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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you want a cuddle from a reindeerhatted klutz?
Hugs xit be nice I just Attract the wrong people laying here crying "
Noooo. Hugs my lovely. Nobody’s worth your tears x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hugs x
Maybe it's time for a Fab break
Your new username is great  "
Thanks
So is yours  the Christmas names are making me laugh this year - I like " Frosty the Ho man " as well |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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"So quick to write me off I’m just so fed up 
Write you off in what way OP? as in getting to me a bit more it be Me making all the effort and he be doing that bare minimum "
That sucks OP. I thought it was the other way around on fab usually? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So quick to write me off I’m just so fed up
Write you off in what way OP? as in getting to me a bit more it be Me making all the effort and he be doing that bare minimum
That sucks OP. I thought it was the other way around on fab usually? "
Don’t be making this a poor men thread, Tea! |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"So quick to write me off I’m just so fed up
Write you off in what way OP? as in getting to me a bit more it be Me making all the effort and he be doing that bare minimum
That sucks OP. I thought it was the other way around on fab usually?
Don’t be making this a poor men thread, Tea! "
Yeah fuck that Tea! |
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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago
wolverhampton |
"Hugs x
Maybe it's time for a Fab break
Your new username is great
 Yeah it is.
Op, find those who make you happy. Someone giving the bare minimum is crap - you're worth more. "
yes I’m worth more but no takes the actual time to see that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hugs x
Maybe it's time for a Fab break
Your new username is great
Yeah it is.
Op, find those who make you happy. Someone giving the bare minimum is crap - you're worth more. "
This lady knows what she's talking about |
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By *erby DomCouple
over a year ago
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"So quick to write me off I’m just so fed up "
I;m sorry to hear that you are having to deal with the underbelly of fab and the real world. Keep your head held high, you are worth better and hold out for what you deserve.
You are better than them and when they snap and get snotty, take the high ground and stay above all that.
Sending virtual hugs and a warm mulled wine your way.
May your days get brighter, kinkier and full of sunshine from here on in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hugs x
Maybe it's time for a Fab break
Your new username is great
Yeah it is.
Op, find those who make you happy. Someone giving the bare minimum is crap - you're worth more. yes I’m worth more but no takes the actual time to see that "
Then wait for someone who does and don’t settle for someone who doesn’t x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Really sorry to hear that OP.
Not everyone on Fab is an arsehole
Name one who isn't,go on I double dare you
I can’t think of one right now "
Me neither.....hold in a minute!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Basically Been talking for a while I asked him today do you just wanna fuck and he basically just said yes so wasted my time as per and this was on pof not on here "
How did you word it though? Did you just say do you wanna fuck? He’s unlikely to say no.
Or did you ask him if that’s all he wants? |
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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago
wolverhampton |
"So quick to write me off I’m just so fed up I;m sorry to hear that you are having to deal with the underbelly of fab and the real world. Keep your head held high, you are worth better and hold out for what you deserve.
You are better than them and when they snap and get snotty, take the high ground and stay above all that.
Sending virtual hugs and a warm mulled wine your way.
May your days get brighter, kinkier and full of sunshine from here on in."
just so fed up putting my self out there for the same thing to happen time and time again I’m a decent person |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hugs x
Maybe it's time for a Fab break
Your new username is great
Yeah it is.
Op, find those who make you happy. Someone giving the bare minimum is crap - you're worth more. yes I’m worth more but no takes the actual time to see that "
Luckily, you’re female. A guy posting this would probably be laughed at and mercilessly mocked.
As it is, it sounds like you’ve had a crap experience on here so perhaps the best way is to hide your profile and go sort your head out.
Hope you feel better soon. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Really sorry to hear that OP.
Not everyone on Fab is an arsehole
Name one who isn't,go on I double dare you
I can’t think of one right now
Me neither.....hold in a minute!!"
I’m not. It’s every other buggar who is |
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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago
wolverhampton |
"Basically Been talking for a while I asked him today do you just wanna fuck and he basically just said yes so wasted my time as per and this was on pof not on here
How did you word it though? Did you just say do you wanna fuck? He’s unlikely to say no.
Or did you ask him if that’s all he wants? "
yeah I asked him is that all he wanted and by the silence I knew |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You need to believe in yourself, maintain self worth and self respect.
It can be a shockingly shit feeling when others don't see the soul of you, or take the time to really get to know you. Those are the ones that actually, aren't really worth knowing, not in the long run.
Each person that wastes that opportunity will bring you one step closer to those that will grab the opportunity with both hands.
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By *erby DomCouple
over a year ago
Ashbourne(ish) and Chesterfield(ish) |
Think of it this way, everytime that happens, you are one disappointment closer to finding the right guy.
