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"Perhaps they think-or have found- that middle aged women are less inhibited in bed. I know a lot tell me that. Having sex with much older women doesn't mean they don't have sex with women their age, or younger. " I’ve found that women in their 30s are less inhibited in bed... I can’t honestly say I’d be sexually attracted to a woman of 50-60, at my current age of 35 and don’t know a single guy around my age in “real life” who would be. It just strikes me as highly unusual... | |||
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"Perhaps they think-or have found- that middle aged women are less inhibited in bed. I know a lot tell me that. Having sex with much older women doesn't mean they don't have sex with women their age, or younger. I’ve found that women in their 30s are less inhibited in bed... I can’t honestly say I’d be sexually attracted to a woman of 50-60, at my current age of 35 and don’t know a single guy around my age in “real life” who would be. It just strikes me as highly unusual... " You know why there's a ready supply of younger men who like older women. Most older women know why too. If both parties are getting what they want whats the problem? | |||
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"Perhaps they think-or have found- that middle aged women are less inhibited in bed. I know a lot tell me that. Having sex with much older women doesn't mean they don't have sex with women their age, or younger. I’ve found that women in their 30s are less inhibited in bed... I can’t honestly say I’d be sexually attracted to a woman of 50-60, at my current age of 35 and don’t know a single guy around my age in “real life” who would be. It just strikes me as highly unusual... " I find it strange that an intelligent man can't understand how people have differing tastes in sexual partners. We're talking about sexual attraction, not life partners. Younger men will usually be looking for a mother for their children (although some are not interested in having children), so, therefore, will want to settle down with someone of child-bearing age. | |||
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"Perhaps they think-or have found- that middle aged women are less inhibited in bed. I know a lot tell me that. Having sex with much older women doesn't mean they don't have sex with women their age, or younger. I’ve found that women in their 30s are less inhibited in bed... I can’t honestly say I’d be sexually attracted to a woman of 50-60, at my current age of 35 and don’t know a single guy around my age in “real life” who would be. It just strikes me as highly unusual... You know why there's a ready supply of younger men who like older women. Most older women know why too. If both parties are getting what they want whats the problem? " No - I honestly don’t know why - hence posting the thread! I’d really like to understand it from the guys’ perspective, since it just isn’t something I can relate to. As I said in the OP, no judgement/criticism intended.  | |||
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"Perhaps they think-or have found- that middle aged women are less inhibited in bed. I know a lot tell me that. Having sex with much older women doesn't mean they don't have sex with women their age, or younger. I’ve found that women in their 30s are less inhibited in bed... I can’t honestly say I’d be sexually attracted to a woman of 50-60, at my current age of 35 and don’t know a single guy around my age in “real life” who would be. It just strikes me as highly unusual... I find it strange that an intelligent man can't understand how people have differing tastes in sexual partners. We're talking about sexual attraction, not life partners. Younger men will usually be looking for a mother for their children (although some are not interested in having children), so, therefore, will want to settle down with someone of child-bearing age. " That's about it. | |||
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"Perhaps they think-or have found- that middle aged women are less inhibited in bed. I know a lot tell me that. Having sex with much older women doesn't mean they don't have sex with women their age, or younger. I’ve found that women in their 30s are less inhibited in bed... I can’t honestly say I’d be sexually attracted to a woman of 50-60, at my current age of 35 and don’t know a single guy around my age in “real life” who would be. It just strikes me as highly unusual... " The thing is the way you're judging people is the reason people in "real life" may not admit to what they actually want and get up to in their private lives. You assume you don't know anyone attracted to older ladies but how many of those people know everything that you're into? | |||
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"Perhaps they think-or have found- that middle aged women are less inhibited in bed. I know a lot tell me that. Having sex with much older women doesn't mean they don't have sex with women their age, or younger. I’ve found that women in their 30s are less inhibited in bed... I can’t honestly say I’d be sexually attracted to a woman of 50-60, at my current age of 35 and don’t know a single guy around my age in “real life” who would be. It just strikes me as highly unusual... You know why there's a ready supply of younger men who like older women. Most older women know why too. If both parties are getting what they want whats the problem? No - I honestly don’t know why - hence posting the thread! I’d really like to understand it from the guys’ perspective, since it just isn’t something I can relate to. As I said in the OP, no judgement/criticism intended. "You should have aimed the thread at men- although, I think a lot will be in bed or don't read the forums. | |||
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"I'm 51 prefer guys over 40 and have not met anyone under that age though choice . I'm beating the young guys off with a stick so make of that what you will. "Same here, I get lots of offers from men as young as 19. Not that I’d meet them. X | |||
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I disagree, most guys in your age group wanna sleep with fems 45 and up. If you look at their physical appearance, most older women don't look their age!
I've always been told I look 10-15 years younger....
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"Perhaps they think-or have found- that middle aged women are less inhibited in bed. I know a lot tell me that. Having sex with much older women doesn't mean they don't have sex with women their age, or younger. I’ve found that women in their 30s are less inhibited in bed... I can’t honestly say I’d be sexually attracted to a woman of 50-60, at my current age of 35 and don’t know a single guy around my age in “real life” who would be. It just strikes me as highly unusual... You know why there's a ready supply of younger men who like older women. Most older women know why too. If both parties are getting what they want whats the problem? No - I honestly don’t know why - hence posting the thread! I’d really like to understand it from the guys’ perspective, since it just isn’t something I can relate to. As I said in the OP, no judgement/criticism intended. "Ok, I'm not a man but I'm an older woman. My observations are that there are younger men who genuinely find older women attractive, they like the confidence, experience, wisdom and knowledge that they have. Then there are the younger men who say they like older women because they think they're desperate and grateful, that their husbands can't get it up and that they can teach them a trick or two to take back to their younger lovers. | |||
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"Perhaps they think-or have found- that middle aged women are less inhibited in bed. I know a lot tell me that. Having sex with much older women doesn't mean they don't have sex with women their age, or younger. I’ve found that women in their 30s are less inhibited in bed... I can’t honestly say I’d be sexually attracted to a woman of 50-60, at my current age of 35 and don’t know a single guy around my age in “real life” who would be. It just strikes me as highly unusual... I find it strange that an intelligent man can't understand how people have differing tastes in sexual partners. We're talking about sexual attraction, not life partners. Younger men will usually be looking for a mother for their children (although some are not interested in having children), so, therefore, will want to settle down with someone of child-bearing age. " I do understand that - but (fetishes aside) there’s a biological imperative that drives sexual attraction. At a base level men (of all ages) look for childbearing women, women look for providers. | |||
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"Only tidy 1's, in clubs. The single female average age in clubs must be about 40. They've been round the block and know what they're doing. " Great to get a response from a bloke. Would you go much above 40 in terms of your preferences, even in a club situation? | |||
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"... and here we go again about ages
I disagree, most guys in your age group wanna sleep with fems 45 and up. If you look at their physical appearance, most older women don't look their age!
I've always been told I look 10-15 years younger....
"Honestly - not the ones I know. They look for women around the same age, or ideally a few years younger. | |||
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"Perhaps they think-or have found- that middle aged women are less inhibited in bed. I know a lot tell me that. Having sex with much older women doesn't mean they don't have sex with women their age, or younger. I’ve found that women in their 30s are less inhibited in bed... I can’t honestly say I’d be sexually attracted to a woman of 50-60, at my current age of 35 and don’t know a single guy around my age in “real life” who would be. It just strikes me as highly unusual... I find it strange that an intelligent man can't understand how people have differing tastes in sexual partners. We're talking about sexual attraction, not life partners. Younger men will usually be looking for a mother for their children (although some are not interested in having children), so, therefore, will want to settle down with someone of child-bearing age. I do understand that - but (fetishes aside) there’s a biological imperative that drives sexual attraction. At a base level men (of all ages) look for childbearing women, women look for providers. " Not when it's sex for pleasure. I certainly don't look for any man to provide anything other than carnal pleasure, and my 36 year old long term partner knew I was unable to have children when we met 8 years ago. | |||
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"Only tidy 1's, in clubs. The single female average age in clubs must be about 40. They've been round the block and know what they're doing. Great to get a response from a bloke. Would you go much above 40 in terms of your preferences, even in a club situation? " Well with women being age fluid an all a few mid 40's women were probably 50 but looked younger.
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"I can't say I care at all about providers or anything to do with the hypothetical children I don't plan to have. "
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"Perhaps they think-or have found- that middle aged women are less inhibited in bed. I know a lot tell me that. Having sex with much older women doesn't mean they don't have sex with women their age, or younger. I’ve found that women in their 30s are less inhibited in bed... I can’t honestly say I’d be sexually attracted to a woman of 50-60, at my current age of 35 and don’t know a single guy around my age in “real life” who would be. It just strikes me as highly unusual... The thing is the way you're judging people is the reason people in "real life" may not admit to what they actually want and get up to in their private lives. You assume you don't know anyone attracted to older ladies but how many of those people know everything that you're into? " Possibly some truth in that. But my male freindship circle I can’t think of a single occasion where a guy has dated a woman more than two or three years older. Quite a few date younger (I know that’s dating rather than swinging, but still). | |||
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"... and here we go again about ages
I disagree, most guys in your age group wanna sleep with fems 45 and up. If you look at their physical appearance, most older women don't look their age!
I've always been told I look 10-15 years younger....
Honestly - not the ones I know. They look for women around the same age, or ideally a few years younger. "I know lots who prefer older women. | |||
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"... and here we go again about ages
I disagree, most guys in your age group wanna sleep with fems 45 and up. If you look at their physical appearance, most older women don't look their age!
I've always been told I look 10-15 years younger....
Honestly - not the ones I know. They look for women around the same age, or ideally a few years younger.
I know lots who prefer older women. "I also know women who married much younger men. | |||
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"Only tidy 1's, in clubs. The single female average age in clubs must be about 40. They've been round the block and know what they're doing. Great to get a response from a bloke. Would you go much above 40 in terms of your preferences, even in a club situation? Well with women being age fluid an all a few mid 40's women were probably 50 but looked younger.
