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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Do you mean are there enough, there are enough, or there are too many?
Seems there are threads about most things on here, though precious few on the integrity of the international banking system. which shows that people on here are fairly diverse in their interests which may or may not also include sex in one form or several.  |
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By *ddibleMan
over a year ago
Exeter Bristol Salisbury |
In this part of the forum no, but in the swingers chat it's a bit lame, the same boring stuff posted over and over again.
It is a bit prudish but then maybe I'm just a massive pervert |
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By *r.Blonde OP Man
over a year ago
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"OP, if you think there should be more sexually explicit topics on the forums... How come you started on that isn't?  "
I don't start many threads i'm more of a contributor. Just curious to see peoples views. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In this part of the forum no, but in the swingers chat it's a bit lame, the same boring stuff posted over and over again.
It is a bit prudish but then maybe I'm just a massive pervert"
You are. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For a while I tried posting the most boring threads. Where do you do your food shop, what do you have on toast, what brand of toilet paper do you use etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For a while I tried posting the most boring threads. Where do you do your food shop, what do you have on toast, what brand of toilet paper do you use etc
Bet they went down a storm too "
They were my most popular threads! |
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By *ddibleMan
over a year ago
Exeter Bristol Salisbury |
"In this part of the forum no, but in the swingers chat it's a bit lame, the same boring stuff posted over and over again.
It is a bit prudish but then maybe I'm just a massive pervert
You are."
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By *r.Blonde OP Man
over a year ago
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"For a while I tried posting the most boring threads. Where do you do your food shop, what do you have on toast, what brand of toilet paper do you use etc
Bet they went down a storm too
They were my most popular threads!"
I guess it's just human nature. |
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"For a while I tried posting the most boring threads. Where do you do your food shop, what do you have on toast, what brand of toilet paper do you use etc"
The toilet paper one was highly educational I found. Indeed, one can deduce much about a person from the specifics of utilised loo roll brand and the exact technique employed when wiping ones arsehole.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like a bit of insight into other people's lives/opinions as I'm nosey. The boring or daft topics quite often show you some of peoples' real personality, whereas the sex ones turn flirty and awkward a lot faster, I think, so they get boring. Love a good chat about sex when it doesn't get cringey! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For a while I tried posting the most boring threads. Where do you do your food shop, what do you have on toast, what brand of toilet paper do you use etc"
Food Shop... I don't, I do a vodka shop and may pick up food while I am there.
On toast... cant have toast, lost the recipie.
toilet paper... whatever brand is on route to the vodka obviously  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For a while I tried posting the most boring threads. Where do you do your food shop, what do you have on toast, what brand of toilet paper do you use etc
The toilet paper one was highly educational I found. Indeed, one can deduce much about a person from the specifics of utilised loo roll brand and the exact technique employed when wiping ones arsehole. "
I even asked if people scrunched or folded  |
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"For a while I tried posting the most boring threads. Where do you do your food shop, what do you have on toast, what brand of toilet paper do you use etc
The toilet paper one was highly educational I found. Indeed, one can deduce much about a person from the specifics of utilised loo roll brand and the exact technique employed when wiping ones arsehole.
I even asked if people scrunched or folded "
I remember
Just to update my status: Folded for me and at least three leaves |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, my friends are not into this scene but are more open sexually than many on here. My sister also makes me look like a prude. Interesting, your friends sound fun  "
They are not swingers though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To be honest sex is something I do, not something I write about, or discuss"
I do find that people that can talk more openly about sex are better lovers. They tend to read and research stuff also. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To be honest sex is something I do, not something I write about, or discuss
I do find that people that can talk more openly about sex are better lovers. They tend to read and research stuff also. "
yes, but I am old... nothing new has come into sex since I was 20 and thats several lifetimes ago... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, my friends are not into this scene but are more open sexually than many on here. My sister also makes me look like a prude.
Is your sister on here?"
You’ve got two hopes of pulling her, no hope and Bob Hope. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think this kind of relates to when men join this site expecting sex easily. The perception of swinging is a lot different than the reality in most cases."
The difference on this site to any other hook up mechanism, is you can be specific on what sort of sex you are looking for. But that is more a profile / message thing, doesn't really translate to a forum topic very well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is a swingers site, not a sex site...
