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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Why don’t the women that start threads asking who wants to cuddle them on the sofa, or who wants to date them or asking people with flirty eyes when they last had sex, or who would snog them, why do these women not consider themselves attention seekers yet are quick to call me an attention seeker when all I really do is start threads asking for advice?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"That is puzzling. Everyone posting in the forum is seeking attention on some level, some have insight - some not so much."
I agree and when I start a thread asking for people’s opinions I want that thread to be noticed and answered by as many different people as possible.
Being called an attention seeker is used to insult, by people who don’t consider themselves attention seekers yet start threads that invite people to blow smoke up their arse. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That is puzzling. Everyone posting in the forum is seeking attention on some level, some have insight - some not so much.
I agree and when I start a thread asking for people’s opinions I want that thread to be noticed and answered by as many different people as possible.
Being called an attention seeker is used to insult, by people who don’t consider themselves attention seekers yet start threads that invite people to blow smoke up their arse. "
Maybe it's partially a jealousy thing..maybe more people are drawn to your advice threads than their more obvious flatter me threads... wouldn't worry about negative nellys.. it's just other people's insecurities making them mean. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That is puzzling. Everyone posting in the forum is seeking attention on some level, some have insight - some not so much.
I agree and when I start a thread asking for people’s opinions I want that thread to be noticed and answered by as many different people as possible.
Being called an attention seeker is used to insult, by people who don’t consider themselves attention seekers yet start threads that invite people to blow smoke up their arse. "
It is used as an insult, and that’s shitty, and as you say hypocritical. We are all a bit shitty and hypocritical though. Don’t let other people’s shitty behaviour influence you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why don’t the women that start threads asking who wants to cuddle them on the sofa, or who wants to date them or asking people with flirty eyes when they last had sex, or who would snog them, why do these women not consider themselves attention seekers yet are quick to call me an attention seeker when all I really do is start threads asking for advice?
Puzzling "
You're trying to work out why women think the way they do. 
Come take a seat with the guys we'll fill you in on the progress we've made since records began.  |
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Because we all have different interests OP and sometimes we just feel like a daft cuddle thread and other times we may feel like taking on world issues, and everything that falls in between.
Your subjects, while meaningful to you, may have less meaning than a cuddle thread to someone who actually just wants a cuddle. We all want some of attention to some degree, but on our own terms.
Skip the threads you aren't bothered with, comment on the ones you are drawn to, and start threads if you've a topic you want to discuss... If people are interested they'll comment or reply, but you can't expect everyone to want exactly the same thing you want at that moment in time  I'll take a cuddle, an opinion, a consonant and two vowels please OP  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You're trying to work out why women think the way they do.
Come take a seat with the guys we'll fill you in on the progress we've made since records began. "
I've got a big book especially for this full of blank pages waiting to be filled in :D
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Because we all have different interests OP and sometimes we just feel like a daft cuddle thread and other times we may feel like taking on world issues, and everything that falls in between.
Your subjects, while meaningful to you, may have less meaning than a cuddle thread to someone who actually just wants a cuddle. We all want some of attention to some degree, but on our own terms.
Skip the threads you aren't bothered with, comment on the ones you are drawn to, and start threads if you've a topic you want to discuss... If people are interested they'll comment or reply, but you can't expect everyone to want exactly the same thing you want at that moment in time I'll take a cuddle, an opinion, a consonant and two vowels please OP "
I don’t think that’s what the OP was contesting though (people using different types of threads for their attention fix), I read it that her confusion was why some people call her an attention seeker as a derogatory term and yet garner their own attention through threads they create. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The thing is, most men on the forums know they don't have a snowball's chance in hell with you so don't try to butt lick.
The women don't like your body and looks positivity so call you an attention seeker.
You're only allowed to attention seek on here if you're a sad sack feeling sorry for yourself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ego boost needed for them. The likes of you and I don't need an ego boost, because we're awesome.
And hot.