They were the best options available on the night."And there we have it. With some exceptions in a sexual situation a man of 35 will go for a woman around his own age. If a woman around his own age isn't available he will go for the best option available | |||
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"Only tidy 1's, in clubs. The single female average age in clubs must be about 40. They've been round the block and know what they're doing. Great to get a response from a bloke. Would you go much above 40 in terms of your preferences, even in a club situation? Well with women being age fluid an all a few mid 40's women were probably 50 but looked younger.
They were the best options available on the night.
And there we have it.
With some exceptions in a sexual situation a man of 35 will go for a woman around his own age. If a woman around his own age isn't available he will go for the best option available"Which might be someone he wouldn't normally consider. | |||
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"Only tidy 1's, in clubs. The single female average age in clubs must be about 40. They've been round the block and know what they're doing. Great to get a response from a bloke. Would you go much above 40 in terms of your preferences, even in a club situation? Well with women being age fluid an all a few mid 40's women were probably 50 but looked younger.
They were the best options available on the night."You’re mid 20s I think? If you weren’t in a club situation, “in the moment” so to speak, would you meet someone from here aged around 50? | |||
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"Only tidy 1's, in clubs. The single female average age in clubs must be about 40. They've been round the block and know what they're doing. Great to get a response from a bloke. Would you go much above 40 in terms of your preferences, even in a club situation? Well with women being age fluid an all a few mid 40's women were probably 50 but looked younger.
They were the best options available on the night.
And there we have it.
With some exceptions in a sexual situation a man of 35 will go for a woman around his own age. If a woman around his own age isn't available he will go for the best option available"Touché, or the women around my age weren't attractive. | |||
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"Only tidy 1's, in clubs. The single female average age in clubs must be about 40. They've been round the block and know what they're doing. Great to get a response from a bloke. Would you go much above 40 in terms of your preferences, even in a club situation? Well with women being age fluid an all a few mid 40's women were probably 50 but looked younger.
They were the best options available on the night.
And there we have it.
With some exceptions in a sexual situation a man of 35 will go for a woman around his own age. If a woman around his own age isn't available he will go for the best option available
Which might be someone he wouldn't normally consider."Yep! | |||
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"Perhaps they think-or have found- that middle aged women are less inhibited in bed. I know a lot tell me that. Having sex with much older women doesn't mean they don't have sex with women their age, or younger. I’ve found that women in their 30s are less inhibited in bed... I can’t honestly say I’d be sexually attracted to a woman of 50-60, at my current age of 35 and don’t know a single guy around my age in “real life” who would be. It just strikes me as highly unusual... The thing is the way you're judging people is the reason people in "real life" may not admit to what they actually want and get up to in their private lives. You assume you don't know anyone attracted to older ladies but how many of those people know everything that you're into? Possibly some truth in that. But my male freindship circle I can’t think of a single occasion where a guy has dated a woman more than two or three years older. Quite a few date younger (I know that’s dating rather than swinging, but still)." You just said it yourself. This is swinging not dating. Do you judge the ones who date younger women? | |||
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"... and here we go again about ages
I disagree, most guys in your age group wanna sleep with fems 45 and up. If you look at their physical appearance, most older women don't look their age!
I've always been told I look 10-15 years younger....
Honestly - not the ones I know. They look for women around the same age, or ideally a few years younger.
I know lots who prefer older women.
I also know women who married much younger men. "I know afew married couple were the lady is least 15years older. She is still hot and obvious he still fancys her | |||
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"Perhaps they think-or have found- that middle aged women are less inhibited in bed. I know a lot tell me that. Having sex with much older women doesn't mean they don't have sex with women their age, or younger. I’ve found that women in their 30s are less inhibited in bed... I can’t honestly say I’d be sexually attracted to a woman of 50-60, at my current age of 35 and don’t know a single guy around my age in “real life” who would be. It just strikes me as highly unusual... The thing is the way you're judging people is the reason people in "real life" may not admit to what they actually want and get up to in their private lives. You assume you don't know anyone attracted to older ladies but how many of those people know everything that you're into? Possibly some truth in that. But my male freindship circle I can’t think of a single occasion where a guy has dated a woman more than two or three years older. Quite a few date younger (I know that’s dating rather than swinging, but still). You just said it yourself. This is swinging not dating. Do you judge the ones who date younger women? " I’m not judging anyone. I’ve asked a question based on my own experiences. Didn’t you say before you tend to date your age or older? | |||
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"Only tidy 1's, in clubs. The single female average age in clubs must be about 40. They've been round the block and know what they're doing. Great to get a response from a bloke. Would you go much above 40 in terms of your preferences, even in a club situation? Well with women being age fluid an all a few mid 40's women were probably 50 but looked younger.
They were the best options available on the night.
You’re mid 20s I think?
If you weren’t in a club situation, “in the moment” so to speak, would you meet someone from here aged around 50? "No, I may look it but I'm 30. I wouldn't go a pub or dinner etc they might look like they're my mum. Private meet maybe. | |||
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"Perhaps they think-or have found- that middle aged women are less inhibited in bed. I know a lot tell me that. Having sex with much older women doesn't mean they don't have sex with women their age, or younger. I’ve found that women in their 30s are less inhibited in bed... I can’t honestly say I’d be sexually attracted to a woman of 50-60, at my current age of 35 and don’t know a single guy around my age in “real life” who would be. It just strikes me as highly unusual... The thing is the way you're judging people is the reason people in "real life" may not admit to what they actually want and get up to in their private lives. You assume you don't know anyone attracted to older ladies but how many of those people know everything that you're into? Possibly some truth in that. But my male freindship circle I can’t think of a single occasion where a guy has dated a woman more than two or three years older. Quite a few date younger (I know that’s dating rather than swinging, but still). You just said it yourself. This is swinging not dating. Do you judge the ones who date younger women? I’m not judging anyone. I’ve asked a question based on my own experiences. Didn’t you say before you tend to date your age or older? " I do so why are you not questioning that? Why are you not questioning the young ladies like the ones who date your friends? It's weird how it's not the same when it's the guy who's older. | |||
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"Only tidy 1's, in clubs. The single female average age in clubs must be about 40. They've been round the block and know what they're doing. Great to get a response from a bloke. Would you go much above 40 in terms of your preferences, even in a club situation? Well with women being age fluid an all a few mid 40's women were probably 50 but looked younger.
They were the best options available on the night.
You’re mid 20s I think?
If you weren’t in a club situation, “in the moment” so to speak, would you meet someone from here aged around 50? No, I may look it but I'm 30.
I wouldn't go a pub or dinner etc they might look like they're my mum. Private meet maybe." . A young male colleague of mine invited an older female colleague for a weekend away once and actually suggested that they told the hotel she was his mum. She didn't go | |||
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"Perhaps they think-or have found- that middle aged women are less inhibited in bed. I know a lot tell me that. Having sex with much older women doesn't mean they don't have sex with women their age, or younger. I’ve found that women in their 30s are less inhibited in bed... I can’t honestly say I’d be sexually attracted to a woman of 50-60, at my current age of 35 and don’t know a single guy around my age in “real life” who would be. It just strikes me as highly unusual... The thing is the way you're judging people is the reason people in "real life" may not admit to what they actually want and get up to in their private lives. You assume you don't know anyone attracted to older ladies but how many of those people know everything that you're into? Possibly some truth in that. But my male freindship circle I can’t think of a single occasion where a guy has dated a woman more than two or three years older. Quite a few date younger (I know that’s dating rather than swinging, but still). You just said it yourself. This is swinging not dating. Do you judge the ones who date younger women? I’m not judging anyone. I’ve asked a question based on my own experiences. Didn’t you say before you tend to date your age or older? I do so why are you not questioning that? Why are you not questioning the young ladies like the ones who date your friends? It's weird how it's not the same when it's the guy who's older. " Because your preference (and mine) is typical of my own experience, and the biological point I mentioned above. Young men seeking out women in their 50s/60s for sex seems unusual to me. It would be great to get some responses on this thread from these men... | |||
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"Perhaps they think-or have found- that middle aged women are less inhibited in bed. I know a lot tell me that. Having sex with much older women doesn't mean they don't have sex with women their age, or younger. I’ve found that women in their 30s are less inhibited in bed... I can’t honestly say I’d be sexually attracted to a woman of 50-60, at my current age of 35 and don’t know a single guy around my age in “real life” who would be. It just strikes me as highly unusual... The thing is the way you're judging people is the reason people in "real life" may not admit to what they actually want and get up to in their private lives. You assume you don't know anyone attracted to older ladies but how many of those people know everything that you're into? Possibly some truth in that. But my male freindship circle I can’t think of a single occasion where a guy has dated a woman more than two or three years older. Quite a few date younger (I know that’s dating rather than swinging, but still). You just said it yourself. This is swinging not dating. Do you judge the ones who date younger women? I’m not judging anyone. I’ve asked a question based on my own experiences. Didn’t you say before you tend to date your age or older? I do so why are you not questioning that? Why are you not questioning the young ladies like the ones who date your friends? It's weird how it's not the same when it's the guy who's older. " He can't understand how, because he doesn't find older wome. attractive, other men can. | |||
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"Perhaps they think-or have found- that middle aged women are less inhibited in bed. I know a lot tell me that. Having sex with much older women doesn't mean they don't have sex with women their age, or younger. I’ve found that women in their 30s are less inhibited in bed... I can’t honestly say I’d be sexually attracted to a woman of 50-60, at my current age of 35 and don’t know a single guy around my age in “real life” who would be. It just strikes me as highly unusual... The thing is the way you're judging people is the reason people in "real life" may not admit to what they actually want and get up to in their private lives. You assume you don't know anyone attracted to older ladies but how many of those people know everything that you're into? Possibly some truth in that. But my male freindship circle I can’t think of a single occasion where a guy has dated a woman more than two or three years older. Quite a few date younger (I know that’s dating rather than swinging, but still). You just said it yourself. This is swinging not dating. Do you judge the ones who date younger women? I’m not judging anyone. I’ve asked a question based on my own experiences. Didn’t you say before you tend to date your age or older? I do so why are you not questioning that? Why are you not questioning the young ladies like the ones who date your friends? It's weird how it's not the same when it's the guy who's older. " It's because women have a shorter shelf life in the real world. There is a saying. "Men age like fine wine. Women age like Milk". | |||
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"Perhaps they think-or have found- that middle aged women are less inhibited in bed. I know a lot tell me that. Having sex with much older women doesn't mean they don't have sex with women their age, or younger. I’ve found that women in their 30s are less inhibited in bed... I can’t honestly say I’d be sexually attracted to a woman of 50-60, at my current age of 35 and don’t know a single guy around my age in “real life” who would be. It just strikes me as highly unusual... The thing is the way you're judging people is the reason people in "real life" may not admit to what they actually want and get up to in their private lives. You assume you don't know anyone attracted to older ladies but how many of those people know everything that you're into? Possibly some truth in that. But my male freindship circle I can’t think of a single occasion where a guy has dated a woman more than two or three years older. Quite a few date younger (I know that’s dating rather than swinging, but still). You just said it yourself. This is swinging not dating. Do you judge the ones who date younger women? I’m not judging anyone. I’ve asked a question based on my own experiences. Didn’t you say before you tend to date your age or older? I do so why are you not questioning that? Why are you not questioning the young ladies like the ones who date your friends? It's weird how it's not the same when it's the guy who's older. It's because women have a shorter shelf life in the real world. There is a saying. "Men age like fine wine. Women age like Milk"." Except men don't age like fine wine. | |||
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"Only tidy 1's, in clubs. The single female average age in clubs must be about 40. They've been round the block and know what they're doing. Great to get a response from a bloke. Would you go much above 40 in terms of your preferences, even in a club situation? Well with women being age fluid an all a few mid 40's women were probably 50 but looked younger.