It is hard but don't lower your standards and I wish you all the best of luck. |
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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago
wolverhampton |
"Hugs x
Maybe it's time for a Fab break
Your new username is great
Yeah it is.
Op, find those who make you happy. Someone giving the bare minimum is crap - you're worth more. yes I’m worth more but no takes the actual time to see that
Luckily, you’re female. A guy posting this would probably be laughed at and mercilessly mocked.
As it is, it sounds like you’ve had a crap experience on here so perhaps the best way is to hide your profile and go sort your head out.
Hope you feel better soon. "
thank you for the love |
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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago
wolverhampton |
"Think of it this way, everytime that happens, you are one disappointment closer to finding the right guy.
It is hard but don't lower your standards and I wish you all the best of luck."
thank you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Really sorry to hear that OP.
Not everyone on Fab is an arsehole
Name one who isn't,go on I double dare you
I can’t think of one right now
Me neither.....hold in a minute!!
I’m not. It’s every other buggar who is "
You have got a superb pair of legs,did I ever tell you that? |
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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago
wolverhampton |
"Think of it this way, everytime that happens, you are one disappointment closer to finding the right guy.
It is hard but don't lower your standards and I wish you all the best of luck."
thank you all so much I needed that |
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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago
wolverhampton |
"Really sorry to hear that OP.
Not everyone on Fab is an arsehole
Name one who isn't,go on I double dare you
I can’t think of one right now
Me neither.....hold in a minute!!
I’m not. It’s every other buggar who is
You have got a superb pair of legs,did I ever tell you that? "
thank you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Basically Been talking for a while I asked him today do you just wanna fuck and he basically just said yes so wasted my time as per and this was on pof not on here
How did you word it though? Did you just say do you wanna fuck? He’s unlikely to say no.
Or did you ask him if that’s all he wants? yeah I asked him is that all he wanted and by the silence I knew "
I’ve never been on those dating sites but I’ve heard they’re not much different to here. Having said that a few of my friends have met some really decent men on them and there are some nice ones on here too. There are people out there who will be looking for the same as you it just takes longer to find them. Believe me I know x |
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By *erby DomCouple
over a year ago
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"Think of it this way, everytime that happens, you are one disappointment closer to finding the right guy.
It is hard but don't lower your standards and I wish you all the best of luck.thank you all so much I needed that "
You are welcome, sending you a big virtual consensual hug. I have my fingers crossed for you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" thank you for the love "
Humongous hugs to you, you smexy mare! Loads more out there and tbh, he sounds like a total cock! Some of the hotties on here are just screaming out for sexy ladies like you... Go huntin' xxx |
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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago
wolverhampton |
"Basically Been talking for a while I asked him today do you just wanna fuck and he basically just said yes so wasted my time as per and this was on pof not on here
How did you word it though? Did you just say do you wanna fuck? He’s unlikely to say no.
Or did you ask him if that’s all he wants? yeah I asked him is that all he wanted and by the silence I knew
I’ve never been on those dating sites but I’ve heard they’re not much different to here. Having said that a few of my friends have met some really decent men on them and there are some nice ones on here too. There are people out there who will be looking for the same as you it just takes longer to find them. Believe me I know x"
honestly I’m giving it up |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Basically Been talking for a while I asked him today do you just wanna fuck and he basically just said yes so wasted my time as per and this was on pof not on here
How did you word it though? Did you just say do you wanna fuck? He’s unlikely to say no.
Or did you ask him if that’s all he wants? yeah I asked him is that all he wanted and by the silence I knew
I’ve never been on those dating sites but I’ve heard they’re not much different to here. Having said that a few of my friends have met some really decent men on them and there are some nice ones on here too. There are people out there who will be looking for the same as you it just takes longer to find them. Believe me I know x"
One good thing about him... he didn't lie!
Every cloud and all that. |
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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago
wolverhampton |
" thank you for the love
Humongous hugs to you, you smexy mare! Loads more out there and tbh, he sounds like a total cock! Some of the hotties on here are just screaming out for sexy ladies like you... Go huntin' xxx"
I’m done for now gonna enjoy Christmas with the family and maybe I think about coming when I’m in a better place |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Basically Been talking for a while I asked him today do you just wanna fuck and he basically just said yes so wasted my time as per and this was on pof not on here
How did you word it though? Did you just say do you wanna fuck? He’s unlikely to say no.
Or did you ask him if that’s all he wants? yeah I asked him is that all he wanted and by the silence I knew
I’ve never been on those dating sites but I’ve heard they’re not much different to here. Having said that a few of my friends have met some really decent men on them and there are some nice ones on here too. There are people out there who will be looking for the same as you it just takes longer to find them. Believe me I know x honestly I’m giving it up "
Me too I think.
