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Why females on here don’t like Asians

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

What’s with the constant:

“No Asians” or when I msg females/couples they say “you’re not for us”

I know we have a choice and personal preferences but still.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You answered your own question.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What’s with the constant:

“No Asians” or when I msg females/couples they say “you’re not for us”

I know we have a choice and personal preferences but still."

Still?? Just respect peoples wishes and move onto to folk who will meet you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A lot of women don't want to meet men my age,I'm not going to start a thread on it

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

That’s like saying women only want to meet women.

I’m talking about race specifics here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What about all the people that only like to meet black men?Just move on to somebody else

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By *r.BlondeMan over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"What’s with the constant:

“No Asians” or when I msg females/couples they say “you’re not for us”

I know we have a choice and personal preferences but still."
Cultural differences, bad experience, personal preference the list could go on.

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By *orkie321bWoman over a year ago

Nottingham

Unfortunately OP sex isn't an equal opportunities activity and there needs to be a physical attraction.

I am more attracted to Caucasian men but I don't state this anywhere on my profile because I don't want to offend or upset people like you who are sensitive to my preferences. Also just because I'm not attracted to most Asian men doesn't mean there aren't some I do find attractive.

Instead of complaining about those who don't want to meet you focus on those who do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Pipe down

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"What’s with the constant:

“No Asians” or when I msg females/couples they say “you’re not for us”

I know we have a choice and personal preferences but still."
Its all about choice not everyone is going to click also go to clubs and good luck x

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By *ara MTV/TS over a year ago

Aberdare

My personal preference is for women yet tgirls are very rarely a woman’s preference.

Still there’s someone somewhere who’s box I tick.

Am I offended no.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Pipe down"

Oh dear. And its nearly Christmas an' all

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Pipe down"

Asks the question, gets constructive answers then throws Dummy out of cot?.....

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Pipe down"
now then

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Pipe down"

Who?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Pipe down"

Maybe it's your attitude that's the problem pal

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By *wingin CatMan over a year ago

London

"Pipe down

Maybe it's your attitude that's the problem pal

And there's the answer.

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By *arlomaleMan over a year ago

darlington

This again mind it makes a change from cock size threads

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

"Pipe down

Maybe it's your attitude that's the problem pal

And there's the answer."

Isn't it just!

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Pipe down"

Uh?

While I don't have such a preference, I've had bad experiences with certain cultural groups which can make me wary.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Everyone has their own choice. Plus the average Asian guy on the street is known to be abit obnoxious and has no idea how to treat a lady that messes it up for all. x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A lot of women don't want to meet men my age,I'm not going to start a thread on it"

I may have to increase my age limit

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Everyone has their own choice. Plus the average Asian guy on the street is known to be abit obnoxious and has no idea how to treat a lady that messes it up for all. x"

Like telling them to "pipe down"?

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By *orny PTMan over a year ago

Peterborough

"A lot of women don't want to meet men my age,I'm not going to start a thread on it"

A lot of lesbians don't want to meet me either. (Sighs loudly) I won't start a thread on that either.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Everyone has their own choice. Plus the average Asian guy on the street is known to be abit obnoxious and has no idea how to treat a lady that messes it up for all. x

Like telling them to "pipe down"?

Exactly x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"That’s like saying women only want to meet women.

I’m talking about race specifics here"

They could say the same to anyone.

Its about preference not race

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Pipe down...?

No wonder females don't want to meet you. And I don't think it would be for the initial reason.

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Pipe down...?

No wonder females don't want to meet you. And I don't think it would be for the initial reason."

Yeah, I once got a tirade once from a guy (different ethnicity) about how everyone was racist and no one wanted to fuck him. Nothing about liking me or not, any interest in me, etc.

I didn't block him because of his skin colour...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Pipe down...?

No wonder females don't want to meet you. And I don't think it would be for the initial reason.

Yeah, I once got a tirade once from a guy (different ethnicity) about how everyone was racist and no one wanted to fuck him. Nothing about liking me or not, any interest in me, etc.

I didn't block him because of his skin colour... "

lot of people like to use a "particular card" when it suits them to become nasty.. there's no need for it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Even the emoticon you’ve used to cover your mug is rolling its eyes at you.

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Pipe down...?

No wonder females don't want to meet you. And I don't think it would be for the initial reason.