They were the best options available on the night.
You’re mid 20s I think?
If you weren’t in a club situation, “in the moment” so to speak, would you meet someone from here aged around 50? No, I may look it but I'm 30.
I wouldn't go a pub or dinner etc they might look like they're my mum. Private meet maybe.
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"Perhaps they think-or have found- that middle aged women are less inhibited in bed. I know a lot tell me that. Having sex with much older women doesn't mean they don't have sex with women their age, or younger. I’ve found that women in their 30s are less inhibited in bed... I can’t honestly say I’d be sexually attracted to a woman of 50-60, at my current age of 35 and don’t know a single guy around my age in “real life” who would be. It just strikes me as highly unusual... The thing is the way you're judging people is the reason people in "real life" may not admit to what they actually want and get up to in their private lives. You assume you don't know anyone attracted to older ladies but how many of those people know everything that you're into? Possibly some truth in that. But my male freindship circle I can’t think of a single occasion where a guy has dated a woman more than two or three years older. Quite a few date younger (I know that’s dating rather than swinging, but still). You just said it yourself. This is swinging not dating. Do you judge the ones who date younger women? I’m not judging anyone. I’ve asked a question based on my own experiences. Didn’t you say before you tend to date your age or older? I do so why are you not questioning that? Why are you not questioning the young ladies like the ones who date your friends? It's weird how it's not the same when it's the guy who's older. It's because women have a shorter shelf life in the real world. There is a saying. "Men age like fine wine. Women age like Milk". Milk! " Fresh flowers isn’t it?! | |||
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"Perhaps they think-or have found- that middle aged women are less inhibited in bed. I know a lot tell me that. Having sex with much older women doesn't mean they don't have sex with women their age, or younger. I’ve found that women in their 30s are less inhibited in bed... I can’t honestly say I’d be sexually attracted to a woman of 50-60, at my current age of 35 and don’t know a single guy around my age in “real life” who would be. It just strikes me as highly unusual... The thing is the way you're judging people is the reason people in "real life" may not admit to what they actually want and get up to in their private lives. You assume you don't know anyone attracted to older ladies but how many of those people know everything that you're into? Possibly some truth in that. But my male freindship circle I can’t think of a single occasion where a guy has dated a woman more than two or three years older. Quite a few date younger (I know that’s dating rather than swinging, but still). You just said it yourself. This is swinging not dating. Do you judge the ones who date younger women? I’m not judging anyone. I’ve asked a question based on my own experiences. Didn’t you say before you tend to date your age or older? I do so why are you not questioning that? Why are you not questioning the young ladies like the ones who date your friends? It's weird how it's not the same when it's the guy who's older. It's because women have a shorter shelf life in the real world. There is a saying. "Men age like fine wine. Women age like Milk". Except men don't age like fine wine." Lol. I've seen many couples where the woman is the wine and the guy is yogurt. | |||
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"Perhaps they think-or have found- that middle aged women are less inhibited in bed. I know a lot tell me that. Having sex with much older women doesn't mean they don't have sex with women their age, or younger. I’ve found that women in their 30s are less inhibited in bed... I can’t honestly say I’d be sexually attracted to a woman of 50-60, at my current age of 35 and don’t know a single guy around my age in “real life” who would be. It just strikes me as highly unusual... The thing is the way you're judging people is the reason people in "real life" may not admit to what they actually want and get up to in their private lives. You assume you don't know anyone attracted to older ladies but how many of those people know everything that you're into? Possibly some truth in that. But my male freindship circle I can’t think of a single occasion where a guy has dated a woman more than two or three years older. Quite a few date younger (I know that’s dating rather than swinging, but still). You just said it yourself. This is swinging not dating. Do you judge the ones who date younger women? I’m not judging anyone. I’ve asked a question based on my own experiences. Didn’t you say before you tend to date your age or older? I do so why are you not questioning that? Why are you not questioning the young ladies like the ones who date your friends? It's weird how it's not the same when it's the guy who's older. Because your preference (and mine) is typical of my own experience, and the biological point I mentioned above. Young men seeking out women in their 50s/60s for sex seems unusual to me. It would be great to get some responses on this thread from these men... " That's the thing, it's your experience and your preference. Even if some guys came on and told you why they like older ladies it won't make any difference, it doesn't appeal to you so you won't fully understand it. I'm sure you can work out a few reasons of the reasons for yourself whether you agree with them or not. | |||
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They were the best options available on the night.
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With some exceptions in a sexual situation a man of 35 will go for a woman around his own age. If a woman around his own age isn't available he will go for the best option available Touché, or the women around my age weren't attractive. "But what makes you think an older women would be attracted to you? Attraction is not solely based around age just saying like.... | |||
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"Perhaps they think-or have found- that middle aged women are less inhibited in bed. I know a lot tell me that. Having sex with much older women doesn't mean they don't have sex with women their age, or younger. I’ve found that women in their 30s are less inhibited in bed... I can’t honestly say I’d be sexually attracted to a woman of 50-60, at my current age of 35 and don’t know a single guy around my age in “real life” who would be. It just strikes me as highly unusual... The thing is the way you're judging people is the reason people in "real life" may not admit to what they actually want and get up to in their private lives. You assume you don't know anyone attracted to older ladies but how many of those people know everything that you're into? Possibly some truth in that. But my male freindship circle I can’t think of a single occasion where a guy has dated a woman more than two or three years older. Quite a few date younger (I know that’s dating rather than swinging, but still). You just said it yourself. This is swinging not dating. Do you judge the ones who date younger women? I’m not judging anyone. I’ve asked a question based on my own experiences. Didn’t you say before you tend to date your age or older? I do so why are you not questioning that? Why are you not questioning the young ladies like the ones who date your friends? It's weird how it's not the same when it's the guy who's older. It's because women have a shorter shelf life in the real world. There is a saying. "Men age like fine wine. Women age like Milk"." That’s what I’ve always understood, and there are good biological/evolutionary reasons for that. I’ve done my best to be neutral here and I’ve still had several defensive PMs... | |||
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"Perhaps they think-or have found- that middle aged women are less inhibited in bed. I know a lot tell me that. Having sex with much older women doesn't mean they don't have sex with women their age, or younger. I’ve found that women in their 30s are less inhibited in bed... I can’t honestly say I’d be sexually attracted to a woman of 50-60, at my current age of 35 and don’t know a single guy around my age in “real life” who would be. It just strikes me as highly unusual... The thing is the way you're judging people is the reason people in "real life" may not admit to what they actually want and get up to in their private lives. You assume you don't know anyone attracted to older ladies but how many of those people know everything that you're into? Possibly some truth in that. But my male freindship circle I can’t think of a single occasion where a guy has dated a woman more than two or three years older. Quite a few date younger (I know that’s dating rather than swinging, but still). You just said it yourself. This is swinging not dating. Do you judge the ones who date younger women? I’m not judging anyone. I’ve asked a question based on my own experiences. Didn’t you say before you tend to date your age or older? I do so why are you not questioning that? Why are you not questioning the young ladies like the ones who date your friends? It's weird how it's not the same when it's the guy who's older. It's because women have a shorter shelf life in the real world. There is a saying. "Men age like fine wine. Women age like Milk". Milk! Fresh flowers isn’t it?! "Jasmine works wonders for maturing skin, so your not far off actually | |||
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"Only tidy 1's, in clubs. The single female average age in clubs must be about 40. They've been round the block and know what they're doing. Great to get a response from a bloke. Would you go much above 40 in terms of your preferences, even in a club situation? Well with women being age fluid an all a few mid 40's women were probably 50 but looked younger.
They were the best options available on the night.
And there we have it.
With some exceptions in a sexual situation a man of 35 will go for a woman around his own age. If a woman around his own age isn't available he will go for the best option available Touché, or the women around my age weren't attractive.