And not everybody has a vagina "
Those are the ones giving the ones with vaginas an ego boost. |
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You're a young, highly attractive woman who isn't afraid to say exactly what she's after. A lot of men make it clear that they find you desirable. This will lead to some people, not just women, saying you're an attention seeker.
It's how the world works. Just like the frequently voiced opinion that beautiful people are ugly on the inside. None of us really think about what we're saying before we say it. |
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"Because we all have different interests OP and sometimes we just feel like a daft cuddle thread and other times we may feel like taking on world issues, and everything that falls in between.
Your subjects, while meaningful to you, may have less meaning than a cuddle thread to someone who actually just wants a cuddle. We all want some of attention to some degree, but on our own terms.
Skip the threads you aren't bothered with, comment on the ones you are drawn to, and start threads if you've a topic you want to discuss... If people are interested they'll comment or reply, but you can't expect everyone to want exactly the same thing you want at that moment in time I'll take a cuddle, an opinion, a consonant and two vowels please OP
I don’t think that’s what the OP was contesting though (people using different types of threads for their attention fix), I read it that her confusion was why some people call her an attention seeker as a derogatory term and yet garner their own attention through threads they create. "
Ok... Well taking the examples given, the who wants a cuddle/snog threads or even the when did you last have sex threads, they're all inclusive and generic, open to everyone, and topics even the shyest of forum users can identify with in one way or another. Whether it's to smugly announce you've just had multiple orgasms, or to say you've had a crap day and could actually do with a cuddle (thanks for the offer). The OP's threads though throughout her various incarnations tend to be introspective, and asking people to comment specifically on her misfortunes and experiences. I've nothing against the OP as a person, but from my perspective (mine.. I'm not assuming others have the same view), yes, I would see them as more attention seeking than an inclusive thread. But, we're all allowed to seek attention in whatever way we choose (within site rules), we just won't all share the same opinions or validations.
OP I think you're a sweet girl and as you've oft said yourself, probably not suited to here from the pov of what you're looking for. I mean no insult or offence in what I say, I'm just offering one perspective because you asked |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Because we all have different interests OP and sometimes we just feel like a daft cuddle thread and other times we may feel like taking on world issues, and everything that falls in between.
Your subjects, while meaningful to you, may have less meaning than a cuddle thread to someone who actually just wants a cuddle. We all want some of attention to some degree, but on our own terms.
Skip the threads you aren't bothered with, comment on the ones you are drawn to, and start threads if you've a topic you want to discuss... If people are interested they'll comment or reply, but you can't expect everyone to want exactly the same thing you want at that moment in time I'll take a cuddle, an opinion, a consonant and two vowels please OP
I don’t think that’s what the OP was contesting though (people using different types of threads for their attention fix), I read it that her confusion was why some people call her an attention seeker as a derogatory term and yet garner their own attention through threads they create. "
Correct as always. You always understand what people are trying to say and can explain it in a better way! |
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"Why don’t the women that start threads asking who wants to cuddle them on the sofa, or who wants to date them or asking people with flirty eyes when they last had sex, or who would snog them, why do these women not consider themselves attention seekers yet are quick to call me an attention seeker when all I really do is start threads asking for advice?
Puzzling "
I think they know they are attention seekers but don't want to admit it. you need to add the im leaving fab brigade to that list too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm sure you know the answer to that. I don't want a ban so that's all I'll say.
Why do you let people like that bother you? "
It's truu... Ignore the jokers simples |
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"That is puzzling. Everyone posting in the forum is seeking attention on some level, some have insight - some not so much.
I agree and when I start a thread asking for people’s opinions I want that thread to be noticed and answered by as many different people as possible.
Being called an attention seeker is used to insult, by people who don’t consider themselves attention seekers yet start threads that invite people to blow smoke up their arse. "
I agree with what you say. Labelling at all is an attempt to insult.
There's many ways to interpret attention seeking and put forward it's good or bad connotations.