Yeah, I once got a tirade once from a guy (different ethnicity) about how everyone was racist and no one wanted to fuck him. Nothing about liking me or not, any interest in me, etc.

I didn't block him because of his skin colour...

lot of people like to use a "particular card" when it suits them to become nasty.. there's no need for it."

Crazy thing is, this was a first message. Not even "you deleted my message you racist whatever". Just, everyone here is racist, they're awful, woe is me.

I'm inclined to be sympathetic towards those who struggle with perceptions of race in this context, but that sympathy extends to feelings, not pity fucks. Particularly not off the back of a rude first message.

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By *r.BlondeMan over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"Pipe down...?

No wonder females don't want to meet you. And I don't think it would be for the initial reason.

Yeah, I once got a tirade once from a guy (different ethnicity) about how everyone was racist and no one wanted to fuck him. Nothing about liking me or not, any interest in me, etc.

I didn't block him because of his skin colour...

lot of people like to use a "particular card" when it suits them to become nasty.. there's no need for it."
Reverse racism

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Pipe down...?

No wonder females don't want to meet you. And I don't think it would be for the initial reason.

Yeah, I once got a tirade once from a guy (different ethnicity) about how everyone was racist and no one wanted to fuck him. Nothing about liking me or not, any interest in me, etc.

I didn't block him because of his skin colour...

lot of people like to use a "particular card" when it suits them to become nasty.. there's no need for it.

Crazy thing is, this was a first message. Not even "you deleted my message you racist whatever". Just, everyone here is racist, they're awful, woe is me.

I once received a message from a Caribbean guy: "Are you a racist, love?" as his reaction to my profile text ..

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Funny thing is that my response “pipe down” has been the major talking point of this thread.

Funnily enough I did say it just to see if it would divert the attention from the actual post.

You’re all very quick to jump on the bandwagon.

Sheep

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Pipe down

Asks the question, gets constructive answers then throws Dummy out of cot?.....

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan over a year ago

Northampton

"Funny thing is that my response “pipe down” has been the major talking point of this thread.

Funnily enough I did say it just to see if it would divert the attention from the actual post.

You’re all very quick to jump on the bandwagon.

Sheep "

Nothing funny about your post OP

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By *anky_PankyWoman over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

"Funny thing is that my response “pipe down” has been the major talking point of this thread.

Funnily enough I did say it just to see if it would divert the attention from the actual post.

You’re all very quick to jump on the bandwagon.

Sheep "

You are in a forum. Forums are for discussions.

You open a topic to be discussed then decide you don't like the replies and rudely tell people to 'pipe down'

And you think that won't get people's backs up!?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Very sensitive

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple over a year ago

Bedworth

"Funny thing is that my response “pipe down” has been the major talking point of this thread.

Funnily enough I did say it just to see if it would divert the attention from the actual post.

You’re all very quick to jump on the bandwagon.

Sheep "

I think a rephrase of your last post would be more appropriate. How about “I did say it just to troll” instead?

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By *bonynivoryCouple over a year ago

market harborough

Oh dear

Mrs

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"Pipe down"

The stereotypical view is one of aggression. You've started a thread, no one has been rude, apart from you.

Jesus, some people can be their own worst enemies!

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"Pipe down

Asks the question, gets constructive answers then throws Dummy out of cot?.....

Yep!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Funny thing is that my response “pipe down” has been the major talking point of this thread.

Funnily enough I did say it just to see if it would divert the attention from the actual post.

You’re all very quick to jump on the bandwagon.

Sheep "

Now you're just being bitter and defensive, gotta be honest that is also not the right attitude here; looking for fights won't get you laid

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some girls will, some girls won't, some girls need a lot a'lovin an-ah some girls don't...

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By *rNaughtyNickMan over a year ago

Birmingham

I Kooooooooorma believe it

(sorry grabs coat)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I Kooooooooorma believe it

(sorry grabs coat)"
really

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Very sensitive "

Try aloe vera

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Pipe down"

Maybe it's this attitude that is putting people off. I've met some lovely Asian men from here.

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

I'm out pointless thread realy like many of his other threads moan moan moan oh poor me.

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Funny thing is that my response “pipe down” has been the major talking point of this thread.

Funnily enough I did say it just to see if it would divert the attention from the actual post.

