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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hello all, I hope you all had a fantastic 2011 and great Christmas.
This year I met a fantastic REDHED whom I spent 8 months having a great time with. Like everything it came to an end.
The lesson I think I have learned is, never start a relationship with someone you meet off a swinging site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ohh never cross the road, unless the light is red. Never run in the corridors! ....Never say never is the best option I find.
I know a few people on here that have meet on here and our very happy, no different to meeting in a pub, so can't really see the problem, plus I bet it doesn't stop you doing it again, if your hearts rules over your head |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Obviously she wasnt right for you thats why it ended not simply because you met her on here.
You could meet someone else on here next week at she could be the love of your life like me hahahahahahahahah.
Not everyone is the same.
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By *umourCouple
over a year ago
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"The bitch! Eight months and couldn't even leave a verification. I hope she didn't spoil your Saturdays mate!  "
Ha ha ha... I thought that!
After 8 months "having a great time with" "a fantastic REDHED " and it was a mistake?
One of two things come to mind... Either you are a bitter and twisted man because she dared to dump YOU! Or, you just woke up from a dream and thought it was real...
Calling a partner out on the site is not the brightest thing to do, how many women would want to meet a guy who can't stand rejection?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hello all, I hope you all had a fantastic 2011 and great Christmas.
This year I met a fantastic REDHED whom I spent 8 months having a great time with. Like everything it came to an end.
The lesson I think I have learned is, never start a relationship with someone you meet off a swinging site."
You only joined here a few months ago... so did she dump you cos she found you here?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" The lesson I think I have learned is, never start a relationship with someone you meet off a swinging site."
So you've had what you think is a bad experience, fair enough.
But that in no way means that you can generalise and say what you have. A fair number on here can disprove your theory at a stroke!!
Happy 2012!    |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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You are all right, I guess i am little gutted.
Better to have loved and lost than to have never.
And I did have a great time with her.
Apart from her lack of social skills around my mates and thinking I played rugby to aggressively. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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well she could have deleted her account and created another like I have.
But I have not mentioned her name, and I really doubt that she would ever look in the forums. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You are all right, I guess i am little gutted.
Better to have loved and lost than to have never.
And I did have a great time with her.
Apart from her lack of social skills around my mates and thinking I played rugby to aggressively."
But rugby is agressive haha turns me on to be honest hahahahah buff men running about hmmmmmmm then the bar after perfect day im my book her loss move on and enjoy. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I doubt she does either.
Irrespective of that, I did not describe her as the mistake merely the circumstances of our acquaintance and the understanding that I wouldn’t recommend finding the love of your life from a swinging site.
Call me old fashioned but I would not like to meet my future GF or wife for the 1st time with the sole purpose of full filling an over active animal desire. I feel the need to separate some of my desires from my actual life.
This is just me.
I am just going to have fun in 2012 and go with the flow!
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"I doubt she does either.
Irrespective of that, I did not describe her as the mistake merely the circumstances of our acquaintance and the understanding that I wouldn’t recommend finding the love of your life from a swinging site.
Call me old fashioned but I would not like to meet my future GF or wife for the 1st time with the sole purpose of full filling an over active animal desire. I feel the need to separate some of my desires from my actual life.
This is just me.
I am just going to have fun in 2012 and go with the flow!
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ooooh... as we would say in america.....Flags on the play!!!!!
1) not really the type of attitude that is going to endear yourself to other people and couples you wish to play with...
2) http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/79415
http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/81237 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hello all, I hope you all had a fantastic 2011 and great Christmas.
This year I met a fantastic REDHED whom I spent 8 months having a great time with. Like everything it came to an end.
The lesson I think I have learned is, never start a relationship with someone you meet off a swinging site."
Look at it as a lesson learnt but not a mistake. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I doubt she does either.
Irrespective of that, I did not describe her as the mistake merely the circumstances of our acquaintance and the understanding that I wouldn’t recommend finding the love of your life from a swinging site.
Call me old fashioned but I would not like to meet my future GF or wife for the 1st time with the sole purpose of full filling an over active animal desire. I feel the need to separate some of my desires from my actual life.
This is just me.
I am just going to have fun in 2012 and go with the flow!
ooooh... as we would say in america.....Flags on the play!!!!!
1) not really the type of attitude that is going to endear yourself to other people and couples you wish to play with...
2) http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/79415
http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/81237"
I would disagree with u totaly im chatting to him now and i think he seems a very nice guy who i would seriously consider meeting. Perhaps his wording in the piost wasnt right but i think in the past we have all made that mistake even yourself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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so you had nearly a year of great times, that doesnt seem like a mistake to me, maybe a shame it didnt go further, but every experiance makes you who you are today, never look back, the best is yet to come |
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I would argue that it absolutely is not like meeting someone in the pub - there is another dimension to it. I, too, many moons ago fell for a lass on here. We were having great times - then she decided she was packing in swinging. I was all for doing the same and imagined that it was to allow us to 'grow' as a couple but, alas, she was leaving me behind too because she could never be with anyone who had previously been on the site. Double standards? Yes. Gutted? Definitely. Would this have happened if I had met her in a pub? Of course not. So, while lovely to hear about success stories on here, tread carefully if you seek everlasting love for it may well be a catch 22 situation in the end. |
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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago
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Remember:
It is never just one thing that breaks a relationship but just one thing that will be the catalyst.
If someone wants to break up with you because you've been on a swinging site, it's the catalyst for the fact they no longer want to be with you.
You can find the love of your life anywhere, how you handle their previous life is how the relationship will be defined. |
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