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"Perhaps they think-or have found- that middle aged women are less inhibited in bed. I know a lot tell me that. Having sex with much older women doesn't mean they don't have sex with women their age, or younger. I’ve found that women in their 30s are less inhibited in bed... I can’t honestly say I’d be sexually attracted to a woman of 50-60, at my current age of 35 and don’t know a single guy around my age in “real life” who would be. It just strikes me as highly unusual... The thing is the way you're judging people is the reason people in "real life" may not admit to what they actually want and get up to in their private lives. You assume you don't know anyone attracted to older ladies but how many of those people know everything that you're into? Possibly some truth in that. But my male freindship circle I can’t think of a single occasion where a guy has dated a woman more than two or three years older. Quite a few date younger (I know that’s dating rather than swinging, but still). You just said it yourself. This is swinging not dating. Do you judge the ones who date younger women? I’m not judging anyone. I’ve asked a question based on my own experiences. Didn’t you say before you tend to date your age or older? I do so why are you not questioning that? Why are you not questioning the young ladies like the ones who date your friends? It's weird how it's not the same when it's the guy who's older. It's because women have a shorter shelf life in the real world. There is a saying. "Men age like fine wine. Women age like Milk". That’s what I’ve always understood, and there are good biological/evolutionary reasons for that. I’ve done my best to be neutral here and I’ve still had several defensive PMs... "Lol lap it up. Price you pay for starting an age related thread | |||
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"Only tidy 1's, in clubs. The single female average age in clubs must be about 40. They've been round the block and know what they're doing. Great to get a response from a bloke. Would you go much above 40 in terms of your preferences, even in a club situation? Well with women being age fluid an all a few mid 40's women were probably 50 but looked younger.
They were the best options available on the night.
And there we have it.
With some exceptions in a sexual situation a man of 35 will go for a woman around his own age. If a woman around his own age isn't available he will go for the best option available Touché, or the women around my age weren't attractive.
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"Perhaps they think-or have found- that middle aged women are less inhibited in bed. I know a lot tell me that. Having sex with much older women doesn't mean they don't have sex with women their age, or younger. I’ve found that women in their 30s are less inhibited in bed... I can’t honestly say I’d be sexually attracted to a woman of 50-60, at my current age of 35 and don’t know a single guy around my age in “real life” who would be. It just strikes me as highly unusual... The thing is the way you're judging people is the reason people in "real life" may not admit to what they actually want and get up to in their private lives. You assume you don't know anyone attracted to older ladies but how many of those people know everything that you're into? Possibly some truth in that. But my male freindship circle I can’t think of a single occasion where a guy has dated a woman more than two or three years older. Quite a few date younger (I know that’s dating rather than swinging, but still). You just said it yourself. This is swinging not dating. Do you judge the ones who date younger women? I’m not judging anyone. I’ve asked a question based on my own experiences. Didn’t you say before you tend to date your age or older? I do so why are you not questioning that? Why are you not questioning the young ladies like the ones who date your friends? It's weird how it's not the same when it's the guy who's older. It's because women have a shorter shelf life in the real world. There is a saying. "Men age like fine wine. Women age like Milk". That’s what I’ve always understood, and there are good biological/evolutionary reasons for that. I’ve done my best to be neutral here and I’ve still had several defensive PMs... "Sperm deteriorates and men get wrinkles. | |||
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"Perhaps they think-or have found- that middle aged women are less inhibited in bed. I know a lot tell me that. Having sex with much older women doesn't mean they don't have sex with women their age, or younger. I’ve found that women in their 30s are less inhibited in bed... I can’t honestly say I’d be sexually attracted to a woman of 50-60, at my current age of 35 and don’t know a single guy around my age in “real life” who would be. It just strikes me as highly unusual... The thing is the way you're judging people is the reason people in "real life" may not admit to what they actually want and get up to in their private lives. You assume you don't know anyone attracted to older ladies but how many of those people know everything that you're into? Possibly some truth in that. But my male freindship circle I can’t think of a single occasion where a guy has dated a woman more than two or three years older. Quite a few date younger (I know that’s dating rather than swinging, but still). You just said it yourself. This is swinging not dating. Do you judge the ones who date younger women? I’m not judging anyone. I’ve asked a question based on my own experiences. Didn’t you say before you tend to date your age or older? I do so why are you not questioning that? Why are you not questioning the young ladies like the ones who date your friends? It's weird how it's not the same when it's the guy who's older. It's because women have a shorter shelf life in the real world. There is a saying. "Men age like fine wine. Women age like Milk". That’s what I’ve always understood, and there are good biological/evolutionary reasons for that. I’ve done my best to be neutral here and I’ve still had several defensive PMs... "Fab is like freezing the Milk | |||
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"Only tidy 1's, in clubs. The single female average age in clubs must be about 40. They've been round the block and know what they're doing. Great to get a response from a bloke. Would you go much above 40 in terms of your preferences, even in a club situation? Well with women being age fluid an all a few mid 40's women were probably 50 but looked younger.
They were the best options available on the night.
And there we have it.
With some exceptions in a sexual situation a man of 35 will go for a woman around his own age. If a woman around his own age isn't available he will go for the best option available Touché, or the women around my age weren't attractive.
But what makes you think an older women would be attracted to you? Attraction is not solely based around age just saying like...."I don’t seek out much older women so I wouldn’t know. I’ve received quite a few overtures on here from women well beyond my age range. | |||
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"Perhaps they think-or have found- that middle aged women are less inhibited in bed. I know a lot tell me that. Having sex with much older women doesn't mean they don't have sex with women their age, or younger. I’ve found that women in their 30s are less inhibited in bed... I can’t honestly say I’d be sexually attracted to a woman of 50-60, at my current age of 35 and don’t know a single guy around my age in “real life” who would be. It just strikes me as highly unusual... The thing is the way you're judging people is the reason people in "real life" may not admit to what they actually want and get up to in their private lives. You assume you don't know anyone attracted to older ladies but how many of those people know everything that you're into? Possibly some truth in that. But my male freindship circle I can’t think of a single occasion where a guy has dated a woman more than two or three years older. Quite a few date younger (I know that’s dating rather than swinging, but still). You just said it yourself. This is swinging not dating. Do you judge the ones who date younger women? I’m not judging anyone. I’ve asked a question based on my own experiences. Didn’t you say before you tend to date your age or older? I do so why are you not questioning that? Why are you not questioning the young ladies like the ones who date your friends? It's weird how it's not the same when it's the guy who's older. It's because women have a shorter shelf life in the real world. There is a saying. "Men age like fine wine. Women age like Milk". That’s what I’ve always understood, and there are good biological/evolutionary reasons for that. I’ve done my best to be neutral here and I’ve still had several defensive PMs...
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Lol lap it up. Price you pay for starting an age related thread
Doesn’t bother me in the slightest.
I’m just not sure how reflective Fab is of real life. "Probably not very lol This is a place where people come for their fantasies, not to meet their baby mumma. I just asked a 26 year old why he likes women my age. Apparently, we are better in bed. | |||
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"It's like the Blonde-white show...happy hunting you pair of studs "I'm sure the 3rd musketeer rudeboycane will come along soon. | |||
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"Perhaps they think-or have found- that middle aged women are less inhibited in bed. I know a lot tell me that. Having sex with much older women doesn't mean they don't have sex with women their age, or younger. I’ve found that women in their 30s are less inhibited in bed... I can’t honestly say I’d be sexually attracted to a woman of 50-60, at my current age of 35 and don’t know a single guy around my age in “real life” who would be. It just strikes me as highly unusual... The thing is the way you're judging people is the reason people in "real life" may not admit to what they actually want and get up to in their private lives. You assume you don't know anyone attracted to older ladies but how many of those people know everything that you're into? Possibly some truth in that. But my male freindship circle I can’t think of a single occasion where a guy has dated a woman more than two or three years older. Quite a few date younger (I know that’s dating rather than swinging, but still). You just said it yourself. This is swinging not dating. Do you judge the ones who date younger women? I’m not judging anyone. I’ve asked a question based on my own experiences. Didn’t you say before you tend to date your age or older? I do so why are you not questioning that? Why are you not questioning the young ladies like the ones who date your friends? It's weird how it's not the same when it's the guy who's older. It's because women have a shorter shelf life in the real world. There is a saying. "Men age like fine wine. Women age like Milk". That’s what I’ve always understood, and there are good biological/evolutionary reasons for that. I’ve done my best to be neutral here and I’ve still had several defensive PMs...
Lol lap it up. Price you pay for starting an age related thread
Doesn’t bother me in the slightest.
I’m just not sure how reflective Fab is of real life. "But you’re asking the question on a Fab forum OP. You’re going to get answers based on Fab experiences. | |||
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"It's like the Blonde-white show...happy hunting you pair of studs
This adventurous odyssey is seeing me and my generous lance travel around the U.K. in relentless pursuit of my quarry.
Loving it . "Be sure to stop by for steak and cake on your way past mine! can't have you men getting hungry | |||
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"It's like the Blonde-white show...happy hunting you pair of studs
This adventurous odyssey is seeing me and my generous lance travel around the U.K. in relentless pursuit of my quarry.
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"Perhaps they think-or have found- that middle aged women are less inhibited in bed. I know a lot tell me that. Having sex with much older women doesn't mean they don't have sex with women their age, or younger. I’ve found that women in their 30s are less inhibited in bed... I can’t honestly say I’d be sexually attracted to a woman of 50-60, at my current age of 35 and don’t know a single guy around my age in “real life” who would be. It just strikes me as highly unusual... You know why there's a ready supply of younger men who like older women. Most older women know why too. If both parties are getting what they want whats the problem? No - I honestly don’t know why - hence posting the thread! I’d really like to understand it from the guys’ perspective, since it just isn’t something I can relate to. " Methinks the laddy doth protest too much!! Search for the dozens and dozens of threads entitled 'Where's all the older women?' 'Where's all the cougars? etc, etc if you really want to know, those threads are put up by the young men who are looking. We are talking about sex here - not dating. Very few young men want to settle down with someone older, most want to settle and raise a family with someone their own age. Sex is something different. As people have said, they find us more confident, more capable, and generally a whole lot less histrionic. We're also not about to fall in love with them or expect them to text 10 times a day. When POF changed the rules so that people more than 15 years apart could not even talk to each other, I had some 40 conversations in my inbox that had to stop overnight!! I would say about half of those men then set up profiles with false ages so they could continue contact the older women they wanted to! I met absolutely drop dead gorgeous male models half my age. I used to laugh that I was dating guys in their late 20's when I married, and 30 years later I was still pursued by the same!! Quelle domage, I cried all the way to the bunk......  | |||
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Loving it .