You’re all very quick to jump on the bandwagon.

Sheep "

The bandwagon of... reading what you wrote, drawing a natural conclusion from it, and responding accordingly? Heavens above! We can't have that!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I Kooooooooorma believe it

(sorry grabs coat) really

This is gonna get shut down soon

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don’t like Asians... and I’m married to one... lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm out pointless thread realy like many of his other threads moan moan moan oh poor me."

If you’re going to the shops can you pick me up some pickled onion Monster Munch.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don’t like Asians... and I’m married to one... lol"

See what you did there, you cheeky girl

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"I'm out pointless thread realy like many of his other threads moan moan moan oh poor me.

If you’re going to the shops can you pick me up some pickled onion Monster Munch. "
yes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm out pointless thread realy like many of his other threads moan moan moan oh poor me."

Nah stick around it's funny.

Problem with him I'd say is he sees women as obstacles rather than other human beings. Lol.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You wait till you get to my age young man . You can't even message em never mind get turned down

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By *ensualbicockMan over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock

"Some girls will, some girls won't, some girls need a lot a'lovin an-ah some girls don't..."

stuck in my head now ha

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I'm out pointless thread realy like many of his other threads moan moan moan oh poor me.

Nah stick around it's funny.

Problem with him I'd say is he sees women as obstacles rather than other human beings. Lol."

Damn those gatekeepers standing between me and disembodied pussy.

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

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By *lik and PaulCouple over a year ago

Flagrante

"Very sensitive "
just like people who think everything is about race.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

He will be sitting there fuming now that nobody wanted to argue with him about race because that's all he started the thread for.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don’t like Asians... and I’m married to one... lol"

Does he know?

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"He will be sitting there fuming now that nobody wanted to argue with him about race because that's all he started the thread for."
he's gone off line to think what to say when he comes back ha ha.

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By *ara JTV/TS over a year ago

Bristol East

Watched a box-set on Iplayer last few days and discovered Nabhaar Rizwan, the most gorgeous man I've set eyes on in a while

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"Funny thing is that my response “pipe down” has been the major talking point of this thread.

Funnily enough I did say it just to see if it would divert the attention from the actual post.

You’re all very quick to jump on the bandwagon.

Sheep "

What a load of bollocks. You said it because you were in a strop and it back fired on you because people in here don't tolerate childish entitled people and now you're trying to back track.

Just own who you are and what you say.

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Watched a box-set on Iplayer last few days and discovered Nabhaar Rizwan, the most gorgeous man I've set eyes on in a while

"
John Abraham

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm out pointless thread realy like many of his other threads moan moan moan oh poor me.

Nah stick around it's funny.

Problem with him I'd say is he sees women as obstacles rather than other human beings. Lol.

Damn those gatekeepers standing between me and disembodied pussy. "

You're not special, all women are waiting to be overcome.

You know, club off the back of the head out cold, over the shoulder, back to the cave to be ravaged.

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By *uxomBloomsWoman over a year ago

Near Tunbridge Wells

I do think there is an issue with racism against Asian men in the swinging world which it is important to examine but there is probably a right and a wrong way to go about it.

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I'm out pointless thread realy like many of his other threads moan moan moan oh poor me.

Nah stick around it's funny.

Problem with him I'd say is he sees women as obstacles rather than other human beings. Lol.

Damn those gatekeepers standing between me and disembodied pussy.

You're not special, all women are waiting to be overcome.

You know, club off the back of the head out cold, over the shoulder, back to the cave to be ravaged."

Lol. And here I was thinking I was a person.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I do think there is an issue with racism against Asian men in the swinging world which it is important to examine but there is probably a right and a wrong way to go about it. "

Why do you think it's racism?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm out pointless thread realy like many of his other threads moan moan moan oh poor me.

Nah stick around it's funny.

Problem with him I'd say is he sees women as obstacles rather than other human beings. Lol.

Damn those gatekeepers standing between me and disembodied pussy.

You're not special, all women are waiting to be overcome.

You know, club off the back of the head out cold, over the shoulder, back to the cave to be ravaged.

Lol. And here I was thinking I was a person. "

Nah, it's a man's world after all

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By * and BCouple over a year ago

Durham

All us sheep that have herded on to FAB move along quietly, nothing to see here

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By *hattsMan over a year ago

luton

I think its attatude im asian i dont meet many women on here but meet plenty out and about.like someone said most dont know how to respect and treat a lady.