I don't see you as an attention seeker. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People seem to be far too concerned with what other people are doing.
Why are you saying that ?"
Just an observation. People seem more concerned with the actions of others than the actions of themselves. |
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"People seem to be far too concerned with what other people are doing.
Why are you saying that ?
Just an observation. People seem more concerned with the actions of others than the actions of themselves. "
Doh ! Hatter........ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I first noticed you in the forums a few years back, I thought you were a bit of a dick
I think, like me, you have gone and come back a few times
I think, like me, your reasoning for being here has changed
As a result, the way you use the site and, specifically, the forums has changed
I like you. You're a good egg  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why don’t the women that start threads asking who wants to cuddle them on the sofa, or who wants to date them or asking people with flirty eyes when they last had sex, or who would snog them, why do these women not consider themselves attention seekers yet are quick to call me an attention seeker when all I really do is start threads asking for advice?
Puzzling "
Do men ever call you an attention seeker or is it just women?x |
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I must say, reading some of your posts, you do seem to have some haters. Ive seen you comment on a thread posted by someone else and still get some bitchy comments which have nothing to do with the thread or your post. I don't have the same point of view as you on some of the things you discuss, but wouldn't say you're an attention seeker and I find your threads interesting to read.
Just ignore them and enjoy your remaining time here
Mrs |
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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago
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OP: No idea.
Not been about here much last few weeks and can't be bothered to trawl through....
So Ms Wilkes.... Have you asked the guy at the leisure centre out yet? Shagged him? Was he any good?
Just being nosey |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A woman called me an attention seeker on my last thread, like it’s some revelation. 
I haven't been called one. Not to my face anyway  but it's clear that I post threads and call for people's attention and opinions as much as anyone I've got one right now asking for people's permission to add them to my hotlist ffs I'm an ethical pervert "
Haha. Everyone’s an attention seeker on the forums, some just own it and others play it down like they’re above it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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The point I was trying to make is the women that call you an attention seeker in a way to have a dig at you but they start threads asking who wants to snog them or shag them or cuddle them or date them etc, something I personally don’t do as that’s the kind of stuff that I’d consider attention seeking, not general asking for advice. |
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"Does anyone post in the hope it won't be read?! Is that not the point? "
Oh jeez there's nothing worse than the 0 reply... That's when you hope that lots of other threads get really busy so your 0 reply thread disappears onto the next page and into the ether |
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"The point I was trying to make is the women that call you an attention seeker in a way to have a dig at you but they start threads asking who wants to snog them or shag them or cuddle them or date them etc, something I personally don’t do as that’s the kind of stuff that I’d consider attention seeking, not general asking for advice. "
Hi Annie
You have my attention any time lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does anyone post in the hope it won't be read?! Is that not the point?
Oh jeez there's nothing worse than the 0 reply... That's when you hope that lots of other threads get really busy so your 0 reply thread disappears onto the next page and into the ether "
I thought that's why ops respond to everyone. It amuses me to see that |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP: No idea.
Not been about here much last few weeks and can't be bothered to trawl through....
So Ms Wilkes.... Have you asked the guy at the leisure centre out yet? Shagged him? Was he any good?
Just being nosey "
No not asked him yet! Waiting till our works night out in 2 weeks, plan is ask him when he’s pissed and if he blows me out I can pretend I didn’t say anything and he must’ve been imagining it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OP: No idea.
Not been about here much last few weeks and can't be bothered to trawl through....
So Ms Wilkes.... Have you asked the guy at the leisure centre out yet? Shagged him? Was he any good?
Just being nosey
No not asked him yet! Waiting till our works night out in 2 weeks, plan is ask him when he’s pissed and if he blows me out I can pretend I didn’t say anything and he must’ve been imagining it!"
Haha |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
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"OP: No idea.
Not been about here much last few weeks and can't be bothered to trawl through....
So Ms Wilkes.... Have you asked the guy at the leisure centre out yet? Shagged him? Was he any good?
