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"We have been visiting Chams for over 4 years now and actually find the place very sexy but like everything else you pays yer money and you takes yer choice. You certainly aren't the first to think its not a good rule and no doubt you wont be the last, all I will say in Chams defence they make it very clear what the dress code is on all of their advertising material and state very clearly that the club is based around the 'wet' side i.e. Jacuzzi, steam room and sauna. " Absolutely.. and their right to do so... but imposing those rules on a private function when we were led to think otherwise is a bit strong... Surely people are old enough to make up their own minds??? Its a shame.. cause now we wouldn't rush back..  | |||
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"well i believe the Barnsley social is "wear what you like" just cover up when going outside for a smoke. So that will suit me "Is there a chams in Barnsley then??  | |||
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"well i believe the Barnsley social is "wear what you like" just cover up when going outside for a smoke. So that will suit me
Is there a chams in Barnsley then?? "well ave just got me head full of saturday so you will ave to excuse me jumping in completly off the topic then  | |||
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"well i believe the Barnsley social is "wear what you like" just cover up when going outside for a smoke. So that will suit me
Is there a chams in Barnsley then??
well ave just got me head full of saturday so you will ave to excuse me jumping in completly off the topic then "You don't get out much then lol... Awwwwww Mwah xx | |||
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"We have been visiting Chams for over 4 years now and actually find the place very sexy but like everything else you pays yer money and you takes yer choice. You certainly aren't the first to think its not a good rule and no doubt you wont be the last, all I will say in Chams defence they make it very clear what the dress code is on all of their advertising material and state very clearly that the club is based around the 'wet' side i.e. Jacuzzi, steam room and sauna. Absolutely.. and their right to do so... but imposing those rules on a private function when we were led to think otherwise is a bit strong... Surely people are old enough to make up their own minds??? Its a shame.. cause now we wouldn't rush back.. "ahhh problem was it wasn't a private function as such the club wasn't closed to people not on the 'list' and there were loads of regular customers there too. Shame you won't be rushing back though cos we didn't actually get to meet you, we kinda got waylaid lol | |||
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"You were sexy as fook in a towel Notts....just ask Debz lol"Flatterer.... I'm not knocking the club... Just can't see the reasoning behind.. Just think White towels are soooo unsexy lol... | |||
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"Another point I'd add lol... In all the years of play, looking at sites.. the fetish scene, clubwear.. anything sexy.. An old white towel has never featured anywhere lol... "to be completely fair hun ....we told you it was beach wear ...and so many people made such an effort with their costumes....so only reason you would have to wear a towel is if you didnt turn up in beachwear...maddie put a whole list of the dos and donts of chams when the party was first planned....so if you had read it it wouldnt have come as a shock xxx | |||
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"well i believe the Barnsley social is "wear what you like" just cover up when going outside for a smoke. So that will suit me
Is there a chams in Barnsley then??
well ave just got me head full of saturday so you will ave to excuse me jumping in completly off the topic then
You don't get out much then lol...
Awwwwww Mwah xx "actually you hit the nail on the head i dont awwww mwah back at ya  | |||
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" ahhh problem was it wasn't a private function as such the club wasn't closed to people not on the 'list' and there were loads of regular customers there too. Shame you won't be rushing back though cos we didn't actually get to meet you, we kinda got waylaid lol " Its not a big deal... we'd have loved to have come back sometime as the club and the people itself were all lovely... Just the dress code spoiled it, we love dressing up, making an effort, seems a waste when you then have to strip off and doss around in a towel... I hear its to make all equal.. But surely the fact were all different is what the attraction is??? | |||
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"to be completely fair hun ....we told you it was beach wear ...and so many people made such an effort with their costumes....so only reason you would have to wear a towel is if you didnt turn up in beachwear...maddie put a whole list of the dos and donts of chams when the party was first planned....so if you had read it it wouldnt have come as a shock xxx" Maybe you should read the What to wear thread again.. We asked along with many others... Ask Maddie! Also as you well know, a few were in Jeans Trainers even.. is that deemed Beach Wear then? | |||
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" ahhh problem was it wasn't a private function as such the club wasn't closed to people not on the 'list' and there were loads of regular customers there too. Shame you won't be rushing back though cos we didn't actually get to meet you, we kinda got waylaid lol Its not a big deal... we'd have loved to have come back sometime as the club and the people itself were all lovely... Just the dress code spoiled it, we love dressing up, making an effort, seems a waste when you then have to strip off and doss around in a towel... I hear its to make all equal.. But surely the fact were all different is what the attraction is??? "now this is a serious question for once from me mr notts (see full title), coz as you know I dont get out much (seriously lol). i mean how much can a guy dress to impress in a club like that  this is not a piss take question actually but a serious one | |||
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"You were sexy as fook in a towel Notts....just ask Debz lol
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I'm not knocking the club... Just can't see the reasoning behind.. Just think White towels are soooo unsexy lol... "actually agree the white towels aren't exactly flattering thats why we take our own 'Chams' towels they happen to be purple (or gold) at the moment and K, opps I mean Atomic, customises them with velcro (certainly keeps em in place) and a pocket for all those swinging essenstials
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"it was our 4th time at chams and only ever once worn a towel cos we were on our way back from somewhere else....the ladies can wear sexy underwear and the men boxers etc.....you getting fixated on the towel thing hun? "So your now saying then.. there was no one walking round in towels lol??? Feck me.. it was like a sea of white ff's... Not fixated on anything... Its a comment, an observation.. | |||
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"it was our 4th time at chams and only ever once worn a towel cos we were on our way back from somewhere else....the ladies can wear sexy underwear and the men boxers etc.....you getting fixated on the towel thing hun? "Have to say, after I got out of my wetsuit - jesus it was hot - it felt strange having shorts on | |||
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"Its one reason why we have been put off going to Chams, parading around in a towel is not our idea of a good nite. At least they do advertise the fact so its not a shock at the door. But aren't the girls allowed lingerie and the guys shorts or have they changed that rule. Townhouse operate similar to Libertys, bar/lounge area clothed, upstairs after 11 you wear a towel." Well... I'm sure most women can get that look down the local leisure centre then...  | |||
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"just thought of another reason - don't forget 'officially' sex on the premises isn't allowed and the place has a planning license as a Sauna establishment. " Ooooops we are all going to prison can we wear towels there? hehehehehehe | |||