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By *ara JTV/TS over a year ago

Bristol East

"Watched a box-set on Iplayer last few days and discovered Nabhaar Rizwan, the most gorgeous man I've set eyes on in a while

John Abraham

corrrr!

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By *uxomBloomsWoman over a year ago

Near Tunbridge Wells

"I do think there is an issue with racism against Asian men in the swinging world which it is important to examine but there is probably a right and a wrong way to go about it.

Why do you think it's racism?"

Historically from the reactions I've seen when anyone posts about it, it always turns into an attack on the OP even if they have been reasonable throughout the thread. Also from conversations at Spas and clubs. The British have a complicated relationship with Asians due to our colonialism.

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By *evil_u_knowMan over a year ago

city

Wrong type of dark skin? they can't play out the taboo fantasy that they can with other races?

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By *oan of DArcCouple over a year ago

Glasgow

I once received a message from a Caribbean guy: "Are you a racist, love?" as his reaction to my profile text .. "

Outrageous!

But from my own experience it cuts both ways, I've received some awful racist diatribe (albeit not so much on this site) from white men because my husband is black.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think its attatude im asian i dont meet many women on here but meet plenty out and about.like someone said most dont know how to respect and treat a lady."

I think that's what many people think unfortunately - that asian men have a very poor view of women and will treat them with disrespect.

Some will and some won't but people probably won't take the 'risk' when there's a lot of other men types to choose from.

The majority of disrespectful/ rude mail that I get is from white men. I don't know if that's due to ratios of asian vs white men but just making a point.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Funny thing is that my response “pipe down” has been the major talking point of this thread.

Funnily enough I did say it just to see if it would divert the attention from the actual post.

You’re all very quick to jump on the bandwagon.

Sheep "

I thought you were saying it to be funny. Like with a grin on your face.

Pipe down.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This thread is hilarious

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By *eelouWoman over a year ago

Glasgow

Well at least now you can eliminate most of the women that read these forum posts and it's got nothing to do with racism and everything to do with the way you reacted and how you've spoken to people on here.

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By *xLedZepxx2Man over a year ago

Didcot

OP, have you ever thought that those that say you are not for me/us are maybe doing so for other reasons, maybe they get a vibe from your messages that turns them off or maybe your profile pictures are the issue, the general consensus on here is that the women don't particularly like cock pics.

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By *wingin CatMan over a year ago

London

You don't get anywhere with a chip on your shoulder.....

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By *opsy RogersWoman over a year ago

London

"OP, have you ever thought that those that say you are not for me/us are maybe doing so for other reasons, maybe they get a vibe from your messages that turns them off or maybe your profile pictures are the issue, the general consensus on here is that the women don't particularly like cock pics."

Shhhhh, that’s not pandering to his agenda.

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By *ynecplCouple over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

As you say preference/choice.

Whilst we don't specifically say no to anybody we have had a few bad experiences with Asians in clubs which has means we pretty much discount any messages we receive from Asian couples.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *anpatMan over a year ago

ilford

Just saw this message and it made me laugh, I am Asian and it’s not that people are racist it’s just that they like to be asked nicely and respected as it’s their choice due to experience, I have meet many wonderful people on here and they didn’t have an issue with my skin colour, you have to bear in mind that people don’t like pushy guys and if that how you are approaching this then you have no chance in hell, making comments like “I will meet for a fuck” I will fuck you and so on.

Respect is a big thing on here so learn to respect and things will happen and people will talk to you.

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Just saw this message and it made me laugh, I am Asian and it’s not that people are racist it’s just that they like to be asked nicely and respected as it’s their choice due to experience, I have meet many wonderful people on here and they didn’t have an issue with my skin colour, you have to bear in mind that people don’t like pushy guys and if that how you are approaching this then you have no chance in hell, making comments like “I will meet for a fuck” I will fuck you and so on.

Respect is a big thing on here so learn to respect and things will happen and people will talk to you.

Good attitude - works too as you’ve had some meets

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Good attitude works best for everything.

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By *alandNitaCouple over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"What’s with the constant:

“No Asians” or when I msg females/couples they say “you’re not for us”

I know we have a choice and personal preferences but still."

