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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

....Here when my vibrancy of thought, blind positivity and eternal, irritating optimism is waning enough to say.... god isnt life DULL

Yeah, yeah only dull people lead dull lives I know.

I have a plan. But that relys on a complicated and long process of events to work itself through that may or may never happen.

I'll climb back into my cage of happiness with a hob nob or two now, thanks for the indulgence.

How about you lot. How's your day

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I have a trapped nerve in my shoulder so its a netflix and duvet day here...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I’m amused by mansplainy prickishness backfiring beautifully!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I haven't slept properly for three weeks. So I'm in a sort of weird malaise.

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By *ortobello SionnachWoman  over a year ago

Dublin

Mine is a less complicated day with just the really hot window cleaner round but he doesn't have his shirt off at this time of year.

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By *wisted999Man  over a year ago

North Bucks

Good. Somebody brought cakes into the Office and only half the office are in today so I’m helping out with the surplus.

Good luck with the plans OP

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"....Here when my vibrancy of thought, blind positivity and eternal, irritating optimism is waning enough to say.... god isnt life DULL

Yeah, yeah only dull people lead dull lives I know.

I have a plan. But that relys on a complicated and long process of events to work itself through that may or may never happen.

I'll climb back into my cage of happiness with a hob nob or two now, thanks for the indulgence.

How about you lot. How's your day

"

Life is dull.

Enjoy your biscuits.

Wednesdayish.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman  over a year ago

your imagination

My day so far has been full of pre-Christmas cheer as I have been attending concert rehearsals and am listening to and meeting some amazingly talented people.

Mine pie anyone?

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By *emini ManMan  over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

We all have our ups and downs, no matter how positive we try and be it takes the downs to create the ups - whatever it is it'll work out how it was meant to be I'm sure

Oooooh did you say Hob Nobs?!

Oh and me? I'm a bundle of positivity right now - life's good, the sky is blue and not even a suspect boiler meaning a lack of hot water can get me down

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

My day is going well thank you.

Planning is always good but if we don't carry out those plans nothing ever changes. If we don't adapt those plans or take a flexible view of them and the world around us we get locked into tunnel thinking that can often paralysed decision making or lead us to poor descisions.

If we never review and revise those plans or set on a direction and refuse to move from it even when everything around us changes then we will never achieve our goals.

Dull sometimes goes with planning, and if it wasn't for the dull moments then how would we ever recognise the highs.

If you have a dream and don't chase it, then it stays just a dream. If you do chase it the dream may change but often for the better.

Life it's not just for planning it's for living too. If we plan and forget to live it day by day...then nothing ever changed.

If you want to write paint whatever don't just plan it do it. If you want a more vibrant life don't just plan it do it.

If you never take a chance nothing ever changes.

We only get this life. If we always do what we always did we always get what we always got.

This life it's all we have. Do it now or you may never get the chance to later....

This almost sounds like my day job

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Just had a tooth pulled so my face is numb

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By *ensualbicockMan  over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock


"Just had a tooth pulled so my face is numb"
does your hand go numb when you pull your finger

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By *ensuallover1000Man  over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Ah ha! You just need to spice it up a bit my girl; Drop thy hob nobs and experience a wondrous transmogrification of perception regarding thy views on life, the universe and indeed popular confectionarys by instead opening up a packet of gingernuts - mmmmm!

Indeed, so magical are they, that the mere mention of them hath rendered me erect and throbbing

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"My day is going well thank you.

Planning is always good but if we don't carry out those plans nothing ever changes. If we don't adapt those plans or take a flexible view of them and the world around us we get locked into tunnel thinking that can often paralysed decision making or lead us to poor descisions.

If we never review and revise those plans or set on a direction and refuse to move from it even when everything around us changes then we will never achieve our goals.

Dull sometimes goes with planning, and if it wasn't for the dull moments then how would we ever recognise the highs.

If you have a dream and don't chase it, then it stays just a dream. If you do chase it the dream may change but often for the better.