I like swings, but last time I was on a swing my sister pushed me so high I fell off"
She's mean.
I als think we need another niche site...
Fabseesawers |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is a swingers site, not a sex site...
I like swings, but last time I was on a swing my sister pushed me so high I fell off
She's mean.
I als think we need another niche site...
Fabseesawers "
She’s only 15, and I kept telling her to put her back into it - she’s extremely skinny and weak |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is a swingers site, not a sex site...
But I bet your definition of swinger is different to everyone elses on the thread  "
It is generated from my quote-o-matic. It appears with frightening regularity. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is a swingers site, not a sex site...
I like swings, but last time I was on a swing my sister pushed me so high I fell off
She's mean.
I als think we need another niche site...
Fabseesawers
She’s only 15, and I kept telling her to put her back into it - she’s extremely skinny and weak "
I'll let you have a go on my swing  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, my friends are not into this scene but are more open sexually than many on here. My sister also makes me look like a prude.
Is your sister on here?"
No but she does live in Plymouth. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To be honest sex is something I do, not something I write about, or discuss
I do find that people that can talk more openly about sex are better lovers. They tend to read and research stuff also.
yes, but I am old... nothing new has come into sex since I was 20 and thats several lifetimes ago... "
Have you tried the Kivin method? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The thing is there's only so many questions you can ask about sex. "
Before men start boring everyone by telling us about their prowess in the bedroom. Repeat/ heavy cummer you say, do tell me more. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To be honest sex is something I do, not something I write about, or discuss
I do find that people that can talk more openly about sex are better lovers. They tend to read and research stuff also.
yes, but I am old... nothing new has come into sex since I was 20 and thats several lifetimes ago...
Have you tried the Kivin method? "
Yes, and decided it like any other technique fails if you practice it rather than respond to the recipient. Good sex is seldom prescribed but a non vebal non stop conversation |
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By *r.Blonde OP Man
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
"I think this kind of relates to when men join this site expecting sex easily. The perception of swinging is a lot different than the reality in most cases.
The difference on this site to any other hook up mechanism, is you can be specific on what sort of sex you are looking for. But that is more a profile / message thing, doesn't really translate to a forum topic very well."
True, I just think the average person would be surprised that people on a swinging site were playing word games etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To be honest sex is something I do, not something I write about, or discuss
I do find that people that can talk more openly about sex are better lovers. They tend to read and research stuff also.
yes, but I am old... nothing new has come into sex since I was 20 and thats several lifetimes ago...
Have you tried the Kivin method?
Yes, and decided it like any other technique fails if you practice it rather than respond to the recipient. Good sex is seldom prescribed but a non vebal non stop conversation "
I do like to have an open and honest conversation with my partner about wants and needs sexually. |
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By *r.Blonde OP Man
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
"To be honest sex is something I do, not something I write about, or discuss
I do find that people that can talk more openly about sex are better lovers. They tend to read and research stuff also.
yes, but I am old... nothing new has come into sex since I was 20 and thats several lifetimes ago...
Have you tried the Kivin method?
Yes, and decided it like any other technique fails if you practice it rather than respond to the recipient. Good sex is seldom prescribed but a non vebal non stop conversation
I do like to have an open and honest conversation with my partner about wants and needs sexually. "
I'm imagining you being like a lecturer |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To be honest sex is something I do, not something I write about, or discuss
I do find that people that can talk more openly about sex are better lovers. They tend to read and research stuff also.
yes, but I am old... nothing new has come into sex since I was 20 and thats several lifetimes ago...
Have you tried the Kivin method?
Yes, and decided it like any other technique fails if you practice it rather than respond to the recipient. Good sex is seldom prescribed but a non vebal non stop conversation
I do like to have an open and honest conversation with my partner about wants and needs sexually. I'm imagining you being like a lecturer "
More like a spiritual hippie |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To be honest sex is something I do, not something I write about, or discuss
I do find that people that can talk more openly about sex are better lovers. They tend to read and research stuff also.
yes, but I am old... nothing new has come into sex since I was 20 and thats several lifetimes ago...
Have you tried the Kivin method?