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"just thought of another reason - don't forget 'officially' sex on the premises isn't allowed and the place has a planning license as a Sauna establishment. This might have a little to do with it. Although I might just be making that up, but I'm sure I heard someone saying about it when we first went. Oh dear I got a feeling this is one of those threads where everyone is going to have to agree to disagree " Mmmm If that were true how do all the other clubs get round that then lol... Nahhhh Doubtful... | |||
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"just thought of another reason - don't forget 'officially' sex on the premises isn't allowed and the place has a planning license as a Sauna establishment. Ooooops we are all going to prison can we wear towels there? hehehehehehe"from what I understand the dungeon was very well used | |||
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"just thought of another reason - don't forget 'officially' sex on the premises isn't allowed and the place has a planning license as a Sauna establishment. This might have a little to do with it. Although I might just be making that up, but I'm sure I heard someone saying about it when we first went. Oh dear I got a feeling this is one of those threads where everyone is going to have to agree to disagree Mmmm If that were true how do all the other clubs get round that then lol... Nahhhh Doubtful... "we told you last week what we were wearing....we made it clear about the beachwear ...lets face it hun....you didnt even realise about the bar thing til we told you ...so how come so many others understood and you didnt? im not having a go and im sorry if it spoilt your visit...im just baffled x | |||
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"Those that are happy with will continue to go.. why not.. Others, like ourselves maybe would prefer a more relaxed attitude, wear whatever unless your getting into the wet side... then it makes sense.. As we say.. we enjoy the getting dresed up.. Just seems a waste if you have to strip when you arrive, thats all. "you havent answered me question. i have only ever been to one club. so how do men dress to impress then | |||
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"just thought of another reason - don't forget 'officially' sex on the premises isn't allowed and the place has a planning license as a Sauna establishment. This might have a little to do with it. Although I might just be making that up, but I'm sure I heard someone saying about it when we first went. Oh dear I got a feeling this is one of those threads where everyone is going to have to agree to disagree Mmmm If that were true how do all the other clubs get round that then lol... Nahhhh Doubtful... "it may well have been my imagination at some time lol btw though did you know that the owner of Chams actually owns 6 or 7 other clubs? one in Newport is run along similar lines to Darlaston others are 'Gay' Saunas and to answer your question about is there a Chams in Barnsley, there was one being fitted out until it caught fire about 3 months ago and the opening date has been put back indefinately at the moment. quote from Chams website "Due to unforeseen circumstances Barnsley Chameleons will not be opening on 17th July. At the moment we are un sure what is happening but will up date you all as soon as possible." | |||
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" you havent answered me question. i have only ever been to one club. so how do men dress to impress then "Men can, just as women can... Ok not as well.. but some women find a man dressed nicely, smelling nice, polished shoes.. and the wondering what lays beneath more of a turn on than a towel or a pair of gym shorts lol... | |||
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"just thought of another reason - don't forget 'officially' sex on the premises isn't allowed and the place has a planning license as a Sauna establishment. This might have a little to do with it. Although I might just be making that up, but I'm sure I heard someone saying about it when we first went. Oh dear I got a feeling this is one of those threads where everyone is going to have to agree to disagree Mmmm If that were true how do all the other clubs get round that then lol... Nahhhh Doubtful... we told you last week what we were wearing....we made it clear about the beachwear ...lets face it hun....you didnt even realise about the bar thing til we told you ...so how come so many others understood and you didnt? im not having a go and im sorry if it spoilt your visit...im just baffled x"ff's... Its bugger all to do with the beach party.. Read the thread lol.. ITS about the club.. and what others think of the rule... IT didn't spoil anything... not a thing!!! Anything else???? | |||
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" you havent answered me question. i have only ever been to one club. so how do men dress to impress then
Men can, just as women can... Ok not as well.. but some women find a man dressed nicely, smelling nice, polished shoes.. and the wondering what lays beneath more of a turn on than a towel or a pair of gym shorts lol... "ah i get ya. you mean when they arrive look the part. anyhows pitbull, why ya moaning it sounds like you wasnt there long enuf to blow yer candles out never mind show yer shiny shoes off | |||
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" ah i get ya. you mean when they arrive look the part. anyhows pitbull, why ya moaning it sounds like you wasnt there long enuf to blow yer candles out never mind show yer shiny shoes off" Was there plenty long enough.... Being a gent, when the girls wanted more than buffing up with the white towels we went somewhere a little less public.. and polished far more than me shoes.. | |||
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"just thought of another reason - don't forget 'officially' sex on the premises isn't allowed and the place has a planning license as a Sauna establishment. This might have a little to do with it. Although I might just be making that up, but I'm sure I heard someone saying about it when we first went. Oh dear I got a feeling this is one of those threads where everyone is going to have to agree to disagree " Then surely a normal dress code would be more appropriate unless using the sauna facilities? Walking round in towels or lingerie looks more like it is a sex club then if people were wearing normal attire, with the nice bits underneath. | |||
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"We have been visiting Chams for over 4 years now and actually find the place very sexy but like everything else you pays yer money and you takes yer choice. You certainly aren't the first to think its not a good rule and no doubt you wont be the last, all I will say in Chams defence they make it very clear what the dress code is on all of their advertising material and state very clearly that the club is based around the 'wet' side i.e. Jacuzzi, steam room and sauna. Absolutely.. and their right to do so... but imposing those rules on a private function when we were led to think otherwise is a bit strong... Surely people are old enough to make up their own minds??? Its a shame.. cause now we wouldn't rush back..
ahhh problem was it wasn't a private function as such the club wasn't closed to people not on the 'list' and there were loads of regular customers there too.
AShame you won't be rushing back though cos we didn't actually get to meet you, we kinda got waylaid lol
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"Another point I'd add lol... In all the years of play, looking at sites.. the fetish scene, clubwear.. anything sexy.. An old white towel has never featured anywhere lol... "One good thing about a towel is that you can whip it off spin it round and flick it at peoples bums
I know we have spoken about this since sunday and I agree that towels are fine for wet areas but not really required in bar and play areas
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"well i happen to think thats quite a good view. having only been to a club once, I did feel more relaxed when it got to the stage when everyone dressed down but once again thats only personal opinion" worth about the same as mine then | |||
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"fook all yer mean "it matters only to you and thats fine it means its got value and validity .... oooooohhhhhh spacey soft stuff in the morning ...kiss kiss | |||
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"fook all yer mean
it matters only to you and thats fine it means its got value and validity ....