Just being nosey
No not asked him yet! Waiting till our works night out in 2 weeks, plan is ask him when he’s pissed and if he blows me out I can pretend I didn’t say anything and he must’ve been imagining it!"
But that could work both ways. He may say yes and not remember saying so or regret it when sober.
It does surprise me that you have such little self confidence you have to wait until he's d*unk.
Sober questions get honest answers |
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"Does anyone post in the hope it won't be read?! Is that not the point?
Oh jeez there's nothing worse than the 0 reply... That's when you hope that lots of other threads get really busy so your 0 reply thread disappears onto the next page and into the ether
I thought that's why ops respond to everyone. It amuses me to see that "
If I'm the OP I do generally try to reply to everyone.... But not much point in replying to yourself if nobody else posts is there? |
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"OP: No idea.
Not been about here much last few weeks and can't be bothered to trawl through....
So Ms Wilkes.... Have you asked the guy at the leisure centre out yet? Shagged him? Was he any good?
Just being nosey
No not asked him yet! Waiting till our works night out in 2 weeks, plan is ask him when he’s pissed and if he blows me out I can pretend I didn’t say anything and he must’ve been imagining it!"
Good luck OP! Hope it goes well |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why don’t the women that start threads asking who wants to cuddle them on the sofa, or who wants to date them or asking people with flirty eyes when they last had sex, or who would snog them, why do these women not consider themselves attention seekers yet are quick to call me an attention seeker when all I really do is start threads asking for advice?
Puzzling "
I think if people are so quick to be mean to you, then they must be jealous or feel intimidated / threatened by you in some way.. Don't let it bother you beautiful, you just carry on been you true to your gorgeous self! "As you were"  x |
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"Does anyone post in the hope it won't be read?! Is that not the point?
Oh jeez there's nothing worse than the 0 reply... That's when you hope that lots of other threads get really busy so your 0 reply thread disappears onto the next page and into the ether
I thought that's why ops respond to everyone. It amuses me to see that "
That's the point of starting a thread and asking a question isn't it, to interact with other people?
Not much point in starting a thread and then ignoring it surely? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does anyone post in the hope it won't be read?! Is that not the point?
Oh jeez there's nothing worse than the 0 reply... That's when you hope that lots of other threads get really busy so your 0 reply thread disappears onto the next page and into the ether
I thought that's why ops respond to everyone. It amuses me to see that
That's the point of starting a thread and asking a question isn't it, to interact with other people?
Not much point in starting a thread and then ignoring it surely?"
There's no rule that says they have to reply to everyone. |
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"Does anyone post in the hope it won't be read?! Is that not the point?
Oh jeez there's nothing worse than the 0 reply... That's when you hope that lots of other threads get really busy so your 0 reply thread disappears onto the next page and into the ether
I thought that's why ops respond to everyone. It amuses me to see that "
I try to respond to as many people as possible, or they might complain of being ignored. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"OP: No idea.
Not been about here much last few weeks and can't be bothered to trawl through....
So Ms Wilkes.... Have you asked the guy at the leisure centre out yet? Shagged him? Was he any good?
Just being nosey
No not asked him yet! Waiting till our works night out in 2 weeks, plan is ask him when he’s pissed and if he blows me out I can pretend I didn’t say anything and he must’ve been imagining it!
But that could work both ways. He may say yes and not remember saying so or regret it when sober.
It does surprise me that you have such little self confidence you have to wait until he's d*unk.
Sober questions get honest answers "
I’ll be sober! I thought people’s true feelings came out when they’re under the influence? |
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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago
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"That is puzzling. Everyone posting in the forum is seeking attention on some level, some have insight - some not so much.
I agree and when I start a thread asking for people’s opinions I want that thread to be noticed and answered by as many different people as possible.