Yes, and decided it like any other technique fails if you practice it rather than respond to the recipient. Good sex is seldom prescribed but a non vebal non stop conversation
I do like to have an open and honest conversation with my partner about wants and needs sexually. "
To be honest there is only one woman that can make me cum these days. So I am quite disenchanted with the swinging world. But agree that the big advantage of this sort of site over POF or similar is that you can talk openly about what you want to happen before meeting, and conversation verbal and non verbal on a meet should be easier. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To be honest sex is something I do, not something I write about, or discuss
I do find that people that can talk more openly about sex are better lovers. They tend to read and research stuff also.
yes, but I am old... nothing new has come into sex since I was 20 and thats several lifetimes ago...
Have you tried the Kivin method?
Yes, and decided it like any other technique fails if you practice it rather than respond to the recipient. Good sex is seldom prescribed but a non vebal non stop conversation
I do like to have an open and honest conversation with my partner about wants and needs sexually.
To be honest there is only one woman that can make me cum these days. So I am quite disenchanted with the swinging world. But agree that the big advantage of this sort of site over POF or similar is that you can talk openly about what you want to happen before meeting, and conversation verbal and non verbal on a meet should be easier."
I talk openly before meeting regardless of here or a dating site. I need to know we are on the same wavelength sexually no matter what. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I talk openly before meeting regardless of here or a dating site. I need to know we are on the same wavelength sexually no matter what. "
I have never used a dating site, when dating it was always in pubs and clubs. but that often led to very formulaic 1 on 1 sex, though there were a few exceptions.
But have the impression that many dating sites are more about what movies you watch, food you eat etc. and sex is a sepperate entity. Clearly I am wrong on that thought  |
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By *r.Blonde OP Man
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
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I talk openly before meeting regardless of here or a dating site. I need to know we are on the same wavelength sexually no matter what.
I have never used a dating site, when dating it was always in pubs and clubs. but that often led to very formulaic 1 on 1 sex, though there were a few exceptions.
But have the impression that many dating sites are more about what movies you watch, food you eat etc. and sex is a sepperate entity. Clearly I am wrong on that thought "
I've never talked about sex on a dating site either, thought that would put women off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I talk openly before meeting regardless of here or a dating site. I need to know we are on the same wavelength sexually no matter what.
I have never used a dating site, when dating it was always in pubs and clubs. but that often led to very formulaic 1 on 1 sex, though there were a few exceptions.
But have the impression that many dating sites are more about what movies you watch, food you eat etc. and sex is a sepperate entity. Clearly I am wrong on that thought "
Music is my number one passion, then sex so I need a sexually adventurous music fan. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I talk openly before meeting regardless of here or a dating site. I need to know we are on the same wavelength sexually no matter what.
I have never used a dating site, when dating it was always in pubs and clubs. but that often led to very formulaic 1 on 1 sex, though there were a few exceptions.
But have the impression that many dating sites are more about what movies you watch, food you eat etc. and sex is a sepperate entity. Clearly I am wrong on that thought I've never talked about sex on a dating site either, thought that would put women off."
I talk to the people I connect with on dating sites. The people I’ve been to a swinging club and private parties were from dating apps, not here. The guys I’ve met here were more vanilla than what I’m used to from outside here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I talk openly before meeting regardless of here or a dating site. I need to know we are on the same wavelength sexually no matter what.
I have never used a dating site, when dating it was always in pubs and clubs. but that often led to very formulaic 1 on 1 sex, though there were a few exceptions.
But have the impression that many dating sites are more about what movies you watch, food you eat etc. and sex is a sepperate entity. Clearly I am wrong on that thought
Music is my number one passion, then sex so I need a sexually adventurous music fan. "
Music does it for me too, especially live music. though I have a very eclectic and extensive collection of recordings for when not going to a gig... |
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I talk openly before meeting regardless of here or a dating site. I need to know we are on the same wavelength sexually no matter what.
I have never used a dating site, when dating it was always in pubs and clubs. but that often led to very formulaic 1 on 1 sex, though there were a few exceptions.
But have the impression that many dating sites are more about what movies you watch, food you eat etc. and sex is a sepperate entity. Clearly I am wrong on that thought
Music is my number one passion, then sex so I need a sexually adventurous music fan.
