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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is the point of the wink button? Does any body actually use it? Does any body acknowledge a wink if they receive one. Thoughts please.x"
I don’t acknowledge them at all. I noticed I had over 3000 winks the other day - god knows the last time I just clicked on them to get rid of the number |
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By *ddibleMan
over a year ago
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I have winked when I didn't have tinpme to write a message but have never had a response. But I always reply to them with a message rather than wink back.
Actually a good ice breaker and can't see why they're not used more |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I actually do use them sometimes. It's a good way to get someone messaging. Who I like the look of, but am unsure if they'll want to converse  "
I always reply to a wink. But never get a reply back if I send one.x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I actually do use them sometimes. It's a good way to get someone messaging. Who I like the look of, but am unsure if they'll want to converse I always reply to a wink. But never get a reply back if I send one.x"
I will only ever send one if I want to talk to someone. I have never sent random ones out. I don't actually look at my winks though haha. There are simply too many  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I actually do use them sometimes. It's a good way to get someone messaging. Who I like the look of, but am unsure if they'll want to converse I always reply to a wink. But never get a reply back if I send one.x
I will only ever send one if I want to talk to someone. I have never sent random ones out. I don't actually look at my winks though haha. There are simply too many "
there's a reason why you get so many.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I actually do use them sometimes. It's a good way to get someone messaging. Who I like the look of, but am unsure if they'll want to converse I always reply to a wink. But never get a reply back if I send one.x
I will only ever send one if I want to talk to someone. I have never sent random ones out. I don't actually look at my winks though haha. There are simply too many there's a reason why you get so many. "
Because I have a vagina  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I actually do use them sometimes. It's a good way to get someone messaging. Who I like the look of, but am unsure if they'll want to converse I always reply to a wink. But never get a reply back if I send one.x
I will only ever send one if I want to talk to someone. I have never sent random ones out. I don't actually look at my winks though haha. There are simply too many there's a reason why you get so many.
Because I have a vagina "
there is that, but I was referring to the fact that your gorgeous.x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I actually do use them sometimes. It's a good way to get someone messaging. Who I like the look of, but am unsure if they'll want to converse I always reply to a wink. But never get a reply back if I send one.x
I will only ever send one if I want to talk to someone. I have never sent random ones out. I don't actually look at my winks though haha. There are simply too many there's a reason why you get so many.
Because I have a vagina there is that, but I was referring to the fact that your gorgeous.x"
Aww thank you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is the point of the wink button? Does any body actually use it? Does any body acknowledge a wink if they receive one. Thoughts please.x"
I do if I get one, they are showing an interest and you show you are interested by replying, kinda depends how you reply as to whether it goes forward or not
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I actually do use them sometimes. It's a good way to get someone messaging. Who I like the look of, but am unsure if they'll want to converse I always reply to a wink. But never get a reply back if I send one.x
I will only ever send one if I want to talk to someone. I have never sent random ones out. I don't actually look at my winks though haha. There are simply too many there's a reason why you get so many.
Because I have a vagina "
really, can I ask where you got it? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I actually do use them sometimes. It's a good way to get someone messaging. Who I like the look of, but am unsure if they'll want to converse I always reply to a wink. But never get a reply back if I send one.x
I will only ever send one if I want to talk to someone. I have never sent random ones out. I don't actually look at my winks though haha. There are simply too many there's a reason why you get so many.
Because I have a vagina there is that, but I was referring to the fact that your gorgeous.x
Aww thank you "
grab your coat, you've pulled. Lolx |
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By *att71Man
over a year ago
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I sometimes use the wink button as an ice breaker...sort of not going straight into to invading your inbox sort of thing. Think most ignore or never look at them though, maybe direct to the inbox is the way forward lol...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I sometimes use the wink button as an ice breaker...sort of not going straight into to invading your inbox sort of thing. Think most ignore or never look at them though, maybe direct to the inbox is the way forward lol......"
see helps to write it down sometimes
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The wink button is there, why not use it? It’s a way of saying “Oy, are we your type?!?” and it cuts out the awkwardness of replying to a long thought out message with a “no thankyou” if your not interested. As far as we’re concerned if we wink someone and receive no reply that means “no thankyou”. It’s just another part of the filter process for us.
We always look at who’s winked us every time we log into our account. It doesn’t take a few minutes to flick through them, obviously a good profile pic has to catch our eye for us to stop and look. We have met some lovely people starting from a little  x
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The wink button is there, why not use it? It’s a way of saying “Oy, are we your type?!?” and it cuts out the awkwardness of replying to a long thought out message with a “no thankyou” if your not interested. As far as we’re concerned if we wink someone and receive no reply that means “no thankyou”. It’s just another part of the filter process for us.
We always look at who’s winked us every time we log into our account. It doesn’t take a few minutes to flick through them, obviously a good profile pic has to catch our eye for us to stop and look. We have met some lovely people starting from a little x
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exactly how I use them.x |
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We use and actively encourage winks from people who might want to get in touch with us. If we get a wink back, we will reply and hopefully get started on some pleasant chit chat. Might set Mrs E a wink challenge today!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We use and actively encourage winks from people who might want to get in touch with us. If we get a wink back, we will reply and hopefully get started on some pleasant chit chat. Might set Mrs E a wink challenge today!!! "
Was just going to wink but you've blocked all blokes. Lol. Send me a wink if you fancy a chat or more. Lolx |
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By *ngelina4uWoman
over a year ago
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"What is the point of the wink button? Does any body actually use it? Does any body acknowledge a wink if they receive one. Thoughts please.x"
Not me I open to delete every week or so its just a recycle bin isn't it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mind you, I’m sure it’s more of a useful tool for us couples and single men as opposed to the ladies, especially if your getting near on a thousand winks or more per day x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love a wink but in all my years of being on and off fab I have only had in the low double figures from woman and couples on here and only two of those led to meets. I think it’s just too easy to wink at everything in a scattershot way and therefore it becomes a bit pointless. Equally though if you invest the time in constructing a message that’s personal and not just a cut and paste job and you find it deleted or unread that can be a bit soul destroying. I wish there was a better system than winking to declare an interest but there isn’t so I will carry on winking to the select few and hope for the best  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Often look at who winks
If their profile is not seeking what I offer often delete
If there are shared interests may wink back or message
Or wait to see if they follow up wink |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I love a wink but in all my years of being on and off fab I have only had in the low double figures from woman and couples on here and only two of those led to meets. I think it’s just too easy to wink at everything in a scattershot way and therefore it becomes a bit pointless. Equally though if you invest the time in constructing a message that’s personal and not just a cut and paste job and you find it deleted or unread that can be a bit soul destroying. I wish there was a better system than winking to declare an interest but there isn’t so I will carry on winking to the select few and hope for the best "
On shaghunt or kinkyshag, their is a "wanna meet " button, fuck or cross.x |
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