a whole post on this on a social media site the other week moaning about giving blow jobs.

Personally I love to give. Especially if he is freshly showered and trimmed. I could and have literally spent hours teasing with my tongue. It's one of my favorite things to do if I'm totally honest. And seeing his reaction as he's enjoying it, feeling his cock harden as he's about to cum and feeling it pulsate as he is cumming. I love nothing more

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"People like and don't like all kinds of different things. If you're planning to meet with someone then you either need to accept it or move on.

For me, I hated it until this year

and that's been a slow process. Still no chance I'm going to try to deep throat anyone and the sloppy bj thing is still a hard no. Bad experiences last a long time.

V x"

Oh really, interesting. I genuinely didn't realise how common it was, I had someone tell me they only did it on their anniversary as a treat to their husband. Perhaps I've been brainwashed by the other half that it's common! Haha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some men don't like giving oral do you understand that?"

Thats some booty

I mean, yup I agree

Most people do enjoy oral sex but some dont. Same as everything else

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There are some ugly cocks out there

so it might just be a polite way of them saying that they don’t like doing it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Love giving or receiving oral. It is just so erotic and slightly ritualistic

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There are some ugly cocks out there

so it might just be a polite way of them saying that they don’t like doing it "

Very true, some would put me off sex altogether while others are yummy

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By *oxycouple28Couple over a year ago

bexley

I used to have an ex that didn't exactly refuse. But made it so clear she wasn't enjoying it, I never forced the issue. She might start off for a little while but then we would so something else. I went years without having a blowjob where I actually came from it.

Anyway, when I met Candy she told me she loved giving them. One day she told me she was determined to make me cum. She set about working on me. I thought I came three or four times when I actually hadn't. I then eventually did and my inability has been cleared ever since! I guess it must have been a mental thing...

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Until I joined the swinging scene, I also pretty much only had selfish lovers. I'd rarely orgasm and I was told it was me. (one even complained when I asked him to wash!) Turns out, no, no it's not.

Why should I do a thing, in that context, that gives me no physical pleasure? I resented the expectation that their pleasure was paramount and mine was a burden if it was remembered at all.

I didn't really realise things could be different, just thought that was the toll for sex for women. So blow jobs were rare and grudging in that context.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's like Marmite. You either love it, or hate it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love giving BJ as long as it's on my terms. You can tell me how you like it and what to change and I will happily do it, but as soon as you start choking me with your cock without me giving you permission the night is over and you'll never hear from me again.

Kitten

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There was a whole post on this on a social media site the other week moaning about giving blow jobs.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Until I joined the swinging scene, I also pretty much only had selfish lovers. I'd rarely orgasm and I was told it was me. (one even complained when I asked him to wash!) Turns out, no, no it's not.

Why should I do a thing, in that context, that gives me no physical pleasure? I resented the expectation that their pleasure was paramount and mine was a burden if it was remembered at all.

I didn't really realise things could be different, just thought that was the toll for sex for women. So blow jobs were rare and grudging in that context. "

Yeah having a selfish lover would perhaps do that! Luckily m loves to give so I've never really experienced anything like that. Perhaps I'll dig deeper and ask the women I know why it is they don't like it also. Or wether just like my friend it's just something they've never done.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I used to have an ex that didn't exactly refuse. But made it so clear she wasn't enjoying it, I never forced the issue. She might start off for a little while but then we would so something else. I went years without having a blowjob where I actually came from it.

Candy to the rescue

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By *ed-monkeyCouple over a year ago

Hailsham

As others have said ... you either like it or you don't ... there are plenty of other things that can be explored together. To expect to receive and not reciprocate is a little selfish though.

Personally it's probably one of the most intimate forms of sex between 2 people ... more so than penetrative sex ... but again .. just my opinion (onion)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nope had about 10 in my life not had one in 18 years she hates it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My sister in law gets with a cock in her mouth, so doesn't do it.

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By *lim Jim 69Man over a year ago

Milton Keynes

"Some men don't like giving oral do you understand that?"

its not a good session if i dont go down to eat..

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By *ememberTheNameMan over a year ago

barnsley

"There was a whole post on this on a social media site the other week moaning about giving blow jobs.