Music does it for me too, especially live music. though I have a very eclectic and extensive collection of recordings for when not going to a gig..."
That’s my perfect man. |
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By *r.Blonde OP Man
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
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I talk openly before meeting regardless of here or a dating site. I need to know we are on the same wavelength sexually no matter what.
I have never used a dating site, when dating it was always in pubs and clubs. but that often led to very formulaic 1 on 1 sex, though there were a few exceptions.
But have the impression that many dating sites are more about what movies you watch, food you eat etc. and sex is a sepperate entity. Clearly I am wrong on that thought I've never talked about sex on a dating site either, thought that would put women off.
I talk to the people I connect with on dating sites. The people I’ve been to a swinging club and private parties were from dating apps, not here. The guys I’ve met here were more vanilla than what I’m used to from outside here. "
Surprised by that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I talk openly before meeting regardless of here or a dating site. I need to know we are on the same wavelength sexually no matter what.
I have never used a dating site, when dating it was always in pubs and clubs. but that often led to very formulaic 1 on 1 sex, though there were a few exceptions.
But have the impression that many dating sites are more about what movies you watch, food you eat etc. and sex is a sepperate entity. Clearly I am wrong on that thought I've never talked about sex on a dating site either, thought that would put women off.
I talk to the people I connect with on dating sites. The people I’ve been to a swinging club and private parties were from dating apps, not here. The guys I’ve met here were more vanilla than what I’m used to from outside here. Surprised by that."
The guy who took me to my first club was from tinder and my last bi fwb of 18 months was from Bumble. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I talk openly before meeting regardless of here or a dating site. I need to know we are on the same wavelength sexually no matter what.
I have never used a dating site, when dating it was always in pubs and clubs. but that often led to very formulaic 1 on 1 sex, though there were a few exceptions.
But have the impression that many dating sites are more about what movies you watch, food you eat etc. and sex is a sepperate entity. Clearly I am wrong on that thought
Music is my number one passion, then sex so I need a sexually adventurous music fan.
Music does it for me too, especially live music. though I have a very eclectic and extensive collection of recordings for when not going to a gig...
That’s my perfect man. "
Don't like opera though well not whole ones, really enjoyed listening to rehersals in Valencia when I was passing through last summer, but cant be doing with prolonged high pitched noise. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I talk openly before meeting regardless of here or a dating site. I need to know we are on the same wavelength sexually no matter what.
I have never used a dating site, when dating it was always in pubs and clubs. but that often led to very formulaic 1 on 1 sex, though there were a few exceptions.
But have the impression that many dating sites are more about what movies you watch, food you eat etc. and sex is a sepperate entity. Clearly I am wrong on that thought
Music is my number one passion, then sex so I need a sexually adventurous music fan.
Music does it for me too, especially live music. though I have a very eclectic and extensive collection of recordings for when not going to a gig...
That’s my perfect man.
Don't like opera though well not whole ones, really enjoyed listening to rehersals in Valencia when I was passing through last summer, but cant be doing with prolonged high pitched noise."
I know what you mean. I went to 3 gigs last week in London, my ears are still ringing |
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By *r.Blonde OP Man
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
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I talk openly before meeting regardless of here or a dating site. I need to know we are on the same wavelength sexually no matter what.
I have never used a dating site, when dating it was always in pubs and clubs. but that often led to very formulaic 1 on 1 sex, though there were a few exceptions.
But have the impression that many dating sites are more about what movies you watch, food you eat etc. and sex is a sepperate entity. Clearly I am wrong on that thought I've never talked about sex on a dating site either, thought that would put women off.
I talk to the people I connect with on dating sites. The people I’ve been to a swinging club and private parties were from dating apps, not here. The guys I’ve met here were more vanilla than what I’m used to from outside here. Surprised by that.
The guy who took me to my first club was from tinder and my last bi fwb of 18 months was from Bumble. "
And people say they're serious dating sites |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I know what you mean. I went to 3 gigs last week in London, my ears are still ringing "
Who did you see? I have nothing lined up until Saturday, when I am going to see Dr Feelgood to see if they are still alive1 Though I usually go looking on Thursday nights to see whats on usually just a pub gig from a local covers band |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I talk openly before meeting regardless of here or a dating site. I need to know we are on the same wavelength sexually no matter what.