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"Perhaps they think-or have found- that middle aged women are less inhibited in bed. I know a lot tell me that. Having sex with much older women doesn't mean they don't have sex with women their age, or younger. I’ve found that women in their 30s are less inhibited in bed... I can’t honestly say I’d be sexually attracted to a woman of 50-60, at my current age of 35 and don’t know a single guy around my age in “real life” who would be. It just strikes me as highly unusual... You know why there's a ready supply of younger men who like older women. Most older women know why too. If both parties are getting what they want whats the problem? No - I honestly don’t know why - hence posting the thread! I’d really like to understand it from the guys’ perspective, since it just isn’t something I can relate to. Methinks the laddy doth protest too much!! Search for the dozens and dozens of threads entitled 'Where's all the older women?' 'Where's all the cougars? etc, etc if you really want to know, those threads are put up by the young men who are looking. We are talking about sex here - not dating. Very few young men want to settle down with someone older, most want to settle and raise a family with someone their own age. Sex is something different. As people have said, they find us more confident, more capable, and generally a whole lot less histrionic. We're also not about to fall in love with them or expect them to text 10 times a day. When POF changed the rules so that people more than 15 years apart could not even talk to each other, I had some 40 conversations in my inbox that had to stop overnight!! I would say about half of those men then set up profiles with false ages so they could continue contact the older women they wanted to! I met absolutely drop dead gorgeous male models half my age. I used to laugh that I was dating guys in their late 20's when I married, and 30 years later I was still pursued by the same!! Quelle domage, I cried all the way to the bunk...... "I was only on POF a few months when they made that rule and I left. I don't date or have sex older than me and my previous long term partners were all in their 20s. | |||
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Nana love.
Not something I can relate to. Bleurgh
You might get your answers! "The answer I’m getting from that programme is that these people are all pretty dysfunctional and weird. Some serious “mummy issues” going on there.... | |||
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"Perhaps they think-or have found- that middle aged women are less inhibited in bed. I know a lot tell me that. Having sex with much older women doesn't mean they don't have sex with women their age, or younger. I’ve found that women in their 30s are less inhibited in bed... I can’t honestly say I’d be sexually attracted to a woman of 50-60, at my current age of 35 and don’t know a single guy around my age in “real life” who would be. It just strikes me as highly unusual... You know why there's a ready supply of younger men who like older women. Most older women know why too. If both parties are getting what they want whats the problem? No - I honestly don’t know why - hence posting the thread! I’d really like to understand it from the guys’ perspective, since it just isn’t something I can relate to. Methinks the laddy doth protest too much!! Search for the dozens and dozens of threads entitled 'Where's all the older women?' 'Where's all the cougars? etc, etc if you really want to know, those threads are put up by the young men who are looking. We are talking about sex here - not dating. Very few young men want to settle down with someone older, most want to settle and raise a family with someone their own age. Sex is something different. As people have said, they find us more confident, more capable, and generally a whole lot less histrionic. We're also not about to fall in love with them or expect them to text 10 times a day. When POF changed the rules so that people more than 15 years apart could not even talk to each other, I had some 40 conversations in my inbox that had to stop overnight!! I would say about half of those men then set up profiles with false ages so they could continue contact the older women they wanted to! I met absolutely drop dead gorgeous male models half my age. I used to laugh that I was dating guys in their late 20's when I married, and 30 years later I was still pursued by the same!! Quelle domage, I cried all the way to the bunk......
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"It's like the Blonde-white show...happy hunting you pair of studs
This adventurous odyssey is seeing me and my generous lance travel around the U.K. in relentless pursuit of my quarry.
Loving it .
Be sure to stop by for steak and cake on your way past mine! can't have you men getting hungry
I reckon my horse will need feeding after the long journey up to Liverpool from London.
Reckon you can take us in and give us a few apples? "Why of course. if you're lucky I'll bake an apple crumble | |||
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"It's like the Blonde-white show...happy hunting you pair of studs
This adventurous odyssey is seeing me and my generous lance travel around the U.K. in relentless pursuit of my quarry.
Loving it .
Be sure to stop by for steak and cake on your way past mine! can't have you men getting hungry
I reckon my horse will need feeding after the long journey up to Liverpool from London.
Reckon you can take us in and give us a few apples?
Why of course. if you're lucky I'll bake an apple crumble "Sounds good. Depending on how good the crumble is I might just propose. Will you give me somewhere to rest my lance? | |||
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"It's like the Blonde-white show...happy hunting you pair of studs
This adventurous odyssey is seeing me and my generous lance travel around the U.K. in relentless pursuit of my quarry.
Loving it .
Be sure to stop by for steak and cake on your way past mine! can't have you men getting hungry
I reckon my horse will need feeding after the long journey up to Liverpool from London.
Reckon you can take us in and give us a few apples?
Why of course. if you're lucky I'll bake an apple crumble
Sounds good. Depending on how good the crumble is I might just propose.
Will you give me somewhere to rest my lance? "I can't promise it will be warm and dry though.. | |||
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"Perhaps they think-or have found- that middle aged women are less inhibited in bed. I know a lot tell me that. Having sex with much older women doesn't mean they don't have sex with women their age, or younger. I’ve found that women in their 30s are less inhibited in bed... I can’t honestly say I’d be sexually attracted to a woman of 50-60, at my current age of 35 and don’t know a single guy around my age in “real life” who would be. It just strikes me as highly unusual... You know why there's a ready supply of younger men who like older women. Most older women know why too. If both parties are getting what they want whats the problem? No - I honestly don’t know why - hence posting the thread! I’d really like to understand it from the guys’ perspective, since it just isn’t something I can relate to. Methinks the laddy doth protest too much!! Search for the dozens and dozens of threads entitled 'Where's all the older women?' 'Where's all the cougars? etc, etc if you really want to know, those threads are put up by the young men who are looking. We are talking about sex here - not dating. Very few young men want to settle down with someone older, most want to settle and raise a family with someone their own age. Sex is something different. As people have said, they find us more confident, more capable, and generally a whole lot less histrionic. We're also not about to fall in love with them or expect them to text 10 times a day. When POF changed the rules so that people more than 15 years apart could not even talk to each other, I had some 40 conversations in my inbox that had to stop overnight!! I would say about half of those men then set up profiles with false ages so they could continue contact the older women they wanted to! I met absolutely drop dead gorgeous male models half my age. I used to laugh that I was dating guys in their late 20's when I married, and 30 years later I was still pursued by the same!! Quelle domage, I cried all the way to the bunk......
I was only on POF a few months when they made that rule and I left. I don't date or have sex older than me and my previous long term partners were all in their 20s. Yet most older single women on here are single. "Single and inundated with offers of sex from young men. No-one is suggesting otherwise. | |||
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"It's like the Blonde-white show...happy hunting you pair of studs
This adventurous odyssey is seeing me and my generous lance travel around the U.K. in relentless pursuit of my quarry.
Loving it .
Be sure to stop by for steak and cake on your way past mine! can't have you men getting hungry
I reckon my horse will need feeding after the long journey up to Liverpool from London.
Reckon you can take us in and give us a few apples?
Why of course. if you're lucky I'll bake an apple crumble
Sounds good. Depending on how good the crumble is I might just propose.
Will you give me somewhere to rest my lance?
I can't promise it will be warm and dry though.. "So long as you understand my cut-glass London accent, and I don’t get mugged in Liverpool, it should be fine. Looking forward. | |||
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"Perhaps they think-or have found- that middle aged women are less inhibited in bed. I know a lot tell me that. Having sex with much older women doesn't mean they don't have sex with women their age, or younger. I’ve found that women in their 30s are less inhibited in bed... I can’t honestly say I’d be sexually attracted to a woman of 50-60, at my current age of 35 and don’t know a single guy around my age in “real life” who would be. It just strikes me as highly unusual... You know why there's a ready supply of younger men who like older women. Most older women know why too. If both parties are getting what they want whats the problem? No - I honestly don’t know why - hence posting the thread! I’d really like to understand it from the guys’ perspective, since it just isn’t something I can relate to. Methinks the laddy doth protest too much!! Search for the dozens and dozens of threads entitled 'Where's all the older women?' 'Where's all the cougars? etc, etc if you really want to know, those threads are put up by the young men who are looking. We are talking about sex here - not dating. Very few young men want to settle down with someone older, most want to settle and raise a family with someone their own age. Sex is something different. As people have said, they find us more confident, more capable, and generally a whole lot less histrionic. We're also not about to fall in love with them or expect them to text 10 times a day. When POF changed the rules so that people more than 15 years apart could not even talk to each other, I had some 40 conversations in my inbox that had to stop overnight!! I would say about half of those men then set up profiles with false ages so they could continue contact the older women they wanted to! I met absolutely drop dead gorgeous male models half my age. I used to laugh that I was dating guys in their late 20's when I married, and 30 years later I was still pursued by the same!! Quelle domage, I cried all the way to the bunk......
I was only on POF a few months when they made that rule and I left. I don't date or have sex older than me and my previous long term partners were all in their 20s. Yet most older single women on here are single.
Single and inundated with offers of sex from young men. No-one is suggesting otherwise."If you say so frisky... | |||
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"It's like the Blonde-white show...happy hunting you pair of studs
This adventurous odyssey is seeing me and my generous lance travel around the U.K. in relentless pursuit of my quarry.
Loving it .
Be sure to stop by for steak and cake on your way past mine! can't have you men getting hungry
I reckon my horse will need feeding after the long journey up to Liverpool from London.
Reckon you can take us in and give us a few apples?
Why of course. if you're lucky I'll bake an apple crumble
Sounds good. Depending on how good the crumble is I might just propose.
Will you give me somewhere to rest my lance?
I can't promise it will be warm and dry though..