oooooohhhhhh spacey soft stuff in the morning ...kiss kiss "now yer lost me, you talking about my brain there matey!!! | |||
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"Well i wore my shorts at the charity bash as i wasnt ready for a towel but did take my own but bottled it! Then when in there some blokes were in towels,shorts,boxers and some even had vests on "rubber vests, string vests or old man's vests | |||
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"Well i wore my shorts at the charity bash as i wasnt ready for a towel but did take my own but bottled it! Then when in there some blokes were in towels,shorts,boxers and some even had vests on
rubber vests, string vests or old man's vests"I think from what i remember one was black,white,blue and pink and just normal cooton vests as i didnt get close enough to check the labels lmao | |||
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"Well i wore my shorts at the charity bash as i wasnt ready for a towel but did take my own but bottled it! Then when in there some blokes were in towels,shorts,boxers and some even had vests on
rubber vests, string vests or old man's vests
I think from what i remember one was black,white,blue and pink and just normal cooton vests as i didnt get close enough to check the labels lmao "Ooooh Cligster you are our very own Gok Wan | |||
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"Vests are the devils spawn! except the string vest Rob had on......people kept trying to rip it off and keep it for themselves "the nipples poking out was dead sexy | |||
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"Now before we start this isn't a dig at Chams or anyone who goes whatsoever.. just seeing if anyone else feels the same.. We were chatting last night and although the ladies are allowed to wear a little more say than the guys does anyone else feel the 'Wear a towel' Rule at chams takes more away than it gains... Can understand if your going to use the wet side kinda thing.. but part of the fun for some is the dressing up etc.. Just our view on it... Lots of clubs but thats the first time we have ever been told get changed or leave lol... "The first time we went to a club we were quite surpised with what people were wearing, many had jeans on and normal tshirts. We took the time to get all dressed up, not knowing it didnt matter what we wore cos at around 10 pm we were expected to get into towels. Himself didnt want to wear one but cos everyone else was he did it. For me, cos I like mens chests (pref hairy ones) I liked looking at all the bare man!! But I can totally see your point about how unsexy a towel is for women you dont even get a little taster of what is on offer - ohh prob the wrong wording but Im sure you know what I mean.
I see what other people mean about in a towel we are all dressed the same but if I spend time getting all dressed up and like how I look (a rarity lol) then I dont wanna cover up in a towel.
Ohh and its b***dy cold when you gotta go ourside for a smoke in nowt but a towel!!!
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"Vests are the devils spawn! except the string vest Rob had on......people kept trying to rip it off and keep it for themselves "hell so thats his secret ...am off to marks and sparks .... | |||
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"Vests are the devils spawn! except the string vest Rob had on......people kept trying to rip it off and keep it for themselves
hell so thats his secret ...am off to marks and sparks ...."I even tried it on myself its a nice look pmsl | |||
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"Well i wore my shorts at the charity bash as i wasnt ready for a towel but did take my own but bottled it! Then when in there some blokes were in towels,shorts,boxers and some even had vests on
rubber vests, string vests or old man's vests
I think from what i remember one was black,white,blue and pink and just normal cooton vests as i didnt get close enough to check the labels lmao
Ooooh Cligster you are our very own Gok Wan"Now lets talk about yr outfit hunnie pmsl | |||
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"Vests are the devils spawn! except the string vest Rob had on......people kept trying to rip it off and keep it for themselves
hell so thats his secret ...am off to marks and sparks ....
I even tried it on myself its a nice look pmsl "STOP IT !!!! that is cruel .....  | |||
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"and what an outfit it was... "just tell me one thing did she still have the red satin strips hanging from her bum ....its so sexy .,... | |||
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"and what an outfit it was...
just tell me one thing did she still have the red satin strips hanging from her bum ....its so sexy .,... "Oi you cheeky sod I had a mermaid outfit on | |||
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"and what an outfit it was...
just tell me one thing did she still have the red satin strips hanging from her bum ....its so sexy .,... "now that would be telling ....but ooooooh you should see the pics !!! | |||
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"and what an outfit it was...
just tell me one thing did she still have the red satin strips hanging from her bum ....its so sexy .,...
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"and what an outfit it was...
just tell me one thing did she still have the red satin strips hanging from her bum ....its so sexy .,... now that would be telling ....but ooooooh you should see the pics !!! "yeah ...and .....where .....you cant do that !!!!! | |||
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"and what an outfit it was...
just tell me one thing did she still have the red satin strips hanging from her bum ....its so sexy .,... now that would be telling ....but ooooooh you should see the pics !!!
yeah ...and .....where .....you cant do that !!!!! "he he he ....just did! | |||
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"and what an outfit it was...
just tell me one thing did she still have the red satin strips hanging from her bum ....its so sexy .,... now that would be telling ....but ooooooh you should see the pics !!!
yeah ...and .....where .....you cant do that !!!!! he he he ....just did!"i know where you live ....now where is my stocking ....pmsl | |||
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"and what an outfit it was...
just tell me one thing did she still have the red satin strips hanging from her bum ....its so sexy .,... now that would be telling ....but ooooooh you should see the pics !!!
yeah ...and .....where .....you cant do that !!!!! he he he ....just did!
i know where you live ....now where is my stocking ....pmsl " | |||
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"and what an outfit it was...
just tell me one thing did she still have the red satin strips hanging from her bum ....its so sexy .,... now that would be telling ....but ooooooh you should see the pics !!!
yeah ...and .....where .....you cant do that !!!!! he he he ....just did!
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"Well i wore my shorts at the charity bash as i wasnt ready for a towel but did take my own but bottled it! Then when in there some blokes were in towels,shorts,boxers and some even had vests on
rubber vests, string vests or old man's vests
I think from what i remember one was black,white,blue and pink and just normal cooton vests as i didnt get close enough to check the labels lmao
Ooooh Cligster you are our very own Gok Wan
Now lets talk about yr outfit hunnie pmsl"Lets just say I went down with my ship .....or rather on my ship | |||
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"Well i wore my shorts at the charity bash as i wasnt ready for a towel but did take my own but bottled it! Then when in there some blokes were in towels,shorts,boxers and some even had vests on
rubber vests, string vests or old man's vests
I think from what i remember one was black,white,blue and pink and just normal cooton vests as i didnt get close enough to check the labels lmao "Yes i know i spelt Cotton wrong lol | |||
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"I don't think Chams have taken the 'towel or underwear' policy just because it has two jacuzzis, which only take up a very small part of the overall complex and thus cannot be described as a 'wet' club (watch ya dirty minds u pervs, I'm bein' serious for once!!). I've long held the opinion that Chams has this near-nude rule to encourage visitors to get 'in the mood' a lot quicker and I find that it does create a party-like atmosphere and helps to break down inhibitions. I know it can seem daunting for a first time visitor to any club let alone a so called 'wet' one like Chams but ask yourself this: If Sunday was your first visit to any sort of swing club, how quickly did you feel relaxed nad less inhibited?" Ahh see your point there.. Yeah. Not our first visit to a club.. but it did provoke a responce.. wasn't quite as you described mind.. as in speeding up the loss if inhibitions.. More of a WTF is that all about lol... Blokes asleep in a towel watching top gear on TV is rarely appealing to Mrs Notts...... | |||
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"I don't think Chams have taken the 'towel or underwear' policy just because it has two jacuzzis, which only take up a very small part of the overall complex and thus cannot be described as a 'wet' club (watch ya dirty minds u pervs, I'm bein' serious for once!!). I've long held the opinion that Chams has this near-nude rule to encourage visitors to get 'in the mood' a lot quicker and I find that it does create a party-like atmosphere and helps to break down inhibitions. I know it can seem daunting for a first time visitor to any club let alone a so called 'wet' one like Chams but ask yourself this: If Sunday was your first visit to any sort of swing club, how quickly did you feel relaxed nad less inhibited? Ahh see your point there.. Yeah. Not our first visit to a club.. but it did provoke a responce.. wasn't quite as you described mind.. as in speeding up the loss if inhibitions.. More of a WTF is that all about lol... Blokes asleep in a towel watching top gear on TV is rarely appealing to Mrs Notts...... "They had Top Gear on...FFS not only did I miss cake I missed Top Gear too | |||
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"i remember when the chat started about a new club in Walsall (the thread is still on here somewhere . The biggest criticism was that clothes were allowed in the bar area and it spoilt the atmosphere. Some women are impressed by sharp clothes and label suits ,some dont give a toss,its the man what counts. I like it as it makes that hierarchical "i am considerably richer than yow" mentality pointless...in chams it focuses you to what your there for and not how "nice" your clothes are , just my tuppence worth and thats about its value ... "I'm sure most could have a hotter look dressing up in gear from the Cancer reasearch shop.. or the like, naff all to do with labels.. Respect your point though... saves on the snobbery I suppose.. | |||
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"I don't think Chams have taken the 'towel or underwear' policy just because it has two jacuzzis, which only take up a very small part of the overall complex and thus cannot be described as a 'wet' club (watch ya dirty minds u pervs, I'm bein' serious for once!!). I've long held the opinion that Chams has this near-nude rule to encourage visitors to get 'in the mood' a lot quicker and I find that it does create a party-like atmosphere and helps to break down inhibitions. I know it can seem daunting for a first time visitor to any club let alone a so called 'wet' one like Chams but ask yourself this: If Sunday was your first visit to any sort of swing club, how quickly did you feel relaxed nad less inhibited? Ahh see your point there.. Yeah. Not our first visit to a club.. but it did provoke a responce.. wasn't quite as you described mind.. as in speeding up the loss if inhibitions.. More of a WTF is that all about lol... Blokes asleep in a towel watching top gear on TV is rarely appealing to Mrs Notts......