I have never used a dating site, when dating it was always in pubs and clubs. but that often led to very formulaic 1 on 1 sex, though there were a few exceptions.
But have the impression that many dating sites are more about what movies you watch, food you eat etc. and sex is a sepperate entity. Clearly I am wrong on that thought I've never talked about sex on a dating site either, thought that would put women off.
I talk to the people I connect with on dating sites. The people I’ve been to a swinging club and private parties were from dating apps, not here. The guys I’ve met here were more vanilla than what I’m used to from outside here. Surprised by that.
The guy who took me to my first club was from tinder and my last bi fwb of 18 months was from Bumble. And people say they're serious dating sites "
hey 18 months FWB is pretty serious by todays standards! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I talk openly before meeting regardless of here or a dating site. I need to know we are on the same wavelength sexually no matter what.
I have never used a dating site, when dating it was always in pubs and clubs. but that often led to very formulaic 1 on 1 sex, though there were a few exceptions.
But have the impression that many dating sites are more about what movies you watch, food you eat etc. and sex is a sepperate entity. Clearly I am wrong on that thought I've never talked about sex on a dating site either, thought that would put women off.
I talk to the people I connect with on dating sites. The people I’ve been to a swinging club and private parties were from dating apps, not here. The guys I’ve met here were more vanilla than what I’m used to from outside here. Surprised by that.
The guy who took me to my first club was from tinder and my last bi fwb of 18 months was from Bumble. And people say they're serious dating sites "
We did date like a normal couple. Dinners, days out etc, usual stuff. They were just open minded to sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I talk openly before meeting regardless of here or a dating site. I need to know we are on the same wavelength sexually no matter what.
I have never used a dating site, when dating it was always in pubs and clubs. but that often led to very formulaic 1 on 1 sex, though there were a few exceptions.
But have the impression that many dating sites are more about what movies you watch, food you eat etc. and sex is a sepperate entity. Clearly I am wrong on that thought I've never talked about sex on a dating site either, thought that would put women off.
I talk to the people I connect with on dating sites. The people I’ve been to a swinging club and private parties were from dating apps, not here. The guys I’ve met here were more vanilla than what I’m used to from outside here. Surprised by that.
The guy who took me to my first club was from tinder and my last bi fwb of 18 months was from Bumble. And people say they're serious dating sites
hey 18 months FWB is pretty serious by todays standards!"
It was on and off. He’s now getting married and we are still friends. He wanted kids and I don’t so that’s why it ended it being fwb. |
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By *r.Blonde OP Man
over a year ago
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I talk openly before meeting regardless of here or a dating site. I need to know we are on the same wavelength sexually no matter what.
I have never used a dating site, when dating it was always in pubs and clubs. but that often led to very formulaic 1 on 1 sex, though there were a few exceptions.
But have the impression that many dating sites are more about what movies you watch, food you eat etc. and sex is a sepperate entity. Clearly I am wrong on that thought I've never talked about sex on a dating site either, thought that would put women off.
I talk to the people I connect with on dating sites. The people I’ve been to a swinging club and private parties were from dating apps, not here. The guys I’ve met here were more vanilla than what I’m used to from outside here. Surprised by that.
The guy who took me to my first club was from tinder and my last bi fwb of 18 months was from Bumble. And people say they're serious dating sites
hey 18 months FWB is pretty serious by todays standards!"
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By (user no longer on site)
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I know what you mean. I went to 3 gigs last week in London, my ears are still ringing
Who did you see? I have nothing lined up until Saturday, when I am going to see Dr Feelgood to see if they are still alive1 Though I usually go looking on Thursday nights to see whats on usually just a pub gig from a local covers band "
I saw Johnny Marr, Parquet courts and Interpol. |
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I know what you mean. I went to 3 gigs last week in London, my ears are still ringing
Who did you see? I have nothing lined up until Saturday, when I am going to see Dr Feelgood to see if they are still alive1 Though I usually go looking on Thursday nights to see whats on usually just a pub gig from a local covers band
I saw Johnny Marr, Parquet courts and Interpol. "
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By *r.Blonde OP Man
over a year ago
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I talk openly before meeting regardless of here or a dating site. I need to know we are on the same wavelength sexually no matter what.