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By *alandNitaCouple over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"So, a quite a lot of females I've (f) spoken to say they don't like giving them or blatantly refuse. I don't really understand this at all, am I the only one?

I've never met a women who says they don't suck cock... I knew one lady who would orgasm just from sucking me.

Cal

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By *oserMan over a year ago

where the wild roses grow

"My sister in law gets with a cock in her mouth, so doesn't do it. "

Huh?

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By *oserMan over a year ago

where the wild roses grow

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I know someone who didn’t like giving them but recently discovered after a technique change that she did enjoy them, especially causing her partner to writhe around and cry out in pleasure. Brought a whole new perspective to her.

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By *r MoriartyMan over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

"There was a whole post on this on a social media site the other week moaning about giving blow jobs.

Tbh the only women I would want sucking my cock are ones like you who genuinely enjoy it. There's nothing worse than a half hearted BJ.

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By *ebjonnsonMan over a year ago

Maldon

Every woman that I’ve been ‘intimate ‘ with has enjoyed giving me a BJ. Mind you, I do have a gorgeous cock.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

gorgeous face = gorgeous genitals. i think that's the perception

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There was a whole post on this on a social media site the other week moaning about giving blow jobs.

This

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By *erfectly_ImperfectWoman over a year ago

North

Personally I love sucking cock nothing gets me wetter! I am the minority amongst friends, I only know one other girl who enjoys it as much as I the rest hate it and only do it to please their partners.

I’ve met a couple of guys who don’t like receiving and haven’t even let me attempt to show them how good it can be which saddens me haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Personally I love sucking cock nothing gets me wetter! I am the minority amongst friends, I only know one other girl who enjoys it as much as I the rest hate it and only do it to please their partners.

I’ve met a couple of guys who don’t like receiving and haven’t even let me attempt to show them how good it can be which saddens me haha "

Wow that's crazy isn't it being the minority, I genuinely thought it was common during sex, obviously I was misinformed! I also enjoy it and feel like it adds an element of naughtiness to the act

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By *ensuallover1000Man over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

*waggles willy* ‘Wheyyyy!’

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS over a year ago

west here ford shire

I don’t have much saliva now, I wonder how it affects giving head?

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By *erfectly_ImperfectWoman over a year ago

North

"I don’t have much saliva now, I wonder how it affects giving head?"

Massively nothing worse than dry Oral, always keep a glass or something near you to help or even use it to your advantage.

One glass of cold one cup of hot then you can warm your mouth before going down alternating with the cold. The change in sensation really gets some guys going

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By *erfectly_ImperfectWoman over a year ago

North

I’ve met a couple of guys who don’t like receiving and haven’t even let me attempt to show them how good it can be which saddens me haha

Wow that's crazy isn't it being the minority, I genuinely thought it was common during sex, obviously I was misinformed! I also enjoy it and feel like it adds an element of naughtiness to the act

I think a lot of girls have had bad experiences that have put them off, maybe an overly eager guy with his hands on the back of her head or even just a smelly area which is disgusting and off putting!

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By *entakuruMan over a year ago

Exeter

Somehow I always seem to end up with GF's that don't enjoy receiving oral. I mean, I can deal with that but I really enjoy giving whilst I receive and I'm quite good at it. Split up with the ex in autumn after five yeas, I've not actually gone down on a woman since 2012... Which I'm keen to rectify ASAP...

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By *arry WindsorMan over a year ago

Heaton Park Manchester

Absolutely love giving oral to women.

I could appreciate the reluctance on the part of the lady to reciprocate as obviously hygiene issues play a big part but I've never really had any problems with that score.

Common decency to be clean and fresh isn't it?

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By *iss SJWoman over a year ago

Hull

I love it. I admit I probably don’t suck like a dyson but I have a bloody good go at trying to make it enjoyable for him.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I love it. I admit I probably don’t suck like a dyson but I have a bloody good go at trying to make it enjoyable for him.

"
vax?

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By *iss SJWoman over a year ago

Hull

"I love it. I admit I probably don’t suck like a dyson but I have a bloody good go at trying to make it enjoyable for him.

vax?"