They had Top Gear on...FFS not only did I miss cake I missed Top Gear too"Yeah... Tom Jones no less.. Made better watching than the dead/asleep fella mind...
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" Blokes asleep in a towel watching top gear on TV is rarely appealing to Mrs Notts......
Nooooo I did'nt see that how attractive pmsl"We went back later.. it got worse but won't post in here in case the lady is reading pmsl... | |||
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" Blokes asleep in a towel watching top gear on TV is rarely appealing to Mrs Notts......
Nooooo I did'nt see that how attractive pmsl
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" pm me pm me pm me LOL" Your mean.... but i'd seem even meaner lol... I'll never get another invite anywhere... | |||
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" pm me pm me pm me LOL Your mean.... but i'd seem even meaner lol... I'll never get another invite anywhere..." lol i wont tell anyone what you just said ....hehehehehe naughty Notts but funny as fooooook!!!! | |||
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"am glad yer not going to barnsley then pitbull, you could pick holes in a string vest you could "Was a great night with great people... In a great venue.. Nothing in life is ever perfect... I mean your nice sometimes eh... Bound to be.. | |||
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"am glad yer not going to barnsley then pitbull, you could pick holes in a string vest you could
Was a great night with great people... In a great venue..
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" pm me pm me pm me LOL Your mean.... but i'd seem even meaner lol... I'll never get another invite anywhere... lol i wont tell anyone what you just said ....hehehehehe naughty Notts but funny as fooooook!!!!" can only but imagine | |||
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"Mind... at least with the towels theres something to wipe up with after lol... Ohhhhhh Go on, shooot me ff's lol... "BANG! | |||
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I bet ya can't...... saw things and well... saw things a man should never see lol.. pmsl..
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"Well I am glad this thread was started, it has just confirmed what I had thought...you will never get me in a club lol." Not all are the same... Really! | |||
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"Well I am glad this thread was started, it has just confirmed what I had thought...you will never get me in a club lol." you cant stereotype everywhere as the same though ....and i was just teasing Notts about seeing what a man shouldnt. All clubs are different, offer different facilities and have different etiquettes and cultures. They offer a life line to those of us who cant play at home and who dislike relying only on the soulessness of a hotel room, or enjoy the social aspect of meeting people. dont throw the proverbial baby out with the bath water ... clubs wont be for everyone of course, and there are some I wouldnt chose to go to ever ...but there are many good ones , run and managed by great people. | |||
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"Well I am glad this thread was started, it has just confirmed what I had thought...you will never get me in a club lol. Not all are the same... Really! "sure????. I am not convinced but will keep an open mind. I never was one to conform and I certainly would not be donning a towel or walking about parading my finery...call me old fashioned lol. | |||
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"Well I am glad this thread was started, it has just confirmed what I had thought...you will never get me in a club lol." are you still a club virgin then??? | |||
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"Well I am glad this thread was started, it has just confirmed what I had thought...you will never get me in a club lol. you cant stereotype everywhere as the same though ....and i was just teasing Notts about seeing what a man shouldnt. All clubs are different, offer different facilities and have different etiquettes and cultures. They offer a life line to those of us who cant play at home and who dislike relying only on the soulessness of a hotel room, or enjoy the social aspect of meeting people. dont throw the proverbial baby out with the bath water ... clubs wont be for everyone of course, and there are some I wouldnt chose to go to ever ...but there are many good ones , run and managed by great people. " I understand they are great for some, and not for others. Maybe I should reserve judgement until further investigation. Maybe. | |||
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"Well I am glad this thread was started, it has just confirmed what I had thought...you will never get me in a club lol. Not all are the same... Really!
sure????. I am not convinced but will keep an open mind.
I never was one to conform and I certainly would not be donning a towel or walking about parading my finery...call me old fashioned lol."but there would be others run by people who would share exactly those views themselves and tailor their clubs accordingly ..right through to the extremely specialist ! | |||
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"Well I am glad this thread was started, it has just confirmed what I had thought...you will never get me in a club lol. are you still a club virgin then??? "what gave that away then? | |||
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"Well I am glad this thread was started, it has just confirmed what I had thought...you will never get me in a club lol. Not all are the same... Really!
sure????. I am not convinced but will keep an open mind.
I never was one to conform and I certainly would not be donning a towel or walking about parading my finery...call me old fashioned lol."Not all clubs are "wet clubs" Nothing wrong with parading around in some finery though | |||
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I bet ya can't...... saw things and well... saw things a man should never see lol.. pmsl..
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sure????. I am not convinced but will keep an open mind.
I never was one to conform and I certainly would not be donning a towel or walking about parading my finery...call me old fashioned lol.
Not all clubs are "wet clubs"
Nothing wrong with parading around in some finery though"I will show you mine if you show me yours lol | |||
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"Well I am glad this thread was started, it has just confirmed what I had thought...you will never get me in a club lol. Not all are the same... Really!
sure????. I am not convinced but will keep an open mind.
I never was one to conform and I certainly would not be donning a towel or walking about parading my finery...call me old fashioned lol.