I have never used a dating site, when dating it was always in pubs and clubs. but that often led to very formulaic 1 on 1 sex, though there were a few exceptions.
But have the impression that many dating sites are more about what movies you watch, food you eat etc. and sex is a sepperate entity. Clearly I am wrong on that thought I've never talked about sex on a dating site either, thought that would put women off.
I talk to the people I connect with on dating sites. The people I’ve been to a swinging club and private parties were from dating apps, not here. The guys I’ve met here were more vanilla than what I’m used to from outside here. Surprised by that.
The guy who took me to my first club was from tinder and my last bi fwb of 18 months was from Bumble. And people say they're serious dating sites
We did date like a normal couple. Dinners, days out etc, usual stuff. They were just open minded to sex "
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I talk openly before meeting regardless of here or a dating site. I need to know we are on the same wavelength sexually no matter what.
I have never used a dating site, when dating it was always in pubs and clubs. but that often led to very formulaic 1 on 1 sex, though there were a few exceptions.
But have the impression that many dating sites are more about what movies you watch, food you eat etc. and sex is a sepperate entity. Clearly I am wrong on that thought I've never talked about sex on a dating site either, thought that would put women off.
I talk to the people I connect with on dating sites. The people I’ve been to a swinging club and private parties were from dating apps, not here. The guys I’ve met here were more vanilla than what I’m used to from outside here. Surprised by that.
The guy who took me to my first club was from tinder and my last bi fwb of 18 months was from Bumble. And people say they're serious dating sites
We did date like a normal couple. Dinners, days out etc, usual stuff. They were just open minded to sex Who mentioned sex first when initially talking?"
Me |
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By *r.Blonde OP Man
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
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I talk openly before meeting regardless of here or a dating site. I need to know we are on the same wavelength sexually no matter what.
I have never used a dating site, when dating it was always in pubs and clubs. but that often led to very formulaic 1 on 1 sex, though there were a few exceptions.
But have the impression that many dating sites are more about what movies you watch, food you eat etc. and sex is a sepperate entity. Clearly I am wrong on that thought I've never talked about sex on a dating site either, thought that would put women off.
I talk to the people I connect with on dating sites. The people I’ve been to a swinging club and private parties were from dating apps, not here. The guys I’ve met here were more vanilla than what I’m used to from outside here. Surprised by that.
The guy who took me to my first club was from tinder and my last bi fwb of 18 months was from Bumble. And people say they're serious dating sites
We did date like a normal couple. Dinners, days out etc, usual stuff. They were just open minded to sex Who mentioned sex first when initially talking?
Me"
See I think if a man did that on a dating site, he wouldn't even get a date most of the time. |
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I talk openly before meeting regardless of here or a dating site. I need to know we are on the same wavelength sexually no matter what.
I have never used a dating site, when dating it was always in pubs and clubs. but that often led to very formulaic 1 on 1 sex, though there were a few exceptions.
But have the impression that many dating sites are more about what movies you watch, food you eat etc. and sex is a sepperate entity. Clearly I am wrong on that thought I've never talked about sex on a dating site either, thought that would put women off.
I talk to the people I connect with on dating sites. The people I’ve been to a swinging club and private parties were from dating apps, not here. The guys I’ve met here were more vanilla than what I’m used to from outside here. Surprised by that.
The guy who took me to my first club was from tinder and my last bi fwb of 18 months was from Bumble. And people say they're serious dating sites
We did date like a normal couple. Dinners, days out etc, usual stuff. They were just open minded to sex Who mentioned sex first when initially talking?
Me See I think if a man did that on a dating site, he wouldn't even get a date most of the time."
I didn’t speak about it that quickly. If someone talks about sex too soon whether it’s here or anywhere else, I switch off. I need a connection first to enjoy it. We probably talked sex when we went onto whatsapp. |
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By *r.Blonde OP Man
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
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I talk openly before meeting regardless of here or a dating site. I need to know we are on the same wavelength sexually no matter what.
I have never used a dating site, when dating it was always in pubs and clubs. but that often led to very formulaic 1 on 1 sex, though there were a few exceptions.
But have the impression that many dating sites are more about what movies you watch, food you eat etc. and sex is a sepperate entity. Clearly I am wrong on that thought I've never talked about sex on a dating site either, thought that would put women off.