Life it's not just for planning it's for living too. If we plan and forget to live it day by day...then nothing ever changed.

If you want to write paint whatever don't just plan it do it. If you want a more vibrant life don't just plan it do it.

If you never take a chance nothing ever changes.

We only get this life. If we always do what we always did we always get what we always got.

This life it's all we have. Do it now or you may never get the chance to later....

This almost sounds like my day job "

When you have to weave the lives of others in first and consider their needs probably before your own for a few more years, and just hope you aren't dead at the end of it all.

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By *mumaWoman  over a year ago

Livingston

Sitting nearly crying in pain as I broke my upper arm on Monday, and its total agony

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I have a trapped nerve in my shoulder so its a netflix and duvet day here... "

Oh no, sounds painful x

I can highly recommend The Sinner on Netflix though x

Mrs Spader

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Ah ha! You just need to spice it up a bit my girl; Drop thy hob nobs and experience a wondrous transmogrification of perception regarding thy views on life, the universe and indeed popular confectionarys by instead opening up a packet of gingernuts - mmmmm!

Indeed, so magical are they, that the mere mention of them hath rendered me erect and throbbing "

Can I be even wilder and have ginger biscuits with lumps of ginger in then. Im sure it would moisten me up nicely.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"My day is going well thank you.

Planning is always good but if we don't carry out those plans nothing ever changes. If we don't adapt those plans or take a flexible view of them and the world around us we get locked into tunnel thinking that can often paralysed decision making or lead us to poor descisions.

If we never review and revise those plans or set on a direction and refuse to move from it even when everything around us changes then we will never achieve our goals.

Dull sometimes goes with planning, and if it wasn't for the dull moments then how would we ever recognise the highs.

If you have a dream and don't chase it, then it stays just a dream. If you do chase it the dream may change but often for the better.

Life it's not just for planning it's for living too. If we plan and forget to live it day by day...then nothing ever changed.

If you want to write paint whatever don't just plan it do it. If you want a more vibrant life don't just plan it do it.

If you never take a chance nothing ever changes.

We only get this life. If we always do what we always did we always get what we always got.

This life it's all we have. Do it now or you may never get the chance to later....

This almost sounds like my day job

When you have to weave the lives of others in first and consider their needs probably before your own for a few more years, and just hope you aren't dead at the end of it all."

No man or woman is an island. We all have to weave our lives around the needs of others, kids, families, sometimes friends if we have them. If we don't save a space for ourselves then our life isn't ours any more, it's just a series of events to meet the needs of others....

If we don't take chances on our own needs and dreams then they just don't happen....

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I have a trapped nerve in my shoulder so its a netflix and duvet day here... "

Oh ouch. Im tempted to get back under the duvet, but I think its cold in there now. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I’m amused by mansplainy prickishness backfiring beautifully! "

Always good for a smile that

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Sitting nearly crying in pain as I broke my upper arm on Monday, and its total agony

"

Oh bugger, have you got plenty of painkillers. Gentle hugs. Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I haven't slept properly for three weeks. So I'm in a sort of weird malaise."

Living in a bit of a twilight world, where nothing seems quite real. Not nice xx

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By *elshsunsWoman  over a year ago

Flintshire

Got fluid on my elbow but still battling on

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By *innie The MinxWoman  over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Need a shower but too cold to take my kit off.

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By *eliWoman  over a year ago

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Taking a break from an ever filling inbox of mainly nonsensical queries and basic hand holding pleas.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just had a tooth pulled so my face is numb does your hand go numb when you pull your finger "
only girls have the body parts needed to pull my finger its a secret only they can tell

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Mine is a less complicated day with just the really hot window cleaner round but he doesn't have his shirt off at this time of year. "

Invite him in to do the insides and blast the radiators on

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Good. Somebody brought cakes into the Office and only half the office are in today so I’m helping out with the surplus.

