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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is wondering if this is for me as I think maybe just a tad too ugly for some people on here, so what if shave my hair does that make me a bad person?? I am genuine also but just thinking am 2 ugly or is it just me???? |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"Is wondering if this is for me as I think maybe just a tad too ugly for some people on here, so what if shave my hair does that make me a bad person?? I am genuine also but just thinking am 2 ugly or is it just me????"
thought you said you didnt think you were bad looking? Whats fucked your confidence?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So after two weeks the ladies not beating a path to your door you're trying the pity approach hey?
Grown men throwing "look at me pity parties" are not attractive. |
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"Is wondering if this is for me as I think maybe just a tad too ugly for some people on here, so what if shave my hair does that make me a bad person?? I am genuine also but just thinking am 2 ugly or is it just me????"
a negative attitude is by far uglier |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"Is wondering if this is for me as I think maybe just a tad too ugly for some people on here, so what if shave my hair does that make me a bad person?? I am genuine also but just thinking am 2 ugly or is it just me????"
a couple of things..
1) for a lot of people sexy and attractiveness comes from within.... I wouldn't call myself conventially attractive, but the whole package is what people seem to find good in me...
2) you have been here 2 weeks... what were you expecting? some sort of "insta-shag"??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is wondering if this is for me as I think maybe just a tad too ugly for some people on here, so what if shave my hair does that make me a bad person?? I am genuine also but just thinking am 2 ugly or is it just me????
a couple of things..
1) for a lot of people sexy and attractiveness comes from within.... I wouldn't call myself conventially attractive, but the whole package is what people seem to find good in me...
2) you have been here 2 weeks... what were you expecting? some sort of "insta-shag"??? "
I did lol   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ugly is a matter of opinion
Whinging is ugly though so cheer up and enjoy the site without letting it turn you into a miserable git that feel the need to put up a whinging status on his profile
Seriously one look at that and I would'nt even bother to look at the profile,but thats just a particular bug bear of mine  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is wondering if this is for me as I think maybe just a tad too ugly for some people on here, so what if shave my hair does that make me a bad person?? I am genuine also but just thinking am 2 ugly or is it just me????"
Ya better lookin than me ex ma.in.law...
But if you dont have the confidence and thick skin to have fun, then this site may not be what you are looking for...;-)
Stick around, be more positive...Oh and above all be patient...;-);-)
Most of us wont bite... Unless you ask. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Are you saying that you have nothing to offer; but your looks?
Surely not?
If you think that is the only aspect people are looking for then you have a lot to learn. |
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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago
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"Is wondering if this is for me as I think maybe just a tad too ugly for some people on here, so what if shave my hair does that make me a bad person?? I am genuine also but just thinking am 2 ugly or is it just me????"
oh no im off to hide in a corner,do you know what youv unleashed  |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"@ _emmefatale my confidence as been rocked by some people replying with some nasty comments that they have left me."
ok i shall be honest with you....if your confidence is that low, here is maybe not the right place for you? What do you like about you? Best features physically?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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@ sassymissuk its not that its the insults ive had from people replying to my message to them. Not bothered about meets or lack its the insults that aint nice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is wondering if this is for me as I think maybe just a tad too ugly for some people on here, so what if shave my hair does that make me a bad person?? I am genuine also but just thinking am 2 ugly or is it just me????
a couple of things..
1) for a lot of people sexy and attractiveness comes from within.... I wouldn't call myself conventially attractive, but the whole package is what people seem to find good in me...
2) you have been here 2 weeks... what were you expecting? some sort of "insta-shag"??? I did lol "
me too  now i use cam a bit more often in chat i get called "cute" quite a lot, by the same people that used to hate me for my posts. 2 weeks on the site and your posting stuff like this OP... not good pal..and just for the record, did the midwife slap you as a child haha (joke) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"@ _emmefatale my confidence as been rocked by some people replying with some nasty comments that they have left me.ok i shall be honest with you....if your confidence is that low, here is maybe not the right place for you? What do you like about you? Best features physically? "
I agreed with femme.
Plus can't you roll with the punches; you are a grown man, put it down to experience.
There are every type of person under the sun in here, be patient. Use your wit, humour and charm if you don't have classic good looks. That's what most have to use to get through daily life anyway.