Not all clubs are "wet clubs"
Nothing wrong with parading around in some finery though
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"Well I am glad this thread was started, it has just confirmed what I had thought...you will never get me in a club lol. Not all are the same... Really!
sure????. I am not convinced but will keep an open mind.
I never was one to conform and I certainly would not be donning a towel or walking about parading my finery...call me old fashioned lol.
but there would be others run by people who would share exactly those views themselves and tailor their clubs accordingly ..right through to the extremely specialist ! "yes i know about the extreme specialist clubs and have attended them...but then im not asked to peel out of my gear and put on a towel!!! lol | |||
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"Well I am glad this thread was started, it has just confirmed what I had thought...you will never get me in a club lol. Not all are the same... Really!
sure????. I am not convinced but will keep an open mind.
I never was one to conform and I certainly would not be donning a towel or walking about parading my finery...call me old fashioned lol.
Not all clubs are "wet clubs"
Nothing wrong with parading around in some finery though
I will show you mine if you show me yours lol
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"Well I am glad this thread was started, it has just confirmed what I had thought...you will never get me in a club lol. Not all are the same... Really!
sure????. I am not convinced but will keep an open mind.
I never was one to conform and I certainly would not be donning a towel or walking about parading my finery...call me old fashioned lol.
Not all clubs are "wet clubs"
Nothing wrong with parading around in some finery though
I will show you mine if you show me yours lol
Yours is better than mine though
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"Well I am glad this thread was started, it has just confirmed what I had thought...you will never get me in a club lol. Not all are the same... Really!
sure????. I am not convinced but will keep an open mind.
I never was one to conform and I certainly would not be donning a towel or walking about parading my finery...call me old fashioned lol.
Not all clubs are "wet clubs"
Nothing wrong with parading around in some finery though
I will show you mine if you show me yours lol
Yours is better than mine though
Oh I beg to differ, fun finding out though eh...winks
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"Well I am glad this thread was started, it has just confirmed what I had thought...you will never get me in a club lol. Not all are the same... Really!
sure????. I am not convinced but will keep an open mind.
I never was one to conform and I certainly would not be donning a towel or walking about parading my finery...call me old fashioned lol.
but there would be others run by people who would share exactly those views themselves and tailor their clubs accordingly ..right through to the extremely specialist !
yes i know about the extreme specialist clubs and have attended them...but then im not asked to peel out of my gear and put on a towel!!! lol"lol ....but i was only responding to th fact you said you would never set foot in a club by saying there were many different types ( many of which wont ever make you put on a towel !! ) ...whereas you have been to a club ,so maybe what you were saying is you'd never set foot in a club like chams - in which case i'd have saved my ink as it will always be horses for courses
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"Blimey I bet they day is made when they find one of those old fashioned wool shops "evidently something to do with the clicking of the needles they meet regularly ...couldnt knit a pair of whoresdrawers meself so not for me... lol | |||
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"Blimey I bet they day is made when they find one of those old fashioned wool shops
evidently something to do with the clicking of the needles they meet regularly ...couldnt knit a pair of whoresdrawers meself so not for me... lol
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evidently something to do with the clicking of the needles they meet regularly ...couldnt knit a pair of whoresdrawers meself so not for me... lol
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"okay there have been references to someones wealth mentioned a few times...what the hell has that got to do with it??? The price of the dressing doesnt mean the filling is anymore appetising." true, but what i ment was some may not be able to afford to keep buying new stuff all the while and it would make it an expensive time. | |||
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"okay there have been references to someones wealth mentioned a few times...what the hell has that got to do with it??? The price of the dressing doesnt mean the filling is anymore appetising." totally agree and my thoughts exactly..i think the addage "clothes maketh the man" is so old now ...and yeah i have designer cobweb encrusted suits in the wardrobe i no longer need em to say who i am or a need to conform to media enduced chic | |||
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"okay there have been references to someones wealth mentioned a few times...what the hell has that got to do with it??? The price of the dressing doesnt mean the filling is anymore appetising. true, but what i ment was some may not be able to afford to keep buying new stuff all the while and it would make it an expensive time." Okay I am obvioulsy missing the point. So people visiting clubs in 'normal' gear do it so often they have to buy a new outfit everythine they go? Or is it the same faces that go each time in order for those to be judgemental on peoples attire? I couldnt care what brand of clothing, how much a person earns or what car or houses they have. It is the person themselves, how they conduct themselves, thier personality, humour, manners etc that stimulates me. Guess it comes down to a different perceptive on things. | |||
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"okay there have been references to someones wealth mentioned a few times...what the hell has that got to do with it??? The price of the dressing doesnt mean the filling is anymore appetising. true, but what i ment was some may not be able to afford to keep buying new stuff all the while and it would make it an expensive time. Okay I am obvioulsy missing the point. So people visiting clubs in 'normal' gear do it so often they have to buy a new outfit everythine they go? Or is it the same faces that go each time in order for those to be judgemental on peoples attire? I couldnt care what brand of clothing, how much a person earns or what car or houses they have. It is the person themselves, how they conduct themselves, thier personality, humour, manners etc that stimulates me. Guess it comes down to a different perceptive on things." and what great leveller and wiper out of that bullshit than a white towel ..? | |||
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"Chams have a towel policy because: 1. It's classed as a sauna 2. Because it cuts out the class system 3. Because it means that once most people are in towels or sexy undies, the locker rooms are not jam packed with people trying to get changed or worse still, moaning that their very expensive jacket has gone missing. Many clubs allow an outdoor clothes policy and you should hear the gripes about that. Men standing in doorways, fully clothed with their knobs hanging out of their jeans, silently wanking whilst watching people have sex. It's extremely off putting. I once went to a club where it was like Paris fashion week, and the women were chuffing horrible. "Oh my dress cost this and don't you like hubby's tailored suit" shite, was enough to put me off ever going back. There is no reason why men can't dress sexily....... but not in 'outdoor' clothes. A fabulous set of Calvins and a tight top can be enough to have the most harded old trollop drooling and it's perfectly acceptable in Chameleons. To be perfectly fucking honest, I get gripe after gripe about the parties: No veggie food, I wouldn't have come if I'd have known they were coming etc and now towels. I don't want to hear it. If anyone doesn't like the NO Streetwear rule at chameleons, don't fecking bother coming cus believe me, I won't fucking miss you. I hate negative responses of people who have never been.... if you haven't sampled it.... you have NO opinion and therefore no idea what the feck you are droning on about. I'd say 'shut up' and keep ill informed, mis-guided and ill thought out bollox in your heads and stop spouting on about something you know nothing about. If people want to gripe about something as stupid as a white towel......... I give up. I won't bother with a Xmas party. Cus I'm chuffing fed up of trying to please everyone and making myself miserable over it. " hey chill out maddie this was started by someone who went to the party and no reflection on your magnificent effort and the towel thing hun is about clubs in general and not about specifically chams and definately not your incredible efforts ... a lot agree the towels are cool ...and work i think they do re vegi food ...fuck me i cant believe that ...some people are never happy ... | |||