Maybe it's just you?

There are plenty of Asian guys that have no problems at all.

Cal

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By *imited 3EditionCouple over a year ago

Live in Scotland Play in England

"Unfortunately OP sex isn't an equal opportunities activity and there needs to be a physical attraction.

Instead of complaining about those who don't want to meet you focus on those who do."

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By *illyjohnyCouple over a year ago

brighton

"Funny thing is that my response “pipe down” has been the major talking point of this thread.

Funnily enough I did say it just to see if it would divert the attention from the actual post.

You’re all very quick to jump on the bandwagon.

Sheep "

We though you were meaning you couldn't get it up

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By *wingin CatMan over a year ago

London

Respect is a big thing on here so learn to respect and things will happen and people will talk to you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've never experienced racism on here - I'm mixed half white British half black Caribbean.

If someone has a preference on their profile that doesn't fit me then I'm not offended.

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By *gnes Loves AnalWoman over a year ago

Kingstanding

"What’s with the constant:

“No Asians” or when I msg females/couples they say “you’re not for us”

I know we have a choice and personal preferences but still."

Partly down to culture and the lack of respect many of them have for women and how many Asian men treat women badly. Its just easier to say no to all of them than spend hours trying to filter out the few who do respect you.

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By *wingin CatMan over a year ago

London

"....when I msg females/couples they say “you’re not for us”...."

What makes you think that four-word answer is racist?

Another example of playing the boring race card.

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By *d59michelleTV/TS over a year ago

walsall

"Some girls will, some girls won't, some girls need a lot a'lovin an-ah some girls don't..."

Racy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Race may play part of it. But if you have the personality, it’ll best everything else.

I’ve found out I’m the first asian of a few ladies and we are now friends in and outside of bedroom.

Don’t lose hope. Keep your options open, keep your mind open, don’t let those few defeat your confidence and don’t soully look on this site.

Dress up, get out alone, stay quiet, keep your phone away and just about a smile on your face.

Promise your life will change. And, more importantly. Remember, they’re not hard to get. They will come to you.

Keep that mindset, visualise it in your head shall step by small step.

Don’t stare at someone for more than a second or you’ll become a creep.

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By *ihimbiherCouple over a year ago

lightwater

Of all the places, the race card?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Of all the places, the race card?"

Can’t blame someone who’s Ignorant. They probably haven’t experienced certain things to have such mindset.

English as second language, we read English more directly by its definition. Sometimes it doesn’t make sense to us, sometimes it gives us a different meaning.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just a heads up OP, dick pic is a major turn off to ladies here. Or anywhere... really...

U less your’s has a Mickey Mouse tattoo on it to make t stand out, otherwise... it’s still a dick

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By *ittlevixenWoman over a year ago

Mold North Wales

"Just a heads up OP, dick pic is a major turn off to ladies here. Or anywhere... really...

U less your’s has a Mickey Mouse tattoo on it to make t stand out, otherwise... it’s still a dick"

Brilliant

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

my account got hacked and ive just opened my inbox to tonnes of msgs.

never had there many in my total time on fab. now i know how you ladies feel with lots on msgs jammed in your inbox.

password changed and will teach me never to leave my laptop unattended.

I for one knows never to use the race card as an excuse. if anything it can backlash on you.

have a fab evening ladies and gents x

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"my account got hacked and ive just opened my inbox to tonnes of msgs.

never had there many in my total time on fab. now i know how you ladies feel with lots on msgs jammed in your inbox.

password changed and will teach me never to leave my laptop unattended.

I for one knows never to use the race card as an excuse. if anything it can backlash on you.

have a fab evening ladies and gents x"
yeah ok

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

my ex, who i initially joined fab with, loves to be immature and clearly has plenty time on her hands to access my fab and other accounts

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By *asmeenTV/TS over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"my ex, who i initially joined fab with, loves to be immature and clearly has plenty time on her hands to access my fab and other accounts

"
lovely

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hmm! That’s horrible of her. Unfortunately a lot of people won’t believe you that’s the trouble.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

yes it may sound unbelievable just look those stories and fantasies on here, but thats sadly the truth.

i wish it was unbelievable and all a joke.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The concept of sexual preference is an uneasy one and always raises arguments and forum posts. We all have sexual preferences that include not only the the type of person but also the type of activity that is most likely to provoke our own sexual interest and arousal.