And cheer up ffs being down gets you nowhere. |
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"@ sassymissuk its not that its the insults ive had from people replying to my message to them. Not bothered about meets or lack its the insults that aint nice"
is someone insults you in pm,report them...rudeness is not allowed...however femme may be right, some of the women here get called all sorts...you need a thick skin. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah you are a munter - best delete your profile. What? Is that wrong? Actually I haven't even looked at your profile, I just know that nobody starts a thread like that expecting anyone to agree. But fishing for compliments is almost as lame as searching for a sympathy shag.
Listen to the advice on this thread. |
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People see a post like this and instantly go on a 'whinging man expecting instant fuck  ' attack, dont let it get to you op
In answer to your question I don't think you are ugly at all. I have had my share if insults in here and you are right, its not nice x x
Brush them off with a block (and a report if needed) and move on. Some peopkeare ugly on the inside as well as the outside ad there is no room for them in anyone's life x x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No your not, i have had lots of messages from ugly men and even though i didnt fancy them they still had verifications from some quite fit looking women. One mans meat is another mans poison as my mum used to say. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"another person who doesnt understand that as a man you are hugely in the majority here, and you havnt had a meet in two weeks, please "
im ugly and had two this week...fuckit I should start my own lookatmethread |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"another person who doesnt understand that as a man you are hugely in the majority here, and you havnt had a meet in two weeks, please
im ugly and had two this week...fuckit I should start my own lookatmethread"
but your not ugly on the inside, makes all the differance |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"another person who doesnt understand that as a man you are hugely in the majority here, and you havnt had a meet in two weeks, please
im ugly and had two this week...fuckit I should start my own lookatmethread
but your not ugly on the inside, makes all the differance "
put a endoscope up me and find out lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is wondering if this is for me as I think maybe just a tad too ugly for some people on here, so what if shave my hair does that make me a bad person?? I am genuine also but just thinking am 2 ugly or is it just me????"
Dont worry about some of the posts allready made you are what you are at the end of the day. Just chill out have a laugh and u will be fine nobody is perfect and some in here should remember that. Unfortunatly many judge a book by its cover befor reading the contents. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If someone is rude to you block them and shout 'next' - easy as that.
So long as you are respectful in your mails to folk and not saying 'hey i wanna.......' full of profanities message then there is no need for people to be rude in reply.
But i am in agreeance with peeps that a negative attitute is more ugly than an ugly face. Ugly to one person is beautifull to another. Even John McCrirrick is married, and hes a strange looking bugger! |
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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago
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Always makes me wonder why people who have self confidence issues join a swingers site.
Is it because they think that swinging is an easy option and that the women are all slags/slappers etc?
Seriously, I'm wondering.
Swinging is not for the faint hearted, let alone those with insecurity issues |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No OP of course you are not ugly. And neither is it anything to do with shaving your hair, my OH hasnt got any hair, his fell out, but he still gets meets.
Yes Ive no doubt some people have been rude when replying in messages, think on that as a lucky escape.
There is no room for self pity or lack of confidence in swinging, always someone trying to knock you down, bounce right up at them, you are as good as they perceive themselves to be |
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"Always makes me wonder why people who have self confidence issues join a swingers site.
Is it because they think that swinging is an easy option and that the women are all slags/slappers etc?
Seriously, I'm wondering.
Swinging is not for the faint hearted, let alone those with insecurity issues"
tend to agree..
pretty sure there maybe a 'word of mouth' amongst some of the male population that on sites such as this its dead easy to 'bag' a fuck...
lets be honest if you walked into your local hostelry and within 5 minutes of conversation you as a male or female were 'doing the naughty' with someone it would probably be no more satisfying than staying home and knocking one out..
as for the question by the OP, said it before with similar threads if you wear a 'kick me up the arse' sign and a target on it you will get kicked more than you get told about the sign...
human nature is all.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just paired this thread with the "Do women message first thread", large number of women in that thread (waving frantically at the ladies), said that they hated/disliked/took a confidence hit when they received no reply/deleted/Your not my type messages.
This guy gets the same and its "get back on the horse", in a manner of speaking. Imagine if everyone hated getting rejection messages, that swing wouldnt, would it.........?