Being called an attention seeker is used to insult, by people who don’t consider themselves attention seekers yet start threads that invite people to blow smoke up their arse. "
I've been called one myself ..doesn't bother me... why should it.. I'm a digital persona who has zero significance to most., same as most others on here. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Does anyone post in the hope it won't be read?! Is that not the point?
Oh jeez there's nothing worse than the 0 reply... That's when you hope that lots of other threads get really busy so your 0 reply thread disappears onto the next page and into the ether
I thought that's why ops respond to everyone. It amuses me to see that
I try to respond to as many people as possible, or they might complain of being ignored."
I listen to everything you say and nod in agreement! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does anyone post in the hope it won't be read?! Is that not the point?
Oh jeez there's nothing worse than the 0 reply... That's when you hope that lots of other threads get really busy so your 0 reply thread disappears onto the next page and into the ether
I thought that's why ops respond to everyone. It amuses me to see that
I try to respond to as many people as possible, or they might complain of being ignored."
Aww bless them. This is why I can't be arsed to start threads... I only respond to the interesting comments |
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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago
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"OP: No idea.
Not been about here much last few weeks and can't be bothered to trawl through....
So Ms Wilkes.... Have you asked the guy at the leisure centre out yet? Shagged him? Was he any good?
Just being nosey
No not asked him yet! Waiting till our works night out in 2 weeks, plan is ask him when he’s pissed and if he blows me out I can pretend I didn’t say anything and he must’ve been imagining it!
But that could work both ways. He may say yes and not remember saying so or regret it when sober.
It does surprise me that you have such little self confidence you have to wait until he's d*unk.
Sober questions get honest answers
I’ll be sober! I thought people’s true feelings came out when they’re under the influence?"
I thought it was a d*unk persons words are a sober persons thoughts |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does anyone post in the hope it won't be read?! Is that not the point?
Oh jeez there's nothing worse than the 0 reply... That's when you hope that lots of other threads get really busy so your 0 reply thread disappears onto the next page and into the ether
I thought that's why ops respond to everyone. It amuses me to see that
I try to respond to as many people as possible, or they might complain of being ignored.
Aww bless them. This is why I can't be arsed to start threads... I only respond to the interesting comments "
Yea, some women get really arsey when they aren't replied to. |
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"Does anyone post in the hope it won't be read?! Is that not the point?
Oh jeez there's nothing worse than the 0 reply... That's when you hope that lots of other threads get really busy so your 0 reply thread disappears onto the next page and into the ether
I thought that's why ops respond to everyone. It amuses me to see that
I try to respond to as many people as possible, or they might complain of being ignored.
I listen to everything you say and nod in agreement! "
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"Does anyone post in the hope it won't be read?! Is that not the point?
Oh jeez there's nothing worse than the 0 reply... That's when you hope that lots of other threads get really busy so your 0 reply thread disappears onto the next page and into the ether
I thought that's why ops respond to everyone. It amuses me to see that
That's the point of starting a thread and asking a question isn't it, to interact with other people?
Not much point in starting a thread and then ignoring it surely?"
I start threads because some stupid idea pops into my head, then I forget I started a thread. |
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"Does anyone post in the hope it won't be read?! Is that not the point?
Oh jeez there's nothing worse than the 0 reply... That's when you hope that lots of other threads get really busy so your 0 reply thread disappears onto the next page and into the ether
I thought that's why ops respond to everyone. It amuses me to see that
I try to respond to as many people as possible, or they might complain of being ignored.
Aww bless them. This is why I can't be arsed to start threads... I only respond to the interesting comments
Yea, some women get really arsey when they aren't replied to."
They need to spend a day in my shoes.. I didn't realise how needy people can be |
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"Does anyone post in the hope it won't be read?! Is that not the point?
Oh jeez there's nothing worse than the 0 reply... That's when you hope that lots of other threads get really busy so your 0 reply thread disappears onto the next page and into the ether
I thought that's why ops respond to everyone. It amuses me to see that
That's the point of starting a thread and asking a question isn't it, to interact with other people?