It is an uneasy concept partly because it is interpreted by some people as implying choice, when in fact we do not choose what or how we find most sexually arousing this is part of our genetic makeup.

Yes sometimes choices of sexual partners can be based on past experiences i.e we had a couple that would not meet us as MT has a beard and she had a bad experience with a man with a beard once.

But the majority of the time the chimp brain theory (the idea that there is a separate primitive part of your brain, the Limbic area – the ‘Chimp’ or emotional part of the brain)

Wants what it wants and that means on a sexually level the type of person we would most likely want to reproduce with.

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By *uzy444Woman over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"A lot of women don't want to meet men my age,I'm not going to start a thread on it"
i find you rather yum, old enough to know that youth is wasted on the youth, but still young enough, to take full advantage of that knowledge

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

Any lady(ies) wanna meet me and disprove the OP's original post? Can put this whole argument to bed once and for all

*Am not Asian but close enough!

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By *agneto.Man over a year ago

Bham

"Funny thing is that my response “pipe down” has been the major talking point of this thread.

Funnily enough I did say it just to see if it would divert the attention from the actual post.

You’re all very quick to jump on the bandwagon.

Sheep "

Right, your attitude is terrible.

Asians have such a poor perception on here and within the wider community, witnessed on social media, that you are not helping your cause.

There's always stories about asian guys in clubs who are rude, aggressive and entitled, instead of the individual being blamed, a whole race gets tarnished.

Then you've cultural differences, the perception of how women in the Asian community are treated, grooming gangs and unfortunately terrorism. All feeding this negative stereotype.

Which won't be turned around by a piss poor attitude.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Pipe down...?

No wonder females don't want to meet you. And I don't think it would be for the initial reason.

Yeah, I once got a tirade once from a guy (different ethnicity) about how everyone was racist and no one wanted to fuck him. Nothing about liking me or not, any interest in me, etc.

I didn't block him because of his skin colour...

lot of people like to use a "particular card" when it suits them to become nasty.. there's no need for it.

Crazy thing is, this was a first message. Not even "you deleted my message you racist whatever". Just, everyone here is racist, they're awful, woe is me.

I once received a message from a Caribbean guy: "Are you a racist, love?" as his reaction to my profile text .. "
Don't bring us into this!

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By *hechapMan over a year ago

Derry

"What’s with the constant:

“No Asians” or when I msg females/couples they say “you’re not for us”

I know we have a choice and personal preferences but still."

Report them to the racist police. You might have a case here for compensation. £££s. Wonder which race of lawyer would be best.

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By *.nottsbloke..Man over a year ago

the vale

A lot of guys want Asian women

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"my account got hacked and ive just opened my inbox to tonnes of msgs.

never had there many in my total time on fab. now i know how you ladies feel with lots on msgs jammed in your inbox.

password changed and will teach me never to leave my laptop unattended.

I for one knows never to use the race card as an excuse. if anything it can backlash on you.

have a fab evening ladies and gents x"

Genius

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"my account got hacked and ive just opened my inbox to tonnes of msgs.

never had there many in my total time on fab. now i know how you ladies feel with lots on msgs jammed in your inbox.

password changed and will teach me never to leave my laptop unattended.

I for one knows never to use the race card as an excuse. if anything it can backlash on you.

have a fab evening ladies and gents x"

I tip my hat to you fine Sir......

You have a future in politics.

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"my account got hacked and ive just opened my inbox to tonnes of msgs.

never had there many in my total time on fab. now i know how you ladies feel with lots on msgs jammed in your inbox.

password changed and will teach me never to leave my laptop unattended.

I for one knows never to use the race card as an excuse. if anything it can backlash on you.

have a fab evening ladies and gents x"

One for Ripley’s ‘Believe it or not’. The number of weird and bizarre people on here never ceases to amaze me. What is sad is the atrocious level of excuses. Akin to ‘my dog ate my homework’

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

fuck me. This a natty hacker. It took me months to find the forums and they found it in 00000.1 of a second.

Get the CIA on the phone

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By *he riverdeep69Couple over a year ago

North west ish

I find people pulling the racist card so offensive because 1. I'm not. 2. It undermines real rascism and the daily struggles people have. 3. You know f all about my life and the people in it.