I think some men prefer that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I love it. I admit I probably don’t suck like a dyson but I have a bloody good go at trying to make it enjoyable for him.

vax?

I think some men prefer that

"
il take quality over power so il have kirby

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By *veready69Man over a year ago

PLYMOUTH

"Some men don't like giving oral do you understand that?"

Frankly, no. I love giving oral! Weirdos.....

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By *iss SJWoman over a year ago

Hull

"I love it. I admit I probably don’t suck like a dyson but I have a bloody good go at trying to make it enjoyable for him.

vax?

I think some men prefer that

il take quality over power so il have kirby

Sounds a bit niche to me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I love it. I admit I probably don’t suck like a dyson but I have a bloody good go at trying to make it enjoyable for him.

vax?

I think some men prefer that

il take quality over power so il have kirby

Sounds a bit niche to me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm happy with 69 but don't expect me to get on my knees when you unzip your trousers..

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By *lex46TV/TS over a year ago

Near Wells

"There was a whole post on this on a social media site the other week moaning about giving blow jobs.

I completely agree with this. I love having a cock in my mouth and giving DP as well. I treat it as a challenge to see how far I can go before I gag. Makes me horny just thinking about it

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By *he Mac LassWoman over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Ooh it’s a favourite activity. I can suck and lick and caress a lovely cock for a very long time. Such fun. However it really does depend on the cock. I saw a guy regularly but never went south once. His cock made my jaw dislocate without even trying to attempt it. Ah I miss him

He doesn’t miss my temporo- mandibular disorder though I’m sure.

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By *obyorkMan over a year ago

Keighley

I love giving blow jobs. I love licking, kissing and sucking a nice big hard cock and seeing it spurt its load of cum. I think the only thing I enjoy more is parting a nice pair of pussy lips and running my tongue up a woman, from bumhole to clit.

It's a great feeling to hold a hard cock in your hand and pleasure it with your mouth. In fact, I did exactly that today!

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By *ed PetalCouple over a year ago

Kent

I got put off really soon after becoming sexually active, because guys were trying to shove it down my throat. So I used to put it off and Mr rarely got one. This year we finally started talking more about sex, mostly due to me getting more confident with age and ended up here. Together with that sexual revolution within our relationship, I started liking giving blow jobs. I can’t quite pinpoint why or how that happened though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love giving them. I enjoy seeing how far I can take it and the power of feeling their pleasure and response as I pleasure them. Can’t beat that feeling

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

its amazing how many women dont give blowjobs or do them reluctantly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"its amazing how many women dont give blowjobs or do them reluctantly"

Must admit I wouldn’t do it if I didn’t like it. It’s my favourite thing though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Favourite pastime!

I do know a few ladies who have talked with disgust about BJs but then state they love oral

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

69 dude

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By *lorious hole bs16Man over a year ago

Bristol

As a real cocksucker, many men tell me their female partners dont like sucking cock..

I am so pleased about this as it means more for me!!

Like someone said i couldnt do without it as i am not especialy interested in fucking.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

God I love to give head couldn’t imagine sex or foreplay without it!!! Just not keen on swallowing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I love giving them. I enjoy seeing how far I can take it and the power of feeling their pleasure and response as I pleasure them. Can’t beat that feeling

This

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I love giving them. I enjoy seeing how far I can take it and the power of feeling their pleasure and response as I pleasure them. Can’t beat that feeling

This

Good girl lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There are still some of us “ladies” (and I use the term loosely) that love to have a mouth full of cock, especially when it’s spur if the moment.... there are times when I give for the sake of giving, take for the sake of taking ...spontaneous....it’s the future ...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As long as they havent had garlic in the last 48 hours, i love it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There was a whole post on this on a social media site the other week moaning about giving blow jobs.

Surely if you are doing it for hours then you must be doing it wrong?

Isn't that what men are told?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There was a whole post on this on a social media site the other week moaning about giving blow jobs.

Surely if you are doing it for hours then you must be doing it wrong?

Isn't that what men are told?