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"Chams have a towel policy because: 1. It's classed as a sauna 2. Because it cuts out the class system 3. Because it means that once most people are in towels or sexy undies, the locker rooms are not jam packed with people trying to get changed or worse still, moaning that their very expensive jacket has gone missing. Many clubs allow an outdoor clothes policy and you should hear the gripes about that. Men standing in doorways, fully clothed with their knobs hanging out of their jeans, silently wanking whilst watching people have sex. It's extremely off putting. I once went to a club where it was like Paris fashion week, and the women were chuffing horrible. "Oh my dress cost this and don't you like hubby's tailored suit" shite, was enough to put me off ever going back. There is no reason why men can't dress sexily....... but not in 'outdoor' clothes. A fabulous set of Calvins and a tight top can be enough to have the most harded old trollop drooling and it's perfectly acceptable in Chameleons. To be perfectly fucking honest, I get gripe after gripe about the parties: No veggie food, I wouldn't have come if I'd have known they were coming etc and now towels. I don't want to hear it. If anyone doesn't like the NO Streetwear rule at chameleons, don't fecking bother coming cus believe me, I won't fucking miss you. I hate negative responses of people who have never been.... if you haven't sampled it.... you have NO opinion and therefore no idea what the feck you are droning on about. I'd say 'shut up' and keep ill informed, mis-guided and ill thought out bollox in your heads and stop spouting on about something you know nothing about. If people want to gripe about something as stupid as a white towel......... I give up. I won't bother with a Xmas party. Cus I'm chuffing fed up of trying to please everyone and making myself miserable over it. " By all accounts you seem to have taken this personally...I dont know why as, you party appeared to be a great success. As for not being able to have an opinion without having attended, you are so wron there. I can have an opinion on what ever I please and I donot need to have attended to know that I would not be happy in a towel. Nor to have the opinion that they are not sexy! | |||
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"Chams have a towel policy because: 1. It's classed as a sauna 2. Because it cuts out the class system 3. Because it means that once most people are in towels or sexy undies, the locker rooms are not jam packed with people trying to get changed or worse still, moaning that their very expensive jacket has gone missing. Many clubs allow an outdoor clothes policy and you should hear the gripes about that. Men standing in doorways, fully clothed with their knobs hanging out of their jeans, silently wanking whilst watching people have sex. It's extremely off putting. I once went to a club where it was like Paris fashion week, and the women were chuffing horrible. "Oh my dress cost this and don't you like hubby's tailored suit" shite, was enough to put me off ever going back. There is no reason why men can't dress sexily....... but not in 'outdoor' clothes. A fabulous set of Calvins and a tight top can be enough to have the most harded old trollop drooling and it's perfectly acceptable in Chameleons. To be perfectly fucking honest, I get gripe after gripe about the parties: No veggie food, I wouldn't have come if I'd have known they were coming etc and now towels. I don't want to hear it. If anyone doesn't like the NO Streetwear rule at chameleons, don't fecking bother coming cus believe me, I won't fucking miss you. I hate negative responses of people who have never been.... if you haven't sampled it.... you have NO opinion and therefore no idea what the feck you are droning on about. I'd say 'shut up' and keep ill informed, mis-guided and ill thought out bollox in your heads and stop spouting on about something you know nothing about. If people want to gripe about something as stupid as a white towel......... I give up. I won't bother with a Xmas party. Cus I'm chuffing fed up of trying to please everyone and making myself miserable over it. " Hey the party was fucking great and you know it was and very very appreciated by all of us xxxxxxxxx If people were moaning about food then thats patheticness at its best this thread is not about the party but about a towel rule that is'nt only applicable in chams but other wet clubs too,some like towels and some don't and we all love to voice an opinion on here and you know that
What you did for us all on sunday was above and beyond the call of duty and I for one am still glowing about it and I know so many other people are too,so please please don't think its anything to do with all the hard work that you put in to make a really special occasion as outstanding as it was xxxxxx
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"Yeah, you only need to read all the Thank You threads to know that the party was an absolute sucess. So many people came from a long way away to attend - and to get that many people in one place for one party deserves RESPECT in my book. As for the towel issue - no they are not sexy - but you are allowed underwear too - and once you get down to it - it all comes off anyways...lol" debz my darlin ....couldnt have put it better myself xxx | |||
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" If people were moaning about food then thats patheticness at its best this thread is not about the party but about a towel rule that is'nt only applicable in chams but other wet clubs too,some like towels and some don't and we all love to voice an opinion on here and you know that
What you did for us all on sunday was above and beyond the call of duty and I for one am still glowing about it and I know so many other people are too,so please please don't think its anything to do with all the hard work that you put in to make a really special occasion as outstanding as it was xxxxxx
"exactly -- I'm veggie and so i didnt even consider the bbq .Any food is a bonus at a club , not an expectation and funnily enough a beefburger wasnt what i went for
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" If people were moaning about food then thats patheticness at its best this thread is not about the party but about a towel rule that is'nt only applicable in chams but other wet clubs too,some like towels and some don't and we all love to voice an opinion on here and you know that
What you did for us all on sunday was above and beyond the call of duty and I for one am still glowing about it and I know so many other people are too,so please please don't think its anything to do with all the hard work that you put in to make a really special occasion as outstanding as it was xxxxxx
exactly -- I'm veggie and so i didnt even consider the bbq .Any food is a bonus at a club , not an expectation and funnily enough a beefburger wasnt what i went for
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" As a swinging club it wouldn't work if everyone was dressed. Would have liked to have meet you and a shame that u won't be going to anymore of the parties there. "In Order... It does work in many many other swinging clubs... Seen it, done it lol.. works just fine honest. AND.. who says we wouldn't go again... Its an observation.. As a club probably not no... not the great leveller we'd seek maybe.. but forum parties are different things eh.. Worthy of support in my eyes.. | |||
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"Chams is a great place and I have been going for years. They use the towel dress code but of wet areas and also it is a great leveler. You can be anyone in a towel. As said before the beach party wasn't a private party. It's uncomfortable for some people when people walk around fully clothed. As a swinging club it wouldn't work if everyone was dressed. Would have liked to have meet you and a shame that u won't be going to anymore of the parties there. "yeah i been to libs and the bar area is initially earlier on you get people dressed prior to changing but once changed you stay in a towel and would not go back to bar wearing clothes ...but thats the same at chams ...you arrive dressed go get changed and stay in your shorts or towel ....i agree with this it is a great leveller ....also the bar area at chams sees some hot action .at times ...what a turn off having guys dressed watching you....bit like standing in a pub ... besides its so easy for women to have a fiddle when your in a towel lol | |||
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"Chams is a great place and I have been going for years. They use the towel dress code but of wet areas and also it is a great leveler. You can be anyone in a towel. As said before the beach party wasn't a private party. It's uncomfortable for some people when people walk around fully clothed. As a swinging club it wouldn't work if everyone was dressed. Would have liked to have meet you and a shame that u won't be going to anymore of the parties there.
yeah i been to libs and the bar area is initially earlier on you get people dressed prior to changing but once changed you stay in a towel and would not go back to bar wearing clothes ...but thats the same at chams ...you arrive dressed go get changed and stay in your shorts or towel ....i agree with this it is a great leveller ....also the bar area at chams sees some hot action .at times ...what a turn off having guys dressed watching you....bit like standing in a pub ...