So long as you understand my cut-glass London accent, and I don’t get mugged in Liverpool, it should be fine. Looking forward. "I can't promise you'll not get mugged, and if I can't understand you I'll use BSL. | |||
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"Perhaps they think-or have found- that middle aged women are less inhibited in bed. I know a lot tell me that. Having sex with much older women doesn't mean they don't have sex with women their age, or younger. I’ve found that women in their 30s are less inhibited in bed... I can’t honestly say I’d be sexually attracted to a woman of 50-60, at my current age of 35 and don’t know a single guy around my age in “real life” who would be. It just strikes me as highly unusual... You know why there's a ready supply of younger men who like older women. Most older women know why too. If both parties are getting what they want whats the problem? No - I honestly don’t know why - hence posting the thread! I’d really like to understand it from the guys’ perspective, since it just isn’t something I can relate to. Methinks the laddy doth protest too much!! Search for the dozens and dozens of threads entitled 'Where's all the older women?' 'Where's all the cougars? etc, etc if you really want to know, those threads are put up by the young men who are looking. We are talking about sex here - not dating. Very few young men want to settle down with someone older, most want to settle and raise a family with someone their own age. Sex is something different. As people have said, they find us more confident, more capable, and generally a whole lot less histrionic. We're also not about to fall in love with them or expect them to text 10 times a day. When POF changed the rules so that people more than 15 years apart could not even talk to each other, I had some 40 conversations in my inbox that had to stop overnight!! I would say about half of those men then set up profiles with false ages so they could continue contact the older women they wanted to! I met absolutely drop dead gorgeous male models half my age. I used to laugh that I was dating guys in their late 20's when I married, and 30 years later I was still pursued by the same!! Quelle domage, I cried all the way to the bunk......
I was only on POF a few months when they made that rule and I left. I don't date or have sex older than me and my previous long term partners were all in their 20s. Yet most older single women on here are single.
Single and inundated with offers of sex from young men. No-one is suggesting otherwise.
If you say so frisky... "Why the sarcasm? Look at the threads in the archives if you doubt it. | |||
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"Perhaps they think-or have found- that middle aged women are less inhibited in bed. I know a lot tell me that. Having sex with much older women doesn't mean they don't have sex with women their age, or younger. I’ve found that women in their 30s are less inhibited in bed... I can’t honestly say I’d be sexually attracted to a woman of 50-60, at my current age of 35 and don’t know a single guy around my age in “real life” who would be. It just strikes me as highly unusual... I find it strange that an intelligent man can't understand how people have differing tastes in sexual partners. We're talking about sexual attraction, not life partners. Younger men will usually be looking for a mother for their children (although some are not interested in having children), so, therefore, will want to settle down with someone of child-bearing age. I do understand that - but (fetishes aside) there’s a biological imperative that drives sexual attraction. At a base level men (of all ages) look for childbearing women, women look for providers. " Oh my I wasn't going to reply but I have to - I suggest you stop reading alt right blogs and you might discover that some guys are grown up - and so prefer sex with grown ups. The sexual drivers of humans can not be explained by "man want make babies". A good starting point would be How the peacock got its tail by Helena Cronin. You won't read it, you will react defensively to this post then probably flounce But hey, I will continue having great sex with men who don't think lobsters explain human desire so I win ?? (Miss Icebreaker) | |||
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"Perhaps they think-or have found- that middle aged women are less inhibited in bed. I know a lot tell me that. Having sex with much older women doesn't mean they don't have sex with women their age, or younger. I’ve found that women in their 30s are less inhibited in bed... I can’t honestly say I’d be sexually attracted to a woman of 50-60, at my current age of 35 and don’t know a single guy around my age in “real life” who would be. It just strikes me as highly unusual... I find it strange that an intelligent man can't understand how people have differing tastes in sexual partners. We're talking about sexual attraction, not life partners. Younger men will usually be looking for a mother for their children (although some are not interested in having children), so, therefore, will want to settle down with someone of child-bearing age. I do understand that - but (fetishes aside) there’s a biological imperative that drives sexual attraction. At a base level men (of all ages) look for childbearing women, women look for providers. Oh my I wasn't going to reply but I have to - I suggest you stop reading alt right blogs and you might discover that some guys are grown up - and so prefer sex with grown ups. The sexual drivers of humans can not be explained by "man want make babies". A good starting point would be How the peacock got its tail by Helena Cronin. You won't read it, you will react defensively to this post then probably flounce But hey, I will continue having great sex with men who don't think lobsters explain human desire so I win ?? (Miss Icebreaker)" Not defensive in the slightest - although I note your post is somewhat aggressive. If you think the theory of evolution is “alt right” then I’m not sure what you’ve been reading. I’m a 35yo man, I can assure you I’ve been shagging grown ups for quite a few years . | |||
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"It's like the Blonde-white show...happy hunting you pair of studs
This adventurous odyssey is seeing me and my generous lance travel around the U.K. in relentless pursuit of my quarry.
Loving it .
Be sure to stop by for steak and cake on your way past mine! can't have you men getting hungry
I reckon my horse will need feeding after the long journey up to Liverpool from London.
Reckon you can take us in and give us a few apples?
Why of course. if you're lucky I'll bake an apple crumble
Sounds good. Depending on how good the crumble is I might just propose.
Will you give me somewhere to rest my lance?
I can't promise it will be warm and dry though..
So long as you understand my cut-glass London accent, and I don’t get mugged in Liverpool, it should be fine. Looking forward.
I can't promise you'll not get mugged, and if I can't understand you I'll use BSL. "So long as we can grab dinner and then I get to be sir lance-a-lot, that’s all good with me . | |||
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"It's like the Blonde-white show...happy hunting you pair of studs
This adventurous odyssey is seeing me and my generous lance travel around the U.K. in relentless pursuit of my quarry.
Loving it .
Be sure to stop by for steak and cake on your way past mine! can't have you men getting hungry
I reckon my horse will need feeding after the long journey up to Liverpool from London.
Reckon you can take us in and give us a few apples?
Why of course. if you're lucky I'll bake an apple crumble
Sounds good. Depending on how good the crumble is I might just propose.
Will you give me somewhere to rest my lance?
I can't promise it will be warm and dry though..
So long as you understand my cut-glass London accent, and I don’t get mugged in Liverpool, it should be fine. Looking forward.
I can't promise you'll not get mugged, and if I can't understand you I'll use BSL.
So long as we can grab dinner and then I get to be sir lance-a-lot, that’s all good with me . "Dont lance-a-lot too soon after dinner though, I'd hate to think what could happen  | |||
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"It's like the Blonde-white show...happy hunting you pair of studs
This adventurous odyssey is seeing me and my generous lance travel around the U.K. in relentless pursuit of my quarry.
Loving it .
Be sure to stop by for steak and cake on your way past mine! can't have you men getting hungry
I reckon my horse will need feeding after the long journey up to Liverpool from London.
Reckon you can take us in and give us a few apples?
Why of course. if you're lucky I'll bake an apple crumble
Sounds good. Depending on how good the crumble is I might just propose.
Will you give me somewhere to rest my lance?
I can't promise it will be warm and dry though..
So long as you understand my cut-glass London accent, and I don’t get mugged in Liverpool, it should be fine. Looking forward.
I can't promise you'll not get mugged, and if I can't understand you I'll use BSL.
So long as we can grab dinner and then I get to be sir lance-a-lot, that’s all good with me .
Dont lance-a-lot too soon after dinner though, I'd hate to think what could happen "I’ll be careful where I put my lance. You can show me the tourist attractions of Liverpool: the ferry across the Mersey and the Beatles recording studio etc. (Or was that in London?!) to let dinner go down first. | |||
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"Most of my messages are from guys in their thirties. Had some very enjoyable times with a gorgeous 35 year old. If the attraction is there then why not "I totally agree I’ve had some amazing times with older women | |||
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"I'm in my 50s and have met younger men. They said older women know what they want and get on with it..." Thing is, younger women can be like that too. I honestly can’t see a scenario where I’d want to bang someone in their 50s/60s when I can still bang 20-30 somethings. Who, let’s face it, are usually tighter . | |||
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"I'm in my 50s and have met younger men. They said older women know what they want and get on with it... Thing is, younger women can be like that too. I honestly can’t see a scenario where I’d want to bang someone in their 50s/60s when I can still bang 20-30 somethings. Who, let’s face it, are usually tighter . "You ask for opinions but then constantly keep coming back with yours. You told us yours in the OP. You don't find older woman attractive and that's fine but for everytime you say I'd rather "bang" someone 20-30 there's another guy saying the opposite and people are giving you their reasons why. | |||
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"I'm in my 50s and have met younger men. They said older women know what they want and get on with it... Thing is, younger women can be like that too. I honestly can’t see a scenario where I’d want to bang someone in their 50s/60s when I can still bang 20-30 somethings. Who, let’s face it, are usually tighter .
You ask for opinions but then constantly keep coming back with yours. You told us yours in the OP. You don't find older woman attractive and that's fine but for everytime you say I'd rather "bang" someone 20-30 there's another guy saying the opposite and people are giving you their reasons why.
"It was an honest question which in usual Fab fashion has been run down to a slagging match... I guess I should celebrate my 6”3 height, my 34 inch waste etc. I won’t look as good as this forever. If you’re lucky I’ll take you out expensively in Edinburgh and show you a properly good time in the new year...