She's definitely not doing it wrong

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By *teveanddebsCouple over a year ago

Norwich

"You only need to look at some of the cock pics on here to understand why some women won't suck them.

True dat, and the same is probably true of men and some of the pussy shots. "

Absolutely,

We both enjoy eating pussy but some you look at and think "No, just no"

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By *ribsaMan over a year ago

A box at end of your bed

My ex wife would not give BJs think i may have got 2 or 3 in 14 years we where together.

My new FwB loves to give BJs and is happy to suck my cock for hours which is fine by me

I love to 69 as you cannot hope for BJ if your not going to return the favour.

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By *rGandBunnyCouple over a year ago

Rugby

Popular subject this lol. We both love giving and receiving. Top of the list has to be hygiene, if that is good and the receiver is responsive it can be an amazing experience for both. Personally I love my cock being sucked and have never met a lady who hasn't enjoyed giving, although I have experienced a few ladies who don't like to receive.

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By *r_BlueEyesMan over a year ago

Manchester

"So, a quite a lot of females I've (f) spoken to say they don't like giving them or blatantly refuse. I don't really understand this at all, am I the only one?

I've found this as well. And some of the ones that are in relationships always say 'Oh he gets 2 a year' Birthday & Christmas

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By *ed-monkeyCouple over a year ago

Hailsham

I guess I'm lucky here ... Red's ex husband hated any oral so she had little to no experience ... and a real taboo about receiving

Fortunately all over that now and we both love both giving and receiving

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The first two women I slept with, didn't like giving BJs, so I assumed that was the norm. (Bad experiences with their ex's).

The third had no hesitation in going down but I felt bad, thinking she was only doing it to try and please me.

Turned out, she absolutely loved it and when I shot my load, she swallowed the lot - that blew my mind. (The first two were spitters).

Then, instead of stopping, after making me cum once, she was enjoying it so much, carried on and managed a repeat, a couple of minutes later.

Happily since then, they've all been keen oral fans, including another swallower (toe-curling / head-spinning fabulous).

Obviously not everyone will like doing it anyway - but it seems a shame that bad experiences can ruin what might've otherwise been enjoyed.

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By *ristenloveCouple over a year ago

London

We both love it when my wife blows me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don’t understand either. O moans about a half hearted blowjob a lot. Very common apparently but quite happy to lie back and take the pleasure. We both dislike pillow princesses. But I guess he’s been spoilt as it’s my absolute favourite and give it everything. I love sucking cock

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some women dont give blowjobs?

Wow glad ive never met one!

Mrs Badcherry goes down faster than the titanic

The only thing that goes down quicker than her is me on her hot pussy! #cherrysloveoral

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"I guess I'm lucky here ... Red's ex husband hated any oral so she had little to no experience ... and a real taboo about receiving

Fortunately all over that now and we both love both giving and receiving

My ex hated it too, mind you he hated a lot of things!

So wasn't something I'd done much of & was quite nervous about giving

Think I'm getting it right now though, although one can never have enough practise

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By *ed-monkeyCouple over a year ago

Hailsham

"I guess I'm lucky here ... Red's ex husband hated any oral so she had little to no experience ... and a real taboo about receiving

Fortunately all over that now and we both love both giving and receiving

My ex hated it too, mind you he hated a lot of things!

So wasn't something I'd done much of & was quite nervous about giving

Think I'm getting it right now though, although one can never have enough practise

Well you're not that far from us .... busy? Hahaha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Love giving one (Kitty here).

But I’m in control.. don’t grab my head and force it.. I want control!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I always assumed that people (men and women) that don’t like to give oral usually have that opinion because of hygeine/health/smell issues?

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By *ed-monkeyCouple over a year ago

Hailsham

"Love giving one (Kitty here).

But I’m in control.. don’t grab my head and force it.. I want control!!"

Agree with that

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By *ed-monkeyCouple over a year ago

Hailsham

"I always assumed that people (men and women) that don’t like to give oral usually have that opinion because of hygeine/health/smell issues?

Some of it is parental programming from childhood

"Don't do that it's naughty"

"Don't touch that it's dirty "

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"I guess I'm lucky here ... Red's ex husband hated any oral so she had little to no experience ... and a real taboo about receiving

Fortunately all over that now and we both love both giving and receiving

My ex hated it too, mind you he hated a lot of things!