OP, dont worry, I am the most befuddlingly ugly guy on the entire site, and I have shagged 80% of the women on the forums, as well as the tri-country area (any ladies claiming "lie" are just too shamed to admit it!)
Dont dwell on negative messages, delete and go again!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Men particularly have to be thick-skinned on here I'm afraid, mate. Both sexes will get insults thrown at them from somewhere or other, but as in real life women have not only a support network from their own sex unlike men, but most men like to feel protective of women and will offer sympathy and kindness when presented with a hurt woman. Women on the other hand mostly dislike strongly the thought of having to look after or rather protect a man and rarely see it as an attractive quality.
Basically as a man you are generally expected to take a lot more hits on the chin and tough it out especially as far as taking insults that affect your confidence. It sounds harsh, but its not called "manning up" for nowt...
That being said mate a few more months on site and you'll probably wonder what all the fuss was about and be able to disregard such jibes having spotted they are merely the words of a dickhead.
Good luck nate!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is wondering if this is for me as I think maybe just a tad too ugly for some people on here, so what if shave my hair does that make me a bad person?? I am genuine also but just thinking am 2 ugly or is it just me????"
I don't understand you my friend. Why on earth would you care what anyone else thinks of you apart from the people who know you and like you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So after two weeks the ladies not beating a path to your door you're trying the pity approach hey?
Grown men throwing "look at me pity parties" are not attractive. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mate don't worry I am an ugly bastard too, But people I do manage to meet some nice looking girls so don't be put off what other people say everybody to there own be strong and enjoy fabswingers my advise don't take it to heart and be your normal self there are some decent people on this site male female couples etc and some nasty people too so fuck most of them and enjoy fella. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hello game not seen you on cam for a good while now did you both have a good xmas x"
well its been all go and had the flu for weeks .. and i hope to come on cam again soon xx I think what you give out on sites like this ... you get back .... so no matter what you look like if your nice it will pay off ..... and we like nice men ,  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So true Hun some of us cant help being ugly I guess this should be called a modelling site than a fabswinging site for some I don’t mind given out as the first time we ever joined this site we had some abuse for no reason at all so that is now we do give it back hope you get over your flu and start camming those nice boobs again all the very breast for new year xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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A note to the ones posting "I'm too ugly to get laid" type posts:
The only time I give out shags in sympathy are when I'm having a little bit of fun with myself 
Seriously, it's not attractive whinging. Even Daniel Craig could put me off with some of the comments on here and other similar threads  |
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"A note to the ones posting "I'm too ugly to get laid" type posts:
The only time I give out shags in sympathy are when I'm having a little bit of fun with myself
Seriously, it's not attractive whinging. Even Daniel Craig could put me off with some of the comments on here and other similar threads "
what is it with Daniel Craig (well I think we know) but knew a woman once who got shagged by a DC lookalike and didnt want anyone else after lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A note to the ones posting "I'm too ugly to get laid" type posts:
The only time I give out shags in sympathy are when I'm having a little bit of fun with myself
Seriously, it's not attractive whinging. Even Daniel Craig could put me off with some of the comments on here and other similar threads
what is it with Daniel Craig (well I think we know) but knew a woman once who got shagged by a DC lookalike and didnt want anyone else after lol "
i wouldnt care if he moaned id still gag him and get on top of him  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Two weeks is no time in the grand scheme of things...
You have the rest of your life to lead luscious Ladies astray and lay them to waste in their boudoirs...
Wolf
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Two weeks is no time in the grand scheme of things...
You have the rest of your life to lead luscious Ladies astray and lay them to waste in their boudoirs...
Wolf
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i need a boudoir can you tell me where to get one |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A note to the ones posting "I'm too ugly to get laid" type posts:
The only time I give out shags in sympathy are when I'm having a little bit of fun with myself
Seriously, it's not attractive whinging. Even Daniel Craig could put me off with some of the comments on here and other similar threads
what is it with Daniel Craig (well I think we know) but knew a woman once who got shagged by a DC lookalike and didnt want anyone else after lol
i wouldnt care if he moaned id still gag him and get on top of him "
You've threatened to gag me in the past
...I wonder why? lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A note to the ones posting "I'm too ugly to get laid" type posts:
The only time I give out shags in sympathy are when I'm having a little bit of fun with myself
Seriously, it's not attractive whinging. Even Daniel Craig could put me off with some of the comments on here and other similar threads
what is it with Daniel Craig (well I think we know) but knew a woman once who got shagged by a DC lookalike and didnt want anyone else after lol "
Where's this DC lookalike? I need his details NOW  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Two weeks is no time in the grand scheme of things...