Not much point in starting a thread and then ignoring it surely?
I start threads because some stupid idea pops into my head, then I forget I started a thread."
I do that |
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"Does anyone post in the hope it won't be read?! Is that not the point?
Oh jeez there's nothing worse than the 0 reply... That's when you hope that lots of other threads get really busy so your 0 reply thread disappears onto the next page and into the ether
I thought that's why ops respond to everyone. It amuses me to see that
That's the point of starting a thread and asking a question isn't it, to interact with other people?
Not much point in starting a thread and then ignoring it surely?
There's no rule that says they have to reply to everyone. "
I don't think I've ever seen a thread where the op replied to everyone. No one's got that much time on their hands have they? |
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"Does anyone post in the hope it won't be read?! Is that not the point?
Oh jeez there's nothing worse than the 0 reply... That's when you hope that lots of other threads get really busy so your 0 reply thread disappears onto the next page and into the ether
I thought that's why ops respond to everyone. It amuses me to see that
I try to respond to as many people as possible, or they might complain of being ignored.
Aww bless them. This is why I can't be arsed to start threads... I only respond to the interesting comments
Yea, some women get really arsey when they aren't replied to."
Some get like that when they are replied to. |
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"Does anyone post in the hope it won't be read?! Is that not the point?
Oh jeez there's nothing worse than the 0 reply... That's when you hope that lots of other threads get really busy so your 0 reply thread disappears onto the next page and into the ether
I thought that's why ops respond to everyone. It amuses me to see that
That's the point of starting a thread and asking a question isn't it, to interact with other people?
Not much point in starting a thread and then ignoring it surely?
There's no rule that says they have to reply to everyone.
I don't think I've ever seen a thread where the op replied to everyone. No one's got that much time on their hands have they? "
I've seen em... they've even replied to me when there's no way they'd ever interact with me. It amused me as they were complimenting everyone else. I didn't get a compliment |
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"Does anyone post in the hope it won't be read?! Is that not the point?
Oh jeez there's nothing worse than the 0 reply... That's when you hope that lots of other threads get really busy so your 0 reply thread disappears onto the next page and into the ether
I thought that's why ops respond to everyone. It amuses me to see that
That's the point of starting a thread and asking a question isn't it, to interact with other people?
Not much point in starting a thread and then ignoring it surely?
There's no rule that says they have to reply to everyone.
I don't think I've ever seen a thread where the op replied to everyone. No one's got that much time on their hands have they? "
I do but I only ever get about 6 replies and I don't have a life  |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"Does anyone post in the hope it won't be read?! Is that not the point?
Oh jeez there's nothing worse than the 0 reply... That's when you hope that lots of other threads get really busy so your 0 reply thread disappears onto the next page and into the ether
I thought that's why ops respond to everyone. It amuses me to see that
That's the point of starting a thread and asking a question isn't it, to interact with other people?
Not much point in starting a thread and then ignoring it surely?
There's no rule that says they have to reply to everyone.
I don't think I've ever seen a thread where the op replied to everyone. No one's got that much time on their hands have they?
I've seen em... they've even replied to me when there's no way they'd ever interact with me. It amused me as they were complimenting everyone else. I didn't get a compliment "
I've seen them also, anything to make them popular, what ever floats their boat and all that, I've never understood that mentality and never will, same as the females who put themselves down then jump on the first guy to say no you are gorgeous I wont name them but I am sure we all know who they are  |
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"Does anyone post in the hope it won't be read?! Is that not the point?
Oh jeez there's nothing worse than the 0 reply... That's when you hope that lots of other threads get really busy so your 0 reply thread disappears onto the next page and into the ether
I thought that's why ops respond to everyone. It amuses me to see that
That's the point of starting a thread and asking a question isn't it, to interact with other people?
Not much point in starting a thread and then ignoring it surely?
There's no rule that says they have to reply to everyone.