Maybe just a break though. Maybe that’s what you need |
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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago
wolverhampton |
"Basically Been talking for a while I asked him today do you just wanna fuck and he basically just said yes so wasted my time as per and this was on pof not on here
How did you word it though? Did you just say do you wanna fuck? He’s unlikely to say no.
Or did you ask him if that’s all he wants? yeah I asked him is that all he wanted and by the silence I knew
I’ve never been on those dating sites but I’ve heard they’re not much different to here. Having said that a few of my friends have met some really decent men on them and there are some nice ones on here too. There are people out there who will be looking for the same as you it just takes longer to find them. Believe me I know x
One good thing about him... he didn't lie!
Every cloud and all that."
that is true but that’s not what’s his pof profile said but oh well as their what does kill you make you stronger lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" thank you for the love
Humongous hugs to you, you smexy mare! Loads more out there and tbh, he sounds like a total cock! Some of the hotties on here are just screaming out for sexy ladies like you... Go huntin' xxx I’m done for now gonna enjoy Christmas with the family and maybe I think about coming when I’m in a better place "
We all feel like that from time to time hun . Just take a break and come back strong. . Good luck hun xxx |
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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago
wolverhampton |
" thank you for the love
Humongous hugs to you, you smexy mare! Loads more out there and tbh, he sounds like a total cock! Some of the hotties on here are just screaming out for sexy ladies like you... Go huntin' xxx I’m done for now gonna enjoy Christmas with the family and maybe I think about coming when I’m in a better place We all feel like that from time to time hun . Just take a break and come back strong. . Good luck hun xxx"
it’s Just Been the same all year I don’t like to moan but it has got to me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" thank you for the love
Humongous hugs to you, you smexy mare! Loads more out there and tbh, he sounds like a total cock! Some of the hotties on here are just screaming out for sexy ladies like you... Go huntin' xxx I’m done for now gonna enjoy Christmas with the family and maybe I think about coming when I’m in a better place We all feel like that from time to time hun . Just take a break and come back strong. . Good luck hun xxx it’s Just Been the same all year I don’t like to moan but it has got to me "
Hey we all need to moan sometimes. Take a break get your head together. Decide what you really want then come back in January and go out and get it and don’t settle for less x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Basically Been talking for a while I asked him today do you just wanna fuck and he basically just said yes so wasted my time as per and this was on pof not on here "
As far as I can tell, ALL internet based hook up sites are for people who want to fuck. Sometimes people who fuck find other common interests and do some none fuck based meets.
Seems to me that if you want the common interests to come first and the fucking second, you should just do stuff you enjoy, then if you find someone else enjoying it you may find they also like to fuck..
Hope you find some happy soon xx |
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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago
wolverhampton |
" thank you for the love
Humongous hugs to you, you smexy mare! Loads more out there and tbh, he sounds like a total cock! Some of the hotties on here are just screaming out for sexy ladies like you... Go huntin' xxx I’m done for now gonna enjoy Christmas with the family and maybe I think about coming when I’m in a better place We all feel like that from time to time hun . Just take a break and come back strong. . Good luck hun xxx it’s Just Been the same all year I don’t like to moan but it has got to me
Hey we all need to moan sometimes. Take a break get your head together. Decide what you really want then come back in January and go out and get it and don’t settle for less x"
I don’t want even want to have sex I want a friendship first and no one is that |
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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago
wolverhampton |
"Basically Been talking for a while I asked him today do you just wanna fuck and he basically just said yes so wasted my time as per and this was on pof not on here
As far as I can tell, ALL internet based hook up sites are for people who want to fuck. Sometimes people who fuck find other common interests and do some none fuck based meets.
Seems to me that if you want the common interests to come first and the fucking second, you should just do stuff you enjoy, then if you find someone else enjoying it you may find they also like to fuck..
Hope you find some happy soon xx"
thank you for the advice and like have social on here but all just wanna have sex first so I can’t win |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" thank you for the love
Humongous hugs to you, you smexy mare! Loads more out there and tbh, he sounds like a total cock! Some of the hotties on here are just screaming out for sexy ladies like you... Go huntin' xxx I’m done for now gonna enjoy Christmas with the family and maybe I think about coming when I’m in a better place We all feel like that from time to time hun . Just take a break and come back strong. . Good luck hun xxx it’s Just Been the same all year I don’t like to moan but it has got to me
Hey we all need to moan sometimes. Take a break get your head together. Decide what you really want then come back in January and go out and get it and don’t settle for less x I don’t want even want to have sex I want a friendship first and no one is that "
Hmm I’m out of advice really then. This probably isn’t the best place for that to be honest. I don’t know anything about the other sites you’re on. Wish you luck though |
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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago
wolverhampton |
"Pof! Is owned by match which also ownes tind. You dont generally find besties/ on Pof! And tind. You do on match its they way it's been designed."