I talk to the people I connect with on dating sites. The people I’ve been to a swinging club and private parties were from dating apps, not here. The guys I’ve met here were more vanilla than what I’m used to from outside here. Surprised by that.
The guy who took me to my first club was from tinder and my last bi fwb of 18 months was from Bumble. And people say they're serious dating sites
We did date like a normal couple. Dinners, days out etc, usual stuff. They were just open minded to sex Who mentioned sex first when initially talking?
Me See I think if a man did that on a dating site, he wouldn't even get a date most of the time.
I didn’t speak about it that quickly. If someone talks about sex too soon whether it’s here or anywhere else, I switch off. I need a connection first to enjoy it. We probably talked sex when we went onto whatsapp. "
I can't text too much before a date/meet etc. Just like to use the phone to arrange to meet. Do you lose attraction doing that sometimes? |
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See I think if a man did that on a dating site, he wouldn't even get a date most of the time.
I didn’t speak about it that quickly. If someone talks about sex too soon whether it’s here or anywhere else, I switch off. I need a connection first to enjoy it. We probably talked sex when we went onto whatsapp. "
Not so sure about that OP, as I said never used a dating site myself, but have brought sex into the conversation early on conventional dates. and it can be sucessful. It seldom works as an opening line but early in conversation can be good. |
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I talk openly before meeting regardless of here or a dating site. I need to know we are on the same wavelength sexually no matter what.
I have never used a dating site, when dating it was always in pubs and clubs. but that often led to very formulaic 1 on 1 sex, though there were a few exceptions.
But have the impression that many dating sites are more about what movies you watch, food you eat etc. and sex is a sepperate entity. Clearly I am wrong on that thought I've never talked about sex on a dating site either, thought that would put women off.
I talk to the people I connect with on dating sites. The people I’ve been to a swinging club and private parties were from dating apps, not here. The guys I’ve met here were more vanilla than what I’m used to from outside here. Surprised by that.
The guy who took me to my first club was from tinder and my last bi fwb of 18 months was from Bumble. And people say they're serious dating sites
We did date like a normal couple. Dinners, days out etc, usual stuff. They were just open minded to sex Who mentioned sex first when initially talking?
Me See I think if a man did that on a dating site, he wouldn't even get a date most of the time.
I didn’t speak about it that quickly. If someone talks about sex too soon whether it’s here or anywhere else, I switch off. I need a connection first to enjoy it. We probably talked sex when we went onto whatsapp. I can't text too much before a date/meet etc. Just like to use the phone to arrange to meet. Do you lose attraction doing that sometimes?"
Never, I never meet quickly, I like to build up something first online. I always feel really comfortable then. The guys I’ve met too quickly have not had much of a spark. |
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By *r.Blonde OP Man
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
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I talk openly before meeting regardless of here or a dating site. I need to know we are on the same wavelength sexually no matter what.
I have never used a dating site, when dating it was always in pubs and clubs. but that often led to very formulaic 1 on 1 sex, though there were a few exceptions.
But have the impression that many dating sites are more about what movies you watch, food you eat etc. and sex is a sepperate entity. Clearly I am wrong on that thought I've never talked about sex on a dating site either, thought that would put women off.
I talk to the people I connect with on dating sites. The people I’ve been to a swinging club and private parties were from dating apps, not here. The guys I’ve met here were more vanilla than what I’m used to from outside here. Surprised by that.
The guy who took me to my first club was from tinder and my last bi fwb of 18 months was from Bumble. And people say they're serious dating sites
We did date like a normal couple. Dinners, days out etc, usual stuff. They were just open minded to sex Who mentioned sex first when initially talking?
Me See I think if a man did that on a dating site, he wouldn't even get a date most of the time.
I didn’t speak about it that quickly. If someone talks about sex too soon whether it’s here or anywhere else, I switch off. I need a connection first to enjoy it. We probably talked sex when we went onto whatsapp. I can't text too much before a date/meet etc. Just like to use the phone to arrange to meet. Do you lose attraction doing that sometimes?