I don't think I've ever seen a thread where the op replied to everyone. No one's got that much time on their hands have they?
I've seen em... they've even replied to me when there's no way they'd ever interact with me. It amused me as they were complimenting everyone else. I didn't get a compliment "
You pay much more attention to the forums than me then.
I know why I don't get compliments. Apparently I'm an 'orrible cunt.
On the flipside, I've never posted in the kiss pass blah blah threads that everyone's ignoring me until everyone finally does. |
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"Does anyone post in the hope it won't be read?! Is that not the point?
Oh jeez there's nothing worse than the 0 reply... That's when you hope that lots of other threads get really busy so your 0 reply thread disappears onto the next page and into the ether
I thought that's why ops respond to everyone. It amuses me to see that
That's the point of starting a thread and asking a question isn't it, to interact with other people?
Not much point in starting a thread and then ignoring it surely?
There's no rule that says they have to reply to everyone.
I don't think I've ever seen a thread where the op replied to everyone. No one's got that much time on their hands have they? "
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"Does anyone post in the hope it won't be read?! Is that not the point?
Oh jeez there's nothing worse than the 0 reply... That's when you hope that lots of other threads get really busy so your 0 reply thread disappears onto the next page and into the ether
I thought that's why ops respond to everyone. It amuses me to see that
That's the point of starting a thread and asking a question isn't it, to interact with other people?
Not much point in starting a thread and then ignoring it surely?
There's no rule that says they have to reply to everyone.
I don't think I've ever seen a thread where the op replied to everyone. No one's got that much time on their hands have they?
I've seen em... they've even replied to me when there's no way they'd ever interact with me. It amused me as they were complimenting everyone else. I didn't get a compliment
You pay much more attention to the forums than me then.
I know why I don't get compliments. Apparently I'm an 'orrible cunt.
On the flipside, I've never posted in the kiss pass blah blah threads that everyone's ignoring me until everyone finally does. "
No. I spend very little time on here...I just notice certain things. |
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"Does anyone post in the hope it won't be read?! Is that not the point?
Oh jeez there's nothing worse than the 0 reply... That's when you hope that lots of other threads get really busy so your 0 reply thread disappears onto the next page and into the ether
I thought that's why ops respond to everyone. It amuses me to see that
That's the point of starting a thread and asking a question isn't it, to interact with other people?
Not much point in starting a thread and then ignoring it surely?
There's no rule that says they have to reply to everyone.
I don't think I've ever seen a thread where the op replied to everyone. No one's got that much time on their hands have they?
I've seen em... they've even replied to me when there's no way they'd ever interact with me. It amused me as they were complimenting everyone else. I didn't get a compliment
I've seen them also, anything to make them popular, what ever floats their boat and all that, I've never understood that mentality and never will, same as the females who put themselves down then jump on the first guy to say no you are gorgeous I wont name them but I am sure we all know who they are "
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"Does anyone post in the hope it won't be read?! Is that not the point?
Oh jeez there's nothing worse than the 0 reply... That's when you hope that lots of other threads get really busy so your 0 reply thread disappears onto the next page and into the ether
I thought that's why ops respond to everyone. It amuses me to see that
That's the point of starting a thread and asking a question isn't it, to interact with other people?
Not much point in starting a thread and then ignoring it surely?
There's no rule that says they have to reply to everyone.
I don't think I've ever seen a thread where the op replied to everyone. No one's got that much time on their hands have they?
I've seen em... they've even replied to me when there's no way they'd ever interact with me. It amused me as they were complimenting everyone else. I didn't get a compliment
You pay much more attention to the forums than me then.
I know why I don't get compliments. Apparently I'm an 'orrible cunt.
On the flipside, I've never posted in the kiss pass blah blah threads that everyone's ignoring me until everyone finally does.
No. I spend very little time on here...I just notice certain things. "
You’re on here more than anyone |
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"Does anyone post in the hope it won't be read?! Is that not the point?
