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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have been a fabber for about 9 years on and off and met some great people. However this time I'm looking for single men and even though I'm not the prettiest or have the sexiest body I've been really picky and sometimes brutal about who i want to meet. I've noticed there are soooo many hot bodies out there but then the faces turn me straight out. I feel like a right shallow bitch but it's natural right??? |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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Doesn't everyone think like this? If they didn't, that is what I would call strange. I always need to find the face attractive, then comes the personality, personality never comes first for me anyway. But it is also high on the agenda |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s natural, you like who you like! 
Most people can’t help the way their face looks though so as long as you’re tactful when rejecting them then it’s all good!
Us munters have to endure rejections of various scales of unnecessariness - so I’m sure you don’t anyway but as a general guide to the ladies : don’t necessarily tell us directly that our faces turn you straight out - a simple “you’re not what I’m looking for, but happy fabbing anyway” saves tears at bedtime! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't care what they look like as long as they've got nice tits 
Oh well...that’s me out. I’ll move onto the next  "
In whose opinion haven't you got nice tits? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It is natural. I tend to find the face is much much more important than the body, I need to want to kiss him. "
Agree. I do not understand why so many people hide their faces |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It is natural. I tend to find the face is much much more important than the body, I need to want to kiss him.
Agree. I do not understand why so many people hide their faces"
Because not everyone is honest firstly.
Some people have jobs where their position could be jeopardised if they were recognised.
Some simply want to be discrete as possible.
Plenty are married.
As long as they send a face picture when messaging I don’t see the issue. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't think it's shallow. This isn't a public service. You can only fancy who you fancy. "
Exactly this....
Which Is why I like the face pic Friday threads |
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"I have been a fabber for about 9 years on and off and met some great people. However this time I'm looking for single men and even though I'm not the prettiest or have the sexiest body I've been really picky and sometimes brutal about who i want to meet. I've noticed there are soooo many hot bodies out there but then the faces turn me straight out. I feel like a right shallow bitch but it's natural right???"
You aren’t shallow, you’re discerning (and have great taste)  . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't think it's shallow. This isn't a public service. You can only fancy who you fancy.
Exactly this....
Which Is why I like the face pic Friday threads "
I just like them because I'm nosey, I don't expect to meet anyone off the forum but I like seeing faces. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't think it's shallow. This isn't a public service. You can only fancy who you fancy.
Exactly this....
Which Is why I like the face pic Friday threads
I just like them because I'm nosey, I don't expect to meet anyone off the forum but I like seeing faces."
Haha yes totally... Seeing the odd face is good... Allows me to measure my "I think she's good looking" barometer and see how accurate it is.... Its doing pretty good so far!
Oh... And I'm nosey  |
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I don't understand what picky means. I like tall men, 6ft and over. Doesn't mean men under that height and woman who fancy them have lower standards than me.
Sexual attraction is personal, we choose those that float our boats.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you have a face that a mother wouldn't kiss I'm not meeting you either. I don't care if that's shallow, I'm not aspiring to beat Marianas trench here  |
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
Newcastle upon Tyne |
You have to be attracted to them so for me it has to be the whole package not just face but body and personality as well. Not saying they have to be a supermodel but they have to be somebody I find attractive beauty is in the eye of the beholder. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Face over body everytime.
Kissing and fucking are two complete different things and I guess that's why face is way more important to me than body.
Even though, kissing and fucking, of course, can be complimentary, they do not need to work together when our lust/horniness is concerned. That's why you can read on profiles that so many people are looking for specific physical features without necessarily mentioning the face.
I can easily fuck a woman who, in my opinion, have a nice body, yet I couldn't make love to her if I do not find the face attractive.
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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I often think that things on fab are reversed; in day to day life its someone's face that we will be attracted to, not their body, that we would find out later.
There's nothing shallow in wanting to find someone facially attractive. |
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When it comes to looks and beauty I like to think I like everything. I find faces that have been scared fascinating. I don't find beauty in symmetry, I find that ..... unoriginal. I like faces that have a twinkle in the eye. I like freckles and ruddy cheeks from being outdoors. I like laughter lines, I like that they reveal to me your sense of humour, your face is my reading material. I don't ever want to get bored of looking at it. I like stubble at the end of the day, that tells me your too busy to be vain. I like clean shaven in the morning. I like if your face beams when you see me. I like your chubby cheeks and have to almost restrain myself from pinching them. And if you haven't got chubby cheeks. ..... Well, I like that when you see me and when you smile, YOU HAVE and I really can't resist the urge to smile back. I like your lips when they pucker up and your eyes close and you wait for me to kiss you. And I like that if I wait to long you get the giggles yet still stay puckered. I like your face.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't understand what picky means. I like tall men, 6ft and over. Doesn't mean men under that height and woman who fancy them have lower standards than me.
Sexual attraction is personal, we choose those that float our boats.
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"I have been a fabber for about 9 years on and off and met some great people. However this time I'm looking for single men and even though I'm not the prettiest or have the sexiest body I've been really picky and sometimes brutal about who i want to meet. I've noticed there are soooo many hot bodies out there but then the faces turn me straight out. I feel like a right shallow bitch but it's natural right???"
Very very natural. There are so many sexy female bodies here but it's the same when you see their faces too. It's normal for us all to like something and be put off by something.
Don't worry yourself at all as a 9 year on off fabber you probably know this better than anyone lol
What do you seek exactly? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have been a fabber for about 9 years on and off and met some great people. However this time I'm looking for single men and even though I'm not the prettiest or have the sexiest body I've been really picky and sometimes brutal about who i want to meet. I've noticed there are soooo many hot bodies out there but then the faces turn me straight out. I feel like a right shallow bitch but it's natural right???"
Of course! If someone’s not for you they’re not for you. I wouldn’t settle or compromise. If I’m not feeling it I’m not feeling it. xx |
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"It is natural. I tend to find the face is much much more important than the body, I need to want to kiss him.
Snap"
Kissing is so important - it’s so intimate but I couldn’t imagine sex without it, Therefore, the face takes priority. I now I feel so shallow |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am curious how many men would turn down a meet with their ideal body if their face was disappointing? Just thinking about all the messages I received when I had no photos at all on my profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am curious how many men would turn down a meet with their ideal body if their face was disappointing? Just thinking about all the messages I received when I had no photos at all on my profile "
what doing it doggy is for, |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have been a fabber for about 9 years on and off and met some great people. However this time I'm looking for single men and even though I'm not the prettiest or have the sexiest body I've been really picky and sometimes brutal about who i want to meet. I've noticed there are soooo many hot bodies out there but then the faces turn me straight out. I feel like a right shallow bitch but it's natural right???"
You will probably be able to shag better looking men on here that you could in real life.Just the way it is.Fair play though  |
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It's certainly not shallow to have preferences and tastes. It's great to be above the level of animal zoo-plankton, reproducing more simply, where we have the choice to pick mates based on personality as well as those looks. If the face doesn't fit your taste, what are we to do, when there are bag shortages? |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"I have been a fabber for about 9 years on and off and met some great people. However this time I'm looking for single men and even though I'm not the prettiest or have the sexiest body I've been really picky and sometimes brutal about who i want to meet. I've noticed there are soooo many hot bodies out there but then the faces turn me straight out. I feel like a right shallow bitch but it's natural right???"
Are you only shallow on here?
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