oh okay And thank you for taking the time to talking to me
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By (user no longer on site)
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My last girlfriend for about 2 months I met on porn hub , had a couple dates but we knew it wasn't going to be a permanent thing and I loved her so much, she was unique and I wanted to spend my life with her but she wanted to move, work somewhere else and 2 months was all we had... .. made the most out of it though stayed at her house, watched game of thrones for the first time ... I got horny during one the sex scenes and I asked her "would you be angry if I whip my cock out and start wanking?" .... So I slowly took my pants off.
" Oh my you're really doing it, in front of me in my living room"..... The look on her face was just amazing .. .. a couple seconds later "that is a nice looking cock I like how it curves up a little bit, can I touch it?"
"Sure go ahead"
"Holy shit that is the hardest cock I have ever felt" ....
Then she started jerking me off, I recieved my first and only blowjob then we made love for 6 hours straight. Then the next couple of weeks every weekend we made the most of the time we had left. ..I cried myself to sleep when it ended .. and I'll never find that love again so I'm past caring about love or relationships again.... I've never had a proper relationship in my life and I don't think I'll ever find one too I've accepted that fact. |
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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago
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"So quick to write me off I’m just so fed up
Aww big hugs from us. Not sure why anyone would write you off at all xx"
thank you and I’m not sure either but it’s what it is and on to the next lol xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Basically Been talking for a while I asked him today do you just wanna fuck and he basically just said yes so wasted my time as per and this was on pof not on here
How did you word it though? Did you just say do you wanna fuck? He’s unlikely to say no.
Or did you ask him if that’s all he wants? yeah I asked him is that all he wanted and by the silence I knew
I’ve never been on those dating sites but I’ve heard they’re not much different to here. Having said that a few of my friends have met some really decent men on them and there are some nice ones on here too. There are people out there who will be looking for the same as you it just takes longer to find them. Believe me I know x
One good thing about him... he didn't lie!
Every cloud and all that. that is true but that’s not what’s his pof profile said but oh well as their what does kill you make you stronger lol "
All he's doing there is getting around the numbers game and he's being honest to you about it. It's the male equivalent of the legions of female profiles on here that will have their basic sexual likes on their profile and when chatting starts will reveal that they don't like group sex, kink, partner swapping or multiple partners of any kind in fact they're just looking for one partner to share mutually rewarding experiences such as nights in/out, vanilla sex and so forth, basically a monogamous relationship.
They come on here not because they have the blindest bit of interest in anything to do with swinging, but because the sheer numbers of women on conventional dating sites means they don't get a look in, so they hope to hook one guy with their natural charm on a site where they're vastly outnumbered by them?
He's merely doing what lots of men will do, which is the opposite to beat their own numbers game? And at least he's been upfront about it so you can neither really blame him for it nor beat yourself up about it either because it's merely his circumstances and not a slight on you at all? |
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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago
wolverhampton |
"Basically Been talking for a while I asked him today do you just wanna fuck and he basically just said yes so wasted my time as per and this was on pof not on here
How did you word it though? Did you just say do you wanna fuck? He’s unlikely to say no.
Or did you ask him if that’s all he wants? yeah I asked him is that all he wanted and by the silence I knew
I’ve never been on those dating sites but I’ve heard they’re not much different to here. Having said that a few of my friends have met some really decent men on them and there are some nice ones on here too. There are people out there who will be looking for the same as you it just takes longer to find them. Believe me I know x
One good thing about him... he didn't lie!
Every cloud and all that. that is true but that’s not what’s his pof profile said but oh well as their what does kill you make you stronger lol
All he's doing there is getting around the numbers game and he's being honest to you about it. It's the male equivalent of the legions of female profiles on here that will have their basic sexual likes on their profile and when chatting starts will reveal that they don't like group sex, kink, partner swapping or multiple partners of any kind in fact they're just looking for one partner to share mutually rewarding experiences such as nights in/out, vanilla sex and so forth, basically a monogamous relationship.
They come on here not because they have the blindest bit of interest in anything to do with swinging, but because the sheer numbers of women on conventional dating sites means they don't get a look in, so they hope to hook one guy with their natural charm on a site where they're vastly outnumbered by them?
He's merely doing what lots of men will do, which is the opposite to beat their own numbers game? And at least he's been upfront about it so you can neither really blame him for it nor beat yourself up about it either because it's merely his circumstances and not a slight on you at all?"
thank you for taking the time to message me and that Is true he was honest and I have let it go it’s a new day  |
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