You have the rest of your life to lead luscious Ladies astray and lay them to waste in their boudoirs...
Wolf
i need a boudoir can you tell me where to get one "
You mean to say you don't have a place to prettify, otherwise pamper and entertain impure thoughts? ... lol
Wolf
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A note to the ones posting "I'm too ugly to get laid" type posts:
The only time I give out shags in sympathy are when I'm having a little bit of fun with myself
Seriously, it's not attractive whinging. Even Daniel Craig could put me off with some of the comments on here and other similar threads
what is it with Daniel Craig (well I think we know) but knew a woman once who got shagged by a DC lookalike and didnt want anyone else after lol
Where's this DC lookalike? I need his details NOW "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Aye ya fuckin well ugly is that what ya wanted ta hear?
Now stop being so fookin daft and turn ya negativity inta positivity cause that's a much more attractive trait and ya may find it works better to xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A note to the ones posting "I'm too ugly to get laid" type posts:
The only time I give out shags in sympathy are when I'm having a little bit of fun with myself
Seriously, it's not attractive whinging. Even Daniel Craig could put me off with some of the comments on here and other similar threads
what is it with Daniel Craig (well I think we know) but knew a woman once who got shagged by a DC lookalike and didnt want anyone else after lol
Where's this DC lookalike? I need his details NOW
reporting for duty "
You do realise how much damage I want to do you now  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A note to the ones posting "I'm too ugly to get laid" type posts:
The only time I give out shags in sympathy are when I'm having a little bit of fun with myself
Seriously, it's not attractive whinging. Even Daniel Craig could put me off with some of the comments on here and other similar threads
what is it with Daniel Craig (well I think we know) but knew a woman once who got shagged by a DC lookalike and didnt want anyone else after lol
i wouldnt care if he moaned id still gag him and get on top of him
You've threatened to gag me in the past
...I wonder why? lol"
i love you thou |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is wondering if this is for me as I think maybe just a tad too ugly for some people on here, so what if shave my hair does that make me a bad person?? I am genuine also but just thinking am 2 ugly or is it just me????
a couple of things..
1) for a lot of people sexy and attractiveness comes from within.... I wouldn't call myself conventially attractive, but the whole package is what people seem to find good in me...
2) you have been here 2 weeks... what were you expecting? some sort of "insta-shag"??? "
You forgot to mention the pills LOL |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A note to the ones posting "I'm too ugly to get laid" type posts:
The only time I give out shags in sympathy are when I'm having a little bit of fun with myself
Seriously, it's not attractive whinging. Even Daniel Craig could put me off with some of the comments on here and other similar threads
what is it with Daniel Craig (well I think we know) but knew a woman once who got shagged by a DC lookalike and didnt want anyone else after lol
i wouldnt care if he moaned id still gag him and get on top of him
You've threatened to gag me in the past
...I wonder why? lol
i love you thou "
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By (user no longer on site)
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Where's this DC lookalike? I need his details NOW
reporting for duty
... I don't think she meant Congorilla from DC comics "
I have no idea who Congorilla is, but if we're talking superhero's, will you be Blunderwoman to my Cooperman ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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just think of Beauty and the Beast somthing very lovely in that , lol maybe a fairy tale .. but i have a seen a very kinky erotic story about this , lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is wondering if this is for me as I think maybe just a tad too ugly for some people on here, so what if shave my hair does that make me a bad person?? I am genuine also but just thinking am 2 ugly or is it just me????"
everyone on this site a tad ugly for some people on here  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i think ur lovely nympho lol xx"
awww ta very much, your tenners in post lol
Point i was making is noones for everyone
yes of course hes going to be to ugly for some people on here but then so is everyone |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i think ur lovely nympho lol xx
awww ta very much, your tenners in post lol
Point i was making is noones for everyone
yes of course hes going to be to ugly for some people on here but then so is everyone"
see your right again xx he should just be happy he is alot better off then some x and he should look at the positive not the negative. |
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