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"I have heard a few times that there is a ready supply of men of my age (35), and below, on Fab who meet women in their 50s and 60s. It’s not something that has ever appealed to me personally as people in the 50/60 age bracket are closer to my parents’ age than to mine... get many many requests from younger man to meet my wife. 53 As a guy in his mid 30s I’d probably look from 25-45 max. I know quite a few guys around my own age who take the same approach. I don’t know a single 35yo guy who would look much over 40 in age... Absolutely no judgement or criticism implied - it just strikes me as somewhat unusual and I be keen to hear peoples’ experiences. " | |||
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"I have heard a few times that there is a ready supply of men of my age (35), and below, on Fab who meet women in their 50s and 60s. It’s not something that has ever appealed to me personally as people in the 50/60 age bracket are closer to my parents’ age than to mine... get many many requests from younger man to meet my wife. 53 As a guy in his mid 30s I’d probably look from 25-45 max. I know quite a few guys around my own age who take the same approach. I don’t know a single 35yo guy who would look much over 40 in age... Absolutely no judgement or criticism implied - it just strikes me as somewhat unusual and I be keen to hear peoples’ experiences. " | |||
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"Perhaps they think-or have found- that middle aged women are less inhibited in bed. I know a lot tell me that. Having sex with much older women doesn't mean they don't have sex with women their age, or younger. I’ve found that women in their 30s are less inhibited in bed... I can’t honestly say I’d be sexually attracted to a woman of 50-60, at my current age of 35 and don’t know a single guy around my age in “real life” who would be. It just strikes me as highly unusual... " I can tell you many men your age and younger do. | |||
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"Perhaps they think-or have found- that middle aged women are less inhibited in bed. I know a lot tell me that. Having sex with much older women doesn't mean they don't have sex with women their age, or younger. I’ve found that women in their 30s are less inhibited in bed... I can’t honestly say I’d be sexually attracted to a woman of 50-60, at my current age of 35 and don’t know a single guy around my age in “real life” who would be. It just strikes me as highly unusual... I find it strange that an intelligent man can't understand how people have differing tastes in sexual partners. We're talking about sexual attraction, not life partners. Younger men will usually be looking for a mother for their children (although some are not interested in having children), so, therefore, will want to settle down with someone of child-bearing age. I do understand that - but (fetishes aside) there’s a biological imperative that drives sexual attraction. At a base level men (of all ages) look for childbearing women, women look for providers. " A sweeping assertion with no evidence to back that up. 1959 called, want their research back!! | |||
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"I can't say I care at all about providers or anything to do with the hypothetical children I don't plan to have. " Well said. Absolute nonsense that comment. All men want child bearing women!! Lol | |||
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"... and here we go again about ages
I disagree, most guys in your age group wanna sleep with fems 45 and up. If you look at their physical appearance, most older women don't look their age!
I've always been told I look 10-15 years younger....
Honestly - not the ones I know. They look for women around the same age, or ideally a few years younger. "You need to chat to a wider circle. I could show you the messages wife gets every single day to prove it or the men we have met. The younger men... | |||
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"Perhaps they think-or have found- that middle aged women are less inhibited in bed. I know a lot tell me that. Having sex with much older women doesn't mean they don't have sex with women their age, or younger. I’ve found that women in their 30s are less inhibited in bed... I can’t honestly say I’d be sexually attracted to a woman of 50-60, at my current age of 35 and don’t know a single guy around my age in “real life” who would be. It just strikes me as highly unusual... The thing is the way you're judging people is the reason people in "real life" may not admit to what they actually want and get up to in their private lives. You assume you don't know anyone attracted to older ladies but how many of those people know everything that you're into? Possibly some truth in that. But my male freindship circle I can’t think of a single occasion where a guy has dated a woman more than two or three years older. Quite a few date younger (I know that’s dating rather than swinging, but still)." Oh a subtle change now to dating......... | |||
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"... and here we go again about ages
I disagree, most guys in your age group wanna sleep with fems 45 and up. If you look at their physical appearance, most older women don't look their age!
I've always been told I look 10-15 years younger....
Honestly - not the ones I know. They look for women around the same age, or ideally a few years younger. "I have men who fancy me but they'd be ashamed if their mates knew. If your mates do fancy older women they probably won't admit it. | |||
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"Only tidy 1's, in clubs. The single female average age in clubs must be about 40. They've been round the block and know what they're doing. Great to get a response from a bloke. Would you go much above 40 in terms of your preferences, even in a club situation? Well with women being age fluid an all a few mid 40's women were probably 50 but looked younger.
They were the best options available on the night.
And there we have it.
With some exceptions in a sexual situation a man of 35 will go for a woman around his own age. If a woman around his own age isn't available he will go for the best option available"One persons opinion doesnt make it “there we have it”. Several times I’ve seen the wife hit on while younger girls making themselves available. The mature confidence of an older woman attracts men. In my experience. | |||
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"There are many a thread on here of younger men actively searching for an older woman. So whilst It's not for you, it clearly happens regularly " Again, well said. Not liking the sweeping statements made on this, so thanks for the perspective | |||
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"Perhaps they think-or have found- that middle aged women are less inhibited in bed. I know a lot tell me that. Having sex with much older women doesn't mean they don't have sex with women their age, or younger. I’ve found that women in their 30s are less inhibited in bed... I can’t honestly say I’d be sexually attracted to a woman of 50-60, at my current age of 35 and don’t know a single guy around my age in “real life” who would be. It just strikes me as highly unusual... The thing is the way you're judging people is the reason people in "real life" may not admit to what they actually want and get up to in their private lives. You assume you don't know anyone attracted to older ladies but how many of those people know everything that you're into? Possibly some truth in that. But my male freindship circle I can’t think of a single occasion where a guy has dated a woman more than two or three years older. Quite a few date younger (I know that’s dating rather than swinging, but still). You just said it yourself. This is swinging not dating. Do you judge the ones who date younger women? I’m not judging anyone. I’ve asked a question based on my own experiences. Didn’t you say before you tend to date your age or older? I do so why are you not questioning that? Why are you not questioning the young ladies like the ones who date your friends? It's weird how it's not the same when it's the guy who's older. He can't understand how, because he doesn't find older wome. attractive, other men can. " Indeed. Wouldn’t question if it was bigger women, slim women, big breasts etc | |||
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"The answer is very simple..... Young guy like having sex with older women because they pay for everything and have bareback sex.... Older women that date/ have sex with younger guys usually host because they are more established... they usually have food and drink.. So young guys don’t have to spend a dime.... Go over eat , drink, and have great sex... If the women are in their 50’s - 60’s they can’t have children anymore... so they are more likely to want bareback sex.... My little brother 24 ...was dating a 35 year old with a child and it caused a big scandal in the family.., She had the cheek to sneak into my mothers house and have sex with my brother.... My mother saw her the next day and immediately threw her out.... she told my brother any woman over 30 sneaking into a family house to have sex is not a good woman.... I hope this helps..." That’s an opinion and one story of course. Quite a few on here still making sweeping statements. Bareback quote is just silly | |||
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"The answer is very simple..... Young guy like having sex with older women because they pay for everything and have bareback sex.... Older women that date/ have sex with younger guys usually host because they are more established... they usually have food and drink.. So young guys don’t have to spend a dime.... Go over eat , drink, and have great sex... If the women are in their 50’s - 60’s they can’t have children anymore... so they are more likely to want bareback sex.... My little brother 24 ...was dating a 35 year old with a child and it caused a big scandal in the family.., She had the cheek to sneak into my mothers house and have sex with my brother.... My mother saw her the next day and immediately threw her out.... she told my brother any woman over 30 sneaking into a family house to have sex is not a good woman.... I hope this helps... That’s an opinion and one story of course. Quite a few on here still making sweeping statements. Bareback quote is just silly " So you’re saying these 50/60 year old women are being wined and dined by these younger guys? Do you believe these 50/60 year old women feel comfortable having sex in a family home or apartment with 4 roommates? The bareback quote is true... they may not bareback the first time having sex but they sure as shit will do it the second or third time.... | |||
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"The answer is very simple..... Young guy like having sex with older women because they pay for everything and have bareback sex.... Older women that date/ have sex with younger guys usually host because they are more established... they usually have food and drink.. So young guys don’t have to spend a dime.... Go over eat , drink, and have great sex... If the women are in their 50’s - 60’s they can’t have children anymore... so they are more likely to want bareback sex.... My little brother 24 ...was dating a 35 year old with a child and it caused a big scandal in the family.., She had the cheek to sneak into my mothers house and have sex with my brother.... My mother saw her the next day and immediately threw her out.... she told my brother any woman over 30 sneaking into a family house to have sex is not a good woman.... I hope this helps... That’s an opinion and one story of course. Quite a few on here still making sweeping statements. Bareback quote is just silly So you’re saying these 50/60 year old women are being wined and dined by these younger guys? Do you believe these 50/60 year old women feel comfortable having sex in a family home or apartment with 4 roommates? The bareback quote is true... they may not bareback the first time having sex but they sure as shit will do it the second or third time...." Well this older woman would certainly not bareback because she values her health! | |||
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"Perhaps they think-or have found- that middle aged women are less inhibited in bed. I know a lot tell me that. Having sex with much older women doesn't mean they don't have sex with women their age, or younger. I’ve found that women in their 30s are less inhibited in bed... I can’t honestly say I’d be sexually attracted to a woman of 50-60, at my current age of 35 and don’t know a single guy around my age in “real life” who would be. It just strikes me as highly unusual... You know why there's a ready supply of younger men who like older women. Most older women know why too. If both parties are getting what they want whats the problem? No - I honestly don’t know why - hence posting the thread! I’d really like to understand it from the guys’ perspective, since it just isn’t something I can relate to. Methinks the laddy doth protest too much!! Search for the dozens and dozens of threads entitled 'Where's all the older women?' 'Where's all the cougars? etc, etc if you really want to know, those threads are put up by the young men who are looking. We are talking about sex here - not dating. Very few young men want to settle down with someone older, most want to settle and raise a family with someone their own age. Sex is something different. As people have said, they find us more confident, more capable, and generally a whole lot less histrionic. We're also not about to fall in love with them or expect them to text 10 times a day. When POF changed the rules so that people more than 15 years apart could not even talk to each other, I had some 40 conversations in my inbox that had to stop overnight!! I would say about half of those men then set up profiles with false ages so they could continue contact the older women they wanted to! I met absolutely drop dead gorgeous male models half my age. I used to laugh that I was dating guys in their late 20's when I married, and 30 years later I was still pursued by the same!! Quelle domage, I cried all the way to the bunk......
I was only on POF a few months when they made that rule and I left. I don't date or have sex older than me and my previous long term partners were all in their 20s. Yet most older single women on here are single.
Single and inundated with offers of sex from young men. No-one is suggesting otherwise."I just think some women get carried away thinking that these guys might want a relationship too. I think only a very small percentage would. | |||
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"... and here we go again about ages
I disagree, most guys in your age group wanna sleep with fems 45 and up. If you look at their physical appearance, most older women don't look their age!
I've always been told I look 10-15 years younger....