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"Another point I'd add lol... In all the years of play, looking at sites.. the fetish scene, clubwear.. anything sexy.. An old white towel has never featured anywhere lol... to be completely fair hun ....we told you it was beach wear ...and so many people made such an effort with their costumes....so only reason you would have to wear a towel is if you didnt turn up in beachwear...maddie put a whole list of the dos and donts of chams when the party was first planned....so if you had read it it wouldnt have come as a shock xxx"we loved the fact that evryone made the effort and it didnt matter what size, shape people were, they all looked sexy and confident...confidence plays a big part in looking sexy... xxx | |||
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"I suppose this thread just about sums up life you can please some of the people all of the time and all the people all of the time but you cant please all of the people all of the time. at least I think thats how it goes "That is exactly how it goes and if it was any different life would be boring | |||
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"Well I am glad this thread was started, it has just confirmed what I had thought...you will never get me in a club lol." I'm gutted! We were really looking forward to going to a club, but I doubt we'll bother going to one either Glad though, same as you that this came up, at least we know now lol
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"I suppose this thread just about sums up life you can please some of the people all of the time and all the people all of the time but you cant please all of the people all of the time. at least I think thats how it goes
That is exactly how it goes and if it was any different life would be boring "Phew I got something right for a change | |||
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"Well I am glad this thread was started, it has just confirmed what I had thought...you will never get me in a club lol. I'm gutted! We were really looking forward to going to a club, but I doubt we'll bother going to one either Glad though, same as you that this came up, at least we know now lol
*makes point to read up on these things in the future, before deciding to go* "Don't let anyone elses opinions put you off of going to clubs Its something that you should try yourself and see what you think Theres plenty of people that go to allsorts of different clubs and love them | |||
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"Well I am glad this thread was started, it has just confirmed what I had thought...you will never get me in a club lol. I'm gutted! We were really looking forward to going to a club, but I doubt we'll bother going to one either Glad though, same as you that this came up, at least we know now lol
*makes point to read up on these things in the future, before deciding to go*
Don't let anyone elses opinions put you off of going to clubs
Its something that you should try yourself and see what you think
Theres plenty of people that go to allsorts of different clubs and love them "But I like dressing up pmsl, I don't get out much so when I do I like to look nice From what I'm seeing here, I might as well just go straight from the shower Will read up on them all properly coz travel would be involved for us to any of them and then make an informed decision | |||
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"Well I am glad this thread was started, it has just confirmed what I had thought...you will never get me in a club lol. I'm gutted! We were really looking forward to going to a club, but I doubt we'll bother going to one either Glad though, same as you that this came up, at least we know now lol
*makes point to read up on these things in the future, before deciding to go* "listen hun from the drift of stuff on forum it sounds like it was a fantastic day and evening. enjoyed by many and had a minority of moaners. you always get one old arse who doesnt enjoy themselves or picks fault everywhere you go. so you go with the majority and take on board what they have to say as it far outweights the moans and the groans of the few gripes. easy peasey | |||
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"We both must admit that the female who was walking around in jeans should have been kicked out there and then." I've heard people at work whisper that about me when they thought I wasn't listening | |||
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"We both must admit that the female who was walking around in jeans should have been kicked out there and then. I've heard people at work whisper that about me when they thought I wasn't listening "they were saying bet she gets her tits out on chat cam room and puts voddy in her porridge | |||
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"Well I am glad this thread was started, it has just confirmed what I had thought...you will never get me in a club lol. I'm gutted! We were really looking forward to going to a club, but I doubt we'll bother going to one either Glad though, same as you that this came up, at least we know now lol
*makes point to read up on these things in the future, before deciding to go*
listen hun from the drift of stuff on forum it sounds like it was a fantastic day and evening. enjoyed by many and had a minority of moaners. you always get one old arse who doesnt enjoy themselves or picks fault everywhere you go. so you go with the majority and take on board what they have to say as it far outweights the moans and the groans of the few gripes.
easy peasey"My god, that was sensible I'm petrified If you go, I'll go I'll just tell himself the towels were just a rumour, but there's definitely boots | |||
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"We both must admit that the female who was walking around in jeans should have been kicked out there and then. I've heard people at work whisper that about me when they thought I wasn't listening
they were saying bet she gets her tits out on chat cam room and puts voddy in her porridge"Nah, that's old news | |||
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"Well I am glad this thread was started, it has just confirmed what I had thought...you will never get me in a club lol. I'm gutted! We were really looking forward to going to a club, but I doubt we'll bother going to one either Glad though, same as you that this came up, at least we know now lol
*makes point to read up on these things in the future, before deciding to go*
listen hun from the drift of stuff on forum it sounds like it was a fantastic day and evening. enjoyed by many and had a minority of moaners. you always get one old arse who doesnt enjoy themselves or picks fault everywhere you go. so you go with the majority and take on board what they have to say as it far outweights the moans and the groans of the few gripes.
easy peasey"So who are the moaners then??? and who is the arse??? If your refering to my comments .. i'd be interested to hear how that translates into moans and i'm an arse for having an opinion??? I'm fresh.. lets go lol | |||
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"Well I am glad this thread was started, it has just confirmed what I had thought...you will never get me in a club lol. I'm gutted! We were really looking forward to going to a club, but I doubt we'll bother going to one either Glad though, same as you that this came up, at least we know now lol
*makes point to read up on these things in the future, before deciding to go*
listen hun from the drift of stuff on forum it sounds like it was a fantastic day and evening. enjoyed by many and had a minority of moaners. you always get one old arse who doesnt enjoy themselves or picks fault everywhere you go. so you go with the majority and take on board what they have to say as it far outweights the moans and the groans of the few gripes.
easy peasey
My god, that was sensible I'm petrified If you go, I'll go I'll just tell himself the towels were just a rumour, but there's definitely boots "ah feck off nutter, yeah just caught me on a serious note, doesnt happen often, i must be needing a fag | |||
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" listen hun from the drift of stuff on forum it sounds like it was a fantastic day and evening. enjoyed by many and had a minority of moaners. you always get one old arse who doesnt enjoy themselves or picks fault everywhere you go. so you go with the majority and take on board what they have to say as it far outweights the moans and the groans of the few gripes. easy peasey" Very true and possibly one of the most common sense posts on the thread. Unfortunately as we are all too well aware the moaners spoil it for everybody else and are the reason why people stop putting lots of effort into organising such events which to be honest you can't blame them. | |||
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"Well I am glad this thread was started, it has just confirmed what I had thought...you will never get me in a club lol. I'm gutted! We were really looking forward to going to a club, but I doubt we'll bother going to one either Glad though, same as you that this came up, at least we know now lol
*makes point to read up on these things in the future, before deciding to go*
listen hun from the drift of stuff on forum it sounds like it was a fantastic day and evening. enjoyed by many and had a minority of moaners. you always get one old arse who doesnt enjoy themselves or picks fault everywhere you go. so you go with the majority and take on board what they have to say as it far outweights the moans and the groans of the few gripes.
easy peasey
So who are the moaners then??? and who is the arse???