Oh jeez there's nothing worse than the 0 reply... That's when you hope that lots of other threads get really busy so your 0 reply thread disappears onto the next page and into the ether
I thought that's why ops respond to everyone. It amuses me to see that
That's the point of starting a thread and asking a question isn't it, to interact with other people?
Not much point in starting a thread and then ignoring it surely?
There's no rule that says they have to reply to everyone.
I don't think I've ever seen a thread where the op replied to everyone. No one's got that much time on their hands have they?
I've seen em... they've even replied to me when there's no way they'd ever interact with me. It amused me as they were complimenting everyone else. I didn't get a compliment
You pay much more attention to the forums than me then.
I know why I don't get compliments. Apparently I'm an 'orrible cunt.
On the flipside, I've never posted in the kiss pass blah blah threads that everyone's ignoring me until everyone finally does.
No. I spend very little time on here...I just notice certain things.
You’re on here more than anyone "
Ah darling. I love that you're keeping tabs, but it's really embarrassing. The others will get jealous. |
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"That is puzzling. Everyone posting in the forum is seeking attention on some level, some have insight - some not so much.
I agree and when I start a thread asking for people’s opinions I want that thread to be noticed and answered by as many different people as possible.
Being called an attention seeker is used to insult, by people who don’t consider themselves attention seekers yet start threads that invite people to blow smoke up their arse.
Maybe it's partially a jealousy thing..maybe more people are drawn to your advice threads than their more obvious flatter me threads... wouldn't worry about negative nellys.. it's just other people's insecurities making them mean."
I agree.
Jealousy is involved. |
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"Does anyone post in the hope it won't be read?! Is that not the point?
Oh jeez there's nothing worse than the 0 reply... That's when you hope that lots of other threads get really busy so your 0 reply thread disappears onto the next page and into the ether
I thought that's why ops respond to everyone. It amuses me to see that
That's the point of starting a thread and asking a question isn't it, to interact with other people?
Not much point in starting a thread and then ignoring it surely?
I start threads because some stupid idea pops into my head, then I forget I started a thread.
I do that "
I've done it on occasion too when something else distracts my attention and I've had to go offline! I have an 'oops' moment then when I remember it much later. I also do it with 'baskets' on online shopping sites |
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"Does anyone post in the hope it won't be read?! Is that not the point?
Oh jeez there's nothing worse than the 0 reply... That's when you hope that lots of other threads get really busy so your 0 reply thread disappears onto the next page and into the ether
I thought that's why ops respond to everyone. It amuses me to see that
That's the point of starting a thread and asking a question isn't it, to interact with other people?
Not much point in starting a thread and then ignoring it surely?
There's no rule that says they have to reply to everyone.
I don't think I've ever seen a thread where the op replied to everyone. No one's got that much time on their hands have they?
I've seen em... they've even replied to me when there's no way they'd ever interact with me. It amused me as they were complimenting everyone else. I didn't get a compliment
You pay much more attention to the forums than me then.
I know why I don't get compliments. Apparently I'm an 'orrible cunt.
On the flipside, I've never posted in the kiss pass blah blah threads that everyone's ignoring me until everyone finally does.
No. I spend very little time on here...I just notice certain things.
You’re on here more than anyone
Ah darling. I love that you're keeping tabs, but it's really embarrassing. The others will get jealous. "
I don’t think we can deny it anymore my love. |
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"Does anyone post in the hope it won't be read?! Is that not the point?
Oh jeez there's nothing worse than the 0 reply... That's when you hope that lots of other threads get really busy so your 0 reply thread disappears onto the next page and into the ether
I thought that's why ops respond to everyone. It amuses me to see that
That's the point of starting a thread and asking a question isn't it, to interact with other people?
Not much point in starting a thread and then ignoring it surely?
There's no rule that says they have to reply to everyone.
I don't think I've ever seen a thread where the op replied to everyone. No one's got that much time on their hands have they?
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