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"The answer is very simple..... Young guy like having sex with older women because they pay for everything and have bareback sex.... " Nope, not this one, if they can't accomm somewhere nice they offer hotel rooms, and I refuse their offers of drinks and dinners anyway, I don't want to date anyone that young. And no, no bareback for anyone casual of any age.  | |||
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"Perhaps they think-or have found- that middle aged women are less inhibited in bed. I know a lot tell me that. Having sex with much older women doesn't mean they don't have sex with women their age, or younger. I’ve found that women in their 30s are less inhibited in bed... I can’t honestly say I’d be sexually attracted to a woman of 50-60, at my current age of 35 and don’t know a single guy around my age in “real life” who would be. It just strikes me as highly unusual... I find it strange that an intelligent man can't understand how people have differing tastes in sexual partners. We're talking about sexual attraction, not life partners. Younger men will usually be looking for a mother for their children (although some are not interested in having children), so, therefore, will want to settle down with someone of child-bearing age. I do understand that - but (fetishes aside) there’s a biological imperative that drives sexual attraction. At a base level men (of all ages) look for childbearing women, women look for providers. Oh my I wasn't going to reply but I have to - I suggest you stop reading alt right blogs and you might discover that some guys are grown up - and so prefer sex with grown ups. The sexual drivers of humans can not be explained by "man want make babies". A good starting point would be How the peacock got its tail by Helena Cronin. You won't read it, you will react defensively to this post then probably flounce But hey, I will continue having great sex with men who don't think lobsters explain human desire so I win ?? (Miss Icebreaker) Not defensive in the slightest - although I note your post is somewhat aggressive. If you think the theory of evolution is “alt right” then I’m not sure what you’ve been reading. I’m a 35yo man, I can assure you I’ve been shagging grown ups for quite a few years . "A misrepresentation of evolutionary theory and the use of the words biological imperative is, usually, a good sign that someone's been reading the thick as mince alt right blogs that claim an evolutionary purpose to all manner of behaviours that are socially conditioned. There is no one 'evolutionary theory' but if I were to suggest one you should be engaging with, it would be Stephen Jay Gould's argument that the primary driving force in evolution is contingency. Mr Icebreaker | |||
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"Perhaps they think-or have found- that middle aged women are less inhibited in bed. I know a lot tell me that. Having sex with much older women doesn't mean they don't have sex with women their age, or younger. I’ve found that women in their 30s are less inhibited in bed... I can’t honestly say I’d be sexually attracted to a woman of 50-60, at my current age of 35 and don’t know a single guy around my age in “real life” who would be. It just strikes me as highly unusual... You know why there's a ready supply of younger men who like older women. Most older women know why too. If both parties are getting what they want whats the problem? No - I honestly don’t know why - hence posting the thread! I’d really like to understand it from the guys’ perspective, since it just isn’t something I can relate to. Methinks the laddy doth protest too much!! Search for the dozens and dozens of threads entitled 'Where's all the older women?' 'Where's all the cougars? etc, etc if you really want to know, those threads are put up by the young men who are looking. We are talking about sex here - not dating. Very few young men want to settle down with someone older, most want to settle and raise a family with someone their own age. Sex is something different. As people have said, they find us more confident, more capable, and generally a whole lot less histrionic. We're also not about to fall in love with them or expect them to text 10 times a day. When POF changed the rules so that people more than 15 years apart could not even talk to each other, I had some 40 conversations in my inbox that had to stop overnight!! I would say about half of those men then set up profiles with false ages so they could continue contact the older women they wanted to! I met absolutely drop dead gorgeous male models half my age. I used to laugh that I was dating guys in their late 20's when I married, and 30 years later I was still pursued by the same!! Quelle domage, I cried all the way to the bunk......
I was only on POF a few months when they made that rule and I left. I don't date or have sex older than me and my previous long term partners were all in their 20s. Yet most older single women on here are single.
Single and inundated with offers of sex from young men. No-one is suggesting otherwise.
I just think some women get carried away thinking that these guys might want a relationship too.
I think only a very small percentage would."Only a very small percentage of the women would too, no way I am interested in going out with someone that age, and plenty offer to wine and dine. | |||
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"Perhaps they think-or have found- that middle aged women are less inhibited in bed. I know a lot tell me that. Having sex with much older women doesn't mean they don't have sex with women their age, or younger. I’ve found that women in their 30s are less inhibited in bed... I can’t honestly say I’d be sexually attracted to a woman of 50-60, at my current age of 35 and don’t know a single guy around my age in “real life” who would be. It just strikes me as highly unusual... You know why there's a ready supply of younger men who like older women. Most older women know why too. If both parties are getting what they want whats the problem? No - I honestly don’t know why - hence posting the thread! I’d really like to understand it from the guys’ perspective, since it just isn’t something I can relate to. Methinks the laddy doth protest too much!! Search for the dozens and dozens of threads entitled 'Where's all the older women?' 'Where's all the cougars? etc, etc if you really want to know, those threads are put up by the young men who are looking. We are talking about sex here - not dating. Very few young men want to settle down with someone older, most want to settle and raise a family with someone their own age. Sex is something different. As people have said, they find us more confident, more capable, and generally a whole lot less histrionic. We're also not about to fall in love with them or expect them to text 10 times a day. When POF changed the rules so that people more than 15 years apart could not even talk to each other, I had some 40 conversations in my inbox that had to stop overnight!! I would say about half of those men then set up profiles with false ages so they could continue contact the older women they wanted to! I met absolutely drop dead gorgeous male models half my age. I used to laugh that I was dating guys in their late 20's when I married, and 30 years later I was still pursued by the same!! Quelle domage, I cried all the way to the bunk......
I was only on POF a few months when they made that rule and I left. I don't date or have sex older than me and my previous long term partners were all in their 20s. Yet most older single women on here are single.
Single and inundated with offers of sex from young men. No-one is suggesting otherwise.
I just think some women get carried away thinking that these guys might want a relationship too.
I think only a very small percentage would.
Only a very small percentage of the women would too, no way I am interested in going out with someone that age, and plenty offer to wine and dine."It's just the impression I get from Fab. Women using this as an alternative dating site to possibly lure men into a relationship who wouldn't date them. | |||
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"I'm in my 50s and have met younger men. They said older women know what they want and get on with it... Thing is, younger women can be like that too. I honestly can’t see a scenario where I’d want to bang someone in their 50s/60s when I can still bang 20-30 somethings. Who, let’s face it, are usually tighter . "And you know this from your great experience banging 50 yr olds do you? After 50 years riding horses and no kids I can knock most young women into a cocked hat thanks, and a lot of the mature women here have way better core strength I am sure, because they are so uber fit. I do wonder why any young people come on a site like this - they should be out there falling in love and having proper relationships in my opinion. | |||
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"I have heard a few times that there is a ready supply of men of my age (35), and below, on Fab who meet women in their 50s and 60s. It’s not something that has ever appealed to me personally as people in the 50/60 age bracket are closer to my parents’ age than to mine... As a guy in his mid 30s I’d probably look from 25-45 max. I know quite a few guys around my own age who take the same approach. I don’t know a single 35yo guy who would look much over 40 in age... Absolutely no judgement or criticism implied - it just strikes me as somewhat unusual and I be keen to hear peoples’ experiences. " I consider myself lucky that guys of all ages show an interest and actually want to me - even at my advanced old age | |||
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"I'm in my 50s and have met younger men. They said older women know what they want and get on with it... Thing is, younger women can be like that too. I honestly can’t see a scenario where I’d want to bang someone in their 50s/60s when I can still bang 20-30 somethings. Who, let’s face it, are usually tighter .
And you know this from your great experience banging 50 yr olds do you? After 50 years riding horses and no kids I can knock most young women into a cocked hat thanks, and a lot of the mature women here have way better core strength I am sure, because they are so uber fit.
I do wonder why any young people come on a site like this - they should be out there falling in love and having proper relationships in my opinion."Damn it did someone roll out the red carpet? People just don't recognise royalty
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"I'm in my 50s and have met younger men. They said older women know what they want and get on with it... Thing is, younger women can be like that too. I honestly can’t see a scenario where I’d want to bang someone in their 50s/60s when I can still bang 20-30 somethings. Who, let’s face it, are usually tighter .
And you know this from your great experience banging 50 yr olds do you? After 50 years riding horses and no kids I can knock most young women into a cocked hat thanks, and a lot of the mature women here have way better core strength I am sure, because they are so uber fit.
I do wonder why any young people come on a site like this - they should be out there falling in love and having proper relationships in my opinion.
Damn it did someone roll out the red carpet? People just don't recognise royalty
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".... don't send me a boy to do a man's job! I'd fuck you into next week. But only if I wanted to.
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".... don't send me a boy to do a man's job! I'd fuck you into next week. But only if I wanted to.
Haha that is like a semi challenge! I struggle to cum with hot women.
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".... don't send me a boy to do a man's job! I'd fuck you into next week. But only if I wanted to.
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".... don't send me a boy to do a man's job! I'd fuck you into next week. But only if I wanted to.
Haha that is like a semi challenge! I struggle to cum with hot women.
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".... don't send me a boy to do a man's job! I'd fuck you into next week. But only if I wanted to.
No dear, only if I wanted to.
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Haha that is like a semi challenge! I struggle to cum with hot women.
You should try some older women then maybe - no-one struggles with me ever. "Frisky has accepted the semi challenge and raised the bar... | |||
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No dear, only if I wanted to.
No, because i bet you're the type of woman who is traditional and expects the man to make the move.
I would have to make contact first.
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"The answer is very simple..... Young guy like having sex with older women because they pay for everything and have bareback sex.... Older women that date/ have sex with younger guys usually host because they are more established... they usually have food and drink.. So young guys don’t have to spend a dime.... Go over eat , drink, and have great sex... If the women are in their 50’s - 60’s they can’t have children anymore... so they are more likely to want bareback sex.... My little brother 24 ...was dating a 35 year old with a child and it caused a big scandal in the family.., She had the cheek to sneak into my mothers house and have sex with my brother.... My mother saw her the next day and immediately threw her out.... she told my brother any woman over 30 sneaking into a family house to have sex is not a good woman.... I hope this helps..." What a complete load of rubbish
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