If your refering to my comments .. i'd be interested to hear how that translates into moans and i'm an arse for having an opinion???
I'm fresh.. lets go lol
"you have always been a moaning sod whether on this subject or something else. why didnt you say something positive about sunday, instead of negative ya sweaty arsehole | |||
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" listen hun from the drift of stuff on forum it sounds like it was a fantastic day and evening. enjoyed by many and had a minority of moaners. you always get one old arse who doesnt enjoy themselves or picks fault everywhere you go. so you go with the majority and take on board what they have to say as it far outweights the moans and the groans of the few gripes. easy peasey Very true and possibly one of the most common sense posts on the thread. Unfortunately as we are all too well aware the moaners spoil it for everybody else and are the reason why people stop putting lots of effort into organising such events which to be honest you can't blame them." Ohhh please.... Who's moaning then?? Has anyone actually read the thread or just deciding to jump in and say any old shite ff's... | |||
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" listen hun from the drift of stuff on forum it sounds like it was a fantastic day and evening. enjoyed by many and had a minority of moaners. you always get one old arse who doesnt enjoy themselves or picks fault everywhere you go. so you go with the majority and take on board what they have to say as it far outweights the moans and the groans of the few gripes. easy peasey Very true and possibly one of the most common sense posts on the thread. Unfortunately as we are all too well aware the moaners spoil it for everybody else and are the reason why people stop putting lots of effort into organising such events which to be honest you can't blame them. Ohhh please.... Who's moaning then?? Has anyone actually read the thread or just deciding to jump in and say any old shite ff's... "you know me. cant be arsed reading the thread. i just love saying any old shite and not afraid to do so so ave jumped in.....shoot me yer bar steward rite am off for a cig, dont take this as a sign of weakness that ave disappeared | |||
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"Well I am glad this thread was started, it has just confirmed what I had thought...you will never get me in a club lol. I'm gutted! We were really looking forward to going to a club, but I doubt we'll bother going to one either Glad though, same as you that this came up, at least we know now lol
*makes point to read up on these things in the future, before deciding to go*
listen hun from the drift of stuff on forum it sounds like it was a fantastic day and evening. enjoyed by many and had a minority of moaners. you always get one old arse who doesnt enjoy themselves or picks fault everywhere you go. so you go with the majority and take on board what they have to say as it far outweights the moans and the groans of the few gripes.
easy peasey
So who are the moaners then??? and who is the arse???
If your refering to my comments .. i'd be interested to hear how that translates into moans and i'm an arse for having an opinion???
I'm fresh.. lets go lol
you have always been a moaning sod whether on this subject or something else. why didnt you say something positive about sunday, instead of negative ya sweaty arsehole "Say something positive... Ohh see, so I havn't then??? I think if you can be arsed.. (Your words) you'll see I have plenty, the night was a raving success and the effort put in was welcomed by myself and many others... The fact a few ill mannered blind beggars are trying to turn this into something its not is beyong playground politics.. The thread is about what peoples views are on the towels.. sod all to do with Sunday bar the fact thats the first time we have been asked to get changed... Nothing more, nothing less.. So dress it how ya like lol.. Really don't give a stuff! | |||
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" listen hun from the drift of stuff on forum it sounds like it was a fantastic day and evening. enjoyed by many and had a minority of moaners. you always get one old arse who doesnt enjoy themselves or picks fault everywhere you go. so you go with the majority and take on board what they have to say as it far outweights the moans and the groans of the few gripes. easy peasey Very true and possibly one of the most common sense posts on the thread. Unfortunately as we are all too well aware the moaners spoil it for everybody else and are the reason why people stop putting lots of effort into organising such events which to be honest you can't blame them. Ohhh please.... Who's moaning then?? Has anyone actually read the thread or just deciding to jump in and say any old shite ff's... "I will stick up for ya, I didn't take it as a moan, just an observation! I think we should start a 'we hate towels' thread and start up a new club
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"Well I am glad this thread was started, it has just confirmed what I had thought...you will never get me in a club lol. I'm gutted! We were really looking forward to going to a club, but I doubt we'll bother going to one either Glad though, same as you that this came up, at least we know now lol
*makes point to read up on these things in the future, before deciding to go*
listen hun from the drift of stuff on forum it sounds like it was a fantastic day and evening. enjoyed by many and had a minority of moaners. you always get one old arse who doesnt enjoy themselves or picks fault everywhere you go. so you go with the majority and take on board what they have to say as it far outweights the moans and the groans of the few gripes.
easy peasey
So who are the moaners then??? and who is the arse???
If your refering to my comments .. i'd be interested to hear how that translates into moans and i'm an arse for having an opinion???
I'm fresh.. lets go lol
you have always been a moaning sod whether on this subject or something else. why didnt you say something positive about sunday, instead of negative ya sweaty arsehole
Say something positive... Ohh see, so I havn't then??? I think if you can be arsed.. (Your words) you'll see I have plenty, the night was a raving success and the effort put in was welcomed by myself and many others... The fact a few ill mannered blind beggars are trying to turn this into something its not is beyong playground politics..
The thread is about what peoples views are on the towels.. sod all to do with Sunday bar the fact thats the first time we have been asked to get changed... Nothing more, nothing less.. So dress it how ya like lol.. Really don't give a stuff! " | |||
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" listen hun from the drift of stuff on forum it sounds like it was a fantastic day and evening. enjoyed by many and had a minority of moaners. you always get one old arse who doesnt enjoy themselves or picks fault everywhere you go. so you go with the majority and take on board what they have to say as it far outweights the moans and the groans of the few gripes. easy peasey Very true and possibly one of the most common sense posts on the thread. Unfortunately as we are all too well aware the moaners spoil it for everybody else and are the reason why people stop putting lots of effort into organising such events which to be honest you can't blame them. Ohhh please.... Who's moaning then?? Has anyone actually read the thread or just deciding to jump in and say any old shite ff's...
I will stick up for ya, I didn't take it as a moan, just an observation! I think we should start a 'we hate towels' thread and start up a new club
"PMSL.... I'm a moaner now too.... WTF!!! Feck me... If I'm a moaner some are clinically depresed or indeed dead... | |||
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