People have preferences. If people can't respect that then this is the wrong site for them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I find people pulling the racist card so offensive because 1. I'm not. 2. It undermines real rascism and the daily struggles people have. 3. You know f all about my life and the people in it.

People have preferences. If people can't respect that then this is the wrong site for them. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What’s with the constant:

“No Asians” or when I msg females/couples they say “you’re not for us”

I know we have a choice and personal preferences but still."

But still it doesn't negate attitude. That's what will get you laid on here. Or not, in your case, OP!

I have seen plenty of racism dressed up as a preference on here, but why oh why would you want to fuck those kinds of people! I wouldn't touch them with Yours!

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By *ungscotsman26Man over a year ago

Glasgow

Maybe more to it but i'd say a lot of it is because stereotypically Asians have smaller cocks. A lot of females and couples on here prefer black men, again stereotypically they have big cocks.

Take one look at the male hot pics. Size matters on here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You answered your own question. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Maybe more to it but i'd say a lot of it is because stereotypically Asians have smaller cocks. A lot of females and couples on here prefer black men, again stereotypically they have big cocks.

Take one look at the male hot pics. Size matters on here"

Size really does not matter on here. If you have confidence with what you got then fab is your oyster.

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By *alandNitaCouple over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Maybe more to it but i'd say a lot of it is because stereotypically Asians have smaller cocks. A lot of females and couples on here prefer black men, again stereotypically they have big cocks.

Take one look at the male hot pics. Size matters on here"

Size generally only matters to men. I would expect most cock pics are fabbed by other men.

Some women want size, most want a person not just a cock.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Size matters on here"

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"fuck me. This a natty hacker. It took me months to find the forums and they found it in 00000.1 of a second.

Get the CIA on the phone

Fuck CIA, we need the best. Get onto GCHQ, NSA, MI6...asap!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"fuck me. This a natty hacker. It took me months to find the forums and they found it in 00000.1 of a second.

Get the CIA on the phone

Fuck CIA, we need the best. Get onto GCHQ, NSA, MI6...asap!

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By *hekaiserMan over a year ago

Glasgow

Given im Asian....Im going to follow in the footsteps of the 69 year old Dutch man.

Dude feels as young as a 49 year old male. He is now starting a legal challenge to change his date of birth.

I'm going to bleach my skin to be "white" as i hang about with white folks....

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"Maybe more to it but i'd say a lot of it is because stereotypically Asians have smaller cocks. A lot of females and couples on here prefer black men, again stereotypically they have big cocks.

Take one look at the male hot pics. Size matters on here"

Think it's insecure men who go on about cock size. Majority of people prefer the whole package. A big cock with a bad attitude won't get you laid. A decent bloke with an average cock stands more of a chance.

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"Maybe more to it but i'd say a lot of it is because stereotypically Asians have smaller cocks. A lot of females and couples on here prefer black men, again stereotypically they have big cocks.

Take one look at the male hot pics. Size matters on here

Size generally only matters to men. I would expect most cock pics are fabbed by other men.

Some women want size, most want a person not just a cock.

Nita"

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Least I got a thread going. It’s longer than most of your relationships lol

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"Given im Asian....Im going to follow in the footsteps of the 69 year old Dutch man.

Dude feels as young as a 49 year old male. He is now starting a legal challenge to change his date of birth.

I'm going to bleach my skin to be "white" as i hang about with white folks....

You don't have to bleach your skin, just identify as white...then you'll be just another ignored single male on Fab.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Least I got a thread going. It’s longer than most of your relationships lol"

You didn’t. The hacker did

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Least I got a thread going. It’s longer than most of your relationships lol"

You typed a couple of words, everyone typed essays lol ffs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We meet white people, black people and Asian people.

But only if we want to. Not because we’re worried about offending someone.

Race and age make no difference to us we meet who takes our fancy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

“I don't just jump at anything. We must get along and have some degree of chemistry, attraction and mental stimulation”

That is a direct quote from your profile.