Never, I never meet quickly, I like to build up something first online. I always feel really comfortable then. The guys I’ve met too quickly have not had much of a spark. "
I can understand building a rapport, it just seems there's only so much you can say over a phone. |
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I talk openly before meeting regardless of here or a dating site. I need to know we are on the same wavelength sexually no matter what.
I have never used a dating site, when dating it was always in pubs and clubs. but that often led to very formulaic 1 on 1 sex, though there were a few exceptions.
But have the impression that many dating sites are more about what movies you watch, food you eat etc. and sex is a sepperate entity. Clearly I am wrong on that thought I've never talked about sex on a dating site either, thought that would put women off.
I talk to the people I connect with on dating sites. The people I’ve been to a swinging club and private parties were from dating apps, not here. The guys I’ve met here were more vanilla than what I’m used to from outside here. Surprised by that.
The guy who took me to my first club was from tinder and my last bi fwb of 18 months was from Bumble. And people say they're serious dating sites
We did date like a normal couple. Dinners, days out etc, usual stuff. They were just open minded to sex Who mentioned sex first when initially talking?
Me See I think if a man did that on a dating site, he wouldn't even get a date most of the time.
I didn’t speak about it that quickly. If someone talks about sex too soon whether it’s here or anywhere else, I switch off. I need a connection first to enjoy it. We probably talked sex when we went onto whatsapp. I can't text too much before a date/meet etc. Just like to use the phone to arrange to meet. Do you lose attraction doing that sometimes?
Never, I never meet quickly, I like to build up something first online. I always feel really comfortable then. The guys I’ve met too quickly have not had much of a spark. I can understand building a rapport, it just seems there's only so much you can say over a phone."
I’m a long haul flight attendant. They get to see my world and it’s nice to have someone to chat to while I’m away in different time zones. The guys I’m compatible with are ones that like to chat on the phone or text. Many from here text me daily to see what I’m up to. It’s nice company in my sometimes lonely world. |
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By *r.Blonde OP Man
over a year ago
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I talk openly before meeting regardless of here or a dating site. I need to know we are on the same wavelength sexually no matter what.
I have never used a dating site, when dating it was always in pubs and clubs. but that often led to very formulaic 1 on 1 sex, though there were a few exceptions.
But have the impression that many dating sites are more about what movies you watch, food you eat etc. and sex is a sepperate entity. Clearly I am wrong on that thought I've never talked about sex on a dating site either, thought that would put women off.
I talk to the people I connect with on dating sites. The people I’ve been to a swinging club and private parties were from dating apps, not here. The guys I’ve met here were more vanilla than what I’m used to from outside here. Surprised by that.
The guy who took me to my first club was from tinder and my last bi fwb of 18 months was from Bumble. And people say they're serious dating sites
We did date like a normal couple. Dinners, days out etc, usual stuff. They were just open minded to sex Who mentioned sex first when initially talking?
Me See I think if a man did that on a dating site, he wouldn't even get a date most of the time.
I didn’t speak about it that quickly. If someone talks about sex too soon whether it’s here or anywhere else, I switch off. I need a connection first to enjoy it. We probably talked sex when we went onto whatsapp. I can't text too much before a date/meet etc. Just like to use the phone to arrange to meet. Do you lose attraction doing that sometimes?
Never, I never meet quickly, I like to build up something first online. I always feel really comfortable then. The guys I’ve met too quickly have not had much of a spark. I can understand building a rapport, it just seems there's only so much you can say over a phone.
I’m a long haul flight attendant. They get to see my world and it’s nice to have someone to chat to while I’m away in different time zones. The guys I’m compatible with are ones that like to chat on the phone or text. Many from here text me daily to see what I’m up to. It’s nice company in my sometimes lonely world. "
That's nice, good for you then |
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the lounge can cover any topic (within the rules of course), swingers chat i gloss over as that does seem to be the same old threads, more so than the lounge, now if you want a good healthy debate, pop into the Politics Room, you gotta be batshit crazy to join in them arguments  |
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By *r.Blonde OP Man
over a year ago
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"the lounge can cover any topic (within the rules of course), swingers chat i gloss over as that does seem to be the same old threads, more so than the lounge, now if you want a good healthy debate, pop into the Politics Room, you gotta be batshit crazy to join in them arguments "
Like playing with the big boys in the politics forum |
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