So wasn't something I'd done much of & was quite nervous about giving

Think I'm getting it right now though, although one can never have enough practise

Well you're not that far from us .... busy? Hahaha"

Oh my!

I hadn't even noticed your location!

Your profile name did make me smile though x

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By *ed-monkeyCouple over a year ago

Hailsham

"I guess I'm lucky here ... Red's ex husband hated any oral so she had little to no experience ... and a real taboo about receiving

Fortunately all over that now and we both love both giving and receiving

My ex hated it too, mind you he hated a lot of things!

So wasn't something I'd done much of & was quite nervous about giving

Think I'm getting it right now though, although one can never have enough practise

Well you're not that far from us .... busy? Hahaha

Oh my!

I hadn't even noticed your location!

Your profile name did make me smile though x"

Oh yes .. dare I ask why? Hehe

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"I guess I'm lucky here ... Red's ex husband hated any oral so she had little to no experience ... and a real taboo about receiving

Fortunately all over that now and we both love both giving and receiving

My ex hated it too, mind you he hated a lot of things!

So wasn't something I'd done much of & was quite nervous about giving

Think I'm getting it right now though, although one can never have enough practise

Well you're not that far from us .... busy? Hahaha

Oh my!

I hadn't even noticed your location!

Your profile name did make me smile though x

Oh yes .. dare I ask why? Hehe"

It's part of one of my nicknames & very similar to my couples profile name

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By *ed-monkeyCouple over a year ago

Hailsham

"I guess I'm lucky here ... Red's ex husband hated any oral so she had little to no experience ... and a real taboo about receiving

Fortunately all over that now and we both love both giving and receiving

My ex hated it too, mind you he hated a lot of things!

So wasn't something I'd done much of & was quite nervous about giving

Think I'm getting it right now though, although one can never have enough practise

Well you're not that far from us .... busy? Hahaha

Oh my!

I hadn't even noticed your location!

Your profile name did make me smile though x

Oh yes .. dare I ask why? Hehe

It's part of one of my nicknames & very similar to my couples profile name

Didn't copy ... honest

You didn't answer the original question though hehe

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"I guess I'm lucky here ... Red's ex husband hated any oral so she had little to no experience ... and a real taboo about receiving

Fortunately all over that now and we both love both giving and receiving

My ex hated it too, mind you he hated a lot of things!

So wasn't something I'd done much of & was quite nervous about giving

Think I'm getting it right now though, although one can never have enough practise

Well you're not that far from us .... busy? Hahaha

Oh my!

I hadn't even noticed your location!

Your profile name did make me smile though x

Oh yes .. dare I ask why? Hehe

It's part of one of my nicknames & very similar to my couples profile name

Didn't copy ... honest

You didn't answer the original question though hehe"

I didn't? My bad!

Well.... Maybe

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By *ed-monkeyCouple over a year ago

Hailsham

"I guess I'm lucky here ... Red's ex husband hated any oral so she had little to no experience ... and a real taboo about receiving

Fortunately all over that now and we both love both giving and receiving

My ex hated it too, mind you he hated a lot of things!

So wasn't something I'd done much of & was quite nervous about giving

Think I'm getting it right now though, although one can never have enough practise

Well you're not that far from us .... busy? Hahaha

Oh my!

I hadn't even noticed your location!

Your profile name did make me smile though x

Oh yes .. dare I ask why? Hehe

It's part of one of my nicknames & very similar to my couples profile name

Didn't copy ... honest

You didn't answer the original question though hehe

I didn't? My bad!

Well.... Maybe

Maybe your bad

Or maybe you're free

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bloody love it now, but I hated it until I got rid of my ex husband... I don't think he would know how to handle me now, not that he would ever get the chance again

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By *omvampmMan over a year ago

gillingham

"Bloody love it now, but I hated it until I got rid of my ex husband... I don't think he would know how to handle me now, not that he would ever get the chance again

Oh Ariel your ex hubby was a fool you are beautiful x

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