Do you feel that you should be able to discern between who feel an attraction to but women shouldn’t? They should all throw themselves on you, any that don’t are racist?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"Least I got a thread going. It’s longer than most of your relationships lol"

You really must tell me the name of the charm school you went to

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"Least I got a thread going. It’s longer than most of your relationships lol

You didn’t. The hacker did "

Oooh busted

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By *hekaiserMan over a year ago

Glasgow

"Given im Asian....Im going to follow in the footsteps of the 69 year old Dutch man.

Dude feels as young as a 49 year old male. He is now starting a legal challenge to change his date of birth.

I'm going to bleach my skin to be "white" as i hang about with white folks....

You don't have to bleach your skin, just identify as white...then you'll be just another ignored single male on Fab.

Oh yeah....I could..."white dude it is"....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A lot of Asian guys are fit as fuck. So it’s a loss for whoever discriminates. I think because Asian people retain their culture, language and community in a much stronger way than other minorities (black, Chinese etc), white people see them as “other” and think of stereotypes and get intimidated or scared. You’ll find that a large proportion of people that discriminate also have minimal experience and real life interactions with people who are different to them. It’s stupid.

(Asian women are fit as fuck too - but I feel the bias is mainly against guys)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Given im Asian....Im going to follow in the footsteps of the 69 year old Dutch man.

Dude feels as young as a 49 year old male. He is now starting a legal challenge to change his date of birth.

I'm going to bleach my skin to be "white" as i hang about with white folks....

You don't have to bleach your skin, just identify as white...then you'll be just another ignored single male on Fab.

Or change your name to white sugar and say you have been abroad on holiday.

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple over a year ago

Leeds

"my account got hacked and ive just opened my inbox to tonnes of msgs.

never had there many in my total time on fab. now i know how you ladies feel with lots on msgs jammed in your inbox.

password changed and will teach me never to leave my laptop unattended.

I for one knows never to use the race card as an excuse. if anything it can backlash on you.

have a fab evening ladies and gents x"

You couldn't make it up could you.

Oh sorry, you just did.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"my account got hacked and ive just opened my inbox to tonnes of msgs.

never had there many in my total time on fab. now i know how you ladies feel with lots on msgs jammed in your inbox.

password changed and will teach me never to leave my laptop unattended.

I for one knows never to use the race card as an excuse. if anything it can backlash on you.

have a fab evening ladies and gents x"

Ahhh you backed down... so sad

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple over a year ago

Leeds

"Least I got a thread going. It’s longer than most of your relationships lol"

Shot yourself in the foot there lol.

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Least I got a thread going. It’s longer than most of your relationships lol"

says the person who made the original whinge.... okay!!!

fact is people will always find the thing to complain about that leaves them blameless so they can shout "oh woe is me!"

too old, too young, too black, too white, too asian, too bi, too married.... and so on and so on...

you are right, that may be a part of any decision.... i am guessing that attitude also plays part of that decision.... so ask yourself this:

"if you only get one chance to make a great first impression, what impression do you think you have made in this thread?"

you make your own success here, and just because you are here you are not owed, their body, there rules! it is not some sort of service people are providing.. people are here for their enjoyment!

so maybe what needs adjust as much as anything else are your approach and your attitude... you have someone look yourself in the mirror and ask "what can i do to make myself better!"

someone you have to be able to help yourself "help yourself".... and sometimes you can be your own worst enemy!

after watching and reading this thread.... i know which i believe....

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By *terling2017Woman over a year ago

birmingham

"Least I got a thread going. It’s longer than most of your relationships lol

says the person who made the original whinge.... okay!!!

fact is people will always find the thing to complain about that leaves them blameless so they can shout "oh woe is me!"

too old, too young, too black, too white, too asian, too bi, too married.... and so on and so on...

you are right, that may be a part of any decision.... i am guessing that attitude also plays part of that decision.... so ask yourself this:

"if you only get one chance to make a great first impression, what impression do you think you have made in this thread?"

you make your own success here, and just because you are here you are not owed, their body, there rules! it is not some sort of service people are providing.. people are here for their enjoyment!

so maybe what needs adjust as much as anything else are your approach and your attitude... you have someone look yourself in the mirror and ask "what can i do to make myself better!"

someone you have to be able to help yourself "help yourself".... and sometimes you can be your own worst enemy!

after watching and reading this thread.... i know which i believe...."

Truth!!

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By *ensualbicockMan over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock

"Least I got a thread going. It’s longer than most of your relationships lol"

DOH !!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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