Good luck with the plans OP "

Thankyou, Ill be collecting a ension probably by the time they are realised, but Ill keep the dream alive

I think my day is lacking cake too

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By *innie The MinxWoman  over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"Just had a tooth pulled so my face is numb does your hand go numb when you pull your finger only girls have the body parts needed to pull my finger its a secret only they can tell"

As secrets go, it's not quite up there with the Colonels 11 secret herbs and spices...

But it is finger licking good

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I haven't slept properly for three weeks. So I'm in a sort of weird malaise.

Living in a bit of a twilight world, where nothing seems quite real. Not nice xx"

And I know I must look a bit ragged because I keep getting the head tilt.

*Tilts head* "Are you alright?"

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By *gnitemybodyWoman  over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"....Here when my vibrancy of thought, blind positivity and eternal, irritating optimism is waning enough to say.... god isnt life DULL

Yeah, yeah only dull people lead dull lives I know.

I have a plan. But that relys on a complicated and long process of events to work itself through that may or may never happen.

I'll climb back into my cage of happiness with a hob nob or two now, thanks for the indulgence.

How about you lot. How's your day

Life is dull.

Enjoy your biscuits.

Wednesdayish."

I've just been sent a bum pic,anyone got a 12incher strap-on they can borrow me?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"....Here when my vibrancy of thought, blind positivity and eternal, irritating optimism is waning enough to say.... god isnt life DULL

Yeah, yeah only dull people lead dull lives I know.

I have a plan. But that relys on a complicated and long process of events to work itself through that may or may never happen.

I'll climb back into my cage of happiness with a hob nob or two now, thanks for the indulgence.

How about you lot. How's your day

Life is dull.

Enjoy your biscuits.

Wednesdayish."

* nods. That is is.

Ive made crumbs.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"....Here when my vibrancy of thought, blind positivity and eternal, irritating optimism is waning enough to say.... god isnt life DULL

Yeah, yeah only dull people lead dull lives I know.

I have a plan. But that relys on a complicated and long process of events to work itself through that may or may never happen.

I'll climb back into my cage of happiness with a hob nob or two now, thanks for the indulgence.

How about you lot. How's your day

Life is dull.

Enjoy your biscuits.

Wednesdayish.

I've just been sent a bum pic,anyone got a 12incher strap-on they can borrow me?"

now your day sounds fun

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"....Here when my vibrancy of thought, blind positivity and eternal, irritating optimism is waning enough to say.... god isnt life DULL

Yeah, yeah only dull people lead dull lives I know.

I have a plan. But that relys on a complicated and long process of events to work itself through that may or may never happen.

I'll climb back into my cage of happiness with a hob nob or two now, thanks for the indulgence.

How about you lot. How's your day

"

Mines going really well weather could be better, I hope yours picks up

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By *gnitemybodyWoman  over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"....Here when my vibrancy of thought, blind positivity and eternal, irritating optimism is waning enough to say.... god isnt life DULL

Yeah, yeah only dull people lead dull lives I know.

I have a plan. But that relys on a complicated and long process of events to work itself through that may or may never happen.

I'll climb back into my cage of happiness with a hob nob or two now, thanks for the indulgence.

How about you lot. How's your day

Life is dull.

Enjoy your biscuits.

Wednesdayish.

I've just been sent a bum pic,anyone got a 12incher strap-on they can borrow me?

now your day sounds fun "

and a pair of handcuffs incase he tries to flee when he cops a look of it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"My day so far has been full of pre-Christmas cheer as I have been attending concert rehearsals and am listening to and meeting some amazingly talented people.

Mine pie anyone? "

I could be tempted by a warm one or two thankyou.

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By *vcarolTV/TS  over a year ago

kilmarnockish


"....Here when my vibrancy of thought, blind positivity and eternal, irritating optimism is waning enough to say.... god isnt life DULL

Yeah, yeah only dull people lead dull lives I know.

I have a plan. But that relys on a complicated and long process of events to work itself through that may or may never happen.

I'll climb back into my cage of happiness with a hob nob or two now, thanks for the indulgence.

How about you lot. How's your day

Life is dull.

Enjoy your biscuits.

Wednesdayish.

I've just been sent a bum pic,anyone got a 12incher strap-on they can borrow me?"

Improvisation is your key.

Lube + hand+ said bum= sorted

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By *gnitemybodyWoman  over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

What's your plan anyway Autumn?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"We all have our ups and downs, no matter how positive we try and be it takes the downs to create the ups - whatever it is it'll work out how it was meant to be I'm sure

Oooooh did you say Hob Nobs?!

Oh and me? I'm a bundle of positivity right now - life's good, the sky is blue and not even a suspect boiler meaning a lack of hot water can get me down "

We do yes and Im sure it all will *crosses fingers and toes.

You can always boil a kettle if the boiler is knackered

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By *gnitemybodyWoman  over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"....Here when my vibrancy of thought, blind positivity and eternal, irritating optimism is waning enough to say.... god isnt life DULL

Yeah, yeah only dull people lead dull lives I know.

I have a plan. But that relys on a complicated and long process of events to work itself through that may or may never happen.

I'll climb back into my cage of happiness with a hob nob or two now, thanks for the indulgence.

How about you lot. How's your day

Life is dull.

Enjoy your biscuits.

Wednesdayish.

I've just been sent a bum pic,anyone got a 12incher strap-on they can borrow me?

Improvisation is your key.

Lube + hand+ said bum= sorted"

Well I can put that idea forward I'll let you know what the response is.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Not the best of days not the worst of days.

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By *VineMan  over a year ago

The right place

I find generally things in life change too much to be dull for long.

Life can sometimes be frustrating and there can be a temptation to focus on what I don’t have rather than what I do have. But that road only leads to dark places.

So, I’m choosing to focus on the things I’m grateful for. And I’ve had a very lovely few weeks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"What's your plan anyway Autumn?"

Cut the ties that bind and then bugger off somewhere warm currently

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Alright day. Got in from meetings which were nice for a change, and managed to call in a favour to ease the load.

Downside: Aching wisdom tooth. Should get that whipped out.

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By *VineMan  over a year ago

The right place


"What's your plan anyway Autumn?

Cut the ties that bind and then bugger off somewhere warm currently "

That’s a big decision, good luck with it. x

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"What's your plan anyway Autumn?

Cut the ties that bind and then bugger off somewhere warm currently

That’s a big decision, good luck with it. x "

Haha Might be easier to book a holiday

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By *emini ManMan  over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"We all have our ups and downs, no matter how positive we try and be it takes the downs to create the ups - whatever it is it'll work out how it was meant to be I'm sure

Oooooh did you say Hob Nobs?!

Oh and me? I'm a bundle of positivity right now - life's good, the sky is blue and not even a suspect boiler meaning a lack of hot water can get me down

We do yes and Im sure it all will *crosses fingers and toes.

You can always boil a kettle if the boiler is knackered "

See? Positivity is returning

Mind you, showering under a freshly boiled kettle might not be a good idea

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Alright day. Got in from meetings which were nice for a change, and managed to call in a favour to ease the load.

Downside: Aching wisdom tooth. Should get that whipped out."

Will you still be wise

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Not the best of days not the worst of days."

Ive been for a damp walk

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I am shattered on a train home after 3 days looking after two 19 month olds and staying up till 1 in the morning for 3 nights talking to a very lovely lady on here... the last bit is a good reason to feel happy despite wanting my bed

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Just had a tooth pulled so my face is numb does your hand go numb when you pull your finger only girls have the body parts needed to pull my finger its a secret only they can tell"

Just working through body parts I could pull you with

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Taking a break from an ever filling inbox of mainly nonsensical queries and basic hand holding pleas. "

sorry, just the finger tips then

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Will you still be wise "

Nothing wise about me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Need a shower but too cold to take my kit off."

The house has to be a furnace before Im willing to get wet this time of year

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Got fluid on my elbow but still battling on "

uncomfortable sounding xx

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